My ex girlfriend broke up with me about two months ago we dated for over a year and talked alot about a future. We had a long distance relationship but it was still amazing. Near the end we were not able to keep as much contact or see each other hardly ever. She said she wanted to break up until we were able to have a stable relationship. I of course got emotional and wanted to argue but eventually i realized i couldnt change her mind. I stopped contacting her for a month and didnt hear from her. I finally texted her to catch up and reopen the communication we had a light hearted conversation and had decent conversation she ended the conversation after a little. I waited another week and texted her again, again a decent response. She doesnt seem offended or anything and seems willing to talk but never initiates contact with me and im not sure if im bugging her and she is just being polite or i should move ford with contacting her more and try to make a better connection

I am literally in the middle of making the drive to go see him. My phone is stupid and not holding a charge. He was keeping track of me on glympse gos locator to see where I am. I had to put my phone in ultra power saving mode till I could get a new charger and I TOLD HIM that. I ended up checking into a room under my parents account. I called my mom and had her book it for me. The issue I am having is that he flipped out about it and didn't believe me about getting a room? He was all pissed off and suspicious about my stuff being off? Idk what to do. This is something that happens a lot with him. He questions me about everything, he is suspicious about everything and he acts like he believes nothing that I say. Kind of torn on what to do about it. It's an issue that I don't see being resolved. He just continues to do it and act weird over benign shut that he twists in his mind then questions me about it till we end up in a fight. I don't like being questioned nor do I feel like I deserve it. So... what should I do?

"Hey, I know you're like half way across the country but I was wondering if maybe we could talk more, I think it'd be kinda nice to get to know one another... that is, if you want to.. I just thought I'd be straightforward with you" if you read this text would you think I was unsure about myself and that I'm expecting rejection? Or would you think it's sweet and genuine? I want to be direct with the guy I like, and let him know what I want and how I feel about him, and I'm not sure if this text is clear enough, do you think it is

Okay I don't know if this sounds weird but I'm wondering if anyone else has experienced this. I've started to notice that the same months that have been bad/good months for me tend to be the same year after year. For example, typically March-August (excluding June sometimes...) are bad months for me. A lot of bad things happen and I tend remember being sad more than happy (that's not to say there weren't any good times during those months, but I tend to mostly remember it being bad) And then typically September-February are good months for me...good things happen, the bad drama and situations from the previous months settle down, and life is good (again, not to say there aren't bad times during those months, but I mostly remember things being good) March is probably the most prominent month that things go REALLY bad...where as November/December seem to be the most prominent months that are REALLY good. (obviously this isn't something that happens exactly every year, but it seems to reoccur A LOT) I just find this strange and I'd like to know if anyone has felt the same or something similar.

For the past year I've babysat for my aunt and uncle every few weeks, watching their two kids, who are 5 and 10. I love to hang out with them but almost every time I do I end up with a cold, once so sick that I had to skip school and work for the day. I don't want to stop babysitting them but no matter how much I wash my hands and tell the kids to wash their hands when I'm with them I still end up with a cold the next few days because little kids in general just tend to be germ magnets. Should I tell their parents about this? I don't want to make them feel like bad parents or that their kids are "dirty" because that's not necessarily true. Is there anything else I can do myself to stop from getting a cold every time I spend the day with them?

So hello im sorry for my bad english I'm latvian but I'll try to explain my situaction. back like in April we broke up after our break up week later she dated new guy but it didn;t work well and in May we got togheter again ofcorse she slept with that guy at first i was really hurt about is and sometimes angry but then I forgave her last week I figured out she was haning out with that guy and ofcorse I got mad and 3 days ago we broke up again. I think she;s dating him again because she don;t show up on facebook,pretty sure she spent these couple nights somewhere else that's what makes me thinking she;s seeing someone else. I know I have to stop checking her social media and let her go but I just can;t idk it's been only 3 days but when im at work and have a chance t ocheck her page im doing it and it really annoys me and hurts me knowing that she's haning out with someone and i don;t know with who I really want to get rid of this stalking feeling and get over her i m trying to keep myself busy and trying not to look at her page.

Hello. I am a 27 year old male who is in a relationship (homosexual), with my 24 year old partner of three years and I am in need of some advice on how to deal with a matter that has been presenting itself in our relationship. My partner, due to past abuse, detests being touched in any manner because he says his skin is extremely sensitive and the thought of someones hands on him, disgusts him. I can understand where he is coming from, because the man prior to me was horrid to him, but I feel as though he does not trust me due to it. I think he thinks I will cause him physical harm and emotional pain like his last partner did. He is very closed off to me as is and I can tell you it was a struggle to get him to even agree in being in a relationship (which is still questionable). He is never happy and always holding some form of anger or depression, which results in him being fussy and difficult to handle. There have been times when he has had complete breakdowns of crying if I accidentally get to close or touch him without permission and he will tell me it hurts him. At night there is always a barrier of pillows between us so that no contact is made and things such as intimacy or even the basics of kissing, hugging, etc are nonexistent. He is a sweet person, with a beautiful soul. but this is really harming him and it pains me to see him react like this to my touches. I want to show him what love can be like, but I cannot do that because it causes him physical harm. Help? (Rebecca) He has tried counseling quite a few times. All of it was extensive therapy, but none of it seemed to help. In fact, despite spending hours talking to a therapist for help, he never improved.

Im a senior in high school and lately a lot of people have been thinking im younger than i actually am. A kid from a class told me i look like a sophmore and told my friend that she looks like a junior. Also my counselor told me she thoight i was a junior, but that might be because my birthday is a little behind. Since im 16 right now. I dont know if i should take looking younger as a compliment or an insult.

I work at Starbucks and have this coworker that has been working with me for about six months now. He's already had a report turned in on him for trying to kiss a fellow coworker, and once they get back to us he will either be transferred or fired. I dislike working with him not just because of this, but also because he told me within a week of meeting me that he had feelings for me, which I didn't return. He has a habit of poking me repeatedly and hugging me a lot, which I've never really told him not to (which is my mistake) but I still feel uncomfortable and will avoid going to my store on a day off if he is working. I feel super uncomfortable while working with him because he does these things and also gets angry if you try to help him make drinks, but if we're in the middle of a rush he won't ask for help but will talk about you behind your back to other coworkers about how you didn't help him (which the reason I don't is because he always snaps at me when I do), and many other coworkers have noticed this. Should I tell my boss I don't want to work with this guy anymore? There's already a report in on him and he won't stay at my store no matter what, but HR can take a very long time on these things. I also would probably loose a lot of hours because this coworker usually works 30+ hours a week whereas I usually work 23-ish hours a week... What do I do?

I'm 25. My husband passed away a year ago. He was, at the time of his death, the only mand I'd ever been sexually active with. I am not emotionally ready to date again, nor do I want to lead men who might be interested on. But I also have a high sex drive that is now unfulfilled. I have been occasionally, not often, having one night stands. I always pick my partner thinking about safety first (does he seem like someone dangerous?). I always insist on condoms. I never lead the guy on. Of the four guys, the only one thats someone i really "know" I made extra careful befre i even invited him home to make sure he knew it was just for one night. And, again, this isnt often. My sister found out and called me the s- word. She also said its unhealthy. To me its just a way to fulfill something I need/miss, without moving into a new relationship too soon. If I was doing it left and right with any dangerous guy that moved, I'd be more concerned it was a bad decision. Thoughts? my sister found out because she caught me in the act with guy #4

I am 18 year old girl. We are on a vacation and me and my brother were on our phone in a cofee shop. It was late night and other men was there as well, but we were all on our phones. I came back home very late and my mom started to call me whore, slut, dirty whore etc and pulled my hair and kicked me. She said I was naked although I was wearing a long dress. I told her I am leaving and she said Yes, go ahead leave, I dont want to see you. I dont know why she would go off on me like that?

My aunt recently got married to the love of her life... Theyve been trying to have a baby for awhile and they were close but .... So turns out her bodys too weak to have one and i want to make her wish come true and give my aunt and uncle their wish on having a baby together... I offered to carry for them and the look in tgeir faces made me so happy because they were happy to have someone offer for them... I dont want no money for it i just want ti give them their wish! But doing all that medical stuff whats the cheapest way to go with it... Like should i do a go fund me and have people donate or is there a way that some companys help with the monsy situation... My aunt took me in from being in so many foster homes... She believed in me and made me the women i am today she accepted me in her home like i was her own and i would do anything to give her her one wish... Shes put everyone first in her life and helped out so many people even tho they screwed her iver with apartments money etc she always saw good in them and i just want one good thing to happen to her and my uncle someone help me please!!

I've been recently put to second violin from first violin in my orchestra. I am horribly displeased with that but seems like I can't really do anything rite. It was kinda hard for me and really sudden. I wanted to take a short break. So, I've tried talking with my mother about skipping tomorrow but she won't let me. It's only one day???

I'm a guy and I feel like my male married co-worker may be flirting with me. I'm not gay but this guy is a cool guy and we're friends so i don't want to get him in trouble. But I just feel that he may like me more than a friend with some of the things he's done: -always glances and major eye contact when we talk -he was driving a forklift one time and drove behind me following and raised his eyebrows at me and asked "do u want a ride?". -told me a couple of times that I looked "refreshed" -will notice when I'm having a bad day and will ask what's wrong and will try to cheer me up -pokes my hand with his finger and pats my back a lot -always acts aggressive and like one of the boys around everyone but always talks to me in a calm voice -apologizes a lot, especially for not reaching out to me during the shift -has sighed out loud while walking behind me -tells me a lot about his home life and how his wife and kids are wearing him out -has complimented my clothes a number of times -always seems to appear wherever I am -rubs his goatee a lot while maintaining eye contact while we chat Sorry for the long list. But just wanted your opinion. Me and him are friends and I don't want this to affect our friendship. Thanks

hi guys i'm muslim arab i turned 18 this june theirs something killing me and still i didn't tell anyone back in 2008-2009 when i was 11-13 my bro came in my room and raped me i was home alone i tried to run away but i couldn't i regret not telling my parents then after years when i was 14-15 i had sx with a driver but not rape and now i feel sorry about my self i started praying and i stopped having those stuff and now every time i see my bro i just wanna kill him i think i'M BI and i hate it because my dreams since i was 6 is to be a father and now its killing me and hurting me from inside i wish i could tell my parents but its late its to late :( my question is am i going to burn in hell? cause my bro raped me am i gay? if i didn't tell my parents and they die before me am i going to burn in hell :( everyone tells my parents how good and polite and respectful person am i and better then my brothers in school HE IS 25 btw i'm 18 thnx..

I am trying to find a good username for a date site, I'm a 24 year old female I have hazel eyes and brown hair that goes a little past my shoulders So far, for my hobbies I like singing, baking, and swimming For things I like - they are coffee, music, and photos Any suggestions, I really need one

Hi, I'm in a bad position and I need help, I'm a 15 year old guy and my friend and I want to hang out like we used to when we dated. The problem is her parents don't like me because we had sex. It was a stupid choice but we really want to hang out again. How do we convince her parents to let us. I've been really upset lately because I miss her so much. We have known each other for about two years so we know each other really well. Any advice??

How the hell am I 16? Why does time fly so fast?

My thinks that if I believe that a who is being abused by a parent has a right to hit that parent now she said that if I believe that I would hit my parent and be justified then I would have sex with one of my children. This is a legit conversation me and my mom just had. I honestly think she's crazy and is not using logic with this. My mom was a abused child and she was telling me about the abuse she took and I simply said I would have strangled/ attacked possibly permantly injure my parent if I was her in that situation she then said I don't trust you, you would have sex with a child. Because her friend who used to dream about beating up her parents molested her kids.... Her friend has mental illness.

Ok I had to break up with a girl because I felt like it was not going anywear I felt like she was not giving me the space I need if I was busy I would text saying I will call back I would. When Thre was an chance so Somtime she wouldn't answer didn't not complain but when it was her I always had to answer also when I check my fb notifications if I did not get to talk to she would say oh but ur on facebook like really I don't agree with a girlfriend is looking through your Facebook another thing. I was alway by her side for ever thing. I remember one time when something happened to me and my brothers and I try to talk to about it and I felt like she wasn't really listening I felt like that was really selfish like I sometimes I feel like like she listened and I feel like she didn't really listen you know I mean. Was maybe a little too clingy maybe I am not sure I.

To make this brief, I met a girl and she wanted to be roommates. I told her before signing up to be roommates that I am not an animal person and would not be renting a pet friendly apartment. She assured me that she would not be bringing any pets with her. A few weeks before move-in she sent me a picture of her puppy and said that she'd be bringing it with her. We got in a small altercation because I reminded her that I didn't wants pets and we agreed it we wouldn't have any. Also, the leasing manager and contract said her pet wasn't allowed without her paying fees and the roommates signing a consent agreement. The dog is supposed to stay in her bf's apartment(who lives in the same apt complex) and not be in our place. Earlier today, she informed me that she has brought the dog over several times without me knowing. It angers me because I feel disrespected. She is going against our agreement and is not taking my feelings into consideration. I don't want to be afraid to walk around the apt that I'm paying for and also feel stressed because she isn't following the plan. I want to report her, but I am not fully prepared for the chaos that will come with it. Any advice?

OK ya im crying now cuz a centipede was in my room and when i went to go use the rest room, i saw it was gone. Im really scared to leave my room. And if i say i have 3 darkling beetles in my room you just gonna say" if u have that y u scared of a centipede?" the beetles are in a container. AND I REALLY AM TERRIFEIED. I want to yell for my dad but im scared he'll get mad at me.

I have a friend that I've known for a while and she seems to get mad at me exactly once a month and its usually for bs reasons. Like you lied about (something that doesn't even matter at all) this, or Ill get a call at 3 am and its her asking me to steal my dads car to pick her up because she ran away ( I didn't). She doesn't freak out on any of her other close friends just me. It may be helpful to mention her dad treats her the same way and she hates it like to a point where she wants to kill herself. How do I help her control this? Why does this happen? IS there something mentally wrong with her? Please help I hate these fights I get all anxious and stressed out. Also may be important: I'm a dude and she is a girl. I'm 17 and she is 16. I I also don't get mad at her for anything. so I just don't get where it is coming from?

If these two people have children together and ended things in good terms and consider each other the best of friends why is it wrong for them to hang out and do things together.

I met her at my gym and we sorta flirted. Then, sh moved on and did her thing. I found out where she lived so I investigated a little bit. I know everything abour her. Her kids' names, her husband's website and their family pictures, her resume, her old address... Her relatives and where she's been. We already stopped talking but I feel like she should be with me. I even took a video of her working out.

I'm 17 she's 36 but I've had a crush on her since I could remember. She knows what she does to men. We've had some fun in the past 3 years together we went to a concert she danced suggestively showing off that *** of hers. We went to a mall together and she bent over the register and I couldn't help but just admire that big fat *** of hers and she just looked at me with a grin on her face. We know eachother because our families are close. She said she likes when I have my arm around her waist. I try to it all the time when we're together. If she's driving I do it if we're walking i don't hold her hand i hold her waist & people look and I'm just like yeah she's mine. This vuluptous Latin beauty is all mine. The problem is that since her divorce got finalized she made a post on Facebook about how she's going back to celibacy for God but she knows she's bad. She takes pole dancing classes & has done contests for them & I just lost it on New Years when she talked about pole dancing and shed stand & I'd check her the **** out. Put her hand on my lap 1 more time & idk what I'm gonna do. I can't take this I'm not trying to objectify her I'm not normally like this but FML

I had sex for the first time and I'm 14 going into highschool. We were at a party and we did some shots and people were drinking (note: I've never even kissed a boy or had a sip of achol until this point) and it was crazy but then it was all blurry after that. All I remember was me and him laying there and he was hovering over me then I remember nothing else. The thing is I don't remember saying we could have sex I mean maybe I did because I was so drunk but I really was planning on waiting. I barely knew the guy too so that made it worse. I'm not sure what to do or who to tell... I wish I had a clear vision on what happened.

let me be clear i do not expect to get all of this and i will be thankful for whatever i get. 1. moto g4 $200 ( I have done my research and this is the phone that would work best for me) 2. 6.5 gallon fish tank and supplies.( all together would cost about $60) 3. 4 ft bean bag $99 once again: I do not expect to get all of this, i just asked for many things because i want to be suprised