I am friends with this vietnamese guy and he is such a jerk to his other friend. He is 27 and his other friend is 35 and has a boyfriend who is 21 years old. My asian friend mocks the friend for being gay and calling him a pedophile cause he is dating someone that young. He also insults the gay friend calling him a creep and says both of them are freaks. Should I tell the other friend ?

La sua risposta non c'è stata e così dopo giusto 10 min ho scritto lui che sentivo di dirglielo e di non prenderla come una richiesta(?) La sua risposta è stata: ahhhh okkkkk Secondo voi ho sbagliato? Potrei avere possibilità...? Onestamente non so se lui sia interessato a me o mi trovi carina... sto per perderci le speranze, perché cerco in ogni modo di farglielo capire, ma non capisco se lo capisce (pardon per il gioco di parole) Credo di aver fatto un errore per averglielo detto per messaggio... avrei voluto dirglielo di presenza.. mi sento una stupida. A scuola stiamo sempre insieme, ci sediamo assieme e/o roba simile. Intuibile quindi che andiamo in classe assieme... magari domani vedrò come si comporta... spero vivamente che il nostro rapporto amichevole non si distrugga... consigli?

Answer fast, I play this game called ROBLOX, and its the day my account turns 2 years old, my new AND old best friend said he would play with me, but he wont. My feelings are really hurt and I need advice. He says he not in The mood to play with me, and he wants to play with somebody else. AND HE SAID HE WOULD PLAY WITH ME. Foofa I'm 16 ._.

I got a call from my ex mother in law Sally (my ex wife's mother) that she needed my help. I always liked her when I was married to her daughter so I said how can I help you. She told me her 15 year old daughter Jill got a note from her teacher that she was failing math in school and Jill needed a math tutor. Sally had priced tutors and they were all very expensive and she ask me if I would tutor Jill on credit. I told her I would tutor Jill for free as I don't charge friends for my help. Jill cam to my house 2 night a week and I helped her with her math. She raised her grade from an F to an A. Everyone was happy or so I thought. I got a call from my ex wife Sandy that I should stop tutoring Jill because Jill had a crush on me and that was just too kinky. I told Sandy I would stop tutoring Jill if her mother ask me to. The next time Sally brought Jill for tutoring I told her what Sandy had told me. She begged me to keep tutoring Jill because Jill now enjoys going to school and her grades are up in all of her classes. Sally told me she did not think Jill had a crush on me and even if she did, teenage girls get crushes all the time they usually go away very shortly. Please give me some advice on what I should do so that nobody gets hurt? THANKS

Hi im a 19 year old male.Today in class (1st class meet chem1 lab) we had to do an assignment in groups of 4 people, and i didnt do it. I did not do my work because i didnt have a calculator to do some calculations and because i was too nervous/ shy of communicating with my group, i was scared of asking for help i felt lost and out of place,i couldnt think straight and i just sat their with a blank stare not doing anything. I felt that i was being judged and if i were to speak i would be wasteing my group memebers time. while they were discussing the answers i didnt write anything down because i felt that since i did absolutley no work or helped at all i should get no credit.This always happen when i do group work or when im around people that aren't my parents or siblings. overall being shy and nervous has had a negative impact in school and social life. I don't have but like 3 friends, however these are people who i don't meet in person just xbox live. In school i try my best to get all the A's i can, but if i have to do a presention or anything that involves interacting with others my grade drops down to a C. that is somehwat why im a C student. i do everything essays, tests, individual assingments but not group work or public speaking. How can i overcome this issue? it's really bothering me but i honestly cant just talk to people, i feel as if im worthless or always left out. I care way to much what other people think of me. Im scared now that i will fail the class.

Yesterday one of my closest friends came out as gay to me. I thought thiswas a big secret that he had only told me or at least hadn t told anyone before this. Today my friend told me she and three others also knew and that I was the last to find out and that they had known for months. Am I a bad person for being angry at him for not telling me sooner? I am aware that its hard for him but I think of him as one of my closest friends and I thought I would have known sooner.

every month he texts me about something in my life and ask me to let him know the outcome of it, but I don't then he would text me to follow up on what happened. I honestly don't want to text him because I feel it is a superficial conversation. How to deal with situation?

im planning on returning to college i went a few months last year but personal stuff happened and i had to put it on hold anyway the months i was their making friends was near impossible to make friends i really wanna expand on the kinda people i know though everybody i saw was very serious go to class then go home no real interactions with anybody i really don't wanna be aimlessly wandering around school or to go back to my old clique for lack of a better word of ppl i knew in high school

Ok so I know I apologized about talking about my friend that's 58 years old but I was wondering something. I'm a Christian and I don't think she is. She sure doesn't act like it so should I still be her friend or could she bring me down? I know we're supposed to be a light in a dark world but I don't know if I should really talk to her anymore. Does anyone have any advice for me? I know to keep praying for her though

Recently, my friend has been hanging more with a different girl. She's really nice, and funny, but I feel like I don't belong. Everything is about this new girl now. If she's in our class, my BFF will always talk to her. I try to join in the conversation but I usually give up cause I don't want to be annoying. And every time I talk to my BFF now, she seems so distant. I feel like I can't live up to this new friend and that I'm not worth my BFF's time anymore. I understand she can have other friends, and I know being jealous is bad, but every time I see them bonding I get upset because it's like we don't have that anymore. Plus, this is the second time she ignored me for someone else and I don't know how to deal... please give me advice!

I'm Abby. My best friend since kindergarten (I'll call him Jeff) is a great guy and a sweetheart, but he can be naive. He's a hopeless romantic with no dating experience at all. We've never had feelings for each other, we've always been more like twin siblings. But this horrible girl in my cheer squad (I'll call her Grace) has been flirting with Jeff, trying to get him alone. She clearly wants him. I don't trust her - she talks behind peoples backs, back-stabs her friends. She cheated on her ex. I don't want her to hurt Jeff. He could do so much better, be with someone who actually cares about him and will treat him right. While he always trusts me, he's also optimistic and promised me I was wrong. Jeff was excited and was thinking about giving her the chance. I wanted to show him he deserved to be happy in a relationship, and in frustration I snapped "I'm about ready to keep you for myself if you don't see sense." He looked stunned...but then I just sorta followed the impulse. I kissed him. A lot. He sort of took it and after a bit he clumsily tried to reciprocate. Realizing he would keep fumbling, I switched gears and pushed him against the wall. Things...escalated. Eventually I was sucking him off. I think he was too overwhelmed to process it. I got picked up soon after it was over, but he didn't seem embarrassed or upset. We haven't talked about it since. Did I make a mistake? Will this change things? I just wanted to protect him. What's going to happen now?

I met a girl online and we chatted and texted and went out to eat. She said she will pay for her meal at the end of the night. We talked for over 2 hours and I thought it went well. I'm just not sure if she was into me as much as I was into her. I gave her a side hug as we walked outside. She said "hello" I'm not sure why. We talked a little more before hugging and saying goodbye. I sent her a text thanking her and telling her how great she looked and that we should do it again. She replied thank you and she had fun and goodnight. How should I approach this? Is she trying to say she's interested? Thanks

The people who I have been friends with for 2 1/2 years(when I was 14-16) no longer want to hangout with me and always blow me off anytime I ask to hang with them I finally got put in their group chat and they just have other group chats where it is all of them except me its very obvious they don't want me and they want to exclude me its almost summer and I don't want to waste it all alone I already exposed them for their group chat and acts of exclusion and I told them what they are doing bothers me and how I feel I have no friends and how it hurts me to see them all without me its been a year since they all left me and they have never shown me any acts of friendship any desire to want to be with me should I completely give up on them or should I give them one more chance and ask them when school ends btw I am a senior in high-school and in two weeks I will graduate.

Ok so I just wanted to apologize for talking about my friend on here. She's the one that's 58 years old that I kinda was having problems with but in reality I was the one that was mainly the problem so I'm sorry

I got my certification to work as a lifeguard. I was going to spend the summer working at an apartment complex managed by a friend of my mom's, but there's a shortage of lifeguards and there are higher paying opportunities. She is paying $10 an hour and another complex nearby is offering $15.45 an hour, for example. My mom feels I should help her friend since she has already hired me for the job, which would start in June, but I would rather go where the money is. I told her friend I would stay if she could at least do $13 an hour, but she insisted she cannot because $10 is what the company offers and she has no say in it. I do not think I'm wrong here. Her company is just not being competitive, but my mom is upset over me upsetting her friend.

I want to handle this in an adult manner and not in a childish, petty manner, but I am finding the adult way to be difficult. Almost a year ago, a friend of mine (I'll call him Charlie) invited me to his church. I hadn't been a part of a church in a couple years, so I took the opportunity. We used to go together a lot, sometimes with a mutual friend and sometimes, just us. He has always been very inspiring and encouraging when it comes to my walk with God. Lately, he's been very distant. He works A LOT and he's just always busy, which I understand. Yesterday, I got baptized at the church that he invited me to a year ago. I wanted him there more than anything, he is my role model and I really look up to him religiously. He wasn't there. His wife was there to support me, but he wasn't there. He sometimes works Sundays, but failed to ever mention that he had to work the one Sunday I was getting baptized. He knew about this baptism at least 2 weeks ahead of time and didn't bother to take the day off. Not only that, but he's known about it for several weeks and never once said he was proud of me nor did he congratulate me or even acknowledge my choice to get baptized. He hasn't said anything about it whatsoever, not even an "I'm sorry I couldn't make it yesterday. I had to work" message. His wife went back down to the kids ministry after the baptism, so I never got a chance to ask where Charlie was. Should I write him and tell him I'm hurt or disappointed? Do I just let it go? Do I ignore him next time I see him? Do I casually ask him why he wasn't there? What do I do? I'm 27. disclosure, he knows I think of him as a brother. I call him "brother" and "bro" all the time.