Like if he could make gourmet food

This guy I've known for a year we want to try being together in a relationship once he gets done trying to get custody of his daughter.  He told me he was going to Nebraska for a few days to hang out with an ex from many years ago and her family.  He told me before he left  "I'm leaving now but I want you to remember I'm not going to do anything bad because I like you too much to mess up. You are too special to me plus my religion I'm not going go do anything"  But I don't believe that because this girl has been blowing this phone up for the last few days.  He gets very private about his phone.  She called him and he walked to the other room to talk for a few mins.  He says they're just good friends Am I wrong for not being ok with this?  I'm not friends with any of my ex's. 

Hay una mujer con la que e charlado y pues. Empece muy seco pero sin ser tan directo y pues empece hablarle de cosas corrientes que yo hacia. Y le decia cosas normales. Que como le va. Que que pereza que llueva y cosas así masomenos después empezó con el tiempo hablar mas conmigo y me pegunta que donde trabajo y claro yo le dije trabajo. Campo Rubiales. Si le dije lo que era un. Obrero un trabajador juicioso normal y. Pues se a tornado la conversa mela. Se a empezado a interezar por este socio y que la vaina pues es que que yo vivo en un pueblo y ella vive en villao. Y pues ya hicimos la primera video llamada si pillan y pues la busque en Facebook y no esa hembra esta muy buena mas buena. Que todas las mujeres que conozco y conocí y ya no se. Pues hay vamos. Que hago como para tramarla me compro una moto KTM o Yamaha yz 250 f y le dije que tenia un lote esquineto camos aver que pasa esta un 10 para relación 10 10

My family keep asking if I have a problem with food eg I turn down food and have lost weight but when they ask if I don't like eating and think I'm trying desperately to lose weight they have it all so wrong, if I eat anything I go into almost a trance and eat to the point I'm beyond full so it's actually the opposite of not wanting food, I'm scared I'll want all the food....is there a name for this? I can't literally take much more it seems easier to just starve almost 😔

We have been together for 3 years. We agreed in the beginning that we would have no kids, no marriage no buying a house together. He had two miserable realtionships that gave him his sons who are half brothers with a significant age gap of 10 years. We had always been careful and I use the calendar method. Before anyone freaks my gyno recommended this method as I was one of the unfortunate who suffered from blood clots caused by the pill that landed me in the er coughing blood put of my lungs from the multiple pulmonary embolisms I had. I also have no insurance so I couldn't afford paraquard. Condoms were a no go as my gyno doesn't want me using them due to lichen sclerosus. Look it up its terrible it's also very advanced. She said the condom rubbing against me even with proper lubes can catch and RIP my super thin skin. Under her guidance I started the calendar method 2 years ago and once a year test for 3 months straight to make sure my calendar is correct and we were not sexually involved during fertile times. Now I'm a week late and scared to tell my bf as he doesnt want anymore kids. I haven't tested yet as I want him to be there when I did. How do I approach him with this? I love him and I'm afraid I'll lose him. He is a loving stable man and I'll understand his reaction wouldn't be positive I dont think mine will either as I planned on no kids myself. I'm terrified of being like my abusive parent that I grew up with. 

How do I know if I'm meant to wait for God's timing for new what's coming up or am I meant move on. I'm married at the moment been for 8 years everything was fine and all but I started to feel the downside and felt life has no definition now a days. I feel lost. I've been through a lot of places. Some places stabled until needing to move out to a new location. Me and my wife have our place. Recently lost my dad which is my wife's dad but I conaidered him my dad because the great connection we've had. Of all the things I have gone through I've learned to move on. Recently came back to a location me and my wife where with her parents to start with. Due to her mother is alone from the passing of dad. Been here since then.  Not long ago since moving back to the location with her parents. Seen this girl for 3 times that I have seen her we have hugged. Sure she may have meant it in a friendly manner. I have noticed that I felt like being hugged by someone even though no one is around. And it reminded me of this girl. My feelings for my wife have deminished and the love I had for my wife isn't there anymore. I talk to my wife once in a while but not often knowing that I don't miss her. I pretend to miss or tell her I love her so she won't figure out what's going on.  I have no idea if it makes any sense but I'm trying to know if what I'm feeling is a sign waiting for God's timing or am I meant to move on.