me and my husband have only been married a year and it feels like we are arguing constantly. We had an argument because my husband complains i never want to have sex with him..he acts like a controling narcissist most of the time so how can i even be turned on by that. I said that men are who are caring, compassionate, and empathetic get sex way more than someone who treats their wife as though shes inhumane. He said " I financially support you so you have no reason to complain or be negative about anything." I said " So because you give me money I have to praise you 24/7 and have no opinion of my own.. gotcha.." I've been dealing with bladder problems for years and he claims that the bladder problems are in my head, says the doctors are always right and i'm not as smart as a doctor. I said no not all doctors are right, I'm not forcing myself to pee every 5 minutes that's ridiculous." Then I said mabye if he was more affectionate and nice I would be more inclined to have sex with him. He was like "I'm nice enough giving you money and taking you where you need to go." I was like " being nice isn't just about giving out money! He doesn't want to cuddle kiss unless we are having sex." I said " If you were more affectionate you would get sex more.." He was like " it's not about what you want all the time.." I"m just so frustrated.. then I had a conversation with him about my friend who was being physically abused and he said " she must have porvoked him in some way.. I think he hates women are something, he always has something negative and nasty to say about a women it's irritating.. He's obsessed with his mom but he always has to pin women in a negative light aside from her. he was like " women should leave the relationship if they are abused unless they like being abused.." I said " it's hard to leave the relationship when her self esteem has hit rock bottom already.." His viewpoint towards relationships and women is disturbing and insensitive. I ran into my ex who i haven't seen in years and he was a breathe of fresh air.. we broke up when I was 21 when he cheated but i still remember being so much happier with him.. even though he cheated he generally was pro-women, he never downplayed women like my husband did. My husband never cheated but there's just so much mentally unwell with his head and i find myself falling in love with my ex again.

We've been married for 2 years now and living together for 6. Over the past year our sex life has died. Since we got married two years ago she has put on almost a 100 pounds. I may be one of the most unshallow men in existence but she is 8 inches shorter than me and is almost a 100 pounds heavier than me. Now all she does is attack me. She yells at me for every little mistake. But according to her it's always my fault. What really sucks is I still love her. I have no clue what to do. It is literally tearing my soul in half. This is mentally breaking me. I would love to hear some advice from a female perspective. I love my wife and if I can fix the situation I will. I've tried to suggest counseling but she gets very defensive at the idea.

Here's a little background, I married rather young. I was 23 she was 19. In the first few years things were alright, up until my father died. I got $100,000 from Life Insurance and nearly a million worth of assets from inheritance. I was deeply depressed after my father whom I loved died, my wife on the other hand couldn't stop using the money to buy luxury clothes and purses. I told her that it would better if we invested the money and used the rest to pay for a nice funeral for my father, she eventually agreed but seemed upset about it which obviously pissed me off. After his funeral I started investing the money which was growing pretty fast, I decided to sell my dads home in Arizona (which was fully paid off) and for about 10 years I just kept making money from investing in stocks and buying and selling real-estate. We had a kid along the road and he's 16 now.  For the past year or so, I've noticed that my wife was taking money from our account, it was a couple hundred sometimes over a thousand  every here and there so I put it off as her just being bored and going shopping. That was up until 5 days ago when I got an email that my son was picked up from school and my wife was nowhere to be seen. I called her to find out that she's at a hotel with my son and she's divorcing me because she doesn't love me. I just she's going to take the money and probably my house. I'm fine with her keeping the car I bought her but she has no right to take my son and my money! What can I do

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She cheated on me with multiple men. Physically and Emotional cheating. She could never be honest about anything. Lied to me about texting her ex. I never told her what to do, I always asked her when we had an issue. She wanted to go to dinner with another guy (strictly platonic, but this was a month or 2 after i found the affairs.) I asked her to please not go, or if she truly wanted to go that we could compromise and i would go with her, we used to get into fights over her school. We were set to be married Aug 8 of 2020. She said she wanted to go to a college outside of the country (She would have left for college a year or so into our marriage, I wouldnt have a problem with that, infact id go with her if i had the chance for a stable job for 2 1/2 years) I asked her to please look for another vet school closer and somewhere in the continental united states. Those are a few examples of our fights we had. She always tells me i am emotionally abusive and controlling and manipulating becuase i tell her if she does something i dont like i will be upset, I will admit that I have lost my temper a few times( she knows how to push my buttons easy) and i have said some things i shouldnt have. Am i controlling and emotionally abusive? I have done some stuff and said some stuff i should not have but im not afraid to admit my issues and im not afraid to compromise. But she is so stubborn, if i tell her i don t like her texting her ex or going to dinner i am controlling and abusive.

I know many women they finish college and they have good jobs yet they didn't end up marrying even if they got suitors. For some reason it doesn't work out, and in end they don't get married and they feel remorseful. 

Therby getting reminded of his failure of being with other partners compared to his wife? What practically feasible steps can the poor husband take to get rid of it n save himself from awkwardness n inferiority in front of them? Yes its easy to say that "he should think that she married himin the last", But there could be other reasons as well like, may be she chose him because all other exes rejected her after finding her unsuitable for marriage, n after they got everything freely. So, how can the poor husbsnd comfort

I'm a married man (37 yrs) with two kids. i have finished 7 yrs in marriage. These 7 yrs have been up and down, and I know I have not been very nice to my wife (including not being very helpful during her pregnancy). I haven't helped her out with many things. She has been very upset with me. My wife likes her aunt's Husband (who is married and 46). they talk for almost 1-2 hours everyday, tells him everyday that she loves him. she says that she loves him as a family. I have told her that she doesn't have to be with me, she got very upset that I'm doubting her and there is nothing between them. She unwillingly has sex with me, but she says that she does willingly. after sex, she complaints to him about me having sex with her. She hates sex with me. She has known him for 20 yrs, she doesn't have a physical relationship because they have gotten very close only in the last two months. She does a sex chat with him. I really don't know what all this is suppose to mean. We have a very good family and she will never leave me, but I'm not able to understand and digest this. As per her it's all just a friendly talk, her uncle is like Father figure to her.i love my wife a lot, and cannot see her upset.i have observed that She is upset when she is not able to talk to him.I'll never divorce her because she will never want me to. She loves me a lot.Her uncle is also a nice person, he helped me get married to her. I can only think of two options, one is to live like this and adjust or die.

Me and my wife have a monotonous relationship, we don't get involved in multiple people relationships, just two of us. Is it safe for me to lick her vagina and the vagina liquid? I read dual answers online that it's safe/not safe.

I've been married for a year since the beginning I have put in my all to be an amazing wife I've gone as far as being extremely sweet to my husband even though I felt  uncomfortable doing so all he's ever done is make promises he could never keep my husband has a kid with another woman and a mother he needs to take care of and I've always been okay with that but he has always put me after both of them as if I am not as important as them this is extremely hurtful because I always put him first before anything my love for him has always been unconditional and he's always made me change so he can be able to love me he's always annoyed with the fact that I'm not fully transparent with him but he is the cause of it since the first day he met me he judged my body and always made sure to let me know my body is not good enough and that he has had better I do not care whether who's right or not I just want to know how can I move forward with my feelings any suggestions?

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I Am married and faithful to my wife. But I get the feeling she is with me physically because we are married not because she finds me attractive. She doesnt pay me compliments so I guess I am seeking the approval of my appearance from another source. Maybe this why I like strippers so much.. What should I do

What to do? If I approach it directly I'm afraid I will get the standard 'You are always criticizing/trying to control me'/If you don't like me, leave, etc....

I'm currently 7 months pregnant. For weeks we've been arguing about him changing his password on his phone. We started dating May 2019 and he just changed his password this month of December 2019. He had the same password since May then changes it? Sounds fishy to me. Anyway all yesterday we argued about it. He was on his phone when I got into the shower, got out of the shower and when we were laying down watching tv. So then he goes downstairs into the kitchen with his phone, I smacked him and said "really you're talking to other females" and all he did was smile and laugh and said he was calling his male friend and wasn't doing nothing. He came back upstairs and his password was back to normal, the same code that it's been since May 2019. Is he cheating? What was the point of him finally changing his password after weeks of us arguing about it?

I feel trapped! When I met my partner he moved very quickly applied a LOT of pressure, he is older than me and I am quite naive, and before I knew it we were engaged before we really knew each other properly. Once I started to know him better and situations changed I didn't want to stay with him but each time I tried to break up with him he applied so much pressure and made me feel so guilty and I was scared I was making the wrong decision breaking up with him. He also told me he would tell my family I'd cheated on him so with all that hanging over my head, the pressure and the guilt, I never felt like I had any choice. Now we are married and I still don't want to be with him, he's just not what I envisioned for myself. But if I leave him now I will have wasted three years of his life. What do I do?

The average man in middle america is overweight, a smoker or drinks alcohol on a daily basis, has a bad diet, has poor personal hygiene, is of average intelligence, and works a boring 9-5 job. Why do women marry these men when women tend to have higher standards than men do? Why aren't they marrying guys who are models, millionaires, good looking, intelligent with a Masters degree or higher, hard working, funny, good conversationalists, romantic and good morals who don't have bad habits and strive to be better everyday Basically why do women marry Homer Simpson type guys and not Chris Hemsworth type guys

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