Okay so would a husband get mad and divorce his wife if she can't drive a car? I know that may sound weird to ask but I'm just wondering

I ve been to maaaaany doctors no it is not from my teeth or nose.

My husband and I have been married for about a year and I feel like he doesn't respect me. He works a full-time job so I understand he is tired when he comes home but lately he seems overly mean towards me. For example, he yelled and pushed me when I tried to spend time with him when he got home from work. I feel like I deserve some time with him where we hang out and watch movies when he gets home because he works long shifts but I am really sick of his attitude. I work part-time at a job I hate but I always come home with a good attitude. Another problem is that he yells at me when I try to talk to him while he is working out at home. I like to work out also but I don't mind people talking to me during my workouts. He on the other hand spends three hours working out everyday after he comes home from work and does not accept any kind of communication while he is working out. Even if I cook a nice meal he will yell at me to leave him alone since his workout is more important. What should I do? No judgment please... He wasn't always this way. I think his job is making him more agitated but I think it is a bad excuse for him yelling at me and not spending time with me when he gets home.

Because if you don't then f uck you. Most of us are only paid less than 3 f ucking dollars and your tip is our main source of income and you people who don't tip or just tip a f ucking 75 cents (can take that f ucking 75 cents and put it up your f-ing asss). Just because your food doesn't come on time or turn out right isn't our f ucking fault. Your tip goes to us waiters not the f ucking chef who gets a way better salary than we do. So f uck you and your f ucking money. ... I just needed to rant and didn't know who or where and decided to do it here. Comment if you want. Already pissed off. (so don't piss me off further) Have a nice f ucking day because I didn't.

My wife wants to go out with a girlfriend to a club. The friend is much younger and not married. Do you think it is a good idea?

For example: if you were a happy housewife, would you make your husband feels like a king in a castle, or these days are gone, ended from the 50's and 60's...

I work from 7am to 6pm four days a week and currently taking a few college classes to be a nurse, and he works from 3pm to 7am the next day. He said we need the money. We are a young couple and should work and make money while we're young but it has me depressed and its really bothering me. We argue over it, because I think he should look for other jobs where at least he can have time to spend with me, its like he just doesn't care :(

Cause after about 6 weeks of my wife's nagging, I'm about ready to take up with that hottie at the office. I told her it was over 4 weeks ago, but I am getting desperate.

What is your secret to getting married? I realise I should be asking you guys and not people in the singles and dating section... If I want to learn.. I should learn from professionals.. not amateurs that ways date/break up and probably never end up married.. So how do you guys get married? I need to know because I am a 30 male.. never even had a gf... you can tell me the disgusting truth at internetguy0101@yahoo.com if you are not comfortable posting here, thanks.

My Husband's sex drive for the last year has been decreasing. However when I am at work in the morning before he leaves for work he will watch porn and pleasure himself. Also he has been sleeping on the couch and when he thinks i'm asleep he will pleasure himself. I have asked him to please come to bed and be with me because my sex drive is very active and that I have needs also. When I speak to him about our sex life he says that is all I think about and to leave him alone about it. It has begun to seriously effect our marriage. The other night when I went into the living room to ask him to come to bed he was again pleasuring himself and this time I flipped. I was so angry I was crying and yelling and told him it felt like he was having an affair. I went to get my keys and go for a drive and he became so angry that he grabbed my arms kept shoving me and shaking me telling me that I was crazy, insane and needed therapy for being so mad. He wouldn't let me leave and just kept telling me he did love me and found me attractive and that I was being stupid. This morning I have a bruised ego and arms, we have been married for 20 years and I don't know what to do. All I know is that I have been unhappy for about 6months and he refuses to see a counselor.

Ok I have been married to my husband for a little over 3 years. He kinda rushed to get married an I loved him then an rushed into. We dated for only 6 months. Got married then a year an a half later had our daughter. To the present.. I don't love him anymore an wants to leave him, but everytime I want to leave him, he aways threatens to kill himself. He actually finds a knife or grabs something an tries to kill himself. He says he rather be dead if I leave him. I'm not happy anymore an want out. I'm miserable so how can I leave without him killing himself.

Now she won't leave me alone...! I've known her for 4 years now & we've had sex a few times a couple of years ago ... But now we just recently had sex again.... How do I get her to stop coming to class? Her presence makes me uncomfortable... She stares at me during lecture and has even flirted since our encounter. Should I tell her boyfriend? She's in her mid 20's & I am in my early 50s.

My husband has been under a lot of stress at work lately, which is causing a more stressful home, and it's making us fight more. We're in our 20's and have no children by the way. Anyway, last night, I was feeling kind of upset, and so he asked what was wrong, and I told him I didn't feel very loved here lately. He assured me that he loves me more than ever and that it's just stress at work and that he shouldn't let it get in the way of how he treats me. He's usually so affectionate, hates for us to be separate, tells me how beautiful I am, how much he loves me, how lucky he is, etc, but lately just hasn't been much. I understand that he's stressed. (He is in no way abusive by the way) Somehow we got into a pretty big fight, which I think I started, and I told him that if it continues, I wanted a divorce. It's been going on for a couple of months and I just felt neglected from what was the usual. At first he wasn't showing much emotion, said he felt numb and didn't know what to say, and then after a few minutes of the fight continuing, (there wasn't any yelling or anything) he started sobbing and I couldn't calm him down. I seriously couldn't get him to stop crying. He started saying how he couldn't lose his everything and that I was his everything, how he couldn't lose his life (he calls me his life), and how he didn't have anything if I left. He was saying "Please, don't leave, please. I don't want a divorce" (The whole time I was trying to get him to calm down so we could talk) and I guess I wasn't saying what he wanted to hear, because he started saying, "I want to die. I can't lose you." He then proceeds to get up, go to the kitchen and attempts to grab a steak knife from the silverware drawer. I think it was actually in his hand when I grabbed his wrist and pulled him away. He then hugged me while continuing to sob. He and I had a talk, he said how sorry he was for ignoring me, how he shouldn't have let stress get in the way, etc, and then I asked him if he was serious if he was going to kill himself, and he says that if I ever divorce him, he'll do it because he "won't see a point in living anymore". Is this normal? Does this sound unstable? My friend's husband who was well liked doctor killed himself when she filed for divorce. He also was adopted and has some feelings of insecurity because of it. It makes him feel like he wasn't good enough for his parents to keep him, although I've explained it to him a million times. He feels like I'll leave him because he isn't good enough. How could I support him more?

Weve been married 1 year. We had an argument about him agreeing to plans with me and then changing his mind last minute. I yelled a little too much. So he smashed ornaments, candles, threw his phone and over things. I decided to just leave and go to my moms for a couple hours but he stood in front of the door and wouldn't let me out. I told him to move and he wouldn't. I tried to go out the back door but he grabbed my arm and pushed me. I was scared and I've always been a coward so I went upstairs and stayed there until he went out a couple hours later. When he left I went to my moms. I've been here 2 days. She doesn't know what's happened. He hasn't been in touch. I don't want to go back. I tried to leave and he wouldn't let me and thats really scared me. I literally couldn't get out of the house because he was there, following me, blocking the way. I mean am I overreacting about this? He didn't hit me or threaten to hit me but I was very scared. Like my heart was racing and I felt sick. I feel stupid. I don't know if I should feel stupid or not

Little uncomfortable what should I do. Or am I full of myself I post the screen shot

I'm just fed up with people bein on my buttons. I work at the post office and I'm currently bringing home more money than my husband. For some reason every since I started working there I hAve been so exhausted. I don't feel like cooking or cleaning half the time. My mother's been livin with me so she has bee helping out some. I just want to run away. I hAve a 2 year old too. It's just been difficult for me .My husband just keeps beating me down about it. Saying I don't cook or clean. All I do is work my a** off. Insight please! I cook and clean when I'm feeling up to par. If I don't cook my mother does or we eat out .

What information by the registrants would go on a marriage license in both Texas and California. Genealogy related question. What would be on the licenses beside the two names. If things have changed in recent decades the period looked for would be the early 1950's for one and the middle 1940's for the other. We have found a relative qualified according to the rules to apply for a copy and we would like to know if the effort is worth the time all depending on what details might be on the licenses to help give clues on finding any blood related descendants or even unknown ancestors.

my mother forcefully took me to a psychiatrist lyk 10to12 years back cuz she thought i had anger issues..at that tym we jst moved to another country..lost all my friends..had to deal with strange ppl..so yeah i was vry mad at my mother. took meds for few days but did not help...but i hv gotten better within 2years. nw i hv been married for 3 years almost..my husband lost his job right after..we hv been hving serious money problem for more than 2years and now i get angry!vry angry at mu husband..we hv two kids!!i love my hubby A LOT..bt its vry hard to stay calm nw days on top of it all my mother told my husband to take me to a psychiatrist several tyms......pls trust me whn i say this i hv never kept any and i mean any secret from my husband i hv told him and always tell him everthg my love life in details but this i hid from him. once i wanted to tell but seeing his reaction i decided nt to...nw CAN NOT FACE HIM!! IM A TERRIBLE LAIR ......btw,im famously honest. he told me so many tyms that is the reason he love nd respects me so much....IM DEAD...wht should i do

Compared to Europeans, it seems Americans , even the educated crowd, get married so early (before age 30 and sometime in mid 20's). Why this? Especially considering how high the divorce rate is, you would think they would wait and think about it well before doing it. It's also kind of ridiculous the whole idea of engagement. Like it's only up to a man whether a couple should be married. A woman will wait until the man "proposes". In Italy the divorce rate is so much lower, people get married in their 30's and it's not a surprise type of thing like "Do you want to marry me"? LOL

Answer it pls. N0w na! Because this is my debate! RiGHT

The school will let me know if they are absent. Asked ex why they were absent and was told it was told I was wrong for asking. did not affect pick up schedule.

She only likes 2 positions.. her on top or me on top. She doesn't like anything kinky, she doesn't like to do it anywhere adventurous, it's just BBOORRIINNGGG!!! There's only two times we've ever done anything cool. One time she sucked me off while we were driving down the road and one time we did it in the choir robe room of a methodist church at a wedding.. it was really nasty. She was on her period and we wiped everything off with the white choir vestments. I left a nice big, highly visible splooge of *** running down the back of her dress and didn't notice it till she had already been walking around the reception for a while. It was hilarious. But other than that, she doesn't want to try any thing new... Why the hell not!?!?

It's kind of an odd situation but I'll try to make it short. Basically, I dated my, now, husband for 4 years. We broke up one summer and I had a fling with an emotionally abusive guy who is my sons biological father. His biological father is not on the birth certificate because he was not present nor did I feel he should be listed for obvious personal reasons. He hasn't seen my son or spoken to me in 2 1/2 years and when he did he spent the time, not bonding with his son, but making childish threats toward me. My husband and I started dating again whilst I was pregnant with my son and has been there ever since. He IS his daddy. Anyway, now we are married and my son has my maiden name. Is it possible to change my sons last name to my married name without having to hunt down or contact my sons biological father? What rights Missy? He's not on the birth certificate. He has NO rights Yes, sienna I'm the biggest slut ever. Only been with these two men my entire life but yes I am whoring it up. Grow up child. 🙄 Not if I have proof of his abuse. This guy has a 5 year old with another woman I didn't know about until after I found out I was pregnant (because he didn't see that child either) and I have proof of him threatening to kidnap that child from his mother also. This guy isn't stable enough to be in a child's life. From the looks of it, my son will always have my maiden name because I refuse to do anything that could potentially bring this pathetic person back into our lives.

If you found yourself cheating, and wanted to justify it to yourself, or maybe even someone else, what reason do you think would be acceptable, or forgiveable. I haven't cheated, and am not thinking about actually doing it, but lately I have thought about all the men who have cheated on me, and if I had done that to them, what would be a legitimate reason? Perhaps I would cheat out of spite, to get revenge. Perhaps I would cheat because my love life would have been unfulfilling. Whatever the motive, whats a good reason?

This is kind of a 2 part question, so bare with me please... My ex wife and I were together for 22 yrs. Married for 15. We were high school sweet hearts, we both lost our virginity to each other. We went to college together, graduated and waited another year to get married. We did not rush into anything. We waited another 6 yrs to start a family. I am college educated, I provided well for my family. Never cheated, not a heavy drinker or gambler. I am an exceptional father, coach all the sports, know all of kids teachers names, VERY involved. Family always came first for me. BUT, on the other hand, I know at times I was not the best husband. The "I love you's" became less and less, B-days were not what I should have made them for her, anniversaries were not as they should have been. I know that! But the love for her was always there. I always made sure her car was safe, would drop everything I was doing if she called and was in some sort of trouble. After yrs of being a stay at home mom she went back to school. For 3 yrs I REALLY stepped up my efforts around the house. Cooked, cleaned, laundry, shopping, kids, everything to take some burden off of her while she was in school. She graduated, got a job in June and by September she had fallen in love with a MARRIED co-worker. She divorced me in January. My first question is, How can she so easily walk away from 22 yrs of good history? She loved my family. She loved our family. The camping, four wheeling, our weekend trips to small historical towns. How can she so easily walk away from that? I know I have to move on, and actually I have done quite well believe it or not, but sometimes it hits me like a ton of bricks. 2nd question - I have hooked up with an ex girlfriend from High school. We have been hooking up for the past 5 weeks or so and the sex is incredible. I have no intentions of a serious relationship with her and she feels the same. We have discussed this alot and she is okay with it. Do you think this is hurting or helping me get over my ex wife? Please no comments about me being a great husband. I was a good husband, but could have been much better. So I do take my responsibility in the demise of our marriage, but I still do not think it was that bad to deserve this!

My husband and I are pastors for a traveling ministry team. Recently, one of the girls on the team (16 years old) has fallen for my husband. This has happened before with other girls, but I have never been concerned. I trust my husband COMPLETELY and always felt like the other girls respected me even in their crushes. She has no desire to build relationship with me and is seeking male affirmation (lots of daddy-baggage involved). She will call and text my husband daily (although he has stopped responding as frequently.) She constantly makes comments about her and my husband s relationship. She only does it when her and I are alone. I feel she is trying to bring division. For example, once she said: "If your married to **husband**, why does everyone always call and text me when they need him instead of you. It s like they know him and I are always together" OR when her MOTHER said: "I m sure you don t know this, but while you and **husband** were traveling, **husband** was texting her really late one night about how he wishes she was there because things just aren t as fun without her." AND "No one is as close to **husband** as my daughter. They are so much alike that no one will ever understand him like she does." ...Comments like these are CONSTANT. I TRULY care for them both & I don t want to ruin the relationships, but I also feel they are a threat to my family. My husband is open to doing whatever is necessary to make things right, but I don t know what that is. For the record: The accusations of the mother and daughter are completely unfounded. I have seen the conversations and it truly appears as though they are intentionally trying to cause division. The mother is encouraging the girl's behavior, not rebuking it or my husband. It is a strange situation and I feel they are being manipulative. Other leaders have come to me about them because they feel they have been manipulative in other situations. Also For the record: He was not texting her late at night as the mother said. I even asked the girl and she said her mother was exaggerating. She texted him at 8pm and he responded once by saying "see ya soon sis." A few days ago (last week) she said to him something like, "Why don't you text me as much. You don't care about me anymore?" He responded by saying, "I am married and thats inappropriate..." He is not cheating with a 16yr old lol. I should have DEFINITELY provided clearer info

We have had this problem in our marriage since we got married 23 years ago.. I am very much a "night" person. While my wife, of 23 years, is very much a ""morning" person. I like to stay up late, and will usually end my day and go to bed anywhere between 1:00am to 3:00am. and will wake around 9:00 to 10:00am Conversely, my wife likes to go to bed from 8:30pm to 9:30pm. She will wake around 5:00am. She leaves for work around 8:00am while my hours vary, but I mostly work evenings, and don't get home until after 2am sometimes. I then need a few hours to wind-down after work. My wife has had the option of switching to a later, or different shift, but refuses to, stating she doesn't like working later hours. My business usually requires me to be gone during the afternoon and evenings. (I run a security staff for public events, i.e. sports, concerts, conventions, etc.) At times this has caused some problems. My wife will complain that I do not like to sleep with her. Which I assure her isn't true. On our days off together, she wants and expects me to climb into bed with her at 9pm. I have tried this in the past, and will end up staring at the ceiling for 3 hours. Then when I end up sleeping in until 9am, she gets upset and claims I don't want to spend the day with her. On the other hand, I have talked her into staying up late with me to watch a DVD movie. But then she will fall asleep on the sofa around 10pm. and halfway into the movie. If we go out for the evening, we have to eat dinner around 5pm so we can make the 7:00 movie, so she can be home by 9:30pm. Every New Year's Eve's I spend celebrating home, alone, or with our children, since my wife cannot make it to 11:00pm, She will excuse herself up to the bedroom since she is tired and can't keep her eyes open. It has been like this for as long as we've been married. Over the last 23 years this has racked up thousands of hours apart. I just wish she could have been more of a night person like me. I think we could have been closer and shared more things together. Has anyone out there experienced the same thing in their spouse of partner? And what are your thoughts about it?

I mean I don't expect her to be a virgin or anything given the age I'm looking for, but is it normal for men to want to marry a woman who hasn't been around the block?

Me and my ex have a 7 year old son together and we divorced 3 years ago. She was the one wanting the divorce and I tried and tried to keep our family togerher and she just used me then spit me out. Said she was done. I got married almost a year ago and we are expecting. I love my wife dearly. Well my ex wife was in a relationship too. This month she's been texting so much about our son non emergency matters that it interrupts my day at times. But the other day she asked me how I was doing. And then called me tl yell me one of her family members was really sick. I try to be nice but its like she is contacting me just too much. Should I tell her stop or let it go?

and I want to make love at night Any suggestions on how to handle this? I'm not a morning person and by the time I've gotten up and had coffee, it's time for him to go to work He doesn't get home till 7 and then he's tired, what to do?

My husband and I have been married for 3 and a half years. This would be our 5th New Year's as a couple but we've NEVER spent one together. He's always been with his friends or away (he was in the military.) This year, I thought we'd do something different and spend it together but he says "this is my holiday for my friends because every other holiday I spend with you." I tried compromising by saying maybe we can go out together with your friends but he doesn't want to. He tells me to find some friends and go out with them. I don't want to be selfish but I feel that he's being selfish towards me since we've never spent a NYE together and it's important to me. What do you think?

would you get jealous if your spouse shared children with someone else and saw them on a regular basis because of this and was also friendly with their ex and bragged about their job and rooted for their favorite sports team, not yours.

my husband has children with his ex wife. I don't have an issue with this at all however he never tells me when he sees his ex wife or talks about it with me. He never mentions it and when I ask him abut it he gets very defensive and angry and lashes out at me and says "she's the mother of my kids, I'm going to see her deal with it, the only person who has a problem with it is you!" fyi- i don't have a problem with it, i have a problem with him hiding it form me and a problem with him talking about things with her that have nothing to do with their child. how can he make me feel more secure about this?

Did you stay? Did they choke you again or murder you? I am talking here about the correlation between being choked by a boyfriend/husband and being murdered by them. If someone chokes you once a long time ago, should you worry about being murdered? Was anyone ever choked just once and then years passed with the same person? Does it have to mean she will be murdered? It's not a fake question. They say that if you are choked by a significant other than chances are high that they will murder you. What I'm asking is does anyone have experience that shows otherwise? A husband that just choked you one time maybe, and then never hurt you again? My husband choked me over a year ago and sometimes it still bothers me. I just want to know if I am doomed to be murdered. We've been together 4 years. It happened once a year ago when he was drunk. He doesn't drink much anymore and never excessively. Can you please stop putting my question in different categories? I am really upset and would like to get answers. Why do you get off on giving someone a hard time?

I m pretty sure I have had this situation before and I brought it up to my doctor multiple times but its like he is ignoring the question so I gave up but it is just so annoying! Lately I ve been getting a decent amount of leaking as in wetting my underwear. I would be standing there doing nothing and I will suddenly wet myself as if I started my period. Its clear but also when it drys up its white. I ve been researching on if this is normal for other girls and it seems like yes maybe? But I m wondering if there is anyway to make it stop?! Its ridiculous on how every time I will stand up from sitting or just standing and I will suddenly leak a good amount. I thought maybe it was urine but its not. Least I don t think so. It does actually have an odor (as embarrassing to say) but I don t know...any advice?

It looks ridiculous. He won't take it down. I am always making concessions for everyone in our household, but I feel like when it comes to something so tacky on the outside, it really is unfair that he didn't even ask me. The sign is about 4 feet long is screwed into the wood above the garage on the outside so anyone who comes down our street can see it. I feel like we are a frat house. We have an appraisal coming up and I think that it would look stupid to have the sign. He gets mad when I ask him to at least take it down for that.

My husband and I have been married almost 4 years. We have 3 girls, 2 from my previous marriage and a one year old together. He's a good person and husband, a faithful person. Because of our 3 daughters we don't get away at all together, but that's ok we enjoy doing things with the girls. Now a friend from work has asked him to go to Miami for a weekend bachelor party and he admits he can't promise that there won't be any visits to a strip club. He has told his friend he can't go, he didn't even consider asking me but he did mention it because his friend has asked again. Should I consider letting my husband go? We never get to go anywhere together so I'm a bit reluctant to let him go on a weekend getaway that includes strip clubs? Some advice please, thanks.

He does not hear my 8 month old child that needs treaments .When I moved out last week I am upset because he says the baby never gets up and sleeps all night. I was the one who got up every night. I am the one who works in the household and I had to leave my home because it was not a good amosthre for my children. I am trying to fight for nights . When I get him he gets up three times a night and I give him treatments. My attorney said that he will say he does get up,. So basically I am very scared and trying to figure out how to get my kids to sleep with me everynight? Any comments please help It takes me over five mintues to wake him up screams shaking him he just is out cold. Can I ask that he has to get medical test to see if he is cleared medically to wake up. He sleeps on the couch when the kids are playing and I used to have to yell at him to wake up, It is a real promblem, I am trying to fight for my kids but I work all day and he stays home with the kids. When I moved out last week I am upset because he says the baby never gets up and sleeps all night. I was the one who got up every night. When I get him he gets up three times a night and I give him treatments.

Hello i'm thinking of moving up to Pennsylvania for a new start ,there's work there i'm in Florida making 8.21 per hour and some work there i can get 10.00 hr more per hour rent is still cheap..thing is i'm married but my wife is not well i dont love her enough to stay married i would try to help her out i need to move here now by myself then maybe later send for her , medicaid here in Florida is crap and i cant make more then she makes with her SSI but if we move we can get divorced and live together and make 3 times the amount, i'm starting a small business as well, i'm miserable in Florida and her family wants to block me from moving , my daughter says i need to stay here until my wife is better ...she will never be better ,daughter says i have to take care of her until she gets a job ..she is 24 ????? Update: You have no idea ...she has cheated on me she does nothing at all !!! i am mentally strained, i cant take it no more

My husband is the best man and is clueless to what to do for his best friend. Needs to be clean (no strippers, no drinking)!

My husband and I have been married now for a year and before our marriage I caught him watching porn 6-8 times a week. We talked and he said he wouldn't do it anymore because it made me feel uncomfortable. I call it cheating. He even suggest himself that we set up a block on our internet so he can't watch porn while on our wifi, so it will send him a reminder not to watch it if he tries. All was good, so I thought. Turns out he's been watching it 1-3 times a week (would watch it more but has full time job now) and continuously lying about it. It became so much anxiety for me that I would ask him to "wait for me" and he'd reply saying he would and then literally watch porn right after. The issue isn't me not doing enough in bed, he knows I'll do whatever he wants to try and anytime he wants. I'm even okay with sex to have sex, the non intimate kind. Better then him getting himself off to other women. He gets home at 4 and I get home at 6, he can't even wait the two hours. I feel hurt and betrayed, I honestly want to leave. I feel he will never quit watching porn, and I need a guy who respects how much I dislike it. Like I said, I've told him I'd always try new things whenever and have sex with him anytime, even if he wants it to be quick and non intimate, just to get him to stop porn.

i found out that my husband is working on an affair with his co-employee thru texting. i found it out thru a wrong sent message. right now, he voluntered not to use a celphone anymore but that doesn't stop him from seeing the girl, right? what i'm afraid now is the idea of them seeing each other frequently rather than thru texting alone. pls., help

I am convinced that my husband is out to frustrate me. My job requires me to travel internationally often. I am usually away for a week but I have a two week travel coming up-I want to take my 7month old and her nanny with me and my job makes it possible (financially and otherwise) to do it. My husband usually doesn't help with the baby--can't remember the last time he gave her her bottle or fed her---the baby sometimes cries when he picks her up, he never asks the nanny how the baby spent her day, ignores the baby etc---(he's been married twice before with 3 kids )he is refusing me to take her- he doesn't have any vacation days because the last trip, I went with him minus the baby- he is just being difficult- I am still breast feeding my daughter and I don't want the milk to disappear and I dont want to dump the milk--I am increasingly feeling like I need to just leave him. Advise?

My husband and I have been together for 10 years, married almost 8 of those. Together we have 1 child and I have 2 of my own. My oldest was 2 when we got together and my middle one was 3 months. My husband has always told me that he loves me, (every text phone call and each time he leave) and now he has stopped, and actually slept on the couch yesterday for the first time. He has recently told me he doesn't know if he loves me and is unsure about what he wants. He won't say he doesn't love me, and if I ask he just says I don't know. He says that he wants to leave to see if "this is what he really wants", he said that if it isn't he will be back. I am so shocked by all of this because just a few weeks ago the day before valentines day he bought me a beautiful card and on the front is says "For my wife, the love of my life" I am trying to be patient with him and not pushy because I don't want him to leave, but I don't want him to be unhappy either. I asked him what I did wrong and he said I didn't do anything that he was confused and unhappy with himself. We seperated for 8 weeks nearly 7 years ago and he asked to come home because he loves me. I truly believe he is going through a mid life crisis or something he is having a hard time dealing with, but I don't want him to leave our family. I have and will always be there for him as he is my world! I think he knows that no matter what I will be here waiting and this is causing him to prolong this. I will say he hasn't left as of yet, and if he truly wanted out and didn't want to be here he has many places to go. One part feels that the fact he is still there means something...right? Before I continue I want to say that I am nearly positive there is no other woman so please leave that out. My husband is a great guy and isn't a cheater, rather confused. I am trying to be supportive and allow him to make up his mind on his own rather than pushing and making him angry. In the meantime, I hurt so bad Im having a hard time eating and sleeping. I try to put on a face and act like everything is ok around him because I don't want to upset him further or make him stay because he pitty's me. Could it be that he is really confused? Could he just be feeling stuck or overwhelmed? He is unhappy with his job, but says he can't quit because we have bills, hes balding, hes going to be 35, we have a teenager....I have all of this running through my head. All I know at this point is that I am praying that this all has a positive outcome and that he realizes how much we all love him and he feels the same. I have never questioned that he loves me, but I am questioning everything right now......someone please give me advise and help me out...I don't want to lose him! Sincerely, Broken hearted

If so, are you currently happy with your partner? If you were not initially sure, are you happy with your choice today? Should you get married if you're uncertain about your partner being the right one?

My husband admitted he cheated on me 2 days after it happened...at a party, with a stripper. No sex just oral. Anyways I was in shock at first...could I still just be in shock 2 weeks later? I don t feel angry or mad...could it be cause I feel like I deserved it for what I ve done in my past?

because, after the risk I'm taking for her, it would be WRONG. Anyways, she disappears for hours and sends texts to other guys- then denies it. Can ANY women be trusted?

I'm 40 years old and never been married nor had any children. I never been married, well maybe because of my job or my place of residence. Trust me it's a constant chaos!!! Now I kinda like a 27 year old woman and she's into me (she calls me everyday). Am I too old for her? The age difference means different priorities and life style.... "give her sexual satisfaction" is it really important at 62? I mean I know most people get bored having sex at 50s anyway....

My husband is usually a very sweet, calm and kind person with a big heart and a lot of compassion, and I love him so much. I know he tweets on Twitter a lot, and I happened to read it the other day. He loves watching sports so he was writing about baseball games and soccer and whatnot, which is fine, BUT I was extremely shocked to find out that he's so passionate and opinionated, possibly aggressive and curses a lot on Twitter because he almost never swears in front of me. We're both Christians and I personally don't like hearing that kind of language at our house. I never thought he could have that side because like I said, he's always very sweet and calm and he's the type of guy that would do anything for me to make me happy. Honestly, that was kind of a turn-off... Now, I found out a few months ago too that he was that way on Twitter so I did tell him about it, and he apologized to me saying it wasn't really the real him and he just tends to be more passionate on the internet, and I told him about the swearing too and he said I was absolutely right, it's not good and it wasn't the real him either so he wanted to stop talking that way and be closer to God. Now he's doing it again... and I'm starting to wonder if that's really one part of him... What do you think I should do about it? Or should I get over it and just let it go? I just don't want him to think I was nosy enough to look at his Twitter and stuff like that because he did mention that to me before. Thank you!