We want to have a nice reception & ceremony, but we also don't want to blow too much of our savings on a one day event. I would be happy to do it at city Hall or eloping to Vegas, but husband to be wants something more traditional.  What did you guys end up spending? Does anyone have fun ideas on what we can do instead of a banquet hall type of venue? Or ideas on anything wedding related in general. I'm lost here, and the more I google the more overwhelming this all seems!

They're in the backyard setting off fireworks and fireworks make me anxious but when I went to go back inside my stepdad told me I was ruining the fun. What do I do?