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- Question: If i refer a friend to ebates will I get $10 to SPEND?
- Question: Guys, when did you first see a friend nude?
- Question: Would you rather talk to someone over the phone or on Facebook?
- Question: Why does it seem like my group of "friends" hate me?
- Question: I am a very lonely mentally ill man. How do I go about making friends?
- Question: What is wrong with today's society? (School)?
- Question: What's a good excuse?
- Question: My friend blocked me?
- Question: I feel like I am being bullied at work. What do I do? There aren't many positions open.?
- Question: How can I be happy with friends?
- Question: What are fun things to do outside without a friend?
- Question: Am I being a bad friend? I feel so guilty...help me.?
- Question: How to cope with these feelings?
- Question: Social skills...?
- Question: A girl called me passive, is this an insult?
- Question: Does this friend want to use me for her benefits?
- Question: I got in a fight with my friends and tommorow is a school field trip and we need to be in a group of friends what should i do i dont want to?
- Question: Do you think he wanted to have sex with me again?
- Question: My parents never let me hang around anyone? *PLEASE READ I NEED HELP*?
- Question: Why do my friends agree that I will be the first one to get pregnant?
- Question: How to stop being the Class Clown?
- Question: How do I get over making a mistake?
- Question: I have best friend but she is kind of controlling. What do I do?
- Question: I am being bullied work and I don't know what to do. Please read?
- Question: What do I do if I m depressed because of switching schools?
- Question: Is it a bad trait to tell the truth about people?
- Question: I'm 12 male and I like a 13 turning 14 yr old girl?
- Question: How to approach this?
- Question: My friends are trying to get me to pay them?
- Question: I'm a girl. Why does this girl keep staring at me?
- Question: Would this be considered stocking?
- Question: I tried to be friends with the "popular people" but they just laugh in my face?
- Question: Do you think he wanted to have sex with me again?
- Question: How to tell if you should stay friends with your best friend?
- Question: I got suspended because a teacher caught me doing something read more I could of gotten a picture of my suspension but threw it out. angry.?
- Question: Was this guy flirting? (10 points for best answer)?
- Question: I have friends but they mostly leave me out and make plans.. They are not fake but at the same Time Im like the odd ball in the group help?
- Question: How can i get my mom to trust me to go places&?
- Question: Does friend want to end friendship?
- Question: Should you still be friends with someone who hurt you?
- Question: Should you stay friends with someone who hurt you?
- Question: 18 years old, and I'm afraid that I'm never going to get a girlfriend due to my shyness, insecurity, and personality?
- Question: Why are there people that care about everything and why are there people that don't care about anything and why am I in between them?
- Question: Little sister doesn't play with her friends?
- Question: My friend is both toxic but a reliable friend half of the time?
- Question: Advice on how to break news to a close (sensitive) friend?
- Question: Why don't I have anyone I can relate to anymore?
- Question: Does the number of friends show your life success?
- Question: How do you make friends?
- Question: Follow 4r Follow on Instagram?
- Question: Should I tell my mom I tried a hookah pen. If so, how should I do it?
- Question: I'm the second bestfriend to my bestfriends?
- Question: Money issues. help me resolve this issue with a so called friend?
- Question: I'm leaving my house soon at 18, my parents dont approve of it?
- Question: I made a fake account to motivate my friend, but I don't know if I should tell him the account is me or not.?
- Question: Can't sleep over guilt?
- Question: I hate this girl in my group of friends?
- Question: I don't have any friends to spend my sunmer with and I feel lonely?
- Question: Why do people say college is friendlier than high school?
| Question: If i refer a friend to ebates will I get $10 to SPEND? Posted: 31 May 2016 04:08 PM PDT |
| Question: Guys, when did you first see a friend nude? Posted: 31 May 2016 04:05 PM PDT hey guys, i'm a 15 y.o. dude, and recently ive been seeing my teammate without his clothes on when he changes. when did you guys first see your friend completely naked, and how did you two deal with it? was it like in a locker room or at his house... and did you guys like completely ignore it or start talking about the "private areas" or knock each others ball around? also another friend of mine (we were both nude dont judge it was hot) asked if wanted to masturbate with him. is that weird or do some guys do that with another guy? Thanks |
| Question: Would you rather talk to someone over the phone or on Facebook? Posted: 31 May 2016 04:01 PM PDT Would you rather talk to someone on the phone instead of on Facebook? Like if someone has you blocked on Facebook but still talks to you on the phone would you talk to them? This guy blocked me on Facebook because he doesn't like discussing personal things on there and it annoys him when I message him talking about things that are personal. Then once I got upset because some woman had commented on his post being flirty. He does still talk to me on the phone sometimes. But would you rather talk to someone on Facebook or over the phone? |
| Question: Why does it seem like my group of "friends" hate me? Posted: 31 May 2016 03:56 PM PDT I'm a senior in high school and I had to move this semester.There's a group of four girls in my class that saw me sitting alone on the first day so they approached me and said that I should sit and hang out with them this semester. I thought that was the nicest thing, especially since I'm a new student and have no friends at school.The problem is that since then I've always been the one that goes out of the way to talk to them and ask them how their day is going and they NEVER talk to me first. I'm always extremely nice to them, even if I am pretty shy and quiet most of the time. If I don't ask to sit with or hang out with them then they just pretend I'm not even there. I feel like I'm forcing myself onto them and being too clingy but if I don't approach them then I'll be entirely alone with no friends in my new town. I can tell they think I'm clingy and they feel forced to be nice to me because they feel sorry for me. Whenever I talk to them they give me this uncomfortable and pitying look because of my social anxiety and awkwardness.I try so hard to be more outgoing and talkative around them but I feel like it's still not enough.Two of the people in the group seem to hate me for some reason and I constantly see them giving me glares and hear them gossiping about me, judging me based on my looks and clothes.I really need some advice because school is almost over and I really don't want to spend summer and the rest of my time in this town completely alone :( |
| Question: I am a very lonely mentally ill man. How do I go about making friends? Posted: 31 May 2016 03:55 PM PDT I am very sad every day because I don't have anyone to talk to. I am a middle aged man. I try to make friends but it is very hard for me. I am a friendly guy but I am schizophrenic. I take heavy medications. I get especially sad in the nighttime. I have been alone for a long time. I wish I had someone in real life that I could talk to. I know a few people on the internet but they are all so very far away. What can I do to make some real life friends? |
| Question: What is wrong with today's society? (School)? Posted: 31 May 2016 03:50 PM PDT I'm 14 and I'm shocked. kids come to school everyday half naked, talkin bout girlfriends and bofriends when they're there to learn, not make friends or find a spouse. Also, they're like clicking on their stupid phones, that they dont even need and that they're so addicted to. Also half of them are stupid as ****, and only come to school to mingle. They dont give 4 ***** about their grade. They are rude to all th eteachers and they that they owe them something. I'm so just frustrated I'm done. I'm 14 btw in 9th grade |
| Question: What's a good excuse? Posted: 31 May 2016 03:36 PM PDT My friends and I made a student film and we worked forr hours on it but it's incredibly shitty and we will be laughed out of the room. It was a last minute thing that we did very hurriedly. The second part will be good with some editing but the first is just plain terrible and sad. I feel like we should do this during our presentation instead of on camera so that if it is shitty we can blame it on nerves. It's due tomorrow and I'm tasked with editing the films. I want to edit the second part and delete the first than last minute scramble and say I can't find it so we are forced to just do it live. I'm not doing this to be mean, we worked hard on the second part I am really proud of that but the first was just garbage. We did the second in three hours and the first took fifteen minutes, when the second is longer than the first. I want to find a viable excuse like my phone bugged or it wasn't saved or some crap so that we don't show that and get laughed the **** out of class by all of the assholes. I've tried to tell them doing it live would be better, they decided to make a film when we had only a short time and a **** ton of homework and projects. It'll be better if we do the first part live, show the second part on film then we're finished. What are some believable excuse I could use as to why I don't have the second part anymore? |
| Question: My friend blocked me? Posted: 31 May 2016 03:29 PM PDT I talked to her at school today and we didn't fight or get mad at each other and I didn't say anything offensive. I come home to see that she blocked me off Facebook. |
| Question: I feel like I am being bullied at work. What do I do? There aren't many positions open.? Posted: 31 May 2016 03:20 PM PDT It's not the type of bullying that you hear about in a high school. It is more like I am treated like I am less than. I work at a school as a teacher. I am with a group of women that I have been with for two years now. I have never felt accepted in their group. I have never felt like I am "good enough" for them. They are not high class women. They are extremely negative and they always complain and get in a group and talk about everyone including me. They treat me like my opinions do not matter. They make me feel like I am not allowed to say how I feel about things or voice it any any way. In casual conversations if they have a point to make or if they are trying to clarify something, they get rude and ugly with me. If I say something and then try to clarify how I feel or information that I know, they act like I am not equal with them. It just feel horrible. I am left out of everything, I always try to do nice things for them and to be friendly and bake treats etc for them. Today, we had a meeting across town and they all drove there together and did not invite me. I took the bus to get there. Any time that I need them, they always end up in the same room congregating together and of course, leave me out. I don't know if i can take another year of this. I know it ll sounds petty. However, I need a team that believes in me and considers me. i need a team that wants me there.. I just don;t feel like I am with that team. Any ideas? Last year, I asked for a transfer because someone was leaving notes on my car. I was told to stick it out another year and it seemed a little better. However, there is a feeling in my gut that won't go away about the work environment. |
| Question: How can I be happy with friends? Posted: 31 May 2016 03:20 PM PDT I don't want popular friends who go partying, get high, have sex, etc. Just want loyal true friends. I've always longed to be in a group like Friends (TV show) or something like that. I have ones who are the best friends I couls ever have but we are now at a long distance friendship. How can I get a group of friends where I live in and just hangout and be happy? I am aware that there's no easy way but an answer could possibly cheer me up ^_^ |
| Question: What are fun things to do outside without a friend? Posted: 31 May 2016 03:13 PM PDT |
| Question: Am I being a bad friend? I feel so guilty...help me.? Posted: 31 May 2016 03:10 PM PDT Okay, I have a best friend named Karla. I feel like sometimes I can trust her and she's my best friend in the entire world, but then bad things happen. Karla and I argue and disagree on almost everything. She's very judgmental, overly-religious (Karla hates Gay people), and insults me when she's mad. I've tried to end our friendship before, believe me, but Karla always makes me feel guilty over it. As if I'm a bad person for trying to leave our toxic friendship. We've gotten help before, we've tried talking things through, and I've tried to make it work. I'm currently on summer vacation and Karla isn't going to the same high school as me in the fall, but we still text each other. Karla is ignoring my texts right now because she's mad at me for changing my interests and not wanting to do the same things as her anymore. I'm thinking I should slowly stop texting her, and I'm getting a new phone & phone number soon because my phone is glitching so would that be my way out? Am I a horrible person for trying to end this friendship? |
| Question: How to cope with these feelings? Posted: 31 May 2016 03:06 PM PDT So I joined a new community pool last year and this is one of those pools where there are groups of people that are really close. I am asian and I am close with a lot of the other asian kids there, but my parents are white (I'm adopted) so my parents aren't close with their parents. Even though I have friends there, I still feel left out because their parents plan activities to do together and I don't go because my parents aren't part of that group. It always feels like a big effort to go, even though I like spending time with my friends. What can I do to stop feeling this way? |
| Posted: 31 May 2016 03:01 PM PDT People like to describe me as a very outgoing, genuine, kind, and funny person, but the thing is I'm very socially awkward. I feel like I am never really able to create very personal relationships with others. In an environment where I am talking in a group, like a party, I am very socially open and very talkative. However, when I start talking to somebody one on one, I am lost for words, and I just don't know what to say. This creates a very awkward environment between us. How can I improve these social skills and what is my problem? |
| Question: A girl called me passive, is this an insult? Posted: 31 May 2016 03:00 PM PDT In History class today, i was talking with my friend and then a girl who sits next to me pushed my chair a bit when I was on it with her foot. I looked at them weirdly and didn't say anything, then when I continue talking with my friend I hear her and her friend laughing and saying "he is so passive". Then she asked me why I didn't want her to stop and I answered "it didn't really bother me and wasn't a big deal". I'm not sure if it's an insult or compliment because my whole life, I was never really respected by anybody. I don't like to say what's on my mind because it can be really mean and I only defend myself if it's something really bad, and not just my chair being moved. I'm really quiet and nice I guess. I never swear and don't like to talk with people I don't know because I feel like I'm being judged and that everybody hates me. Also when I started becoming tougher( last year but stopped), 4 of my good friends stopped hanging out with me because they liked who I was so this doesn't make sense. I'm a 14 year old guy by the way |
| Question: Does this friend want to use me for her benefits? Posted: 31 May 2016 02:53 PM PDT I just met a new friend and we were texting and she seems cool. She was saying how we can hang out this week and how she wants me to be apart of her new organization shes starting because I'll fit in cause I know a lot about it and she thinks I can help it improve . also she wants me to help her with her baby shower since Im good at party planning. And basically saying that we are going to be good friends and help one another. We had great talks. She was saying how shes a nice person and people are mean to her cause shes so pretty and venting and saying a lot of things when she was feeling down. Now the days have passed which we were going to hang out and she has stopped texting me and is posting pictures with different people and out on our days and never told me that it was canceled. And I haven't been annoying or anything and have not done anything wrong. What does this mean? Am I overreacting? |
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| Question: Do you think he wanted to have sex with me again? Posted: 31 May 2016 02:44 PM PDT I'm 29 and I had sex with a 42 year old almost year ago. He and I live in different states (but we are not in a long distance relationship). I wanted to see him again while I was in his state three weeks ago. I sent him a text letting him know I was in town and he asked me for the address. I told him I would contact him once I got to the hotel. My kid brother and I went to the park and I saw the guy there. I didn't go there looking for him we just so happened to be there at the same time. We walked passed each other but didn't speak but we did look at each other. When I got to the hotel I texted him asking him to come see me. He then told me he had left time temporarily but that he would be back the next day. I told him that I knew he had saw me at the park and that he was lying. He said he did see me at the park but that he had left town and would be back the next day. (He does work a lot travelling from time to time.) He told me before I came to see him that he might not be able to meet me. That he's having some financial issues. When he told me he had left town I went off on him and said some bad things to him. That's when he started calling and texting me telling me to answer the phone. I didn't answer and just ignored his calls completely. The next night I got drunk and continued to go off on him and again he told me to call him but I didn't. He was wrong for lying and I was wrong for going off on him. I just wish I would have got to see him while I was there. |
| Question: My parents never let me hang around anyone? *PLEASE READ I NEED HELP*? Posted: 31 May 2016 02:37 PM PDT My parents NEVER let me hang out with anyone. Okay so....When i was younger in 5th grade i use to always be able to hang out with people..But i use to always got in trouble and then in 6th grade i got in trouble at school with people non stop etc....It has happend most of my life and same with 7th grade. Everytime i try to ask out with ANYONE they always say *no because i can't trust you out with anyone* I'm in 8th grade and im 13 right now.. They can never trust me and its EVERYTIME i can't hang out with anyone... I have always tried to talk with them about them letting me out more with my friends but they always say no because they are too overprotective and worried... I always see kids in my grade and even younger out by themselfs having fun with there friends! And also i have always been bullied by people and alot of them hate me. Most of the time if i see someone that dosen't like me they laugh or yell out something mean like "Aww i see you havent made any friends and you still hang out with your mommy, you little *****" And it makes me cry they always laugh at me....Im honestly tired of living and im so jealous of the people that have fun in the summer with there friends and im the only one who cant. I CANT EVEN HAVE AN IPHONE LIKE EVERYONE ELSE! I feel like im the only kid in my grade who dosent have it....Im so jealous of everyone and i just wanna die....Please help :(. I can't even go on a walk without them being suspcious.. They always say let me go with you if i wanna walk around or go on my bike.. they won't let me meetup with them either.... And everyone hates on me and says mean **** to me...I just don't wanna live anymore. |
| Question: Why do my friends agree that I will be the first one to get pregnant? Posted: 31 May 2016 02:27 PM PDT So all my friends agree that I will be the first one to get pregnant. However, I don't understand why. The thing is is I do not consider myself easy or anything. I am what people would call a square. Everyone that ever knows about me always says how I am a good kid etc. I've never smoked, drank, or even been to a party. Ive never even had a boyfriend while the friends who have said that have. I have never even held hands with a guy and I am 18. So why would they say this? I don't throw myself at guys. Sure I say I am attracted to different ones etc. but I don't try to get with them. My clothing isn't inappropriate or anything either. I stay covered up where I am supposed to. |
| Question: How to stop being the Class Clown? Posted: 31 May 2016 02:15 PM PDT Okay, circa a few years ago I was tired of being pushed around, so I resorted to being the kid of comic relief. It was instant popularity. Girls all of a sudden were talking to me, and boys were actually respecting me. Even though I burned bridges with a lot of my teachers, I kept going. Now, being a class clown sucks for me. The only reason I m even relevant is because I have to say some joke every five minutes. The kids are tired of me, and the teachers are burned out by now. I try to say in the morning that I ll be serious but it never works. Every word I say is either a joke, impulsive, or sarcastic quip that is an attempt to get a reaction out of the class and I realize that it is ruining my life. How do I stop trying to be funny? |
| Question: How do I get over making a mistake? Posted: 31 May 2016 02:15 PM PDT I swear that there is something wrong with me. Today was the first day of practice after being offseason for a month for track/xc and I wasn't aware we had practice today so I didn't dress out. I ended up missing practice but my coach didn't really sweat it because a lot of people also missed it. But I feel like complete crap and I'm so stressed now which is dumb because I feel like I'm overreacting. How do I get over this? |
| Question: I have best friend but she is kind of controlling. What do I do? Posted: 31 May 2016 02:09 PM PDT I have a best friend named Petra. We both go to the same martial arts school, and that is how we met. She was a belt higher than me, but he had to quit for a little while to get her grades up in school. During that time I tested, and then I became a belt higher than her. But before she quit, she was kind of controlling when i taught the class or helped out, she always was trying to control what I did, and she always tried to take over. I would tell that I knew what to do or that i had it under control, but she just would listen. Now that she is back, I am worried that she will do it again even though I am a belt higher now. What do I do? |
| Question: I am being bullied work and I don't know what to do. Please read? Posted: 31 May 2016 02:04 PM PDT It's not the type of bullying that you hear about in a high school. It is more like I am treated like I am less than. I work at a school as a teacher. I am with a group of women that I have been with for two years now. I have never felt accepted in their group. I have never felt like I am "good enough" for them. They are not high class women. They are extremely negative and they always complain and get in a group and talk about everyone including me. They treat me like my opinions do not matter. They make me feel like I am not allowed to say how I feel about things or voice it any any way. In casual conversations if they have a point to make or if they are trying to clarify something, they get rude and ugly with me. If I say something and then try to clarify how I feel or information that I know, they act like I am not equal with them. It just feel horrible. I am left out of everything, I always try to do nice things for them and to be friendly and bake treats etc for them. Today, we had a meeting across town and they all drove there together and did not invite me. I took the bus to get there. Any time that I need them, they always end up in the same room congregating together and of course, leave me out. I don't know if i can take another year of this. I know it ll sounds petty. However, I need a team that believes in me and considers me. i need a team that wants me there. i just don;t feel like I am with that team. Any ideas? |
| Question: What do I do if I m depressed because of switching schools? Posted: 31 May 2016 02:00 PM PDT Hey,I m 11 years old and I just switched from my middle school I loved it there and I had so many friends all of that and I was very happy there. But drama jus kept on happening to me and I used to get into it with a lot of students. I guess my mom got fed up because I moved a. Week after another accident. I know its my fault that this happened but I jus want to know what to do so I don t feel as sad |
| Question: Is it a bad trait to tell the truth about people? Posted: 31 May 2016 01:59 PM PDT I'd like to get honest answers. Do you talk bad about people behind their backs? I don't mean something bad for no reason. Someone does something bad to you and you tell other people about it or they don't do a good job and all the co-workers talk about the worker behind their back out of frustration. Is that something natural or actually mean? |
| Question: I'm 12 male and I like a 13 turning 14 yr old girl? Posted: 31 May 2016 01:54 PM PDT I have drama at my sisters school once a week This one girl has caught my eye from day 1 and I've had a crush on her ever since then Lately She found out that I like her But also she has been acting up when I'm close Aswell Example She told my sister in a long convo that "it could work" And When I did my role in the play we are doing and went backstage and then and only then she asked her friend if she has this app where you can check who is on your Instagram page (that obviously being me) And yesterday my sister Was kinda Mean and Inderictly told everyone Today she told my sister don't be so mean to Your brother :) Does this mean anything? Also I don't really talk to her other than in Monday's when we have drama how do you think I can start to text her "Accidentally" sending a message is an option Maturity isn't s problem since I'm mature enough to to even make a deal of my sister telling everyone Also I'm 1cm taller then her But puberty is knocking on my door so I'll be taller soon Thanks |
| Question: How to approach this? Posted: 31 May 2016 01:51 PM PDT First a quick back story, My younger sister and are extremely close. We do everything together and she really is my best friend. We talk about everything and have been really close for years. I was "talking" to my neighbor for maybe a couple of weeks. Texting, hanging out, cuddling, watching movies, kissing. etc. We did do sexually things once but did not have sex. My sister was very aware because we would talk about it and she lives with me so she had seen us cuddling on the couch and hangin out etc. I ended up cutting things off with him because he is 4 years younger than me and we were in different places in life, plus he was close friends with my brother and my brother is completely against his friends dating his family. so i respected that and ended things before they got serious. No more than a week later he started hanging out with my sister and she started avoiding me a bit. she wasnt texting me or talking to me which was unusual because we talk constantly. i mentioned her hanging out with him and she assured me it was nothing and they were just friends. i had a feeling it was more than that but didnt push the issue. she sent me the first text in a couple of weeks yesterday saying she knew she had told me they were just friends but it turned into something more and they are now together and she was sorry. I did not respond.. im curious on how you would feel and approach it? |
| Question: My friends are trying to get me to pay them? Posted: 31 May 2016 01:49 PM PDT So me and a couple friends went to a rated r movie... They gave me no details how to get in (we're all 13 and 14) and told me at the last minute. So I went there and they said they all paid a little to get me a ticket. I had money and they told me to pay them back so instead I bought them all food and drinks... I'm in a group chat with them and they still want their money! I told them I payed for their food which ended up costing me more money and so I shouldn't have to pay them back. They don't care though... What do I do? |
| Question: I'm a girl. Why does this girl keep staring at me? Posted: 31 May 2016 01:34 PM PDT There is this girl who I'm sort of friends with. She sits next to me every class. She always stares at me and it makes me feel very self-conscious. I don't think she's a lesbo either. She mostly stares at my hair and body. When I'm wearing a dress or have my hair up or tied back, she usually looks me up and down and stares at me. One time I wore my hair back in plaits and was wearing a jumper and two girls complimented me after class saying how they liked my jumper and then the girl who stares at me all the time said 'Yep, I like your jumper, your hair...' When we are both standing she looks me up and down. She is shorter than me too and I tower over her which makes me feel very insecure like she's judging me. Sometimes she will stare at my face too. I've even caught her staring at my chest, which makes me feel self-conscious because I have a small chest Why does she keep staring at me? |
| Question: Would this be considered stocking? Posted: 31 May 2016 01:24 PM PDT So I followed a girl in my class on Instagram. Her moms account came up as suggested and as a joke I looked thorugh it and showed it to our friends and stuff. I showed funny old pictures and stuff which made the girl mad and then she called me a "stalker" Am I one? |
| Question: I tried to be friends with the "popular people" but they just laugh in my face? Posted: 31 May 2016 01:22 PM PDT So I ve been trying to get out of my comfort zone and make some new friends. Well today we got our yearbooks for school and there was this group of popular guys so I went up and asked them to sign my book. They look at me like I was crazy, they signed my book but it was super awkward. The one guy drew a penis on my book ... -.- as I was leaving the group of guys I heard laughing from behind me. I felt like a joke, all I was doing was asking them to sign my yearbook.. I know it s not a huge deal but i feel like I made a fool of myself.. They probably think I m so weird for asking them when I don t even talk to them |
| Question: Do you think he wanted to have sex with me again? Posted: 31 May 2016 01:19 PM PDT I'm 29 and I had sex with a 42 year old almost year ago. He and I live in different states (but we are not in a long distance relationship). I wanted to see him again while I was in his state three weeks ago. I sent him a text letting him know I was in town and he asked me for the address. I told him I would contact him once I got to the hotel. My kid brother and I went to the park and I saw the guy there. I didn't go there looking for him we just so happened to be there at the same time. We walked passed each other but didn't speak but we did look at each other. When I got to the hotel I texted him asking him to come see me. He then told me he had left time temporarily but that he would be back the next day. I told him that I knew he had saw me at the park and that he was lying. He said he did see me at the park but that he had left town and would be back the next day. (He does work a lot travelling from time to time.) He told me before I came to see him that he might not be able to meet me. That he's having some financial issues. When he told me he had left town I went off on him and said some bad things to him. That's when he started calling and texting me telling me to answer the phone. I didn't answer and just ignored his calls completely. The next night I got drunk and continued to go off on him and again he told me to call him but I didn't. He was wrong for lying and I was wrong for going off on him. I just wish I would have got to see him while I was there. |
| Question: How to tell if you should stay friends with your best friend? Posted: 31 May 2016 01:14 PM PDT Okay so i've been quite shaky with this friend and recently it feels like i'm really questioning our friendship. She's a great person but i find her quite impatient and if we do anything then it would be something that she wants to do. The other day I helped her with something and then when I asked how it was she snapped at me and later on just wouldn't say much about it. Also, when I've spoken to her about stuff it seems like she gets quite frustrated about it yet I'm more than happy to hear what goes on in her life, genuinely but all she does is go on about other people and that can get quite boring. Being around friends you should feel comfortable and be able to have a good time but i'm not quite sure if i do and so it makes me re-think our friendship ..... any help or advice?? |
| Posted: 31 May 2016 01:10 PM PDT Its this kid that is annoying that everyone hates because he laughs at everyone for how they dress and look, saying it is "cringey" and things. Today at the lunch room me and this kid was talking about his shoes. (He gets mad when people make fun of him and we don't basically when he makes fun of us/other people) I was saying: "To be honest I never seen no one rig up Lebrons before" and he started talking about my old sneakers I used to wear and things, so let me fast foward. In social studies, me and him was talking trash back and forth, so that's when I went full overboard since his voice is so damn annoying and lie about what I do because I tell people that he laughs at people behind their backs and he convinces them to not like me cause I am telling the truth. Anyways I said: "That is why your mom sucked my d*ck, and doing inappropriate motions and things and he was trying to comeback with his own jokes. Before then, he started to trash talk again when I said it was over and called me a "*****" behind my back and someone told me. That what cause me to say that and do that. The teacher caught me saying it blah blah blah, I got suspended. Important: I don't want him to think I got suspended since he will be all happy and probably will do this and that while I'm not here and etc. I am aware of getting suspended for 2 days. Do you guys have any suggestions like call up to the school and give me an in-school suspension or like how to avoid a situation like this in the future? |
| Question: Was this guy flirting? (10 points for best answer)? Posted: 31 May 2016 01:06 PM PDT I saw where this guy posted this on his Facebook timeline but he deleted it. I'm flattered by the countless friend request, simultaneously despondent by users lack of introduction. Although appreciated: nothing depreciates my interest in someone faster than small-talk, I despise facet of the experience, because it's time consuming and meaningless. I value the qualities and significance of a deeper connection, and that entails bonding through our commonalities. I can utilize your ability in social media outlets: provide resources to expand your horizon while rendering your services with practical and effective benefits....That being said in terms of skills, competence and expertise---what are you proficient, advanced and experienced in? |
| Posted: 31 May 2016 01:02 PM PDT For example friend 1 asks friend 2 to go to chipotle, they clearly see me and leave me out. Or like at lunch I sit by myself and people clearly see me and just walk by😔. And I'm about to go to highschool so I'm scared I'll get bullied and made fun of |
| Question: How can i get my mom to trust me to go places&? Posted: 31 May 2016 01:02 PM PDT Last year she woud always tell me that i shoud go out more but i had no friends. And now its finaly the first year when i have friends since I moved and now she never allows me to go anywhere. I have already been uninfited to a lot of parties because people know that my mom probably wouldnt let me go. Im almost 13 and we live in the safest town in the state. |
| Question: Does friend want to end friendship? Posted: 31 May 2016 12:58 PM PDT I have this friend, who you could probably call 'best' friends for about a year and a half. We were really close, and we basically read each other's minds, almost inseparable. I also have this friend who I'm close with, but not as close as the 'best' friend and I were. A few weeks ago, the best friend started to hang out more with the close friend. It was ok, I didn't care. Well after a little while they would totally disclude me from conversations, and wouldn't really talk to me. What do I do? I don't think confronting them would be a good idea, it wouldn't help jack squat. I don't have anyone to talk to at lunch, and I just can't take the lack of conversations, it kills me. Thanks for any (reasonable) responses. If you're one for zodiacs, I'm a Leo, the 'best' friend is a Aries, and I don't know what the close friend is. |
| Question: Should you still be friends with someone who hurt you? Posted: 31 May 2016 12:49 PM PDT I recently took my friend somewhere with me and it was going great until she found out someone she knew was there. I didn't know the persons name or even who they were. My friend never introduced me to them and I never got to meet them. My friend started to leave me by myself to hangout with the other person. I didn't even know where she was half the time. She then started to blame it on me saying that I didn't want to do anything with her so she left me. This really hurt me because I couldn't believe she would do this. I really care about her and don't want to lose the friendship but all my friends are telling me to. |
| Question: Should you stay friends with someone who hurt you? Posted: 31 May 2016 12:44 PM PDT |
| Posted: 31 May 2016 12:38 PM PDT So I'm 18. Never been on a date, never kissed, still a virgin, and not to mention I've never had a close female friend. Currently in community college. Ever since I was in elementary, I always had trouble with girls. I was always told that I was ugly and they'd be like "ewww" don't talk to me. I had maybe 2 girls that actually enjoyed talking to me in 5th grade. Those 2 girls were as close as I got to as female friends. In middle school I didn't make any female friends at all. I was the guy who had many male friends, and they girls would always focus on them, never in me. I was the ugly, awkward one. In high school, I had no friends at all because I went to a high school none of my buddies from middle school went to mine. So I entered a loner and it was that way for two years. This made me develop social anxiety. I remained with zero confidence. Everytime I tried to be, people would reply with a "you have no reason to be confident" type of talk. Which is true I'm not attractive, I'm scrawny, all I do is play video games, never been to a party, don't drink or smoke, never had a girl, and so on. I'm a very boring person with no confidence at all and super shy. I did make friends my third year, but I didn't get close enough to them enough T to hang out with them outside of school. So I'm currently in college and I remain a huge loner. Honestly though, I wouldn't mind being a loner if I had a girlfriend. But I'm afraid that's never going to happen don't know what to do. I may sound like a depressing person, but I'm really now. Yes, it saddens me that I'm lonely, but I'm not depressed. I still smile, laugh with my family and the 2-3 friends that I have. I'm not a negative person. I do love life and everything, but sometimes I get be a pain being lonely. Any advice |
| Posted: 31 May 2016 12:28 PM PDT Some people care about everything. They obess about everything and they take really small things as really big problems. There are another group of people who don't care about anything and they are really expect anything from them. Nobody supposed to except any type of care or help from them for something small. They always want something really big and they always talk about extreme and I'm sick of them as well. I don't fit into neither categories but I fit in the middle and I can't find anybody like me that suits me. The people that I see are like either in one category or another. I wish there was somebody that was like me. |
| Question: Little sister doesn't play with her friends? Posted: 31 May 2016 12:27 PM PDT She says that she has friends, but from what I'm hearing they're in their own groups. She used to have a good friend who she played with but she stopped being friends with her because her friend started saying weird stuff. She played with a girl during recess but then ran away from her to join two other girls. But then the two girls began running away from her and she played soccer, but then got bored and sat on a bench alone. I'm rly scared because I don't want her to be depressed or anything like that. She said that she played with the girl who she ran away from today and that they only played games the girl wanted to play, and then the girl just sat on the bench. Help?! ((She's the youngest in her grade btw)) |
| Question: My friend is both toxic but a reliable friend half of the time? Posted: 31 May 2016 12:06 PM PDT she can be of good company, generous, helpful and academically smart but she can also be oblivious of my feelings and consistently talk about herself or her other friends when i try to talk to her about personal things. Whenever i try to confront her on thing she never seems to understand or starts to feel cornered and lashes out. She's an oblivious flirt and seems to accidently lead people on and gets confused when people get angry with her and never thinks about the other party's side of things. Its been 3 years of the continuous game of charades and i think shes unintentionally made me more frustrated but i dont know if its me or if its her. What should I do? by leading people on, i mean my friends. And by confrontation i dont mean by state of aggression, I actually remain calm but she still lashes out at the simplest of things. |
| Question: Advice on how to break news to a close (sensitive) friend? Posted: 31 May 2016 12:06 PM PDT so for my closest friend's birthday present, I got her a concert ticket to our favorite band (twenty one pilots). my mom and I were originally going together but we thought it was a good idea to get my friend a ticket as well. recently, my mom and I have been fighting a lot and the concert is in a few days, my mom told me she's selling the concert tickets unless my friend wants to buy them- yet it was a birthday present for my friend. I don't know how to tell my friend that we can't go without her being mad at me. someone please give me advice on how to tell my friend. plus I've tried so many ways to convince my mom to at least let her have the tickets if we aren't going. help?? |
| Question: Why don't I have anyone I can relate to anymore? Posted: 31 May 2016 11:58 AM PDT I just feel so much different than I did a few years ago, maybe even last year. I feel like I've changed so much since then, and everyone else has either stayed the same or changed for the worst. My family has pretty much stayed the same, and I like being with them sometimes, but sometimes I can't stand how different their ideas and values are from mine. I know differing opinions are no reason to dislike someone, but I'm kind of going through something tough and personal, and I feel like I can't tell my parents. They hardly pay attention to me, just to my older and younger siblings(yes, I'm a middle child). And when they do, they seem to care more about my grades than how I'm really doing. I hope that will change when school ends, though. Another thing, my (maybe former) best friend is completely different than she was just a few months ago. Being around her doesn't seem nearly as fun to me, and to be honest, the way she is actually annoys me sometimes. I only have 1 friend(different one from her) that I feel actually understands me. I'm not completely comfortable around her either, though. Why can't my parents just ask how I am, instead of how my grades are? Sorry to rant. It's just all this, and the idea of growing up are kind of making life harder on me. Anyone have advice for my situation. |
| Question: Does the number of friends show your life success? Posted: 31 May 2016 11:54 AM PDT I haven't got a new friend in past 4 years, while others make new friends everyday. So does that mean, that my life will be very unsuccessful and their very successful? |
| Question: How do you make friends? Posted: 31 May 2016 11:48 AM PDT Seriously, I don't know what I am doing... |
| Question: Follow 4r Follow on Instagram? Posted: 31 May 2016 11:48 AM PDT |
| Question: Should I tell my mom I tried a hookah pen. If so, how should I do it? Posted: 31 May 2016 11:43 AM PDT Currently im over my friends house and lastnight we hit a hookah pen about 3 times and I'm wondering if i should tell my mom or just keep my mouth shut. I feel bad about it, so if I should tell my mom, how? |
| Question: I'm the second bestfriend to my bestfriends? Posted: 31 May 2016 11:42 AM PDT |
| Question: Money issues. help me resolve this issue with a so called friend? Posted: 31 May 2016 11:10 AM PDT So my friend told me to do his 7 page essay and he said he would pay me 70 but then said the teacher had to delete two pages and he head to do them on his own and i told him to pay me just 40 but it has been like three weeks and he has not paid me, does anyone know what i can do for him to pay m. Note: I have full access to his google cps account. I just need my money asap. Thanks in advance. |
| Question: I'm leaving my house soon at 18, my parents dont approve of it? Posted: 31 May 2016 10:55 AM PDT My story is pretty long, my parents have always been super strict, the type of perents who dont want you doing anything with anyone unless you're going to school and back. Recently my dad told me I can leave his house if I want, but that if I leave, I cant return and they wont be helping me a bit with money. I really want to move out and be able to go to college and not have to live under all these rules anymore. I love my parents but I know I'm mature and responsible enough. My plan is to leave my house this saturday. I have already packed all my stuff, I will be going to San Marcos for the summer and stay with a friend while I work. I will work as much as possible this summer so that I can make enough to pay off community college by myself. I will be attending Blinn College ( community college) and dorm as well. As of now I have $400 saved up. I know this whole process of having to pay school expenses by myself means lots and lots of work, but I'm willing to do it. My main concern is this whole plan not working out in the end. I need advice on how I can do this, or if any of this will even work in the first place. I have never had a job before so I'm hoping I can get one asap. But I just need advice on how I should do this, or do it at all. |
| Posted: 31 May 2016 10:54 AM PDT So I'm currently in quite a predicament. My friend and I both made accounts on this one story website -- Booksie -- and I decided to make another account in secret to help motivate my friend and advertise his account. It seemed to have motivated him quite a bit because during school he would talk to me about how he got a new fan who was commenting on all of his works and such... The thing is, in order to make the account seem real I commented on many other people's stories and wrote stories of my own. The stories I wrote on that account were actually stories I didn't want to write on my account because I was concerned that my friends would judge. The fake account I made seems to be getting more popular than my actual account and I'm more proud of my works on the fake one! I also want to show my other friends my stories and to feel proud about them but that might expose me to my friend. I want to tell the truth about the fake account but I don't know how my friend would react if he found out that his biggest fan was actually just another account run my me. Help! |
| Question: Can't sleep over guilt? Posted: 31 May 2016 10:54 AM PDT After asking this question today https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160531035319AAg8Sq8 it made me realize what a horrible person I am. I share things about others that people have told me and apparently I am a gossiper who trash talks about others behind their back?? Even though what I said is true?? It's just that, I have never been taught to not talk about other people behind their backs. Many people in my life have done it but I don't find anything wrong about it. Now I cannot sleep because I am such an awful person. How did you all learn not to gossip? Never in my life was I taught not to gossip (NOBODY has ever called me out on it), so it is a big shock to hear that some things I have said really crossed the line. Honestly, all of your judging answers is really not helping my guilt now. I feel even worse after reading your answers. |
| Question: I hate this girl in my group of friends? Posted: 31 May 2016 10:16 AM PDT There are two girls I hate in my group of friends. Tanya always lies. She told us that she is best friends with Ariana Grande and that she lives in a huge mansion. She told me she has 10 iPhones and 2 macbooks. I know they are all lies because when I ask her proof, she just tries to change the subject. She thinks that she is the best and she fakes being sad just for attention. This other girl's name is Angelina. She acts so cool and she thinks she can do whatever she wants. She laughs so damn loud and she always embarrasses me because of how loud she talks. She constantly curses because she thinks it is cool. Don't get me wrong, I curse too, but it's getting to the point where I just want her to move schools. She basically thinks she is cool for breaking the rules and acting like she doesn't care. Plus, I have the right to hate her because once she called me a *****. The thing is, my friends actually like both of the girls , they seem like they like her, and I'm the only one that doesn't. I tried to cope with them throughout the whole year, but I can't stand them anymore. It's getting to the point where I have considered moving schools but I can't because my other friends need me. (I don't hang out with the other friends because they hang out with each other anyway. We just sometimes do.) Do you think I should just cope with them throughout the 4 remaining years, or what should I do? And no I will not talk about it with my friends, because it won't change anything at all. |
| Question: I don't have any friends to spend my sunmer with and I feel lonely? Posted: 31 May 2016 10:06 AM PDT I am a 15 year old girl and I recently got into summer break. I am really sad because I don't really have any friends to hang out with. I am quite outgoing but I am shy around people who I don't know. I have this group of friends but it seems like they don't like me, because whenever they hang out, they never invite me or tell me anything about it. I just really don't want to spend my whole entire summer at home just like every summer, and I feel kind of sad to ask random people and mutual friends to hang out with me, because they are always "busy". I feel really lonely and don't know what to do. |
| Question: Why do people say college is friendlier than high school? Posted: 31 May 2016 09:52 AM PDT It's about the same in my experience then again I don't really associate with people at my schools. I make friends outside of school. I know they're slightly more mature in college but I haven't noticed any huge difference like people always claim the students are much more friendlier than in high school. I've met horrible people of all ages so it can't be an age thing. If I try to make friends at college do you think they'll easily accept me? Is it because the outcast nerds go to college and the cool kids (the jerks) don't? I'm a nerdy cool kid lol c: |
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