I'm 17 she's 36 but I've had a crush on her since I could remember. She knows what she does to men. We've had some fun in the past 3 years together we went to a concert she danced suggestively showing off that *** of hers. We went to a mall together and she bent over the register and I couldn't help but just admire that big fat *** of hers and she just looked at me with a grin on her face. We know eachother because our families are close. She said she likes when I have my arm around her waist. I try to it all the time when we're together. If she's driving I do it if we're walking i don't hold her hand i hold her waist & people look and I'm just like yeah she's mine. This vuluptous Latin beauty is all mine. The problem is that since her divorce got finalized she made a post on Facebook about how she's going back to celibacy for God but she knows she's bad. She takes pole dancing classes & has done contests for them & I just lost it on New Years when she talked about pole dancing and shed stand & I'd check her the **** out. Put her hand on my lap 1 more time & idk what I'm gonna do. I can't take this I'm not trying to objectify her I'm not normally like this but FML

I feel like he hates me. he doesn't make any mean faces, I just feel that way.

ok my mom is a SUPER CHRISTIAN and she just found out i'm having sex accidentally found my lingerie and now she's heated cause she thought i was staying a virgin till marriage anyways my boyfriend is 30 and has his own house and we've only been dating 3 weeks (were official he's introduced me to part of his family already) BUT SHE STILL THINKS HES A PLAYER since he s always cooking for me and bringing food for me to give them and she basically now thinks he's just doing all this too keep f**king me which is completely not the case anyways i've never spent the night over ANY OF MY BOYFRIENDS HOUSES DUE TO MY PARENTS JUDGING and saying a man just wants sex if he wants me to spend the night and its always put a strain on my last relationships I don't want this to happen again cause i can actually see a future with him WTF SHOULD I DO?? I KNOW IM A ADULT BUT I LIVE IN THEIR HOUSE AND THEY FIND WAYS TO MAKE MY LIFE HELL IF I DONT "DO WHAT THEY SAY" SHE'S ALSO I DONT RESPECT MYSELF CAUSE I WANNA SPEND THE NIGHT WITH HIM WTF?

This happened yesterday with some of my more distant family where my sense of humor and theirs just couldn't seem to find common ground. It was pretty uncomfortable for me.

Lately, I've been considering changing my and my son's last name. It's not that I have a big issue with our last name... it's a bit awkward, but that's beside the point. I'd like to use my dad's first name as our last name; yes our last name is his as well, it belonged to the man who adopted him and his brother, basically my son will be the only one to carry it on in the future. I don't know, I just don't feel any attachment to it, I was also in a violent relationship that was very hard to get out of; had to have a restraining order for years, he was arrested several times for stalking me... this is a major reason for me wanting to change our last name--- so we will be harder to find if he tries again. I have this need to sort of "reinvent". Input? Any else changed their last name sort of just because they felt they needed to?

So..., i'm 17 years old male, my mother is 35 and my father is 43. I finished growing, and my height is 170cm, my father is 174cm, and my mother is 167cm, or at least she used to be... . She underwent leg lengthening surgery and is now standing at 177cm tall. It was a bit shocking and surprising to see her even taller than my father now. It feels frustrating having to look up at her as she's now much taller than me..., she tease me about it, and she sometimes want to mesure me to see if i can "get up to her" even though i finished growing. I'm really confused and don't know how to feel about this..., has anyone experienced something like this, how was it and how did you feel about it?

Last night he messaged me asking how I am & if I got his text a couple of weeks ago. He knows I did because I replied to him. I was a bit tipsy yesterday from free work drinks & we were texting back & forth. He wanted me to see him. For me to basically make all the effort & go to his flat and see his new place. He's working today, so would have to leave early morning & by the time I would have got to his, all that's left to do is sleep (with him). I don't want that. To me he's not making an effort or taking things seriously. He's 33 soon. He said it took a lot to ask me to meet & he hasn't been looking for someone new. I still like him, but not prepared to be used. I said if I go to yours, then what? As friends? What happens after? He says he'll cook me pizza. Nothing is serious with him. I didn't go & he said it would have been nice to see me. Maybe another time & he hopes he didn't piss me off. Should i wait till he says he wants me back & makes an effort to make it work? We broke up because he said his life is a mess & it's not fair on me. He stopped being online. Now he's lonely & wants to see me.

i m only 13 years old and I like older guys but not what you are thinking of. I like boys like a bit older than me like 14-16 ;( no one knows because it s so uncomfortable to talk about. like it s not that I want to date them or do anything sexual with them but I want to lay down and like hug and it sounds so weird but to me it isn t! I feel safe like my guy friend hugs me all the time and he s 15 (I hang out with them because I grew up with them so I have a good relationship) and he tickles me (not in a weird way it s because i m younger than them and they think of me as their little sister as I think of them my older siblings) and that s what I want. like someone who can portray an older brother that will treat me like their little sister. is that weird?! please help

I put on my fb status that "you can do whatever you want . just do it" and it was towards someone. And that person comented" for sure"

Este chico y yo tenemos historia hemos sido amigos con derechos desde hace 5 años y estábamos en buenos términos....no lo voy a negar yo estoy enamorada de el y el de mi es que no lo se,pero el caso es que primero le pregunta a una amiga si no tardaba en llegar y llego y no se acercaba aunque me veía y andaba cerca de donde estaba se hacía el que no le veía hasta que después de un eso se acerco pero nunca le miro a los ojos como muy X,luego se volvió alejar pero mientras platicaba con amigos me volteaban a ver...me despedí y el muy cortante como que no quería que lo vieran cerca de mi y total que me fui muy sacada de onda con su actitud porq hace un mes y medio atrás lo vi en público y se comporto diferente más atento y así...me podrían decir porq actuó así chavos?!!!!

My boyfriend of two years just came to me and told me that he made reservations at a really nice hotel for my birthday. Which is in three days. Was suppose to be a surprise, but he knows that my parents are kind of strict. So he told me to ask them to make sure it's okay. I'll be turning 18. And I just want your opinions. I'm kind of scared to ask my mom to be honest. That day my boyfriend won't be able to be with me because my mom planned a girls thing with a couple of my girl friends that whole day. So he's giving me 250 dollars to get my hair, toes, eyebrows, nails, and get my outfit for the day. He's going with me to get all of that done. Just to bring my birthday in the day before and spoil me a little. But for my birthday night, he's getting the hotel. My Bestf told me that he's planning quite a bit for the hotel and the day after my birthday. BUT the hotel part worries me. I would love to! But my mom is the hard part. Would you let your daughter stay the night at the hotel? Or not? My mom knows I'm sexually active with him. Her and I have a pretty open relationship. She put me on birth control and everything. But what's your opinion on the situation????

So..., i'm 17 years old male, my mother is 35 and my father is 43. I finished growing, and my height is 170cm, my father is 174cm, and my mother is 167cm, or at least she used to be... . She underwent leg lengthening surgery and is now standing at 177cm tall. It was a bit shocking and surprising to see her even taller than my father now. It feels frustrating having to look up at her as she's now much taller than me..., she tease me about it, and she sometimes want to mesure me to see if i can "get up to her" even though i finished growing. I'm really confused and don't know how to feel about this..., has anyone experienced something like this, how was it and how did you feel about it?

10 years ago i met my boyfriend. He mistreated me very bad. He hit me while pregnant. Left me.alone.. cheated once at the beginning... forced me into sex after having he baby... not helping financially etc now he changed but i cant stand him. I dunno why i cant bring myself to like him since he changed.. i feel suicidal plus within these years i developed an eating disorder.. i dunno what i should do

So..., i'm 17 years old male, my mother is 35 and my father is 43. I finished growing, and my height is 170cm, my father is 174cm, and my mother is 167cm, or at least she used to be... . She underwent leg lengthening surgery and is now standing at 177cm tall. It was a bit shocking and surprising to see her even taller than my father now. It feels frustrating having to look up at her as she's now much taller than me..., she tease me about it, and she sometimes want to mesure me to see if i can "get up to her" even though i finished growing. I'm really confused and don't know how to feel about this..., has anyone experienced something like this, how was it and how did you feel about it?

I am shy and I am afraid to dance in front of people. The reason is because I feel like all eyes are on me and I am being watched. It feels so uncomfortable. I am also afraid to perform, give a speech, and a presentation in front of multitudes or even a small number of people. I get nervous and I have stage fright. My body trembles uncontrollably and my heart beats really fast. And because of this I make up excuses to hide in the bathroom. I don't have confidence or bravery.

In eight grade I had this one English teacher & she was bad af so I looked her up on Facebook. Sent her a request she accepted and we caught up on messanger. I asked her if she wanted to link up for coffe and she said sure. Keep in mind that I'm 17 & she's 33-34 somewhere around there. You know I'm trying to get in bed with her hopefully even become f buddies I mean look she's a bombshell. She got a nice big butt long blonde hair I want to give it to her and she's dated younger guys. What wouldyou advise me to do do you think I can get her straight to the bedroom after our little meet up

So my guy best friend, who I've always liked, and I were hanging out the other day. And he got a message from someone who he had in his phone as "Sleeping Beauty". They texted him saying "You know you're cool when you start playing PlayStation" Do you think this is a girl giving him a compliment, or is it a guy being sarcastic and funny? And why would he call them "Sleeping Beauty?" Someone help

But anyway, I want to save my money to record some songs I've written at a record studio. So far I have $733.21 dollars in my bank. The cost for recording songs at the studio I found is $90 or $80, I don't know. However, I also want to join a modelling class, a drumming class and a jazz dance class. The jazz dance class costs $160.00 and I don't know if you have to pay for the modelling and drumming class. And I work on Tuesdays, Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays. The jazz class is from Saturdays, but earlier than when I start work. The drum class is on Tuesdays and Thursdays and I don't know about the modeling class. So I'm asking you, what should I take and eliminate. I'm NOT eliminating the recording my songs cause that's what I'm saving my money for, but should I keep the jazz dance class, the modelling class or the drumming class?? PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

I'm 26 now and still only about 5'2. I'm turning 27 in a few months and I was joking around that it can be my 25th birthday again, so I like having a fun, youthful glow about me and aging in "vampire years." But the thing is I've always looked young and at one time it made more sense when everyone thought I was a lot younger than I was because I was super tiny and had an even higher voice and baby face than I do now. Even my mom's who's praised my young looks has acknowledged that I look older and more grown up. I'm tatted up and a lot thicker and more proportional now. I think I look between 21-25 tops. But I was at the hair salon the other day with my mom and this customer asked my mom and I how old I was. I answered 26. She was really shocked and said "Oh wow! I thought you were about 14!" 14?! Is she kidding me? I kindly told her I looked young, but I didn't agree with 14. She gave me the usual "take it as a compliment. You won't look old when you are old!" How is telling a grown up, often told she's sexy 26 year old with a degree and a career that she looks like a 9th grader a compliment? I don't get the "little kid" thing as often as I used to because I do actually look more grown up, but every once in awhile it rears its ugly head and it's more annoying now than when I was a kid and someone thought I was a younger kid. My whole thing is no matter how old or young I look, once you find out my age, why is it a topic of scrutiny and something to debate about?! Plus, age has many variables. Young people have mature features and vice versa and different people of different ages are in all sizes. So, how can one person dictate how other 26 year olds "usually look?"

long story short, we moved away to a small town in 2014, we moved back to our city the start of this year and we ve been renting until we can afford to buy a house. we re looking for houses to buy now and our old house is for sale and i really want to move back there because it was perfect but my parents don t because of our old neighbor who was always on drugs and stuff. How do I convince them that it won t be that bad? I miss our old house so much

This question isn't because i'm a horny preteen (lol). I asked this question because I want to ATTEMPT to understand the mind of a rapist (yes, i know it's impossible. Also yea, I'm a virgin. Still looking for the right one.) I mean does sex feel that good that you'd violate, destroy, humiliate, traumatize another human being?

The apartment was originally supposed to be for me and my small child that i have half of time (half the time with my co parent ) but roomate and i decided it was economincally in both our best interests to share the apartment. Things are good but honestly i feel like life would be better if I lived alone . I don't know how to even bring up or even ask my roomate how he feels about this . I've never even told him that i dont want to live together anymore . Help what should i do?

i always had an ultra high sex drive and im a teen. i cant bare it anymore and need to masturbate or well im not gonna tell you my sins okay. what do i do. fasting doesnt help much and cant get married cuz im underage. i feel in darkness and trapped. help thanks

My "roommate" used my SHARE of the money to buy groceries and at the last minute the landlord gave me a 24 hour notice to evacuate the premises, I am currently moved in my parents but DAMN he didn't give any kind of warning that this was gonna happen when he didn't pay his RENT like DAMN I feel taken advantage of.

there's this guy that I like who's half way across the country, and I really just want to talk to him, and confide in him because I have no one to talk to here, and i think it'd be nice to talk to somewhere who isn't from around here but I don't know how to get him to talk me.. I could call him on the phone and just tell him exactly how I'm truly feeling but I feel like I won't be able to get it all out, he and I aren't really friends we just know each other cause we used to work together and sometime I felt like there was something between us.. like I had to call him and ask him if he knew about my termination and he said no, and out of nowhere he told he was moving half way across the country.. and like a day later I randomly texted him and asked where he was moving to and he never replied... so, it's almost agonizing that he's so far away and making it hard for me to know him.. I didn't think it'd be this hard to just talk to someone..

So, my grandmother died and I have been given the burden of finding an outfit to wear on the day of her funeral. I was thinking a sparking gold blazer with black slacks, and matching shoes. Maybe some gold rimmed sunglasses. Is this too much? I don't want to spend too much for a funeral, but this shouldn't max about $450. Is that too much?

I have a young lady in my class who is straight up scared of me. She won't ever look me in the eyes, she has other kids pass in her homework, and has other kids ask questions for her. She has come over afterschool for help, and never once did she look directly at me. She has said she is scared of me... Why?

Just to put you in the context, my parents has been seperated since June of this year and since then, everytime he sees a woman let's say in the streets, he's going to get a look at her for a good 5-10 seconds. It could be a woman that,s in her early 20s too. It kinda of bothers me. Also, my dad is 50 years old

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now, living together for about five or six months. We have a house and are renting it and are signing another lease coming soon. We have talked about our future, and he says he sees me in his. When we found out we were signing another lease, he said "now we gotta get married" with a serious face and then he grabbed my hand and smiled. He's also been calling my parents the in laws and we were talking about our next big spend being between a dog or getting wifi in our house and he said quielty "or you some new jewelry" and when I said "huh" he said "nothing" and smiled. Do you think he's getting close to proposing?

Me gusta una chava de la escuela ya por 6 meses, no se lo eh dicho, porque no puede tener novio hasta los 18, todo iba bien hablabamos mucho y pues nos decíamos cosas "lindas", pero comenzando un nuevo semestre en la prepa, ella cambio mucho ya casi no me habla, y cuando yo le hablo parece muy desanimada o sin ganas de hablar, cuando antes no era así, y sólo es así conmigo, por que con otros chavos si habla como lo solía hacer conmigo, antes si yo no lo le hablaba ella iba hacia a mi, y ahora parece no importarle, y habla con otros chavos y aunque no debería me muero de celos, aunque los chavos con los que habla tienen novia, y uno es mi mejor amigo, pero aún así me dan muchos celos! Se acerca su cumpleaños ya para cumplir 18 y planeaba decírselo pero para cómo van las cosas ya no se, estoy muy inseguro y en serio la quiero, pero no se si ya todo se cayó, porfavor ayudenme a "recuperarla"