Friends: Question: My "friend" called me unreasonable and I that shouldn't be mad. Should i not be? |
- Question: My "friend" called me unreasonable and I that shouldn't be mad. Should i not be?
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- Question: Why was he surprised?
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- Question: Why didn't he just leave?
- Question: Is my friend really my friend?
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Question: My "friend" called me unreasonable and I that shouldn't be mad. Should i not be? Posted: 08 Jul 2020 05:54 PM PDT My friend and I were working on a project for about a month until her parents do not want her to any more. She claims she told me right away but I had tried contacting her before for a week and had not got any response. I find this odd because we had fairly good contact before and I found out she was hanging with a friend(but she didn't have time to check a text?) I was upset because we put a lot of effort and I would had to completely restart. We got in a bad argument telling me I had no reason to mad at her. (Question 1)Should I have not been upset/disappointed? I contacted her amonth later trying to resolve things saying I can't continue on with if we r not on the same page and having stuff hidden from me. She constantly said I'm blaming her for everything, that she hasn't done anything, im being unreasonable and ridiculous. I also talked about other issue I had in that convo. I constantly felt like she was just not listening? Am I unreasonable?????? |
Question: What did my BF mean? Posted: 08 Jul 2020 04:21 PM PDT Was talking to my BF and we were talking about how its been a while since we last saw each other and I said me: We just miss each other being around <3 him: Yeah, I'm sure of that babe. what kind of response is that? |
Question: Why was he surprised? Posted: 08 Jul 2020 04:01 PM PDT My BF and I had an argument and he was saying how he doesn't need me, etc. I asked him if that is true and then he was silent and looked taken back? After we made up, he said to not mind the negative stuff he said. |
Question: Am I wrong for stopping my friendship? Posted: 08 Jul 2020 03:41 PM PDT Two days ago I got into a really big fight with my friend concerning politics. I didn't want to fight, but she had begun to threaten our mutual friend because of his politics. (Told him to F off, thinly veiled death threats, DOXXING on instagram ect...) I told her that that was f-ed up, she called me a white supremacist and said I was a privileged *** (Not even white but OK) and kept going on and on about how BLM is the only right way and anyone who doesn't support it is evil, blah blah blah... Long story short, I told her that she's wrong for doing what she did said goodbye, and blocked her on every social media platform. I know for a fact she was in the wrong, but did I handle the situation correctly by completely cutting her off? Quite frankly she showed me how little she cared about her friends, but at the same time I don't know if she was just overly politically charged. Do I try to recontact her or should I let sleeping dogs lie? |
Question: Did I lose my best friend? Posted: 08 Jul 2020 03:31 PM PDT My best friend and I have been friends for 10years. She's 27, I'm 26. Throughout our friendship we've been vocal about our lifestyles, choices and other things friends share. I moved out of my hometown 4 years ago. Usually we text each other almost everyday if not busy with personal lives. Lately, since the pandemic I feel I'm seeing her true colors. During the crisis I lost my job. On her end her job was still intact & not disrupted. Pre-quarantine we shared a lot of how our day is & checking into each other's mental health. Afterwards I've noticed her distancing herself which I figure due to life. Completely ignoring me texts.There was also an incident where I told her about my relationship (venting) & she made a post saying "my lashes are longer than your relationship" I asked her about it and she told me it wasn't towards me yet the post was right after we got off the phone. Fast forward to now & the ignoring of messages I brought it up to her & she told me she's been checking with her mental health and I told her the same and that I apologize if I ever drain her energy Or make her feel a way. She then responds negatively saying I am displaying "typical (my name behavior)" and that I haven't changed since I moved and I'm playing a victim? When all I asked was how she's doing and if she's fine? She also said I was negative towards her this year when I've complimented her many times about her growth & how proud I am of her. |
Question: Why do muscular guys always get challenged to a fight? Posted: 08 Jul 2020 03:27 PM PDT Why do muscular men always get challenged by random men to a fight on the streets? Why do muscular men always get picked on in high school? Why do people want to fight muscular men so badly even though they don't stand a chance. |
Question: Should I cut off my friend ? Posted: 08 Jul 2020 02:45 PM PDT I usually struggle with speaking up for myself and I've never really cut someone out of my life before directly but I'm starting to consider it now. So last year this one friend and I hung out a lot but this year we rarely did cause of our schedules and the last time was last month and it went well and they said they wanted to hang out again and last week we tried making plans but they haven't opened/answered my snap in 5 days but I know they are on the app and send streaks AND they're on their phone. But at the same time I wanna make time for my other friends but I see them more often that I do with this friend and I can't cause I'm waiting for this one to respond.This isn't the first time they've taken a while to respond and usually they're like "oh I'm busy" but I'm starting to highly doubt that cause I know they're active. I'm starting to feel like I'm a last resort friend and I really wanna call them out cause our friendship feels one sided and I'm sick of it if they're not gonna put the same effort... It feels like they're avoiding me on purpose or something and I don't know why cause I literally did nothing wrong. I'm just scared to cause drama or something |
Question: Did my Dad cross a personal boundary? Posted: 08 Jul 2020 02:39 PM PDT I am 24 years old. I live separate from my parents. I vented to my dad about a social problem of mine, which I feel my friends have no ambition and I feel constrained sometimes. He has offered to get me connected with a friend of his who volunteers for things (so I could meet different people). He had previously offered and I said no. I told him no this time as well. This time he went behind my back and asked her to message me. I did not reply to the message as I did not wish to participate. My dad cornered me twice in situations I could not leave to make me respond to her. Finally while sitting at my brothers baseball game he said "I want you to get out your phone now and I want to watch you send this text. He told me what to write, read it over and sent it. He told me that I was making him look bad by not responding. (When I told him not to contact her in the first place) I realize that he is pushing me towards " my best interest", but regardless if it actually is... is crossing personal boundaries? |
Question: How is your good friend? Posted: 08 Jul 2020 12:38 PM PDT |
Posted: 08 Jul 2020 12:27 PM PDT I know they will get offended but I don't really trust any of them and I just want to move on from it all. Should I do it or no? I will NOT be adding anyone from my new job on social media. This was my plan originally but people guilted me. Not anymore. Business and personal is separate. Again theyre just not trustworthy. Very caddy and I just don't want to be associated with them. |
Posted: 08 Jul 2020 11:45 AM PDT Well she goes to gym all day and she dress really slutty but her face is fugly She has an ugly huge forehead A big hooked nose Thin lips Ugly teeth Stupid face shape Are all of these guys crazy???? Because too many guys flirt with her Wtf???? |
Posted: 08 Jul 2020 11:42 AM PDT My ex best friend is a really mean person and a b*itch so i think she deservers that behavior from me |
Question: How do you let go of a friend who betrayed you? Posted: 08 Jul 2020 09:04 AM PDT I'm 24f and I met a guy last year around this time. We had a friends with benefits relationship but we were friends more than we were FWB, or so I thought. He wasn't much of a friend at all. It's a long story but he betrayed my trust. I gave him multiple chances to make things right. He not too long ago texted me after 5 months of ghosting me. He just said "Hey :)"...as if everything's normal. I have ignored his text but I think about him often. I want to just forget him and move on but it hurts knowing that he betrayed our friendship, and losing a friend just sucks in general. |
Question: Would you join the lonely hearts club band? Posted: 08 Jul 2020 08:03 AM PDT |
Question: Getting hard to be close to friends during a pandemic?? Posted: 08 Jul 2020 07:51 AM PDT A friend of mine approached me a couple weeks ago, disappointed that we haven't been in touch more often. She's more of a video chat and in-person type and I'm more of a regular phone/texting type. Right now we can't get together like we used to and she HAD Coronavirus 3 months ago, so she doesn't want to be around crowds anywhere. It's been hard to be close to her like we were before the pandemic because so much has changed - and it's not about me drawing away from her. Also, nothing is actually going on in my life to talk about since life is pretty much on hold and I have nothing to say on the phone. I'm also NOT a video chat person and she loves it. Has anyone else's friendships been effected by this pandemic somehow? In addition, my friend is a big drinker, so we used to go out to bars ect, which we can't do any time in the near future. |
Question: What were you doing at 24? Posted: 08 Jul 2020 01:36 AM PDT And your friends? Did you see changes in friendships etc? life? |
Question: Are they worth my time? ? Posted: 07 Jul 2020 11:59 PM PDT These two "friends" of mine have been people who I've been for through thick and thin. They know all of my deepest and darkest secrets. I had a mental breakdown and texted them literally as I was going through it. When all was said and done, they left me on read. I apologized after bc I realized I was kind of spamming them and being annoying. They left my apology on read. I've tried saying hi on social media and talking to them since then multiple times. They only respond when they feel a necessity (like when my comment on their post would be the only one they didn't like/respond to). One recently just unfollowed me on Instagram and that's kind of the straw that broke the camel's back. I felt like everything I had been trying to rebuild just came back to haunt me and prove that nothing was actually fixed in the first place. It was like putting an already wet bandaid on a dam that's about to burst. Didn't actually accomplish anything because the bandaid came right off. After all of this, do they sound worth my time? |
Question: I’m I right in feeling disrespected ? Posted: 07 Jul 2020 11:26 PM PDT I have a family member who always love stealing people friends, she has done it to my sister and now wants to do it to me. Basically I have introduced my friend to this family member and we have gone out a couple of times. I didn't mind doing that because at the time I didn't think my family friend would want to be friends with her. But lately every time I tell her I want to see my friend she gets excited even I was planning to go holiday with her she suggested that the girl should come. She has her set of friends and would never invite me out with her. She guards her friends. So they haven't seen each other in quiet sometime but when they did my friend came over and gave my family members the biggest hug, she didn't even give me one. I'm might be a little petty but I don't want my family member being friends with my friends while she hides hers. What shall I do about this because I'm close with my family member but i don't want to share friends. |
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Question: Would this person be caring or a busybody? Posted: 07 Jul 2020 11:00 PM PDT Jessica had her wisdom teeth out no more than 3 days earlier and is relaxing in her bed while wearing her pajamas. It's afternoon but her bedroom door is shut. Monica wants to see how she's doing altho she's not the surgeon nor involved in taking care of Jessica in any way so she goes up to the door and knocks on it. Monica is quite close to Jessica and/or her group. Monica asks Jessica if she could see her. Jessica doesn't want to be seen but is caught off-guard; she discourages Monica. Monica won't take that no. Jessica finally lets her in reluctantly. Would Monica be a yenta or a caring person? *yenta* in this case is busybody |
Question: Does he just want my company? Posted: 07 Jul 2020 10:11 PM PDT I have been running into a guy frequently on my college campus, and we have previously met at a friend s parties. Since then, we have been waving/saying hi, and smiling whenever we see each other. We would chated briefly every now and then. Now, few days ago, he asked me to eat lunch with me when I was eating lunch on my own in the cafeteria. We don t know each other well, so we tried to get to know each other but there were few awkward pauses. He also offered me some of his food ! This also happened again, he asked me if want to join him for lunch, and the conversation was smoother and we laughed more and he talked about things he likes to do, and even stories from childhood. He is in the class above me, and he had no reason to sit with me because there were other spots, and we barely know each other. Is he just trying to be my friend? does he just value me as a person? Friend? |
Question: Why didn't he just leave? Posted: 07 Jul 2020 08:56 PM PDT We had an argument and my BF threatened to open door and leave but he didn't go through it. He stopped when I asked him to stay? |
Question: Is my friend really my friend? Posted: 07 Jul 2020 07:06 PM PDT I'm have a friend who I have known since Kindergarten. But I feel like he's not actually my friend, but I don't know if I'm just crazy. Even when we were younger he would make me give him my stuff or else he would threaten to not be my friend. Now he never invites me anywhere even though I ask him to do things all the time. I've called him out on it and he just calls me "crazy" or "delusional". I have evidence of pictures and other friends tell me he has people over all the time. But when I confronted him about it he just stopped talking to me until I apologized hundreds of times. I looked into it and I think he is using a manipulation tactic called Gaslighting, but I'm not sure. Today is his birthday and I wished him a Happy Birthday and he never responded. But then I found out he rented a Lake House and invited all of his friends except me. I'm too scared to call him out on it now. Am I crazy or is he just manipulating me? |
Question: Does this mean he didn't want to leave? Posted: 07 Jul 2020 06:18 PM PDT We had an argument and my BF threatened to open door and leave but he didn't go through it. He stopped when I asked him to stay? |
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