Family: Question: Is it right to call someone white trash because they curse?

Question: Is it right to call someone white trash because they curse?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 01:27 PM PDT

My mom has this whole new thing of calling me a 'white trash (whore)' because I curse when I'm stressed (which is mostly because of her) or I'm trying to exaggerate a point in the story... and I don't curse a lot. I don't do bad/sexual things. What do I do?

Question: I miss my family and my home...?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 01:14 PM PDT

I moved out to study last Sunday (I am 16) and I have been looking SO forward to it since February. I have been VERY excited to live on my own, be "independent", make my own dinners, get some space etc... But when i got here I felt horrible. I missed my cats and just being home. Then I started missing my family and especially my mom. I never thought i would as they have been the reason for me feeling like literal **** too often. But I do miss them and I will visit them "quite often" as I only live three hours away from them, but in the meanwhile... how can i cope with the homesickness? x

Question: Can someone please answer my question about family help?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 01:01 PM PDT

Here is the link to my question: https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160830123000AAlKqQa Thanks.

Question: Would i have my boobs exposed while you get pulled over by police or would you cover up while they look at my plate?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 01:00 PM PDT

Question: Does God purposefully sentence certain people to live painful lives?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 12:56 PM PDT

This is the only way I can think of to explain how terrible my entire life has been... I'm not a very religious person at all... but this is the only way that makes sense to me. My family has never had money, always struggling to pay bills, sometimes not having electric, gas, internet, or even a house sometimes... As a kid, my dad used to throw knives across the kitchen at my mom, I have literally no good memories of them from my childhood, when I was in 4th grade, my older sister decided she hates my dad, accusing him over 10 times of abuse, all of which were unfounded in the end, but this was enough to make my mom kick my dad out multiple times while I was sent off to a boarding school away from home. So while I was getting a free education my dad lived in a car in a Walmart parking lot, While my brother was getting in trouble with the police, and my sister was getting knocked up and pregnant, I then dropped out of the boarding school, and returned to public schooling so I could try and help my family heal... If anything, this made it worse, I began getting in trouble for stupid things, such as ISS for distribution of drugs (giving out mints) I lost nearly all of my friends, because i am one of the few non racists in my town. It got to the point where the only reason I didn't sit alone was due to pity. it got so bad at one point that I tried to kill myself many times. I was diagnosed with Autism, depression, anxiety, and many other diseases and things are only getting worse

Question: Is 16 too old to still be giving my daughter panti spanks?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 12:56 PM PDT

Question: Is it possible for my parents to share same sibling?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 12:52 PM PDT

Question: Who will cause more trouble? Older sister treats longer brother bad or Older brother treats younger sister bad?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 12:47 PM PDT

Question: How to get out of going somewhere with my dad?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 12:40 PM PDT

My mom won't be home for dinner and neither will my sister, so my dad decided to make me go to this party with him. Whenever I go to parties with him, I always just sit in the corner while he talks to his friends the whole time. He wants me to help set up and tear down the decorations and stuff. I really don't want to go, is there to get out of going? (It won't hurt his feelings, he knows I don't want to go) It's still summer for me, so I can't use homework as an excuse I already told him I don't want to go, he's still making me

Question: My mom just stole my leggings from my room that I was supposed to wear tomorrow because she hates leggings, what do I do?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 12:30 PM PDT

we have argued about clothes for years, she doesn't let me wear shorts, leggings, short-sleeves, or tank tops and I'm a junior in high school. Last year she took all my skinny jeans and when I was getting ready in the morning she lied about not taking them. Recently we had reached a sort of middle ground, but I have a debate tomorrow. I bought a dress that goes to my knees and is flowy, and she wants me to wear it with baggy, flare dress pants. I didnt want to argue so I just agreed, and I planned to change into leggings underneath at school. Today I came home and found my leggings gone from my room, I know she took them. What am I supposed to do??? Recently she has been crazy, she doesn't trust me (although she has a point) but still

Question: Is it true that teen boys enjoy hugs from their mother and won't show that he enjoyed it?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 12:28 PM PDT

Question: Is it true that teen boys enjoy hugs from their mother and won't show that he enjoyed it?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 12:28 PM PDT

Question: Is my dad a predator?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 12:28 PM PDT

While my dad was married to my mom, he was involved with a girl that went to my older brother's school. She just turned 17 at the time and my dad was well into his 40's. She and my dad had 7 kids together, 5 of which they had while he was still married to my mother. At one point in time we- my 5 siblings, my mom, my dad, my "step mom" and her 7 kids- all lived in my mom's house. After 12 years of this nonsense my mom divorced my dad and 3 years later my "step mom" left my dad(they were never legally married). I just caught wind that my dad was dating a 24 year old. As far as I'm concerned the man is a predator, thoughts?

Question: What would my sister need to get custody of my daughter so she can go to school in ms?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 12:25 PM PDT

Question: Who would show more love to a boy? His mom or his aunt?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 12:18 PM PDT

Question: Feeling very frustrated?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 12:15 PM PDT

I would really appreciate it if there were no hurtful/hateful comments regarding my situation please :/ So my grandma recently got her visa to come to the U.S., and the whole purpose of bringing her here from my country is to get her better treatment for her heart condition, and many medical problems. I knew from the start I had to assume some responsibility for my grandma seeing that both my parents work but it hasn't even been a week and I can see the toll my grandma's presence is having on my parents and I. My mom was a kidney transplant patient and still manages to work 30-35 hours a week because we have so many expenses and my dad is still paying off the loans he took for my mom to undergo her kidney transplant. My mom has not slept for more than 5 hours for the past 6 days because she is constantly at my grandma's beck and call be it day or night. I'm a junior in high school and come home after 8-9 hours of school, at which point my mom leaves for work and I am then entirely responsible for preparing lunch, dinner, snacks and of course spending time with my grandma until my mom comes home at 11 PM. I know I may be sounding extremely selfish but I am very into my studies and am exhausted for myself and my parents. I don't want to resent my grandma at all, I understand that it is absolutely not easy being a 62 year old with medical problems but I am concerned for my parents' health and my schoolwork. Is there anything I can do?

Question: Should I quit Weed?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 12:07 PM PDT

My family contemplated on me being an aunt but i highly doubt that I'll be a better role model to my niece...

Question: My father has a new gf and she's 24. I hate her and she hates me (I'm 17). How do I sabotage them?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 12:06 PM PDT

Question: Accidentally shoplifted!!! Please help!?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 11:59 AM PDT

My mom and I were shopping and we got like four shirts and my mom told me to go wait in the car so I did while she checked out. We were rushing because we had to go pick someone up and once we were gone my mom looked at the receipt and saw that the cashier didn't ring up one of the shirts and it still has that grey alarm thing on it. My mom said it went off when she walked out but thought nothing of it because she thought everything was bought. I feel super guilty even though it was an accident and don't know what to do! Is someone going to come after us because of it?!

Question: Do you think it is ok for kids to use real handcuffs when playing cops and robbers?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 11:31 AM PDT

Question: My sister cut herself?!?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 11:30 AM PDT

A few weeks ago my sister painted her nails and I was looking at them because they were really pretty, when I flipped over her hand, there were cuts all down her arm, I looked at the other one, and it was the same. They weren't bleeding or anything, they had healed but I just felt a shock of pain through my body. She quickly pulled her hands away from me, as her face turned bright red. I just sat there in shock, didn't know what to do. I asked why and she kind of smiled(a nervous smile)... It was really weird, she was using her smile to cover up her nervousness. She said it was because of our dad(we used to live with him up until a few years ago. He was abusive and a bully, particular towards her, because of my temper I could stand up for myself and talk back and frankly in the moment I could have been a judge. But back to the topic. My sister is very shy even though she is almost 15 she could never stand up to him. My mum is an alcoholic (recovering/clean for 6 years so it's all good) so we couldn't move with our mum until like 2 years ago because of the alcoholism.) and she said my dad is texting her ALL THE TIME pressurising her with texts saying stuff like "answer me" and stuff))) so WHAT DO I DO if I tell my mum she'll tell someone then they will tell the police and then they will take me and mermaid away from her and I have waited my LIFE to live with her, I'm not leaving now. HELP?!

Question: Why do I feel embarrassed when my mom hugs me in front of my girlfriend?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 11:23 AM PDT

Question: I feel like it would be better for eveyone if i was never born?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 11:12 AM PDT

My family doesn't care about me My mom always complains about her job that is too tired and stuff like that And she says that I never help her with the household chores Which is not true And she also says that im a kept son who doest wanna get a job Even though she knows im only 13 Should i wait until i get older to get a job and live alone?

Question: How do I be happy all the time?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 11:02 AM PDT

My mum and sisters and people in my class have always said that I have a temper. Yes I get angry on the normal occasion my mum also has a temper and it's way worse than mine. She only refuses to accept it. When I get annoyed about normal things (I'm 13) like cleaning my room, it's kind of obvious the reason I get stroppy is because I AM a teenager and I CAN'T HELP IT! I have 2 sisters (14 and 24. The 24 yr old doesn't live with me...) when my older sister comes to visit, 5 Minutes later my mum gets pissed off about the SMALLEST THINGS EVER!!! Like I'm 2 minutes late to class, or I forget to bring a jumper to school. It literally drives me INSAAAANE. And when she gets pisseed off, I get pissed off, later I get sad. And I have just always felt myself being sad. Around my friends they always ask me what's wrong and of corse I have to lie because I don't want to explain my life story to them, I'm sick of pretending I'm happy. How can I actually be happy?

Question: Do I tell her mom?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 11:00 AM PDT

Ok I have a step daughter who is 14 im 32. The other day ( Friday night) I was up went to the bathroom which is right next to her room I just glance at her door which was shut but (I seen through the little crack) She was over there naked watching a video playing with her self. Me not really thinking opens up the door I seen her naked body and a hair brush....What do I do??

Question: Are my parents too strict?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 10:50 AM PDT

My parents only let me be on my phone for an hour a day, and I'm 14 and they won't get me a real phone. Also I have to go to bed at 9:00 pm and basically no desserts. Anyone feel me?

Question: So say I had some moldy potatoes. If I baked the potatoes for 80 minutes in 400F/203 C degrees, would the mold be relatively harmless?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 10:49 AM PDT

Question: We have a teenage exchange student from Thailand living with us. Now what?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 10:40 AM PDT

Our exchange student has been here 2 weeks. Yes, not enough time to really have a system down. However, this is our first time with a teenager, let alone exchange student. We have young children, but not even close to being teenagers yet. She is very polite, and not a messy person. However, it seems like she enjoys being in her room more than being social. Both with us or any friends she has made. I m reading that it can take upwards of a month to get our family and herself comfortable. What I m wondering, is she in her room a lot because she s a teenager or because she s uncomfortable? She watches a lot of Thai TV in there which is fine by us. She does come out to eat, but goes back in. She doesn t want to shop for clothes and I have yet to see her do any laundry. Is this normal and I should be patient or what? She also comes from an all girls school where she lives except weekends. So everything is a uniform (gym, pj's, class). With her parents (only child) she does a lot of shopping and movies when she's with them. Something we cannot afford. She's not acting spoiled and when I ask her about these things she's very polite. I get the impression she's here for school, not for the well rounded experience and I'm just a food source. Maybe not.

Question: My family assumes I'm innocent?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 10:39 AM PDT

I'm a 15 hear old girland wenever something like a condom or bl0wjob gets mentioned soeome covers my ears and stuff like that or cover my eyes during a sex scene. My whole family assumes in super innocent (I go to school how innocent can I be, especially after public high school). The only one that's catching on is my sister and she assumes that my friends are bad influences. I mean my family gets upset when I say asshole, when all my sibling will say fu*k every other sentence. Little do they know I swear, mastubate, wven have watched porn a few times. Why do they still assume I dont know anything?

Question: My Mom is mad I am not spending all of her birthday with her (I am spending two hours of it at someone eles's party) how do I diffuse this?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 10:38 AM PDT

How do I get my Mom not to be so mad that I am going to a party on her birthday for two hours somewhere else. I am still back by 6PM on her birthday and with my mother all morning. I will only miss about three hours (counts driving time) but she is upset. How do I get her to chill?

Question: Is this reasonable for a case worker?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 10:36 AM PDT

Is it acceptable for a case worker to chew out an individual and insult them on a personal scale over issues in the past? If the person was originally disorganized and got more organized, is it ok for the case worker to insult them on a personal scale and make them feel like a criminal for buying art supplies or taking part in legal and harmless hobbies? If an individual spends lots of money on plants and they all die, is it ok for this case worker to rub it in and joke about how they got NOTHING for their money when the persons broke and gloat to them about it?

Question: Why does my mom always complain?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 10:28 AM PDT

She works from home at her desk she hates her job always complaining about it I usually don't care but today she said can I just shoot myself? I remember when I hated a program she made me go in to get some stuff out of it I never complained but now I am trying to get my life together to get a job and stuff and I still don't complain to her. I sometimes tell her people in other countries has it worse then you she said I know and stops. But again she complains every day right when I walk out of my room I hear her, I did not come out there to listen to her complain this is one of the big reasons why I am trying to move out. Once I do complain she never really is there for me so why should I be there for her? She yelled at me for complaining once basically told me to stop.

Question: Is the drama between endless?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 10:21 AM PDT

I have been seeing 2 women for the last 6 months. They both know about each other but they both still have a problem with me seeing them. I was on a date last night with J and Cee Cee show up at the place that we were hanging out at. I walked away and they both followed me outside. Cee Cee kept insisting that I chose. She said since we are here right now why don't you tell us which one you want to be with. You keep lying and telling me that you aren't seeing her anymore and here you are out on a date with her. When I didn't say anything and started to walk away Cee Cee started fighting me. She started hitting me in the face and the back of the head when I turned out. J pulled out her mace and threatened to mace Cee Cee if she didn't leave and Cee Cee left. Me and J continued on with our date. When we left the place we saw that Cee Cee was still parked outside waiting for us to leave. She didn't get out the car and say anything though. I went to Cee Cee's last night to get the things I'd left over there. We talked about things and they seemed fine. I even spent the night without sex. J calls me very upset this morning saying that Cee Cee texted her some really mean things from my phone. J said that she was punch Cee Cee in the eye. I told J I was done with Cee Cee but should I be done with her?

Question: Am I a fool?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 10:13 AM PDT

I knew he was seeing someone else. This woman has come by my home early in the morning looking for him. She has called my phone and text me from his phone letting me know they'd spent the night together. I saw them together at his bday party. He still keeps saying he wants to be with and he still keeps telling me that he's done with me. Just the other day, I rode by his favorite spot and saw his car outside. I figured I'd surprise him. I was surprised instead because he was there with her. He walked right by me and didn't speak as if I was invisible. When I followed and asked him didn't he want to be with me he said but when she came he wouldn't admit to it. I asked him since we were all there that he needed to choose. Instead he said nothing and got up to walk away. At that moment I grabbed him and punched in the face. She stepped to me and tried to fight me but a guy stepped between us. Even after I walked away and got in my car I got in my car and drove back around the corner to see when she'd leave. They both got into his car & left together. Why didn't she leave after that, better yet what was wrong with me that I sat out there all that time thinking he'd leave without her?? &and we went out again last night. I went through his phone and saw that he text her so I text her from his phone and told her that he was hanging out with me and called her b#$ch!

Question: How do I forgive him and move on?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 09:53 AM PDT

When I was 10, my mother and father got divorced. My mother took me and my siblings back to her home country, which was about an hour flight from the country my father lived in. However my father did not once come to visit us (me and my siblings). We visited him about once a year when we were younger. Even though we saw him quite often it just got to me that he never put in the effort to come see us. Now I am an adult, but still harbour resentment towards hima nd just cannot look past it. I am afraid that when he passes away I will be left with regret

Question: I want my mother to die?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 09:51 AM PDT

I hate her. I absolutely hate her. She was alright until my dad, who I loved, died. She hates me, or at least she treats me like she does. I don't think she likes my sister that much either and I know my sister hates her, but she doesn't scream at her and she is definitely the favoured sibling. Like I said my dad died, so I have nowhere to go. I'm 16 but I have literally no money (my mum doesn't give me any money and I've been trying to find a job but I can't get one) so I can't live alone. My sister is 20 and at university so she is fine. I want to run away or kill myself. But I really want her to die. So much. If it wasn't illegal she would be dead right now. Both sets of grandparents and aunties and uncles hate her too. Someone would have killed her. I'm not allowed to see any other relatives either. I'm not gay but my mother is a homophobic **** so I was thinking about telling her I am. She would then throw me out of the house (she said this is what she'd do) and I'd be rid of her. Honestly I just don't know what to do I hate her so much, she is nasty and we just do not get on I can't stand the thought of having to live with her for another two years. I know for certain that the moment I move away will be the last time I ever talk to her.

Question: Can I report one of my divorced parents for child abuse?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 09:51 AM PDT

I am 17 years old and my parents got a divorce. My mom is great, works hard and supports me. I can't even live with my dad without being stressed out. He keeps me from doing homework sometimes with hour long lectures on me "having a bad attitude", but that's about all he ever lectures me on. I don't do drugs, I haven't committed any crimes, and I'm a good scholar. I am taking 3 APs and have 4 weighted classes this year. I have been a part of my school's jazz, marching, and symphonic bands and still am. I honestly believe that I'm about as good as it gets for a child. Maybe I have a little attitude at times. Ok? I don't think it justifies his rampages that he goes on where he will scream and yell and break stuff for sometimes 2 hours. He has called me an "annoying ****", a "moron", a "little asshole", and other names (this was all stuff he called me just like 48 hours ago. He has threatened me with abandonment, saying that if it wasn't for my grades he'd disown me. He has threatened to beat me up multiple times with the only thing holding him back apparently is the law. And the most annoying thing to me is that he constantly **** talks my mother, calling her and her side of the family idiots and dysfunctional. It has been 3 years since the divorce first started. He keeps telling me that he's changing and that he won't get mad anymore, yet he just did yesterday. Long story short, can I report him for child abuse then live with my mother? Also, he hasn't supported me, but he has discouraged me by calling my trumpet gay and when I was in boy scouts, calling that gay as well

Question: Not Sure what to do.. (Relationship Advice)?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 09:33 AM PDT

I'm dating my best friend And i really like him alot, he cares for me so so much all the time. For example i tried to run away from home because i couldn't stand my living situation anymore, so i attempted to fo to my brothers house in CT. But i got lost at the stamford station and had no money to go anywhere else. So he came and basically rescued me and cams all the way from Bridgeport to Stamford and then literally took me home all the way in Westchester County in NY and would not leave me until he knew inwas home and safe. My parents are really strict because we are Jehovas Witnesses and my parents want me to stay in the religion, that im not so sure i want to stay in. They limited my acess to the internet(block), they spy on my messages and my activity on thier parental device, i cant go out or use the phone without them spying on my by using tjier parental device, or peeking over at my screen. They listen in on my phone calls, they check the phone calls and ask the phone company for the numbers. They basically have me in chains. I was having romantic feelings for another guy before and would sneak out at night to see him ! But not to have sex or go to clubs just to hang out. The most we did was kiss. And i only snuck out at night because i knew my parents would know we were hanging out if i went during the day. And now i confessed my feelings for this guy two months after that guy treated me badly and sid he doesnt like me like that. My mom thinks im a prostitute.. And that im sleeping around, that im being easy. Shes talking down to me. She ignores me when i say i have pain and accuse me of having STDS, shes says im a demon that i brought demons home. She looks at me dirtily and makes me feel discouraged. So much so i cried at school. What do i do? Did i jump into this relationship to easily? Did i just jump into his arms and was easy? Help me please

Question: Considering suicide, last resort don't know what to do?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 09:31 AM PDT

My mother is a self absorbed narcissist and is CONSTANTLY bullying me. Okay, right, I'm a messy teen that always wants to hang out with her friends, but my mother not only gets mad at serious stuff e.g. a bad grade, but at stupid stuff too, if I leave a door to my room open or something VERY unimportant. And when I say that she gets mad, she gets REALLY mad, no matter what. She'll scream and shove me and call my dad (they're divorced) , my grandma, my aunt, her friends, ANYONE she can to tell them about what a piece of **** kid I am. And untill recently I wasn't really bothered by this because I have thick skin and I know that I'm 17 and I need to show her that I'm a mature person, but lately she has been bullying me legit like a total stranger would. **** that I'm her daughter, let's call me stupid EVERTIME I do ANYTHING, let's bully me into losing any self confidence that I'm capable of doing anything, **** that let's constantly call me stupid and worthless. And my favourite part that has legit lead me into thinking about suicide, I've told her that I have a mental problem that they discovered at my school's annual shrink check up and that I'd like to talk to a shrink more often and at first she was really supportive that I wanted help but now whenever we fight she starts insulting me, calling me bipolar and "moody", which is my diagnostic, bipolar. Please help. :(

Question: My 21 year son went to live with his mom 3 years ago,. I have not heard from him in 3 years. He now is reaching out to me? what do I do?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 09:25 AM PDT

Question: Is it normal to have a crush for years?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 09:23 AM PDT

I've had a crush on my elder sister's boyfriend (now fiance) since I was 16 (I'm now 21). He's 26 like my sister. The first time my sis brought him home I already thought he was awesome and so very cute. I like everything he does. Like, last weekend he was staying here and played an extremely beautiful piece on the piano, and now it becomes my favourite and I can't stop listening to it on Youtube (it's Comptine by Yann Tiersen, it sounds so sad at the same time) and I keep thinking about him in a romantic way while listening to the music. I feel awful though. I always compare my BFs with him and they usually lose. I wonder if this is crush? I also envy my sis but no one knows about this. I always feel I could've taken better care of him than my sis. I often cry about this and feel depressed. Anyone can relate?

Question: PLEASE HELP im 18 and my parents still overprotective?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 09:13 AM PDT

im tired ever since i was little my parents have been very overprotective expecially my mom even now my mom has to drive me and my friends to go to a specific place i cant go no farther than 25 minutes away of the destination from my house my mom either dosent let me go to many specific things i mean thats why im mostly a loner because i cant go nowhere and my mom wont even let me have sleepovers or any thing she still makes me sleep from 8 to 10 i cant go to college in california even though i have family over there thats why i am who i am a shy independent loner whos never had a boyfriend because im actually afraid my parents wont barely even let be with him i feel like my life is a big dissapointment someone help me plz what to i do to make my parents understand im not a child and that im not the person they think i am that i can defend myself in anytype of situation PLEASE HELP ME WHAT Do I DO sometimes i feel like the movies tvs my imagination is better than my reality

Question: Should I never talk to my dad again?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 08:37 AM PDT

I'm a 17 year old guy in America who is applying to colleges right now. I have a 3.6 gpa, 2200 sat, and a bunch of extracurricular. I'll probably go to a pretty good college, or a decent one with lots of financial aid. Now my dad is one of those dads who is loving one minute, and at the next minute, he suddenly hates you and takes drastic action. For example, when I was 12, he left me in the middle of nowhere during a road trip because I was complaining about the food and the car. Anyways, last week, my dad told me to start waking up at 7am. That wasn't a big deal, and I agreed. On the first day, I woke up at 9. I promised to wake up at 7am from that day, and I did. But on the 6th day, the phone went black, and I couldn't hear the alarm, and woke up at 9am. My father got angry and bought an airplane ticket to Korea. He told me that I'm a failure and that I should work a minimum wage job until I die (which is pretty ironic since he earns minimum wage job). I don't want to ever talk to him or see him. And even if he cancels my flight and tells me to stay in America, I lost all love or respect for him, and I will never talk to him except for answers like 'yes' or 'no'. I literally want him to die of cancer or a heart attack. Would you talk or see him in my situation? And remember that I hate him, and I've hated him half my life. BTW, I'm came to America from Korea when I was 7. That's why he's going to send me to Korea.

Question: How do I know if my mom is cheating?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 08:36 AM PDT

I dont know if my mom is cheating on my Dad with my cousin from dads side. my dad has been in Europe for about 2 months for work. my cousin used to come over once a week because my mom doesnt drive and he helps with groceries and other stuff but for the last 2 weeks he comes almost everyday. I see my mom looking at him all the time and is super nice to him. she weras super tight jeans and leggings with short tops when he is at our place Last week he came to pick her up for groceries and I told her I want to come with them and she said no because she said I have to stay with my 14 yo brother!, they came back 3 hours later with few bags from the grocery store and her hair was messed up How do I know if she is cheating?

Question: Father jealous of my marriage !!?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 08:35 AM PDT

My 65 year old father seems jealous of my marriage. He was angry when I finally married after years of destroying my relationships. He's always trying to get in between me and my husband to stir trouble and create friction. Why is he doing this ? My Granmother thinks he wants me for himself. Ie divorced and alone with him as my sole focus. She said he's so obsessed with my marriage and me that she thinks it is odd and almost sexual

Question: I'm totally incompetent as a person it seems. My dad received a diagnosis of cancer and I have no idea how to take care of him.?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 08:33 AM PDT

I'm suppose to take care of him for seven weeks but I only seem to be making things worse. I can't do anything right and I have no common sense. I've ****** up almost everything I have touched here. I can't make him breakfast. I don't know how to put dishes in a dish washer. I can't record anything right. Everything I think of to do fails. He won't eat anything and he is losing weight fast and it all lands on me since he won't eat all the smoothies I can't make edible. I **** up his medications and timing. All I can do is drive him to his appointments and back. I guess my questions would be is there just a book or resource that shows me how to actually be an adult. Like something that really teaches me that stuff I should have learned and mastered by now. Thank you!

Question: WIll my dad ever be able to respect me again now that he walked in on me and my husband having sex?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 07:53 AM PDT

I'm 27 and happily married. I've always been a dady's girl, and specifically my dad has always loved how strong and confident and in charge of things he thinks I am. Yesterday my husband and I both happened to come home during our lunch hour for different reasons, and ended up having a quickie in the kitchen. My dad, thinking we weren't home, let himself in to come drop off something. He walked right into the kitchen where we were going at it. We all froze and were all embarrassed. He left instantly and when we talked later he tried to act normal, but it was super awkward. I know he isn't shocked to find out we have sex, and i realize its one of those freak things that just happen. But I'm worried that spefically what he saw will make it hard to think of me the same way. Without trying to be super graphic, my husband had me bent over the table, my dress was still on (though pulled down to my waste), and he was grabbing my head up pulling on my hair. Dad came in straight and front of me so he got the full straight on view and the position was, to say the least, very submissive and somewhat rough. Kind of the opposite of how he's thought of and treated me my whole life. I'm humiliated. Dads, what would you think of your little girl if you walked in on that? Dad has a key to hte house because he picks our daughter up from daycare most afternoons and brings her here before we get home. He was dropping off stuff to have for her (food) that afternoon.

Question: I am glad my mother is deceased because all she ever did was try to keep me from my Dad and step-Mom. Is this a bad thing I feel this way?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 07:38 AM PDT

My mother died one year ago today.

Question: My aunt is passing through my home town for a day, should I offer to see her or since she is busy should I wait for another time?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 07:37 AM PDT

She is staying at my grandmother's. She and my mother (the aunt and my mother) don't get along though are civil to each others faces so I doubt my mother will be seeing her. If she is busy though should I just not bother offering and wait until Thanksgiving when she comes for 5 days (she will have her two kids with her then also). This time she is just here a day en route to a funeral. @Merlin----What are you talking about?

Question: What would you do? Where should I go? What should I say?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 07:29 AM PDT

Okay so there are a few issues here and I need to know what to do. I was wondering how others would feel if it were them..... 1. My parents let my aunt move in 2. She took my room 3. I don't have anything because she took everything I had. 4. I am basically living in the living room with my clothes in the laundry room. 5. I try to have something to do with everyone so everyone feels respected, yet they treat me like crap. 6. I have been getting cussed out everyday when my aunt does anything wrong 7I have to clean up after her 8 she has been here for 3 months and will not get a job 9 my little cousin even said she needed to get a life because she does not have anything to do with him 10 all she worries about is men 11 my dad is not even kin to her, yet is acting as if he cares more about her than me and my brother 12 my dad has to pay for everything she gets 13 she goes with every guy she sees 14 I am starting to think she is trying to take my dad from my mom 15 I am sick of my life Okay so I used to be a loner. I never left my room, I hardly ever seen any family, I was always working on stuff I had to do and I had no where near as much stress. It has been several years since then, but I feel like I should go back to being a loner. What do you think? What would you do? I am sick of being miserable.

Question: Father with dementia?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 07:03 AM PDT

My mother has been taking care of my father. He was diagnosed with Pick's disease nearly 4 years ago. She depends solely on social security and food stamps. The situation is she lives in a rental house they have been in for 20 years. At $800 per month. She barely gets by. I want her to downsize, move into something less expensive. She refuses to do so. I have three brothers that do not help, and a sister, who, when she calls her, tells her she can't talk and that is if she answers her phone at all. My mother has made it to where she would only call them when she needs financial help, which is why they, I think avoid her calls. I have a grandchild now, and my daughter is needing quite a bit of help herself financially, she works and is getting ready to go to college in the spring. I am at a place in my life where I just can't help my mother out anymore financially. Also she is very lonely, I am the only one that calls her, and have started to grow angry and resentful towards my siblings, and even my own mother, who has not made any effort to better her own situation. I feel like I should just step away from this situation a bit, because it is affecting me, and let her realize what we all have tried to tell her. She just works towards making it through each day, she does not want to discuss the future. My father is mute and completely incontinent. It is a chore for her to clean him up all the time. I am at a loss.

Question: 14 years old and no phone.?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 07:02 AM PDT

Basically the title lol, my parents wont let me have a phone. I never once had a phone, i just have the ipad but my whole family uses it so i basically dont have anything but a computer. My brother had a phone since he was like 10 i believe. My dad said i cant have a phone because he thinks imma be texting guys, im not even like that. It hurts to even think that my dad doesnt trust me. Is there a way to convince them to let me have a phone?

Question: Why doesn't he believe in me?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 06:34 AM PDT

Everytime I tell my dad about my goal after I graduate highshool he always just tells me that I'll won't graduate & how he doesn't seem to see any potential in me... Idk how a parent could say that to thier child but sometimes I held myself back from telling him what I wanna do & my plans cause he always has so much negativity to say :(( & idk why

Question: Should I buy my sister something nice even though she insists I don't?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 06:15 AM PDT

After working at a super crappy job, my sister and I got out last paychecks. She had to put all of her money towards getting text books but since I go to a different school I got to keep my money (after giving some to out mom, of course). So I have 200 left and all my sister ever really wanted from working was a nice, new wig for school. All I wanted was a new gaming console. Should I get her a wig knowing i won't have enough for what I want? I really just want her to be happy but should I do that at the expense of my own long awaited joy?

Question: Why don't people respect children/kids?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 06:14 AM PDT

This is a strange question, but why don't people listen to what children have to say, and immedieatly dismiss their ideas because they are younger than them? I'm 12. And I used to be hit for doing things wrong, I used to think that I deserved it. However, as I got older, I just became nervous around my parent (the one that hit me) and now I can't really confide in them and talk to them at all. I realize the reasons for talking down to children that some people have, but it makes me feel like I'm not really worth anything as a human child until I'm older. I go to school, try not to make people mad, do my work, go home, eat, do homework, go on the computer, and sleep. And I hate it. I hate doing that over and over again for the rest of my childhood. Another thing I hate is the term "respect your elders." Why should I respect a 40 year old child molester? Because they're older than me? It's the little thing that tick me off. I know I shouldn't complain, since I have it better than others, but I kinda wanna know the answer to the question. Regarding my previous question, of course, I do respect people who make an effort to respect me. But I respect people who don't respect me to, because I'm scared. I'm always scared of what a mad adult could do. The adult is almost always more powerful than the child, and children are the only people in the world which your allowed to hit.

Question: Should I Tell My Mom To Stop Budding In?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 06:02 AM PDT

So I have this quick little assignment that is due today and all it was was to cover your textbook so it doesn t get messed up. So I was covering it with a sheet of fabric yesterday like my teacher suggested and my mom said I ll buy you one instead. And she threw the fabric in the trash and then when she got home from work she said I ll buy you one tommorow which is today so I m mad she always does this! and plus I ve already got a C average in math and I don t want it to go down what do I do? She always buds in! I know she s trying to help but seriously!!

Question: When does it become awkward for children to be nude in front of family members?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 05:43 AM PDT

Question: Why won t my parents allow me out?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 05:36 AM PDT

I m 14 and it s summer and we purposely moved to the countryside 10 years ago so that me and my brother would grow up well. I go on walks with my friends into the wooded area all the time, my friends are busy so I said I was going to go on a walk in the middle of the day on my own and they flipped out? I m a responsible person. My mum got really mad and sent me to my room, whyyyy????

Question: Is it weird to go to a concert with your parents?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 05:31 AM PDT

So my dad and my step mom and pretty cool and we all usually have a lot of fun. But now i think they're wanting to take me to an ac/dc concert with them. Which i don't mind. That actually sounds kinda fun but i know that going to concerts and stuff with your parents is kinda lame so idk. What do any of you guys think?

Question: Coming out as pansexual to my dad?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 05:21 AM PDT

So I came out to my mom last month but I'm super scared to tell my dad. He is Catholic. My mom is a Christian too (she accepts me) and it was hard to tell her and took like 3 months before I actually did. I want to come out to my dad because I'm so sick of hiding it from him. My mom thinks I should call him and ask him to come over but I'm like scared to do it in person. I feel like I could write it somehow like maybe text him but idk I'm scared. Any advice on how to tell him?