My BF said when we move in together, he would like me to stay the same way....such as not asking him where he is going, who he is meeting with, etc. Is it good to give some privacy? He doesn't want me to ask to see his phone. 

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Why is my marriage on the fritz?

He has had many bad things happen to him in the past year, along with our separation. The problem is, its been a year and I am ready to file divorce as I have met someone I am interested in having a future with. I wasn't totally perfect, I threw things sometimes when I busted him cheating but the last straw for me was when he choked me in front of my kids for accusing me of cheating when I didn't. I don't want him to become suicidal or homicidal but I am ready to move on and just co parent with him and love him from a distance. I already have a restraining order and he has a visitation schedule that he follows until recently when he got sick with covid. How can I present this or should I just file and not say anything? In his sick twisted head, he cannot accept that it is over. 

He sems to not be Christian. I stopped liking him.

They are mad at me for not hating her. They are mad at me for not hating her I'm not about to go seek her out for a friendship or anything but I don't see why I have to hate her and boycott events for my cousins that she's at. For example my father was furious when I was going to go to the wake for this person's Mother because it's the grandmother of my cousins. So I agreed to boycott it but I felt really bad. Especially felt bad because two of the three cousins came to the funeral when my grandfather on the other side of my family died two years earlier. So like I said I'm not about to go visit her or anything but I just don't like being being instructed to hate her and boycott things for my cousins because she might be there. The one thing I do dislike about this woman is that she uses her kids as pawns against her enemies and yet my family does the exact same thing to me. The family is super loyal to their own so they see the wife is 100% at fault in the divorce.  I don't buy that as my uncle was incredibly cruel in verbal abuse to her when I was growing up even though he did soften in the last five years of the 16 year marriage after their 1st separation.  He's also an alcoholic who works on and off at recovery and the ex is an alcoholic also.  Anonymous: why is this spam? 

Why did God create men and women to procreate?  Why can't we pregnate our own self? That way we don't have to marry, divorce, share custody. We can just each have our own child. Raise the child the way we want to. Not have to live with someone and trying to customize.

Lately, I was watching these people talking about saving their virginity. I am a 27-year virgin, female and after hearing what they had to say, I feel like I wouldn't want to give up my virginity until I am married. I just would wonder if I told a guy that I wanted to keep it, would guys leave me? I was raised Catholic but not devout like going to church. I know it's rare to not have sex before marriage but I don't know what I should do? Should I lose it while dating or should I wait? Where would I find guys with the same moral values? My dad is Catholic and my mom Christian and they didn't wait. They dated for a long time though for about 8 years then got married

What is that? Do 2 people outside of marriage need to help provide for the child?

I want another baby and currently separated because he hit me and dragged me down the stairs then spit on me but I want another baby but don't want to have baby with another man. So what should I do I don't want my baby to grow up alone. Oh and he choked me 

Like he basically worshiped you and treated you like a queen and loved you selflessly

Keep in mind I am NOT implying any sort of "gold-digger" motives here, but instead am referring to a man who really loves her. Let's say she has a son. What if his mother dies first? Is it really fair for him to be stuck looking after his stepdad who he met when he was 40? Of course, this is assuming he has no family nearby.  Also, wouldn't her estate go to her husband instead of her son, and wouldn't the house be his?  Or can she arrange for everything to go to her son (or half for him and half for her husband), despite being married at the time of her passing? Also, is "all" or "half" for her husband really fair, considering when she met him? How exactly does this work? Is she making a bad decision by getting married, or is he on his own if she dies first? 

I'm 33 and got married 10 years who. My wife had multiple affairs so we divorced when I was 26. I met my now fiancé she's 31. She wants a big wedding because she's never been married before and has a very large family (11 sisters and brothers) I really don't want a big wedding because I had a very extravagant wedding with my first wife. My family spent a lot of money to come to the wedding and I feel silly asking them to come to another large wedding. It's really upset my fiancé since this is her first time getting married. Is it selfish of me to put my foot down and tell her we will not be having more then 75 guests. She has a 250 person guest list. That's too much for me especially given it's my 2nd marriage. We had 350 my first wedding which I thought was absurd. What do you think? 

The typical redneck stereotype is all that women in Mississippi like, most women are married to men who wear overalls, haven't shaved in years, drive a tractor, are overweight, missing teeth, and have a high school education

I had one when I was 18 with my first boyfriend he is not involved with my son and the 2nd I had at 28 with my ex husband. I am still young and can see myself having 2 more. How can I deal with potentially having different fathers for all my children? Going back to ex is not an option. Money is not an issues as we are all succesful and don't qualify for any type of public assistance.  Should I hang it up or give it a shot and just accept I will have 3 fathers for my kids?

Hello everybody, One situation excited me. A former colleague (66 years old) invited me home to cook together and I can spend the night at his home. That was actually a big surprise, as we hardly entertain during work. But I found him very sexy and always wanted to be seduced by him. I knew he was divorced and I live alone. I am also a man myself (27 years old). After I quit (after about 6 months) I wrote to him for the first time and just wanted to say hello, because I couldn't forget him and chose an excuse. Then suddenly he called me and immediately invited me to home, to cook together and I can spend the night at him. My heartbeats were at the top. To be alone with him at home and stay overnight (a dream). I have a lot of thoughts and I don't know what will happen. Did he mean a romantic evening, or sex? Or I shouldn't have any hope. Thank you in advance for your answer.

My wife was diagnosed with PMDD. It's so sever that for a week out of the month she can't even take care of our kids. They are actually afraid of her. She's the kindest, most laid back individual for 3 weeks out of the month. She works hard, she a great mother until a week before her period then she becomes a lunatic it's gotten progressively worse after our 2nd child was born. The doctors tell us there's nothing they can do. They've done bloodwork, they've tried antidepressants nothing is helping her.  She has put her hands on me countless times during her week prior to her period, she curses at me, she curses and screams at our kids. As soon as she gets her period it's like a light switch and she's back to normal self. It's like I'm dealing with a wife with a mental illness for a week out of every month.  want to be there for her but I can't take it much more. Our kids are now 8 and 5 and they see what's going on. I never wanted to raise my kids in a violent household with lots of arguing. She cries constantly about this. I'm considering filing for divorce. I wanted to get the communities opinion on this latter. I've spoken to my wife and she cries and apologizes profusely.