People at my work who have a full-time with benefits, a 401k, vacation time, good people to work with, moan and complain about little they have all the time. It's awful! I want to tell them how it is! I went thru a very tough time and instead of having like good people to help me thru it, I was put down for silly things and hurt by people. It was bad. Like I had to go to therapy bad. I work really hard and take care of myself well and guys especially seem to put me down for it. Like, "Oh my last girl friend had a really nice condo." "She had a masters degree!" Blah blah blah. Like, no she doesn't have a nice condo because she probably can't afford a condo with her student loans. Like I know, because I have a degree and student loans and I still live on my own. Like why do guys do this???

I'm not joking, I wish I was by the way... I still haven't figured out why. Maybe because we had strange lives and a strange but awesome relastionship (we were childhood friends, I took care of her as a kid, then we were separated because she moved although she didnt want to. I saw her again when she was 17 and she told me she had the hardest time since she left us and that she never forgot how I came to pick her up at school and make her lunch, how I was like a bigger brother to her, the best friend ever). She told me this after she saw me talking to a girl, became jealous and never wanted to talk to me again. Then we argued badly, she told me.to go away and that our friendship was over because I couldnt understand anything (but she kept on telling me to go away amd then she cried bc she was jealous??), then I told her that shes the most important person in my life, and she broke down crying. Then we got together, continued arguing, and making up, and we are like cat and dog but we cannot live each other. When we argue there's a sort of explosion of feelings that I had never experienced before. The problem is that everytime I look at her I tell myself: how can you have se x with her? You'd ruin everything. How can you take off her clothes and leave her naked? Shes the one you took care of as a kid. The dimples on her cheeks are the same when she 6. Im not virgin, I already did that with a girl and I didnt feel this guilty. I'm not a religious or the typical good guy I'm 4 years older than her so the age is alright... age is not the problem, whats on my mind is

I am 19 years old and lost my virginity in February to my boyfriend of (at the time) 4 months (we've been together for 7 months now but we've been friends for about 2 years)...he is extremely caring and in no way pressured me to have sex; it was my choice. I felt ready. In general, the sex with him is amazing; as I said before, he's very caring and there hasn't been a time I haven't enjoyed myself.. HOWEVER...I was brought up in a very strict and religious household. A woman sexually expressing herself is seen as wrong and sex before marriage means that you will "go to hell". Because I still live at home, I'm still very much in this environment where these ideas are being drilled into my head every day, all day. My parents are very much obsessed with the concept of virginity and their #1 fear is me "losing it"; so, they always inject themselves into my life and start talking about how wrong it is to do what I'm currently doing (they don't know that I'm sexually active, they're doing all of this as a "preventative measure") This has lead to me having panic attacks before sex (I have panic disorder as it is, which I am currently going to therapy for).. and I don't really know how to deal with it/make it stop? I've tried countless relaxation exercises but I think that partly because I've gotten into the habit of having panic attacks now, it's more engrained in my routine? The panic attacks just seem to be overshadowing the enjoyment of sex.. Any advice? Also yes - we are very safe about it. I am on the pill and we use condoms.

Don't you miss back in the 1990s everything was made in the USA?

I have previously lived on my own,had my life together,then I got sick,almost died,and suffered severe depression for 3 years.I turned 24 a few months ago,have been living at home with my mother,and father for the 3 years,and the past year.A little over a year ago,I planned to have my life together in a year.I set out to get a job,apply,and attend college,go to school to get my phlebotomist certification,buy a car,and clothes,and move out.I have been trying so hard the past year.Come this August, I will have my health all taken care of,be working out,eating right,have a car,clothes,am starting college full-time,while taking my phlebotomy classes at the same time.I have applied to 100+ jobs, and have went to a dozen or so interviews,was even being turned down by temp services due to my gap in job history.I got all that figured out now,and had planned to work in May,but because of health issues I will have to wait until the end of June now which has been depressing,but instead of going to school out of town,and moving out,which will be postponed a year,and already having my certification,I will have reached all of the goals I had set for myself,on my own,with no help from anyone.My depression has improved greatly.I started with nothing,but I cant shake the feeling that I am not doing enough.I have no support, and feel like a loser.No one is proud of me,so I feel like I have nothing to be proud of.Do you think I am trying hard enough?What else could I do?I feel worthless

I called him out on his outfit because it was the same thing he wore. Then I made fun of his job (garbage remover). In that moment he deleted his snap video. Did I hurt him? See I've never had an issue with either things but he stood be up on two dates. And chased me when I ignored him (I was mad). Then he would do it again, bail on me. Now Ive unfollowed him on Instagram, he did the same. He has kept me on snapchat but hasn't written me back.

I'm not drop-dead gorgeous but I have a relatively easy time connecting with women (or so I thought). But the problem is, a lot of times women who are engaged and married gravitate towards me and flirt a lot. Sometimes it gets into emotional affair territory. And they'll get physical and touchy and try to spend alone time. They'll back off when I ask if they are involved with anyone. It's sort of draining. People have assumed I'm just the average low-brow guy who thinks a woman who says "hi" is flirting...until they see actually see how some of the women have acted around me. Any idea why engaged and married women tend to gravitate towards me?

My boyfriend has decided to move away to another state since he has no family here and wants to find a job somewhere else. He currently has no job where he's moving and no housing plan though I'm sure he'd just live with his parents until he figured something out. He wants me to go with him but I have a job and responsibilities here to tend to here? Also I have no money to take a gamble on a move and with his lack of stability it makes me nervous. We love each other and have been dating for 2 years. But I don't really want to move to the place his parents live. I'm pretty happy here with him and an working hard to move out on my own soon but I just can't convince him to stay? He has his mind made up about moving and is convinced an LDR would work for us? But how would an LDR work if I don't / can't move to where he is? Im 19 btw and he's 21... so idk????

This is very disgusting but please bear with me and give me your thoughts. I have been with my employer for a few months now and things have been getting consistently worse with one co-worker in particular. At first, it began with this co-worker farting near me. I thought it was gross but harmless at first. However, over the course of the past few months, it has become progressively worse. The co-worker will now go out of their way to fart right next to me or seat themselves on my desk and pass gas. I have spoken to management and they've essentially told me that they can't do much other than ask him to not sit on my desk. They can't "discipline" him for "harassment" because it's a natural bodily function. Management said it's no different than sneezing, coughing, burping, etc. What can be done? I live and work in Florida. Thanks.

Me and my boyfriend are childhood best friends. We lived in a time that was hard for us. He took care of me as a kid, he was my 'bigger brother'. I eventually fell in love with my hero. Yesterday I woke up and he was smiling. I asked him why and he said: you dont hassle anyone even when you're sleeping. You're so quiet I couldnt even hear you breathing.. you wrap up yourself like a little kid with your hand under your cheek and you're just so tender (I sleep in the log position)... and I was like: ?!?! Because he s always the one who never says duch sweet things, he's like there's no need to... He just says dont do this, dont talk to this one or that, dont listen to these songs... I mean he's kinda overprotective. But he told me this..wow. I smiled because I was happy, I mean as soon as you wake up the one you love tells you this, and then he adds: even your smike hasnt changed a bit, you have the same shy smile and those dimples on your cheeks exactly like when you were 6... I mean, do you remebemer that time? And he was like: of course, my little angel already slept like that... my little sister, my love... I almost cried out of happines and nostalgia when he told me this. Like it was perfect. It was perfect wasnt that? Or am i too stupid to be happy for these things?

We have two beautiful children. I love the ground he walks but he has cheated on me several times. We'd get past it and get back together. And a few months or so I'd find out he's done it again. Well just when I think we are in a good place, discussing setting a wedding date and possibly having another baby guess what happens?? I am contacted by a woman that says she has been screwing him for 6 months and they have a baby on the way. I was sad, shocked everything. I dropped everything and contacted him about it via text because he wasn't answering my calls. I went to his job meanwhile asking the woman to send me proof of the affair and she did. Messages for months between them and even the positive pregnancy test. I was heart broken. And eventually with the proof he admitted it but claims he doesn't love her doesn't want to be with her and doesn't want the baby. She wants to keep it, but I don't want any parts of it. He begged me to forgive him and I did but now I just don't know if I can deal with this woman now being apart of our world and she already knows his whole family and they know about the pregnancy... I am heartbroken. I made him change his fb status to engaged to me because it seemed that he was trying to hide me altogether I also made him set a date for us to marry immediately. If we marry will he change and commit to me? Also I don't want him at the hospital during delivery either am I wrong for this? I love him and if he isn't going to change he wouldn't have put engaged to me on fb letting everyone know I am who he wants to be with. He loves me he just gets sex from them.