He's married, we're friends and he drunk texted me asking for inappropriate pictures. I didn't reply and the next day he tried to downplay his behavior...we've barely spoken since. In the past, he made a few comments and jokes but I thought he was kidding...now with the drunk text... I'm not so sure... he has been a really good friend to me but I'm not sure what to make of this situation... I'd like to forget this happened and move on but I don't think it's that simple...should I let this go or is there more to it?

I'm talking about looking like a straight up greek statue sculpted to perfection and an avid gym goer. But also a man who has balance and the gym isn't his only hobby. He makes time for family, and still eats junk food occasionally , but is mostly disciplined on his diet, but doesnt expect the same from his partner Reason I'm asking is because my best friend is like this and most women think he's gay and avoid him, when in fact he's just a really nice guy who loves the fitness lifestyle, but still goes out for drinks and socializes and eats pizza every now and then. Women gawk at his arms and body, and at the beach when we go, girls everywhere are taking pictures of him, but most women never dare to introduce themselves to him He used to compete in gymnastics and was a state champion in high school and is on the track team at college and also does fitness modeling

Because of the high divorce rate and the way the courts treat men are more men choosing not to marry?  It seems to be a legal liability.  When you weigh the risk reward issue it seems too risky 

My BF and I will be living together, but he said he would also like some personal space sometimes such as sleeping in the spare room. 

I'm not sure why she's so mad about it. Her friend came to our house and asked if I'd help set up the trampoline. I was over there for about 40 minutes. She said she thinks it's wrong I went over there without asking her. She says I've flirted with her friend before and her friend is single so she doesn't know why I think she'd just be cool with that. I'd never cheat on her so I don't get this?

I have 50/50 with my sons mother but childcare places are closed and idk if school for his will start this year. If my son continues to stay with his mom while I work on my days, will she be able to use this situation in support of her getting a more active role as his custodial parent later on? Things are good now for our son however I do believe if she can get money out of me she will try. She's does not work so she is more available at the moment. She refuses to work and lives off of the government and her new husband. She says she doesn't mind but should I pay her or something for keeping him? That's what I would do for his childcare or a babysitter. 

I have been dating a man for a couple months. He told me he was divorced. The other day he has come clean and admitted he is still married but has been legally separated for about 4 years. We were supposed to move in together but I am reconsidering. He says he wants a divorce and has sent her papers 4 times but she refuses to sign. Should I move forward with our relationship or walk away?

I never understood this, women think it's funny to publicly insult their husbands or boyfriends in front of others or to show disrespect to him when he's done nothing wrong. Like a woman will make a joke to their friends with their boyfriend or husband as their target of the joke and it is just humiliating. And it's always drunk women just cackling away while their husband sits their trying not to start a scene with his wife as she just laughs at him as the butt of the joke.

I got married at a very young age which I know it's a contribution to the problem that I'm experiencing now. I have been in a relationship with my husband since high school on and off. We finally made it official at the age of 21, I got pregnant at 22 and married at 23. We are now 26 years old and I honestly feel so bad for him. I don't want to control him or tell him what to do but lately I feel like I have. If it were for him he would rather much spent his days hanging out with friends. If we make plans he tells me " is it okay to hang out with my friends, instead." Sometimes I'll say no or just let him have it his way. When he is at home he is constantly texting his friends. I feel so conflicted because he is so good to our daughter and I. He always goes out of his way for us, takes care of us, and loves us unconditionally. I spoke to him recently and we came to a conclusion where he goes out three days out of the week to go biking or w/e it is he has planned (mainly biking and he is gone 2-4 hrs) I know that that is not what he wants and I just feel like I should leave him. I don't want him to look back at his life one day and say "I wasted my prime years being someone I wasn't and dealing with someone who didn't agree so much with my style of life."

Hello,  Thank you for taking the time to answer my question. In March of this year, 2 weeks after giving birth to our daughter, it came to light that my husband was having an affair since January of this year while working out of town half of the week.  Now to give a bit of background to this without excusing his actions... he had been battling with the passing of his brother for about two years so that had put a lot of strain on out marriage. We have two children together as well, a new born and a 5 year old boy. And struggling financially due to his depression.  When this came to light, I immanently kicked him out of the house and filed for a divorce. Fast forward to now (July) we are attempting to reconcile and come together again as well as cancel the divorce. This being said, he is still out of the house. My question is... Do I bring him back into the house even though we haven't fully fixed things? He is willing to stay out of the house until I make the decision to have him come back in. 

My abusive ex who meets all the criteria of domestic violence charts you can Google for emotional, verbal and physical abuse is 33, still lives at home, hasn't had a relationship for a decent amount of time since me. He also has an entry level job, an office administrative assistant. He was abusive towards me when I was 20-22 and he was 22-24. Meanwhile I'm happily married, live in a nice house and have a good job

She knew before the divorce was over that I was planning on moving with my family out of state. She is the one that initiated the divorce and so she had to sign and submit the paperwork to the court. It says  'While (mother) and (father) will share custody, the girls (all 3 of them, including one that isn't biologically his) will live full time with (the father). Holidays and big events will be planned in advance and the girls will be allowed at each parents house when both parents are in agreement'. The mother is now trying to say we don't have permission to leave the state because she thinks she has joint custody.  Please help. Any advice is welcome.

I just used a "When was I born calculator" and it gave me the exact same day as my parents got married. I know that I could've been conceived a few days later or or before. They were 20 and 31 if that matters.

My boyfriend promised to marry me after I told him while crying and sobbing that my mom told me bad things and insults, that I slept around (she actually used another word) and that I was a b**** because I had a boyfriend and I slept with him. She also told me I should have waited that he married me, because he is going to sleep with me until I get pregnant and then he'll leave me with am illegitime child and find another girl. I was in a really bad emotional state due to her words, my boyfriend is the one that treats me right and she doesn't accept him cause he is a factory worker (but a responsible and good guy) while I am a college graduate. While he was hugging me and consoled me he told me we will get married soon, so that we will be officially husband and wife and no one can say a thing about me anymore. I was so happy then but I felt like  he does that just cause he feels forced to not cause he really wants it

My husband is from Nepal. This means my in laws are from Nepal and speak Nepali. I know a little Nepali and of course, it's going to take time to be fluent in the language. I have a tough time saying things in Nepali to my husbands family members. They're very nice and kind. I'm very great full for them. But, I am an extremely shy person in my own American culture that, I'm even more shy with my Nepali family. When my husband video chats with his family, I get very shy and kind of freeze if I'm being asked to speak in Nepali. I get very flushed, I heat up and get sweaty. There was even a time I couldn't get the Nepali words out of my mouth, I couldn't speak because I was so anxious and shy. Of course, that is something I need to discuss with my husband with putting me on the spot to say things in Nepali but, does anyone have any experience or helpful tips, tricks, mechanisms etc to help with the shyness in using the language? Thank you! 

We're friends for several years now. We became family friends over last year (our spouses and children socialize on some occasions). He pursued this friendship from the start. Now he started to question my relationship with my husband and inquire if I'm happy and stuff. He always tries to say something about my husband that would make him look inadequate for me and my children, but act all friendly when talking to him. We never before talked about our spouses. Why now? He told me that when he met me I looked desperate to need someone and he just had to approach me to help (he's such a good soul and doing it all for me). He never tried anything physical with me, but even my husband started to notice that he inch by inch tries to push himself into our life. I'm distancing myself and my husband from this friendship, but I want to know what was he thinking to achieve? Why is he ruining great friendship? I was really happy to have him as a friend, now I'm disappointed.

Last night was good then while I was slowly pounding my wife she brought up the electric bill and car insurance and says her portion is too high? We have separate accounts and a joint checking for bills and she only puts 1/3 of her paycheck in it because I make only a little bit more but I want her to keep most of her money? 🤔 She buys too many shoes then resells them for nothing and that's my fault? 🤔 

I recently looked at my mobile plan and it told me that my husband had been sending images back and forth to this one number. I found out the number belonged to a woman  named MacKenzie Bezdziecki. I didn't freak out yet because she could've just been a coworker but I found out that she was a cosmetology student through a quick google search. She is 27 which is way younger than my husband, and I looked on her Facebook and it seems she has 2 little girls and she's been seeing or talking to my husband for over a year. I always suspected something because he stated to work out of town two years ago and would be gone for weeks without even calling me. We have a daughter and I can't believe he would do something like that to me and her. Is there anyway I can find out for sure who this MacKenzie Bezdziecki person is. If it helps her phone is located in Concord, NC. I'm very sorry for posting this without realizing how immature it was of me. I was just very angry and wanted advice about the subject, I don't mean anyone harm I just wanted to know how I could confirm if my husband was really cheating on me

Hi, me (35) and my husband (38) have been married for about 3 years and together for 4 years. In the beginning of our relationship we were both horny and sexted all day. After we started living together, responsibilities have taken over and we had times we had low libido or lost it all.  I love my husband, I would never marry someone else and he is my best friend. Also I find him attractive and yummy.  But I lost my interest in sex. It has come to a point that I think sex is meaningless and probably other people dont have it either. I sometimes see dreams of us two making love, but thats it.  That worries me a lot. I mean, it has turned into an obsession - I worry why I dont want sex and the more I think, the less I want sex. What could be my problem? Do you think it's permanent? 

We're friends for several years now. We became family friends over last year (our spouses and children socialize on some occasions). He pursued this friendship from the start. Now he started to question my relationship with my husband and inquire if I'm happy and stuff. He always tries to say something about my husband that would make him look inadequate for me and my children, but act all friendly when talking to him. We never before talked about our spouses. Why now? He told me that when he met me I looked desperate to need someone and he just had to approach me to help (he's such a good soul and doing it all for me). He never tried anything physical with me, but even my husband started to notice that he inch by inch tries to push himself into our life. I'm distancing myself and my husband from this friendship, but I want to know what was he thinking to achieve? Why is he ruining great friendship? I was really happy to have him as a friend, now I'm disappointed.

He is my children's father. I was wondering is he included in my household? We only plan to be here for a month or two. (We never married) 

My husband's sisters have always hated me. His family has always been very narcissistic.  We have been together for 17 years I am now 31 well we went to the bar for his sisters Birthday and she sat next to me all night calling me a whore and started to down me to my husband. Then a girl walked in and she started to tell him to go ask her to the table and he did right in front of me. She said no. Later he wouldn't even look at me until a couple hours later then we were dancing and his sister told him she wants you she wants you and he looked at me and called me nasty and ran to her and they started kissing. She saw I was mad ran out and he ran after her asking for her number but she didn't give it to him. I can remember all of these little details but everyone in his family is saying they dont remember and now they are saying nothing happened. He told me at first he didn't remember now he's saying he remembers and it didn't happen. He's making me feel crazy