Recently got called up for a informal disciplinary meeting with my employer due to poor work performance. I have to also bring a support person. am thinking of delaying meeting till the new year as I cannot find support person. What should I do in this situation. Should I delay meeting? I suffer from depression and anxiety so please help if possible 

I'm in my 20s and don't  have many friends since I woke all the time, but for 5 years I have spoken to this person on and off. I only think of him as a friend but I don't  want to be an annoying person. I wrote him on ig where we only communicate.We live VERY far apart, never met, more then likely never will. Please give me the cold hard truth so I won't try and bother him anymore. I wrote him this on ig:"I remember when we used to talk everyday. It was fun for me, I know that we never met in person but you became important to me. I don't know if you remember what I went through, I don't know if you even care but it meant so much to me. I was so alone and stressed, I felt like I wasn't in control of my life.Here's a photo of what he wrote me back.

So yesterday my friend told me she wanted to kill herself and today my boyfriend told me has has been having suicidal thoughts...Ik great timing :/ and my best friend has been on anti depressants for months but isn't suicidal. both their parents know so they are under control but it just makes me so sad. I've never thought about hurting myself in any was but I've just been so down since they both told me. How do I stay happy even when ppl I'm so close with aren't? This is distracting me from school and I'm constantly thinking about it bc it's so scary. And also...my friend doesn't have a "depressed vibe" if that makes sense. How should I deal with all of this? I meant friend group in the last sentence  this is not drama ik it's real...my friend has been coping for a while it just not got bad. And my boyfriend is not an attention seeker at all. 

So I was having problems with my boyfriend and I left some of my belongings in my friends house. At first she was fine with the idea, she even suggested that I bring my stuff there. So few months past and things got weird between me and my friend. So I would text her telling her I would go get my things but sometimes she wasn't available or I would forget to pass by. So as of 3 weeks ago I kept texting her to get my things and she wouldn't reply at all. I sent her a message though text.. social media ect. So today I finally got her attention and she proceeds to tell me that she threw my things out.. we argue back and forth and proceed to send me a picture with my stuff in the background this is after she told me she threw my things away. Is there any legal /court to get my things back? Please help 

I am simply not enjoying this campaign anymore and want to leave. How do I explain that to my group without making them feel bad. I don t want to just ghost them but I don t have a viable excuse either.

found my friend's mom on Instagram because it recommended me cause of mutual friends with her son,and started chatting with her shes pretty cool. And my friend moved to new York for his job. She seems interested in me and i think shes nice and pretty. But i felt guilty cause thats his mom, so I stopped talking to her and she deleted me on ig a few days later. This was in 2016. Now she messaged me few days ago and said hi. Im casually talking to her again but i don't know her intentions in chatting with me again. Should I ask her to hang out or what do I do?. Btw she doesn't know im friends with her son. Were not close friends or anything just friends from high school.  Im 25 and I think his mom is 51 or something

I have been out of school 20 years and moved away for college. I have since gotten in touch with most of my old friends through Social Media. I did receive an anonymous message on a classmates site: "Funny how we see things differently after a few years. I hope you are doing well" - I have no clue what this means....I don't recall having any fights or "falling out" with anyone...any thoughts from an objective perspective? 

In between classes the halls is FULL their is over 700 kids at my school an there all in the halls between classes! I was going form first period English to second period history an I got diarea! I tore a wet fart off an you could hear it an everybody got real quite an then you could hear the splattering in my pants, I screamed an dropped my books an ran for the boys bathroom which I ain't aloud to use anyway, the principle rented a port a potty I am suppose to use down by the football field! I left a trail of runny crap on the floor behind me an had watery terds run down my legs into my shoes! A couple of them girls puked an everybody was yelling how gross I am an Mark Kerner said "Arnold, you should not be aloud in school, you should be in a pig pen or a cow pasture" an everyone laughed an I was so humiliated, I sat on the toilet an crapped out a little bit of diarea an then throwed up an sat their an balled! I had Mr. Anderson get my gym clothes sense my school clothes was covered in manure an now I am sitting here in the libary waiting for mamaw an papaw to come and get me at school! I am so tired of people making fun of me calling me retard, I am the coolest guy at school, I know them girls is in love with me, EVERY girl at school wants me, they laugh when they see me, a couple of them calls me a cute little nickname (Creetin) an there like "hey, Samantha, their goes your man" when I walk by an they all laugh, total ovious there in love with me.

When I was a child,I was quiet and shy, basically I used to mind my business.In elementary and middle school my classmates bullied me (sometimes even the teacher).They even made fun of me when I broke my arm.The worst thing someone ever said to me was "Depressed of ****,die,kill yourself!,and it was from a person I didn't even know! I feel like I've never got over it. Some of them go to my school and others go to my friends' school.Every time I see them I feel like I'm no one and I'll never reach their level,I feel like I could never be beautiful and no one could ever love me.My self esteem got literally under the floor because of them. And I'm also mad because I know I'll never get an apology for what they did to me. Now I'm in my second year of high school, I get on pretty well with my classmates and I have my group of friends. I've never told anyone what happened to me because I was ashamed and also because one of the person that bullied me was my best friend (at the time), so I thought, if she bullied me ,what stop my other friends from doing it? All I would like to do is just go on with my life and leave my past behind,I want to become a new person, a better person,I don't want to be that little girl anymore.Any advice?  

I'm 18 and just finished high school earlier this year. I want to be a rapper but I don't have any talent. I can't write lyrics because it seems like all the good sh*t is already out there and my lyrics feel cringey or just sh*tty in general. I don't want to go to college. I hate school. I don't see myself with a wife and 2 kids at 35 living a good life. I can't see myself even living past 30. I feel like I'm destined to die at a young age. I work a low paying job and can never save money because I'm always buying food, vape pods, or weed. I'm a huge spender and it's very difficult for me to save money. I just have no motivation to be successful. One of my friends is going off to the military next year, my other friend is very successful in school and wants to be a surgeon. And here I am, barely any money and no motivation to make something of myself. Am I just meant to be a failure?

I just recently met my new bestie a few weeks ago, and we instantly got along, even our mom's are best friends. Long story short, I'm not experienced with crushes or anything but he might be coming today because his mother is, and well I'm freaking out. What should I do? Like my House is no fun at all, and I don't have any game systems or anything so I feel like he will be bored and I don't want that ;;

My first term at college I met one of my close guy friends. He opened up to me about his mental health issues and his grandpa passing . We also bonded over the fact that we had both recently gotten out of long term relationships. I helped him through it and always was there for him. He would invite me to his room and we would talk for hours or we would just watch a show. Later in the year he began to feel better but he was distant and would be bail on me. I confronted him about it once. He said he was sorry and never meant to hurt my feelings. Ever since he had been kinder but recently right before break I asked to see him before we left for a month. he told me he didn't have the time. then I called a mutual friend and she said they were all hanging out that night . She also pointed out that he was always colder to me than our other friends. Right before I sent that text he had been colder like not replying to my texts and when I introduced him to my boyfriend he was short with him, this was the same boyfriend that I had broken up with before and had talked to him about a lot. He also got back together with his girlfriend and when I met her I was ecstatic . I just thought he would care more about a person that he knew was so important to me.I don't want to lose him because he is one of my first friends here. But it's starting to seem like he just doesn't care; I should stop talking to him. Why is he so distant and cold to me even though he is still nice to all other friends?

My roommate (M20) is really sad and talks about killing himself almost everyday, he's my good friend and I care about him. The issue is it's hard for us to have "real" conversation about it. He's seeing someone about it but he doesn't enjoy it and can't stand being told what to do and how to feel. I want to keep my friend what should I do? 

My birthday is coming up and I want to go this club in the city that I've been dying to go to. I was able to finesse FREE entrance for my friends instead of paying $40 each.    I planned on driving my friends into the city and getting an Airbnb(for safety purposes so no one D&D). I finally found one at a good deal and planned on renting it. One of them invited someone else minutes before telling me. So now there's no room in my car and had to find a bigger place. Which I did. But now I'm spending more money for rides and the Airbnb then I expected and now impacting other things I need to pay. Is it too much to ask for those who are coming for $30 for the Airbnb?? Or maybe just $20 and I'll cover the rest?  2 friends were willing to pay.

I have a friend who's just over 20 years older than I am. I'm in my late 20s. She's one of my supervisors and while I do what I have to at work, we also go out and party. She's like my age inside. But then there's times she treats me like I'm her kid. She's very much a mother hen to everyone at work but sometimes it irritates me lol. I get she's older than us. Idk if I should say something or not. I mean most of the time when she's gotten on me, she wasn't wrong. I just don't want to hear it to be honest lol

Me and this girl were joking and she called me a douche jokingly and then I called her a cow. We're both 16, juniors in high school. She didnt talk to me for the whole 2 minute walk out to our cars. Did i screw up????

I am grieving some family deaths right now and it being Christmas season, I don't want to be a bummer. I was talking to a friend (who knows about the deaths) and we were having a great conversation. I do consider her a friend and I don't expect perfection. The whole conversation was kind of about her..and that happens sometimes. I wanted to interject that I really miss my mother, my dog. But the conversation was going so well I didn't say anything because in some ways I thought it would be good for me to heal some by not bringing it up. Thing is, I NEVER bring it up. And that's not good for healing either. How can you slip something in without being a turn off. I don't want to come across as some loser looking for attention. But everything I read says to share your feelings with friends. And not to stuff them.

I had a roommate who was an addict and several friends that were firmer addicts 

There's this guy I know. The first time he saw me at work he stared at me while the boss was talking. Another time he stared again while I was passing by, and made eye contact. I felt embarassed and scared, even because in the past I was beated up in middle school and since then I have always been afraid of guys. I just avoid them and try not to talk to them. Another time he had this thing in his eyes while he was looking at me, like he was emotional. One day a coworker made my boxes fall and then they called him so I was all alone. The boss passed by and told me I was going to pay for all the damaged merch but this guy came and said 'it was a. who dropped them she didn't do anything'. And he went away. When there's too much work he comes to help, but without saying a word. He knows I work less hours than them, but he comes to help anyway (everyone has to help if there's not much to do in their workplace). One day I said 'thank you' and he was like,super serious without even looking at me, 'you don't have to thank me. It's just work. We are obliged to'. And went away. Why was he at the beginning so cute and sweet but not he turned cold and detached?