| Question: Am I expecting to much to hope that my hearts desires will come to pass Because I have Kids? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 07:55 PM PST I m a single mother . As I am newly single(a little over a year) I have come to a realization that this world is colder than I thought! so based on what is alot of views of men and even womens views on a single mom dating Im grieved. No, not all women with kids are looking for a cash cow! Im a R.N . In the mean while I am still human, I desire companionship though I m not quite ready yet. Somehow I believe alot of these thoughts are stimulated buy a fear of being alone or not wanted Don t get me wrong, I m A beautiful islander soon to be 30, 115Lbs, great body, and thats the least of it when it comes to personality, overall we enjoy life, doesn t mean i don t like to stay home cook watch a movie with my boys when the occasion is called for. But even in God s word it is written if a woman is widowed she should remarry if shes under 60yrs old. Now my case is not being left a widow, I was in a ten year relationship that ended in violence,though i had basically settled in my mind but that was a deal breaker for me, we were never married(colorado practices common law) and i didn t truly know the purpose of the scared covenant of marriage. Anyways to sum it all up.....was that one 10yrs relationship I have had is the end of the rope? Are there still men like my step dad out there who stepped in for 3kids which my mom really needed the help with us? Am i expecting to much to hope that my hearts desires will come to pass Because I have 5 sons |
| Question: Is it cheating if I pay a woman to satisfy my voyeuristic urges? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 07:39 PM PST My future wife doesn't want to do it. She's pretty good otherwise, but not perfect. |
| Question: How will I know when the father of my child has been served child support papers? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 06:37 PM PST |
| Question: Is it cheating if you're in an open marriage? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 06:19 PM PST My wife and I just got married this year and we're in our 20s. We like to have threesomes with other women. A month before our wedding, I asked my ex gf to meet me in a hotel to have sex, without telling my wife. But is it really cheating since we already have threesomes with other women anyway? |
| Question: Bdsm/swinging.? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 06:14 PM PST My husband and I are looking into swinging, what have been some of your experiences? What rules did you follow? I m also learning about bdsm and finding out I m into more than I thought, and I m definitely a sub but my husband is into pretty much everything (ish) and recently he has told me all the things is into and its all a bit overwhelming to me. I guess I just need some...advice I suppose. Or just input. Thanks. |
| Question: Do open marriages work? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 06:07 PM PST Wife is 21, I'm 29. We like to have threesomes with other women on occasion. |
| Question: Do I really have to go to court to modify child support? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 05:45 PM PST He is 20 years old and got kicked out of High School last year. I was just thinking about stop paying it. Don't think there is much they can really do about it. I don't feel like going to court and pay money for this. |
| Question: What do you think of my method of getting along with my spouse (until we get over our problems). We don't talk to each other? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 05:36 PM PST unless absolutely necessary. |
| Question: In the state of Arkansas, if a divorce says the parents will handle visitation as they see fit does this give the other parent any rights? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 05:28 PM PST Also, should the parent provide a physical address for the child? |
| Question: Has anyone ever had an emotional affair? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 05:20 PM PST Please explain how you dealt with the aftermath. Please no rude comments. |
| Question: How do I secretly get my wife's boobs to bounce? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 05:17 PM PST I want to secretly get my wife's boobs to bounce just if she runs or jumps. Medium sized suckers FYI. Can I switch bras or buy weak bra? Scared to ask not to wear bra but does that even make boobies bounce? If you have a wife do u have this? |
| Question: Women, how did you leave a bad relationship with no support? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 05:16 PM PST I've been with this man for 5 years. He is so emotionally abusive. I have ZERO friends and the only family member left is my elderly grandmother. I live in a retirement city so I am unemployed half the year. Every summer in the "off season" I go into so much dept... I still had to pay student loans, health insurance, etc... I probably owe 10K in credit card debt and over 80K in student loans. Since this is a wealthy retirement city, the best way for me to make money is serving in a nice restaurant. I want to leave this man so bad, he is 20 years my senior and things are sooo so bad. The double standards, the gaslighting, manipulation, lies, name calling, blame game, hookers. I am never good enough, never deserving, everything is my fault. You name it. He even gave me genital herpes. I have now about 1,200 saved. But that isn't nearly enough to start out on my own. It's so easy for everyone to say, "just leave".. ok, just leave and go where? I live in FL and its 80 degrees out and cannot live in my car! Please don't say womens shelter. He had me locked up in a shelter saying I was going to cut myself, I actually did have a knife cause I am at my emotional end of this sorry *** excuse of a life. Been on meds even.. Can someone give me advice? I do NOT want to stay in this city. I want to leave, which will make my expenses actually increase. |
| Question: Does your spouse do as they're told and if not how do you handle it? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 05:00 PM PST |
| Question: Fiance doesnt answer calls or text back for days (long distance relationship)? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 04:32 PM PST My fiance hardly ever answers her phone or doesn't answer my text messages. She is in Cali and I'm in Georgia. We usually talk for a few minutes everyday but the last few weeks has been nothing. She won't tell me anything she just blames everything on hey job that she is so busy, but there is 24 hours in a day and she can't make time for get fiance. It's very frustrating and we made plans for her to move to Georgia in the beginning of the year but now I'm skeptical about anything. When I text a question or send her a picture of me, she usually doesn't respond to it. She usually waits to the next day and text me "I love u" or something of that nature. I don't know what is going on. When I ask about get day she says it's been ok, but really no conversation from her after that. I usually does ask the taking when we do talk. I'm so confused. What should I do |
| Question: What's the problem with getting married young and soon? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 04:15 PM PST My boyfriend of eight months wants to propose to me around April! That would make it one year of meeting him! I am 19 and very young! My family says that him proposing at that time is wayyy too young! I would like to do everything right and avoid the struggle of divorce later down the road or an early pregnancy (which my boyfriend wants and I'm not ready for). Anyways, what do you think about getting married so young, soon, and starting a family! My boyfriend is a correctional officer, while I'm getting my associates to become a dental hygienist to continue school and get my bachelors in dentistry. I hope to make it to dental school (I have big plans for my future). So, should I follow my heart or listen to my family who has had experience! Thank you <3 |
| Question: If an aussie husband dies in the philippines, will the wife get his pension? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 03:44 PM PST |
| Question: How long does a divorce take in India? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 03:38 PM PST |
| Question: If you had an 18 year old daughter would you let her go to spring break in Cancun Mexico? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 03:11 PM PST |
| Question: Ever happened to you to fall in love with the person you hated / didn't like in the beginning? Can you describe a little the experience? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 02:51 PM PST |
| Question: Can a woman who marries a man paying child support become responsible for that as well? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 02:44 PM PST |
| Question: Counselor/Marriage counselor advice? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 02:44 PM PST What is the basic income for a counselor or marriage counselor? I'm 20 years old, i am thinking of becoming either or. but i want to know what I'm getting myself into. i love helping people, making a difference in someones life but i also want to make money. I can't seem to find a reliable direct answer online. i just want to know details of the flexibility or stress levels of this job. |
| Question: Is my husband telling me through his actions he does not trust me? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 02:04 PM PST Since my husband does not have a key to our mail box I am the designated person who picks up our mail at the community mail box (a free-standing metal box in that holds everyone's respective mailboxes). My husband asked me today if I had seen his paycheck when I picked up the mail last week. That's when I remembered that I thought I did see that familiar check when I picked up the mail last week, but not sure exactly which day it was. I told him this but since it was nowhere to be found, and I was not sure where it went, we were just trying to figure out where it was or if I really did see it. The paycheck was to pay our monthly mortgage. So, we looked around the possible places around the house, he checked the trash outside in case it got thrown away by accident with the junk mail. We both agreed that he could request the co. to put a stop payment and re-issue him another check. Later, he came next to me by my office desk and asked me to get up so he can check my cluttered desk. Does this action mean he does not trust me? |
| Question: Is it wrong to feel uncomfortable living in and using things in my boyfriends house that he shared with his ex-wife and her kids? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 01:43 PM PST My boyfriend bought his house by himself 10 years ago. 5 years ago he got married and moved his wife and her 2 kids into the house. They got divorced 2 years ago and I moved into the house 8 months ago. I have been going thru the house cleaning, organizing and making it my house too. I often find things of theirs around the house and it makes me feel uncomfortable. I m doing the best I can to get rid of the stuff so it does not remind me of "them" but it a long and ongoing task. We just put up the Christmas tree that they used and it really bothered me, I feel like we are making our memories over things that they already made memories with. He thinks I am being totally out of line because he had they tree before they were even in the picture. Please help me! |
| Question: I'm married with a child, but my ex is begging me to come be with him.? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 01:32 PM PST I'm torn... It's a long story. My mom is from Alabama and we've always gone down every year or so to visit her family and her best friend from school. I met my mom's best friend's son when I was 13 in the month of January. There was an instant connection and we exchanged numbers. We met again that August, and then didn't see each other again for four years. In that four years, we talked on the phone a lot and had a long distance relationship. I can't even tell you how many hours we've spent on the phone. Some days we talked all day. We know each other very well. We both went through periods of not talking and dated other people, but we always wound up talking again. We kept falling more and more in love and talked about me coming there to marry him when I turned 18. Well... I met someone else and married this person less than 6 months later. The day before my wedding, my ex BEGGED me not to get married. Told me that we promised each other that we'd get married... confessed his love for me. I did it anyway. A few months after that, I met him again, only this time, my husband was with me, and I had just found out I was pregnant. At the time, I had caught my husband talking to other women online, and he was upset about the pregnancy and didn't want the baby. There was no intimacy and... well... I ended up sleeping with my ex. And again, he begged me to come be with him. That he'd help me raise the baby and etc. I didn't stay. In fact, I went on to confess to my husband out of guilt about what happened. I wanted to fix us. He accepted my apology and we were working on our marriage. He promised me we'd keep it between us, only he didn't. He told my whole family and his mom. He swears he didn't tell his dad, but based off of the way his dad started treating me shortly after his mom found out, we're pretty sure he knows. I caught him online once again about a month ago and we were arguing a lot. I had found out I was pregnant again in September and he was mad and wanted me to get an abortion and said all kinds of mean stuff that made me want to leave. He doesn't take good care of the baby. He plays with her but that is about it. He told me that women are for *******, taking care of the house and the kids. So basically we have a lot of problems. My mom and I went to visit again a few days ago. Right before we left, my hubs and I had made up and were happy. I went down with my heart totally on guard and was NOT going to let my ex bother me. Damn it. I fell in love again. We did not sleep together. But he begged me to come be with him. We spent a lot of time together and couldn't stop just laughing and having fun. We also fussed a little and made up... I know that no relationship is all rainbows. We know each other like the backs of our hands. And he is SO good with the baby. And no he's not just putting on a show. He's always been good with kids and just adores his niece. Even his ex gf told me she wishes we would have wound up together, and apologized to me about an argument we had had one time over the phone. His mom knows we love each other and knows the whole story, and told me to follow my heart, but that she'd love to be my mother in law and wished we would've been together years ago. My husband got orders and we're supposed to go to Japan for four years. I don't want to go... I want to go to school and the program I want isn't available. I'm getting nervous about taking my daughter away from her whole family. My mom is moving back to Alabama to be with our family. I am seriously considering moving there with her and the baby to go to school. My ex told me we would take it slow if we decided to do that. That he'd help me with the baby while I went to school. My husband would be heart broken. We've had our issues, but he is totally in love with me and he does take good care of us. He wants me and the baby to go with him. He wants me to at least try for 6 months over there, and that if it doesn't work, he'll send us back to Alabama. I just feel awful because I'm not as in love with him as he is with me. We're so different. We're from different backgrounds and everything... I told my mom about all of our problems, excluding this recent event that happened while we were in bama. I asked her if I caught him online again if I should leave, and she said no, that the baby deserves a chance at having a normal family. But if I told him about what happened, he'd break it off. I just don't know what to do. It's either keep my mouth shut and get my **** together and stay with my husband, or tell him the truth, break it off, and go to bama and go to school. I'm just stuck. Oh... and I forgot to add. The pregnancy from September, I lost. All the stress caused me to miscarry, I guess. |
| Question: Who gets the dead husband social security, 1st or 2nd wife? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 01:21 PM PST |
| Question: Isn't there something strange when a long term couple aren't engaged/married? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 12:46 PM PST My sister has been with her boyfriend for 11 years, and they have a child. Weve all had talks with her, she claims that they both aren't "interested in marriage" which I think is CR*p. I think if you loved each other why wouldn't you marry? To me it looks like one of them aren't willing to commit. We aren't some nosey family that sticks out noses in, its just people look down on the family for her having a child(which means they have sex before marriage, and we also just think that they need to marry for legal reasons |
| Question: LADIES, do you always prefer the slow, sweet,passionate vs the spontaneous, I m gonna have my way with u love making or a combo of both? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 12:11 PM PST My wife of 3 years is just boring in bed and only wants sex when she feels like it. I m 34 and we only make love 1-2 times a week and she always blames me for some reason why she won t put out. Either I forgot to bring the laundry upstairs, didn t put away last nights leftovers because I fell asleep after coming home from work, went to bed 10-15 minutes later than she did which would be around 9pm or other petty excuse. The other day I asked her what was going on and she said that I m not romantic when insinuating love making. Well ever since I ve tried to be more romantic but it seems I can only be romantic when she wants me to be romantic. Example, her grown as teenagers are locked in their rooms and she can be starting diner... I would creep up from behind hold her and try to kiss her, touch her in all the good places but she says it s not romantic. I like romance but I also would like her to drag me upstairs into our bed room, rip off my clothes, nibble my body and have her way with me |
| Question: Why is her ex husband mad? He cheated on her and now she's with me !'m 23 her ex is 34.? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 11:59 AM PST He cheated and left her, Now she's with me. Why is he mad at her? She moved on and is happy now. He's Married to one of the women he cheated with taking care of 2 kids that are not his and a baby on the way. |
| Question: If you kill your husband, are you still considered a widow? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 09:25 AM PST important |
| Question: Is it my Child ?? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 08:59 AM PST Whenever me and my wife have a fight My wife is pregnant now and we are having lots of miscommunication and misunderstanding, whenever we get argument she told 5 to 8 times that i am not father of her kid.... but cant believe this because i know she is not that kind of girl to get kid from others.... Now i decided to divorce her also she expecting the baby to come out in another few months.... Now i need support my kid which i am ready but is it OK to ask her to prove that i am not father of her kid when she says ?? |
| Question: Exactly, what is an "emotional affair"? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 08:49 AM PST Is it kind of like having a really good friend? I'd like to hear from both men and women on this one. Part two: Is it healthy or unhealthy if the "Emotional Affair" helps to keep your marriage intact? |
| Question: What type of catfish do I have? I know it s not a channel catfish because it don t have a forked tail? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 08:39 AM PST |
| Question: We are divorced. she lied to me and too k my son? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 08:36 AM PST |
| Question: My wife told me she no longer wants to have sex? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 08:34 AM PST my wife and I used to have an amazing sex life, we couldn't keep our hands off each other. It basically slowed to a complete stop after our son was born. She had problems with depression and anxiety and I read a lot of information on those conditions and tried to understand what she was going thru. Our sex life became non existent. Time passed and slowly it began to improve, I compliment her daily and help out around the house wherever it's needed and exercise a few times a week to make sure she still finds me attractive. The last month has been sex free again. She tells me maybe we'll have sex tonight but maybe always means no. Last night I asked her if she just isn't attracted to me anymore or what the problem is . She said she really just doesn't want to have sex anymore period. I told her to talk to her doctor about why she has no libido anymore and she told me she has but then said, "well I'm 37, I don't have much interest in it anymore, I'm not in my 20s." What the hell kind of excuse is that? I'm 35 and in pretty good shape, I still want sex, I'm a human being with needs. I told her there's no way I'm going back to a sexless marriage. I really don't know what to do anymore. |
| Question: Getting very much emotional. can't leave him..? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 08:20 AM PST so it's about a married girl and a boy.the girl is me.so i am basically very much attached to a boy emotionally. he tried to be physical to me .but i did not let that happen. he wants me .he loves me.he was my friend initially. but now he is saying that i have to choose any one of them either my hubby or him.i was very much clear to him about my decision. so now he wants to cut all the relation with me.i don't love him.but it's an attachment for which i don't want him to go away from me.i want him to stay as my friend. i know it's not possible. coz if we stay like that maybe we will do something which is not right. so i am too much confused about my next step.i am missing him badly..i am crying from yesterday. ..i can't c that he doesn't love me.i can't accept that.. |
| Question: 52 year old man wanting to start a family? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 08:17 AM PST I was just thinking about my cousin. He is 52 and just married a 28 year old woman. This is his fourth marriage; the first three ended in divorce with no kids. Now he wants to start a family, but my opinion is that he will be over 70 by the time his son/daughter graduated high school. What is the opinion in such a situation? |
| Question: Court ordered non custodial provide health insurance, custodial as alternative ordered to provide, noncustodial not able to provide costly.? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 08:15 AM PST |
| Question: Child other moving 2-4 hours away!? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 07:56 AM PST My child's mother is moving 2-4 hours away depending on the area. It's also out of state. Can I stop her? She is giving me a hard time, and saying I have no reason to stop her. It's a better area, with a lot cheaper of living. She said worst case you will just get longer visits. And it's also very possible to drive there, and back the same day. There also meeting half way. |
| Question: Was I wrong to be suspicious? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 07:55 AM PST My husband had a crush on a girl he was good friends with a few years ago... like a big crush. They did everything together. I saw a folder in his phone with about 200 pictures of her. They still talk on the phone but didn't hang out because I was jealous. He claims he doesn't crush on her anymore, but why all those pictures. I found out later that he talked about me to her, complained about me. Was I wrong to be suspicious? Would you be? |
| Question: I know someone who has been cheating repeatedly on her spouse, but the spouse does not know. She had at least 2 long term affairs.? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 07:46 AM PST Her husband has no idea. I know someone who has cheated with at least 2 different men since she has become married. She got divorced, then married the same guy a 2nd time. I suspect her first child is that of a man she had her second affair with. She even tried to get me to perform sex acts with her when she was pregnant with her second child after she for remarried. Should I expose her??? Her husband has no idea. Her family thinks she is a good church going woman.. Should I expose her? |
| Question: How often to have sex in a marriage? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 07:39 AM PST For the past four years of our marriage, my wife and I have averaged about once every month or so...that's around 10 times per year. I am 32 and she is 29. But I am starting to wonder if there is something wrong with me for not having any feeling or desire for it. I think about it sometimes but I'm not as actively looking for it like I was 7 years ago when we first met. When I was younger, it was great and I would get on edge if I hadn't done it for a while. These days, it is a different story. Neither of us seem to pursue it. We also have our own busy lives working etc. We don't even go out together or share any down time. I just work and come home to think about the ways I can earn more for the family. That seems to be my task. That is her's as well. So what is wrong with us that we only do it about once a month and don't miss it? Would making an effort for more often help to bring us closer? What would be the benefit of trying to increase frequency to once a fortnight? I actually thought about sex tonight and couldn't remember what it feels like. It's really weird. We also spend our time in other rooms away from each other in the evenings. As well as increasing the sex, I am thinking about how a marriage book might benefit us. Because I often feel like I'm being used to provide an income without the reward of time together. I suggested we do something together and she got defensive and tried to make out I'm not responsible for the future etc I am guilty of blowing off steam by using pictures. Or by imagining what I would be doing with her. That is because she is rarely in the mood and I don't appreciate having my moves turned down. One more case in point, I suggested that we should make time on my day off work to go shopping to buy her aunt some presents seeing as she is coming from China soon to visit us here in Australia. But my wife said there was no need for us to take time away and that she would get them herself. We never even share meals or a date night...she just wants to work all the time... She despises my job because it is low paying. It is full time and pays all the bills but it doesn't have a good future. To that extent, I am actively job searching, especially in nursing. I am also enrolled at uni to become an RN. So I am taking measures to change. Meanwhile, she earns $10k or more a month and has reached the top 30 out of 120 real estate agents in her company. I feel a bit used. Because she also mentions that our debts, her obligations to her job, the apartments it has allowed her to book for us and the upcoming debts are all reasons not to have any fun and just work to be responsible for the future family. Occasionally I will wonder if I am being used. Especially as she recently asked me to fill out paperwork for her parents to also come to Australia. It seems that ever since she became successful in her company, she has taken me for granted. We do talk. But it's often just basic stuff. It's normal but the things I think we are missing include time spent together. It just doesn't happen. There is no joy and just lots of working towards accumulating property. Am I being fooled? For three years we have lived like separate people on and off. No friends in common. She comes and goes as she needs to and doesn't tell me when she will be late...I eat meals alone and plan my own meals in advance to look after myself. Am I missing out on something better or is this the normal way for a busy couple? Well we do nothing together anymore. She works and socialises alone. Rarely has time for me because she loves her job and the money. For the past three years we have had little time together and she tells me she wouldn't have fun with me knowing my pay is low and worrying about debts. And no, it is rare for us to kiss as well. Sometimes she has mouth ulcers, other times she complains of not being in the moodl |
| Question: Are there good reasons to speed up the 6 month waiting period of a divorce? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 07:24 AM PST I'm wondering if my reason is good enough: I am trying to get a rural development loan to purchase a house and they said I will have to wait until after the divorce is finalized because they need the divorce decree as part of the paperwork I am required to supply them. Normally I would just wait the 6 months, but I had no idea that I would need that going into the buying process, and now I already have a house picked out and I've done inspections on it and everything. We've been separated for about 2-3 years anyway and just never got around to filing until now. An extra 6 months isn't going to change our minds. |
| Question: My husband and I are going through a divorce. We have been married for years. He has been emotionally cheating on me for years. .? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 07:19 AM PST |
| Question: My son's teacher seduced me. Should I accept the invitation? Should I let my wife know? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 07:15 AM PST My son's teacher asked me for sex. I was told that if I didn't my son would fail. If I did, my son would receive an A. I have been married for 20 years but my wife and I have not had sex in a long time. |
| Question: Should I stay or leave this situation? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 07:02 AM PST I married a woman with a 10 year old daughter, and it seems like overnight, both of them decided to show their true colors--the girl with her "You're not my dad, don't tell me what to do" attitude, and my wife with her vulgar name calling over leaving the garage light on, or staying out until 12 or 1 at night with her friends and snapping at me to piss off when I ask where she was. My last straw came when she was talking to her daughter about her making fun of some socially awkward kid, and I chimed in "Remember, there is always someone bigger and meaner that might decide they'd like to pick on you." My wife exploded for me to "stay out of this" and they went to another room, her daughter adding "He's such an @-hole!" That was when I decided to move my things into the guest room and start actively looking for an apartment. Ironically, since then, my wife's verbal abuse has stopped cold (and she texts me if she's going to be out late, telling me where she is and what she's doing). As for the girl, she's now adding words like "please, thank you, excuse me, and I'm sorry" to her vocabulary when she speaks to me. Additionally, I overheard her telling her friends "Don't yell, it makes my dad mad because he wants to read his newspaper and stuff" It's frustrating that now that they see I'm on my way out, NOW they want to shape up. But I don't want to let anger speak for me...should I give them a chance since they are making an effort, or bail like I was planning? |
| Question: How much is to pay for maintenance to the wife in Fiji ? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 06:55 AM PST |
| Question: Why cant I get over this or should I ? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 06:18 AM PST Thanksgiving night my husband got drunker than usually and tried to kiss his sister girlfriend who we just met that night. His sister and I literally just left the room for 5-10 minutes! His sister found out, and I only found out cuz they were agrueing! It hurts to know he didn t tell me I had to find out! We been married for six years, and I always thought I count on him to never cheat, but he did just like every other guy I dated! Yes I know it wasn t like he slept with her or made out, he just tried to , but honestly idk if that s the truth! I can t sleep if I do I dream about it, it all I think about, I feel so depressed! I don t understand why I can t get over it or should i? |
| Question: Anyone else have a bah humbug attitude towards Christmas decorating and dinner this year for family "that this may be their last year."? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 06:04 AM PST My husband s parents are in their late 80 s and I have an aunt in her early 90 s. Every year I hear from my husband, "We need to go all out, (in regards to decorating and Christmas dinner) that this may be their last year." Last year was exhausting with all the decorating.. This year I wanted a more simple decorating with pinecones and paper whites and boxwood wreaths, if possible. A more organic approach. Even a more simple Christmas dinner is what I have in mind. We have a really cool Christmas tree, that is non-traditional that I wanted to use with less ornaments, but "No, his folks would not like that nor would they understand why we chose that type of tree to display." So he hauled out the big traditional tree to have me decorate. I hate being a scrooge, but my Christmas decorating tastes are changing. Anyone else ever have this problem and what did you do? I was even considering not sending out Christmas cards this year because recently I had surgery so I am not up to par in feeling well yet. The h*ll with it. Since I am the one decorating, plus I am recuperating from surgery, I will be a scrooge and do it my way. I will give in on the tree and decorate it, but still make it minimal, as long are some decorations on there--I doubt that he will notice any change. |
| Question: I just got married this year but my husband and I have a 10 year old child. I am very nervous about having anymore children!? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 05:42 AM PST I just got married this year but my husband and I have a 10 year old child. I am very nervous about having anymore children and feel a second child will makes things harder on all three of us. My husband wants more children but I feel it is foolish to go back and have a newborn when we already have almost a teenager. Would you have another child or just retire early and enjoy life. |
| Question: What would you do if faced with this situation? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 05:24 AM PST A few months back, my husband had a short fling with a coworker. He has since stopped talking to her, and she is currently seeing another married man who works with them on a different shift. Last week, she wrecked her car and contacted my husband and asked if he would let her ride to work with him because she had no other way to go. My husband ignored her because he knew nothing good would come of it. I am thankful of this, but I can't help but feel a little bad. I mean, it's her fault she wrecked (the person in front of her slammed on breaks and she swerved into the guard rail to avoid hitting them, which means she was following too close), and she knew my husband was married, yet still slept with him, but she has 2 kids and needs her job. I'm sure my husband feels a little guilt about not giving her a ride, also, since he drives past her house to get to work. But this morning he said it wasn't his problem, so maybe he doesn't feel guilty and it's all me. I'm assuming the guy she's seeing can't take her to work because he can't leave his wife that early in the morning. Their shift starts at 5 am, the other dude's shift starts at noon. So, would you tell your spouse to go ahead and help their past affair partner out, for the sake of her kids if he expresses that he feels guilty about not helping her. Or would you shake off feeling bad because ultimately, it's all her own fault? Am I just too freakin' sensitive???? He is not contacting her, there is no way he could without me knowing. Part of our agreement to work on the marriage was for me to have all of his passwords, and I can check the phone bill. I know, without a doubt, he has not been contacting her. It wasn't a call...she contacted him on Facebook. @Anon, you are absolutely correct! She has no friends at work because of her liasons. I think she is just trying to use it as an excuse to get close to my husband again! Thank you, that is exactly what I needed to hear(see). :) |
| Question: First time Polyamarous relationship and i have no idea what I m doing.....Okay so here s the situation.? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 04:39 AM PST There s this couple that s been together for 10 years. They aren t legally married yet but call each other husband and wife. They approached me a couple months ago and asked me if i wanted to be their gf. I was super attracted to the wife, like she is just perfection all around. Before i said yes, we messed around a few times and me and her husband had our fun. He is freaking amazing in bed. So everything was all fun and games and that was cool. Then they hit me with the "we actually want a relationship with you" as in feelings and i love yous and the whole 9 yards. I thought that was sweet but the wife is always throwing it in my face that shes the main one. She always rides shotgun, always the 2nd to smoke in rotation. Hell, her husband has to try to **** her first then when she turns him down thats when he wants to get some from me. And when i am with him now, it feels rushed, like hes just trying to catch a nut before his wife starts to feel lonely. He doesn t hold me at night. He only wants to buy me stuff after spending a bunch of cash on his wife so i guess he feels obligated to buy me something too? Idk. Im not a very open person that can say whats on her mind. So ill just stay quiet, get in my bubble and just ignore them. Then they start complaining that im pulling back from them. That i dont want to be with them. That i was only in it for the sex. Im not okay with being second to someone i supposedly love. So how do i fix that cause i really like them both. |
| Question: What do I buy him? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 04:27 AM PST Ok, so I am getting married to a wonderful man in May. My only problem is trying to figure out what to get him as a wedding present. He has everything he wants/needs, doesn't follow sports, or hunt/fish, doesn't drink... it's a tough one, any suggestions??? |
| Question: Wife of 9 years tells me she is unhappy and knows she doesn't treat me like a wife should treat a husband. Anyone Been through this? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 03:45 AM PST |
| Question: Demading to *** 3 or more times a day? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 02:50 AM PST My husband says he need to *** 3or more times a day or I must not love him. He has fits if we skip a day. He wants blowjobs daily and most of the time they last hours and he wants this all done multiple times a day. I'm worn out and if he doesn't *** he thinks he's unloved and he won't talk or go anywhere with me u ntill I please him as a woman should please her man. |
| Question: My husband and I want to try for a baby but I'm so worried my family will be extremely upset, what can I do to get over this? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 02:06 AM PST My husband and I have been together for almost six years but married almost a year. We have wanted to try for awhile now but it's me that's holding back. I know my husbands family would be thrilled but I'm so worried about my family's reaction. |
| Question: How can I make a singing YouTube channel ? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 12:29 AM PST Entertainment , singing |
| Question: How can I give Mom a break from our newborn son? He cries the instant I hold him.? Posted: 30 Nov 2015 12:03 AM PST Our newborn son is 8 days old. He is a big eater and is nursing VERY frequently. This makes a lot of problems for Mom, especially at night. She needs to be able to hand him off to me to go to the bathroom or catch a short break. However, when I try to hold him, it doesn't even take 1 minute for him to start crying, and LOUD. I've tried everything: swaddling him, changing his diaper, giving him a nook, cuddling/nuzzling him to my body. Nothing works to calm him down except giving him back to Mom to nurse again. He won't even sleep in his crib for 15 minutes and Mom is up with him night and day. I know newborns are difficult, especially the first 2 weeks, but does anyone have any tips for us? |
| Question: Should I refuse child support for my husband not to pay? Posted: 29 Nov 2015 11:17 PM PST First off, I'm not very well educated about child support. So a little about our situation... My husband ended up cheating on me with my former best friend who also betrayed me and our friendship. We have two babies. My girl is 2 and my boy is 1. The cheating started online and by phone only, because the other lady lives a few states away. They haven't stopped since and she is planning to move down here in Feb. Also, me and my husband are still married and she has cheated on her fiancé with my husband, he stoll doesn't know but he has an idea she isn't interested in him anymore. He wants me to refuse so he doesn't have to struggle paying so he can support his new relationship. |
| Question: My son died in a tragic and very violent car wreck.? Posted: 29 Nov 2015 11:10 PM PST My son was killed in a catastrophic car wreck just four months ago. I found him first. Spent about 30 minutes crawled up in the crumpled cab of his upside down truck trying to pull his mangled body out. I never got him out before the first reponders showed up and shoo d me away. Fast forward three months. Now my wife that I love and loves me is on the verge of divorcing me because "I am falling into a pit of grief" and "I will never properly recover".... I love my wife to the ends of the earth and back, I d tàke a bullet for her any ******* day, so why is she throwing me away? |
| Question: What do you think of a man marrying the only woman he's ever had sex with? Posted: 29 Nov 2015 10:57 PM PST lets say they've been together two years, they said I love you after a month, and he truly believes he cannot do better than her |