How do men get out of paying child support?

It literally pains me to get into his car and have him play his music. I lie to him and tell him it's good to seem supportive but it's honestly terrible. He's not good at all and I wish he would stop. I had my friend listen to his music and she agreed it was horrible. I don't know how to break it him without seeming mean . He needs to stick to his day job as a clerk 

Who are they kidding? They are unemployed but tell all their friends they are a CEO of a tech company. And they tell their wife that they make a living doing online blogging (because his wife knows he definitely isn't a CEO but he tells her some abstract title that she might actually believe instead). Meanwhile he makes no money and spends his days trying to pretend to be making money and he lives out a fake image on LinkedIn saying how awesome his company is and posting inspiration business quotes all day. He hides his welfare checks from his wife and files for disability benefits from the government so he can continue living his fake lifestyle without his wife knowing. Like wtf is wrong with these people

Is this a red flag should I be worried about him lying about something as simple as this? For the record I wouldn't have cared if he didn't buy me anything since he gives me $200 every week. I lost my job so he's been helping me with bills. It's the principle of the lying that has me on edge and concerned if I should marry him. He bought me a birthday gift it was ear buds that were $7 at cvs. He said the ear buds were extremely expensive he said they were $300  but I found the receipt for them when I was in his car I was sitting down and seen the receipt in the cup holder. I was like is this the receipt for the ear phones. He lied and said no and I was like well these are the exact same brand and the place is right next to my house. He still lied. He later told me the truth but I don't sit well with the lies. He then was like " well it's expensive to me these are expensive to me" and he was talking to me with an attitude. Don't get it twisted. I'm grateful but I'm not grateful for someone blantantly lying about something as simple as this 

I allowed a female friend to stay over for couple of weeks to our home although a lot of people said it was a bad idea, since my husband and I are still newlyweds.. but now I'm starting to regret it. He can't seem to shut the bathroom door behind him when he's using the restroom to urinate... etc... I found him walking around with his boxers once downstairs to change for work... & Last but not least, I asked him for his dirty clothes to wash and he acted like he was pulling his pants down to give to me WHILE MY FRIEND WAS PRESENT!. Am I being disrespected? I know he's very playful but I don't know what to think anymore. Should I accept this? Am I being too hard on myself? Please help cause I feel tired of all the arguments, him not seeing where I'm coming from.. making me look like a boring wife that gets mad for everything She actually pulled out her phone to record him pulling down his pants !

My husband and I are both 29 and we have been married for two years. I overheard him say to his friend he hasn't been faithful our entire marriage. Throughout the two years he had cheated on me with so many different women on dating apps that I lost count. He finally got tired of my anger and tears and left two weeks ago to "go on vacation". He returns July 8th but he now says he wAnts a divorce. During the time he was gone I found out even more about him. A girl wrote me on Facebook stating she was pregnant (but would be getting an abortion) and have me details of their sexual encounters at hotels and even IN MY CAR! We don't have kids together but I should mention thAt I found out he had a girl pregnant (she actually kept the baby) two months after our marriage. This is my first real breakup and despite everything I'm still in love with him. But I know his drug usage (cocaine) and sexual addiction, some with women I know, is not good for me or my career.  But I still can't help but think it's my fault.  He told me I was too toxic and he just wanted a divorce. He is saying this because one day he took my car and didn't come back until the next morning. I called the cops and reported it stolen after trying numerous times to get him to bring it back to me. He says that me doing that shows him that I'm toxic and that I just want him to go to jail. I just need to know how to move on. I thought he loved me but I just thought he had issues. Please help 

What is the point? The man can disappear anytime he wants to after the divorce. It is really sad. You won't ever see him again. If you guys have children together, there will always be some type of bondage with the guy. Someone who gave you children... create children with you. A special bond. But a guy who had a vasectomy, he may as well just be your boyfriend, instead of a husband.

A man who doesn't work, complains a lot and is overly quarrelsome, has a wife who works and does everything. One day the man wakes up cause he doesn't feel well. He turns up the tv and opens the windows of the room in which his wife is sleeping, after an exhausting shift of physical work. It's 7 am and she just fell asleep yesterday at 1 am. He just doesn't give a damn if he disturbs her sleep, it just matters that he does the hell it goed through his head.

His sons are good guys but his daughter follows the mother is a bad guy (Bad girl). Her argument is that he drinks too much and that he was dating before the marriage was over.  He was already separated when he was dating it's fine and his wife, now ex-wife, was the bad guy. 

I mean instead of a night dress or pyjamas or something like that. My mom only wears underwear to bed and apparently it is pretty rare.

I have a cousin who's a black male. He's 28 and he's seeing a 36 year old divorced white woman who has a 14 year son. They met at this drive thru liquor store where she works, plus she does real estate (which is her main job) They've been out on dates and eventually got serious. Occasionally, my cousin spends the night over her house (and vice versa), she cooks for him and everything. He takes her to work sometimes (when her car is down) and he gets along well with her teenage son. Nothing is wrong with this relationship, but I worry about him because I feel he's taking a chance. What if their relationship sparks racial tension? What if the teenager's dad (her ex husband) does something violent to my cousin just because he's black and dating his ex wife? I heard he was verbally abusive and an alcoholic.

My son married his stupid wife and moved 9000 miles away from me and I never wanted him to ever get married I hate sharing my son I don't know much about her I want my son all for myself I ended my sons relationship with all his other girlfriends in the past looks like he wants to cut ties with me for his wife What is the best way I can do to track my son down so that I can force him to divorce his wife so that I can have him all for myself I hope he at least bankrupts  his wife because men betray women  This isn't a troll question I am being serious 

About a month ago I saw the app Antiland (antichat) on my wife's phone, she told me she was just chatting with random people most girls in groups about difrent topics, I believe her and say that's fine have fun.  Last night I find her password so I logged in just to find out she's been sex video chatting with a lot of men, she call them "my love" "i missed you " the worst part was to see her uploading videos of her self with sex toys all naked, penetrating her self and oral too , she's all happy and excited about it.  She also talk to them too sweet. While she's been a total ***** to me for the last 2 years, when I got sick and lost my job.  I'm still jobless because of my mental illness, but I'm a stay home dad of a 2 years old baby boy.  I also have narcolepsy, she yields at me , some days leaves me alone with the baby when I cannot stay awake. There has been a few days I fall asleep for hrs while my son is all by him self.  She just started going  for 2-3 hours walks after work with the baby , but she never did it before, we been married for 20 years, I worked for 21 years making a lot of money  before I got fired, I treated her like a princess... now I got nothing she treated me like ****.   I don't know what to do , I Love my 2 year old son to much to leave, plus I'm broke.  I also have 2 older sons on their 20s  But they won't talk to me also because I lost my job.... please any advice will be really appreciated.  Thank you 

I got in a fight with my husband. We have had trouble for a long time. It was a simple fight at first bit got out of hand with both of us saying a lot that we shouldn't. I accept that I was wrong and accept my fault in it. He left during a pandemic and hung up on me when i called him. I texted him that i would like to know where he was since its a pandemic and he's safe. I also told him i felt my actions and wrds are my fault and his actions and wrds are my fault...not my finest hour I realize this. He wouldn't tell me where he was or that he was safe. He said it was my fault I made him leave when he was drinking, I made him leave our house. He then proceeded to end our 12 year marriage by text. I know i am partly at fault here, but isn't it way out of line to leave during this time and not let me know he was safe and to break up our marriage by text...i feel a complete lack of respect and winder if i am the one way out of line. I'm so confused.  Also, I am an alcoholic and quit drinking 4 1/2 months ago, I'm trying to better myself for my family and he is also an alcoholic and refuses to quit. The fight was yesterday. We faught about the fact that my husband had a friend over...totally fine btw and they socially distanced and his gf dropped off his son who we havent seen in 6 mo....i am worried about coronavirus I'm sorry but I am. I wanted my husband to just let me know they were all coming over or to pull me aside knowing I'm nervous right now as say hey its fine they are doing everything our family is to be safe since kids don't socially distance...they r kids I get it.  I didn't throw him out he left of his own free will, he told me it was my fault he left because of how i was acting. 

I heard that even if woman does not cook, laundry, does not clean the home and does not make money outside does not sleep with her husband forever, half of her husband's asset is hers. So husband promised that whether I am in a good or bad situation, he will love me forever. This is unconditional love. So half of his asset is mine no matter what happens. But my parents did not sign that they will love me if I am in a good or bad situation  So my husband loves me more than my parents right?

Parents dont sign that they will love me whether I am in good or bad condition. But my husband signed that he will love me wether I am in good or bad situation. This means husband loves me more than my parents right? Especially if a woman marries a very rich man right?

Husband promises me that he will provide my necessity whether I am in a good or bad situation. But my parents did not promise that they will support me whether I am in a good or bad one. So should I say my husband loves me more than my parents?

Ok, this is a little personal. I'm in my mid 20s and believe I'm asexual. I'm not comfortable with physical intimacy and never really met a guy I could picture having as a sex partner. I also don't want to be on hormonal birth control and other methods seem risky. Despite this, I'm happy living a single life. I've never had a boyfriend. I always feel like there was pressure on me to get married from a young age. Sometimes I go to family gatherings and the question "Why no boyfriend yet?" pops up. My mom also drops hints sometimes like she wants to live to see her daughters get married/have grandkids. She and my dad also said I should settle down at some point to have more financial security. (Granted, I don't make a ton of money, but I'm still young.)  I never had the heart to tell them the truth about me. I also don't want to come off as ridiculous in case I'd change my mind later on in life. Is there a way to beat the social pressures and handle things tactfully? I don't think any man is going to be happy in a lifelong celibate marriage. Lol.