Honestly I've been trying to wait until I'm 18, but I can't do it anymore. I always feel like a nobody who does everything wrong when I'm at home. I have emotional problems and this is only making it worse. Everything is always my fault. I'm always the one in the wrong and everyone else is always right. I can't even ask for my medicine without getting yelled at. Idk how to run away though or where to go... I don't really like any of my family and they wouldn't take me in so they're kinda out of the question.

I have moved in with my girlfriend recently. We are both 21 and I've been with her for 5 years. It has been great. The only issue is her dad. He has been on medical leave with disability and has been very grumpy and seems to try and ruin others moods. Well, I have a routine after work. I go to work, then after work I take my girlfriend out and spend some time with her, then I go home and enjoy a cold beer. Well, last night my girlfriends dad saw I had MooseHead. He got super pissed and busted into our room at 2:30 AM on a work night. He asked us if we had more MooseHead. We said no, because it was a variety pack and only came with one. He said this is bullshit and I'm not playing anymore then left. After that I couldn't sleep for 3 hours and I'm very tired for work. I don't like how he feels I owe him drinks. What do I do? He lives with BiPolar disorder, yet I feel everyone has a certain degree of self control.

it s been 58 days since my computer was locked with a passcode that i don t know. i feel like it s been too long and I want to ask my parents if i can get my computer back, but i m afraid that if i do, it will increase the length of my punishment. how do i do it?

I've talked about it with my parents 3 weeks ago and told them it was bothering me and I didn't want it there, they told me that it was okay etc. I then told them that it was my body and how i felt about it mattered the most at the end of the day. I got kind of a positive answer and we talked about seeing my dermotologist.I brought it up today to my mom and she said that they didn't want to let me get it removed. I felt very upset. I told my mom the same things again and we got in a little arguement.... I'm very sad and I want to get it removed the be more confident. Why wouldn't they think this is the best for me? How should I approach my parents about this to get their permission?

When I was three my dad left me for his job, only to come back five years later and abuse me. At first it was emotional abuse, then physical. My dad abuses me, my mom wants to send me to a mental hospital, my best friend would rather be with anyone but me, and my friends leave me.

what do as a parent usually do when you see 2 boys ages 8-12 in a shoving match or a fight? do you break it up? or let them fight?

I'm moving out a few day after I turn 18 and I don't feel safe telling my parents. My plan is to bring one thing I need a day to work and store it in my locker. Then the day of my flight stop at work and grab everything (my parents will just think I'm going to work) do you see any flaws in this? And advice on the most important things to bring? And yes I have a safe place to go, I know I'll miss my family, I have a plan. Please don't tell me don't go

Okay so my parents dont fight but my dad makes up some stupid things that get my mom mad like "I hate cooking why cant you cook more. The only thing you ever do is sleep" and each time my mom tells him "i work everyday of the week until 4:00 p.m and always have work to do. The least you could do is cook." They also have the same problem with laundry. My dad doesnt work and my mom is having problems with money and we can barely pay off the house. My mom just currently got robbed as a bonus so we dont have much and were depending on my elder brother and sister to help us out My mom also currently told me and my elder sister that tonight shes gonna talk to my dad to tell him that if within two years we dont become stable she will take me an

In September my step-dad an I got into a big fight and he beat me up. He has been doing this to my mom and I for a while. After he beat me up I moved to go live with my grandparents. I don't really like living here. They are nice an all but I just doesn't feel like home. My mom and my step-dad having been moving a lot because they are broke. I know my mom would do a lot better if she moved out on her own because she can get a job since she went to college but my step-dad is a mean person and doesn't allow it. I want to tell my mom that I don't like living here and that I would rather live with her. But I don't know if I should because I don't if that would be a burden on her. Please let me know what I should do.

Like if your children live with their auntie? Can my fiance get in trouble if my children move back in?

I grew up having to put everything back in its place, get good grades, be a good kid, and my Dad critised me a lot. My Dad was the strictest father of all my friends. And he was a big time hippie until 25. But we had a lot of Gardens in back and nice back yard, and go on Rafting trips and Dads friends would be smoking pot, and when I was young there where some parties, and bowling, and softball. But he became a business man and now makes pretty good money.

He always tries to give me the idea i couldn't live without him and the only reason i have money is because i've worked for him. I just recently bought some new high end wheels for my truck that i paid for with "MY MONEY"!! but i'm thinking about maybe selling them because they rub and they're kinda hard to keep up with but i told him and he said oh no your not you just got those, and i said well i paid for them why should it matter to you and he said that it doesn't matter because the money was his money given to me from him from working for his company. (It doesn't make sheep **** from wild hunting where the ******* money came from! If you worked for it its yours now!!!) At this point i was so heated and pissed and wanted to go ballistic on him but he's way too big for me to take so i just walked off and left it at that. Does anyone else have a twisted controlling father like this? Is he desperate to have more power than he really does at this point. Im also 19 years old, a grown legal adult and working so i get the feeling he just fears the fact of not being able to dictate my life anymore. What do you guys think of it? What would you have done

I'm 16 years old and I self-taught myself to make an IOS and Android app. I'm honestly really mad at my mom for taking away something at which I could use to make our family's lives better. Here's a description: I told my dad that I didn't want to work at his store because I wanted to get this update on my app done. My dad let me go, but my mom was mad since she expects me to go and work with him every Sunday. Honestly, I don't want to work in my dad's store since I know I won't get far in life when I compare it with the app I made. I even told this to my parents, but they didn't appreciate it. I think after a while (and some arguing), my dad finally got that I'm trying to help my family out with this app, even if it takes me weeks to complete an update. Given that my mom was unhappy to see me not go with my dad, she decided to take the mouse and the keyboard away from me so I can't do any coding. I argued with her saying that I'll never get far and accomplish my goals if I l'm being punished like this. My mom is telling me that I "need a break" and "I'm wasting my time". I honestly don't know what's she's thinking because it doesn't take a no-brainer to realize that making an app takes a LOT of work. If I procrastinated, I'd never have my app published. honestly proved to her that what she's saying is wrong and she came back to me and said "please don't argue with me", like she's doesn't even care about what I'm saying. I don't know what to do now?

I am 14 years old. My parents are divorced but I am still really close with my mom. Anyway, my stepmom is always coming into my room and looking in my stuff to make sure I didn t steal her things. I always find things misplaced when I get home. Plus, she always is barging into my room. How do I keep her from snooping in my room and barging in?

I was 20 and dating an 18 year old. We only dated for a year since she left to college. We never had sex since she said she was a virgin and wanted to wait. I being a gentlemen respected it but we still fooled around of course only pg13 things. So i ended up getting close to her family and soon enough this girl started showing interest in other guys (flirting). I told her to stop many times/we fought and she still continued (a lot of other things happened i wont make this long). She ended up moving to college and i stayed home. We broke up but still remained friends. Throughout her college year i remember asking her if she was still a virgin and she said "yeah". She only lasted a year at college and decided to move back home since she missed everyone. She phones me one day after moving back home. Keep in mind i haven't seen her in more then a year. We then started to talk and i asked if she dated anyone? she said yes. I asked how far she got in the nicest way possible (aka did you sleep around). She wouldn't answer it. Instead she covered her ears and started to sing a song and walk faster to avoid my question. I ended up telling her i did and that it was only one girl. She got mad and said "ha so just one hotshot? ...one?". After this she decided she no longer wanted to see me and dumped me. You think this girl was still a virgin and was embarrassed to tell me? or you think she slept around?

I am a high school guy with a 14 year old sister that I really like and care for. She as developed into a VERY beautiful girl. I try to protect her as much as possible. When I have my buddies over for a visit they really like her also. Probably because she tells them how great they are. To her this is NOT flirting. It is just having fun with my buddies. She told one of my buddies "You are a great looking guy". "You never have trouble getting a date do you"? That really stroked his ego. She told another one of my buddies he was such a great looking guy, that he should not get married until she was 18 so she could propose marriage to him. That made him feel great for weeks. I told her she should probably stop doing this as these guys will think she is flirting. She said if what she is doing makes my buddies feel great about themselves, it is a good thing she is doing. Is it?

I love my big brother and I'd fight for him no matter what. However when his girlfriend is around he always treats me very rudely. The three of us are all in our late twenties. He lives with my parents as he just graduated college, same with his girlfriend only with her parents. I'm working and live on my own. When I go to visit my family and the girlfriend is there I feel like I can't even talk to him or he treats me like I'm stupid, annoying or he says rude things as a "joke" that I'm dumb. Most of this happens when I try to talk to his girlfriend because I don't want to be rude and ignore her, especially when SHE initiates conversation. I have nothing against her, she is extremely sweet and very nice. It's my brother who make me feel worthless. What can I do? I've called it out on him a few times but it doesn't seem to help. I thought being grown adults this behavior would have stopped, but it hasn't. Any advice? I'm his younger sister by the way.

I often hear other wives complain of their mother in laws. I just smile and think to myself how great my mother in law Sally is. Sally is my best friend. I just adore her. Since day one of my marriage to her son, she has always been there for me when I needed help with ANYTHING. I love to go shopping with her as we both have a lot of fun. Both my husband and I work. About once a week when we come home from work, Sally has a hot delicious home cooked meal for us. Working wives, can you appreciate how great that is? Sally is 43 and single. She is the most beautiful woman in her 40s I have ever seen. I hope I am half that good looking when I am 43. She is gorgeous and has a figure to die for. As you can imagine, someone that good looking gets asked for dates a lot. Some of the guys asking her for dates are close to my age. She wanted to know if I or my husband had a problem with her dating guys our age. She did not want people to think she was a cougar. I told her both of us want her to be happy and that she should date whoever she wants to no matter what their age. She should not worry about what other people think. Do what makes you happy. It is quite a complement to her that young guys want to date her don't you think? Please tell me if you think what I told her is the right thing.

She s a little satan. Extremely violent and treats everyone like garbage. There are records of her violent and manic episodes in school. She s broken my nose and throws knives at peopl, problem is that she s smart and turns on the innocent face for the right people to avoid trouble. It works, most of the time. I m literally fearful for mine and my parents lives, is there a way to have her taken away for good?

My mother is staying with my husband and me for a few days while her house is being remodeled. I am loving it. Every morning she has a hot breakfast with home made biscuits, ham and eggs. Working moms, can you appreciate how great that is. I got up early one morning and there was mom in the kitchen working. She had on a loose fitting robe and nothing else. Everything was visible. I told her she had to get some more clothes on before my husband got up. Otherwise at breakfast, he would get a b0ner and I would have to take care of him. Mom said "And how is that a problem". We both had a BIG LAUGH. I was relating this conversation to my female friends and they told me a daughter should not be talking to her mom about sex like that. It is just not normal. Please tell me if you think I was doing something wrong with my mom.

Okay so the story goes my mother left me with my grandparents and ran off, I don't know what why no one will explain it. My grandparents, as grandparents do, spoiled me and gave me many nice things. I always had to earn them via chores but I always was priveledged. Now Last year my mother came back and basically just decided after 15 years to uproot my life and force me to live with her. My grandparents have since passed. Now how is she abusive? She's taken everything I owned worth money and sold it for drugs. Gave away MY dog granny adopted for me, without any of the legal paperwork involved. (Shelter has a 'no rehoming' policy all dogs must return to them.) She constantly belittles me and even though I do all that is asked of me (if only out of fear of negative consequences) she still gets mad. If I so much as ask her a question she'll get raging mad and say how she shouldn't have to teach me. She lies to the family about me. Lies to my counselor at school, lies to my sister who is her chosen golden child. I want to say my mother is a narcissist but I don't have the right to. Lets just say she has all the symptoms, and made me her scapegoat because she was jealous. I graduate in two years. How do I cope till then? My real life support system is gone because she tore it down. I feel like I'm loosing my chance in life because I feel her breaking me, and I have never been so scared in my life. I am 16 and I want a job, I just don't know how, she fails to help me learn this skill. I know I need a car to get a job because of where I live, and she said she won't drive my lazy butt all over the place. I'm not making an excuse by adding this, I'm asking how I can get a job with no car in a town that actively denies businesses from setting up shop. Something about 'ruining the authenticity of our old new England town.'

She hates me. She's never said that exactly, but I know I'll never be the daughter she wanted. She doesn't like ANYTHING I like, and when I try to show her things or talk to her, she snaps at me, and tells me that what I like or am talking about is stupid and immature. She never is on my side for anything. She won't let me be myself, she wants me to be high and mighty, prissy, girly, bitchy, and judgmental, just like her. And yes, she said all of those things is what she wants me to be, she says that to my face all the time. I just can't be what she wants me to be. I'll never be professional and mean like her. I'll never be good enough for her. I'm her exact opposite. She doesn't like that I'm a "tomboy" and I wear men's and tomboy or androgynous clothing. She hates that I'm super skinny, she calls me flat chest and flat butt. It's true, but still. She told me I'm going to hell for being biesexual, and she told me it's just a phase, and that I'm just trying to be different. She said If I really am bi, I'm disappointing the whole family. She is constantly comparing me to my older sister, who is just like her. She said I'm going to be a starving artist, because people who go to art school never make livings. I'm 18, and I'm leaving for college out of state soon. Should I just not call her anymore? Any effort I've made to be close with her since I was 12 has never worked. She is only nice and accepting if I try to be what she wants.

I have anxiety/slight deppression It occurs because of my mom, dad, and little sister. Firstly, my parents are always fighting. My dad is a cursing machine. And my sister is always jealous of me for no reason. She says that my parents love me more than her.Well tonight, I had this dream where I had the same birthday of someone that hurt my feelings. I dont really despise them though. Anyway, a huge bday party was planned for the both of us. At the day, she was in the huge makeup room with her bff getting her ready. They were also decorating her bday cake They were taking so long. So i send one of my friends to go tell them to hurry up. So when and they beat her up and yelled at her. It was obvious that I didnt have a place at this party even if it was for me. Btw,the party is outside on a gloomy day. So im like hell no. I wont let some bimbo ruin my party. I went over to my mom who was sitting in a foldable chair. She said, "lets go because u wont have fun here." Right next to her I saw a bright green/red frog standing on a couple of stacked bricks. The frog looked in my eyes and I felt like it was saying, "its ok. Just go. U wont have fun here dear." So we went home. The next day, it was my bday again. Everybody forgot my bday. No one said or did anything for me. When i asked them why, they laughed and said "why would we? We dont care bout u". Then i saw the sake frog. I felt like it said"darling, dont fret. Stay strong." The frog then took me somewhere and we had my party.

she said they cost a lot of money I know they do but she paid like $700 for shakes and other stuff with vitamins to help her poop she lets me takes shakes but they are not really doing anything for me because I am not working out I need energy to do it I know I will if I go to the gym because my bed is not right there she thinks I won't go everyday she made it sound like she got upset when I said I will start going when I can drive and get a job she said you would have to go there a lot I said I would it's like she doesn't want me to get thin but that is all I want I hate the body I have nothing will happen unless I go

My grandsister didn't want me not to stop chewing on the curtains. But why?

I'm a 20 y/o male. i have two sisters one is younger than me by 1 year and i don't talk to her whatsoever, the other one is younger by 6 years or something, im an introvert shy as **** person, time with family is awkward because it rarely happens, but my problem is specifically with my 6years younger sister, when we were young me and my 2 sisters weren't in good terms relation with each other we basically fought and hated each others daily but my father used to cherish my sisters more on my behalf and i couldn't bear having them disrespect me like that especially being the older brother, anyway, we kept away from ea other not talking not even looking at each others i have my own separate room which i rarely leave, actually i don't go out unless to the bathroom, i eat in my room. so all these years and we don't deal with each other. lately my 6y younger sister started to be nicer and have interest in talking to me, but i can't talk to her its so awkward she says "hi" or sometimes throw a ball at me whenever i go fill my bottles but i don't know how to reply at her, its so awkward like i can't talk and i don't even want to why can't she stop this

Should I maybe step outside for a while, water the yard and maybe run to the store or to a bar for a quick drink when she's like that?

I'm going to school, working part time, helping take care of my sister, and helping out with chores around the house.

They all hate on me, mistreat me, my father controls me tries to intimidate me and make me feel afraid, he belittles me, whenever things arent in control for me he steps in right away and tries to make things his way. My mother brother and sister want nothing to do with me anymore. I'm contantly causing problems not even on purpose. we have fights daily, and im constantly having to fight for myself, which i don't even know why i bother. Ive felt like committing suicide and have told my mom repeatedly that if i did right now she wouldn't care and she just avoids the subject and walks off. she doesn't care if i were to die. need some advice

For example she has cast her cousins out of her life that are from the family of the uncle that didn't get along with her father (she says she is protecting her father but the cousins of hers are very nice). She complains when the one gets in touch because she says the woman is "tacky". Yet, she has an uncle on the other side of the family she adored and weeped when he died. He was racist, very cold, and he cursed about stuff when drinking. His kids my mother really likes and the two daughters are equally as cold (the son is nice). So she has cast out the nice cousins because their father made mistakes and likes the great-uncle from the "good side" because his ancestors were good even though he was a biggot. So is this common to discriminate against people based on whose offspring they are like my mother does here?

He is convicted of a felony and in jail. He is a bum and has hurt my parents terribly. However, on one hand I feel he is my brother and since he is a drug addict I kind of wonder if some of this is outside his ability to be aware of what he is doing. So his birthday is Tuesday and should I both wishing him a Happy Birthday or am I better off just ignoring it is his birthday because of the trouble he has caused?

My dad is always barging into my bedroom without knocking!!! It's not that I'm masturbating or have a boy in my room it's just so annoying!!! How do I keep him from coming in?

So I babysit 2 kids, one 9 and one 7. They have a youtube channel and asked me to do background art for it, and I couldn't refuse because they look up to me. Their mom isn't around much, so I babysit a lot for them, and they talk to me more than they talk to their mom or dad. Anyway, I've been studying for a lot of AP finals, and haven't had time to do any art or anything. The older girl bothers me about it. No big deal, she's just anxious to see the finished product. But then she steals my computer and tries to find the file, she snoops around everything in my computer, looks at and messes with all different files, etc. She feels like she is allowed to do this. These kids have no concept of privacy, their parents probably haven't even had a romantic moment together ever since these two came along, because they constantly need attention and need to know everything that's going on. I have a lot of important work on my laptop that I don't want anyone messing with. I know the mom won't do anything about teaching them, so how should I go about getting them to stop? Sorry for this long story, it just bothers me. Thanks for any answers?

I m 22 and my sister is 19. We both have boyfriends that my parents don t want to accept. It s not personal but they always have something bad to say about everyone. I ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years and my dad never liked him because he s from Guatemala and he looks Central American but we both the same skin color (I know that s not important but to my parents it is). My mom is semi-retarded and weak so she always seeks approval from her husband who loved being a dictator. My mom is always on his side rather than supporting and defending her daughters. The sad part is we both plan on getting engaged and married within the next year or two.. This will give my father a stroke because he cannot stand us being happy together for some reason. Also, my sister is with a white guy (which is a plus for my parents) for 6 months and my parents don t like him either because he has a beard. My dad tells people that he looks he could be Osama Binladens son because of his black thick beard. So we oviously get NO support from our parents because my dad is thick headed asshole and my mom is a weak lady that s scared for her life from her husband. My dad loves to feel powerful

I love acting asleep and letting my sister seen my hard 9.5 incher. Am I the only person who does this?

I am in college and my boyfriend leaves for college in a couple of months and since he's currently at a school which is an hour away from his home, his Mum has to drive him there. There have been a few times where I have gone and drove down there with her. We'd have a long chat and it was all around great. I got invited to a family wedding so all seemed well. I went round to the house all the time and she'd cook for me. But a couple of nights ago, me and him had a small argument so he went for a walk. He said "I am in the middle of nowhere. Crying. Goodbye." and then he ignored me for a while. I was worried, obviously, so I decided to message his Mum. I told her what he said and that I was worried and she called me and screamed something along the lines of, "If he wants to be in the middle of nowhere crying, let him be in the middle of nowhere crying." She then said "Ever since you've come along, he's wanted to turn into a vegetarian which is bullshit because we've always been a meat eating family." Also, he's always wanted to pursue dance but his Mum won't let him. She says there's no career in it and is forcing him into engineering since that's what her other sons are doing. I always tell him that he should do what makes him happy and she's taken that as I'm trying to change him so she shouted that and then said "So why don't you leave him alone and let him get his education." She has now unfriended me. I can't go to the house anymore because she is there. What do I do?

Every time I try to be positive something bad happens so then I'm always negative and never have my hopes high. I just feel like my whole life has been ****. I'm only 14 but I've gone through 2 divorces and I'm living in my 10th house. I've seen horrible things like my dad abusing my mum, my schizophrenic step dad smashing a window and smashing my mums bike into pieces (Theyve broken up now), so many fights with my parents and sister and so many nights I went to bed crying when I was only young. Everything's ok now but people at school are so rude amd I don't have many friends and both my parents are struggling with money. My sister is always horrible and ever day she says many mean things to say to me, even on birthdays and every time I'm passionate or happy about anything someone always has to ruin it. I've recently found out that my dad might be taking drugs and I just feel like the world hates me. I'm so young but I've been through so much stuff and I just feel as if the whole world is against me

I was 20 and dating an 18 year old. We only dated for a year since she left to college. We never had sex since she said she was a virgin and wanted to wait. I being a gentlemen respected it but we still fooled around of course only pg13 things. So i ended up getting close to her family and soon enough this girl started showing interest in other guys (flirting). I told her to stop many times/we fought and she still continued (a lot of other things happened i wont make this long). She ended up moving to college and i stayed home. We broke up but still remained friends. Throughout her college year i remember asking her if she was still a virgin and she said "yeah". She only lasted a year at college and decided to move back home since she missed everyone. She phones me one day after moving back home. Keep in mind i haven't seen her in more then a year. We then started to talk and i asked if she dated anyone? she said yes. I asked how far she got in the nicest way possible (aka did you sleep around). She wouldn't answer it. Instead she covered her ears and started to sing a song and walk faster to avoid my question. I ended up telling her i did and that it was only one girl. She got mad and said "ha so just one hotshot? ...one?". After this she decided she no longer wanted to see me and dumped me. You think this girl was still a virgin and was embarrassed to tell me? or you think she slept around?

Also she acts aggresive and always blaming people stealing from her?

Everyday she will call me names and make me feel down, I feel like she does it on purpose and I don't know how much more of it I can take. She enjoys my frustration and I simply hate being called a **** and a fat cow just because I'm wearing makeup or my hair is tied up messy, I'm only 13 and things like this I don't take very well, i really don't know what to do about any of this even though it's been going on for years. I've just had enough of it :-/

Lately my mum seems to be dodging me. When I come down in the morning she's usually awake first in the kitchen or something and by the time I'm downstairs she's always in a different room so I always have breakfast alone (the rest of the family are always sleeping in). Then I usually spend the rest of the day in my room and she never comes in. Whenever I ask her something she always gets pissed off because 'I can't leave her alone for two seconds' which is a massive exaggeration. We rarely ever have times to talk like we used to,and because of this it's effecting my social life because I can never ask to go out without her getting stressed and I don't like seeing her annoyed. The only times she talks to me ages always having a go at me about something. This has been happening alot latley for the past year or so..

My parents want me to lie for him but I think some truth may motivate him. I sympathize with his addiction but not with his bum lifestyle.

I had to go to the ER. I'm a young adult and felt lightheaded and dizzy and like I was going to pass out all day and my blood pressure and heart rate was high. It was at night and I asked my dad to take me to the emergency room. My mom and other family members are not around because they are out of the country. My dad was slamming the door and refused to take me to the ER. He said 'go to hell' and was threatening me! he said ' i hope you die' and said 'pay for it yourself i'm not taking you to the hospital'. He drove me there after i BEGGED him to take me, but he was cussing me out and yelling at me on the car! I was not playing around or joking but felt very ill and like my heart was very fast. He said he doesn't have enough money to pay or doesn't want to. There is a domestic abuse hotline that the hospital provides and i'm planning to report this first thing in the morning. He did this twice already. The question is, what will happen if i do report this? The problem was that he was refusing me emergency medical help when i needed it and was telling me 'go to hell' and didn't care! I HATE my dad and I'm sick of him. What kind of a sick father would do this? Wtf If your own family member is in a medical crisis why wouldn't they help? No unfortunately, this REALLY happened. This is not his house, he has no job and my mom is paying for everything but she's overseas. @Justin don't answer my question if you cannot help, YOU sound lie a troll because you are attacking me when I am talking about a serious matter here, what if you felt like you were dying and no one helped you but abused you when you were vulnerable?

I am his younger sister (he is 20 and I am 15). It s his old wrestling hoodie from high school with his last name on the back. I like it because it s big and comfy, I never thought anything of it until someone said it made it seem like we were a couple. What do you think?

I got sick at least a day or two ago. My parent didn't notice because I didn't want to be a burden. Thing is is that I ended up in the emergency room while she decided to stay at a restaurant. My aunt took me while my mother seemed in bothered when she got there. Why do I feel resentment that she wasn't there for me? Why do I feel left out when instead of doing something for me all she did was be aggressive and get mad that i was sick I've been released already with a respitory infection. So now what

Okay this is really getting on my nerves now. Me and my older sister both love each other dearly. It bond level is over 9000 (sorry had to say that). At home she teaches me and even makes food for me. She also accepts my otaku status but recently people have started to question our relationship including our aunt and uncle whose children are always at each other's throat.they are all like "Are you two sure that this is just sibling love ? We find it a little strange" or "You two look more like a couple than siblings". My sister laughs it off but I cant bear it anymore. I am 15 and she is 24. Btw we never fight. Please somebody tell me to how to get all of them to shut the hell up Nobody knows about my otaku status except my sister and yes my sister takes care of me like a mother, this is something you people wont understand and yes I don't need social life

Basically, I know this may sound bad, but I hate living with my Mum- and yes I mean HATE. My mum complains about literally everything and makes a big deal about EVERYTHING. For example, If I come out of the shower and I leave a footprint on the floor my Mum would start complaining about how "messy" I supposedly am. Then she will say sexist things like "You are a girl, you are supposed to be clean" :/ She wants me to "slim down" but yet buys junk food and I ALWAYS tell my Mum to buy healthier foods but she never listens, she buys healthy food then gives up after a month later! How on earth am I supposed to be slimmer if she buys trash food?! Don't get me wrong, I love my Mum, but I hate living with her and i disagree with most of my concepts. Uni is in 4 months and I am more than excited for it. I can finally do things that my Mum wouldn't let me do (invite friends over etc) Is it wrong for me to be this excited? whyskyhigh- If you have nothing useful to say, then don't bother.

My grandmother just got diagnosed with depression. I'm in pre-med. I really want to be a doctor, but I'm failing. I just had some issues with a close friend and now we don't talk, plus I'm in love with my ex who has moved on, I'm not eating/sleeping well and I have IBS, my hair's falling out like crazy and I'm losing weight for no reason. I'm totally stressed out Basically everything is a mess in my life which is making it so hard for me to focus Now that my grandmother is depressed, it is so annoying. I understand depression is a real disease, But my grandmom is pissing me off. All my friends are scoring so well and doing amazing things. I'm happy for them but I'm so pissed because I'm not going anywhere. Plus Nobody believes in me. Everyone around me, even my parents don't think I have what it takes to become a doctor. I'm doing this on my own and its so hard to stay positive and focused because to be honest I'm not a straight A student but I'm trying. I just have 2 months to prepare for my exam. I just want someone to believe in me and tell me that I can do this I just want to focus on becoming a doctor because that's the only thing that can make me happy but I don't know how to do it . I'm so irritated and pissed off all the time. I'm so unfocused. Nothing is okay in my life and I feel like crying all the time and i feel like I'll never become a doctor and I'll be a failure forever. I just want to be a doctor.

so about a year ago.. he was in debt like really really bad and i only found out because my mum told me. my grandmother has money but i think the value was too much so he asked my mum instead. thennn everything went back to usual and my dad still travelled quite alot as he was a sales manager. but recently ive realised that he doesnt travel anymore, made business calls or anything... hes been asking my mum for money quite alot and well... he is flat broke in his bank account cos he was suppossed to pay some bills online... it has a negative value actually. i think the relationship between my parents has become quite sour too.. i wanna help but you know men and their ego.. i doubt he will accept it if i gave him my angpao money. i really dont know how to help... hearing my mum constantly saying "aiya i have to go to the bank luh... no more money already" just makes me angry frustrated and annoyed and its like my fault.... but if its anything...im the one that saves in the family.

She is 37 and im 16 boy. She has one kid who's 10 boy too. I email her pretty much daily and I refer to her as mom. Last mothers day i made her a card and her son did too for her. I also get to use her iPad everyday to play games or watch movies. I leave my lunchbox on her desk every school day. On some occasions I ask her to bring me a snack if she could. And she brought me chocolate almonds one time and another time she brought me a almond chocolate bar! One time when i emailed her and told her about how i see her as my mother-figure and im worried she only sees me as her student and if she feels the same way. She didnt reply so I asked her about it the next day and she said she slept early that night and was a bit busy. But she said she could be my parent figure at school and she knows about my parents. I was crying when i talked to her about it and I said I feel like i have no parent figure... I think she felt disappointment for me when I did my Spanish project super duper late. I asked if she wanted to check it out when we were in the classroom after school and she said no, some other time. I was surprised because she would usually say yes. I think she was dissapointed in me as a son and wanted to discipline me by doing that. She asked later before leaving the classroom how my project went and I told her that it was pretty good. And she said "Then you learned nothing from that huh?"

My older sister is 4 years older than me. I'm 23 she's 27. I just cant stand her. I do not like her. I wouldn't say I hate her. She's everything I dislike. Just everything. we dont get along. She's the complete opposite of me. Anyone else like this with your sibling?

When I was 4 years old my little sister was born and I was so excited and I loved her so much but at some point I started to really hate her. I think it started when my parents were so focused on her all the time and forgot about me. Now I'm 15 and she's 11 and I can't stand her. My parents always want me to do things with her but I always say no because I want a life of my own where I don't want her around. Yesterday I made plans with my friends to watch Allegiant in the cinema and my parents kept on telling me to take her with me saying I'll have a great time with her and she kept on pestering me but I left without her. She would always come in my room and randomly tell me what happened to her during school and I just find it so annoying and I don't even know why she's telling me that stuff! I would tell her to leave but she just sits on my bed and looks at me. I would try to ignore her (hoping she would get bored and leave) but she just sits there staring at me. After 1 minute I shout at her to get out and she stays there. The only way I can get my point across is to hit her or to push her off my bed, and then she would leave, cry and walk downstairs to complain about me to my parents and then of course they would take her side. During lunch we were joking around as a family and then I make a little joke about my sister (which wasn't even offensive) and then she gets mad and punches my arm really hard. *continued in update...* I looked at my parents to see what they would do and they did nothing, they just pretended like nothing happened! I hit her back and then at that moment my parents sprung on me and started shouting at me about how I shouldn't hit her and then I told them that it wasn't fair that they would ignore my sister hitting me but the moment I hit her it's an outrage. They just fell silent and continued eating. When I went back to my room to revise for my exams, she came in again and asked me what I was doing when I already said that I'm going to be revising in my room. I told her I was revising and she said coooool and then sat on my bed. And I got really mad, I couldn't take it anymore. I shouted at her and told her to get out like 10 times and then she finally left but left the door open even though she knows that I hate open doors and so I shouted at her again to close the door but she didn't come. A while later I walked downstairs and my parents told me to sit down and then they shouted at me for treating her badly and being violent with her. And they told me it hurt her feelings when I pushed her away but they don't understand that she's making that up and the only reason why I push her away is because she annoys me all the time but they ignored everything I said. My dad even called me a monster because of the way I treat her! They completely ignore all the things she does. I couldn't really do anything because I'm pretty shy and that sucks! I just went upstairs and locked my room and now I'm writing this. What should I do? I can't stand her anymore! Sorry about making this really long, I just had to let this all out.

I'm so stupid I know the date of his birthday I just didn't know it was that day because I never know the date. I'm not sure about the month sometimes. What's wrong with me ?