So, it got to the point where he was accusing me of cheating when I had done nothing to prove to him that I had. The entire argument I was keeping calm, I wasn't yelling, I wasn't calling him names, I was trying to keep the argument as civilized as possible. him on the other hand.. wouldn't stop raising his voice, calling me names, and being aggressive. For example he called me a hoe (which I'm not at all), he kept yelling at me and kept telling me to "admit what I've done" and when I told him there was nothing for me to admit he'd get even more pissed. I tried to explain to him my side of the story and how I felt, but every time I try he cuts me off and just yells even more. At one point we were in public and he absolutely snapped. He yelled as loud as he could and says "YOURE A ******* LIAR". When, I wasn't lying about anything at all. I picked up my phone to call someone who could vouch for me and maybe help him understand what I was saying because he wasn't listening to me at all. And as I did that he grabbed my phone out of my hand and walked away w it saying "oh so now you wanna get other people involved and tell them our business". I tried grabbing my phone back from him and and he was shoving me out of the way refusing to give it back. I tried to walk away from him bc I didn't wanna put up w it anymore and he wouldn't get away from me, he just kept yelling and following me. I don't know if I'm overreacting, this was the first time something like this has happened.

He keeps making loud noise, and he is pissed off, and he yells at me, and hurts my feelings for no reason. He keeps banging, even if i just walk past him he will bang on the wall. He always gets extremely angry at me for no reason.  He makes a lot of lies

I met this guy online and we've been talking since 2018. I ended up getting pregnant and now I have a one year old son. I recently messaged my sons dad and we started talking again. He seems to want to be in his sons life now and says that we should come up to visit him (he lives in a different state). My parents don't think it's a good idea because I don't know him very well and we only met up a few times to hookup so I don't know a lot about him. If I did go see him, i'll have to get a hotel room for my son and I because my baby's dad lives with roommates and I wouldn't feel comfortable being there with his roommates around.. My parents are also concerned about the new environment because I live at home and my son is so used to seeing his grandparents that he'll probably not like being in a completely different area... I don't have a lot of money and I know my baby's dad lost his job due to Covid, so he'll probably say no to coming here.. I want my son to meet my baby's dad but my parents don't like the idea of me flying there to visit him but I kind of want to... Is it a bad idea to come to him or would it be better for him to come here? If I did go over there, it'll probably be for less than a week.. Or maybe a week, I'm not sure.

We went to the bar and we were having so much fun dancing but my spouses sisters were being awful towards me calling me a whore and all kinds of crap. I pushed it aside and stayed with my spouse until his sister said there's a girl for you and he looked at me and called me nasty then ran off and started kissing her. When the girl saw me she said I can't do this and ran outside.  My spouses sister yelled get her number so he ran after her and ****** her on the table in the alley way while one of his sisters stopped me from intervening. I walked back in the bar and stood by myself looking at the clock on the wall watching the time go by wanting to go home. It's like he didnt even notice me there at all until his sisters held me up against the wall in the alley way and told me if I ever told his brother they would kill me. My spouse walked out and saw them and started yelling at them and started crying to me telling me I wasn't supposed to see that.  I felt dead inside that I couldn't even say anything. His sister started crying when we went to leave and said we were going to hate her and the other sister said that I wouldn't remember and just say we dont remember and nothing happened. I have never felt so worthless and betrayed. He crys to me but I dont care. It's like I lost all feelings for him and want out I'm dead inside and he wants me to stay and I want to leave. We were together 17 years.

Growing up I always had that icky feeling from my step father. As a kid I never thought I was being molested or abused in anyway, I just knew I felt uncomfortable and wanted him to go away. Recently I've been thinking about it because recent trauma came out and it triggered me to think about my past. I was never raped or anything like that. It was always like borderline inappropriate things. My step father would come into my room on weekends before my mom woke up and would sit or lay in my bed and wake me up rubbing my back. I would tell him to go away im trying to sleep, or stop im sleeping leave me alone but he would keep rubbing my back mainly my low back in the same spot for what seemed like forever.. He would always leave by giving my neck a kiss and quietly rush out before my mom woke up. He always wanted to go on car drives with me when my mom had to work, and he'd hold my hand the entire time in the car. He made a comment once about taking me shopping for new bras and asked me if I was going to model it for him. When I hit 21 I started dating my now husband and my step father invited just me to go wine tasting. When I invited my then boyfriend and my mom HIS wife, he seemed upset and said why did you tell them, I just wanted it to be us alone. There's a lot of other examples I could give but my mind is fuzzy on them so I don't want to provide wrong information.  I'm starting to see a therapist this weekend and I'm battling with will they laugh at me and say you weren't abused. Its weird what he did but not abusive. I struggle with accepting that what happened is abusive. What are your thoughts? Are my feelings valid that what he did was abusive? It makes me sick to think about it, just remembering the way I felt and how desperately I wanted to escape. Thank God it didn't go any further than it did. Thanks for your time and answers.

I propose a week vacation,rent a house by a beach/lake. She teaches summer school online, I ask her if she can do zoom lessons from another house, provided it has internet. She imminently gets uptight about going, defensive/clearly annoyed.  "I have to pack my laptop, props for my kids, stuff for our baby etc."  Instead of explaining to me that she has a case of props she uses for zoom she yells it/gets pissy. Then says "I'm not traveling during a pandemic".  Not flying I get, but renting a lakehouse and social distancing opposed to our house where we have been for 5 months sounds a lot better to me.  I don't see a difference safety wise, not going to a covid hot spot.   I calmly tell her I want to go do something this summer, as a family, and she just yells, "then go by yourself, just leave" etc.  Storms out of the room.  After about 20 mins I go downstairs to talk to her and she just ignores me and tells me to f off. Then she insults my mother calling her retarted for getting her nails done, and calling my brother retarted saying "who knows where the f he goes" also calling my friends the same for having a 5 person bbq, tho everyone is responsible.   Prior to this she suggests visiting her family, who owns a liquor store, has been open everyday during corona,has been in contact w more people than we have seen. But thats ok, a lake house isnt.  

I have no contact because of her cruel behavior and have no plans to. But if she is the only surviving sibling when I die would she get my stuff since I have no kids or could it go to my older siblings kids (assuming the older siblings have died)? Just wondering hypothetically. 

They have a long history of using me against others. A few years ago it was an aunt and even though I am an adult living on my own they got mad when I saw the aunt because I am not supposed to speak to her since she is hostile to my parents. Then it was in-laws of my Mom's she had personality clashes with. They tried to make it difficult for me to see them and thus caused me anxiety at holidays. Since I have anxiety disorders they use that against me and say "it is your OCD making you see your aunt" when it is good will and the OCD part is what my parents made, not others. I have an uncle getting divorced and so the family hates his now ex-wife. His daughter won't talk to him. I don't want to be in trouble when I see his daughter and am pleasant or if her mother is with her then his daughter and ex-wife. His daughter has a grandparent who is ill so I suspect I will go to the funeral for their other grandparents (probably just the viewing) for my cousins' sake when this grandparent of theirs dies. My parents will be livid because I will be associating with people hostile to the uncle. So how do I respond when I get used like this?

We have plenty of Tupperware.   Can she not make the effort to put stuff in it?  Drives me nuts.  Now when I'm cooking i have to transfer the stuff to Tupperware and clean the measuring cup when it could have gone through the dishwasher.  And don't dare say I can do the dishes.  I do the dishes 90% of the time!

 She is jealous from me because i have do an exploit : 6x0 score on a verry populary pool 8 game How can i make her reason and come back like we had been because we were in love And can you give e some advices with your own expérience in this kind of relations? thanks

Last weekend me and my family had a huge argument. After that we haven't really spoken over the phone, including my mum (I don't live with them) I messaged my mum today saying I might pop down but she replied 'it's going to rain'. I usually go and stay on the weekend at my mums but since nobody's talking to me, should I even go? I don't want to turn up and be ignored. It seems to me like they've all planned to stop talking to me to be honest. Shall I go on the weekend or just carry on with my life 

I went to visit my mother for her birthday 12 hours away. I'm staying for a month until I have to return to work in August. I'm so miserable here and I'm not doing ANYTHING. My mother has a "schedule/routine" I feel like I'm in the way.  -Everyday from 7-9AM she watches the news & yells at the tv  -from 9-10 she exercised  -then she takes a shower  -then around noon she eats BREAKFAST  -more news on tv  -lunch at 2  -more tv (soap operas) till 5:00 -cooks dinner  -more tv till bedtime  The few friends I have here are all working. Listening to the news all day is literally making me throw up. LITERALLY. I can't listen to it 24 hours a day I just can't it's making me ill. I sit outside alone all afternoon by the pool or I stay in my bedroom and sleep all day. I'm becoming the laziest form of myself. I realize it's only 2 more weeks but I think I'm going to have a mental breakdown. I want to go home so badly. Would I be wrong to cut this trip short? I've cried so many times I'm sick of the news it's a SICK obsession with my mother. 

I kind of fear that I'm turning into the liar but he always instruct me to lie for him

I always thought grand parents were supposed to be the fun and loving ones. my grand parents get upset when I use my phone apps at dinner. My parents are on their phones tooso m parents don't mind me using my phone at dinner.

This year has been so awful I cannot take it. I don't think it will get any better. My parents divorced and my Dad is already dating so my mother gets mad when I see him. My sister won't talk to him. Our grandfather died in April in NY from COVID-19 and even though he was at the end of his life we didn't even get to go to his funeral because only 10 souls could attend and he may have lived another Christmas had he not gotten COVID-19. I can't go anywhere because my mother is scared to death of germs from Coronavirus coming into the house and I kind of understand her concern. I only can see souls via Facetime and Zoom. We had to watch the little funeral they did have for my grandfather via YouTube. I envy my cousin who got to be the 10th person since he was the closes grandchild (grandson). How do I stop wanting to die? Even if things get better the memory of missing my grandfather's funeral and this bad year will never go away. I am not going to kill myself because I was taught in Catholic School you can go to hell for that. However, I keep hoping to get Coronavirus and die from it or a brain aneurysm thing (whatever that is). My parents had a bad marriage and always fought and yet I miss them being married and my mother gets mad and trashes my Dad when I say this. She says I can see my father as long as his girlfriend is not there after Coronavirus is over.

I am 18 and live in Ohio I recently moved out of Dads house to a relatives house 2 hours away and I had the police escort me to my Dads to retrieve my belongings and he refused to give me my tax returns, social and birth certificates, along with my money that I had stored in my room money I made on my job. I started working at 16 and saved every penny of it bought my clothes and paid for my phone and bill with that money I never put it in the bank now he claims its his. I am 18 and also my Dads house is a bad situation I had the police, counselors and even my Dads own family tell me I should move out and my Dad always would drink and was very violent he went and picked fights with many people and he even killed our cat when I was younger with his shotgun. I moved out. What should I do  The police even said that Dad is in charge of the belongings I take when I move. I went with Mom in her Chevy truck to load my stuff up and had the police escort me in but they didn't really care that Dad has my money I worked for and my tax returns along with my Social security and Birth certificates. My home town is a small quiet rural community with about 4000 people and we only have 5 officers around. I moved hours away on a relatives farm. What do I do I did change my mail address but he is also holding my mail back too. but I did contact USPS.

I am 18 I live and am from Ohio I grew up in a small tiny town of about 4000 people for 18 years. My Mom and Dad got a divorce because my Dad was physically and verbally abusing my Mom he actually hurt Mom so bad that she had to go the the Emergency Room by Ambulance a few times. Mom and Dad met in their 20's Mom is 55 and Dad is 56. They got a divorce when I was 2. I recently just moved out about 4 weeks ago because Dad is controlling and he kicked me out and was trying to get me on a disability and tried to get guardianship even though I have very mild Autism I have had a job since I was 16 worked and saved my money opened a bank account bought my own car and insurance I payed with the money from my job and payed my own phone bill (prepaid). My Dad has gotten into lots of arguments and even fistfights and he even hit someone with a copper pipe on his farm while drunk and he drinks all the time. He verbally, and emotionally abused me and he lies and he has a record of making false police reports and he called the police on me constantly and than fought the police because he called over everything me, neighbors, even called on McDonalds for a wrong order one time and that town only has 5 officers they all know him. now I live 2 hours away in another Rural area and Dad is now calling the sheriff on me and is making up lies about me. I am currently living with my Mom and another family member and we all have jobs he calls late at night and is making very harsh lies about me. What do I do about this I don't want to be arrested for a false report He calls on everyone and me. My Dad is also trying to contact each one of my friends and lying to them saying I talk behind their backs and even harassing my old job when I lived in my hometown that I quit 2 weeks ago. He even called and claimed that I was at his house when I am living 2 hours away we only have the Sheriff and state patrol up here too What do I do about this I don't want to be arrested for a false report. 

What is my half-aunts half-sister to me if the half-aunt shares my dads mom, and her half-sister shares her dad, and my dad doesn't have any relatives associated with my half-aunts half-sister here's the equation Michelle Drew Geoff= same mom= Karen Lynn Parmeter/ Micki Michelle Geoff=same dad=donald Geoffrey Carter/ Michelle and Geoff are brother and sister / Drew=different dad=William Eugen Carter / Micki=different mom / Micki's dad is Don, (not related to my dad) (unless there was Mormonism going on), Micki is Michelle and Geoffrey's half-sister from don and my dad doesn't have any relatives associated with my half-aunts half-sister just my half aunt (who has her half-sister's genetics) my dads and his dad had the same last name which was the same as my half-aunts half-sister's dad (that's why I suspect Mormonism) here's another equation Karen Lynn Parmeter married ed (my step grandpa), had Julie (my step-aunt), divorced, married Donald G Carter, who fathered Michelle, and Geoffrey, divorced, (don had Micki during his next marriage) married William Eugen Carter, who fathered my dad, and never broke up

I want to smoke in my room, I can't open a window and smoke because my neighbor will tell my parents because he's always outside.

What is my half-aunts half-sister to me if the half-aunt shares my dads mom, and her half-sister shares her dad, and my dad doesn't have any relatives associated with my half-aunts half-sister

We are actually childhood friends... Since we were six I moved away and then last year we reunited and he was so amazing since then now since his dad just got out of prison things have changed.. He spends 247 with his unemployed,bum of a dad who acts more like a bad influenced friend than a father and when I want qaulity time I'm jealous and I'm trying to push his dad out the picture. No that's not the case at all but I'm a woman who has needs and I also like doing things with the person I love.. We use to go to museums we use to build things together or go for walks and even have bonfires he never does any of that with me any more and when we do make plans its verbally out loud infront of his dad and when me and my fiance's time comes his dad always magically has something he needs his son to do or calls his son away. I let them have their time but his dad doesn't give us our time as a couple. Anyways getting back to my fiance he never makes time for me anymore then he gets mad and calls me names and stuff when I get upset about him making broken promises. I wouldn't get mad but don't say something and not do it. I'm a honest person and I would never lie,cheat nor steal let alone give someone's hopes up ESPECIALLY the ones I love and care about but everyone I need opinions on why he is acting like this like I said above he didn't start becoming like this till his dad got out OPINIONS PLEASE NO JUDGMENT 

I'm just asking because I don't think every family is like my family.

I'm an adult by the way. So I don't really have to do what they say. But they make me anyway. They say they don't care if I'm an adult.

Sometimes when really pushed ill say a true but hurtful comment but I never yell and I try and fix the problem if I can.  I've never had an argument with a friend or SO. only terrible fights with my family, all of whom have rage issues like my mom.  

My parents got divorced back when I was very little for some reason that had nothing to do with their relationship, but all was still good. They still live together. But in the past few yrs things have gotten very rough between them. They disagree on many things and end up arguing, they blame each other when something happens, when one of them isn't home the other one bad talks about them and complains about them to me. Also if my dad buys me something to be nice, my mom will get angry and yell at me for some reason. My dad sleeps on the couch to avoid my mom, but won't move out because he wants to be with me. The past few months of quarantine with them have been horrible.A long time ago I asked a question similar to this but the answers I got were to move out, but I can't because I'm not 18 yet, almost though. And my parents won't let me work so I've got no money saved up to move out and no family around that I can stay with. Is there anything else that I could try?

My man s mother told him that she thinks I was talking about him because when she said his name my sister kept blinking. When I got angry because his mother was causing problems he said " she comes first " then said I can get out if I m going to bash his mother. His mother also put naked pictures of women on our porch and called us and said they are special and we had to open them. Then she kept saying to her son " haha

I live in Arizona and I work for an agency. Last week before I booked my shift I asked if there were any covid cases and my agency told me no. This morning I get to work and the facility has three covid patients. My agency said that I could still work but just not with the covid patients. Is it safe to do that? I do have a seven year old, don't want to bring anything home to my child. Although the residents who are positive they do stay in their rooms but the other employees come in and out. What should I do?