We met in Alabama 2 years ago and had 3 great months together. We've been long distance dating for 1.5 years and now since I moved back home. I have a toddler and he has 2 pre-teen boys. All visits go great, I love him, I love his boys, they all adore my daughter, but as we are only a month away from moving, I can't shake the nervousness. Please provide advice about how to help the transition go smoothly and how to ease my shaking hands.

We've been talking for 3 months and he finally asked me out but never gave me his number. We chat only on snapchat. He always msgs me and sends me snaps of himself...

Is he a fboy?

So I have this friend, and she's really funny I met her in the beginning of the year and we get along but the issue is, she's absurdly stubborn and very blunt she almost has kinda no filter. I've gotten to know her where I understand what and what not to do/say so things don't go downhill to create drama with her. So we're in this class where we do a lot filming and she always gets upset at my group and I if she doesn't get her way. So today she was visibly upset and was in an awful mood. I asked her what I could do to help and she kept saying nothing and then I asked if I did something wrong and she just said "you guys are just pissing me off it's bs" and then she just stared crying and the class ended and I've been contemplating if I should ask her what's up? I didn't say anything bad about her back and albeit we are a bit behind on this project but it's noting extreme? Just yesterday we had this class and we were fine? I thought maybe she was just stressed and was having a bad day but then later she was having fun with other friends so I guess not? I don't know what to do and I'm stressed out!!!!

Guy im with always talks about how cute other girls are whether on tv or in real life. or when i talk about other coworkers ask about their looks if their female ect.. I keep saying it makes me feel bad but he doesnt seem to care EDIT: even if its on tv its still hurtful him talking about how beautiful they are ..bc its lmost daily and its annoying..I never comment on how cute a guy looks when we watch tv together... if I did he wouldn't like it EDIT@: It really makes me feel like **** just to hear it over and over ...

There's this girl at the workplace, we eat together, we talk a lot, she always laughs at my jokes, there's physical contact, we drink coffee together etc. I even tested what she'd do if I missed a coffee break and she went out and got a cup for me too. However, I have her on facebook and on our free time she doesn't quite respond. I mean, she initiates conversations sometimes, however it's really brief.... Maybe I'm the one who's not saying enough? perhaps I should just tell her I like her? idk. Any advice?

I'm not good at breaking through and talking to people. I've been going to school with the same people since kindergarten and I really want to get to know the guys but I can't seem to get them to talk to me. Can I not have guy friends just because I'm unattractive?

Lately my grades have been plummeting in my math class. I don't know what I'm doing wrong I studied so much. How do I get myself out of this situation?

I'm a guy, 21, single. I was with my good friend (I'll call him John) when his sister (I'll call her Joan) called him in tears. Basically her date to the Spring Formal had cancelled on her last minute. So John muted the phone and asked if I would mind stepping in as Joan's date. I wasn't sure, cause she's 16 and I'm getting a bit too old to still be dating teens, but John told me that he wasn't worried, he trusts me. I met Joan and we got along really well. I met her parents too. I think they were skeptical at first but by the end of the day they seemed to really like me. The next day was the dance and I took Joan and she seemed happy. I felt happy too. Got along great with her friends and danced with a few of them as well, but the slow dances were with Joan and we had several moments were we just talked alone and got to know each other. Against my better judgment I felt myself liking her a little. It didn't help that she looked absolutely stunning, and I told her as much. We traded social media the next day and she messaged me, thanking me for turning the worst night of her life into one of the best. In fact we've been messaging ever since. John messaged me to thank me as well, and confirmed my theory - Joan has a crush on me now. He seemed cool with it though. I know she's 16, but I still feel tempted by this. I think her family would be okay with it, and I know about the laws and all. I'm not normally into girls her age.Would it be so terrible if we became a couple?

hey guys.. i feel pretty down right now and i'd like some help. i might this beautiful girl at a party(i'm in highschool) and we connected super fast. we talked all night and we really were similar and i loved her whole vibe. i added her and her friend on snap and her friends said she was really in to me. i started talking to her everyday. i went to one of her track meets too(boy can she run). i sent her a video one day and everybody was saying hi, and somebody in the background said they hoped her friends grandma was in hell(she just died). i honestly didn't know belive it or not. she got very mad at me and blocked me. i sent her a long apology in a dm, and she added me back. i miss her so much. i sent her a really long paragraph about how much i missed talking to her, and she told me not to be upset we could still be friends(but i don't know if she meant it) i think i love her. i don't know how to talk to me again when she doesn't want to give me another chance. i don't know what to talk about or how to do it. i really miss her bad. it was like a love i had that could never be. please give some advice guys and don't say leave her. i already tried and i cant. how can i start talking to her again. what do i say. she's a typical teenager that likes rap and vaping and such. at the same time she very unique. she has violent emotions and she used to love me now i think she hates me. please help guys

alright so i just graduated hs, was invited to a grad party by a friend I havnt talked too in a solid few months, middle school crush, etc, we talked every once in a while in highschool, she invited me, I told her I might be able to,make it and I got a "well id like to see you there :)" so I'm gonna go (yes I said so) but do you gift a peer? Should I get a card? And just say "hey great seeing you blah blah blah" or do I get a gift card or something?

I have these feelings that basically travel to anyone I find attractive and if I admit to myself or to others I like them Im stuck thats it its really hard for me to go back especially if they found out so this person did find out and told me "your so ugly." I was crushed but since I have this fantasy in my head and I over think everything like that one time he saw me and turned red or guilt since I probably make him uncomfortable we had a poetry project and one of them was a apology poem and all I could think is please let him just write one thing about me since all mine were about him basically hes so chill with others and seems fun but I guess I put my loneliness first instead of trying to be friends it was just easier since we have no periods together just lunch and he sits at the table behind me which was a struggle cause that affected me for a wile until I finally decided to be myself and not be so awkward when I see him I cant even walk right I be walking side to side tripping over myself and **** idk theres so much more little things thats happened and in 3rd persons view it looks like a girl likes a boy cause shes desperate and boy doesnt feel the SAME since shes not his type I guess but girl keeps likeing him pretending she dont care but when really hes all she thinks about even though hes proven to be exactly what she doesnt need multiple times its the last day of school he wasnt there hes going to a different high school and I always knew I couldn't date him cause I would feel like I'd be putting my self worth so low if I did but now I'm forced to completly put aside these unwanted annoying af feelings during summer and I just feel sad I need some advice but not just get over it move on CAUSE A ***** IS JUST THE THOUGHT OF NEVER SEEING HIM EVEN THOUGH I KNOW HE COULD CARE ******* LESS just writing this I sound so dumb oops *send* also im on my pierod so like thats maybe why im being such a pu$$y ya know? but other than that im scared of change all these kids ive seen or talked to since elementary half are going to another high school and thats hella scary to me even though a lot of the kids are assholes I still appreciate their presence...sometimes

She so enjoys messing with me. She's a coworker that I get along with. Everyone else makes fun of me because of how nervous I get around her and how much I like her. I saw her at the local supermarket and she saw me and we ended up shopping together. She hugged my arm and said we looked like a couple. I blushed and said we didn't. She looked shocked and asked if that was bad and I said it wasn't and then I just didn't know what to say. I went in to work today and I was to,d that it was my day off and so she saw me leave and as I left, she said, "Wow! Way to tease me like that by showing up and then leaving. You're supposed to be my favorite and stay here with me."

I live in Miami, and am in a long distance relationship (about 15 hours) away from my boyfriend. He says he will not be able to visit me that often, which I understand because it is extremely far. I found out that he visited Miami for a trip with his roommate. I am upset that we were in the same city and he made no effort to hang out with me and he didn t even tell me he came to Miami- his roommate did (a week after they left). I definitely did not want to take up his time with hisroommate, but I feel like that would have been a great opportunity to see each other since it will be months before we meet up again. This is just a big read flag to be when it comes to his concern, care, love for me and our relationship. Am I overreacting or is this a valid reason to be angry with him? I appreciate both female and Male responses. Thanks!

I met a guy and we hooked up and I really like him. He seemed really interested in me too. He told me he wanted me to stay the night, so I did. It wasn't just a hookup like we talked a lot and I really like his personality. I even told him I wasn't going to have sex with him and he was totally cool about it and he kept asking if I was ok with what we were doing. In the morning he said he really wanted me to come to the day drink his frat was having (I fell asleep and missed it though). Later, I made a mistake though. I talked to one of his friends and she kept asking me how things went (she drove us to his place when we hooked up). I told her that I really like him and that I was sad it's the end of the semester. I said something like "I can always find him again next year" and she was laughing at me (not in a mean way but more like an omg way). She said she wouldn't say anything but I kind of don't trust her. She's really close to him and tbh if someone said they liked my friend I would probably tell them. I'm just wondering if this would freak the guy out if she told him about what I said. I also talked to another one of his friends (but I think he was too drunk to remember what I said). Did I ruin things by talking about him and my feelings for him? If you heard from your friend that a girl you hooked up with likes you, would it freak you out? Also, I followed him on instagram and he followed me back but this could have been before his friend said anything to him.

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Well I'm a straight girl that happens to have feelings for a friend that's a girl being straight and all as well it all started when I was really hurt from a bad relationship and my ex hurt me in the most coward way and my best friend was always there for me and that's how I started to fall for her but now I'm starting to wish I never had any feelings for her. She said she doesn't feel the same way but her actions say otherwise like we would sometimes cuddle etc and I feel like she drops hints sometimes but doesn't want me to know it also every time I go to bed we always say I love you to each other is that normal for a friends to do with each other? Someone please help

Have always been the more confident charismatic type who's done well with women, sometimes insecure jealous guys try and sabotage things for me. I either verbally put them in their place with humor, asserting myself and sometimes that ends up in a fist fight. Realized those types I don't care for that much and I never back down from them.

Hi! I've been in a rocky relationship since last year. We both have our faults, I get upset when she ignores me, she gets jealous a lot and just ignores me for fun sometimes then talks about other men which makes me act somewhat aloof admittedly. I don't really want to diss her too much.. Recently, she had to break it off to take a break but I promised I'd wait. But I try talking to her and she's so cold. She rejects any love I show her and won't even say 'I love you' anymore. She doesn't seem like she wants to rekindle the relationship after coming back. Is it wrong to want to let her go so she can be happy? Is it selfish of me to be needing someone more affectionate?

I really like this girl from work Sara, and we often talk to each other. My friend told Sara that I have a crush on her, which is true. The problem is that shes a little older than me and shes happily married. I can tell that she feels attracted by me whenever I walk in the room. Sara even told my friend that I'm very attractive but she obviously has a husband. She things its just a little fling but i honestly like her alot more !!!! I'm always thinking about her and I feel sad when shes not there. Should I tell her exactly how I feel or would that be weird????? She said to me once on Facebook "im really chill, it takes alot to make me feel uncomfortable"

Do they? Or is that weird? Only reason it's kind of wierd is because their butt sticks out...

We have hung out for the last 2 weekends. Friday and Saturday night. I'm an introvert and love being alone from time to time. He seems really cool but it seems like no one ever wants to hang out with him. And I don't I don't understand why. When we hang out its like there is nothing to do. But he's really nice and I don't want to hurt his feelings. What should I do?

I never really knew that guys did actually think about sex with other girls everyday until my boyfriend told me he thought about other girls. After learning all this new stuff about him I realised that I don't know a thing about how it works for other girls and took some time to think about how it even works for me because it's not the same for me. Now that I'm dating him I mostly think about him - whether it's memories or it's like a feeling to have sex with him. I know girls do think about sex with other guys or just in general but that's it. I don't know what's normal for girls and you'd think that'd be something that's important to learn. Whenever I meet other guys it's more I'm looking for the best potential partner and most times it's not a purposeful thing, my boyfriend describes his sex thoughts the same way: a daydream he can't quite control when bored. When I see an attractive guy I only think that they're attractive and move on, rather than thinking about sex with them. The only time I think about sex with other guys is if I've already slept with them and it pops in my head day-to-day because I can't really visualise anything I haven't seen before in real life in my head. When it does come to a guy I haven't slept with I get like a feeling to want to do it and get kinda switched on. This really only happens when they touch me or get close in front of me, it & the intensity depends on who it is, how attracted I am, where he's touching me. How does it work for you?

So he has a broken arm with a cast and I guess with the rainy bad weather going on he supposedly fell on his arm somehow according to him and basically we had plans tonight. So he flaked on me. But then I found out hes hanging out with his friends which I truly believe is the real reason he flaked. Friday nights are usually time for his friends so I'm sure one of them offered a better plan for the night. I sent him to hell on text messages and of course he doesn't reply because it seems like he doesnt care ! What should I do ? I really want to get back at him because this has been an ongoing issue and what pisses me off is that he sweet talks me but then when his friends start calling and offering better plans he completely disregards what we had planned before them.

Hi, I'm a 19 years old guy and my high sex drive has become a problem for me. My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for 8 months. We have sex almost every day and sometimes multiple times a day because we both live in the same campus but my hor'nyness doesn't ever go away? I can't even keep a normal conversation going with her, whenever we're talking I start imaging her naked body since I know what it looks like, I look at her sweet lips, her chest, her body and it turns me on so much. She likes talking and she has hinted a few times that she doesn't want sex 24/7 and I totally respect that...I just don't know how to lower my sex drive...it's affecting my real life convos with her cause that's all I can think about

Look I'm not the type of girl to go to any guys house uninvited but this really doesn't make sense. We spent almost very day together and he was really into me, he's not one of those guys who just wanted sex. At the end of last weekend he weirdly took me home early and then blocked me. Just nothings adding up, and I don't want to make a fool out of myself by going there but I do want answers. Or I could be foolish and maybe he just didn't want me anymore but I need to find out. What do u think?

I'm single, I have no kids, and I'm in college. But the one thing that I'm missing is my man whose staying with another woman who he happens to not be in a relationship with. She's seeing other men (I read their text) he's giving her his money and he's buying her groceries. Plus, he's living with her. They're NOT even TOGETHER! Like I'm trying to figure out what's making him do all of these things for her and that's NOT his girlfriend. Then she texted me about him saying "I need to come get him so she can be with her other men".I got mad about it. because I cannot believe he's actually talking to this woman. Both of them see other ppl but somehow they are STILL with each other. Why can't he just be with me. What's wrong with me? He told me I can stay around as a friend but I want to be his girlfriend.

So I was out with a girl i recently met, we were in a park and talking, getting to know it's other. It was the second time we were going out. I would say it was quiet obvious that it was a "date" or whatever you wanna call it. I'm a very experienced guy, and I can safely say that everything was going really really well. It was late at night so she said "Do you want us to return home or...". I responded that if she has time i would love to stay more with her, she agreed. Then we started walking and we had to choose which way we should follow, right or left. The right one was leading to her home, while the left to a really nice park (a different from the one we were at the beggining). She asked again "Hmm... which way should we go?" I replied "I don't know, what do you prefer?" and then she said "Well, if we want to return to our homes we should take right, if we want to continue our night left" So of course, i said "Why not take left, take a walk and then return to our homes?" She agreed. We went to this park, we were kind of alone in the dark (there were other people but not close to us) and we were close to each other. Gotta stay, I hadn't gone out with a girl for a while, so i was thinking ways to aproach her and kiss her. But then, i see her opening her phone. "Excuse me for a second" she said, it seemed like she was reading some messeges and replying. We continue talking, but it didn't take long when she said "Excuse me for a second, i think my friend is in trouble". She goes like 2 meters away and starts talking on the phone. When she comes back i ask "Is your friend okay?" "Yeah but... she just broke up..." "****, really? Did this happen like right now?" "Yeah, and she wants me to go over her home so I can help her" "Oh... uh.. okay i guess" "Darnit! Like why did this happen now!?" "Well... that's unfortunate..." Then while we are leaving her friend calls and she says to her that she is on her way to her home. Anyway, we went together to her friends home and then i left. Now, this sounds REALLY fishy man... If anyone told me this story i would say that the girl was just lying and wanted to get out of the situation... But the weird part is that she had so many other chances to leave much much earlier. If she didn't want us to kiss or whatever, she could have said in the first place that she had to leave instead of asking me what we shall do next. And as i told you in the beggining, im really experienced, so my experience says that everything was going really well. How did this happen? Could she really be saying the truth? Sorry for the really long post, i had to update the question multiple times because i could write so many words. Anyway thanks in regards

So I think my high school spanish teacher is hot and I discovered he has a instagram. It is private though so I can't see his pictures. I want to see his pictures so do you think it would be weird if I made a fake Instagram account and then request him. Do you think he could find out that it is me requesting him though? Do you think it is a bad idea to request him?

Recently my closest friend broke up with her boyfriend because things weren't going so well cause he had to move 5 hours away for college. Her now ex-boyfriend didn't really treat her all that well but she told me she loves him. Anyways a few weeks pass and I found out that she had broken up with him. I found out from a friend, not her. A few days ago she started talking to this guy in our class. They were talking for a while now even when she was dating her boyfriend at the time. They started rubbing each other's arms at first and now it's gotten to the point where they are flirting and holding hands.". I don't think they made it "official" yet. I want her to be happy and all but she's not even talking to me that much like we used. I tried to talk to her today but then the guy that she's "dating" quickly interrupted and then she turned her attention to him. He's a nice guy but it always seems like he just wants her for himself all the time. My friend also thinks this about them. Should I tell my friend the truth that I feel left out a lot and always feel like a third wheel? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

she says she's not into girls and doesn't like LGBTQ people but when we have a sleepover she holds my boobs, puts her hands into my bra, squeezes my boobs, then cuddles me and has me hold and squeeze her boobs too. then she has me suck her fingers. what does this mean?

So I texted this guy my sophomore year of high school and at the time he was a senior. We never met in person and slowly stopped texted. I'm now a junior (age 17) and he's a freshman in college (age 19). We started messaging again a few weeks ago and we seem to really like eachother. He calls me cute, gorgeous, baby girl, etc all the time. He's been talking about how he wants to meet up at a really beautiful spot overlooking the city sometime. I'm worried he's a player though because he follows a bunch of girls on Instagram and a few even comment on his pictures. (But they don't comment complements and stuff it's just random stuff.) Also it seems like all he wants to do is make out and stuff because when I asked what he wanted to do when we meet up he said talk, hang out, and get a little handsy. He told me his car windows are tinted. (So we can make out or whatever). I feel like he's just a horny teen that will take any decent looking girl just to mess with and treat like a toy. I really want to believe that he's not a player and that he just really likes me but idk. What do you guys think?

This girl I've been talking to for a few months out of nowhere told me that she doesn't want a relationship right now. She said that she just wants to have fun this summer and doesn't have time for a boyfriend. She also told me that she never really got emotionally attached to me but she still likes me. She told me that she still wants to be friends but hasn't talked to me in a couple days. I felt like we were doing great but i don't know what happened. Any advice?

Since I was about 13 or 14 there has been a boy that I guess you can say I had feelings for. When we first met we did talk almost everyday, but then suddenly he stopped talking to me and acknowledging me. I don't even know why. When I went to school with him, he was always very arrogant, immature, and would make fun of others just to make himself look good. There was even a time where he said I wasn't good enough to his brother and his brother told us about it, which hurt me a lot. Long story short, I eventually ended up going to an alternative school during my sophomore year because of my grades and I haven't seen him since then. It's been almost seven years since I've seen him. During most of those years, he was someone who I thought about constantly and I was even in denial that I had feelings for him (I came to terms with it eventually). I would think about him and daydream about him almost all day long. I wanted to be close to him for the longest time, even if it was just as a friend. Every time someone would in my family would mention him, my heart would pound like crazy and I'd get nervous. I would even get sad if I found out he was dating someone. My family doesn't even know about any of this because I refused to tell anyone about this. For the longest time, I had hoped that we would meet each other again, even though he didn't like me at all. When someone brings him up now sometimes my heart might jump a little bit, but I quickly get over it. Back then, just hearing his name would make my heart feel like it's about to pound out of my chest and I'd shake. However, I don't really have the desire to see him again. I've also noticed that I don't even think about him nearly as much as I used to. I don't even know the last time I thought about him all day long like I used to do. I'll admit that he still does pop into my head, but within a minute or so I kind of forget about him. I don't even daydream about us being friends or in a romantic sense anymore. All I know about as of lately is that he has a baby and I think he's married. The thing is, it doesn't really bother me anymore. It did at first, but now I kind of don't care. I can't do anything about this and I've just come to realize that we just aren't meant to be. And, I actually feel okay with that. I know that it's time for me to move on with my life and focus on school and getting my anxiety under control. It's not worth obsessing over him anymore. I've even wondered what it would be like to date other people and that's something that I'd like to do one day. Do I still have some feelings for him? Are my feelings still there or are they slowly fading away? I've never dated before so I don't really know.

Like for example, I have a friend who looks like Thor from the avengers, really good looking guy who is really muscular and tall, and most women are scared to talk to him and always stutter and get nervous around him

(I'm a girl btw) I had this huge secret, and it was that I was totally in love with my best friend. She could tell I was keeping something from her, and she kept asking and asking, but I couldn't bring myself to tell her. Mostly because she had been dumped days before and I couldn't put that pressure on her. She started to blame herself for not being good enough, or trustworthy. I felt like crap, and I couldn't let her feel that way so told her I cared about her as more than just a friend. She was silent at first. She told me that if I had told her when the crush had started (a few years ago), she would've dated me, but she also told me she needed time to figure out how she felt, and to get over her ex. I was so sure our friendship would have been destroyed, but everything worked out. A few days later her ex was a complete jack*ss to her, so me and a few other friends made it very clear to him that he wasn't our friend anymore. It was clear she was over him, and more recently she has been mentioning that she needs to find a girlfriend who will care about her, or a wife that will live a long life with her. I know right?? I can't tell if I just didn't notice that she mentioned things like this a lot, or if she's actually sending me signals. I can't bring myself to ask her about it though. Help please lol

I feel like I'feel been in love with this guy at work since I met him. To me he is perfect and has all the characteristics I want in a guy. He is also a great friend and super supportive of me. I get super excited whenever I know I am going to see him. Problem is, he has a gf.

Can someone stop loving their soulmate?

My friend and his family are going away this weekend and asked me to go over there house a few times a day to water plants and take care of their dogs. His mom is super hot and I'm thinking about going through her stuff like bra panties ect because I'm curious (his mom won't care I've done stuff with her) i have the house to my self for the weekend what else should i look through. (Don't say i shouldn't do it because i will either way) let me know what else i should do and how not to get caught. Anything you would do if you had this opportunity please let me know (Also they made it very clear that there house is my house and to do whatever i want and go wherever i want. She Also told me i can go through what ever i need to then winked) (i have done some sexual stuff with her)

I think she was Italian suddenly she stopped taking and pointed her phone at me and then she just did that for 2 minutes and she touched her hair and even her legs touched my leg and she don't care I'm not even that handsome what does this mean?

he then pressed me against the wall and started dry humping me and only stopped after a while cause a customer came in. would this be considered assault? also i haven't thought of this in ages i am now 22 but this past week i was reminded of it due to something i watched on tv. the next morning i was going to make love to my boyfriend but i broke down crying, does this have anything to do with it you think?

I'm a guy who goes to college. Whenever, I go to the lab room, I see this girl, who is a tutor for history. I don't like this girl, but I can't take my eyes off of her. Even, my heart pounds like crazy whenever I see her. I like Chinese girls though and I'm black. I do think she is pretty. Nice dress, wear high heels often, and she wears a couple of make ups. I don't have any feeling for her, But why does my heart keep pounding around her? Please help me

Don't get me wrong I like when babies do it and it's natural for them I'm just tired of going on my fb,ig and Twitter seeing teens my age doing the duck lips and a lot of grown have agreed with me that they think people with no lips should do it and that it makes them look slutty and I heard it stands for you love to suck D!ck maybe I'm wrong?