So, a few days ago (on a monday) my mom, siblings and I were ordering from Burger King, when i got my food first, (i was sitting in the front) she fussed at me and told me that the people in the back get the food first. I accidently dropped my food and she said that it was because I didn't let the people in the back get their food first. So, on tuesday we went out to eat AGAIN but this time my brother was sitting in the front, so when we got the food the first thing my mom does, is she gives the food to him first. The person that is sitting in the front.. And I was in the middle row of seats and I got MY food last.... Whats wrong with my mom? Does she hate me??

Hey so, I graduated recently of class of 2018, & right now I'm 17 years old until in 2 months when I turn 18.. I need some bit of help on facing my parents... So I wanna move in with my boyfriend and his family (we've been together for about 2 years now) but my mom is forcing me to go into the navy and trying to get me to study & take the ASVAB when I don't want to AT ALL. I wanna go to college.. & get a job. Where I'm living at doesn't have any jobs at all near me. But over at my boyfriends area there's a variety of choices there. And the college I wanna go to near my boyfriends area is way more closer than where I live.. but my mom doesn't want me to leave. She thinks it's a bad decision but I think otherwise.. I don't know what to do. & she's making me stay home and not letting me go out at all this whole summer practicing and studying for going into the navy..

the house and crap like that ,but when he was a child his mother wanted a girl so she dressed him and his brothers in dresses and made their hair long and treated them like girls until they were 7 so that might have an effect,my mom says he never goes down on her (orally) and he likes his nipples to be licked,he hates women always disrespecting them he always disrespects my sister and I and my mother because were woman and he always criticizes woman he loves shopping for us always buying dresses and bras he spends a really long time looking at womens clothing hours but idk its just his behavior the vibe he gives also when he was a child he would hang out with an old gay guy that was a pedophile he never told us the rest maybe the guy did something to him which caused him to feel ashamed

I would love to be a part of the extended family and despite my outreach they don't include me cause they hate my Mom for some very hurtful things she has done. My Mom is guilty but I suffer the consequences. I am 24 and living on my own but seldom asked to family events on my mother's side. It hurts a lot. How do I show interest so they invite me without actually saying "please invite me" where I am putting myself on others. This is all so painful to be rejected by family.

My mother recently passed away. She was a very secretive person. After she passed, I learned that she and my father had kept a BIG secret from me for 50+ years. My mother had been engaged to her high school sweetheart and, for some reason (I have no details yet.), they broke up. She ended up marrying another man when she was 5 months pregnant with me. When I was born he gave me his last name and raised me as his own. He had known about the pregnancy and that I was not his biological child from the beginning. I had known a couple of my birth father's extended family as a child but my parents distanced themselves as I got older. They never wanted me to find out. My father has been a good father and I have always felt loved by him. However, I really want to know my birth father. I sent a letter to my birth father on May 2nd. and have yet to hear from him. I assured him that I harbor no hard feelings and that I only want to know him and extended family members. It couldn't have been more non-threatening. Has anyone else dealt with anything similar? What was your experience & how did things work out? How long should I wait to send another letter? What do you think I should do next?

I'm 14 almost 15 and this year in school has been rough. i missed a few weeks, i couldn't bring myself to go to school i felt so uncomfortable there. anyway, i first smoked pot i'm 7th grade... purely peer pressure. but as this time when i was very depressed i started smoking weed. i told my dad on my moms birthday because i just felt like i needed to. he perceived it as me telling him i HAVE smoked before, not that i actively was smoking. moving forward i have come to school and they caught me smoking they found some weed in my room, and then a series of being caught began. the other day, my friends ditched me they were a no show. and i hadn't hung out AT ALL with ANYBODY for around 5 months just because i didn't want to. i fell like i had no friends and i was rly emotional and i decided to smoke some weed. my dad asked me if i had and i said yes. and he said he understood why. my dad was bullied as a kid and didn't have many friends. i also didn't get grounded or anything my parents have been a little nicer than normal but i just don't know if they are opening their mind about me smoking or they just think i had a rough time and they will let it slide?? i'm in need of some person to person advice. btw i've read every single forum page about parents + weed. thanks in advance!

My one cousin and I have not had a good history together, and my brother tells me that we both technically grew up together when I know that is a downright lie. I refuse to go to her graduation because I told her I had plans before then to pick up my uncle who flies in from out of state to where I live. She flips out and explains to me that since she did not go to my senior graduation, she would have loved to be there to support me, and she ends the conversation with "i don't give a ****." In retrospect, told her that I was completely fine with it and that I respected that she had plans with friends at camp and that she could not make it. She is almost 18 years old and I am 19 and I think I have the right to not go for this reason and because I do believe she really is not a cousin, even though I value her sister more than her. I believe that what I am doing is right because I respect her and she does not respect me and the plans that I have. I especially get hotheaded when I get around her and just flip out when I am near her and I do not want things to get worse than it already is. She is family and I get that and my brother is forcing it upon me that I should go, but I am my own person and can make my own decisions. He does this all the time! Is this right for me to think this way and should I even go to her graduation knowing I do not even like her? Should I just lose contact with my one cousin? I need help on this as soon as possible because her graduation's tomorrow.

I recently got a offer to do something I really want to do. I told my parents about it and in a sarcastic mannor I told them that I was going to accept it and drop out. They told me in a serious tone that if I drop out they will disown me and cut all ties with me. They told me that it is useless to make a ton of money and have no class. Also I would regret dropping out even if I make it big because I will be nothing more than a rich idiot that people laugh at. My siblings all go to ivys. I actually purposely dropped my grades back in hs so they will no longer expect me to go to a ivy, Princeton in particular. I struggle with academics so I know I will hate it if I did go to an IVY. I wanted to celebrate with my parents today but now I am crying inside after hearing what they said. I had a couple of drinks so please excuse my wording and lack of organization.

I'm 14 and I absolutely hate my life. There's no reason to live anymore, except for my dad and brothers. This may sound silly, but school has been so stressful and I've been crying about it. I try to maintain a straight A record. Silly, right? I don't even know, this "question" is bizarre. I feel like nobody has my back anymore, not even my dad who loves me so much. I don't really want to die, but I wish I could have a break from life. My mother is barely my mother. I feel like she's just some stranger that I share a house with. This particularly day, I just wanted to die so badly. I had to walk home today and was just hoping a car would it me so I wouldn't have to go to hell for killing myself. I turned to Yahoo which is dumb, but oh well, right? What a smart decision. I guess this was just a rant. Thanks for reading.

some people tried to seperate him from our family and he listened to them ... our fight happened when he started to look down on us. It got very violent and i had to hit back for self defence and the ambulance got involved... he tried to convince the ambulance that im mentally ill and that they should take me away and keeps threatning me about the police about being "disobedient" ... but they took my side and asked from me if i wish to open a case against him but i didnt... he is manipulative, racist he pressures people.. and he looks down at his own children and wife... .. he thinks we are garbage and he is some royal. .and so many more things.. on that day he kicked me out and hit me outside the house... i slept outside in the streets in the cold for a night and when i came the next day he hit me and kicked me out again. I left the house for 7 months... i managed to establish a small business and started making good money .. I had to move back the family agreed to travel to another country because of a crisis that happened ... we will never fix it. .... my feelings are officially dead towards him. i dont feel like im a normal lerson anymore... i feel stiff... cold heart... and evil sometimes.. untill this day i hate seeing him..... the thing that bothers me is that i cant speak to anyone about this... .. i feel like i cant love anyone anymore.... i dont even want to. i feel like im not worthy of anyones love... and i dont want to love anyone back in this life.

So my mother is pretty sick she might have pneumonia and she still wants to babysit the grandkids tomorrow and I am just the aunt and want to call my sister-in-law and tell her that my mother might have pneumonia so that she would find another means for babysitting in order to go to work. My mother says the kids are very good when she doesn t feel good and they are quiet and basically leave her alone. I figure it s not my business and if my mom wants to go they re sick I should just keep my mouth quiet am I doing the right thing or should I get involved and tell my sister-in-law that my mom is sick and she needs to find other means

Directly, or with an amplifier or recorder?

She's a private tutoring and she's teaching flute. I wanna hang out with her but she always seem to be busy. We were about to go out today but then she got work again. Should I try or just move on? Should I text her

Everything about my family is irritating me. My sister yells about the bathroom every time I enter it even though I clean up for her all the time and she makes even worse mess then me! My mom is kinda of denouncing stuff I loved all my life. like fruit and other stuff where its like WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT. it feels like nobody really talks to me but my little brother. we have good times but it feels like I am just spacing out more and more. I am crying a bunch and I wish I can stop. I just feel really lonely I have friends at work and I talk to them about shallow stuff but its like pointless. every time I talk to them I just want to stop. I am starting to have a crush on every guy I see which I know its from boredom or seeking affection. do you think I should just start saving up big time and instead of community college go to big college ??? or try really hard to reach out to my best friends I just hate crying I have gotten the habit of just crying with everything I hate to hear its making people think I am so defensive I hate it by myself I never cry I am 21 I know times have changed but my mom when she was my age was pregnant with me and married and almost out of college. I feel so unaccomplished I want to be computer hardware engineer it took me a year to figure out what I wanted to be I thought I wanted to be veterinarian and spent a year in college wasting time with that. I finished general education