Friends: Question: What can I do when I'm bored? |
- Question: What can I do when I'm bored?
- Question: Was it wrong of my friend to be mad at me over this?
- Question: Am I normal for a 15 year old girl?
- Question: I m hanging out with a friend i haven t seen in a decade, I m nervous,help?
- Question: Does life get better?
- Question: My mom just got in a fight with me, she took all my clothes and shoes, smashed my computer monitor and took our new pug. what do i do?
- Question: What do you do when you run out of things to talk about with your internet friends?
- Question: I wouldn't mind spending the rest of my life with my best friend?
- Question: My friend is saying she's so busy doing college things and can't see me, but she's having fun somewhere else its how can I confront her?
- Question: How do you make friends in high school?
- Question: I'm scared of my internet friend being a pedophile?
- Question: Is being popular worth more than best friends?
- Question: Am I jealous of my friend?
- Question: Why shouldn't i kill myself?
- Question: There is a person I really want to be friends with and I have no classes with them and rarely ever see them what do I do?
- Question: How to not be so shy?
- Question: Why me and not her boyfriend?
- Question: What to do if the female friend is nicer to you than the guy friend?
- Question: How can I help a crack addict?
- Question: Cold and cuddling with a friend appropriate?
- Question: What is with my online friends asking me to buy phones for them?
- Question: I Hate School?
- Question: How do I get an old person to forget what they asked about? Maybe around 60ish?
- Question: How to get rid of bad friends?
- Question: Friend can't take a hint?
- Question: My life feels like it is falling apart?!!?
- Question: I could really use some second opinions on whether I should write a letter to an old girlfriend. Is it stupid?
- Question: Being a loner or smoking weed with stoners all day?
- Question: How do I rebuild a friendship that has been broken many times but this time isn t healing is this the end?
- Question: My friends pranked me?
- Question: Why would my friend get so offended by this?
- Question: Teenage girls who can drive would you have done this?
- Question: At college and have no idea how to make any friends?
- Question: How do I tell this girl that we can't be friends?
- Question: How to let go?
- Question: Should I stop being friends with them?
- Question: Does this make me weird or a no fun guy?
- Question: I don't have any classes with my best friends and I am worried we will fall apart?
- Question: How should I get revenge??
- Question: I'm thinking about shoplifting. Any advice?
- Question: She said she only wanted to be friends from the start?
- Question: Do we like each other?
- Question: How to tell my friends I don't want them anymore?
- Question: Why do people think im an idiot?
- Question: Today is my birthday and my best friend didn t wish me happy birthday?
- Question: Why would someone be the only guest at a birthday party?
- Question: How do I get the rid of fake friends without telling them?
- Question: I want to be that one cute, kind, innocent and childlike girl in a world of selfish, bitter and cynical people. What's wrong with me?
- Question: Do you think it's depression or sadness?
- Question: Would you dump your boyfriend if the did this?
- Question: Is my friend too needy?
- Question: What if a friend only invites you somewhere when his other friends aren't available?
- Question: No friends, no hobbies, no life?
- Question: Should I go out with my coworkers again? Am I being dramatic?
- Question: So basicly my best friend is being verbily bullied and threatened over musical.ly\live.my (social media sights)?
- Question: No girls allowed? Is it an image thing?
- Question: What should i do?
- Question: Who is at fault and what do we do?
- Question: Should I have ask him to hang out or it don't really matter?
- Question: Are we overreacting to our new friends? What would you do?
| Question: What can I do when I'm bored? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 05:40 PM PDT I'm a 13 year old boy with lots of free time but I am not allowed very far from my house. And I only have 1 friend that lives close. |
| Question: Was it wrong of my friend to be mad at me over this? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 05:39 PM PDT I've been friends with this girl since high school and we are both in out 20's now. She texted me saying that she was mad at me that I didn't like any of her photos on Instagram. She also texted me asking me why I never like any of her photos on Instagram and I told her that I don't want to and it isn't a big deal that I never like any of her photos on Instagram. Then she blocked me on everything and told me that she doesn't want to be friends with me anymore because I never like any of her Instagram photos. Is it wrong of her to be mad at me for never liking any of her photos on Instagram? |
| Question: Am I normal for a 15 year old girl? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 05:28 PM PDT I know I'm not the typical kind of person you would expect. I'm a HUGE geek and I love cartoons (I hate Disney Channel...don't ask). I'm not a big fashionista, but I'm also really not into sports. I love to cosplay, etc. and go to conventions. I love to read and go on my computer... is it normal for me to be like this or am I weird/act underage? Academically, I'm in all Honors and AP classes with straight A's. I take school very seriously. I don't have many friends because of this person who bullies me but that's another story |
| Question: I m hanging out with a friend i haven t seen in a decade, I m nervous,help? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 05:27 PM PDT I recently got in contact with an old friend from about a decade ago. We found each other on Facebook and started talking. Well, we are going to hangout tonight and I really nervous bc 10 years is a long time ago. What if we don t have anything in common?What if it is awkward?please help! |
| Question: Does life get better? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 05:22 PM PDT I'm a junior in high school and I can't deal with it anymore. I have absolutely 0 friends in my school. I wanted to know if life gets better after high school. Do you still have to worry about being popular or what kind of friends you have. I'm also worried I will never find friends later on in life. I don't want to spend my life alone. I want a husband and kids but the way things look now I don't see that happening. Does everything change after highschool? Do you meet new friends? And do these last two years of school fly by? I just need to know I have something to look forward to. Like I have a reason to be excited for the future. |
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| Question: What do you do when you run out of things to talk about with your internet friends? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 05:08 PM PDT I recently made internet friends and we have a lot of the same interests but we've run out of things to talk about |
| Question: I wouldn't mind spending the rest of my life with my best friend? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 05:07 PM PDT Okay, let me elaborate. I've known my best friend for at least 4 years now, and we've clicked since the beginning. She's cool, and we've got tons in common, even down to our opinions on weather and colors and games and small stuff like that. We started talking about when we get out of high school recently. We kind of want to live as roommates once we're out so that we wouldn't be struggling too much financially but we could still get out of our houses sooner. The more I talk to her about it, the more I'm fine with it. In fact, I wouldn't mind living with her forever. I think she assumes we'll live together for a long time too, because every time she talks about moving to a different state, she always says "we" and kind of includes me. I know it's kind of creepy. It's just how I feel. I don't think I like her romantically or anything I just. Wouldn't mind being around her a lot? Like living with her sounds nice. I don't know. What do you think? |
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| Question: How do you make friends in high school? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 05:02 PM PDT I need help, I'm in a private high school and its very difficult for me to make friends for 2 reasons. Number 1 I'm mainly used to public schools and the friends that i make their are different from the friends that i make here in the private high school that i am in today. Number 2 usually when kids and students talk to me about a certain subject i don't know how to keep the conversation going for example one of the kids asked me about this girl that was really annoying to me and he said "man that girl ( blank ) is really annoying right?" and then i say "yeah i don't know" and then nothing happens. Its kind of awkward and i don't know how to fix that. Does anyone have any tips or suggestions? i would seriously appreciate it. I was on medicine because i have Attention Difficulty Disorder and i took that medicine for 5 years then i quit later. i want to say that the medicine messed me up because it made me dark with no emotion. i always wondered why i felt that way and no one else did I soon i realized it was the medicine. i felt like myself later and i still couldn't make friends afterwards its almost as if the medicine put me in isolation for 5 years without any social skills or friends. |
| Question: I'm scared of my internet friend being a pedophile? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 04:55 PM PDT Yesterday I met some people online and we get along really nice and I like them. They haven't done anything suspicious to make me think that they would be a pedophile (the only thing that could be suspicious is that they asked for a photo of me but they all sent one of themselves) but there is still this nagging thought that they could be a pedophile. Any advice? |
| Question: Is being popular worth more than best friends? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 04:50 PM PDT So since I started high school back in 8th grade, I focused so much on popularity and having boys flirt with me. Some already-are popular kids helped me gain popularity and before you know it I was one of the most popular girls at school. I am in 9th grade now and I've been friends with a group of 7 older girls who are now 18 ever since I was just a little 8 year old. I watched them grow from being tweens to walking across the stage getting their high school certificate and watched them go off to college. Every single day I'd go home and brag to them how much more popular I got ever since high school started and I started ignoring them because I thought popularity was more fun. Then one of them called me saying that one of them attempted suicide over an ex boyfriend hitting her with a belt then threatening to kill her if she doesn't get back together with him..she started crying saying how much I changed and that they're so hurt I chose a bunch of what they called "immature kids who party 24/7" over real friends. I changed so much and cared so much for being popular that I didn't even know one of them was being abused. They can't believe that after 6 entire years of friendship I'd just dump them like that and choose a bunch of teenage girls who do lap dances at parties and get drunk all night like that. The girl with the abusive ex was my best friend. I remember her crying because she met a guy at college whom she broke up with and was threatening her and I just ignored all her tears and cries, talked about how so and so invited me to a party and how I got so popular. I'm only 14 now btw |
| Question: Am I jealous of my friend? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 04:42 PM PDT I'm a male, she's a female, we are both 20. She s my best friend, but we are polar opposites. I have barely ever had a real relationship, and I am still a virgin - It does not look like anything is changing any time soon, either. I long for a real romance, someone to connect with. Someone to enjoy, and share my time with. I have very low self-esteem when it comes to the opposite sex and I can never manage to talk to someone I like, and I always regret it. I just cannot seem to get out of this "rut". But my friend has frivolous sex, meets guys online, goes out with multiple guys, Talks to up to 5 at a time.. And I am always very critical and harsh when she tells me about it. I attack her morals, her self-respect, etc.. Sometimes I go back and read messages and think "wow. your an As$" But it almost makes me mad that she does it. She as no interest in a relationship, and does not care about them as a person at all! Its shallow I do NOT want that for myself at all. But I cannot help but feeling somewhat jealous. Why? Maybe I envy the fact that she can even get someone |
| Question: Why shouldn't i kill myself? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 04:40 PM PDT I try and do what i can for people. But blamed no matter what. I'm always to blame about everything. No matter what i do i'm blamed and nobody wants anything to do with me. I'm just some idiot. |
| Posted: 17 Aug 2016 04:29 PM PDT the only way we ever talked last year was if we were in the same class but this year I have no classes with them and rarely ever see them Is there still a way for me to become friends with them and talk to them? I am very shy and I think I have social anxiety and can never talk to this person outside of class. Does anyone have any advice? Like I have tried many times and have never succeeded because of my shyness. Even at soccer when they score I can never get myself to say good job or anything and when I score they say good job and I am too shy to even say thanks. I really wanna be friends with this person which is the reason I feel I am so shy. Their best friend is in almost half of my classes but I have the same issue around him. Like I want to become friends with both of them but because of my shyness/social anxiety I cant talk to them. I am more shy around them than anyone else and idk y. I am relying on group projects to have us talk but still thats not enough to become friends. WHAT DO I DO? |
| Question: How to not be so shy? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 04:28 PM PDT I have a a handful of good friends (and my family) who I can talk just fine with, in fact I'm loud and I never shut up when I'm with them. But for some reason I can't be this outgoing around anyone else, boys, girls, adults, anyone. It's worrying me because the only way I ever make new friends is if my close friends are with me and we are all hanging out together, which worries me because I feel like I'll never be able to get a boyfriend. I'm honestly not super stressed about getting a boyfriend right this second but I don't know how I'll ever manage to get one in the future because I can't talk one on one with someone, especially guys and ESPECIALLY a guy I actually like. It's like when I'm talking with another person that I don't know super well, I can't think of a single thing to say and I wonder what in the world I ever talk about with my friends and how the heck we never stop talking. I've always been more of an introvert but one of my goals going into sophomore year this year is to be more outgoing and comfortable talking to people! I know theres like nothing to worry about but idk how to just talk and be myself. |
| Question: Why me and not her boyfriend? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 04:21 PM PDT I accidentally walked in on my friend Melanie changing alongside her boyfriend Matt. She didn't expect us to come in, so we ended up seeing her almost naked. I felt embarrassed, apologized, and ran out, but Matt was hypnotized and stayed. But then I heard a slap and Melanie yelling at him to get out. A second later Melanie said I could come back in and actually apologized to me while changing right in front of me. Awkward. I'm a guy too, but why would Melanie refuse boyfriend but let her friend watch her change? |
| Question: What to do if the female friend is nicer to you than the guy friend? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 04:18 PM PDT |
| Question: How can I help a crack addict? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 04:15 PM PDT I m 16 and my friend just called me and told me she s started using crack. I have no idea what to do but I care about her so much and I don t want her to ruin her life. |
| Question: Cold and cuddling with a friend appropriate? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 04:10 PM PDT Sometimes when it's cold or when we are tired my best friend Jenna and I (I'm a boy), will take a snooze in a hammock or on the couch. We cuddle. Yes it does feel nice, but that's as far as we take it. Nothing sexual happens and we are just comfortable and trust each other greatly. But is it wrong cuddling with a friend of the opposite sex? |
| Question: What is with my online friends asking me to buy phones for them? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 04:06 PM PDT I have a lot of online friends. At least of them had asked me to buy phones for them and send it to their countries - one from India and one from Africa. Both are guys. I don't know why a guy would ask a girl to buy a phone and send it to their country? The friend from India even gave me his address. Of course I am not doing that. I may not have a lot of real life friends, but I know that friends don't have to be pressured to doing such things. |
| Posted: 17 Aug 2016 03:35 PM PDT I really hate school, but maybe not for reasons you think. I'm 14 and in the 8th grade. I'm supposed to be in the 9th, but I failed the 7th grade because I didn't do any work. My only real friend is in the 9th grade and I don't think she likes me anymore. This boy that I'm "friends" with thinks I'm weird and I'm sure he doesn't like me anymore. Today was the first day of 8th grade and I almost had a panic attack. I have social anxiety and I'm socially awkward so it's hard to make friends. I also almost cried. I want to do online school but my mom won't let me. I just want to make some friends I can relate to. Like people who like anime and cosplay, but I know no one like that. I fell like I'll only make friends when I'm in my twenties and I go to cosplay events. Sorry I got off track, back to school. I just don't want to be there. I want to live my own life. I feel like I have no freedom. I'm a nobody and I have no one. I feel like everyone at school is judging me. I want to see a therapist or something but I'm scared to ask my mom. I don't know what to do? |
| Question: How do I get an old person to forget what they asked about? Maybe around 60ish? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 03:29 PM PDT I went to the mall on Sunday with my friends and I bought a crop top. Tonight my grandma requested to see whatever I bought at the mall and I really don t wanna show her. Somebody please help me make her forget... How do I get somebody to forget what they asked about??? |
| Question: How to get rid of bad friends? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 03:29 PM PDT I have 3 friends who are constantly with me in school, they are even being suffocating. However, when it's a vacation they never call me and hang out without me. What should I do when they come back to me in school - tell them to get lost or just ignore them? I have other friends too, so I don't need people who only use me. By the way, I called them a few times and invited them for a sleepover and many other things, but they always lied me they were busy. |
| Question: Friend can't take a hint? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 03:29 PM PDT so i have this friend lets call her.. mia. Mia is this person who has a fragile ego, you can't tell mia anything that is "mean' even though its not mean she thinks she's an amazing dancer and singer and she really sucks, i know this sounds really mean but i am trying to be really nice to her but i CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE, she embarrasses me in public and i just don't like her if mia didnt have such a fragile ego we would not get along you know what i mean? we are just not compatible but for some unknown reason she wants to be friends with me and cannot take a hint?!?!?!?! i haven't talked to her all summer and she has texted me once, i don't want to talk to her or be friends with her, i just don't like her at this point, what should i do, i don't want to be mean but she cannot take a fcking hint, and now I'm just mad, what should i do!?!?!?!?!? |
| Question: My life feels like it is falling apart?!!? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 03:05 PM PDT I am a fourteen year old girl who is going into high school. A few girls from my old school are coming with me but i am not that close to them and they always hang out without me. Also my best friend seems to become more distant from me and almost every time I ask her to hang out she is busy with other people. I go on social media and see that everyone is having fun without me and I feel really depressed. I'm scared that I'm gonna get to high school and have no friends to be friends with. And now to make everything worse I have soccer tryouts this week but I haven't played in forever and the coach was talking to me and said that it was on the fence whether I am going to make it. The girls who I have sorta made friends with seem like they will definitely make the team though and I just don't know how to get out of this situation. Can someone please help me??!!! :((( |
| Posted: 17 Aug 2016 03:05 PM PDT Today is the 25th anniversary being discharged from the military. I am doing a lot of thinking about that time and I am reaching out to some old friends whose email I have. I also had a very serious girlfriend/fiance who initially traveled home with me, etc but then returned to New England (where she lived) until I got settled. Of course, the long distance ended it. I looked for her online today, (facebook, etc.) but only found her physical address. Is it okay to write her a letter just to say, I still remember and I value our time together? (Sort of like my other friends, but not exactly.) Or is that too weird? |
| Question: Being a loner or smoking weed with stoners all day? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 03:01 PM PDT |
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| Question: My friends pranked me? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 02:45 PM PDT OK so this guy that I like (p) and one of my best friends (d) who is also a guy told me that they were hanging out at his (d) house which is down the street from mine. P kept saying he didnt care if i came over cuz they werent doing much but i was forced to wait a half hour until P said i could come over. He told me he would come outside with D. He never came outside. P then told me to go to like 3 other peoples houses because they were there. I ddint because i knew he was lying. Then after i went home P convinced me to come to D's house and so i did. When i knocked on the door, D and a whole bunch of other guys i knew (who i didnt want to hang out with) were there. They said P wasnt there. So i went home and then P told me to come back. I told him i was fed up. Mom is yelling at me for crying because she said its no big deal and im being a baby, but i liked him and they all lied to me. Now im home and crying because they pranked me for 2 and 1/2 hours straight. I told them i wasnt coming back and now they are all calling me dumb and an idiot. What do i do? Am i overreacting? |
| Question: Why would my friend get so offended by this? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 02:27 PM PDT So the other week my friend and I went to a conference for work and we were talking with the manager's. But as we were talking the lady asked my friend "where she is from?" and my friend said california, but the then other lady was like where are you originally from?" and after my friend got upset. she is chinese descent but born in usa |
| Question: Teenage girls who can drive would you have done this? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 01:58 PM PDT I just got back from picking up my younger sister at her friend's house. Since it was hot out and I did not get out of my car and was only gone for about 20 minutes I drove in my bare feet and did not bring my shoes. |
| Question: At college and have no idea how to make any friends? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 01:53 PM PDT I am trying to say sober from drugs and alcohol, but alcohol allows me to socialize and not stress out about it. I just wish I had alcohol for this first week of college so I could easily meet people instead of hiding in my dorm (no roommate). How do I stop obsessing over alcohol and just make friends? |
| Question: How do I tell this girl that we can't be friends? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 01:39 PM PDT I'm a 14 year old white teenage girl and there's this girl that I've been talking to for a while and she's a 19 year old Korean girl. (I know it sounds kind of gross to be friends if I'm white and she's Korean but I spoke to her anyways :/). She treated me like her little sister for as long as we started becoming friends and she's a typical college student who volunteered at my school for homework program (where college students volunteer to help middle and high school students if they're not doing well in school) except the fact she's Asian. My parents have always taught me that I'm not supposed to befriend or date people outside our race because mixed families and people from different races being friends is becoming a big problem in society and even our maybe president Donald Trump thinks that we should make this country better again. I don't wanna hurt her feelings by telling her it's not right for us to have a friendship and she probably isn't able to make much friends in college because the majority of our state is Caucasians/whites, what should I do? My parents told me that I need to stay away from her because Asian families beat their kids up, abandon them, and they're not good people. I can't really imagine she'd do something like that and I'm a good kid so I listened to my parents and now I wanna tell her why I don't wanna be her friend and why I'm ignoring her. Help? I'm not her friend anymore and I think my parents are right though :/ I mean I know that Mexicans and blacks are drug addicts, Asians abuse their children, etc. I've seen it myself and heard it. |
| Posted: 17 Aug 2016 01:37 PM PDT I had a really horrible friend, who I finally told to stop talking to me a couple months ago. I just wanted to move on without toxic people. We've graduated high school, but unfortunately I came across some of her social media the other day and all I see is her constantly shading me & my other friends (without directly mentioning us of course). She can't get over it, and it's really irritating but there's nothing I can do to stop her obviously. I know it shouldn't bother me but it's so hard to not message her to shut up and move on. Can I have some advice? I know how she is and she will obsess over anyone she hates for months and months and months. |
| Question: Should I stop being friends with them? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 12:50 PM PDT For the past couple of years, my two friends (girls) have been in conflict with each other (we are all in our 20s btw). Lets just call them A and B. So A basically tortured B verbally, and B started to lose interest in their friendship. However, B didn't tell A that she didn't want to be friends with her anymore, and that she thought that A was mean to her. So A got sad that they didn't see each other anymore. Then they dragged me into this annoying and immature conflict, and I tried to heal their friendship. I told B that she should have a conversation with A, so they could solve this problem. Well… B didn't do anything. However, I felt sorry for A so I, as dumb as I was, decided to tell her that B got hurt a lot by the things A said. And then the drama just went on... And it ended with B writing to A that she didn't want to be friends anymore because of their differences. Few months later, B wanted to be friends with A again, so now they are friends. After that, I have felt that they have turned against me, and are being mean towards me. I have always been there for them, but they have never really supported me with anything. They don't even want to visit me, because I live too far away (20 km from them). It's me who has to visit them. Or I have to pay for them to visit me. They make me so sad… At this point, I don't know what to do anymore… What do you guys think that I should do with this? |
| Question: Does this make me weird or a no fun guy? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 12:42 PM PDT Ima guy and I kinda don't play sports. Only sport I like is volleyball and I play it sometimes. So I'm really quiet and don't talk much to people just my friends. I always have a serious face and sometimes look mad but I'm not. I barely smile just with my friends. I watch anime and some people make fun of me cuz of that and it's for weird people. I just feel hated and left out cuz of what I do and who I am. Does all this actually makes me weird? |
| Question: I don't have any classes with my best friends and I am worried we will fall apart? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 12:19 PM PDT So I am going into 10th grade and last year I made 5 new friends and we all became so close. I suck at making friends and last year I had them in all my classes. But I get really anxious when I don' know anyone in my class and this year none of my friends will be with me. I am super shy so I suck at making new friends, plus I don't want us to grow apart. In my whole life these are the first true friends I have had. |
| Question: How should I get revenge?? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 12:15 PM PDT So the story is I smoked weed with this girl at school and we got caught and she thought it was me who snitched.. Lmao she's a dumbass because when the principle says "Camilla told us you did so just admit it" they're obviously bluffing and she admitted that we did like wtf??! She's a dumbass and brags about being expelled from like 3 diff schools but she's just so stupid she gets caught every time. And she got suspended from school. So anyways I wanted to buy weed from her and it's been like 6 months since then. And when we met up she gave a a bag of literal grass and pine cones! I gave her $65! That's seriously ****** up! But I know it was stupid of me not to check what was in the bag but we were in public so.. But I know it's still my fault. But anyways how should I get revenge? I can't beat her up btw I'm weak asf lol. I know where she lives tho.. Should I key her car or something?? Please help this ***** is ****** up. |
| Question: I'm thinking about shoplifting. Any advice? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 12:09 PM PDT To keep the story short, I'm a college girl that just moved out on her own for the first time. I'll admit it, I ****** up, I should have been saving my money while I was living essentially for free, but I didn't because...well I have bills and friends and unexpected things come up. Although, after hanging out with a friend whois homeless but managing to live off his $10K of savings, I feel like a real asshole and that argument is lame. I've just been immature. All that aside, I'm in a bad situation. I've spent every last dime I have on rent and have no money for anything else. I've applied for food stamps because I'm actually eligible, and went to the shockingly spare food pantry my school offers, but still I might starve if I don't do something in the next few days. My next check isn't till the end of the month and I've got enough food for about 3 days. I've applied for last minute gigs, and I'm hoping to hear from something. I grew up poor so my parents and friends can't help. |
| Question: She said she only wanted to be friends from the start? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 11:55 AM PDT 2 years ago, I started hanging out with my crush, we met in school but she was 23 and I was 18 at the time....... she would stare at me soo much in class, When we hungout she would blush alot. and would call me cute all the time, a few months later she didn't want to hangout anymore because she was scared of giving me ideas. so she drifted apart, but she would still message me once a month to catch up. She told me a week ago that she can only offer me friendship, and we still text once a while. if she liked me why doesn't she tell ne the truth??? :( I need advice on this situation please |
| Question: Do we like each other? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 11:49 AM PDT So I work at my best friends store and one day we got a new employee who happened to be his step brothers girlfriend. She's from a different state so she didnt know anybody from here. We soon had a couple shifts together and we started talking and realized we had a lot in common so after that we started hanging out and her boyfriend was fine with it because he understood i was the only friend she had here. Everything was great i had a new friend and so did she. The problem is that my friend told her that her and i can't be friends because it's going to make things weird and that we were already hanging out to much. She told me about this the next day and I was of course confused and mad because he had non right to do that. It just seems like now things are different because of it. We had a talk and we both expressed that we were just friends and that we were thankful to have eatchother. But just the other day she blew me off when we were supposed to go to the movies and now she's deleting me on social media. Could it be that she has feelings for me and that she doesn't want that to interfere with our friendship? Also I have had feelings of her to and sometimes I wish it was different but I just don't wanna lose her as a friend, she's become a big part of my life. So what should I do or say to her to get things back were they used to be? |
| Question: How to tell my friends I don't want them anymore? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 11:48 AM PDT I have 3 good friends who are always around me in school but during the vacation they were going out together and didn't even call me once. When I called them, they were always busy. They want me only in school but I don't want them anymore. What should I do? How do you tell someone you don't want to be friends with them anymore? Please help! 10 points for a good and detailed answer! |
| Question: Why do people think im an idiot? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 10:59 AM PDT I have a 163 IQ. Most of my classes are hs honors and im in middle school. The rest are gifted. I have never gotten a report card grade below A-. I read 3 books a month, mosly classics. My testing scores? 99th percentile. But everybody thinks im an idiot. I get higher tests scores or beat them in academic competitions. People insist its luck. My friends joke about how im probably going to fail engineering. But they dont know that the school insisted i be in it because id excel. How do i stop this? To anyone saying im bragging: I have no intent of "showing off" im just trying to show that i dont have a learning disability or i am socially inept. Im a 13 y/o girl. Be less vulgar. Being called an assdick isnt what i was hoping for. thanks |
| Question: Today is my birthday and my best friend didn t wish me happy birthday? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 10:58 AM PDT So I ve know my best friend for 7 years and we are extremely close. Yesterday we were just talking about my birthday so she knew, on top of the fact we always had this tradition to text each other at midnight on their bday. For some reason she didn t do it so I though okay well maybe she fell asleep. I went to sleep and woke up hoping from a text from her and nothing. I have some text here and there from family but none of my friends(tbh I don t expect much from the rest of my friends but her I did because we act like legit sisters). It already one o clock and I still haven t heard from her or anything. Honestly I m just wondering should I even be friends with someone how can t even be bothered to text me happy birthday? |
| Question: Why would someone be the only guest at a birthday party? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 10:49 AM PDT Hi So I ve been invited by a friend to celebrate her birthday around drinks. She is thinking of going to a nice fashionable bar/club. I m not sure but I get this feeling that I m the only person invited from the structure of her message. We re friends and hung out many times, but I m not sure if she would have thought of asking me if I would organize a gathering for my birthday, which was 2 months ago. I m tempted to accept her invitation, but I don t feel used if I m the person she invites when her friends are not around. Her birth day is Monday 22nd August, but I have plans to go on vacation on Wednesday. Should I accept her invitation or should I decline? |
| Question: How do I get the rid of fake friends without telling them? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 10:47 AM PDT K, so I only have 2 friends. One of them is fake and the other one started to hang out with other ppl. She wants to be friends with them, more than she wants to be friends with me. And I am a true and good friend. So I guess she is kinda fake too... But she's nice to me anyway. I don't wanna have fake friends. But if I lose them, then I will be a loner, I think. But rather be a loner, than have fake friends, right??? |
| Posted: 17 Aug 2016 10:45 AM PDT I have been at this for 3 years now. Until 2013 I had an easy life and I didn't have to try being childlike and cheerful because it came naturally. In 2013 my dad left and my mom couldln't afford to keep the house so her, my siblings and I moved into a smaller house for one year and then into my grandparents house where there are now FIVE people living but only two bedrooms. Long story short it has been rough. I started to notice myself smiling less, feeling less excited and energetic, put on weight and tended to act more..serious. I freaked out and started becoming obsessed with becoming the old me again. The happy, naive and full of hope and wonder me from 2012! So I looked at my old photos and decided to lose the weight, do my hair and make up like I use to and smile more. Looking less wore out and serious and more like the old me did make me feel better. But later it escelated to me acting dumb and innocent on purpose and pretending to be super sweet to everyone even if I knew they didn't like me or talked bad about me. My boyfriends mom isn't always very nice to me but I started acting oblivious and like I believed her and everyone else LOVED me and were my best friends. I know this has become nothing but an obsession and a coping mechanism but I don't know how to stop. I literally can't picture myself going through life and NOT being that cute, kind, naive and innocent girl. I started to get this idea that if I'm this cute, kind and innocent girl that no one can ever blame me for anything or say that I'm a bad person. If someone is a jerk to me and I act sweet and intimidated THEY will look more like the bad guy and I will seem more like the victim than part of the problem. |
| Question: Do you think it's depression or sadness? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 10:42 AM PDT I have two friends and we were best buddies and they are girls. I knew them in freshmen year in high school and they were junior and senior. we used to hang out like almost all the time. I'm a senior now and I knew them for 4 years, and she graduated in 2014 spent two years at niacc and now she's moving to uni in cedar falls Iowa. I live in mason city Iowa. it breaks my heart to see her go. I never dealt with my friends moving before. its my first time and it makes me sad I feel like crying. I don't know how to deal with this. I am tired of being sad. I like your advise on how to cope with this. Will I heal? No negative comments please! |
| Question: Would you dump your boyfriend if the did this? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 10:32 AM PDT I work in an office with 9 other people. I am the only woman in the office. The guys I work with are terrific. I am happy to go to work each morning just to work with these great guys. They are always there for me when I have questions or need help. After hearing other women talk about their jobs, I think I am one of the luckiest people on earth. I am not married but most of my co workers are but none of them hits on me. If I need something to do my job, they get it for me. They have a tradition that after work on Friday, they take me to a different restaurant each week for dinner. They say they just want to thank me for all the great work I do for them during the week. I really enjoy these dinners and so do they. However my boyfriend found out about them and demanded that I stop "Going on a date with 9 guys". I tried to explain to him that it was not a date. It was just friends going out for a meal. I invited him to join us but he refused. He said the only reason they were doing that is so they could get in my pants. I think his jealously got the best of him so he is now my ex boyfriend. Why is it so hard for guys to believe that a girl can have male friends that are not trying to get into her pants? Do you think I did the right thing to dump him? |
| Question: Is my friend too needy? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 10:18 AM PDT Hi I m in highschool and during school and summer my friend expects us to hang out every single day. During the summer he ll snapchat me saying that he s on ps4 so we can play something. The problem I have is its every day he does this and he gets mad when I tell him that I don t want to play. During school he wants to walk around together before class starts even if I have something to do. It honestly feels like he thinks we re in a relationship and I feel it s too much. Is he being too needy or is it me? |
| Question: What if a friend only invites you somewhere when his other friends aren't available? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 10:01 AM PDT I have been accepting the invites but its getting hurtful. He was like a best friend but now only invites me when the "A' team isn't around or when he needs a certain amount of people for something (soccer pickup game or poker game). Getting ready to start declining. What should I do? |
| Question: No friends, no hobbies, no life? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 09:47 AM PDT So I have like 2 hobbies and 2 friends. One of my friends are fake and the other one am I almost never hanging out with anymore. My 2 hobbies is to stalk my idol and play agar.io. I don't have other things to do. I wish I had. But my dad won't let me hang out with my friends, go to the town alone or with friends or let me go to sport or other hobbies in my freetime. I dont have troubles with that I dont have any friends, bc I am not sensitive or lonely. It's enough for me to have my idol and myself. And I learned to deal with it. But the problem is that, when ppl ask me what I like to do in my freetime, then idk what to say. I never go on vacation bc my family don't have money for that. And I never go shopping, bc of that. It's not bc I care what other ppl think, but ANYWAY. And now I have to write a self portrait essay and don't know what to write. Pls help me Btw I am a girl The only thing which scares me is that I can't have any friends in highschool bc nobody wanna be friends with some1 they cant be with in their freetime. And then who should I be with when I am over 18? I dont think that u get friends in university (theres no college in my country) But I'm ok rn btw... (: If u care haha pls help me with my essay SCHOOLS MEAN EVERYTHING TO ME! |
| Question: Should I go out with my coworkers again? Am I being dramatic? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 09:16 AM PDT Last night I went to watch a coworker perform at a small empty studio. I drank a bit before I arrived bc I knew I'd be bored/tired if I didn't. The crowd is the prentiois hipster liberal type. I bought another drink and drank it in the gallery along with everyone else. I was talkative and I remember one guy telling me to stop talking to him so he could hear the show. The guy started our conversation but I was just like oh ok whatever. My friend heard him & said that the guy said it loudly. I was embarrassed. Later I was talking to a friend of a friend & it's fuzzy but I remember telling him I'm not a liberal & he gave me a funny look then went to speak to our friend & he left. Once my friend got on stage to perform I walked out to sleep. My other friend came to me & said the show was over. I was asleep for about 10min. I feel really embarrassed today & I didn't act crazy but this crowd is so judgemental/prentitous. I've seen them drunk/high before but I just want to avoid them forever now. Am I overthinking this? Should I even comment on the night with them? |
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| Question: No girls allowed? Is it an image thing? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 08:55 AM PDT All my friends who are guys refuse to hang out with Alisha, our one female friend, unless she is dating one of us because the only girls they want tagging along are their girlfriends. Basically they pretty much banished Alisha saying they only wanted guy time. I thought it was so stupid of them, especially since we were all good friends with Alisha always being "one of the guys". In the end I ended up leaving too because of how retarded my other friends are being. Nowadays me and Alisha hang out exclusively together, best friends. Alisha really loves that I never betrayed her. From time to time my friends ask if we're dating, which I say no, and then they think I'm gay for hanging out with a girl. I honestly don't know what came over my other friends because Alisha never meant any harm. They only wanted Alisha to be property, like how they treat their girlfriends to keep up an image. What is wrong with them? And what is so wrong with being friends with Alisha? |
| Posted: 17 Aug 2016 08:50 AM PDT Hi i am 24 years old and i am lost.....for years i have been brainwashed by family that the only thing that is important is work and school or money. I grew up with a mother who didnt socialize and never wanted us to socialize too much, just sit at home....i still live with her but i found out too late that life is not about those things but about love and friendships...i am 24 and i have no real close friends, no besties, nothing and i am scared too move out without a social support system....i never had a bf either or sex or anything.......i swear i just want to give up and end it because i have no idea how to move on... |
| Question: Who is at fault and what do we do? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 08:49 AM PDT My best friend and I invited a mutual good friend to a fair. The mutual friend says she has to work the night shift so she can t stay long. My best friend and I get to the fairgrounds first as the mutual friend and her husband is 10 min behind. We park far away from the fairgrounds and warn her by text. While waiting, we share a funnel cake and play some games. She arrives 30 min later and decides to get food with her husband. Me and my best friend decide to go catch a show and tell her to meet us there. She gets her good and meets us there, looks kinda upset and leaves shortly. Two weeks later, my mutual friend says she is angry at both of us because she felt ditched and lied to about hanging out. She said we should have waited for her to get food and go watch the show together. My best friend and I told her she needs to let it go but she threatens our friendship and wants to end it. I told her it s a bit drastic as we ve known for for many years over an Incident like this and that she should ve told us sooner. my best friend and I was surpassed by this. We re wee in the wrong? How should we proceed with this? The bad thing also is I work with this good friend so it s hard to avoid her too. |
| Question: Should I have ask him to hang out or it don't really matter? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 08:48 AM PDT So I'm 20 and graduated from high school 2 years ago (yeah I'm start a new bird). I rarely to none hang out with people from high school because everybody feel out, pretty much like every other young adult or older teen feels and hang out with other people from college or other cities. I rarely see people from high school and we will talk but that's it. So I saw somebody from high school and we talked for awhile and then we left to our own way but as I was driving, I thought about asking for his number to see if he wanted to hang. But our lifestyles are different, he graduated early and goes to a unviserity and has a internship while I just work full time and bull$hit with friends that I meant after high school. So should I ask or its whatever don't worry about it? |
| Question: Are we overreacting to our new friends? What would you do? Posted: 17 Aug 2016 08:42 AM PDT We have met a very nice couple about 9 months ago. More we get know them, we feel that they are not really who we thought that they were - Potential Good Friends! First 4 months, they were just fine & we got closer & quickly became bonded. We even did some overseas travels together & everything went well. They had a very nice resort abroad & we think that they have wonderful place/business and happy for them. We always paid our shares. We do not use them! Numerous occasions we invited them over for nice dinner/parties for last 5 months. Every time they come over, they want to know everything, where we purchased the food,,desserts….how much exactly we paid for them… We simply want to have good times & enjoy our company. Now things are at different level of questioning: They want to know where we got & how much we paid for our entry door, floor, decks, awning, and cars etc. They are buying a new car looks like ours (all same color), deck, color entry door, kitchen floor etc…. If we say that our relatives are coming over, they want to know: Exactly how many people are coming over, who they are, how many days they are staying, what they are doing etc… So then next time, they would say we have a lot of relatives are coming over and staying longer with us than your guests etc… Weird! We feel like that we are converted back to our kindergarten days. We have never had friends like them. We tried to be fair & respectful. Now they are annoying us! Are we overreacting? |
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