We moved nearly 9 months ago, and we're still not quite settled in. My wife is the type of person who has to everything just so. She sort of let that go when our middle child was born, but since our young3st (6 mos) was born she's back to her perfectionist self. But she's not motivated whatsoever to do anything..she's always exhausted. She makes lists for lists of what we need to do. We both work FT jobs, both take care of household stuff, etc. Other than hiring a babysitter, what can I do? I really don't think it's right to hire a sitter for us to be able to clean or whatever. We need a way to do it with the kids around, 9therwise they won't learn themselves. We've tried little 15 min sessions each night, but the kids won't sleep before 10 sometimes 11. It's draining! Where we ARE able to do, it's a mess the next day. I know that's parenthood. But my wife has put everything on hold until we finish "settling in" should I cave and just hire a sitter one Sat or something?

Do you think it is reasonable for a wife to ask for her husband to not go back to a bar that they took their mistress in the past.

I love him but I don't want to have sex every day like he does I need my time and feel like I really want it bec if I don't I won't enjoy it. I always wait like 4 days to have sex again, I just do not want him to cheat on me bec of that

For the past six months, my husband has been watching videos DURING sex w me of nasty woman "twerking"and naked woman on tv. He knew from the day he turned that **** on that I bothered me. He would tell me I was being uptight and to go w it. Naively, I always tried to watch these other woman during sex bc he enjoyed it. Each time, it was killing me more and more for him to keep having sex w me but only watching these girls and not me. We used to have a good sex life but since this business of the tv, we have not. He would watch the most filthy, ghetto, womAn and watch them over me. He has made me hate sex w him now. Even knowing this hurt me he kept it up until finally I'm disgusted. Why did this happen and since when did I not become enough? Porn addict or cheater or both?

I am diagnosed with Severe UC and at the same time in talking terms with a girl about getting married to her. I wonder will it be fair on my part to not to tell her and get married to her. Ofcourse she will discover it later. 1) I am in love with her and want to get married to her. Dont want to lose her by telling her about my condition 2) I will rather lose her VS. losing her faith and trust in me. Also she dont deserve to live with a sick person. Please help.

Would u live ur life tolerating if ur incompatable but we fell in love online we talked 6 months then got married a second time. Hes ssuper serious which is good but doesnt have affection if we kiss he has a tissue box hes loke a germ ans hygenic person. He will not eat anybpdies food if hes invited unless its a restaurant. He wants me to change like yesterday but we lived together today is our anniversary nothing special or romantic hes just serious all the time. He wants me to kbey everything he says but i grew up usa 20 years hes from pakistan veen here 5yrs. Habits r not easy to change i said conpromise he said no his way. Im 25 hes 32 hes quiet ans im loud i thought opposite attract makes a balance. When he wants sex its just like lets do it schedule last minute no making out or anything. I don't wear i scarf im muslim but wore it 12 yr old til 22 ans took it off i dnt weat shorts but i do wear short sleeves ans tight long sleve workout shirts he is loke dnt wear again ijm like give me time to change for my own self it will shkw my character.

Recently, I found a very...interesting picture on my phone. My husband, being the inappropriate prankster that he is, took a picture of his family jewels and left it in my gallery. It made me chuckle and roll my eyes at the same time. I texted him his full name in all caps to playfully scold him for it. However, I was at work and had just received an urgent email that prevented me from further explaining my aggressive text. Moments later, I received a panicked call on my work phone. It was husband wondering what was wrong. He sounded nervous. I said, "I found a very interesting picture of you on my phone," thinking that he would know to what I was referring. To my dismay, he sounded even more baffled and nervous. He demanded that I quit playing games and just tell him what I was talking about. My stomach dropped. What could I possibly be referring to besides his ball prank? His voice was about ten octaves too high and he was sounding very odd to me over the phone. Am I totally overreacting and looking too far into things? I've known this person for 10 years and unfortunately, I know when he's lying. I understand his initial concern with my vague text message, but the fact that it didn't go away when I told him it was over a picture is really raising red flags. In fact, he seemed more nervous of the fact that I had some kind of evidence.

married last july 2017 im from algeria my husband from Pakistan. I grew up in usa since i was 5 & he only has been here 5 years hes 33 ans im 25 now.we loved each other & met online & married right after 6 months. He resided in new york and moved to where i am as I've gotten used to this state & lived here 19 years. It is ramadan now and my husband doesnt eat my food maybe a spoon full and that all. I mainly cook pakistani fopd to the vest of my abilities but hes always saying ur doing this wrong add this stir that put this that etc. I feel like im not pleasing him or just a robot he doesnt like tp eat jusy anything of course so food from my country in north africa he wont eat says its too different. So i never cook it i jusy cook pakistani. Its ramadan my hin invited us to eat and he said no i dnt want to disappoint u or ur mother ur food is too different. I thought that was rude but yes its different but delicious. So i told him ill go eat at my moms he said he will eat out. Hes akways sayinf he has issue w cooking and im not like his sisyer i said ur sister doesnt woek and shed Pakistani im not im trying my best and hes always saying something about what i do in kitchen. So i get irritated because i shoild be able to cook and he should not stand on my head he wants me to use gloves hes a super hygenic person thats not a bad thing. Bur he wont kiss me if he does he has a tissue box and wipes his lips all the time its so strange to me. What do i do!?!!?

Okay so here's the sad reality. Husband of ten years(soon to b ex) wants to watch other woman during sex w me. There is no more romance, no for play... It's "twerk" videos and naked woman on youtube. This isn't new it's been going on for around six months. It's so old and annoying. I'm not ugly, guys beg me for sex and look at me so it isn't me, it's him. Like he has to watch strippers, etc during sex. Im just over this. He acts bored during sex unless he can watch these nasty woman. Im kinda scared, what am I dealing with, a cheater, or porn addict. Why other woman always and not JUST me anymore? Our sex used to b amazing, now im about to say screw this. How mean. What is he doing me like,this for and why??? Plz b honest.