So there's this church I go to on wensday my mom went once on Sunday snd doesn't like it she says I can go in Sunday without her I don't know if I can and id feel better if she went what should I do?

I wonder does this involved in Porn like their job or most specific does they really like sex, and they just want combine having fun and making money :-)

Say I have to go to a big party full of strangers tomorrow, how can I develop absolutely high confidence by then? Also, how exactly is confidence an attractive trait, in that it causes people to see you as more than a friend or wanting to get intimate with you?

My best friend was having a BBQ with some friends of ours and he was outside in a long sleeve white shirt (like a pullover), dark jeans, and sandals. I walked up behind him and put my hands on his pecks because you can see them with the shirt on and he looked over his shoulder and smiled. He kissed me on my forehead and continued what he was doing. I walked back into his condo and grabbed a beer from the fridge and walked back outside to talk with some friends. He walked over and took a drink of my beer and said, Thanks for the drink and just smiled. After everyone left, he asked me something really personal. He said, You know the reason I like you being around me and rubbing my pecks? I didn't know what to say so I just stayed quiet, then he said, because I know your secret that you are hiding from the rest of group. I was getting concerned so I said, What secret? He rubbed my cheek saying You're a virgin who hasn't gave any man her V-card yet. I said, Now you're going too deep on this subject. He looked at me with his crooked smiled and says, Well why haven't you? Too scared to touch a guy that might want to be with you besides a friendship. I got upset and walked out of his condo. He made me feel insecure about the subject of me being a virgin. He ran out and said, I'm sorry that I was being a pushy with the subject. I said, The reason I haven't lost it was because I value myself and for you to say what you did was stupid and selfish, I thought you were a friend... not some drunk bastard who was looking for hot sex from a girl who was inexperienced and your supposed friend. I respect myself enough to cut people off too. He grabbed my hand and said, Don't cut me off. I'm sorry please stay and talk with me. I won't bring up the virgin thing again with you. I looked at him and said, You know that just talking would lead to something else or the virgin thing would come up again. Later on that night he came over and said, Do you love me more than a friend?

Me & my ex broke up a month ago, (he's 32, I'm 28), because his life is a mess & he can't look after himself, let alone have someone else to think about. He doesn't take responsibility for anything & is a bit of a loner. He says he never really likes anyone & was so happy when he met me. But it doesn't mean I don't still love him. Before we broke up he started smoking hash a lot & he gets tired from work & falls asleep so easily. He may have been depressed. He never seems to be online. I can see when he's on whatsapp & he's hardly ever on, but it drives me crazy, because I want to talk to him. Part of me wants to reach out as a friend, which seems like a crazy thing, but just this no contact, is so hard. I last told him that I want him to be happy. He says he can't bare to break up or deal with things & it hurts every time he thinks about it. He hasn't got many friends & no family around him. How do I move on & stop the urge to contact him? I know he is wrong for me, but also we were so close as just us in our own world. Shall I stay strong & just never look back?

So there's this church I really want to go too. We're Christians but my parents don't really go to church in Sunday she said we drop u off on Wednesday why can't we on Sunday. She said her reason is that church is more about political instead of like relationships in the Church. How do I convince her to go and could she just drop me off?

A few months ago, a man and a woman were hanging out around our school talking to the kids. Both of them were dressed exactly alike in some weird clothes with symbols and stuff on them. My brother talked to them a lot, and a few days later when I came home they were just leaving our house. Now my brother is acting different, and has some of those weird symbols up in his room. He keeps doing things he never did before and talks about "preparing". Well, I did some checking, and other people have joined this cult. They take kids just out of school, make them shave their heads, dress exactly alike, eat the same foods, they all live and sleep together, and they walk around in big groups while doing these weird chants. Does anyone know anything about a cult called the US Marine Corps, and should I be worried about my brother?

Any help would be great, I know that music orientated gifts are common just need some ideas be it in that area or not. Thanks...

I'm am 27 I just moved from Arkansas to New Jersey for a job. I feel like I don't "fit in" with a lot of my friends. Most of them live at home and their families are very "well off" a majority have next to nothing as far as bills are concerned. I live in an apartment & money is very very tight for me. Most of my friends are really into "high end" products. I honestly know very little about high end makeup, clothing, shoes etc. & it's never really interested me. They constantly are spending on things well above my price range. Example yesterday I went with a friend to a hair salon & she spent $125.00 on two hair brushes. I felt pretty uncomfortable I'm not exactly sure why. I kinda feel like "stupid" & I should be better at "makeup" and hair & should at 27 have a higher understanding/interest in these things. I've been watching tons of makeup tutorials on YouTube. At times though I feel like I'm trying to "conform" to someone I'm not. Any advice? Am I just dumb? Should I be more interested in "high end" things & have more knowledge as far as that's concerned? Thanks

I am 31 and my cousin just tjrned 15 and want me to be fer first time. She has been comming on to me strong. I will amit I kinda like it but I know it's illegal and wrong. I love her as a family member and as a cousin. She is only my 2ed cousin (incest) A man can only take so much.

) Age 2) Tailor made or roll up 3) Do you smoke on the way to school/college 4) Do you do sports or singing, if so does this affect your ability to do the sport or sing 5) Have you ever had a puff and passed your cigarette onto a mate for a puff 6) Have you ever smoked on Remembrance Sunday at your local cenotaph during the service or intend to this year 7) Have you ever smoked during an open air carol service at Christmas or intend to this year 8) Have you ever blown smoke at anyone accidently or deliberately 9) BOYS ONLY: Have you ever smoked during a minutes silence in a football ground prior to kick off 10) Have you ever smoked while singing on Karaoke

He said "you have nice features but would benefit from a wardrobe update". Was he being sarcastic towards me, or what? I just graduated from college, this is my first real-life job so I'm not quite familiar with the etiquette. (well I used to volunteer in college and worked at a sports camp but I guess these don't really count as real jobs). I'm polite and well-mannered to everyone at work

In a the shortest way possible, I'll explain my del-lemma. I never noticed this trainer at my gym till recent. I noticed he'd appear wear I work out randomly training others. Being near me, walking near me..always in sight of me. I'd feel eyes on me so I'd always look his way, but he'd quickly look away, avoiding any eye contact. I notice him looking at me, sometimes I'll close my eyes while I'm working out to relax or catch my breath. I'll open them and see him looking, but he'll always look away very quick. It doesn't really give me any opportunity to smile or hold any eye contact. Which puts me in a confusing predicament. Anyway there was this one time this girl was talking to him, he kept looking my way. And so did the girl. She would not stop talking to him; he would walk away from her and she'd come back and chat away. Anyway I saw this same girl again recently and she just looked at me with a smirk. Mind you the only other time this girl looked at me was when she was talking to my guy I mentioned above. So my guy came in front of me with another female trainer and started doing pull ups. I looked casually while he was doing them, but didn't make it obvious I was staring. She looked at me smiled and walked away from him. As soon as she left he looked over at me and darted into the other room. What do I even need to know from this? So confused....

My girlfriend recently just found a porn video in my phone...I don't watch it like that...but I picked up a bad habit when I was young. I was molested as a child at 8 -12 and it was from my own aunt...I Love to go to my grandmothers house because I could get away from my mom and be more free but every time I would go to my grandmothers house my aunt was there...and I really didn't know what to do...I felt trapped ...like I could never tell my grandmother what was going on...and my aunt would put on porn a lot and then I started to pick up that habit...My girlfriend broke up with me after a couple of hours...she told me to let go, she doesn't want to deal with me, she doesn't want to hold a grudge against me ... And she said she might regret it but its maybe for the best. she said there's not chance of getting back with her...and that she's dead serious which I could tell. I just never told her because she has met my grandmother and loves her and met my aunt and loves her and if I told her ..she would never look at them the same .. I feel so alone...I never wanted to disrespect her and I never want to lose her...I don't know what to do

I could live with my brother and his wife. They both have made it clear they would enjoy me there, but they are older than me, so I am faced with the same problem of them passing away eventually. I could live with another asexual in a romantic but not sexual relationship, but I have schizophrenia. I'm not a danger to anybody and am doing well and never failed to take my medication, but I'm afraid no body would want me for that reason anyway because of misconceptions about my condition. I want to adopt a child, but they would probably would want to move out eventually. I could live with a friend, but I don't want to be burden to anybody and I don't know if any of my friends would be OK with that. I would assume most people would only want to live with their spouse and would not a another person there so it would be hard to find someone willing. I could roommate, but most people would move out eventually. I don't think I would adjust well to living alone. I sometimes feel alone even with people in the house with me and need to talk to someone everyday.

I'm starting to believe so. I met someone who had gone through a tragedy & became pretty good friends with him. Just weeks later, that same tragedy happened in my life & it brought us even closer. Is this just an odd coincidence? Or much more...

I love having drunk sex with strangers. its the best lol. I cant count how many times that's happened. why is that?

I'm 16 he was dressed as Santa Claus. He touched my butt. Should I have said something? And what should I do when guys touch my boobs and butt? Because guys did that to me in the past...

Average women that don't wear makeup, talks in a country voice or chainsmoker voice, wears blue jeans and a t-shirt. Has ache and blemishes but still looks hot. Doesn't do anything at all with her hair and it is matted and dry looking. These women had been violent towards me, mean to me, they seem to have a nasty temper and do throw fists and will jump onto you and beat you up. They are rude and don't care what people thinks of them. They notibaly drink a whole lot and are openly dirty. I tried to be polite to quite a few of them and they are just plain mean and blatant. Why are these kinda girls like this?

ok, so 1. my mom made my family move almost 500 miles, away from my friends. I was popular and my old home was fun, and was nice. my new school and friends aren t the same. and everyone except for two people aren t very nice. 2. I went through moderate depression due to moving, my mom decided to move in the beginning of summer. so I had no friends for those long three months. I didn t see a point in getting out of bed, and so I just stayed there. she didn t even seem to care 3. I work so hard on my grades, I study all the time when I don t have lacrosse, and I raised my math grade tremendously, I used to have a C-, and now I have an A+. She doesn t even congratulate me, and I won an award too, I work SO HARD. and she doesn t even care, when I get bad grades she pressures me to do better, and when I do she usually finds something else wrong with me and then critiques me about that too. 4. she claims she spends so much money on me, she spends at least three hundred dollars on my siblings in fricking Abercrombie but will get mad if I want a short from like forever 21. I will admit, we are a very fortunate family (money wise) but she only spends it on me if completely necessary. I m pretty sure my grandparents buy me more stuff then her. im close to just snapping and yelling right back at her. am I supposed to be this upset or am I just over reacting? I can t tell. thanks in advance

I was walking at the hallway with my friend and i saw the girl I liked there & I was looking at her but then I looked away. Later when we pass by again at the hallway I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. When she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me so I just looked away. Then later she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop. So then when I turn around I saw her at the back of the class and she was looking at me but then later left class early

Won't admit it. Makes every excuse in the world for him but she's coming to work with bruises. They have a 4yo daughter. How can we help her?

I don't talk to people unless they start a conversation first? I am kind of a loser and not very good looking. =(

I am supposed to get married in s couple of months and now at the end of this month I am supposed to move out of my apartment and move in with my fiancé. The thing is I feel like I am putting more into this relationship than he is. Why do I feel this way? Its hard to put in words everything I am feeling..

Hi! I'm an Athiest (meaning I don't believe in God or anything), but my family isn't. Out of respect, I go to church when my parents want me to go because I respect and understand what they believe in. But that stops there. The other day, my parents were talking about sending me to church school. I talked to them about it and how I'm not comfortable being there. They started screaming at me how I should believe in God and I'm disgusting for not doing so. Now they're trying to sign me up for every religion-related activity, and it's annoying. What should I do?? And yes I've tried to talk to them, but they don't care??

My mom is a registered nurse that has worked since she graduated high school. She was a single parent that sometimes worked 2-3 jobs to support me and give me a nice life. My husband calls me a spoiled brat who had 'everyone handed to them" and says that my mom is lazy and "mooching off the government" because she retired in her 60s with health problems and has social security and pension. Is my husband correct, that she is lazy and mooching? She worked around 50 years. His mother never worked a day in her life and mooched off her husband's executive salary I told him, but he doesn't think what his mother did was laziness. he says nowhere in the bible does it say to retire and we are to work till we die