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Bueno yo tengo 24 años y mi pareja 27, yo me le declare y ella me acepto y comenzamos esto, nos conocimos desde hace tiempo como amigas pero nunca pensé que pudiera pasar esto, ya llevamos 4 meses y se nos han pasado muy rápido, pero han sido muy lindos, yo la consiento mucho, soy muy romántica, detallista, cariñosa, le escribo poemas canciones, le hago manualidades, la trato muy bien, y ella es cariñosa, divertida, linda, graciosa, tierna, inteligente, también me compra cosas, pero a veces si le digo que no se enoja , y para no llevarle la contra luego accedo a lo que ella quiere, por ejemplo a mi no me gusta bailar y a ella si y si yo le digo que no se molesta mucho o mi música no le gusta y me dice que la quite y la quito pero yo le digo que quite su música y no la quita, y ahora los besos son más intensos y muchos roces de nuestra parte íntima,y he sentido que ella comienza porque yo estoy tranquila y solo me dejo llevar porque no soy de palo si siento eso pero yo quiero respetarla, aun no estoy lista para hacerlo, ella y yo declaramos que estamos enamoradas y la verdad nos queremos mucho, a cada rato nos extrañamos aunque nos acabamos de ver, yo ya le dije a mi mamá sobre esto y me apoya y ella igual ya hablo con su mamá e igual la apoya, y no se ustedes que me aconsejan hacer como hago para enamorarla más o que consejo me dan o que opinan, por fa no insultos.

I'm having a lot of trouble and difficulty because I'm 19, and so at a very hormonal age. But due to a dirt bike accident I had when I was 16, I am medically unable to have sex. I needed surgery and no longer have a penis (not to shock anyone, but seriously). But I am still attractive and very attracted to girls, and went on a date the other night. I could tell the girl wanted sex though, which got me so nervous. I often think back to the very nice feelings that I got from imagining girls and rubbing my penis, and I cannot feel like that anymore. I at least want to make a girl feel good though. But I'm frustrated, because I still have lots of hormones at my age, but no way to channel that. And I feel jealous watching people have sex in movies, porn, etc. 1. How will girls honestly react to my situation though? 2. Will they secretly desire something more? 3. What extra will I honestly have to do, to be with a beautiful girl like that? 4. And how can I get over what I lost, still having hormones but no good feelings or release like I used to have (from rubbing myself, etc)? And feeling jealous at the pleasure people get from sex? Please, these are serious questions I have (but be honest too).

So I asked my female friend that I like if she wants to go to this concert that I'm going to in a couple months and she said that she would be down. Then she asked when the date is ,so I told her and the time. I offerd to buy her ticket, but she said that she wants to buy hers and I said ok. Then she asked me if we can wait until next week to buy tickets, And I said of course. The part im confused is why would she want to wait a week? is she trying to see if that day is off her schedule? If she doesn't contact me back in a week should I message her? I don't want to look like I'm desperate or putting pressure on her.

I am dealing with a tough situation right now and I need advice on what to do. I'm dating a man who has kids & we have had a child together as well, she just turned 7mo old. Im extremely happy with him other then the fact that he has other kids . I have tried everything to be close to them & to provide structure in their lives But Im having a hard time accepting them into my life and my daughters. I try & think about what Jesus would do & what God wants me to do & I think that that would be to accept thesm & be kind towards them & love them. I'm a person who doesn't handle children well & I end up being hard on them. Its stressing my bf out & Im ending up hurting him. My biggest problem is I don't know my role in all of this. I don't know if I should try and be a mother to these children or if I should be a friend or if I am just the girlfriend who has no place in all of this. Is really stressing me out to the point where I don't get excited to go home when they r there. The times that they're gone I find myself so very happy with him and my daughter. Im aware of my selfishness and Im aware that I may not be doing the right thing as far as my thought process goes but It's something that I haven't been able to shake. Should I stay and try and make the best out of the situation because I am happy with him or should I go? I'm stuck and don't know what to do.

I had a discussion today with my friends and I told them I didn't want children. (We are 18) and they told me it was weird :/ gave me strange looks and was acting as if I was crazy. I got really annoyed by this and told them I think adopting is better and I think it's unnecessary to have children. I also told me I am unsure about marriage and It would not phase me if I lived an unmarried life. They thought it was "sad" and I would live an empty life. What is so weird about this? Why does every women have to place their self worth on getting married and having children?

I'm not interested in a relationship with him or anything like that, I don't want to break up his marriage or anything just want to hook up with him.

A child from his family was permanently (yes, permanently) excluded from what he missed out on due to his city office-based employment, and now his family has been finding every possible way to have him excluded due to their new beliefs making them think such process would not suit him and that they want to feel special. His eldest sibling also character assassinated his reputation online with his own lies he does just to make sure no-one from such program will ever accept the one who missed out. My parents were able to permanently exclude me by taking unfair advantage of my self-defamation that caused others to blacklist me until they can verify these lies with my parents not knowing my parents had a new belief that made them think such programs would not suit me when in reality it could have. Their new beliefs made them think it won't suit me when it does. I'm just a non-violent, non-condescending, non-rebellious child who only missed out due to work on a weekend (yes, working on a weekend!). It's painfully sad to even think about this. I'm already doing it tough with other people character assassinating me with other lies after reading my past posts about me being a pedophile when I'm not one. I'm sure you've seen posts about me by other people claiming that I committed this and that just to make me suffer after thinking I am a pedophile when I'm not one,.

They look rude and surprised when we were are telemarketing at work. They would stare down at me when I am happy? I know happiness comes from inside, thats why I'm happy and feel young. How to not care about people trying to make you feel bad?

My dad got cheated out of $1 million from his stepmom to give to her real son.

Been seeing this guy for almost 9 months now. I told him within the first month that I liked him and wanted to be in a relationship. He had just gotten out of a 3 years relationship and said that he wants to be exclusive and that I m the only woman he s seeing/talking to but isn t ready for the title yet and we haven t talked about it since. We ve spent almost every weekend together and I ve been in love with him since 3 months into seeing him but haven t told him. He s a true capricorn takes everything so very slow compared to what I m used to, I m a Gemini. We haven t had sex yet but finally started doing everything but sex. I m very sexual and have a high sex drive, and he is very conservative and shy but I think that s one of the reasons why I love him so much. We have almost everything else in common and I joke around that he s my male twin because we agree on almost everything. How much longer should I wait to bring it up again?

Well, me and my ex have been together for 9 years, we have 2 children together, the last month we were together we argued like crazy! I don t know what had changed... A month before that he loved me and would tell me he cou don t see his life without me and that we (me and the kids) were the loves of his life, so fast forward to the month we argued pre-breakup, we would argue about the most stupid things! Well the last argument we argued it escalated quickly because he started packing and didn t care anymore! He just was ready to leave and I asked him why he would just be so willing to up and leave his family without even caring! I got so angry and I hit him! I regret it now of course and so he goes running to his mothers house tells her the whole story and showed her the bruises I left, he tells her he would never want to hurt me physically and so before anything goes down that route he had to leave, then he tells her he doesn t love me like that anymore. He loves me but he s not in love with me. His mother is encouraging us breaking up because I hit her son. I did apologize sincerely to him and to her about it because I was in the wrong I should of never hit him on his arm. I believe his mother is a big influence on him right now, I believe she is manipulating him to have him closer to her because secretly always felt that she didn t like the fact that he invested all his time on me rather than her, so right now it s her chance to get her baby back!

My boyfriend who I have been seeing for the past three months wanted to have sex with me but I'm not ready yet and he said he would wait for me. That was a month ago but when I told some of my friends on the dance team about it they said he must be cheating cause a guy who looks like him isn't going to just wait for it. Does it mean he's cheating or is he just really nice? Their words really got in my head!

so I'm 16 turning 17 and my English teacher is 26. I really love him, we talk a lot and he always asks me what I've been up to what I'm doing on the weekend and stuff about me we also talk about tv shows we both like and things like that. he doesn't really talk to anyone else like he talks to me I'm a blonde and the other day I died my hair again to get rid of re growth (it hardly looked different and no one really noticed or said anything) and my teacher went out of his way to say to me "I love your hair by the way! looks really good" and the other day this boy in class was flirting with me and that boy left the class to get a drink and while he was gone my teacher said to me, "he loves you you know. " and I was like I know I've known him for ages. then my teacher said "you're not his girlfriend are you?" and I said no and he said on do you have one? I said no again in class we have to read out loud from the text book every class. and Literallty every single class he makes me read. me and my friend actually laugh every time he tells me to read coz I know it's coming, (im not a bad reader so he's not trying to make me improve or anything) if he doesn't pick me he will pick someone else but stop them half way through to make me continue reading. so yeah what do you people think? do you think he has feelings for me, do teachers get feelings for students? I also always catch him looking at me then looking away, so much more has happened but I'm running out of characters

I m is babysitter for a 5 month old baby. The mom will always tell me it the baby . will be dropped off at 5:30 or 6:30. Like today the baby was supposed to be dropped off at 5:30. It's currently 6:28 and I've heard nothing from the mother. And yesterday, there was no baby at all so I texted the mother and she said "oh I forgot to tell you. I'm in Indianapolis." WTF

Hello guys, let me start off by telling you a little about myself, I m 17 years old, Im a girl, I live with my mom and dad, and I m homeschooled... When I was younger I used to live in New York I now live in Florida... I had friends I did things, but I still wasn t happy.. When I moved to Florida my life changed... I met a lot of new people I had a boyfriend whom I lived with for a year... But I was never happy... I then met new people and started to feel better.. I finally came out of the closet as bisexual.. Met my first girlfriend, I never loved someone as I loved her... She cheated on me in a very bad way... That destroyed me completely. Someone who I thought was my friend for some time turns out to be one of the worst people alive.. Another friend of mine whom knows everything a bout me whom I use to speak to for hours showed me he s true colors... I now feel so alone I have felt like this my whole life.. I finally found where I belong and it ruined my life. My parents don t know what to do with me, all I do now is sleep all day all night and never leave my room! I have so many goals in life I want to do so many things but I can t find the strength to do anything... This is why I m writing this, I just want someone to help me. I love my parents and I ve tried to talk to them about things but they just think it s stupid... I never leave my house, I don t know anyone where I live.. And the people here are not my type of people.. I feel so broken...

My friend and family seem to "ruin" things for me, and I don't doubt that this is my fault, but certain things that remind me of them/not even really related to them I start to avoid. Like my friend said something about my hair which I really enjoyed, now every time I see a picture or person with their hair dyed, I get these terrible feeling. I can't stand to look at my friends profile picture, which is flowers,because of an argument that took place,and now I avoid all flower profile pictures, so now I can't even click on some of my favorite accounts. Some tv shows I hate and I haven't even seen them, or I used to love them and now I can't stay far enough away from them or mention of them or pictures of them because they give me feelings that I can't explain, and have no way to connect them to the person I think of. It just bothers me. Even specific words I tend to avoid using or typing because for some reason they bother me. Help, What is wrong with me?

My father was recently forced to retire due to unexpected meducal issues after 37 years in the mining field he was retires in December almost 8 months before his 65 the birthday. So he had to love on his 401 k till ss kicked in which he had pulled out to set up his retirement home back on property that we lived on 20 years ago but this happened and now he is almost out of money to finish just passing inspections so it is livable.

Do you believe people want you to be alone and unhappy? Do people mess with you and your family when eating at a restaurant or at a mall? Isn't it wrong to do that?

Cualquier experiencia será bien recibido

i noticed there was not enough girls from other country in my city like the bigger city has more diversity what can a smaller town get more diversity when its comes to girls what can i do i want to make a change to my city

I met this guy at the gym and I like him. The only problem is he is a shy type and like to keep things to himself. He did open up to me a few times. However, I was hoping he would get comfortable. He is 26 and I'm 39. I don't want any romance as he is too young for me and not sure if I like him that way. My issue is he's not very approachable. I really just want to say Hi or just wave but he looks constipated. I successfully did so several times but chickened out when he didn't smile back. Should I just let it go? It's awkward because we've spoken in the past.

im not robbing or anything, my parents are locking my things in the safe.

I have an ex boyfriend who I once had a baby with, though we're not together, when he calls me on the phone and we're talking, he tends to tell me he's not in love with me but he has mad love for me because of everything we went through. What exactly does this mean ?

I have been seeing a man 35 years my senior for 18 months. We are both married. We see each other every night for some three hours. We socialise together and chat all day. But the strain of an affair is getting to me now

Playing games with people is childish and it's annoying. But when I don't, everyone walks all over me and takes me for granted.

So this is probably gonna sound nuts from start to end but i wanna get back in touch with my first kiss. Even if its just a convo. Shes come up over the years in conversation since i have a scar from her back in first grade. Im a senior in hs now graduation is in a couple weeks. And ive been reflecting on my life these past 12 years a lot. This person wasn't on my mind for a year or two probably but last night i had a really deep dream and everyone ive known over the years that i lost touch with or got into fights with was asking me really deep questions like how do i feel about what happened between us. And in the dream they kept asking me to look for her for some reason. So if i was gonna message her how would i even go about that? Should i even do it? And if not im gonna go to the dream section and ask what it means because it really threw me off from the moment i woke up. Am i over thinking it because its the end of hs? A lot of my friends left me over stupid drama beginning of senior year and ive wandered with a couple people majority of this year. I have to be more social in college and personally i think im just craving more friendships right now. But that dream is eating away at me.

I love my boyfriend to pieces... Hes so perfect but he has a few issues..I dont want to give up on him... I want to help him.. He's the guy who's all over social media commenting on things, starting arguments, and attacking people. He's kind of a bully.. he thinks its harmless.. he doesnt realize how badly his words hurt people... He does it to me to.. He brings up things from my past, give me something and then take it away when hes mad, and he has serious trust issues... i cant have a male friends or a private conversation with anyone without him finding something to get upset about... He also argues im wrong about things.. for example we were having sex earlier and i apologized for being "dry" and said its because my periods due. He asked me why I would say that because my period has nothing to do with why i couldnt get wet... Im never allowed to be right... i dont understand it... I also want him to understand he cant hack my emails, social media accounts, or my phone and he cant follow me whenever i leave the house... I need space.. I can never get away... I cant talk to him about this because he will cut me off and get really mad... How can I get through to him? I'm not here to have people tell me to drop him and move on. If this were my mom, sister, or any other member of my family, I would do all I can to help them. I wouldnt give up. I love him so very much. I want to help him. He's not always a bad person. More often than not, hes really sweet and caring. He just has a dark side to him. I dont think that has to define him as a person. He can improve himself.

Is there a website that could help? Would asking around on Facebook work? How can one find a long lost relative?

A woman who stays with a married man for over 15 years knowing he is married, and allows herself to be used / manipulated / strung along by him. But who truly loves him, sees him as her best friend, and remains faithful to him. Do you have a negative or positive opinion about this woman?

I was dating a much older man for 6 months. He told me after 3 months of dating that he lived with a woman. I wanted to believe him when he said they were just room mates until I researched his Facebook page. Im hurt because i was honest with him about my divorce and he lied to me. I wanted a man in my life because I needed sex . Another cheater, my ex husband cheated on me and loves another woman. Unfourtunately, the so called new man in my life lied about his so called friendship with the other women who lived with him. I think it's his wife. I decided 2 weeks ago to stop having sex with him and just speak to him as friends because sometimes I see him at work. I think he is getting the hint. The problem is that I'm upset. I havent told him how i felt because he would say that its complicated. I saw him at work and realized that I care about him. Have you went through this? I don't know if I will ever be able to trust a man again.

I'm a 17 year old girl that like girls of course & me and my ex was together from my freshman to the beginning of my senior year . I've had a lot of breakdowns about the breakup & even when I went away for military school for six months .. I still couldn't let her go . Everyone knew about her and also it messes up every relationship I try to get into because I talk about her so much it pushes the person away . I broke up with her because well at the time , her mom didn't like the fact we were together and she didn't let me see her AT ALL and it pushed me away . But now she claims she hates me and would never wants to be with me again but she's all I ever wanted 😪

Keep in mind that my parents are strict and never let me go out but one time I said i was going to my friend s house but really we went to the movies and I used up my 10 that my mom gave me for my birthday. What s a good excuse I can tell her if she asks to borrow it??

This is realy random/problems I have and a little rant...At first we were christians. Im not going to lie I hated church, and I think the fact that they forced my brothers and I to go made us atheist. Well my family were off and on again on going to church and then they started having this mixed religion. I dont even know what it is anymore, its like a mix of chistian and jewish? Anyway they didnt force us anymore which I was surprised at. I dont mind their religion as long as they dont try to force it on me. Well they go to this "study group" on Tiesdays, Fridays, and Saturdays. They leave at 6PM and come home at 12 am, sometimes 2am. They have a rule that you cant buy or go anywhere on Fridays or Saturdays. Those are the days I have off and I they let me go places but I cant buy anything (i dont have a job atm, im applying so dont say i should get a job im trying). Then they will say why We dont believe in god and I would say I jusy dont and shell say, "Its okay I know you will. Because God will give you hope. Youll see." Another problem is my mom is always rushed to cook for us. She comes home at 4 so when they ho to this study my dad will tellher not to buy anything because they have to go and I think its unfair.

My mum is typically nice if you dont get on her bad side, she is stubborn and angry most of the time and i was in her room with her on our phones and i got a bit upset on what my friends friend said about me on text, she said who is that?, i said no one and she started arguing with me like there is no tommorow. I went to my room while she was screaming bloody murder and i slammed the door at her. She came it and hit me in the eye and started slapping me. Im scared as ****. Then i told her to **** off this is my room and she slammed my head to the wooden bed frame. Now im laying in bed shaking and scratching up my face sobbing and making my face bleed. I have bruises all over my face not only from that small fight she had with me, im 14, i had a pretty bad childhood because of all the fights my alcoholic and drug addict had with my mum, then in the morning she acts like nothing happend. I dont have many friends, only 2. Everyone left me because they think me being deppressed is weird. The 2 friends i have is not the kind of friend id talk about this stuff. I have noone to tell. My best friend is my sharp nails and my iphone. Im diagnosed with not bad but not good deppression. I feel that there is more to my life and i feel more that suicide is the best way out of this situation. I have nowhere to go, my family is out in america, i never get any money from anyone. I barely eat a thing. The only food i have is and oat cookie every day. I feel that death is my only way out....

I ve lived many years going through the horrible pains. First of all, I am asian and when I was 7 years old my dad is always drunk, he would hurt my mom. When we moved to America, my dad still continue to beat my mom up and frighten us. When I move to a new house, I ve went to a new school and made new best friends, but at home there s always a problem. I argue with my siblings and my parents. But I ve always cried and cried at home. Then when I got to 6th grade, I ve had enough of this and became the girl who has a dark side. I would always curse at home, I m sick of my life. At school, I am nothing compared to home. At school, I accidentally peed in my pant, and people would bully me. I made three new friends and they have lots of friends and good family. Compared to them my life is sooo unfair. Of course, I went to church and I believe in God. I m always jeolous of my three friends because they have one thing that I want. People at school describe me as shy and quiet girl because I don t talk much. I always pretended to be fine at school but I m really sad inside. I would laugh with my friends and all those stuff but my smile and laughter isn t real. They are my mask. In 8th grade, I starting hating both God and Satan because I always wonder why do the people who had good life and believe in god went to heaven while the others went to hell. There are people who are joyful in heaven but there are people who suffer in hell. A lot have happened in my past and now. I can t tell the whole story but if you were me, you would already have killed yourself. I always wanted to kill myself, but I always know that I will go to hell, so I keep trying my best to move on but things got worser. Some of you might think my story is same as others like bulling, suicide, and stuff like that but my life is more than that. I don t know what else to do now. I am 14 year old and there are people who care about me but doesn t know my life.

I have A cup breasts and and I feel that even though my current husband says he appreciates my breasts, I still feel that he doesn't. We have a mirror that is near our bed and i can see my boobs from his view. He hardly compliment my breasts. He did mention that he liked all the size cups except Ds (it seems to me that when he does squeeze my breasts that way it looks like i have breast implants. I feel that is the image he was wanting to see) Is this NORMAL guys or what? Ive not had anyone do this to my breasts (as silly as it sounds) i would prefer a man's point of view. Thank you.