I am a 28 year old female and I have a best friend that's 60 and I feel closer to her then I do my own parents. She has been knowing me just about my whole life and just about every time she would bring me home after we would hang out I would cry after she would leave and I would tell her that I would do that. She would tell me not to though and I know that sounds childish for me to do that but does it also sound like I am obsessed with her? 

I have a really close, best friend, we're like sisters. A while back, we had a misunderstanding and I said 'let's just be casual friends' (as in not besties), but didn't mean it. I do wanna be her bff. And we resolved the issue, met face to face, and it was all good. Then a week later, I met up with her again, but she was acting like we're not close anymore. So I asked what's wrong, and she said she felt I was distancing myself from her. I said was it because I didn't text her as much as usual (because I got busy) or did my tone of texting change (which it didn't) and she said it was none of those, and that she doesn't know why she was 'getting vibes' that I was distancing from her to become casual like we once were, many many years ago. I'm now lost and confused about why she felt this way out of the blue. Why would she feel this way? Thanks.

So, one girl who happens to be a family friend, used to help me out with school stuff and whatnot. However, she seemed to be less helpful towards me for some reason and would give concise answers to my school questions. I decided to stop asking her for help and do things myself. Two months later, I got admitted to med school and posted it on FB, (she's on my FB) but she didn't bother congratulating me even though I'm pretty sure she knew about it. Then nearly half a year later she randomly texted me around 11 pm to tell me she saw me with her brother earlier that night and to congratulate me on getting to med school (6 months after I had been admitted and announced it on FB). In that text she wrote a really nice congratulations text with a few smiley faces but I dont get it, why did she wait so long to congratulate me and why did it happen so randomly?

I really need urgent help, I cannot find any solutions to this problem. This is the story: About a month ago one of my best friends (15 and female) got in contact with someone on Instagram who claims to be a well known K-Pop star that she admires. It is very obvious that it is a fake account because of the lack of followers, the name of the account being spelled wrong and the simple logic that someone who makes millions making music wouldn't spend most of his time to talk to a random person.  Since when she contacted him I was suspicious and worried about her because she has been going through a strong depression caused by exams, oppression from her parents and bullying by other classmates, which has often led her to believe in the most ridiculous things. I and the very few friends she has have talked with her about it, very calmly at first, because we know that she needs some of that parental affection she lacks at home, but things only got worst, she started talking with this person 24 hours a day, not sleeping for multiple days in a row. Unfortunately I don't know anything of what they are saying to each other.  Things started to get worrying when he, after seeing pictures on her public account, figured out where she lives, and said that he will do a photoshoot in that city in a few days, of course making my friend want to meet him in person. I need help to stop her from meeting this guy in person. She is not bright and I have been her guide for years, now I am stuck 

To start: MIL lives in a different state, and I didn't have any issues with her before the incidents below. -My husband had a female friend that I didn't feel comfortable with at all and his mom knew that. After we got engaged, I made it clear that he was to end all friendship with her (due to stuff I found before) and his mom was aware of my feelings towards this "friend". One day, I found out my fiancé was still talking to this friend because his mom told him to "end the friendship the correct way". I felt like someone stabbed me in the chest, and I felt like his mom really betrayed me. I felt like I had no respect. That was the first incident that made my feelings start going south. -Another time, was when my family and I drove to go meet his mom. We went out to eat and my parents were on their way to meet us (me, him & his mom) my parents were a few mins late, and his mother started complaining about how she was ready to leave and what not. When my parents finally arrived, she spent the rest of the time with them basically ignoring them. She was turned towards the TV or on her phone. Didn't really seem like she even cared to meet my parents. -She ignored me at my wedding. -And the last incident was when her daughter stayed at my house and stole a gold ring from me. His mom didn't even bother to acknowledge the situation or apologize for her daughter's behavior. (the girl had to live with my husband & I, because the mom didn't want her).  So to end, am I the problem? The gold ring was my mother's, and my I feel like his mom should've just talked to me about it. His mom is also very manipulative and basically forced my husband to let the girl live with us for a few months. I feel like she takes advantage of my husb. but he's too blind to notice, since it's his "loving" mother. I have also tried talking to my husband about what's on my mind, but he also gives this lady the benefit of the doubt & constantly makes excuses for her. When I told him about her behavior towards my parents, he said my family probably said something bad to her or about her. She also ignored me at my wedding & never congratulated me during my engagement. about the female friend: she is married, and my husband is with me. I didn't feel comfortable due to him always hiding her from me. I found an inappropriate conversation between them and told my husband he should be flirting with other women like that. I am okay with opposite gender friends, but I had a problem with him lying to me about it and hiding things from me.  about the sister moving in: I didn't want her to move in, but my husbands mom is really manipulative and basically guilt tripped him into letting her stay with us. the sister is a grown adult, but doesn't want to work and is always asking for money. she also has problems with staying out of jail. his mom decided she didn't want to deal with it so threw the responsibility on him. 

If a person is quiet and don't have a lot of friends do you consider that a good or bad thing ? 

I hate people. Really I do. 

im 15 and one of my 2 good friends from middle school went to a different high school than me. i didnt really know anyone at my high school so i found that it was harder to make new friends with the same interests as me. so i dont really have a solid friend group at my school. but the other night i went to a party with my 2 friends from middle school and their friend group that they've had almost all year. i really enjoyed myself and liked everyone in the group. i was put into their group chat on snap. and hung out with them the next night also.  theres a party tomorrow that i want to go to but my friends from my school arent really into parties and stuff so would it be weird for me to text the groupchat and just say that there was a party if anyone wanted to go? i just feel weird because they've all been friends for much longer and im still new and im not sure if me hanging out with them was a one time thing or if i should wait till i get invited to something again. please help. 

Hi my friend of 6 years only wants to be friends with people because of their good looks. When I first met her that's all she said about me was how pretty I was and she cannot have ugly friends. She told me she's been bullied all her life and nobody never liked her and she barely had friends she was basically a loner. Now me I had a lot of friends but I fell out with them my friend always says things like they are so ugly how can you be friends with ugly girls I can't have ugly friends how can you do it I'm happy your not their friends no more. She was very ignorant I told her I don't friend people based off their looks I based my friends on how our vibes connect. Then she starts saying well I'm sorry you got to at least be decent looking cause I can't hang out with ugly girls. Not to be mean she's average looking I want say she's smoking hot. she always brags on how she looks better then every friend I ever had which is a lie half of my other friends was pretty also but she think she looks better then them. She also see's other girls that are very pretty and she can't barely know them but she wants to be their friend because their pretty one time she said to me we need another pretty friend it can just be us 3. I kinda get offended because these days everybody is fake but she wants another friend so bad I don't mind that but she wants friends based of their looks. If your not that good looking she will put them down and tell me things like we can't have a ugly friend. Also  I do not care about looks of being friends with someone. Also She's very insecure when she doesn't get attention or get her way she tries to dress revealing or sometimes she tries to out do me to get the most attention Like hair colors if I show her a hair color I want she will try to get a better looking hair color then me and she barely likes hair colors till I started wearing it. it's getting very annoying what should I do ? Should I still remain friends with a person like this ? 

my daughter is 25. We all went to the club together.

Hes like a friend of my dads, a guy who's done tons of community service, was a paratrooper, he did water rescues after all of the hurricanes, he was a firefighter too.. He retired and moved like way north, and he lost his dad a couple months ago and apparently the same month found out he had cancer, and we only found out on his bday a couple days ago that he had cancer, bc he was in the hospital.. Hes mostly my dads friend, so we're not like close friends but we are friends.. So what do I say in a letter, that I'm thinking he's not a writer so probably won't respond, just asking how he's doing and like so he knows we're thinking of him..? I like sending letters bc they're more "personal", especially in tough times, but I dunno what else to say in it...

There's a guy who my dad's friends with, I think he was army special forces paratrooper, did WW2 reenactment stuff, he was a sheriffs deputy, a firefighter, he was on the rescue team and went on many rescue missions like after Hurricane Harvey and other natural disasters, and probably more I don't know about...  So this guy's really popular and has a BUNCH of friends.  He was friends with my dad like since I was little, and the past year or two I was getting to know him better before he retired and moved.  He then lost his dad in May, and apparently in the same month he found out he had cancer, but only let others know about the cancer a few days ago bc he was in the hospital for his bday...  Sooo what are some birthday gift ideas for someone who's done a lot and has now been going through a lot...?  He lives hours away so I have to mail whatever I can find.. 

I don't like my body type but my roomates told me I was wrong because my other roomate has the same body type as me and they like her body.  They told me they liked her body type a lot of times and I didn't say anything to avoid being offensive.  Then I told them it's true she has the same body type as me but the truth is I don't like her body too. She wasn't around so she doesn't know.  They told me I can't say I don't like my roommate's body when she isn't around  and I should tell her what I think.  They said they discussed that and they decided they can't tell what I said to avoid offending her but I should tell her what I think about her body.  Do you think I was wrong because I said I don't like her body when she wasn't around? 

We know when she will die: soon. But how will it happen? It would look suspicious if her throat were crushed like Epstein. Maybe she can be injected with the bat virus under the guise of needing insulin or something?

Sometimes I feel like it's just me that is always losing friends. Is that a normalcy in life?

I am a very nice guy. But over the course of my life people have stepped on me, used me, back stabbed me etc etc. Constantly forgotten and ignored. I used to be depressed about this.... And I did want friends at one point. Even a girlfriend..... Now I see no point in trying to create New relationships or even friendships for that matter. Hell , even thinking about cutting off the "friends" I have now... Family I feel like distancing myself. I'll keep in touch. But I'll be in isolation most of the time. No. I don't wanna kill myself. No. I am not sad. I honestly feel this weird relief and freedom staying away from everyone. I ain't even scared of anyone just don't see the point anymore. Now before you say things like I am being sensitive and blah blah blah I am not. Most birthdays I have spent by myself because everybody was too busy and they forgot. And most of the time it was calling other people but nobody called me. Whatever lol.  Enlighten me before I enter this solitary life for good. Serious posts only please.

I need a service that fixes any personal life problems not a therapist they are trash