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- Question: I have a texting question?
- Question: A married woman in an open relationship made out with me?
- Question: Why do female front desk clerks typically prefer to go out with male kitchen staff rather than male desk clerks?
- Question: People want a bullet to my head don't they deserve the bullets first ☠?
- Question: Is this normal ?
- Question: Why could he be acting like this?
- Question: Booty hole turned to fish filet, your thoughts?
- Question: Gay man wearing makeup gets assulted by thugs for "looking suspect", your thoughts?
- Question: Is he an obsessive stalker? Or normal ? Help! Am 34 and hes 52!?
- Question: What’s the point of marriage?
- Question: Why didn't my ex wife talk to me about what made her unhappy with me?
- Question: Should I consider leaving my wife?
- Question: Why am I the evil one ?
- Question: Why do I feel like something’s missing in my marriage?
- Question: Is it ever okay to cheat when your being neglected?
- Question: Would you consider it an accomplishment if someone never gets a divorce in their lifetime?
- Question: HELP. How to know if husband is over his ex?
- Question: I don’t want to see my husband’s mom every week - normal or rude?
- Question: Going on Vacation with friends over staying home with family.?
- Question: If your husband told you he gave a guy a bj when he was a teenager, would it affect how you looked at him?
- Question: I've been with my wife for 10+ years and married for 5+. She's been communicating with an ex and it's bothering me.?
- Question: Should a couple aim for absolute honesty and reveal all their deepest secrets to each other(the type you'd take to your grave)?.?
- Question: What should you do if your husband is a player?
- Question: Is it ok to spent time by your self even if married?
- Question: Why would some women who are married NOT want to take their husbands name?
- Question: Should i leave my family?
- Question: Am I wrong for wanting to leave my husband?
- Question: My wife is texting another guy. I found out that my wife has been texting some guy for at least a month. thoughts?
- Question: Will I ever trust my husband again after he broke my trust with the ultimate betrayal?
- Question: Shouldn t spouses have each other s back especially on something that relates to both of them?
- Question: Tell me of this is my fault or my husband's?
- Question: Questions for Seniors...I married a man 32 years ago..he is?
| Question: I have a texting question? Posted: 30 Apr 2018 09:19 PM PDT Texted my wife love you she replied back ok Love you toooo do you think the way she worded tooooo met in a good way or was it coming from me saying I love you too much throughout the day sometimes I do say it more than a couple of times a day |
| Question: A married woman in an open relationship made out with me? Posted: 30 Apr 2018 08:59 PM PDT Would that be considered cheating? |
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| Question: People want a bullet to my head don't they deserve the bullets first ☠? Posted: 30 Apr 2018 07:09 PM PDT |
| Posted: 30 Apr 2018 07:08 PM PDT My wife is pregnant with our first baby I love rubbing her belly and kissing it. Is that normal ? |
| Question: Why could he be acting like this? Posted: 30 Apr 2018 05:25 PM PDT We broke up and when I tried going back(6 months ago) he said he wouldn't forgive me for saying something about his mom when he said something to mine first(idiotic).I didn't chase him. We ran into eachother one day i expected him to ignore but he smiled and said hi.Now he keeps looking at me, making eye contact and i caught him looking at me sneakily through the door crack. He's started coming out about the same time as I do and he said hi hesitantly and smiling. Few Sundays ago I was going down the stairs and he was behind me. He was "on the phone" saying he was leaving church and would call back which wasn't necessary since church was already over. I feel like he did it so I'd know he was behind me. We walked next to eachother he smiled and said how are you. We had a few exchanges and I asked him about his sick brother. The following week he didnt show himself inside church(he's a deacon) as I was leaving he was behind me going down the stairs. I turned around just saw a glimpse of him and turned back around didn't say hi. He would look to lock eyes with me and smile when we'd be close now even though throughout church he keeps staring but when we lock eyes these past two Sundays he doesn't smile anymore and looks away. |
| Question: Booty hole turned to fish filet, your thoughts? Posted: 30 Apr 2018 05:13 PM PDT |
| Question: Gay man wearing makeup gets assulted by thugs for "looking suspect", your thoughts? Posted: 30 Apr 2018 05:09 PM PDT |
| Question: Is he an obsessive stalker? Or normal ? Help! Am 34 and hes 52!? Posted: 30 Apr 2018 01:59 PM PDT This man sees me at a place we both hang out at. Then one day he added me on instagram and started messaging me. We became "online" friends. He is 52 and always tells me I'm attractive and very smart, and that he is attracted to my personality, character and classy ladylike behavior. It's been almost s month now, he texts me daily, litterally all day long and informs me of his whereabouts even though I never ask. He often asks me to meet for coffee but I skipped that so far. He is married and always says that if he had to re-do his life, he wouldn't get married again. Always tells me am so charismatic and that he will protect me and mentor me at all times to reach my full potential, because he sees that I'm "different" and "unique", that i have a weird yet beautiful "attitude" which he likes a lot, and often says "he has zero hidden motives". I have never heard of such a behavior. What is that supposed to mean? He is very kind but I'm afraid he'd be a psycho?? Also he tells me he is very possessive and he usually never lets ayone get close to him, but I'm a "weird case" which he doesn't understand. Help please????!???! |
| Question: What’s the point of marriage? Posted: 30 Apr 2018 11:42 AM PDT It's a tradition passed down to us from ancient people, but why do we have to follow it? Ancient people also said that slavery is cool, that you can beat your wife if she forgets to put salt in your soup. |
| Question: Why didn't my ex wife talk to me about what made her unhappy with me? Posted: 30 Apr 2018 11:24 AM PDT |
| Question: Should I consider leaving my wife? Posted: 30 Apr 2018 10:07 AM PDT My marriage has been hell for as long as I can remember, but lately everything got to the point I just want to leave. One of the main reasons, lack of intimacy. Well, to top it all off, about a month ago, my cousin came to visit. He was a bit drunk. He, my wife and I were there, just talking. At some point I went to the bathroom, and I don´t know if they were aware I could hear them, but He started telling my wife how lucky he thinks I am for marrying her, he went on and on about how hot he thinks she is and what a gorgeous body she´s got. He even dared ask her measurements. she just giggled while he talked. Then she replied, "I've always thought you´re hella handsome. I´ve always liked you too". I didn´t know what to do. I know they knew it was wrong because they lowered their voices, and I swear I am not being paranoic, they were talking in this weird tone, you know what I mean, and when I returned to the living room he was sitting closer to her, I can´t tell if anything else happened. When he left I confronted her and she denied it all at first. Then she said it was his fault and that he actually made her fell uncomfortable. I told her I thought if she had felt that way she wouldn´t have said what she said to him. She denied saying what I heard her say. She said she didn´t remember saying it. I truly felt like they were ready to take it to the bedroom. What really bothers me is that in 5 minutes my cousin was closer to get it than me in 6 freakin months. am I right? |
| Question: Why am I the evil one ? Posted: 30 Apr 2018 08:10 AM PDT last night when I was changing the car tires I asked my wife if she could take out the trash so she said " no I don't feel like it" so this morning my wife asked if I could make her a cup of coffee so I said no I don't feel like it. Then she called me an evil bastard. |
| Question: Why do I feel like something’s missing in my marriage? Posted: 25 Apr 2018 08:53 AM PDT Almost 2 years ago, my husband cheated on me. We went through a rough time, but eventually we decided to work through it. I have forgiven him, and we are in a great place now. He's truly changed, and our marriage is doing well. My problem is that ever since the act, I've felt like something was missing. I love him and our life, but from time to time I get this feeling like something's off. I don't know what it is. Why do I feel this way and how do I fix it? |
| Question: Is it ever okay to cheat when your being neglected? Posted: 24 Apr 2018 11:09 PM PDT So I know the obvious answer is no but I don't know how to handle this situation. My husbands and my relationship somewhere down the line became a business arrangement. Divorcing would be complicated at best and without us having children, I'd be taking a chance of losing my home. He's threatened to basically stalk me if I ever try to leave, he'd never leave me alone and I believe he loves me but I'm miserable. I'm completely sexually unsatisfied due to his lack of effort and his attitude keeps me anxious all the time just waiting for the next time he flips for no reason. My best guy friend and I use to have sex all the time and of course haven't since I've been with my husband but the opportunity did present itself again recently. I've asked for an open marriage but he refused. Question is, if you thought you might could be happier with your husband if you were getting what he wouldn't give you from somewhere else and no one would ever know, for sure. Would it ever be acceptable? I will add that my husband cheated on me 2 years ago and our sex life hasn't been good in about 4 years. I'm not the person who would usually ask such a stupid question but I don't really have a way out of my marriage right now and I really need some intimacy, I've begged my husband and even begged to go to counseling but he refuses. He isn't going to work on it but I can't leave him right now no matter what I want. I know my secrets safe with my bff and no one would have to get hurt... |
| Question: Would you consider it an accomplishment if someone never gets a divorce in their lifetime? Posted: 24 Apr 2018 05:31 PM PDT |
| Question: HELP. How to know if husband is over his ex? Posted: 24 Apr 2018 04:04 PM PDT |
| Question: I don’t want to see my husband’s mom every week - normal or rude? Posted: 24 Apr 2018 01:05 PM PDT So we live together and his mom literally lives like 10-15 minutes away walking. As a result, he/ we go to see her like every week and it's getting on my nerves. I don't mind if he goes out and sees her because yeah she's his mom and she's not gonna be around forever. But I don't even see my mom that often because she lives in a totally different country. Sometimes the visit will be 10 mins, other times it'll be like the whole day. I end up getting just frustrated and tell I'm I'm gonna go home and then he thinks I'm mad and then leaves too. But I don't care if he wants to spend time with her, and she's a wonderful nice lady don't get me wrong but I didn't move here to spend every day with his mom, I came to have a life with my husband. And like at least 1-2x a week we're going out to eat with her, like if I suggest to go out here he'll say 'oh yeah let's ask my mom too?' And I don't want to be rude, because when she dies I know we'll both feel like we could have spent more time with her. But I just don't want to spend every other day with her or have dinner/ lunch every week either. What can I say to make him understand in a not rude way? Again I don't mind if he goes out with her, so I'm not stopping him. |
| Question: Going on Vacation with friends over staying home with family.? Posted: 24 Apr 2018 11:50 AM PDT My 2 best friends were talking one night about going to Las Vegas as nice get-a-way before the school year starts, they are both teachers. We got to talking and they said I should come along with them. I agreed and told them to get me dates and pricing. I was thinking a little weekend away from my kids and husband to spend a little girl time. We they looked around at booking sites and found that we could save almost $400 a person by leaving on Thursday morning to Monday night instead of Friday night to Monday morning. I have 2 kids, 3 and 1, along with a husband who works 3rd shift. My husband doesn't want me gone that long because while he is at work someone will need to watch our kids as well as taking 3 possibly 4 vacation days off work do it this way. He thinks if they want to go that long that I shouldn't go because we have responsibilities while they are 2 childless people. I really want to go but my husband and mother both think I'm being selfish and think I should save the money to go on a couple's vacation with my husband if I really want to get away. I have been 2 Vegas twice and the last time I went with these 2 friends and it led to a massive fight and a few punches thrown. Not sure what I should do. Am I really being selfish? My 2 friends were the ones who fought with each other and I got punched trying to break it up. There was a lot of alcohol involved. My mother would watch my kids overnight while my husband is at work. The flight leaves at 8am Thursday morning and departs from Vegas at 11:30pm Monday night. With the time difference I would be arriving home around 6am Tuesday morning. So I would need to take 4 days off work and my mother would have to watch my kids overnight for 3 nights. |
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| Posted: 24 Apr 2018 08:24 AM PDT They communicate on social media and he's married as well. I am bothered that they have expressed strong feelings for one another in their communication. He'd even request hugs and she'd entertain the dialogue but her claim is that she enjoys the attention. It's extended to taking dances class video clips and posting them on snapchat and him commenting. Being at the same club randomly and communicating via text or whatever in the presence of his wife (I wasn't there)....then even being at kid parties together and reunited via social media again (I wasn't there either). I want to be understanding to the fact that she loves me deeply and assures me that nothing will occur with him but it pisses me off that when asked to block, delete or ignore him it happens only in small frequencies of maybe a few months and then I go to snoop or she'll mention that he wished her happy birthday and then I am blamed to blow that out of proportion because it was simple and innocent. He and his wife are also on instagram and he has now blocked my wife on their but he doesn't hesitate to friend/add her on Snapchat, once unblocked. My wife has recently unblocked him on snapchat but she hasn't added him however he sees and views all her posts now. In addition, their families were close and she tries to stay connected with them and I either attend at times or not and it's awkward because truthfully I'd love to beat him down...but my issues are also with my wife and I want to at least understand her |
| Posted: 24 Apr 2018 06:59 AM PDT So long as there is no judgement... Wouldn't this bring a couple closer? |
| Question: What should you do if your husband is a player? Posted: 23 Apr 2018 08:15 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it ok to spent time by your self even if married? Posted: 23 Apr 2018 07:39 PM PDT |
| Question: Why would some women who are married NOT want to take their husbands name? Posted: 23 Apr 2018 04:40 PM PDT |
| Question: Should i leave my family? Posted: 23 Apr 2018 04:04 PM PDT I found put my spoues has be cheating on me. There is no love or trust in my family. I feel like i am in jail while hes out in the world having fun. My spouse has 5 phones! I cant keep up with him. I have 2 boys, One is 2 years old the other one is 6 years old. My 6 year old is my child from a past divorce. He says he doesn't like his step dad. (My spouse). I only have my 6year old on the weekands. That was my decision. I feel like i am being used. My spouse tells me he loves me and buys me everything... But... I dont feel like hes is not the one... Clearly hes been cheating on me and even tells me he wants me gone... Then he tells me he didnt mean it? I have to go i feel. If i go i will be moving back home to my parent's for now until i can be stable. Its out of state thou. I have no trust for this guy... I live in a state that i have no one to help me in... Should i leave my boys for some time and strive to make it back to them? Or should i just wait till they are grown? I will be 38 when they will be old enough. Thats almost my Whole life...!.... I am very depressed how can i be a happy mother? I do not like drugs so not anti depressants.. Thanks for your input. Peace to the world. |
| Question: Am I wrong for wanting to leave my husband? Posted: 23 Apr 2018 02:09 PM PDT I've been married 3 years. Together for 10. My husband has a medical condition which affects our sex life. We have sex maybe half a dozen times per year. I love him and he's an amazing person. He cooks, cleans, he's a hard worker, the only thing lacking is our sex life due to his medical condition. I thought about seeing other men but I just can't do it while I'm married to him so I told him I want a divorce. He's quite mad and said some hurtful things to me, he won't speak to me and is hardly home anymore. Am I wrong? |
| Posted: 23 Apr 2018 11:38 AM PDT I found out while I was using her MacBook for some editing and her iMessage notification were going off. I feel bad for invading her privacy, but once I saw they were from a guy that I've never met nor even heard mention of, asking my wife to leave work early and meet him for drinks, I decided to read through the chat history. Again I feel guilty about doing this, but I was a little curious about what was going on. Her response to that was 'I totally wish that I could, but I'm stuck in meetings all afternoon' he says 'oh that sucks, but u can't back out next time :) ' to which my wife replies with a gif of a woman shaking her boobs with a drink in her hand. I think that is a very weird thing for a married woman to send another guy. Anyway the texting was off and on over a few days and mainly friendly to flirty banter. Fast forward a couple days and he asks her again to meet him after work for drinks. My wife replies 'bad timing, I have other plans already, but we will definitely get together soon' His response was 'alright, don't forget about me' and my wife replied 'I could never forget about you. If we don't get a chance to go out before I start my new job, I'll come into the city one night after work and we'll have drinks' What are your thoughts on this? I am I being insecure? One night she will tell me that she is going to happy hour with old friends, but it will really be to see this guy. She would ABSOLUTELY have an issue if I went out with another girl |
| Question: Will I ever trust my husband again after he broke my trust with the ultimate betrayal? Posted: 22 Apr 2018 09:14 PM PDT |
| Posted: 22 Apr 2018 03:01 PM PDT My husband came home at 11:30 AM after taking our son to swim class. I had gone back to sleep when they left at 10:15. When they came home I was still asleep. My husband might not have known I was still asleep but he checked and woke me at 12:35. We have an appointment at 1pm. I got upset that he didn t wake me up at 11:30 when they first arrived. I know that I could have just set an alarm clock, but guess what, I didn t. I overslept on a Sunday morning. This leads me to the dependability we have for each other as spouses. If it was me, I would have woken him up earlier, given him enough time to get ready. The appointment was at 1pm to 3pm. It takes 25 at least to get there. If he checked on me when they first arrived home at 11:30, that would have been enough time to get ready and arrive at the meeting on time, at 1pm. He ended up notifying the head of our group that we won t make be able to make it. |
| Question: Tell me of this is my fault or my husband's? Posted: 22 Apr 2018 09:39 AM PDT So my husband and I have a virus. Very early in the morning he took Tylenol (I was sleeping) so later that day he kept getting fevers so I gave him tylenol not knowing that he took some that morning. So after he takes the medicine he asks me "do you think I took too many?" Then I said "no you only took 5 today" (Your allowed 6 a day) Then he says he took 9! And he blames me that I'm not taking care of him and it's my fault he took too many pills because he had a fever and didn't know what he was doing. But I was sleeping I had no idea. He keeps telling me I dont di things right and I dont take care of him, but I do! I cook, I clean and serve on him, what else could I do? Was I supposed to hide the tylenol like he was child? Please tell me if It was my fault or hes just being stupid. |
| Question: Questions for Seniors...I married a man 32 years ago..he is? Posted: 22 Apr 2018 09:13 AM PDT 15 years older than me....I do not need any smart azz responses, if I get them, I will report them...I need help....my husband is and yes I know, when you get older you get meaner, he is!!!! We do not have kids, THANK GOD FOR THAT...no family on either side....I cannot handle his aggressive mean behavior anymore...no physical abuse, mental......he follows me around the house, no matter what I do, he has to start an argument over what ever it is I am doing...any help, any would be greatly appreciated...we do not have a lot of resources where we live....most of us lives on 5 acres, neighbors are not close...please help....and THANK YOU! |
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