Into a lifelong marriage Can you help me with that? Thanks.

My wife says she will leave if I don't stop smoking. She watched 1 documentary about smoking and suddenly she's a doctor. I never smoke when I'm with her or the kids. 

Guy sees a future with us, but wants us to take things slowly because of money.

My wife was looking on the National Weather Service she seen tornado watches and warnings out. She said she's not sleeping tonight she doesn't sleep when there's a watch or warning no matter where it is. Ohio doesn't usually get tornadoes in winter but neither does anywhere else I don't know what's causing it but south eastern Ohio don't hardly get tornadoes at all shes still kind of freaked out we live in a trailer with no basement not very good shelter. How can I get her to calm down ?

Going on for years, When I say everything, I mean everything. My wife and I laugh but it gets ridiculous.What is your opinion?

Last months I spend the time with sorrow as my husband refusing to sex with me. Last Saturday I found that he was dating with somebody,  today he started to do some sexual activities and suddenly stopped.  I was upset , so I asked "what happened, did you remembered her"  He said no, I'm not interested about sex with you because at the first day you refused to do it, and those days you demand many things , so now I'm not interested about that.  That was my honeymoon. Today is our first year anniversary.  I have many things to write here, but my language is not that good, sorry for mistakes. Withing the last year I counted the number of days that I had sex, it's just less than 100 times  Actually I don't know it is normal, but in my case I worried a lot regarding this matter, I cried all that days except 100 days and period dates,  No one is there to talk about my problem, how can I talk such a thing with anybody. I tried many times to refuse  sex with him. But he came to me few days, so I could not do it, We dated more than 6 years. Last Saturday I found that he was taking to a person , it was the firs time he has done such a thing.   Last night I swore  , not to sex with him in my life time. Please give me some guide to face tomorrow. Sorry for my bad English. Please help.

Not only am i having to pull a huge load and pay the majority of the bills because my wife works in retail and her check is little to none but i also have to drive to the grocery store everyday and go out and buy her lunch almost everyday AND drive to the laundry mat twice a week because our dryer went out. I told my wife " I shouldn't have to the grocery store every weekend. This is the woman's job. my wife should WANT to go to the grocery store. she should WANT to cook. she does neither." our daughter cooks. daughter doesn't have her license or know how to drive though because if she did i would just have her go to the store because our daughter actually enjoys going to the grocery store. What really grinds my gears is that the wife has the audacity to get mad because our daughter cooks a lot. like what does she want us to do? starve? she's not cooking, she hasn't cooked in about 12 years. All she eats is fast food. Me and my daughter enjoy home cooked meals. we don't like all that fast food. I told the wife if she feels some type of way she needs to learn how to cook. complaining won't help. When I go to the grocery store it never fails the workers always ask where my wife is. It's embarrassing to have to tell my friends that the wife hasn't cooked in 12 years. Then she won't even go drive to get her own food on her off days. I confronted her and she was like " Listen, I'm not driving anywhere on my off day. It's a crazy time for the mall and I've been working insane hours She said " if I want to stay on the couch all day and watch netflix I'll do just that because I've been working like a slave at the mall." She's been like this for YEARS though. She NEVER goes and gets food EVER. she has me doing it. AND I have to go out and dry a million loads of clothes and I told her" you think this is right that i have to go dry all these clothes which take hours to do," And she was like " yeah because I wash them. Leave me alone." I told her " washing is the easy part."

She's been very different....we used to do everything together and now she's wanting to leave the house by herself when we're  both off work, she's staying later at work, caring more about her appearance, on her days off she's gone most the day out getting groceries or running errands. She has great excuses I'm just not buying them! She's been the type to get up 20 minutes before work now she gets up about a hour before work, curls her hair, does her makeup nice. I have looked through her cellphone and am not finding anything, but I still think she may be up to no good because her behavior is off

I am very suspicious

My husband is generous man. Unfortunately his "friends" take advantage of him. His friend's wife told me several times that my husband treated his ex wife better than me, bought her better jewelry and watches, better trips etc,  that Earrings I have he bought in pawn store, and used to belong to his ex wife. I'm like WTF? I care less about jewelry and stuff, but she told me that over and over again. I refused to socialize with this people, but my husband is very upset and still wants to hang out with them. He says that he never heard her saying anything like that and that I am making this all up. What should I do? 

i hate him i envy him! i wish him the worst! infront of him i'll be tge sweetest nices person but when turns his back i hate him so much! he has done too much harm tgat i cannot forgive him even tho i might show u forgot! i just feel like him tovdissapear but i cant let him go!! i always beg him when we get mad ! i am jealous of the goid things he have nd wish him sorrow nd bad things! but why am i still with him if i hate him so much i cannot stand being without him! i am confused!

My partner and I have been together just over 4 years now. We bought a house 18months ago and I was hoping by now he would have asked me to marry him. We were in the car the other day and there was a song on, he said that it would make a good first dance some so I don't know if that is a good sign or not. He didn't say specifically at our wedding though. I don't want to put pressure on him but I know I want to spend the rest of my life with him and want him to be my husband I just don't know what to do. Help! I should add that he's recently bought himself a few expensive watches so spending the money on the ring can't be the issue. I'm happy with a £5 ring I just want the commitment.

These day we,ve been heard up all family about poisonous foods,but he is a moderate man and doesn,t believe in the news.He,s fond of a watch more or less and is a Sagittarius,can he become shy again as they are very can does!With matters,if they are confident not desiring any gifts?? 

I have been in a 4 year relationship and it's been rocky since day one but we have worked through them over and over again--from different parenting issues to sex and money differences. I have 2 boys and he has 2 girls. He is divorced and shares custody. He makes 3 figures but a good chunk goes to bills and child support.I have come a long way since the start--from a full time mother to working part time from home, and going to school full time to pursue my bachelors. So I don't make as much. I am 30 years old n he is 41. Perhaps it's the age difference that makes it a bit difficult to have a relationship. It seems that he "needs more" in life and he seems preoccupied with growing and motivating himself, n do different and grow. He is trying to himself and figure out what the future might hold for him--and in return he seems to be losing focus with us. now, this has been an ongoing thing for a while where he feels great n then later on, he feels like he "needs more" in life ( back and forth) and then I'm in the middle trying to be understanding bc I end up feeling as if because I don't make as much money or have different views on things, I don't motivate him enough and so he is always seeking for more. then a whole bunch of feelings come about. I just don't know If I should leave and let him find himself and be what he wants on his own n find more or stay and be chasing him in all the routes he takes regardless of how that makes me feel and how it affects the relationship. 

Me w d my male friend just recently reconnected after not talking for 9 years. We weren't mad at each but you know how people just lose touch sometimes because you're going through things or you're either super busy. He's always been a great way. We've been testing for months now and I feel like we vibe better than me and my husband. I've been with my husband for 5 years.. I should still feel excitement around him. I love him but I don't feel that oh excitement. I don't feel those butterflies. My heart doesn't skip a beat when he text me. But it does with my friend. Me and my guy friend also have more in common. I find myself even having dreams about this friend. Any advice?? Oh we are both 30 my husband is 40. There's nothing really missing from my marriage. I mean my husband and I don't spend a ton of time together because he works 12 hour days but I'm assuming that's normal? We do have one day out of the week that we spend the whole day together. On the weekdays I just see him in the morning because I'm usually asleep by the time he's off work since he's constantly working long hours. 

My husband is always talking & never shuts the hell up.he talks over me at restaurants when I'm ordering my food & doesn't even give me a chance to finish.at parties if I'm asked a ? he speaks for me.at parties he never checks up on me to see if I'm ok.I just feel alone bc I see the other husbands sitting w/their wives or checking to see if they need anything not my husband I've told him how I felt but it just turns into an arguement Im just very unhappy & I also feel like things will not change