My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months and I'm already mentally drained from arguing so much, about big and little things and I'm seeing so many red flags.  He has a very dominant personality and I'm the complete opposite, so if I ever I want to make a decision that he doesn't agree with he constantly badgers me for an answer as to why, then gives me every reason as to why my decision is not going to work eg. it's going to hurt him, there's no logic to it, he says things like "I don't want to see you if you're gonna think like this" (this I know is bs and he just says it to get his way because if I agree to not see him, he just changes the subject). I want to break up with him but am so reluctant at the thought of being interrogated again. 

My girlfriend is physically stronger than me. I can handle that. The part that felt a bit disturbing is when she admitted that she prefers me cause I am weaker than her. She wants to be dominant over me. Not just with sex but everything else. 

So this guy wanted to come over to hangout at my apartment BUT my roommates aren't okay with bringing people over so what should I tell him !!!!??? Without sounding lame or like a downer 

Idk if I'm overthinking lol but this kinda made me happy. Today I was talking with a guy who I dated last year and we really liked each other like we would flirt hard and it's almost cringe reading back over some of our old texts. He called it off because we go to different colleges. And we had a rocky road after that  Anyways we hadn't talked in 8 months and I had just texted him a few days ago to see how he was doing and the convo ended up continuing because of both of us. He mainly dragged it on though. So today we were talking about gifts and I said I felt weird accepting or getting gifts and he was like "I remember that 😂" and I said "remember what?" And he was like "that you don't like gifts" and he knew that because last year when we were dating he wanted to give me a birthday gift and I kept telling him I didn't want anything ( he got me something anyway ).  Idk I thought it was cool how he remember that especially since it was a year ago and plus it was during our relationship. Does that mean anything?

So I work at a supermarket and there is a cute girl and I think she may like me. She will always smile at me and we once locked eyes. The thing is this was all like 4-5 months ago. Before the lockdown. Anyway now I have seen her twice since the lockdown and she smiled at me. And the other day she looked over at the see food part where I work then look away and then looked again. The thing is I don't work the days she does. It sucks I was only working that day because the other guy was sick. And also how would I even talk to her like she was putting fruit out and she was facing away from me like it will be weird going up to her and saying want to go out or some crap like that. I only walk past when I go for my breaks. And the thing is if I did make small talk with her I will have to get her number because I might not see her for ages. I'm not sure when I will see her next. How could I talk to her? Should I swap shifts with the other guy and try then knowing I have to talk to her because I won't see her for a while or maybe even never? I tried do to do this the other day and it was the most stressful day I was like looking over at her department trying to time it to walk past when she was there and failed all of them. Maybe she is just friendly and doesn't like me who would know. What can I do?

I was at a convenience store and the cashier mentioned that every time I see you I always seeing you wear your work clothes (I work somewhere else). Why did she say that for?

Hello, I really need your advice. I am a college student, 23yo I've been with this woman "Annie" for 9 months now. To be completely honest, our relationship started with her being my mistress (BDSM), but over time I got to know her, and I developed feelings for her. She says she loves me too, and I chose to believe that because I think she could be telling the truth. She had another sub that I knew of, he was a nice guy. Some months after our initial agreement another guy appeared, one of her old subs. I got sad because of it, I think I had developed some level of attachment by this time.  I worked hard on making my peace with her having two other subs, both of which were her favourites (she literally said that. I think she was just trying to hurt me with this, but I could be wrong). Then she had some issues, family related, and I was there for her. I offered my help and I did everything I could to make her feel better. She overcame those issues, and she started treating me better, she also started showing more affection towards me. She started telling me how much she loved me, and I was flying sooo high! Our relationship had a wonderful development over the course of 3-4 months (during the time we were self-isolating). She would play video games with me, we would chat all night. It was great. Then I had some awful family issues, with my grandmother passing away because of the virus. She was there for me, kinda, I wish she had been more present. But she was supportive. A few days after that my birthday came and I wasn't feeling too good. I have struggled with depression for quite some time, and everything that was happening just wasn't helping me. She was really understanding. I started to feel better, but I noticed she had changed the way she behaved with me. She started being cold, and it seemed she wasn't really interested in me anymore (this was a few weeks ago).  She said she had been busy and if she was cold it was just because she didn't have time. But I had given her so much of my time. I feel guilty about this because my grandmother lived with us, and sometimes I wouldn't be with grandma because I'd be texting Annie or doing something else with her (this is entirely my fault). I had some board exams for which I had to prepare a lot, and I would find the time to see how Annie was doing. I never neglected her because as a woman I know what it feels like to have someone not give you the importance you deserve. So I really tried for her I think I got a mistress because I wanted someone to look after me, someone to take care of me. Because I had been through a bad breakup and I wanted to feel good again. So anyways I asked Annie if there was something wrong and she said no. She said that simply she had been busy, and she was sorry for treating me that way and that she would try to change. She also reminded me of how much she loved me. She said there was no one else, and that she was grateful for having me in her life I have had some trust issues because of things that happened to me in the past.  And I doubted she really felt that way about me. Like, I was thinking she only saw me as a slave, and I was being an idiot for thinking she could see me as her girlfriend. So I created a fake social media account, and I befriended her (pathetic, I know), and I asked her if she was single. To no one's surprise, Annie said she was single, and that the reason for it was that she hadn't found the right person yet I discovered this yesterday. It hurt me so much. Not only because she was denying me, but also because she said it without giving it a second thought. If someone asked me if I was single I would say I wasn't. I would have replied that I was in a loving relationship with a wonderful girl.  But she didn't.  And it got me thinking if all the sweet stuff she told me was true.  Does she really love me? Does she really think I am good enough for her?  All those times she said she was grateful for having me in her life. That must've been a lie too. :( I have tried to end things with her at least twice, but she says she'll try to be better and that she really cares about me. "I'm sorry, I can't let you go". She has also begged me to stay with her.  So the last time I tried to break things up with Annie I promised her I wouldn't leave unless she asked me to do so. That's why I had been asking her if everything was alright While she was telling a random guy (the fake profile) that she was single, she was texting me (the real me) telling me how much she loved me.  After that, I closed the account and tried to make sense of what she had said. Somehow I managed to control my sadness. A friend of mine told me it was my fault and that I had set a trap for her, so I couldn't be mad about this thing.  But after 9 months of me loving her, I thought I deserved to be at least sad. I pretended everything was fine, and smiled So, I was hurt by it, but I tried to think about other things, to not make a big deal out of it, and also because I love her so much I don't want to miss her.  She had been telling me about this toy she wanted me to buy. One that would allow her to play with me via Bluetooth, using an app that allowed her to control the thing (a sex toy). And I hadn't gotten it because it's a bit expensive for a college student. But I had been considering getting it just to please her, and so that she could be a little more involved with me and our time Sometimes it seems her mind wonders when she spends her time with me. So I was talking to her about some of the features this toy has, and she knew all about them. I asked her how she knew so much about it (she doesn't have any toys of her own).  She answered that one of the guys (the favourite sub, the best of them all) had one of those. And this just destroyed me. I can't stop crying  She told me she had left the other two guys  That I was the only one That she had been so busy lately, and she had so little time she couldn't take care of other people. So she chose me and she chose to spend that time with me. Because she cherished me and loved me so much But it's not true, right? She just wanted me there because she loves the idea of someone loving her  She doesn't love me She is just using me the way everyone else does  And it's my fault because I put myself in this situation She said "I haven't played with him so much" ... "using that toy" I can't do this Every night I'm in hell because I don't know what she's doing or who she's doing. I don't want to love her anymore

These always happens to me whenever I see my crush I get really shy that I cannot get near them. My legs start to shake, I start to sweat on my face, and  I cannot focus. I  do act normal with other people.  I cannot control myself  I want to be in a relationship, but it is not letting me overcome these fear that I have with people that I am attractive to.

You ever have something that feels just like sex but it's not? I know people say "this is better than sex" when it comes to amazing food or even scratching that itch on your back that you can't reach. I had an odd experience one night, it felt good but it was very odd. Me and my boyfriend at the time we're hanging out in my college dorm and we decided to take these edibles, now it took a while for them to kick in, but when they did there was no warning and we were both sky high. Not knowing what to do with ourselves we went out to the student center at my school and tried to play pool, we soon realized that it was a bad idea because of the high, like we were in a euphoric state of mind. After realizing we were too high to be in public we returned to my room, this is where things get interesting, we have sex and that's normal and all but while we were cuddling and falling asleep he starts scraping the bottom of my foot with his big toe, at first it seemed odd, and then I found myself being aroused by it. He started scraping this one part of my foot that almost had me believe that I could've came had he kept it up, now I genuinely feel that something was unique about the experience cause we were high, but I know I can't be the only one who has experienced this kind of footgasm, ladies please tell me about something that has been similar or if you have ever experienced the same feeling! I'm curious to read who else has had these weird sexual feelings from non-sexual acts.

It is not for dating purposes, so any age does not matter.

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sexual ~ keeping the sex alive romance/love ~ really caring about someone partnership ~ getting along on a everyday way

On Friday my boyfriend and I had an argument that was detrimental to our relationship and I needed space. For about a week I haven't seen him and we haven't spoken on the phone as much. Yesterday he called me and asked when he can see me, I told him I miss him and want to see him this weekend but I would like to take a step back from the relationship (we've only been together 2 months). I live with my parents and he lives alone, so I told him I don't want him to come over, I'll go to his house. I also said that I don't feel comfortable sleeping over but would like to spend time with him at his house, I'll just go home after. He demanded to know why and I said I'm apprehensive so I just want to spend quality time with him until I'm comfortable enough to spend the night and let him continue a relationship with my parents. He then said things like "well I don't know if I even want to see you if you have that mindset" and "that's detrimental to the relationship" and  "you're now putting doubt in my mind and making me uncomfortable" and "why can't you consider my feelings" we ended up arguing until 2am and I was so exhausted and emotional that I just gave in and said I'll spend the night. He's the one that f*cked up and hurt me, shouldn't I be allowed to have my way when it comes to what I'm comfortable with?? 

Its been happening since I started high school I get so shy whenever I have a crush on someone. Before when I had a crush on someone I would talk to them and kind of flirt with them. Now I get so terrified that I cannot even approach them, it got to the point that its hard for me to get on a relationship. When I see my crush my legs start to shake, and I don't want them to see me. I don't know what should I do I want to be normal, are there any suggestions that people want to give me?

I have pretty big boobs, so I'm used to guys paying attention to them, especially since I'm surrounded by horny teenagers. It also doesn't help that the shirts for our school uniform are super expensive and I can't afford a new one, so I end up wearing this old shirt that's really small and tight, especially around my chest. It's to a point where I can barely move around without a few buttons popping open. I have this guy friend who I've caught staring multiple times but never pointed it out. I've always ignored it since I'm so used to guys staring at my chest, but he seems to do it more than anyone else. He never seemed to stare until one time a few buttons on my shirt came undone without me realising, basically exposing everything. He was the first one to point out my shirt was undone, and I appreciated that he told me instead of just staring, but while I was doing my shirt back up he clearly stared the whole time. Now it seems as if he watches out for if it might come undone. Whenever my shirt comes undone, he's the one to tell me. Again, I appreciate that he tells me instead of just staring at my exposed chest (even though sometimez he does just stare into my open shirt) but it's happened so often that it makes me incredibly uncomfortable that he could just be staring at me waiting for that quick glance of my exposed chest to come up. Should I talk to him about it or just leave it be?

They're just incredible. I wish I could date one. I love them 😩

I am a 17 year old girl and well i was in high school i was walking the halls having a conversation with one of my friends. I have been friends with him since 2nd grade. We were Climbing the staircase when he pushed me against the wall and started kissing me. I was shocked and he started reaching down my pants. I pulled his hand away and told him i had to go meet up with friends but he pulled me back. This continued for a few minutes and i continued telling him that i had to leave but i never told him no at the time because i was scared and it all happened so fast. I now avoid him as much as possible and i feel bad am i over reacting?? I'm trying to figure out if i should press charges we are both minors but that doesn't matter right?? I feel bad because i had a great friendship with him but now I'm terrified of him i even have nightmares about him now. What do you think? 

Okay so let me start from the beginning... About 2 weeks ago I went to a friends house who lives in shared accommodation with a bunch of Indian guys.  One of these guys joined us in playing a few drinking games. That night I could tell he was staring at me a lot. When leaving he gave me a hug and asked for my number. We've been texting small talk on and off.  Couple days later he texted me out of the blue and asked if I wanted to party with him and my friends. Again, that night, I could feel him staring at me again. We were playing dares and one of mine was to get on all fours and have everyone slap my a** he was very hesitant and shy about (I know this is a bit tmi but I'm trying to set the scene lol)  The next day he texted me and asked if I'd come over and smoke a joint with him, he told me that night that I was his first gay friend and asked about my coming out story.  Just yesterday he called me and said that he saw me while I was walking to work, he just wanted me to know that I guess lol.  So all my friends think he's secretly gay from what I've just said. I find him very attractive and sweet, so I wouldn't refuse if he did come onto me.  So I'm coming on this to ask what you guys think? I know he could just be really friendly, but I want the opinion of others (rather than my friends) he could just be really friendly. But I think after growing up in India, he might not be as confident coming out based on where he came from.  So, share your thoughts hahah

Me and my bf been broken up for a while. It was a messy break up. He's very done with me. But sometimes when I'm inside of my house I would look out the window randomly and catch him Waiting next to my house or passing my house.. just staring at it.hes like a bear . The big bad wolf coming out when nobody is around eating all the trash

This man has been telling me how he likes me and how he wants to have something with me. Yet I see he's following some half-naked model on Facebook. Why do you men lie and pretend like you like a woman when you really don't? Are you really that pathetic? I think it's really stupid that you lie and pretend to like us. 

How do I fix this without looking like a thief? I didn't even think twice considering my package was supposed to be delivered and so I automatically assumed that was the one and so I opened it and it wasn't my stuff so I check the name and it's someone else's stuff. I feel HORRIBLE. How do I fix this without looking like a bad person I didn't have bad intentions?!?!?!?!

I guess I should of seen this one coming because late nights he would get calls and texts but when I would ask him about it he would say work so one day when he was sleep he got a call an when I answered it it was my mom I tried to sound like him to see what she would say and well we all know how that went so I hanged up and confronted him about it and he lied again so I told him to open his phone and when he did I snatched it an ran in the bathroom and I saw a bunch of dirty things I couldn't believe it but then he got mad at me for answering his phone he had the nerve to say ¨If you would've had answer my phone nun of this would of happened¨ so I just kicked him out the house and its been 3 days and he won't stop calling and texting me telling me how sorry he is .. So should I makeup with him and let him come back or find somebody else?

and we never even dated. Did you forget all the people you loved so far? How can I forget him? Is there a way? He is on my mind for abut four yrs. I think about him all the time

This guy I've been occasionally seeing recently told me how he has feelings for me and wants to be something one day soon. He's told me how he was with someone for 3 years and got cheated on which made her hurt for him as I have trust issues as well. Recently we hung out and some girl messaged him and he said it was some old lady from Omegle which ended up having the same name as one of the girls he hangs out with who he went to school with. He says these 2 girls are in the same friend group and he only likes them as friends but I don't feel that way. He also mentioned how they're the pretty popular girls and it's like ok? So what am I a loser?? He was screaming at me when I asked him if he felt anything for them. He just has been acting sketchy and says all these lovey dovey things it's confusing. It just makes me uncomfortable I don't hang out with any other guys and if I did I know he wouldn't like that. Am I letting my trust issues get the best of me? I just want to prevent future heartbreak 

I've started talking to a guy I dated last year briefly again. I was hoping I could check up on him and that things would maybe work out this time. Before you judge, he just started lurking on my Snapchat out of nowhere and I just asked how he was doing and the conversation ended up going.  yesterday we just happened to be talking about my roommate and he was like "at least you have her" and i told her how she caught a bunch of stuff that I didnt and how i wasnt street smart and he was like "like wym??" and then he was like "yeah you do lol" and put the laughing emoji. Then i told him how she protected me from a scammer and told me what it was then i told him how there were times where guys would stare at me and flirt with me (lowkey was trying to make him jealous) and she would make a big deal out of it. and he was like "yeah she's a good noodle"which everyone knows shes nice but kinda hurt my feelings because I took it as he was kinda flirting with her a little bit but I just tried to assume he just said that because she was looking out for me. He's never tried to talk to her before and doesn't talk about her a lot. Still I thought he'd like me. He was teasing me a little yesterday and kept dragging the conversation and asks me questions about myself but like today I was on delivered on Snapchat for 4 hrs. he barely gets on there and said he was training. when he finally answered he still sounded enthusiastic and dragged the convo like nothing happened. I rlly don't get it.

So this girl I met online the other day I been taking to and on the first day she was very much texting and fast replying now she takes longer and only texts me when she's free like if she's out doing stuff I'll get one text throughout the day hey. Plus last night we talked on the phone for a hour or so and then she went to bed but I thought I would get a good morning text but I guess not just a Snapchat and I replayed and she left it on open but she does that then she will text me later on. I have brought it up to her and just told her how I feel and she said I was overthinking it I just want to know am I wasting time is she playing games? she just recently got out of a relationship a week ago but she told me she's over it???

For the past year I thought my guy friend liked me because I'd catch him staring at me a lot, and he'd always smile at me (none of my other guy friends did that). Anyway, we started texting more during quarantine, and I told him that I liked him and that it was ok if he didn't feel the same way. He never said if he liked me back or not, but he said that he really wants to hangout with me a lot and see me more. A few weeks later I went to visit him (I don't know if it was a date though. He lives 4 hours from me). Anyway, after our "hangout", he told me that he wants to hangout again and will try to see me before the semester starts. I texted him when I got back home and he said, "glad you're home safe! I had fun today!" I haven't heard from him since then, and it's been almost 2 weeks when we started texting more, he told me that he was a bad communicator. Since I'm the one mainly initiating texts, I decided to not text first to see if he'll text me, and nothing so far. When I do text first, sometimes the conversations go on for hours, and sometimes he leaves me on read or the responses start getting short. So I'm assuming he's not interested. I just wish he would've told me

I really do love her and want to be with her. She gives me this feeling of being wanted by her and I enjoy making her happy. We've been friends since kindergarten and been apart for 12 years and it just feels like I have fallen in love with her all over again. I love the way she strokes my back when we're in the pool together or if we're going somewhere, she's stroking the back of my hand with her fingers. Deep down, I can't picture being with anyone else but with her and I love being happy with her beside me. The problem is that I'm scared to say I love you to her without ruining my friendship with her. I know that I can give her all that she needs but why can it be hard to say I love you to the only person besides my family that I'm in love with them? 

answers ??..

I have this sound in my head from a show or video or something and it's this guy forcefully saying "yeahyeahyeahyeahhhhh" and I can't remember what it's from. Any ideas?

What I mean is how can I connect with her and have good convo so she would want to hang out?

My exboyfr left me and i was okay with it. It was somewhat mutual. I didn't cry or beg for him to stay with me so it's been about 4 months and he's dating someone else. Which I'm fine with. We broke up on good terms that's why i wasn't upset. But he contacted me the other day saying he misses our friendship then asked has any guy tried to talk to me yet. He sent me selife's of hisself and then asked me to send him selfies back. He then said "i still love you sweetie"

Disposable masks are horrible for the environment and washable ones still have a carbon footprint.  So question for all the eco warriors, if you love the earth, Will you stop wearing masks?

I had this strong spiritual connection with the man I've been with for 5 years. Our relationship started off very strong and intense, something that many of you may not have encountered. In the third year of our relationship it became a complete downfall, he became very toxic and jealous. He started manipulating me, controlling me and verbally abusing me. A year passed by and we haven't been together since, though we still see each other because of the bond and love connection we have plus our son we have together. Ever since that year nothing has been the same for me. I notice I dwell more of the music and past memories how it use to be rather than thinking of a future with him. I'm afraid nothing will better itself if we continued our relationship. He's tried to change but sometimes he shows a bit of himself being the same man. I can't go weeks without this man I'll lose my mind! He also won't let me go either. I'm stuck between wishing how it used to be and thinking of the terrible things that was brought to me from him. Am I moving on or am I afraid to continue things? 

This women and I had an intense connection last year and we were starring into each others eyes for a couple of minutes and then we disappeared from each other. This women posted on her social media about our connection saying why do people keep disappearing from her and how attractive I am and then in her recent interview this is what the person said on another one of her interviews: I also have this feeling inside of me when I am attracted to a woman where I'm a little scared to hit on her because I don't want to be too aggressive or too scary or to make her feel the way that men make me feel when I'm hit on unsolicited, you know? I'm just looking for a genuine connection. I'm looking for genuine love. I'm looking for genuine respect.

So we had PE at school so we were all getting ready in the changing rooms, and I saw this popular girl with her phone out sort of pointed straight ahead. I thought nothing of it, and went about my day. A few weeks later I see a group of my guy friends all huddled around this one guy so I went over to see what was so interesting. On their phone was a video of all the girls in the changing room getting changed of course, and I was in the video. I immediately got embarrassed and angry with my friends for looking at that so I forced him to delete the video. I asked how he got it and he told me the popular girl had been selling the video to all the horny boys. Apparently I was late to this party because all the girls had already turned on her and she planned on moving to a different school soon, so she probably did this to earn some cash before probably never seeing any of us again. Most of the girls have pointed out getting different looks from guys and some even getting touched inappropriately more often. Is there anything I can do to stop this or will I have to wait for it to blow over? Should I stay friends with my guy friends even though they were looking at that video?

I dont have my voucher yet and I want my girlfriend to live with me. She bounces around on jobs so she doesnt have a steady income.

So I told my boyfriend I got a bonus at work.  He asked if we can use the money to pay his car insurance. First of all, I don't use his car. Second of all, he barely spends time with me. I told him I couldn't give him the money for it ($130). And his attitude changed. He started being kind of mean to me saying "I'm so conceited" and "i didn't deserve a raise" but I ALWAYS pay for him I even paid his car insurance last month.  He acts like such a jerk when I tell him I can't give him money for drugs or pay for HIS responsibilities. 

i'm 13 almost 14 , and the whole quarantine has really made us miss eachother , he met my parents once and his parents won't let him come over again unless i go to his house and meet his parents. i don't know what to tell her to let me go , she's very mean and does not care about my relationship but i want to make her care and have a heart for it , we've been dating for 8 months already almost 9. please help 

me and my best friend are kinda possessive over each other in a healthy way. I've told her if she wants me to not be this way,to tell me and I'll stop..but she says she doesn't want me to stop. She is the same way with me. Is this ok? 

I'm 20 going on 21 soon and have not lived life at all. Never had a boyfriend, never went on a date, never had sèx, never had my first kiss. Never went to parties, never went out with friends, never traveled, never done anything. Always home and I was homeschooled due to being bullied and having anxiety. I've fell in love with a guy from Sweden that is 9 years older then me, he's never had a girlfriend but many hookups, he's had his fun been to many places with his friends or family, plays football, has his own place and wants something serious. He likes me a lot and I like him a lot we don't want to lose each other but the thing that bothers me and he's had his fun with going out with friends, parties, crazy sex stories especially having somewhat of a threesome even tho he only had sex with the one girl. Point is he's had his fun and I haven't, I want to have my fun but at the same time I truly don't want to lose him I mean the thought of that is scary and I just can't picture it. It's like a part of me gets jealous to think he's done those things and I haven't, I've kinda lied about my past so that way it doesn't look so boring and depressing 

and your testosterone is through the roof? As long as the man is built like Arnold Schwarzenegger and is a SEX MANIAC.