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I remember I've always hated it when my mother told me that I was in B-I-G-G-G-G-G-G-G trouble when I was little.

I never really bothered with it until I thought my husband brought a kid home which was my God son his voice is really high pitched he's like 16. I do want to get to know him. I tried to get him things boys like. I got him a tablet but, he didn't want it he still plays with teddy bears. He carries one around the house he named him flakes. I don't think he likes me to much to considering I called him a girl. Apparently he is scared turtles i made him cry i apologize every time. He won't even get close to me anymore. Do I even deserve to be a godmother. Recently I've got him a game system (not sure which one at the moment) i not going to give it to him until I'm sure that won't ruin what I've got going now. My husband told me it was my god son.

So, there is a guy I met an year ago. In the beggining we were just colleagues. There was very strong chemistry between us, we started hanging out, and we realized we have so much in common. But, he was in a realtionship, which lasted around 2 years. One day he asked me out, and told me that he broke up with his girlfriend. He said that he realised that she is not the one, and they had many problems for too long, so it had to end. After that, he called every day, on weekends, took me to museum, cinema, made dinner for me, we spent so much time together, I even stayed at his place for a week when I was moving to another appartment. One night, we made out, and after some time we slept together, and we were really crazy about each other, although it was never a relationship. He was very kind, intelligent, gentle, I had a feeling that he is the one and waited for him to put a label on it. Until he told me that he has ''gentle and romantic'' feelings for me, but he is not ready for a realtionship yet, he feels strange after his last break up. He told me that he wants a girl who will be the one, and doesn't want to casually date. After all that, I changed my job (for another reason), months have passed, he keeps calling every day, telling he misses me, we even hang out sometimes, but nothing happens. I still have feelings for him, and can't figure it all out, as he is a bit strange (scorpio :) and doesnt' express feelings. Why he keeps me this close to him, but doesn't want me?

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I'm 21 years old and still live with my parents because of my financial situation. Last night I made a impulse buy of some sex toys. I'm now panicking because I have absolutely no idea where to hide them and I'm already paranoid that my family look through my room without me knowing. (I'm OCD and notice when certain things have been moved in my room). Any suggestions would be amazing👍

Basically, when I was 6 years old and my male cousin was 12- I was left alone with him I cannot remember the full reason why? Maybe it's because I just didn't want to go out with my mum and I stayed at my aunts house. Anyway, he made me touch him, he tried to get me give him a hand job but I was too scared? And because maybe our parents came home he put his pants back up. But before he left I know he said ' maybe you can put it in your mouth later'. After that for awhile I didn't like being left alone with him or any lad for the matter? Very recently i started to remember that event and it was like a wall had come crashing down? I've felt the urge to tell someone. But it can't be my family because that would make me hated and no one would believe me? I was so young I'm 19 now. So I told my boyfriend about it? He seemed shocked and asked if I was serious, I instantly regretted telling him because he's the person Ive trusted the most to tell? No one knows, not even my girl friends! Did I do the wrong to tell him? Was I even sexually abused or I'm I just overreacting? I told him I'd never lie about that and he did seem to believe me. I just feel like I now wish I didn't tell him and kept it all bottled up and to myself.

They owe me as transsexual woman. I am assessed with Leelah Alcorn because that was me my parents knew the gov knew when I was six and they were active military. They denied me treatment and forced masculinity on me it wasn't until adulthood they accepted because of obama and glbt and my mental state guilt anyone. Then my whole mental disorder is all on them and gov . Though my parents are my allies now they claim they have no money . 4 retirement check all together and ssi you Beto am mad.

We met at the gym and he asked for my number we started talkng as friends. He asked me to movies and slowly we were going to movies/dinner. He bought me a coach purse and wallet for my birthday, an 800 dollar purse, made me soup when I was sick, bought me gorgeous roses. We were officially bf/gf for a month but dating 4 months. However, at the gym there was a trainer who was interested in me, he grabbed my hand one day when I was at the gym by myself. When bf asked multiple times then I told hi. Another time, I met a guy while studying and was really hungry so went to grab something to eat quick after the library. My bf facetimed me when I was coming home when he thought I would already be home from the library. When he found out he got very upset. Since earlier that week I had gone to the gym and was there for 3 hours and didn't text him when I was done, knowing about the trainer this caused his mind to doubt where I was and he said it was weird that I didn't ask him if he wanted to come to the gym. Fast forward a few days later I was going to the gym and asked him to come but he had to work and I got upset and said so when I ask you to come you say you have work when I don't you get upset. Anyway I said I was done with his attitude. He said the attitude was coming from my lack of effort when he blew me a kiss and said have a good workout but I was going back to another issue. So he said if you're done then I wish you the best. Is it strange that if he was this serious about me he gave up this easily? We see eachother at the gym and have started talking like friends/ kinda flirty as well. But I'm surprised why he hasn't asked to talk or anything. I even wished him a happy birthday.

People born in 1999 make fun of everyone younger than them for not being 90s babies.

I'm going to visit one of my greatest friends and stay with him for (5 days for) his 23rd birthday. The last time I saw him was spring break. We plan on going on dates. I'll be sleeping with him in his bed every night. How likely would it be we woukd have sex?

Right now I'm a junior in college, and I live away from home. The past few years i've had anxiety, and lately I feel as if I m a little depressed. I've never really had a solid group of friends after High-school. Socially, I know i'm capable of meeting the right people for me but it seems to never happen. I'm also broke, due to the fact that I don't have a car and I can't really commute to work. I really don t feel as engaged into school as I used to when I was a freshman, If I could I would drop out but I can't because of my housing and financial aid agreement. I want a fresh start, and it feels like I need a break from everything. Time that's not dedicated to school. I've been thinking about just getting a full time job in a few months once the semester ends, and maybe trying that route and return to school next fall. I like stability and I kinda want to just save and have freedom without me being tied to school. I'm 20 and I know at this age i'm capable of making my own decisions, but my mom has usually talked me through my decisions, and probably wouldn't support this one fully. I would talk to her more about it but she doesn't take me seriously because she's schizophrenic. Fortunately I have a supportive boyfriend, who'd be there for me. Is there any advice anyone can give me? For me this would be a big leap for me because I'd be sorting it out on my own. I'm just hoping something like this will help how i'm feeling. Thank y

I work at Gymboree Play and Music, my boss gets mad at small mistakes, like I accidentally forgot to take out one of the bathroom air fresheners one time, a couple times when I started I accidentally messed up on the cancellation process that she showed me only a couple times.. I've made a few mistakes but it's because I was still learning. Recently she bought a new IPod for the play floor and one night I was doing closing, and I noticed the iPod was going to die, I checked a bunch of places I figured the charging cable may be but could not find it. I asked my boss where it was, she responded with "figure it out, it's not that hard" so I kept looking.. couldn't find it.. mind you, I Don't teach on the play floor. I teach in the back room.. so I texted her and said I still couldn't find it and told her I had to go otherwaise I'd have no way home.. so she said to call her once I got in the car. So I did.. she told me I must not have looked very hard because it was in the drawer where the speaker was.. ( which I thought all the drawers were lesson drawers because the first 3 were ) she proceeds to tell me I have no common sense, and then asked me if she and I could work on my common sense? I didn't know how to respond because 1. She intimidated me and 2. I love my job and what I do.. My question here is: is this bullying from my boss and how should I handle this?

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost a month now but we dated for about a month before we decided to become official. He knows I've been cheated on and hurt before by previous relationships and he says he has been too so he knows how it feels. He tells me that he won't cheat or hurt me ever because he knows the feeling and likes me so much since he hasn't been so happy in years. He usually text me every morning but I notice sometimes he doesn't like today - I know it sounds childish but my ex used to do that but he was actually out with another woman doing things :( The fact my boyfriend says he won't ever cheat or hurt me is that a red flag? He told me that when he's in a relationship he's very honest and loyal but I feel like everyone says that

Hold him tight while crying in his arms. I wanted to tell him and ask him lots of things but instead I couldn't fin the words and end up crying his arms telling him how much I loved him and missed him. Why did thismhappen? Why am I so wrong for not being able to talk to him but I just wanted to feel his warmth? I meant spoke. The keyboard changed it

I'm 15 this guy is 19. His mom and my mom are pretty close they kept a good friendship. However this son of hers is very badly obsessed with me. He blows up my social media and says all these couple things. His status says he's in a relationship. I don't get why he is flirting with me if he's supposedly in this so called relationship. He is also very perverted too. He talks way to much about his hormones. I feel like he just wants to sleep with me. I'm sure he has done this with several other girls too. How do I stop him from obsessing over me?? I have told my parents but they see him as this sweet boy that would be great for me but he's not. He's horrible. How do I stop this without being rude or mean about it and without making it seem like I'm doing it without looking like an attention seeker.

But, if he gets on YouTube or the internet and looks something up while I m watching a movie, it s ok! Is this a way of trying to control us women? Women, do your husbands do this too?

It happened to me instantly after 4 months being everyday together we were having arguments and bickering and all of a sudden I felt like I lost my feelings,love and attraction towards him.. I suffer from severe anxiety and whenever I try to find a new job I suffer from social anxiety. Depression hit me long ago when I came home from a new job. I was so anxious that I was giving it to my boyfriend. I left the job and after I want to the psychiatrist to prescribe me some pills. Me and him are still together but I'm suffering. I'm unemployed and so is he. I don't know what to do..

That lady who's accusing him is so stupid, he's probably one of the most good looking guys in the world, and he's super rich. He can get any girl, and plus, he has a super high celebrity status, so why would he if he even wanted to? He's really nice on top of that. Like he goes to hospitals and cheers up kids. He's a real idol.

A friend of mine recently lost her dad. She s never had a real-real job. He s always supported her. After he passed, she got about 20k in life insurance. Her excuse for not working was that she wanted to stay home and homeschool her son, who had behavior issues at school. She s tried selling things, learning coding without actually taking real classes, making things, signing up for waitr to deliver food... but none of it is really a decent amount to live off of and she s anti government. She refuses to get a job because she doesn t want to stop homeschooling, but won t get on welfare or foodstamps at all, and keeps saying if she can t afford her son she should just give him up which I think contributes to his behavior issues given I know if it was me... my mom saying that would make me feel unstable in my home. I m just really worried about what will happen when that money runs out but she s the type of person you can t really tell anything too because she s rather cut people out of her life for disagreeing with her choices than hear anyones concerns. I just don t want to see her son suffer and have no idea what to do here

how she feels like she is victimized in some ways I may have wronged her when we work in the office. Also she is saying things like what one must do (obviously me) as she does it in a passive-aggressive way, making me force myself to adjust to her. Example of us parting is when she says things like "when someone messes with me, I will retaliate" and "whatever one's position is, one must treat me fairly/professionally because I feel discouraged when things don't go smoothly". They are obvs directed towards me and when she says things don't go smoothly, it does not go well for her alone and whatever expectations she have. Even after saying bye (bc I don't give much attention to her indirect rants), she ignored me/turned cold afterwards. I am doing my best but oftentimes, she just abuses the way she can drop her rants despite indirectly whenever we leave and sometimes during office hours.

I few days ago I asked bout what should I do to help her, many of you said: counselling. I told her and she was willing, but she's not really enthusiast about it because reliving all the bad experiences is not easy, she cries very often. Anyway I still want to beat the **** out of the beast that molested her. We cannot live in the same town now that I know what he did to her. I was thinking about giving him a lesson with my friends, but I fear they will tell me I'm crazy and not help me. I was thinking about putting on a balaclava so he wont recognize me. I just hate him so much for ruining the childhood of my girlfriend, I hope with my whole heart he just groped her without having sex with her. I am so scared she's lying to me to sweeten the pill. How can you do this to a child? He was her cousin he shpuld nave ben like a brother. I'm outta my mind but someone has to make him pay

I have a sexual fantasy of being ran over. I've seen videos of people doing it, so I know it's possible. But is there a "safer" way to go about it. Obviously the smaller the car the better. But I've seen some videos where they're laying down in a little trench. Does that actually help? How much weight can I expect to take with one tire over me. We have a Mitsubishi Mirage so it pretty small. I think it about 2000 lbs. please no trolling. I think I talked her into doing it for me, but I know it I get significantly hurt she would never do anything even remotely close.

Like if he had a fever and had to stay home in bed would you give him head or ride on it would he have to ask for it or is that just not going to happen

Ive tried to finger myself but i dont feel pleasure at ALL. I dont think i am doing it right? Are there any home materials i could use to make me C*m or how to finger myself!? thanks

Like grabbing and smacking it every now and then

Ambas universidades me interesan, pero aún no me decido, ¿cuál creen mejor?

During a book club meeting I had with my friends, my son approached me with the dog and said he has something super cool to show me. But I told him I'm busy and that I will talk to him later. Next thing you know, everyone in my book club turned their heads in shock, so I looked over and yelled at him and told him to go to his room. I was so embarrassed by what my friends saw him doing. Later, I had a stern talk with him and asked if he realized what he was doing. He said he was doing "Red Rocket" to make the dog's milk come out. No only am I bewildered about what "Red Rocket" is, but I am at a loss as to how to have "the talk" with my son.

I read men sexually peak at 18 and women in their early 30s I turned 19 last Tuesday and am a Virgin never kissed or had any woman take interest me in me. I go to the gym five days a week and I'm not ugly I actually dress with style. Does this mean if I ever have sex that it won't be good? Cause I'd love to have it especially with an older woman but if I've already peaked does it mean I won't be able to go as hard?

my wife is on her constantly about the condition of her room. Its seems the more we ask the more she ignores. I refuse to drop it and hope she does it on her own. We changed the wifi password in the house but she has barely noticed since her phone is an unlimited plan that she pays for herself. we don't nag but we aren't going to let her get away with defiance either. A teacher friend says to sit her down and explain what we expect of her and praise her good grades rather than harp on the negative BUT the negative things are what need to be addressed. We have no problem with her schoolwork but her room needs attention and we're both at the end of our rope

Okay so I've been dating my girlfriend for a few years now and things have been going absolutely great. A few weeks ago I was at my friends house enjoying some beer and hanging out. I ended up blacking out and I don't have a great recollection of the night. For some reason I keep getting paranoid thinking I cheated on my girlfriend. I have always been straight and i'm Straight, but I keep fearing that my friend did something gay to me and I can't remember. I keep thininking what If he forced me to perform oral on him. I don't know what to do, should I tell my girlfriend or just never mention this. Is this considered cheating

I know when I was little my parents did it every night when they thought I was sleep. Once a month is something that I thought was destined to happen. My sister said she only doing it when she wants a baby.

I'm currently staying at the hotel Broslin in New York. I noticed there's a tenant up the hall from me, a guy, who always carries around this wicker basket. I was going to ask what's inside of it but then I thought not to, because it was probably just his laundry or something. However, I noticed this guy carries this basket around every where and it's every time he leaves the hotel. Why would he need to continuously carry around a basket? Even if it has clothes in it, why would he if he's staying at the hotel? There was also some loud screaming in his room the other day when he wasn't there. Other tenants heard it too and we got a hold of the manager to investigate the situation. When we went into the room he was staying in, it was seemingly empty. What's with this guy? What's in the basket?

My one night stand got me pregnant and he already knows I am. About once a week he asks me if I decided whether or not I was going to keep the baby because before I told him I was unsure still. Why does he keep asking me if I'm going to keep the baby or not?

Vale, termine con mi novia y quiero regresar con ella sólo que he visto que a ella le empieza a importar otra persona, todo sucedió cuando ella se exedia al hablar con alguien que no era normal de amigos así que decidí cortarla pero ahora me arrepiento y no se que hacer...

As a hobby I have been streaming myself playing videogames on twitch. Im not very comfortable with myself and started doing it as a way to be more confident. My boyfriend asked me over and over again for my twitch channel name and I didn't want to give it to him because its super awkward and embarrassing to have people I know watch me stream myself playing videogames.. INstead of respecting that he said I was being "shady" and went and lurked and found my account anyway. I feel like he betrayed my privacy and trust but he thinks what he did is perfectly fine and is calling me a drama queen for being upset by it. THOUGHTS? DO YOU THINK HE IS WRONG FOR THIS?

me an dry boyfriend have been together for almost 6 months and I truly love him. he was arrested almost 2 weeks ago. I have been house sitting g for the week he has been there in jail. but I'm home now and my mom is starting to ask questions why I'm not hanging out with him all the time. I do not want to lie to her but I don't want her to hate him. my moms opinion how my boyfriend will not change the fact that I do love him. I'm terrified to tell her. I was going to wait till I knew how much longer he was going to be in jail to tell her. But, due to the fact that my mom is starting to questions I can't keep avoiding the answer.

He slept with his female coworker who had a boyfriend. A few months later, she got engaged. Occasionally they still fool around but not often because they both have busy work lives.

So i have this farmer tan and i dont eant to tske my shirt off beacuse of it. I also dont want to take my shirt off TO tan. What should i do? Would it be weird to go into my local tanning haircut place to get a tan? Im a guy btw

I'm a young lady in my 20s, I'm heading out of town to stay with one of my guy friend (at his apartment) to celebrate his birthday with him. We are the greatest of friends, super close. He wanted to go on a date night at our favorite resturant so I'm staying over for a few days I have been thinking a lot about sex with him and how thats what I would love to have with him. We've always liked each other.. He has a small apartment to he is letting me sleep in his bed, he said he would take the floor if I wanted him too, of course i said sleep in the bed with him and hes pretty happy with that! I'm not sure if I'm the only one thinking of sex, I'm not sure if he is thinking/wanting it too. What do you think he is thinking? How likely do you think we'd have it?

I need my hobbies so if you don't like my hobbies you can leave. My aquarium obsession isn't hurting anyone or thing lol.

I live in a house with my hubby, a female friend, and for the past 5 months, her bf. Back in spring, her and this guy hung out a bit, and he slowly started spending more time at the house till they were officially a 'couple'. At that point, he lived at our place full time. The two smoke pot a lot (probably about 1 oz per 2 days...it is legal here). He doesn't pay rent or even part of it, has 4k in savings, and only buys pot if she halves the bill...and she is not allowed to smoke without him otherwise he accuses her of wasting money and doing things without him. The same sort happened when I took her to a concert for her birthday...he texted her over and over about how she abandoned him, how he wasn't invited. How she is a bad person. She was a mess the whole concert cause of it. Recently he had the idea of buying a Cajon for her son who he says looks like he has ''autism'' and needs a ''musical outlet''. My roommate told her bf that ...in time, it'd be a good idea, but not now. Her bf bought it anyway despite what she said, gave it to her son, and then told her that she owed him $$ for the Cajon... Recently I was looking for my top that I knew ended up in her laundry. She had texted me from work saying to "look over the door in my bedroom". When I did, her bf came up to me, asked if he could help, and when I told him that she said it was in her bedroom he went "wait.. she said HER bedroom? Not OUR bedroom?!" I had to quickly fix it to "the" bedroom so he wouldn't freak The next day he talked about how, because he doesn't have a lot of stuff, he won't help his gf pay for a storage unit and said the reason is cause "I live by the modo 'don't do for others what they can do for themselves'. If you help people, they will expect from you and take advantage. Same with kids..they ask if you can get them a drink...it is like, no, get your own. Same with money. I wouldn't have 4,000$ in the bank if I didn't follow that modo..look out for yourself". I don't know what to think, especially seeing as he is very eloquent and smart.. but I think he is kinda wrong. It isn't my relationship, but heck, I need to vent! What are your opinions? Is he right or wrong?