Family & Relationships: Question: Why is my ex mad at me? |
- Question: Why is my ex mad at me?
- Question: Any couples here follow "don't ask, don't tell" policy towards sex outside marriage? How did you convince your spouse to start with?
- Question: An 18 year old guy dating a 21 year old woman?
- Question: Looked at me through the corner of her eye?
- Question: Husband annoyed by ex father in law, what should I do?
- Question: Should i leave mutually abusive relationship? I'm going in detail and husband doesnt want me to leave.?
- Question: Is there really such thing as alpha female/alpha male, or they are just stories on the internet?
- Question: Why Jatt'S are so particular regarding caste during marriages of thereSon n Daughter?
- Question: If life is what you make it they say, then how come there are things you cannot control about your life?!?
- Question: How to approach a woman over text?
- Question: Why does my husband always get the urge to poop when we're leaving the house to go somewhere?
- Question: If you were forced to choose between your personal freedom and making a New family what would you choose?
- Question: Do I have the right to be upset?
- Question: He said he was thinking about me just then?
- Question: Do you think I came as crazy & stalkerish in his eyes?
- Question: Husband and I got into a bad fight last night?
- Question: Should i let my friend **** my wife?
- Question: I just got so angry at my husband....Was I unfair?
- Question: Is Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele's relationship abusive?
- Question: Why does my 4 year old always cry or get mad!?
- Question: Should I call out of work today?
- Question: Why do ppl prefer to settle for someone they don't have a spark with?
- Question: And given like?
- Question: How Long Does A Leo Man Stay Mad?
- Question: I feel empty?
- Question: What's the point of being a cuckold husband/boyfriend?
- Question: Would you call it a rape?
- Question: Long question short , I'm married but my dad don't believe that Untill I do it in a church. I'm being forced against my well to do it ...?
- Question: Husband spends more time with my daughter than he does me?
- Question: I caught my wife and dog on the floor with a jar of peanut butter. What should I do?
- Question: How to approach women?
- Question: Does this make me bisexual?
- Question: Will the relationship work?
- Question: My ex's wife is pregnant. He used to cheat on his wife with me. I didn't know he was married. Our relationship ended when I found out?
- Question: Do you think i was too much for him to handle?
- Question: Where do I find MILFS/Cougars and how do I approach them?
- Question: Question for people who live alone?
- Question: Why does she playfully tease me?
- Question: I want to help my boyfriend, he's depressed but I don't know what to do?
- Question: Should I let a man control what I do while he is in jail?
- Question: My kids father and I have been broken up for 4mos for the 5th time, he is actin so disrespectful n ignorant towards us,why all of a sudden?
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- Question: What makes a man a good boyfriend and husband material?
- Question: Drama with my Husband's Sister In Law! Need mature advice!?
- Question: Should I continue to help my ex for the sake of the kids?
- Question: My bus driver game me a wedgie today?
- Question: My husband likes to upset me, what does that mean and why? Please help?
- Question: Why do married men have girlfriends?
- Question: More and more generations of people are popping up gay. Is their anyone else that feels the hormones in our foods are the cause?
- Question: Should i add my ex on facebook after rejecting his request?
| Question: Why is my ex mad at me? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 01:42 PM PDT My husband divorced me for another woman that he knocked up. Now, they are married with a child of their own while our son visits occasionally. I have been thinking of ways to break them up and recently, I got my opportunity. While his wife was out of town on business, my husband went out drinking and called me late at night and told me to come over. He said he was horny and needed to get laid. I went over and agreed to have sex with him. While we were having sex, i secretly audio recorded it with my phone. When his wife returned, I sent her an audio recording of us having sex. She was livid mad and hurt. She took their child and left their house. She now wants to divorce him and have full custody of their child. I thought he would use that as an opportunity to get back with me. But he surprised me! He said he hates me with a passion and that I ruined his life. He says he doesn't even remember us having sex that night. (He was completely inebriated. I will admit). He says I took advantage of his drunken state and that I'm a horrible person. He even wants to try to get full custody of our son now. What's his problem? He's the one that called me over for sex. He wouldn't have called me for that if he didn't still have feelings for me. |
| Posted: 01 Oct 2016 01:29 PM PDT And how do you make it work? |
| Question: An 18 year old guy dating a 21 year old woman? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 01:25 PM PDT I started speaking to a gorgeous woman today during a college trip. She's extremely friendly and has an angel face and I just so happen to have a class with her. We had a causal conversation and I really enjoyed talking to her. We were smiling at each other, laughing and cracking jokes and stuff. She's really sweet to be around. I didn't ask her for her number because I had kind of just met her and I thought that would be weird on my part. I'm gonna ask her for it soon The thing is I'm 18 and she's 21 is that ok? |
| Question: Looked at me through the corner of her eye? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 01:18 PM PDT So the other day in class I was talking to my friend and I saw this girl looking at me through the corner of her eye. I've caught her looking at me before but she has a bf what does this mean? |
| Question: Husband annoyed by ex father in law, what should I do? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 12:42 PM PDT I am divorced with a son from my ex husband. My ex father in law babysits a lot and sees my son pretty often, more so than my ex husband does. However sometimes my ex father in law will tell me stories about his personal life with his girlfriend, her health and mental problems, and he also makes a big deal not beig invited to holiday events anymore. Him telling me about his problems doesn't annoy me although I find it weird it's not a big deal. However sometimes he will call me at odd times to discuss things. He called very early in the morning to ask about thjngs and my husband gets annoyed by this. What should I do? |
| Posted: 01 Oct 2016 12:23 PM PDT I feel I don't have and list respect for my husband because he lost respect for me even before marriage. I was not perfect at all. I started off crying alot if things didn't go my way. Then i started throwing things then I started swinging and hitting. I stopped doing those things after my husband started hit ing me back. One time I was not sure if I was the blame because he would yell and call me horrible names and he even woke up from being drunk and blocked me and pushed me all over the laundry room. So I quit getting physical. I cheated and told him about it he forgave me and wanted to work things out so I stayed. He began to yell name call and block me in rooms but I would not hit him he would just watch me cry. Our last fight I never hit my husband but I passed him off he choked me in self defense I bit him and he punched me in the face. Because my friend heard me crying she called the police and he was arrested. I didn't bail him out and he came home but I said I wanted to leave and get a divorce but I didn't have anywhere to go. so I ended up meeting a guy and after we had sex he started being mean to me and I didn't want to continue with another man I met him with fresh bruises on my body from my husband hiting me. I told my husband what happen and he told me he wants us to work out again. I don't want to play victim but in my defense I ran to other guys to save me because my husband yelled at me hit me and didn't touch me sexually. |
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| Question: Why Jatt'S are so particular regarding caste during marriages of thereSon n Daughter? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 12:02 PM PDT Hi i Aged 25 punjabi boy in love with Sikh Jatt Girl we both want ro settle down together n spent life together forever but her father doesnt accept his marriage proposal she thought of as he is kattar(Pure Jatt) and since i've know, jatts only marry jatts. why is that? there are maybe some out there who marry punjabis, put the majority only marry punjabi. what is the big difference? Uh what is a jatt? they are punjabi, so whats the big deal in whom they marry? can someone explain? She unable to tell it about us to parents?? |
| Posted: 01 Oct 2016 11:56 AM PDT Like when you were born, the parents/family you have/whether you were born with an illness, disease that is congenital! Is it because you can control MOST of your life but not ALL aspects of it?! For example, I was involved with a guy that was an abuser, but yes that was my fault... but so it's the choices that you make, and not the fate of life that hands you these things?! I was pushed to where my knees bled and even though I wasn't hospitalized, I was still traumatized by it! he was both PHYSICALLY and EMOTIONALLY hurtful at many times in the relationship! |
| Question: How to approach a woman over text? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 11:22 AM PDT I think just introducing yourself and starting a conversation from there is just fine but would this work with a stranger on Instagram DM or text because I know it does in person. I need help getting my DM game back on |
| Posted: 01 Oct 2016 11:14 AM PDT It happens every time! |
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| Question: Do I have the right to be upset? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 09:58 AM PDT Hi I'm 14. Yesterday my great great aunt died. I saw her about 3 times but she gives me wonderful memory's and was very nice and kind to me. She lived alone in poor conditions and her sons would only bring her food. She lived far away in Russia so I obviously couldn't see her that much alas. But she gives me so much great memory's. When I was told she died I began crying. Everyone seemed to be annoyed by that considering nobody including her children and grandchildren are not even sad. Do you think I have the right to be sad over this? Why is nobody in my family even sad for her? |
| Question: He said he was thinking about me just then? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 09:30 AM PDT so this guy i met at one of my classes asked me out to lunch once and we hung out at the library one time too but after that we didn't talk that much. he texted me a few days ago asking about an assignment. after two days i texted him first and i said hey (name) how are you going with assignment? and he replied saying hey (my name) i was thinking about you just then. and i replied saying "damn telepathy!" i am not really good at expressing my feelings especially to someone i dont know that much i hope my response was appropriate cause i was thinking about him too. could he be interested in me? |
| Question: Do you think I came as crazy & stalkerish in his eyes? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 09:30 AM PDT i had a crush on my manager & genuinely thought he felt the same because we got along really well he'd randomly share stories about himself & would always remain eye contact even though some of our convos were short I felt very comfortable talking to him. one day we were talking and he randomly touched my wrist. after awhile he kind of stopped & I had to text him to see if he could get someone to cover for me & after that day I noticed he was kind of avoiding me but wasn't sure why. Maybe cause he was leaving., I decided to leave him a short cute note saying it was nice meeting him & that I wish I had gotten to know him more & hope he texts me sometimes and then put P. S I leave notes for people I like. then a few days later I had to call him to clear something up & he randomly told me he was moving half way across the country.. and I didn't ask why cause i got nervous about changing the subject so I decided to ask him like a day later and he never got back to me.. and then a few weeks later I decided to be straightforward & honest and asked him if we could talk more, get to know each other & he told me he wasn't interested in creating any long distance relationships because he thought they were tedious & a lot of work & I tried to get him to at least try it & he got mad told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again but I did anyways after while I felt bad & apologized..maybe hates me or i was too much 😩😩😩 |
| Question: Husband and I got into a bad fight last night? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 09:23 AM PDT I broke his phone by accident and he stormed off before I could even say anything or realize what I'd done. When he came back he immediately started attacking me saying "you better apologize, that's why I'm about to go to the club with my friends, you're so stupid", cursing me, and so on. His brother lives with us so I felt even more embarrassed because he was belittling me in front of him. He told me "you know what, don't speak to me for the rest of the night", fed up finally I replied "fine, how about the rest of my life" and I went to my room and slammed the door. Yea, I felt the whole scenario was super childish but it's worse because I told him I'm going out with my friends. And he said if I do, he will divorce me and don't ever come back to our house again. So he took it a step further even. Am I in the wrong? I did apologize after the blow up for breaking his phone, but he's withholding s3x from me now. When he gets mad at me he tends to try to "punish" me. |
| Question: Should i let my friend **** my wife? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 08:47 AM PDT |
| Question: I just got so angry at my husband....Was I unfair? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 08:00 AM PDT My husband is nice, but extremely lazy to the point that I have decided not to have more kids with him because I know I need someone helpful. He loads the dishwasher, & he hangs up his clothes & that's about it. We rent a flat from a landlady who lets us have it relatively cheaply on the basis that we don't bother her about problems that arise with the house, so I do ALL the DIY. We have bad drains and pipes & in the 3 yrs that we've been here the pipes clog up once a month, badly! Every single time, it's me who deals with it. A few weeks ago the drain out the front of the house clogged up & I left it for 5 days to see if my husband would do anything. In the end I had to carry over 320ltrs of water to the upstairs drain alone before I could even try to unblock it; & he didn't even offer to help. Today I woke up late because Ive got a cold to find that the bath is clogged. After about 2 hours of trying to unblock the pipework my husband comes in and says "I'm popping to the shops can I get anything" & I angrily say "yes, get some Caustic Soda from the DIY shop" & he says "I don't know where the DIY shop is!" (which makes me more angry because I know the people in the DIY shop my their first names). At this point I just start crying because I feel humiliated. Most women I know have husbands who look after them, & my husband sitting in the living room watching telly while I'm sick doing DIY again. I said "I'm ashamed of myself that I have a husband like you". Am I a monster? |
| Question: Is Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele's relationship abusive? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 07:11 AM PDT Let me make it clear, I have not watched 50 Shades of Grey and I have no desire to see it. My friend just recently watched it and claims the relationship isn't abusive like a lot of people are saying it is. Apparently Anastasia didn't sign the infamous contract while drunk like what a lot of people have told me. I know that there's the one scene that ended the relationship because Anastasia couldn't take what Grey was doing to her. Before I heard that she said the safe word and Christian kept going which is not how a BDSM session should be. My friend is claiming that didn't happen? She said that at the core of it the relationship isn't abusive. |
| Question: Why does my 4 year old always cry or get mad!? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 06:24 AM PDT My son is 4 years old. Him and his dad separated about 9 months ago but he sees him offen just to give a little background. He attends school so i don t know if that s where he gets these little tantrums. I tell him no he throws a fit or when I pick him up from school he gets mad that his dad didn t pick him up. He s sometimes mean to my parents too and just gets angry when he doesn t ge his way. I m just so frustrated that he is like this. I want him to wake up happy in the mornings seeing him smile but he s usually in a bad mood. How do I fix this, I feel like all this is coming from the seperation of his dad and I or is just a phase? I hate to spank him but sometimes I have to for the embarrassment he puts me through in public. |
| Question: Should I call out of work today? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 06:20 AM PDT (I have the sick hours) The manager and coordinator got strict on the cashiers for some reason and i heard the manager would be looking at you today if you ask for the credit cards and the donations for the charity. I always ask get told no. But now i found out that the manager will give u a warning then write you up if you dont ask. They are not meeting their gosls. Im so nervous about being written up that i feel likr i might be sick. They are going to be on top of us hovering around today. I wish i was a floor associste like next week. Should I call out? Everyone I told is telling me to call out |
| Question: Why do ppl prefer to settle for someone they don't have a spark with? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 05:24 AM PDT Cos they can't handle being alone? Like how does it make u happy if u are with someone who leaves u feeling flat like a dead fish? Once a couple like this have kids, is that it? Will they stay together bored forever? |
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| Question: How Long Does A Leo Man Stay Mad? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 05:08 AM PDT I'm a Aries woman whose dating a Leo man. Our relationship is good, we re both in love, we laugh, joke. We even talked about moving in together. We are in fact in a long distance relationship. We make it work. I plan on going to him in the next couple of weeks. My Leo partner also said he be able to come to me in a few weeks as well. The thing is he told me he was curious about having a polyamorous relationship and that his option is open to the idea. As me being very protective over myself and my relationship with him I refuse to share him. I told him that. He stop talking to me after I told him no. Few minutes later.... I told him he was scaring me and having me thinking he s going to leave me. He said he won't. All day yesterday me and him haven't spoken at all. I reached out and no response just went to his so called voice mail saying "this number cannot be reached". I personally don t know if I am overreacting about this situation. Not only that he did mention to me 2 days ago that his phone battery is messed up and that he needs a new one. I am hoping he s not ignoring me because of I said NO to the polyamorous relationships idea. He is 5 years younger than me. He even promised he wasn't going to hurt me and we talked about a promise ring. Not to mention he told me he fell in love with me first. I really don't want this relationship to be over with my baby. I do love him. Should I let him have his space if he is mad, Or is it his phone or what should I do? I need help. He even told me he sees himself marrying me in 1 year or 2. Like we talk about a lot of things. Just Am I wrong for saying no? |
| Posted: 01 Oct 2016 05:02 AM PDT I'm a 15 year old boy, I'm not particularly depressed or sad it's just that I feel empty. I don't really have any friends outside of school and almost everyday I do the same thing - go to school and hang out with my friends there then I get back home and sit on my PC all day watching youtube or anime while playing RuneScape at the same time and when it gets a little bit late I do my homework and go to sleep. It's not like I lack a purpose or meaning in life, I do have a dream, a goal that I'm working on but I still feel empty. I figured that maybe it's because of my boring routine (even tho' I don't really want to change it because I don't have any other interests except for youtube and anime) or maybe it's because I don't really have any friends to talk to outside of school, so I'm usually all alone when I'm at home. Sure I could talk to my school friends through Skype or I could just hang out with them outside of school, but I'm not really that close to them, they're not my best friends. I actually would love to have a good female friend who is around my age that loves watching anime and youtube but I don't really know where can I find this type of person online. Anyways, thanks for reading this shitty "question" it feels so much better to get this off my chest. :) "but I don't really know where can I find this type of person online" I meant to say that I don't really know where can I find this type of person online IN LITHUANIA, because people that watch anime are pretty rare in my country there aren't any forums and stuff where I can find people my age that watch anime. |
| Question: What's the point of being a cuckold husband/boyfriend? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 04:24 AM PDT I don't get it. |
| Question: Would you call it a rape? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 04:15 AM PDT I have been married to my husband for two years now. We don't have kids yet. He loves me very much and I also love him a lot. Anyways, several months ago, my husband went out with his guy friends. He came home in a taxi because he was too drunk to drive. When he got home, I opened the door and hugged me and said: "I am beautiful and he loves me". After I closed the door and took him in the bedroom, he started kissing me and we ended up having sex. I tried to stop him but I couldn't because he is physically very strong. It was something I really did not expect! He is NOT abusive and has NEVER hurt me in any way. He is very loving, kind, caring, and helpful, as a husband. When he woke up the next morning, I told him what he did. He was very embarrassed! He has apologized to me for that, a million times! He has been trying to make it up to me, since then because he feels guilty. He has even stopped drinking permanently since then. I did forgive him. I DON'T want to leave him or press charges! |
| Posted: 01 Oct 2016 04:14 AM PDT My hubby and I lived together for 2 years 6 months . He lives with his parents. I'm 25. He's 27. I moved out because his parents kicked me out . Now I have to live with my Dad. My hubby and I are both saving up for a place . I want to sleep with hubby but my dad won't let us sleep together Untill we get married in a church ( we got married on a beach 2 years ago) and my in laws only let me in on holidays and every 4th weekend. My hubby and I think it's ridiculous to get married in a church but we were gonna do it just to sleep together at night but I don't like being forced against my well . |
| Question: Husband spends more time with my daughter than he does me? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 04:05 AM PDT last night we had movie night, I made popcorn and soda's - he snuggled with her on the couch and I stayed on chair alone. I knew he was probably touching her because she moaned a few times. I couldn't be 100 percent because they had a blanket over them. How do I get my daughter to understand that she will have plenty of men in her future and to leave my guy alone? |
| Question: I caught my wife and dog on the floor with a jar of peanut butter. What should I do? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 03:04 AM PDT |
| Question: How to approach women? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 02:16 AM PDT I think just introducing yourself and starting a conversation from there is just fine but would this work with a stranger on Instagram DM because I know it does in person. I need help getting my DM game back on |
| Question: Does this make me bisexual? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 01:11 AM PDT Lately I've been thinking of hooking up with men. I am not sexually attracted to men but I am very unsuccessful with women. I've gone far too many years being involuntarily celibate and its very depressing. I crave not only sex but physical intimacy with another human being. I crave a connection. I've heard that there are lots of "straight" men out there who regularly hook up with other men because they cannot find women to have casual hookups with. Men have higher sex drives & are more promiscuous & kinky by nature so it makes sense that they'd seek out other men with matching sex drives for casual fun. During ancient greek and roman times homosexuality was considered normal in society. All straight men had male lovers on the side and only used women for making babies. It wasn't until the abrahamic religions were invented by man that homosexuality turned into a taboo. So I was thinking that maybe we are all bisexual deep down but because of religious indoctrination most of us have suppressed our primal desires. I'm kind of bi-curious now and want to try out a man. I'm not actually attracted to men but I'm hoping that I can at least get off pumping them with my eyes closed while I imagine an attractive woman. There are a lot of "straight men" on craigslist posting ads in the casual encounters section desperately looking for other straight male sex partners. I'm thinking of responding to a few of the ads. If I do this, will I be officially considered bisexual? How do women feel about bisexual men? Is this a dealbreaker? By the way, I would be a TOP not versatile or a bottom. I have no desire to be penetrated. I also have no desire to give blowjobs. I only want to try anal sex with my eyes closed while envisioning a beautiful woman with a voluptuous a$$ bent over. |
| Question: Will the relationship work? Posted: 01 Oct 2016 12:15 AM PDT I started dating this man about 2 1/2 years ago && about 5 months into dating I end up pregnant with our son and the next month after that found out he was married from his wife herself! Even after that me and him still had our relationship but eventually stopped talking a little after the baby was born for about 6 months and then he called me out the blue to tell me they re finally getting a divorce and he wants things to work with me and his son. He has been in 2 marriages && both ended because of the other woman, and even before being commuted he s had a past of seeing multiple women at one time. He said he s really changed for our son (his only child) and he wants us to work out and be together for him and I ve really noticed a change in hi. But does anyone think it will work? Or had similar experience? |
| Posted: 30 Sep 2016 11:28 PM PDT He married his wife in an arranged marriage. Do you think his marriage is working out for him now that his wife is pregnant? Do you think he loves her and is happy? He always used to tell me that he didn't want an arranged marriage and that it was going to happen but he didn't know when etc when we were still in contact with each other (of course he lied because he was already married to her but did not tell me about this). He lives in England and went back to Pakistan and got married to her. His wife stayed a whole year away from him in oaks urban while he came back to the uk and continued talking to me. |
| Question: Do you think i was too much for him to handle? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 11:21 PM PDT i had a crush on my manager & genuinely thought he felt the same because we got along really well he'd randomly share stories about himself & would always remain eye contact even though some of our convos were short I felt very comfortable talking to him. And one day we were talking and he randomly touched my wrist. after awhile he kind of stopped & I had to text him to see if he could get someone to cover for me & after that day I noticed he was kind of avoiding me but wasn't sure why. Maybe cause he was leaving I don't know.. anyway, I decided to leave him a short cute note saying it was nice meeting him & that I wish I had gotten to know him more & hope he texts me sometimes and then put P. S I leave notes for people I like. then a few days later I had to call him to clear something up & he randomly told me he was moving half way across the country.. and I didn't ask why cause i got nervous about changing the subject so I decided to ask him like a day later and he never got back to me.. and then a few weeks later I decided to be straightforward & honest and asked him if we could talk more, get to know each other & he told me he wasn't interested in creating any long distance relationships because he thought they were tedious & a lot of work & I tried to get him to at least try it & he got mad told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again but I did anyways after while I felt bad & apologized.. idk maybe he hates me or i was too much 😩😩😩 |
| Question: Where do I find MILFS/Cougars and how do I approach them? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 10:18 PM PDT I'm in the Chicago area, Cougarlife is a scam I'm 17 IDGAF I'm not 18 that doesn't matter I'm a guy. Very cute tall thin stylish |
| Question: Question for people who live alone? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 10:01 PM PDT How do you do it? Sounds like a silly question, I know how but how do you enjoy it? I guess I depend on social interaction more than most people. I live with my bf and whenever he goes out of town for an extended time I feel super lonely and bored. A few days is fine but after that I've had enough. Even if I go out with friends as soon as I get home I feel bored and want someone to talk to. I don't feel sad or like I miss my bf, I just really want interaction. The house is so darn quiet and boring. I feel like I'd go crazy if I lived alone lol. So people who live alone, what's your take? Ever get bored of living alone or hate the quiet? |
| Question: Why does she playfully tease me? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 09:35 PM PDT This girl playfully starts teasing me by saying something like I made her mad the other day. I quickly sfart apologizing and telling her that I can make it up. I start listing ways of making it up to her. She ends up giggling and saying that she was just kidding. At work, she'll do the same, but I'll end up stuttering and shaking. I start to say that I'm really sorry and she ends up smiling and calling me cute. |
| Question: I want to help my boyfriend, he's depressed but I don't know what to do? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 09:30 PM PDT He's a very sweet man. He gives me love & is selfless. I've asked what is I can help him with but I don't even think he knows. Hes misunderstood. Most people see him as an idiot but they never let him speak. They only judge him. They don't know he writes me love letters, buys me chocolates and roses, cooks for me and with me. My last boyfriend only saw me as a body but he makes me feel indescribable. He says I calm him, he's honest about his depression. He never complains or whines to me he pretty much just tells me I'm amazing and how much he loves me. I'm not used to people like him. I don't think he's used to me because he's fresh out of Highschool. I know he got picked on for being mixed and didn't know where to belong. He still feels lost as a Latino man in our relationship seeing as I'm brown and he's white/yellow. He's so giving and all people do is take from him. We don't have sex he makes love to me and he doesn't talk about my body like my ex's he tells me he loves when we do it. He's so good to my family. People judge us because he's five years my junior but he protects me. I don't mean to sound emotional but he's one of one. I don't care if he's 18 & I'm 23 he makes me smile and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I don't think he knows how special he is |
| Question: Should I let a man control what I do while he is in jail? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 09:10 PM PDT my husband has been in jail for almost 6 months for a dwi. we lost our house and im staying with his mother in her small stinky apartment. she is old and on oxygen and yes i help her out do her errands and stuff. BUt we have a baby who lives at my moms who i take care of all day over there and then go to to work and dont get off till 10 pm. He wants me to sit at home every night with his mother and not go anywhere with my friends just bc he doesnt trust me. Im so bored. I dont have a smart phone so i have no internet. i get there and she questions everything i do and then reports it back to him. just becouse hes in jail does not mean i have to live in jail. i feel like i am. While everyone else is enjoying there life im sitting in a smoke infested apartment with steve harvey and i love lucy blaring and his mother telling me how wonderfull her abusive son is and how Its my fault hes in jail and its my fault he acts the way he acys bc i cheated on him. Sorry im not worried about my spelling at this point im too pissed off to fix my spelling. I told him i want to go to school for medical office assisting and i owe $1000 out of pocket....I don t make much money and i am working to get back into school,i just payed off a loan that was in default myself while he was in there. but yet he wants me to use that money to help us get into a place when he gets out. He will get a social security check for over $1000 each month and i only have 600 in my account. Am i being selfish or is he? Should i just leave him and get subsidized housing and go to school or go to marriage counseling. IM SO ******* BORED AND HIM AND HIS MOTHER ARE DRIVING ME CRZY |
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| Question: How do you stay at-home significant others keep yourselves occupied? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 06:57 PM PDT I'm newly engaged. In a new home and in a new "town." The only three people I know here is my fiancée and his parents. I work out regularly. Too cold for the pool. Already made a meal for one off of Pinterest. Not too big on TV or arts and crafts. Please don't say get a job. My fiancée won't allow it. And for the time being, I am okay with that considering I just left a 60-70 work week job. I'm sure I will feel different next week. Any suggestions for people in similar situations?? |
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| Question: Drama with my Husband's Sister In Law! Need mature advice!? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 06:37 PM PDT I've been married to my Husband for 4 years. My Husband has a younger brother who is also married, his wife. Danielle is much older than me, about 10 years. She's been starting drama ever since she got with my husband's brother. First off, I took my time meeting my Husband's parents..I personally didn't want to meet the folks unless we were getting serious, however, Danielle wasted no time filling the in-laws heads about how disrespectful I am because I wouldn't meet them. (She met them 2 days into her relationship and that's too soon for me). Anyways, Danielle is overly judgemental, about EVERYTHING. She came into my humble home and started saying how her house has 4 bathrooms and how she could never live "in a place like this". She told the in laws I'm a "leech" for being a stay at home mom to our toddler, not realizing her husband turned out to be a good man because HIS mom (our MIL) was a stay at home mom too. I eventually had to block her off facebook because my Husband's brother told us his wife literally sat there looking at my page just to find any way to b*tch about me. I seriously don't know why! My Mother in Law said Danielles jealous of me, but she has no reason to be. Her house is a mansion, she has a great career, nice family, no big problems..Meanwhile my Husband and I struggle to pay our bills, our cars keep breaking down, etc. Danielle very obviously wants to be favorite daighter in law which is fine, I just want the in laws to accept me. That's it. So my question is, how do you deal with an overly judgemental sister in law that's too old to be playing petty teenage girl games like this? She's in her early 40's for goodness sake. |
| Question: Should I continue to help my ex for the sake of the kids? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 06:30 PM PDT I have full custody of my 3 and 5 year old. I've been allowing visitation with their Dad every other weekend. Their father has been job hopping, couch surfing in peoples homes and has a new girlfriend every couple of months. While recently he has moved over an hour away, I'm fed up with his lifestyle choices and will no longer agree to meet him halfway for the kid-swap, not that I should either. Is this a right thing to do? I'm just being nice and trying to help out although he never thanks me. He expects me to help him and I am fed up. What are my options, though? I can't really with-hold the kids from him because he's not putting them in danger. But I'm afraid, at the same time, for my kid's sake that their father will respond by not seeing them at all, saying it's too far of a distance to travel. What should I do; continue to help or not? |
| Question: My bus driver game me a wedgie today? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 06:00 PM PDT im in 11th grade and im a guy. my bus driver is about 30 i would say and is a guy too. so im the first bus stop in the morning and i go to a private school so theres a few minutes between stops since not many people from my town go. i get on the bus and i say good morning to my driver and he says good morning back and then asks if i can sit in the front because he has a few questions so i said sure. he asked do i wear boxers or briefs and i said briefs. he asks what brand of underwear i wear so i said calvin kleins and he asked and said "those are expensive right?". so were at the next kids stop but hes not at the stop yet so my bus driver pulls over to wait. i answered his question by saying yeah theyre pretting expensive so like whatever. he asked what color they were and to see and i had no idea so i stood up and lifted up my shirt and before i could say white he grabbed the front waistband and yanked them up as hard as he could and then spun me around to grab the back and pulled those up to about my shoulders until he started to laugh and say welp looks like theyre white . i asked why he did it and he said nerds deserve wedgies. im a 3 sport athlete so i had no idea what he meant. what the heck should i do about this? |
| Question: My husband likes to upset me, what does that mean and why? Please help? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 05:59 PM PDT I need serious help here. I feel psychologically screwed up. Here's what's going on, my husband seems to literally enjoy upsetting me. He will say things that he knows will upset me, I'll respond visibly and verbally upset and he will laugh or smile. I mean he has literally has said I like your upset face. Some examples… He will say he didn't get paid, I'll freak, he'll say oh no I did haha. Various situations like that. He will make a statement, I show concern, he responds with the truth and laughs. I'll calmly ask him to stop doing something, slapping/pinching my *** in public, blowing air in my face, etc, he continues. I have to get get upset and only then he'll stop and laugh. I feel like I'm constantly trying to control my emotions to not show him that he upset me. When I do feel overloaded by him and breakdown I tell him I've had enough or I can't take this, I cry, and he belittles me with "calm the **** down, you're over reacting" It's like this constant flip flop of mean and nice with him. When he's nice to me I feel like heaven then he'll mess with me and it really hurts to I tell him and he belittles whatever he said or did. I mean, what is that? See, I have no one to turn to to ask this and I've only ever been with him so I don't know, is there something wrong with me? Am I to sensitive or is this normal married problems? Please, give me your honest opinion. By the way I'm 23 he's 24 we've been married for 2 years and in a relationship for 7. |
| Question: Why do married men have girlfriends? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 05:40 PM PDT I know a suppose to be happily married man who has a girlfriend. He says that he loves his wife with all of his heart but he has a girlfriend and shares a child with her. |
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| Question: Should i add my ex on facebook after rejecting his request? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 04:05 PM PDT So me and my ex were together about 2 years ago, he cheated and left me for someone else and it took a long time get over it. A few months after I got back from travelling my ex messaged me and apologised for all he had done & tried to add me on facebook. But with his return, I was worried the old feelings would return, so I rejected it. I told him I didn't want to see things from the past (meaning him and the girl he left me for in pictures) that would upset me, but I was happy to talk through messages. However, since then I realised I wanted things on good terms. I also feel guilty because he did apologise, and don't want to look like 'the bitter ex'..i would rather we are on good terms as ive tried to forgive and rejecting it has made me feel I am continuing to hold onto what he has done, when I would rather just move on peacefully. Also he was my first love, so I still care for him. So I messaged him happy birthday and we messaged back and forth until things came to a natural end. I thought about adding him on facebook, and saying something like 'after a some thought id rather to be on good terms with you. I'll leave it up to you whether you want to accept or not'. Any advice would be appreciated. Also what would you do in my situation? Thanks! |
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