Family: Question: Should I Write A Bill On All The Stuff My Parents Broke?

Question: Should I Write A Bill On All The Stuff My Parents Broke?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 12:57 PM PDT

Hi. I'm a 15 year-old guy, and my parents (especially my dad) have broken many of my things. I even wrote a list of what they've broke that was mine. -Zombat Stryker M4 - Echo1 airsoft gun: $234.99. My dad took it out of my room and put it in a bin with a bunch of junk, that crushed my airsoft gun. -Xbox One Limited Edition Halo 5 controller: $99.99. My parents were playing around with the controller, dropped it, and broke it. -Samsung Galaxy s6 Edge: $499.99. My dad was holding it while watching a YouTube video and dropped it into a lake. -Xbox 360 Disc Drive: $59.99. My dad stepped on my Xbox in a fit of rage over a game. -Alienware Laptop: $799.99. My dad wanted to see my laptop, and dropped it. All this stuff my dad wanted me to pay off. It's their fault those stuff were broken, so I believe they should pay for it. What do you think? I did pay for all those things with my own money.

Question: What do I do if my mother finds out I saw my Dad and she gets mad and goes off on me?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 12:21 PM PDT

I am not supposed to see him because he was mean to her when they were married. Since I am out of high school now I go see him. But I am scared my Mom might have found out because someone opened their mouth.

Question: My mother is ugly as hell?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 12:20 PM PDT

I don't think my mother is my mother because shes ugly as hell and im not ugly. is it possible I was switched at birth det]fect detector

Question: My father married my stepdaughter a while back, and he put the family home in her name, how do I save the family home?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 12:15 PM PDT

The home has been in the family for 5 generations and now my stepdaughter has it. What can I do about it?

Question: I want to live on my own...where do I start?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 12:15 PM PDT

My name is Carlafrances Jones and I am 25 years old and I am deaf and have Cerebral Palsy...I have been living with my mom for 25 years and its time for me to live on my own but what's stopping me is my mom...my mom doesn't understand that I will learn on my own. I have been though a lot lately and I learned from my past mistakes and still learning. I know I wont depend on my mom for the rest of my life until she died and wont have anybody to depend on. Now that I learned what would happen if I keep going back to the same mistakes I made in past. My mom is afraid that I will make the same mistakes over and over again. Y

Question: How do I deal with my idiotic mother?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 12:10 PM PDT

She always calls me names and tries to make me feel bad about myself. Every time I try to be nice to her and help her out, she screams at me and yells at me and starts crying because "I treat her so awful" and then my dad bursts into the room from the garage and starts yelling at me and smacks me real hard upside the head and my mother just does the same. She always treats me so bad like the other day she had to run to my grandmother's house and she called me to watch my 3 year old sister while she was gone and she said "Come outside" and I went to the backyard after assuming she was playing outside. I said "Where is she I am in the backyard?" and she starts yelling at me and telling me I am stupid and lazy form not looking. I found her in the living room and watched her and played with her until my mother came back and she starts yelling at me and unloading and I tell her to "shut up" which I admit, I should not have done. I am always doing things around the house to help I watch my sister wash the dishes, unload the dish washer, mop, sweep, vacuum, dust, clean the bathrooms, wash the dog, and the cars. In return I am treated bad by both my parents and they blame me for all the medical conditions they have. My dad has a bad back and his chest hurts real bad all day and when he yells at me it hurts more and my mom had a wrist injury and she had a recent surgery. They treat me so awful and make me cry myself out and talk bad about me to my relatives. Please help me.

Question: Can i go to jail for this??

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 12:06 PM PDT

So i was in my room listening to music laying down relaxing so i guess my music was a little bit to loud so my roommate right across from me kick and bang on my door and said i need to shut the **** up and calm down so i got mad and keep playing my music 10 mins go by and he comes back pounding on my door staying he gonna kill me and if i come out of my room he gonna kill me i litterly thought he was gonna kill me from his actions so he went away what should i do He also threaten to kill my mom too if she gets involved If i call the cops the landlord will kill us out me and my mom

Question: How do I deal with my mom, who likes to guilt trip me and make me feel bad for things I can't control?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 11:53 AM PDT

My mom makes me feel bad about wanting things and the fact that I don't like to be alone. She doesn't understand that I get anxious of doing things by myself and going places alone, so when we're somewhere and I ask if we can go look at something else, she tells me to just go alone because it's not a big deal and I'm going to be an adult sooner than later, even though she also loves to remind me often of how I'm just a child and basically that my opinion doesn't count. I know I cause problems sometimes because I have a quick temper and can get a bad attitude but her making comments saying things sarcastically like "is it ok if I go look over there?" And treating me like a baby always worsens things. I try to tell her how I feel but she tells me to stop attacking her because she didn't do anything to deserve it and then she makes me drop the subject and stop talking about it- so nothing ever gets resolved and we never come to a consensus or resolution. I want this to stop because it's making me miserable but I don't know how to make things better if she isn't willing to try.

Question: How else should I handle?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 11:50 AM PDT

How else should I handle my family constantly nagging me? I'm 31 my mom passed away in December. My family nags me what I should or shouldn't buy at a grocery store or any store. I'm currently staying with my uncle for a short while he lives in a retirement home it's a bit farther from my friends. Every day he says over and over drink your orange juice drink your orange juice. As soon as I got up this morning he said I had too much laundry this week was my first week. My other uncle can be hard on me when I forget something he usually has news that is not good. Shall I mention any of this to my dad or my moms friend. I'm the only child. What I'm thinking is maybe I can sleep over my moms friends house my aunt and uncle always seem to make decisions for me.

Question: When I was 13 I wanted to be the thug guy. Why?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 11:48 AM PDT

When I was like 13-14 I wanted to be the "thug guy". I loved that (now I hate it). I dressed up like a gangster and for a while I carried a small pocket knife. To make me look more "gangster" I guess. Then I stopped with that "thug thing" and now I am normal guy. So why was I doing this? Was this puberty, immaturity? I just wanna know haha. Btw, I never made any trouble. I never got into fights.

Question: My parents are seeing a bad friend my Mom has next weekend. How do I be sure they don't make me come and miss a family event?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 11:39 AM PDT

I really want to go to the family event if it is still held. My parents are going to see this friend of theirs who likes to stir up gossip. They are seeing the friend because the friend's husband has pancreatic cancer and will probably die. While I sympathize with that and I like the friend's husband I don't want to go hear the gossip. So how do I get out of going? I don't want my Mom's family to think I am part of the gossip anyway (this friend likes to divide my Mom's family). I am 15. My sisters will go as they will play with this couples daughters but I dont want to. This is next weekend. Also I want to see my out of town cousins who are coming to town if they still do (that might be on hold as an in-law of their Mom's just died).

Question: Dealing with a screw-up?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 11:33 AM PDT

My younger sister is a freshman in college. When she was younger, she didn't really make the best choices, and our parents were really reluctant on being okay with her going to college far away from home. But because I could tell how much she really wanted to go to this school (because it was the best option for her major), I helped her out and convinced our parents to let her go. Fast forward to now, she texted me this morning saying she got drunk last night at a party. I'm a senior in college, and I guess I wouldn't be the right person to lecture her about getting drunk at a party, because I did too, once. But no one had to jump through hoops to make sure it was ok for me to go to school far away. I'm driving down to her school to visit tomorrow (which was something that was planned long before the text this morning). What should I do? Should I talk to her about it or just let it go? I tried very hard to get our parents to let her go, and at this point, I feel let down because she did this.

Question: I just found out my Dad never wanted children, is my mother right this means he never wanted me in the 1st place?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 11:27 AM PDT

So my parents divorced and my mother has been telling me some of the things wrong with my Dad. One of the things she just revealed is that my Dad never wanted kids. She says he might like me but he does not love me and that she and her family are the ones who love me. I am 14 and they divorced when I was 10. So my question is this. Does him not wanting kids before I was born mean he never wanted me like my Mom says? Should I get mad at him when I see him next? We still see him but my Mom says it is just because he wants to look good to his parents (my grandparents). I have to post anonymous because of a rule my Mom has but please answer because I am really upset after I learned this

Question: I m very depressed after vacation. Can anyone help and or know why?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 11:14 AM PDT

I recently went on vacation for a week with my family and my uncles family. We rented a beach house and I lived with them all week while mostly spending time and playing with my cousins and second cousin. My second cousin never met me and she finally opened up to me a day before we left. right before my family left just 10 minutes before they did I gave hugs to my cousins and 2 of them whispered in my ear telling me they ll miss and and one of them was her. I wear a rubber band she d always find me n give me to remind me of her. she s 4 and I m almost 15 and I don t think she ll remember next time I see her. I ve been crying to sleep since and have never been this depressed before. it s at the point I ve cried so much I can t cry anymore. I m wondering if it s because I only see them holidays and birthdays or if I got used to living with them or if it s just that one cousin. For anyone knows how do I feel better? thanks guys..

Question: Why am I suppose to live with lack of family?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 11:12 AM PDT

I'm 19.i don't have much family,the family I do have is out of town or state,and most of my family is toxic or doesn't care about me.i once did felt cared for until my grandpa passed away five years ago which he was the only person who actually cared for me.I also used to have a good relationship with my uncle and cousin but for some reason they don't talk to me anymore and if I try to call or text them they ignore me.I live with my mom and step dad,they say they love me but they mentally abuse me sometimes,I feel like they expect me to live my life with a Job I don't like,not get to travel or have fun,and not have anyone that cares about me.I do talk to and see my brother and grandma every once in a while but my grandma doesn't have a lot of money to visit and my brother doesn't like to travel far from home.I feel like I'm living alone in this world.I don't have friends either because I don't believe they are an alternative to family because they don't provide that special treatment that family provide unless there really close best friends which it's hard to do that and it still wouldn't solve the problem that I don't have a grandpa.i've never been in a relationship because I've never felt confident in having one.what is the point in living if no one cares about me?

Question: Can i get my dad arrested for helping me with my homework?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 11:10 AM PDT

i know a parent helping with homework isnt itself a crime. but helping with homework when u dont want them to is. cuz i clearly toad him no. cuz i have a assignment on mass spectrometry. all i gotta do is draw a mass spectrometer and label the parts and write what happens in each part. well i finished it. and my dad checked it against my will. then he said i need to add more in the ionisation area. said i needed to add the 2 different types of ionisation. no i didnt!! my teacher never said i had to. but he was all like, if i dont then im doing a half @ssed job. the teacher knows i know what the 2 types are. i didnt need to add anything. i refused to add it. and my dad was all pissed. its my homework!! not his. none of my friends parents help them with homework. im tired of my dad imposing himself on every aspect of my life. like just earlier today i was paying GTA5 and my dad said not to drive down this street cuz its a dead end. so what?????? he never heard of driving through fences? hes so annoying. i want him arrested. i can just imagine him coming into my work when im older, and saying thats not how to do something. just go away. i even said just go away and he spun my chair around in retaliation. i nearly hit my head. he needs to be stopped.

Question: Should I call child protective sevices?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 10:44 AM PDT

So I'm 15 and I have 4 siblings, my mom is a drug addict and she won't stop. She went to jail bc she stole money to buy her drugs. I got in trouble for smoking pot and drinking alcohol. And i wzdst going to school but now i knoiw I messed up and I stopped but my mom and dad are very mad about it still. I was trying to talk to my mom the oither day and then she started yelling and I got mad so I started yelling and then she hit me like 4 timers and then there was anither time when she hit me bc we were yelling at each other again. But I started walking away from it bc it was outside in the front yard and I didn't want people to see. I went inside and then that's when she hit Me. I think she was high both times and so idk what to do. My dad wants her out but His mom (my grandma) wants to help her (my mom stole from my grandma) and so I know for a fact that my mom won't go get help bc she has said it. Idk what to do anymore I need advice on what to do

Question: What brother kissed my with do I do?!?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 10:31 AM PDT

I'm a 13 year old girl and my brother is 15 and the other day we were wrestling we wrestle a lot he was on top and pinning me down and just pecked me on the lips I yelled at him and he just laughed and acted like it was funny and walked away Idk why he did it I'm not going to tell my mom or dad cause they won't care they will just say he was goofing around what should I do?

Question: I have an opportunity and everyone is making me feel bad about it. Advice?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 10:28 AM PDT

My mom wants to take me to japan and i ended up saying yes, i mean its japan!! But my dad is really mad because its during thanksgiving, and my siblings are mad bacause i think they arnt going and they probably think im a brat because im the youngest and i get more then they got. This makes me feel so bad because i love my siblings so much and the fact that they are mad at me makes me so sad . Please give me some advice i litteraly am crying so much idk what to do.

Question: How to have sex with my mom and dad ?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 10:27 AM PDT

Question: Who's the LEGAL father?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 10:21 AM PDT

A woman was born in Germany in 1994. At the time, her mother was married to "Fred Smith" but her birth father was actually "David House". (i.e. mom was having an affair). On the birth certificate, the father is listed as David House. The woman took her mother's last name, SMITH, and considered Fred Smith to be her dad. He never "adopted" her. Who is her legal father? On an official government form, who would she list as her father? She is immigrating and needs to fill out forms. Danke. By the way, I know this may sound illogical, but for the sake of family unity, until a few years ago, my state of Michigan used the old law that said, paraphrased, "Whoever mom was married to at birth is the legal father." EVEN IF A DNA TEST PROVED OTHERWISE. The law was finally updated.

Question: Hate riding in the car with my dad?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 10:10 AM PDT

It is truly awful I go to school wake up at 5 in the morning then when school is over go to work till 9 then when I get off my dad literally tries to pick arguments for no reason and repeats the same thing everyday like apply to college whic I ALREADY KNOW cuz he says it everyday and he is always telling some story like can't you shut up I'm tired and I'm only 17 and have a year till I get my license and I'm a senior in high school it's horrible advice?

Question: Why does she ignore me and then look upset?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 09:29 AM PDT

She ignores me and after I ignore her she gets really upset. We used to be best friends once. Anyway she broke her hand last week and I wanted to show my sympathy but she showed her attitude by ignoring me so I started pretending she wasn't even there and she got upset and stared at me in class and even walked by me to get my attention but I just continued to do my work. What's up with this girl anyway? It's not the first time she does these kind of thing. She get upset if I hug my friends and the next thing I know she's right there in front of me trying to forcefully hug someone in front of me. I don't even get her anymore. Or for instance if I talk to her ex friend (whose my classmate) she will get mad and keep that angry attitude with a frown on her face for the entire week until things cool down.

Question: I hate my baby neice?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 09:19 AM PDT

I'm 15 (male) and my sister is 17. She had a baby last year who will be 1 year old later this month. I f*cking hate babies, and I always have. Related or not, they are f*cking annoying. I just want my sister to move out with her when she turns 18, but I have a feeling that won't happen. I hate it when they cry and squeal and scream. It hurts my f*cking ears. I cringe every godd*mn time. Now, maybe I'm just a disgusting and evil human being, but it's just the way I am. How can I just suck it up for the next year and hope to God my sister moves out?

Question: My Dad is always angry at me when I'm anxious, he doesn't want to hear about my anxiety, how do I get over this and the loneliness it causes?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 09:15 AM PDT

My mother is also anxious and she is bitter so I can't go to her.

Question: Don't repeat the law, just tell me if you think it is fair or agree that it's unfair?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 08:53 AM PDT

This one is related to abuse. An abused spouse, who is almost always an adult, is provided assistance in escaping and with shelter. A person over 18, who still lives with their abusive parent and can't afford moving, is just told "if you don't want to suffer just get out", and not assisted in any area. In both situations the victim is an adult, but in only one of the situations does the adult get help. I still live with my abusive parents who guilt trip me from moving out (and are very good at it), and I can't drive for medical reasons

Question: What do I do? My dad hit me?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 08:47 AM PDT

Well, I'm 12 and my "father" has been emotionally abusive since I was around 6 or7. He yells at me over everything and he gets mad and controls everything that me, my mom, and my sister does. He threatened to beat me on several occasions too. I go to a psychiatrist and I told him that I was having bad thoughts and he said I should get a assessment to see if I should get admitted. My stupid father got mad because apparently the only reason I said that was because I wanted to go to another school, which I do but it wasn't that and my ******* father knows I get bullied and all he said was "Stop being a little kid" Anyways started calling me a ***** and all these names and I said **** you and he told me to give him my phone and I said no and I locked myself in the bathroom and he said he would kick it down. So I opened it and he kept yelling and I threw my phone abs he grappes me by the arm which hurt and then he hit me in the leg and then I started crying and screaming and he told me to "shut the **** up" I told him that he was a child abuser and he said that it wasn't against the law to hit your kids, it was only against the law to beat your kids. He left a bruise on my leg and I don't feel safe in this house. My mom doesn't anything abs listens to anything he says and I'm sick of it, I don't want to get hit again and I don't want to live here. I don't have friends to tell and all my family relatives live out of the state. I have no one so please tell me what to do to get out.

Question: How is it possible that my brother and sister from my mother's 2nd marriage are such cruel people when I am so nice and my older brother?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 08:34 AM PDT

My older brother and I are from my mother's 1st marriage and we turned out fine. We have flaws like anyone but we are normal. My younger two siblings are so cruel and they are from my mother's 2nd marriage. My older brother and I are 25 and 28 and my younger siblings are 16 and 18. Why are they so cruel? As teens my older brother and I were normal also and we were the ones with divorced parents and a mother who abused us by trying to alienate us from our father. Our step-siblings from our step-mother are all nice and our step-father has a son who is very nice also. So how is this possible? Is it something about today's generation? These two younger siblings are adopted but they were adopted as newborns so there is no trauma involved as one was adopted at 3 weeks and the other birth. ANY THOUGHTS? The brother is even worse (he is the 18 year old) the sister is just a plain old fashion bully

Question: How is it possible that my little sister is amazing at everything and I suck at everything?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 08:25 AM PDT

My sister is five years younger and shes amazing at everything I suck at. Like: making friends, sports, singing, literally everything and its not fair! She tries to show me up at everythinf! I score two goals during my field hockey career in 7th grade and she scored 4. She got into this acapella group in 7th grade, i got in in 8th. And now i suck at everything she rocks. But she does it by being fake and plastic. She used to be a girl of substance and now she just cares about popularity and i dont know what to do because i am miserable. Even my parents like her better my mom has ADMITTED it. And shes prettier and smarter. Its not fair shes not even a good person what do i do

Question: How do I know if my step-sister is a liar or now?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 08:17 AM PDT

So my step-Dad's daughter and my mother hate each other. My mother says she (the step-daughter) is a LIAR. My aunt (who also tutored this girl) says the girl does NOT lie and my mother is sinful in how she is judging the girl. All agree as a kid my step-sister lied some but that is halfway normal. She is now 23. Its a long story but my mother did most the raising of the step-daughter and has always resented the step-daughter not being grateful and instead being being a poor student and fibbing as a kid. Now at age 23 I am not sure if she still lies or not. I don't know what to think. She is a hard worker now (works 5-6 days a week). Her only weakness is she has not thanked my mother for all her service to her in childhood (her real mother is an alcoholic and didn't raise her). I am 16 and like my step-sister but my mother got mad the one time I saw my step-sister (at the holidays last year) She resents that her family (my mother's family) is helping her step-daughter. My Dad just goes along with whatever my mother says and so I am the only one who has seen my step-sister in 2 years other then cold handshakes and large extended family gatherings. So my question is who do I believe, my mother who is bitter at her step-daughter for not appreciating her more and being a slow student years go or my step-sister who seems to be doing better but my Mom claims is a divisive liar. My Mom usually doesn't let us do things with the extended family anymore because this step-sister is there which makes me resent my mother. At the same time I don't know if my step-sister might have deceived me. My mother is making us skip Christmas this year because of my step-sister.

Question: I am afraid my Dad will not tell me if we are invited to a family reunion in my late mother;s family. What do I do?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 08:06 AM PDT

I can't ask anyone in her family because I used to ask too much and it got on their nerves. I am afraid my Dad won't tell me and we will be the only group not there because it will fall the same week as his families wedding (first week in November). By his families wedding I mean his cousin's sons wedding we are asked to. I am afraid I wont know if we are invited to a reunion as I could do both. My mother's family hasn't had one in 4 years but there is always a small chance (they had one in 2012). I am 26 and live on my own but invites come via him @Anonymous----My mother is dead, I do ask these sorts of questions but am not the one whose mother alienates him, my mother is dead. So only about 1/3 of the questions are me. I will cut back. I am the one with the late mother (she died). Etiquette had me mixed up with the other person also. Also its only my mother's side of the family I worry about since they live out of town. @Anonymous · 18 mins ago----Thanks, you make a good point. And I am close to my Mom's family, just don't want to go overboard asking stuff all the time (LIKE I DO ON HERE). Thanks though

Question: I just got caught for drinking and smoking weed by my mom. She isn't letting me do anything and its making me want to drink and smoke?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 08:01 AM PDT

so I'm in high school and my mom found out I was drinking and smoking weed. She grounded me for two months. I understand I deserved to be punished, but she doesnt understand that me being by myself alone all day with nothing fun to makes me want to drink and smoke so much more. She wont let me go see a dog I want with her, she wont let me go to my best friends dads cookout, nothing. How do i tell her that leaving me alone all day is making my problem worse? Dont say I deserve the punishment and just need to deal with it, because i need help

Question: I dont know what happen to my mom, help me please for home remedies.?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 07:56 AM PDT

Okay first of all, i love my mum very much and i dont want her to die. She has fever, head ache and she told me that she cough blood and when i ask her to meet her doctor she dont want it but she just took the medicine. My father dont even fcking care abt her i hate my father always used my mom moneys. I cant imagine if i lived with my dad and my fckin dad probably going to use all the money for his fckin failed business ever i hate him so much. Please tell me some home remedies

Question: Should I respect my arrogant African American step dad, even if he doesn't respect me?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 07:34 AM PDT

I am white. My mom remarried this guy recently and he has always disdained me since. I haven't done anything to him. He is nice to my sister. Should I start disrespecting him?

Question: Why does my dad stay in the bathroom for an hour?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 07:25 AM PDT

Everyday my mom isnt home my dad goes to the bathroom and stays for an hour. It pisses me off what is he even doing?

Question: Sad to move out of parents house...help!?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 06:51 AM PDT

I am moving out of my parents house this week and I'm having panic attacks and am really sad. I've lived in my own before, for nine years, and made a huge life change and lived with them until I got back on my feet. I've gotten used to being around them everyday...having people around who love and care about me has been amazing. I've also noticed that I'd rather hang out with them, than my own friends or boyfriend. Yeah, it's my comfort zone, but it's nice after nine years of Caro i went through before. I'm really sad to leave my parents because they're my best friends and I don't think they want me to leave. I'm in my 30s, so I know Its time but I'm so scared and sad. There are so many changes in my life right now that I can't deal with them...moving, health stuff, new boyfriend...I wish I could just take a break from something so it's not so overwhelming. Anyone have any advice? I feel like I've reverted back to a child by being so sad to leave (only moving 45 minutes away).

Question: Girls who can drive would you have done this?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 06:49 AM PDT

I just got back from dropping my sister off at her friend's house. Since it was warm out and I did not get out of my car I drove in my bare feet and left my shoes at home.

Question: Do you think my mother has a mental problem she me and my siblings are all grown in are 30s and 40 when he's get mad she trys to hit us?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 06:48 AM PDT

Question: I can't deal with my sister anymore?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 06:40 AM PDT

I am 17 and my sister is 13. She is used to getting it her own way. She is constantly demanding and is verbally abusing to our mum until she gives in. It s making me miserable and really upset. We can't go a day without fighting. If our mum says she can't have something because it's too expensive (she is very materialistic) she goes as far as threatening to kill herself or self harm. It's also my fault as I retaliate when she is annoying or pestering me. Am I in the wrong and just being stubborn or is the trouble really with my sister?

Question: Is it fat or baby fat?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 06:37 AM PDT

My son has played sports all his life but is concerned about how he looks. He noticed today that he has fat on his stomach and under his chin and has what he calls man boobs. But he s 13 so I tried telling him he s going through changes and it should go away but he wanted a second opinion. What do y all think?

Question: I can t deal with my sister anymore?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 06:37 AM PDT

I am 17 and my sister is 13. She is a pathological liar who is used to getting it her own way. She is constantly demanding and is verbally abusing to our mum until she gives in. It s making me miserable and really upset. We can t go a day without fighting. Am I in the wrong and just being stubborn or is the trouble really with my sister?

Question: Pls help I wrote a fake diary?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 06:24 AM PDT

A long time ago when I was younger I made a diary with all sorts of lies about my family and I wrote things like one of our family members would hit, touch us, which is a compete lie. This family member is one of the nicest people you ll ever meet. I know it s dumb but I wrote this because I wanted my Bf to read it And give me attention. I left this diary at a friends house and I m wondering what would happen if her or her parents ever read it, could the police get involved and arrest this family member?

Question: Should I transfer away to university? Anxiety and depression?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 05:48 AM PDT

I just started my second year of CC, and I found myself into some trouble. I have not one friend, my mother resents me, my sister follows in her foot steps from seeing how she treats me, and my brother is just a plain asshole. I'm the black sheep of the family, no matter what I accomplish, but I'm not here to cry about unfair treatment, just to be considered as a factor for my decision. I suffer from depression, and anxiety, leading me to become a major "functioning alcoholic". Thinking about my father, leads to uncontrollable drinking, which backfired while at school, when i got arrested for PI. My father past away from a severe heart attack at the age of 26, and it saddens me how even though everyone sees me as a nobody, he wasn't able to see me attend college, or become admitted into an honors society. My college is threatening to kick me out, even though nothing was found on me. The vibe in the household is real, and my mother won't look at me. What would you do if you were in my place? I have enough college credits to be automatically admitted into a handful of my picks. Doctor visits, and talking to family are out of the question, and I don't need to be told, how alcohol is unhealthy. If it weren't for alcohol, I wouldn't have a 4.0 GPA, perfect attendance, any college attempts, and probably be in bed more time through the day then I already am. Real advice please? I just feel like leaving, and taking my problems with me. I am currently 20 yrs, with no reason to stay

Question: Is Every Kid A Spoiled Brat Now A Days?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 05:39 AM PDT

Hi! I'm a 15 year-old guy and every single kid in my school is a spoiled brat. Their parents get them whatever they want, and they think they rule the world. Me, I have a job, and the other kids think I'm a loser for it. They think that work is overrated, and they think they'll be successful YouTubers one day. They each have like 700 vids, and only like 10 subs. The world isn't an endless salad bar. You don't get to have whatever you want all the time. And the same kids bully the kids with misfortune, and get away with it. It's annoying what my generation is like.

Question: My mom criticises everything I do, I wash the dishes wrong and get my sleeve wet (i dont), i bring in the clothes too early (it's dry) etc?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 05:34 AM PDT

Question: Manipulative people out there, how do I ruin a family member's life without them noticing?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 05:22 AM PDT

Question: Step children?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 05:11 AM PDT

Im having a hard time with step children , i don't understand what I am doing wrong with them. I try to make them understand that the world doesnt revolve around them and tbat everyone has needs. Such as if they want time alone then ill be more than happy to do leave them be. Moat times i prefer to be by myself ,(wbich even includes my wife at times depending on the mood she is in ) She tells me tbings like " they love you ,you dont even know it" "try to understand them " " make them feel understood " i dont see why i should have to approach them differently than her. Any real non trolling answers are welcome

Question: My 20 year old brother keeps looking at porn. Can this be an addiction since it is more then what is common, might he be sick in the head?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 05:11 AM PDT

Question: My Dad is mad I crashed his car on Labor Day weekend and he hasn't spoken a word to me since (I am 17), what do I do?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 05:05 AM PDT

I live in the same house, I was driving the car authorized, and it was just a fender bender. However I was on a cell phone and should not have been. My mother says no problem just don't let it happen again. My Dad talks to my siblings and my Mom. But he has not uttered a word to me since the accident on Labor Day Sunday. It is now October 1st. Yesterday was my birthday and he didn't say anything though grant it he was out of town for the day but he'd call normally. What do I do? I have apologized and it was just a fender bender.

Question: I heard my parents having sex?!?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 05:04 AM PDT

So I was babysitting all day and my parents came home from wine tasting. I had a friend over because she was locked out of her house and I went to go ask my mom something and I heard them!! I was in shock I didn't know what to do. I had my friend over and I felt so embarrassed. I got really angry because I'm always home watching my brother while they go party. And they pay me with coming home drunk and having sex when IM awake PLUS my friend was over. I felt so disgusted and disrespected. So I left to my uncles and I didn't want to leave my friend there alone so she went to another friends. I understand they have sex that's how I came to be, but I felt so disrespected. They couldn't wait till I was asleep or until MY FRIEND was gone. What should I do?! Help!!!

Question: Is my mother right or wrong to dislike the offspring of her enemies?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 04:59 AM PDT

If my mother is enemies with someone then she dislikes their offspring. Is this right or wrong? For example she has an uncle she dislikes and as a result she doesn't want to know his three children two of whom I have met and are very-very nice. Another example is her sister's ex-husband's family she liked but when her sister got divorced the exes family kept loving him and so my mother disliked all of his family who she'd previously been friends with. So is this wrong like I sense or is this just fine and is it okay to cut out the children of enemies? If someone is enemies with my parents do they have the right to hate me?

Question: Should I give my pet to my Mother or Keep him with myself?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 04:23 AM PDT

I had always wanted a little dog because I always felt lonely in life. So, i got a Pug and he eventually grew very close to my mom and became her pet. I was pretty disappointed so after 5 years when I'm moving out now and shifting to another city for work..I got a shih tzu pup for myself a month back and my mom has grown really close to him too.. but i love him too.. My mom keeps telling me how her life has gotten better because of the new dog and she's so much in love with him..etc. What should I do now, I wanted this dog so badly and I love him, but I I'm thinking of giving it to my mom. Should I take my dog with me or give it to my mom? Its a big decision i've to take, i really need some help. PS: My mom hasn't asked me for the shih tzu but I do feel like she wants me to let her keep it. So, may be she keeps giving me hints and she still keeps saying that she can't possibly take care of 2 dogs.

Question: Hey young people do you respect people older than you?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 04:08 AM PDT

I'm 45 years old man now.... And I now realize how important to respect people older than me. Like I give a way to seniors (man and women) to get inside first when I open a door. Or by calling them, sir or mam . Do you know why? because I expect the younger generation, teenagers, college students, Mark Zuckerberg or young hot ladies to respect me. when some people are embarrassed to reveal their age, I boldly say "God has given me 45 years of happy life!". And I realize being young sucks because people do not believe you.... (when you have a job, you know what I'm talking about).

Question: How to find my ex husband s outside children?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 03:55 AM PDT

Question: Help i killed my neighbors cat?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 03:54 AM PDT

I ran it over with my car, needless to say it was a mistake. Ive burried the body but im now shitting it. I think she knows i know something about it, shes talking about the law and everything. The cat was quite old (17 yrs), so its not like he was cut down in its prime. Ive had trouble with her before,shes getting on in years and is always looking for a fight with me,( i think its because i killed her last cat as well) Should i own up, try to replace the cat with a new one(i got the idea from scooby do) or simply deny everything and hope my web of lies remains intact. Maybe i should run her over.I could make it look like suicide.....

Question: My friend is not allowed to come to my house?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 03:50 AM PDT

Apparently, her mother told her to not come to my house when she was 13. She told me its because I never went to their house. In my mid teens she used to come to this girl that lived close to me, and if she came to my house, it was with that girl, she never came alone. I am 19 now, and I visit her house often, and tell her she can come to me. She never comes to my house, and we have been friends for a decade. What goes on? We are "relatives" as well. My family is the nicest ever.

Question: Is my mom right that im being ridiculous?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 03:40 AM PDT

I am a 20 year old guy who lives with my single mom(via anonomous sperm donor) and my 2 aunts, who all raised me together. I am 6'2 weighing 200 pounds. But my aunts are 6'5 weighing around 250 pounds and my mom is 6'8 weighing around 300 pounds. Its humiliating to be smaller than my mom and aunts and im embarrassed to go out seen with them. We are going on a family cruise, and they already bought my ticket. I dont want to go cuz its humiliating being shorter and smaller than 3 women in their 50s. My mom says im being ridiculous and said "you are a big guy urself, ur a giant among your friends and peers. You are the man of the family, and are protecting 3 people bigger than you

Question: My dad is messed up?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 03:10 AM PDT

I am EXTREMELY angry at my dad. I avoid talking to him at all costs and i hate looking at his ugly face. He spends $450 every month on marijuana and alcohol. He makes me so angry. My mom has a messy room (it isn't that messy, there are just some clothes on the floor) and he calls my mom a hoarder. He told the school counselor that my mom was a hoarder and that I can't make eye contact with anyone and that I have very poor communication skills. I have excellent communication skills and I make eye contact with everyone except him because I can't stand to look at him. He may think that he loves me, but I don't feel like he loves me AT ALL. He is a money hoarder and he isn't willing to put a penny into the house. There is black mold on the walls and he has all the supplies to paint, but he never does. I have had a sore throat for almost 2 years and I have growths on the back of my throat from the black mold. He didn't give me anything for my birthday and he didn't give me anything for Christmas. I didn't invite him to my birthday party last year and he sprayed an entire can of shaving cream into my bed. My birthday is coming up soon and I do not plan on inviting him to my birthday party. I hate him SO MUCH and he is ruining my life. He didn't get along with his dad, so I am super worried that I will end up like him. He told my mom that she "turned me against him" but if anything he turned me against him. He eats like a vermin and he has brown teeth. I HATE him. My question is what should I do? i am not over 18. He hates his job. He is a lawyer. He comes home and all he does is *****. He makes me upset and he makes e feel like I don't have a future. Do I even have a future? What should I do? I want to go to college and be a cardiologist some day and he makes me feel like I can't do that.

Question: My sister and I, possibly too close?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 03:02 AM PDT

I'm a guy, she's my twin. For as long as I can remember, we've been best friends, partners in crime, we're seventeen. We tell each other everything, even the most personal secrets, and seek each other's advice. We have a playful dynamic and a rivalry in most things. We still race each other and play chess. She's usually my date to dances and events, and nobody seems to really think anything of it. We've dated and had significant others before, and supported each other through each mess. We often go on "date nights" sometimes, which is what we playfully call one-on-one hangouts. Sometimes I'll be brushing my teeth while she's in the shower, or vice-versa. Sometimes she changes in front of me, not bothering to have me turn around. So, yes, I have technically seen her naked, and I'll admit that sometimes I masturbate thinking of her, but what can I say? I'm a guy, and I don't feel comfortable imagining just anyone. We often fall asleep cuddling after date nights. Sometimes I wake up with my head rested on her chest (By the way she has really huge boobs, so...) not like it was on purpose, and she never seems bothered by it, but yeah. Then there was one party where the music got too loud and admittedly we were both kind of tipsy, so we hid away in a closet and ended up making out for like an hour. We laughed it off once we were sober and haven't brought it up since, it hasn't made things awkward. Thoughts? Is this too close, too weird? What should I do, will anything happen?

Question: Please listen, and tell me if this is weird or inappropriate?

Posted: 01 Oct 2016 02:27 AM PDT

((Please be mature. I am a guy, if you were wondering.)) My relationship with my Mom is closer than most I'm eighteen, she's thirty-three. She had me young, and it's been just us for my entire life. She's always been my mentor, the one I confide in, my best friend, She nursed me until I was five. (By the way she has really huge boobs, so...) A lot of my friends think she's cool, she was never a helicopter mom, only being tough when she knew I needed it. She's usually my date to school dances, since I freeze up when trying to ask someone. She passes for a college girl. I've never been on a date or kissed a girl, even though Mom and I have "date nights" on Sunday where we watch movies or go in the pool/hot tub. But I have a healthy social life, I spend a lot of nights out with friends, which she never tries to stop. I'm independent. But I also spend time with her. Sometimes I'll be brushing my teeth while she's in the shower. Sometimes she changes in front of me. So, yes, I have technically seen her naked, and I'll admit that she was the first person I jerked off thinking of. Maybe that is a little weird, but, what can I say, I felt comfortable imagining her. We often fall asleep cuddling after date nights. Once, when we were talking about experience and I mentioned how I'd be nervous about kissing a girl, offered to teach me how. She didn't pressure me or anything, just let me know she was an option. I haven't taken her up on it but I'm almost tempted... ...Thoughts?