I'm a 27 year old dude and I'm good looking,  I'm not gonna lie but I'm Really skinny with tattoos.  There's some girls at my work who are attracted to me,   But nothing ever works out.    there's another  guy named James.   He's younger (24) and all the girls stare at him like crazy,   He looks bigger and more buff.  Plus he talks to everyone and has an outgoing personality.  Do girls like him better because he loooks bigger than me????? Everyone always thinks I'm younger than him 

This might seem stupid, but being asked that every weekend I'm not home has started to annoy me for some reason. I let my roommate know every time they text me about it, but is it wrong of me to not want to answer to that? I just don't like people knowing about my business every time no matter how small it is.

I work in a tenant building. One of the tenants really enjoys hearing me talk. She said I give a kind and gentle impression/presence. She said she picked up on that from the first time we met and started talking. I had helped her with a repair she needed in her unit.  When her and I talk, she stands extra close to me. She likes the sound of my voice a lot too, saying I sound like I have an accent Today i was walking into work and she was coming back from her morning jog. She was saying how she was going to rinse off and take a power nap. Shortly after, she looked down and smiled.  She's a tenant but she's really hot. I like her. What should I do? She's in her late 50s and I'm 30. She seems like a good person, nice and polite. 

when all my friends don't do that and most likely wouldn't wanna skinny dip all in a group with me mainly should I feel diffrent like not normal

I'm a 22 year old guy. Long story short, about 3 years ago I made online friends with a girl I met from the internet. It turned out we actually had people in common in real life that we both knew. So I decided a year ago to ask her to meet me for an ice cream. It was platonic conversation, and not a real date. I thought asking someone I met online in a friend way for a date would scare her. She goes to school out of state, so it was just last week I got to meet her again, and we met for dinner. It was platonic conversation, and I wasn't able to make it "flirty". She just wanted to talk about the corona virus and her school. I've never kissed a girl and have like no experience. So here's the deal. She gives no indication she thinks I'm cute or anything. And I have the hots for this girl. I'm ready to speak the truth here. I want to meet up with her again, and be flirty with her. And ultimately, try to get her to kiss me. I don't want to spill my feelings to her. I think it's a bad way to go. What is your HONEST opinion about what I should do here. Movement in any direction is what I want. PS - she's aware I like her romantically because I've commented on her posts that I think she's cute. 

I have a 'best friend' and we had a mutual decision to be each other's sisters. In other words, we are like sisters to each other. But I've noticed many things different between her actions, words, behaviours towards me vs. that of my own sister's. There is a big issue with reciprocation between us, because I do so much for this friend but she doesn't do those things back, like my real sister does. She is very kind and helpful, but common things that other friends do, she doesn't, even though I do them for her. Does this prove that blood is thicker than water, and no matter what, even a best friend is just a friend and not a sister? Thanks.

I unfollowed my friend on Instagram after having a mini fight ( Unrequited love, me love him he doesn't). I only did that because I thought the friendship ended. Long story short we rekindled our friendship and I send him a request, he refused to accept it yet he is still following me and views all my stories without a fail. We don't talk anymore so why is he still following me specially when he is the one who ended the friendship?

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This is a very random post, but I'm posting on behalf of my friend who is in a severe state of depression right now and I'm trying to help her!!  She has an online stalker who is seriously trying to screw with her. This person is posting all sorts of things about her, making accounts in her and her business name. Anyway it's bad and she's suffering as a result. What makes it worse is because of the pandemic, she is broke, and is really trying to scrape by with her business. She has reported these fake accounts, reviews, profiles, multiple times, and they are not being removed!! The likes of Instagram and YouTube are not giving a damn. Got free legal advice and basically they said she will have to spend a lot of money to get this person off her back. She cannot do that. The time, energy and money spent with something like that will push us over the edge. I really feel for her — she's had such a bad year.  Anyway now that we've exhausted ideas, I want to see if anybody can do something such as hacking!! If you are good at this sort of thing, please get in touch with me. This is how desperate the situation has become.

I'm a 22 year old guy. Long story short, about 3 years ago I made online friends with a girl I met from the internet. It turned out we actually had people in common in real life that we both knew. So I decided a year ago to ask her to meet me for an ice cream. It was platonic conversation, and not a real date. I thought asking someone I met online in a friend way for a date would scare her. She goes to school out of state, so it was just last week I got to meet her again, and we met for dinner. It was platonic conversation, and I wasn't able to make it "flirty". I've never kissed a girl and have like no experience. So here's the deal. She gives no indication she thinks I'm cute or anything. And I have the hots for this girl. I'm ready to speak the truth here. I want to meet up with her again, and be flirty with her. And ultimately, try to get her to kiss me. I don't want to spill my feelings to her. I think it's a bad way to go. What is your HONEST opinion about what I should do here. Movement in any direction is what I want. PS - she's aware I like her romantically because I've commented on her posts that I think she's cute. 

So i asked my friend who ive know since we were like 3 out and she said no. i explained the situation to my other friend and as she explains it im not in the friend zone, im in the more inescapable brother zone. how exactly do i get out of here?

Recently I got into a pretty heated argument with one of my friends(I'll call her friend A). Ever since then I felt people being distant from me. I genuinely feel like people r upset at me for what happen with friend A. I'm confused why they r acting this way becuz the fight I had with friend A was about her bailing on me and not communicating. It did get heated at the end on both sides and she ended up unadding me. People haven't been opening my snaps which sounds pretty but that's not how they usually act and that's why I'm concerned. Friend A had drama with someone else and she ended up being an outcast almost. I don't wanna lose everybody. I told only a friend of mine who isn't in our friend group and who I trust, a mutual best friend of both me and friend A just telling her we got in a fight (that's it I didn't give details or wanted her to pick a side), and the other girl she had drama with becyz she kept oddly bringing her up. No one else know unless friend A told them becuz my other friends have no reason and said they wouldn't say anything. I feel like everything has blown up in my face and I don't know what to do:/

Is it bad that I don't ever really text my best friend and that she is the one that pretty much always reaches out to me first? And she's busier then I am by the way 

I'm very introverted now but when I was younger I was a very bubbly, outgoing child who was very talkative. To be honest though the problem was that I was so talkative as a child that some of my friends thought that I talked too much and they'd often tell me to zip it and throw away the key. However ever since I started middle school, I've become a little bit more introverted. I was also a little bit of a loner in 6th grade too ( I was bullied bad in elementary school so that was why I became a loner but I'm not like that anymore) and I'm not as outgoing as I was when I was a child. I'd rather avoid annoying others with constant blabber but I also don't like being introverted either because it's really boring. So how can I become more outgoing again without being that same little girl who always talks too much? Also I'm not dwelling on the past or anything, I was using what I wrote as examples.

people are rude fake and are a holes. I can't stand anyone on this planet. They're annoying and obnoxious. 

I am a 28 year old female and for a lot of years I have struggled with having friends and also making them and keeping them. I have been hurt a lot in the past and people have left. How do I not struggle with having friends anymore? I wish I would have never had this problem 

A friend of mine when alone with me decided to make a move on me. I was surprised and left as I did not see her that way. She apologized and I apologized through text later and she hasn't responded to me since. How do I make her feel better? Not my intention to hurt anyone.

I'm a 35 years old girl , I have a lot of love to give, I DONT HAVE and friends left Because i change 3 countries and i didnt grow stabile friendships .I have NOBODY to share my life with ,and i am so THIRSTY OF LIFE ,SO MUCH I WANNA DO.....BUT i and up doing nothing Because I'm alone.  BUT i never travel ..... :( Because i dont wanna go alone ..... NOBODY to share traveling and cinema and restaurants with ....   :(  .....I dont know how to enjoy life by myself.  So much BEAUTY in the world ...   and im missing it all Because i cant share moments with anyone

I  have a friend that seems like I've known my whole life and we're roommates as well (I'm F and he's M). Lately I noticed if we talk about anything he does those "one uppers" like he's trying to rub his success in my face. I was actually happy for him because of the life he had but lately his 'bragging' has just been annoying as hell. One day we were talking about salary and he gives this ridiculous amount for his salary. I know that for his position and this state the pay cannot be near that amount. I finally did some digging and found out that not only was the salary a lie but it was significantly less than what he said (Said he makes 80,000 when he only makes 40,000). I spoke to some friends about this and they suggest I confront him about his lying. Most of my friends and family members don't really care for him because of his "I'm so above you all" ways so I wanted to get some advice from a neutral perceptive. Should I confront him about his lying? Some clarification. I never once said I was competing with him. We would just talk and the bragging comes out of nowhere even when it has nothing to do with the conversation. And like I said we're been friends my whole life why the hell the fact that my roommates is a guy matters? Don't put all females in the same category. It's 2020 for crying out loud! Yes he works for the state that's how I was able to find it. We're not in NY but a southern state. I think he's just going through something so I'm just gonna have a chat to find out what's  going on. I'm not gonna mention the pay. Thanks for the advice

I'm going to start this off by saying this can't be answered with a simple "move out when you're 18" or "her house, her rules" .. I think she's genuinely abusing her power and control over me at the moment.  my mom was less strict w me hanging out with friends but then around 7th or 8th grade i started making friends who were caught up in drama and losing them, which really pissed my mom off and made her have the idea that i "don't have real friends" TO THIS DAY, so she doesn't take me having a social life seriously. Whenever I ask to go anywhere. even to the store by myself she goes "well who's driving you?" and guilt trips me into not taking ubers (even tho its the only way car-less teens get around where i live) bc its "i'll get "kidnapped". Keep in mind she's let me take an uber before, she guilt trips and insults me into not going places. Honestly, I'm tired of it and maybe I'm allowing her to treat me this way, I'm thinking about just taking initiative and leaving as long as I tell her where i am so she can't say no .. problem is my mom likes to take my phone for every little thing so I'm honestly stuck here. I wanna live my life but living without a phone for the last year at the house would honestly suck... She tells me if i leave then "don't come back" etc just bc I want to go to a CVS up the street. She turns everything into an argument and resorts to "you're not grown you don't pay anything" or yells over me. ik she loves me but this is toxic to me. advice? Currently, she doesn't want me working because of corona cases in my area, won't schedule my driving lessons (she paid for them already btw) until i "re-read my permit manual", is looking into me going to community college bc i "can't live on my own at university" . I'm convinced she wants me to depend on her forever at this point keep in mind i don't ask her to leave the house everyday. I have made some mistakes in the past like sneaking around her but that's literally only a result of her strictness and the way she uses everything against me. I don't think i should be held at standards bc of what I did 5 years ago!

I have gotten to where I don't talk to anyone and I don't really go anywhere. I am a 28 year old female and I still live with my parents. What is this called? I have worked in the past though 

Also hes struggling way too much in life and wants to act like a ghetto thug who has it all figured out yet has no life or a job. I also got tired of his rants about skin color. I never wanted to add him to begin with. He stalked me and found out my last name from the sign in sheet. He's not my kind of scene at all. Plus he just got out of jail.  He called me a crakka mother F, but I said all lives matter. Was this not Christian of me to block him? I explained that we are being divided by the NWO and that I'm not his enemy. I chose diplomacy instead of hostility. He said Amen, but suddenly I felt uncomfortable being his friend. So I blocked him. He was giving up on society and white people, but hes on very low street level thinking and does not want a job either.

Yesterday I just cut off my friendship of 10 years with someone. I always feel nothing positive in our friendship all we do is talk about drama, the past, and I have to lie about myself because when I have my own beliefs and how I am as a person and whatever she'll have a problem with it I always give her respect on what she does and what she believe in but I feel that I don't get the same respect and I always feel like I'm only a friend when she wants something in total I gave her over $700, but I never had got anything in return and sometimes I don't expect nothing back. The cycle is I give her money she ask and have conversation and then not hear from her for 2 weeks to a month and she wants something. She has a baby and she and her bf broke and packed up and left she live in Hampton and she told me all her problems With her bf asking for money after not hearing from her for a month and she out of the blue asked me for money and I got mad and told her off. Every time things goes wrong for her with the guys and her telling me about her having no money no vehicle and whatever the burden lies on me and I feel that I have to buy her friendship and conversation and she apologize even when she apologize I forgave but I cut her off. I never got anything positive about the friendship that we had so I wished her best of luck and happiness in life and with her schooling and cut her loose? Am I doing the right thing or should I feel bad and guilty?

I realized about a year ago he had feelings when he got upset when other guys hit on me. Then, he got mad that I told him we're just friends and mentioned that we're "just friends" with sarcastic comments. So we got into a argument and I quit talking to him for a few months. I thought he was over it but a few months later he begin making comments on how basically he's the guy for me etc. I politely turned him down each time which happened way too many times. Now I'm seeing a guy and he got upset when he found out, and he didn't come out and tell me but he was making Facebook posts about it. So I told him yesterday, that I needed space, yet he continues to contact me.  I'm beyond annoyed with it at this point. I feel bad he has feelings and have tried to let him down easy but he doesn't get the point. What do I do?

I am a 25 years old woman now. A girl who I once thought that was my friend  talked behind my back and it still hurts to this day. This happened back in 2010 or 2011. How can I get over it?

During self-isolation, a good friend has been helping me with yard projects. I know I'm saving money because landscapers can get expensive, but he gets "offended" when I try to compensate him for his time. He tells me that he's happy to be out away from his wife and teenage son, but I feel bad for the cheap labor. I've been buying lunch and gifting him with $100 gift cards that he's "accpeted". Today we removed bushes, dug out grass and laid stone for an area about 128sqft. Took about  4 hours and I'm wondering if a 50$ gift card to his favorite clothing store would be good to give him.