I'm a 14-year old girl and I'm in 8th grade. Today I went inside the gym locker room restroom to wash my hands, there was this girl already at the wash basin, so I just stood behind her, then she looks behind at me and moves away a bit so I can wash my hands, and all of a sudden she lashes out, "there is such a word called 'EXCUSE ME,' its two words." Then she just walks out of the restroom. What is her problem? I didn't even say anything to her. This is only one example out of the many rude middle school girls I encounter. Sorry my profile name says "Matthew," I'm using my brother's account.

I have this whole group of about six friends. Two of them, (I'll call them Samantha and Allison) are very rude. They are like two peas in a pod. During lunch, I can be laughing and they'll tell me I'm too loud. Or I can ask them about who they are talking about and they constantly say "nobody." I ask Samantha if we had homework for a certain class and she responds with "Stop asking me. You should know for yourself." They have no common courtesy. They are very judgmental and sensitive to everything I say. They say I'm needy, loud, immature, etc. For example, today, I said a joke to my friend, who would normally laugh but they butted in and said "{my name}, you're so rude! Don't say that!" And then my friend who I said the joke to took their side. I do not like them at all. They are the needy ones. Every time I take a test before them, they ask for ALL the questions, and I tell them most of them, but when I ask them a simple yes or no question, they DONT answer me. THEY are the impolite and immature ones. They think they are above me because they act more maturely but I think I'm a lot nicer! I don't deserve to be pushed around by them. I need help. I don't know what to do in order to gradually stop being their friends. I sit with them everyday at lunch because they sit with my friends. I really want to get away from them to some extent. However, I don't want to be rude or report them because sometimes they can be nice. What should I do??? They are turning my friends against me

Im a fitness competitor so i often wear spandex to the gym, which is no big deal everyone's focused on their training, but today i went through the drive through after the gym when i handed the lady the money i noticed her just staring at my crotch. I felt so embarrassed, i was worried she could make out my size. i took a picture of me sitting in my car but it wouldn't upload. I don't have a big bulge or anything im about an inch and a half long when im soft. do you think she could tell what i have?

Can you guys give me 10 ways to spot a fake friend? I believe that I have a couple, but I am not sure. I don't like to accuse people of things. I like to first have concrete evidence.

Me and my Capricorn friend aren t getting along that much anymore. I m a Virgo btw so I thought that was the best pair. Anyways it seems like she no longer wants to talk to me and when I try to talk to her she gets irritated. And she will like my Facebook posts but in real life she ignores me kind of and talks to my other friend who s a cancer. Here s our charts Mine. Hers Sun: Virgo Sun Capricorn Moon: Scorpio. Moon Capricorn Asc: Pisces. Asc libra Mercury Leo Mercury Capricorn Mars Leo. Mars libra Lilith libra. Lilith Scorpio Asc node Virgo Asc node Leo

so I had this friend for many years, let's call her Caitlin. she had helped me through many many hard times and i had helped her too (we both got to befriend each other as we both experienced depression and anxiety disorders). fast forward a few months of no contact, and she sends a bunch of hate mail to a close friend (natalie), telling her to kill herself, calling her fat, worthless, etc. this pissed me off so i texted her a lengthy mean message calling her out on it. decided to not be friends with her again though i was considering trying to reconnect at the time. this was all about a year ago, and in the past 4 or 5 months ive been having reoccurring dreams about her, instances where we become friends again, start talking, some are very personal and dark and others are more casual. theres just this feeling i have that maybe i should try to contact her again and apologize but i dont know if i should considering what she said to my other friend.

i embarrassed my friend and i feel very bad. she is okay about it and i apologized but i still feel bad.

I am 15 year old girl . I talk to ppl my age a lot but don t realy have any super close friends. Sure i can make ppl laugh and joke around with them . But sometimes i just get bored\tired being around ppl . I d rather be on instagram or watch tv or whatever . And i usually keep my feelings 2 myself and don t really open up . Maybe i do need to go out \bond with ppl more.....am i antisocial or something or too self centred ?

What gifts would you give your girl best friend?

My life is going downroad since five years. Everything begun when my friends left for no reason, apparently I wasn't cool enough. It broke my heart. Two months after I went to new high school, met those three girls and I've been hanging out with them for solid two weeks. But something just didn't seem right, they'd always walk away from me or try to escape when I wanted to come with them, they even made up some stories like I am crazy and etc. So I stopped hanging out with them, in the class groups were already formed and guess what there was no place for me. The rest is history waking up each day wanting to blew up, going to that school and sitting there alone at the top of the class with none to talk to and trying to hold back my tears. P.E. was disaster, I remember each time teacher would tell to two girls to pick us in teams, I was always the one who they choosed last or didn't even choose. Making school projects with partners was really humilating when you had no partner. In the mean time, there was these two guys from the other school and I hang out with them till they got what they needed and left. I felt like a rubbish, like people just throw me away when they don't need me anymore. Now I'm at collage, I've made friends and they suddenly all gave up on collage and want to leave. My best friend talked behind my back and left me. I have none to talk to neither to just love. It just hurts

Me & my bff are closer then anyone could imagine. We tell each other anything and everything, sometimes a little too much.. But a couple days ago she did something & it s kinda a big deal. Well we have a mutual friend and she told me the big deal rather than my bff who is suppose to tell me everything.. & I hinted it around that I knew of it and she was kind of denying it and I asked her why won t u tell me I already know & she told me she originally was gunna tell me but didn t know how to. & that she told our mutual friend she didn t wanna tell me bc she thought I would get mad, but I told her I had no reason to be mad and I wasn t mad just bothered by her not telling me. So what I m getting at is she told someone she barely trusts with a big deal rather then telling me,someone she could trust with her life, I m not sure what to say, whether to be mad I found out by someone else or whatever. Any advice would be appreciated.

So I do have friends but none are in my class. I had a friend but then she just stared ignoring me and hanging out with other ppl. I sit by myself in the morning like a loser and at recess I sit there like a dumba**!! My other friends are in the other class. I have 6 friends but there in the other class. I get so nervous talking to new ppl. All my friends I've know since I was 3 or 9 or 6. I was thinking of doing school online I'm so sick of beeing friendless its making me depressed

So I know that I have been treating them the same way but the main reason I'm here is because I'm scared with them always putting me outside whenever I'm bad. Here in Canada in the winter it gets cold and I am sometimes left outside for hours. Please tell me what I should do to change things and stop this from happening ever again.

Recently I met this girl by working with her in a school project (group of 4). During this time, the two of us had some moments and a few days ago we started texting and it sounded like she was interested in me because she asked me about my dream date and randomly makes an excuse so I can come over . However, she calls me bud, has a stripper nickname and to top it all off, one of my friends who has had a class with her says she's a slut. I don't now whether to continue chasing her or to sit back. The fact that she's been calling me bud since we met kills my hope.

Keep in note I'm a guy and he's a guy lol, he's my best friend. We've known eachother for almost 4 years and we've hung out countless times. He has a really good heart overall. He's someone you can go to talk too and he'll manage to make you feel better. He's really loyal and trustworthy(i think). One problem about him, every once in a while, he calls me a ***** or pussy. If someone says **** to me and I laugh about it or just walk away because I don't give a ****, he calls me a pussy and says that I'm a ***** and all sort. He wanted to bring me to this fight and I had nothing to do with the fight so I didn't wanna go and he called me a pussy for not wanting to go. He's always saying that I'm a ***** and that I need to change and get more aggressive. He fails school, gets less than 1.0s, has problems with his parents, he's supposed to be going to court in a few days because of his excessive absenses, and from there they will decide rather he has to go to juve or not. For some reason, when I talk to him, I feel weak and put down. Is this a friend I should really remain friends with? Not to mention, he's been held back in elementary and asked if I would try weed next year but he said if I don't want to do it there's nothing wrong with it. Of course, I rejected the offer. Also another thing, theres times where he puts us both down for instance. "We're both great f u c k ups but we are still managing" I feel like a failure talking to him.

I dated this guy when I was 14 he was 17. I'm 18 now. I lost my virginity to him the second time we met and I was his first too. I was the first girl he ate out. I dated him for 6 weeks but everyone still thinks I'm a virgin. He dated another girl after me, they dated 10 months a year ago she's 20 and he's 22 now. So I recently posted a question asking if I should spread rumors about her being a slut and I did. I heard she may have let him eat her out and I told everyone at her church and school because she's supposed to be religious I told them a lot of people what she let him do and now a lot of people are teasing her and calling her a whore. My friend even looked at her and said you little slut. I wrote on her wall " you little slut, you just love to spread your legs and let him lick you, haha goodbye whore :)." She ran away crying when people started teasing her. What a baby. She doesn't know me so she can't say anything about me. what do you think? was I really mean? And save it, I'm not jealous because in a lot prettier than her, it just makes me feel good to ruin her reputation. I have dated a guy after him and had sex so it's not that I haven't moved on, I just don't like her because she's a *****. I hate sluts like that that let guys eat them out. Talk about slut! She's just jealous because I'm innocent and pure.

hola primero que nada exigo que no me den clases de moral y solo me ayuden a responder lo siguiente -Tengo 15 años y me ha salido la curiosidad de ingerir alguna droga. -Quisiera saber su opinión y recomendaciones para empezar ya que solo y bebo pero nunca he probado una droga. -quisiera saber sus efectos si son fuertes como en LSD que es lo que mas quiero probar -saber precios y "calidad", doy estrellas ayuda porfa.

I'm 16 and im in sophomore year homeschooled i'm really lonely. I used to have friends until i started homeschooling, i make the effort to try and hangout with them but no one wants to hangout with me anymore, my mom is always making me feel bad about it and she calls me a loser, worthless, etc. I've been very very depressed lately and im slowly falling behind in school. I only have my long distance boyfriend who's 15hours ahead of me where he leaves so we dont talk all day. I live in an island in hawaii so there nothing to do here besides go to the beach, theres very little good clubs or groups i could join. I was fine with having no friends but it's been a year and its starting to get to me especially because my mom tries to make me feel horrible about it... i never really liked hanging out with friends but my mom tells me that i need to be like a normal kid and that all my old friends are doing things with their lives while im being worthless. do you think theres something wrong with liking being alone? i could really use a friend in real life but i dont know how to make any now that im homeschooled

Today, I was physically abused by a classmate. My mom told the deans and everything. But, I really don t like the school I got to. I ve been in drama. Too much drama. My friends are mean. And I just, hate it. And then this happens. My mom thinks it s such a great school and all, but it s not. I mean it s okay and all but the environment is so toxic. There s so many students that are rude to the teachers and the teachers are rude. I really want to move school where my old friends are at but my mom doesn t even consider it. How can I convince her?

This girl and I are , in our late 20s , from the same country and she used to attend my school .I'm a virgin guy who never dated nor had sex in his life . We used to talk a lot whenever we both are at school. Couple of months ago, she was asked to leave her apt and helped her with moving and she used to call me whenever she she had a hard time, and i always sense when she's about to cry and stuff. She seemed to have a crush on her teacher and he happened to break up with his 3 years GF. she tried one time to use me to ask him out . i ignored her for like a month and one day she called me and was her last day at school and while we were talking,my friend came_ he's handsome and a player who tries to sleep with every girl and he's so competitive_ and forced himself into our conversation. He said that he wanna walk around and i noticed that she became so nervous and said she wanna join. It seemed that she wanted to use me again to get closer to him. i hanged out with them but kept walking with my 3rd friend and kinda ignored her and she kinda was flirty with him the whole time then she might feel awkward and come talk to me. when we were about to split , he followed her to train station and she kinda avoided looking at me while saying goodbye.Again ,after 2 weeks ,he texted her while we're out and she joined us and kept taking selfies with him but this time he didn't follow her to train station but saw him texting her afterwards and sending some of their selfies I kinda stopped texting her or asking her to hang out.One day she called me crying as her grandpa passed away and i helped her with tickets and embassy papers, and she kept texting me while she was away saying thank you and stuff. she texted me 5 days after she came back. She started calling me from time to time for like 30 min or so. Last week, she called me and sounded happy even though she claimed her aunt passed away the day before , and she spent 3 hours on phone talking primarily about marriage and love stories , but i felt like something was going on. Yesterday, my friend asked about something i told no one but her, so i said i never told you about it , and he got so nervous. I don't know why she follows my news . before her last call, couple of girls seemed really interested in me at school and my friend even noticed that. I think he told her that and that's why she called me. I felt that she wants me to stay the way i'm as i'm virgin and i don't drink, and sensed that my friend stopped asking me to join him and he stopped trying to encourage me to date or join him to bars. If she doesn't like me ? why would she care about me and other girls? Also I feel that my friend betrayed me and wanna distance myself from both of them . I feel she doesn't like me romantically ,yet, she doesn't wanna lose the way i treat her. And he uses my politeness to get to girls. plz help .

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I'm 29 and I had sex with a 42 year old almost year ago. He and I live in different states (but we are not in a long distance relationship). I wanted to see him again while I was in his state three weeks ago. I sent him a text letting him know I was in town and he asked me for the address. I told him I would contact him once I got to the hotel. My kid brother and I went to the park and I saw the guy there. I didn't go there looking for him we just so happened to be there at the same time. We walked passed each other but didn't speak but we did look at each other. When I got to the hotel I texted him asking him to come see me. He then told me he had left time temporarily but that he would be back the next day. I told him that I knew he had saw me at the park and that he was lying. He said he did see me at the park but that he had left town and would be back the next day. (He does work a lot travelling from time to time.) He told me before I came to see him that he might not be able to meet me. That he's having some financial issues. When he told me he had left town I went off on him and said some bad things to him. That's when he started calling and texting me telling me to answer the phone. I didn't answer and just ignored his calls completely. The next night I got drunk and continued to go off on him and again he told me to call him but I didn't. He was wrong for lying and I was wrong for going off on him. I just wish I would have got to see him while I was there.

This girl and I are , in our late 20s , from the same country and she used to attend my school .I'm a virgin guy who never dated nor had sex in his life . We used to talk a lot whenever we both are at school. Couple of months ago, she was asked to leave her apt and helped her with moving and she used to call me whenever she she had a hard time, and i always sense when she's about to cry and stuff. She seemed to have a crush on her teacher and he happened to break up with his 3 years GF. she tried one time to use me to ask him out . i ignored her for like a month and one day she called me and was her last day at school and while we were talking,my friend came_ he's handsome and a player who tries to sleep with every girl and he's so competitive_ and forced himself into our conversation. He said that he wanna walk around and i noticed that she became so nervous and said she wanna join. It seemed that she wanted to use me again to get closer to him. i hanged out with them but kept walking with my 3rd friend and kinda ignored her and she kinda was flirty with him the whole time then she might feel awkward and come talk to me. when we were about to split , he followed her to train station and she kinda avoided looking at me while saying goodbye.Again ,after 2 weeks ,he texted her while we're out and she joined us and kept taking selfies with him but this time he didn't follow her to train station but saw him texting her afterwards and sending some of their selfies I kinda stopped texting her or asking her to hang out.One day she called me crying as her grandpa passed away and i helped her with tickets and embassy papers, and she kept texting me while she was away saying thank you and stuff. she texted me 5 days after she came back. She started calling me from time to time for like 30 min or so. Last week, she called me and sounded happy even though she claimed her aunt passed away the day before , and she spent 3 hours on phone talking primarily about marriage and love stories , but i felt like something was going on. Yesterday, my friend asked about something i told no one but her, so i said i never told you about it , and he got so nervous. I don't know why she follows my news . before her last call, couple of girls seemed really interested in me at school and my friend even noticed that. I think he told her that and that's why she called me. I felt that she wants me to stay the way i'm as i'm virgin and i don't drink, and sensed that my friend stopped asking me to join him and he stopped trying to encourage me to date or join him to bars. If she doesn't like me ? why would she care about me and other girls? Also I feel that my friend betrayed me and wanna distance myself from both of them . I feel she doesn't like me romantically ,yet, she doesn't wanna lose the way i treat her. And he uses my politeness to get to girls. plz help .

Im a freshman in high school and I was friends with two seniors they are best friends and I became friends of theres and we hung out and texted each other like normal friends but over time I think our friendship has been starting to change because it got to the point where we would only say hi to each other and only have a conversation if I started it. and they would only text when I text first. Now we dont say anything to each other anymore and I tried to let them text me or try to talk to Me and stuff but they dont do it anymore and its been two weeks since I last texted them and nothing. :( do they still care bout our friendship or do they just dont really care anymore ? I still wanna keep ouf friendship going though and Ive tried but idk what to do

While texting my guy friend the other day my cousin calls me and tells me he s being deployed in 3 months and I felt like crying and I did. He s always been like an older brother and I just needed to tell somebody to share some pain with so I ended up telling up my guy friend and he kept trying to give me advice. And when he told me that my cousin will come back I just burst cause last time he came back it was in a hospital and he was in the icu for 5 days. My friend ignored all 3 of my paragraph txt messages that were of me just telling him about the last time he came back in the hospital and I told him how distressed I was and how I just couldn t do it anymore. Idk if he read my messages but he never replied. One of other friends at school had texted him and he replied to my friend but he still hasn t replied to me. Idk if he s mad or not but I m already worried about my cousin going into the army again. I just want to know if there s anything I said was wrong. His little brother has leukemia and Idk if I was being insensitive when I told him about my cousin at the hospital. When he said that he would come back I told him that he couldn t f******* guarentee that my cousin would ever come back and told him about last time he almost died. He ignored those messages. Please I m getting nervous I don t want to ruin a friendship

This past weekend my sister and her friends had a sleepover at my house. While I was sleeping they decided to play the hand in warm water trick on me and with my luck I actually wet the whole bed really bad. It was so embarrassing. They were laughing so hard. I didn't even realize it until I woke up in the morning.

My friends take pictures of my clothes without me noticing and make fun of my outfits saying I'm "trashy" and "cheap". They also have inside joke using my name instead of the word "****" for "get your **** together". I have all of my classes with these friends and I don't know anyone else. It's hard for me to make friends since I'm shy so I don't know how to deal with this situation. What should I do?

The last bit of my day sucked. Pretty much my friends told me I was mean because I thought that they were saying stuff behind my back to be funny. So, I told them to shut up and they looked at me and said we didn't say anything about you. Finally, it hit me and I realized that maybe I misunderstood them and they were just doing that to trick me.. (because there my close friends and we do that to each other. ) Then they said you changed. They told me I used to be really nice and now I changed into this mean girl. But that was true I was a super super nice girl. But I'm thinking to myself that that was because I didn't want anyone to mess with me so I didn't say anything that anybody didn't like. It was like I would bend over backwards so that I wouldn't have to deal with someone being mean to me. This was because I was bullied earlier as a kid (really bad) and I thought that if I always said nice things, people wouldn't think of saying anything mean to me. It took awhile to actually love myself for who I am and what I stand for so that's when I would be the nicest I could be, but never actually showing what I thought because I had the fear that I would get hurt in the end. After awhile I got sick of being like that and after be hurt for so long I wanted a change. I was inspired to be a stronger, confident girl... and I did. I did change a lot but what they think is mean is probably the abrasive side that I grew. If I am mean how can I change?

My friends and I are planning and doing those at my friends party. I ve never done either and I ve been offered both. Which would be best to do first? Also which is healthier and has a less risk of anything happening to me? Thanks!

I'm 18 I graduated last year I only had two close friends we still keep in touch with social media but I can't see them anymore. I have a job but there's not a lot of people n there all older. I have had problems with anxiety n Bieng shy but now I'm not as shy anymore. I talk more n don't get nervous. But I still don't have one friend or anyone to text I go out alone I want to go out to fun places with friends, laugh, have a bf, live life n b happy. I have been alone n miserable I my life i hate it. How can I meet people n where? I will do anything or else I will go crazy. I HAVE HAD 0 friends in school n people would call me a loner. Please don't say stupid stuff like it's better to b by yourself u don't need friends. Bullshit. I start college in the end of May for only 6 months n I'm going to ask a guy I like for his nunber this week at a job I used to work at. Other than that where can I make a friend asap n challenge myself to make my goals in meeting people n having friendships. I want to go out wth friends as soon as I can but idk how or where to make friends.:(

So, back in late 2012 I had started smoking weed after taking a break off two years due to highschool studies, I started spontainasly when a ex friend of mine asked if I wanted to smoke and I said yes because he knew that I was going to start smoking again after high school. Anyways the first two week's was cool, but the more I smoked the more weakend I felt, this guy tried to copy me so much in all forms and I didn't like it, and it bothered me so much because I had just started to find myself And then it felt like I lost myself because of this clone trying to be like me. It only got worse after that, because something happend with my penis were it felt like it was becoming numb and I lost feeling to it like I know that everything is connected to the brain but I coudn't controll it, I had boners way too often than I use to, it almost felt like it was going to explode and because of this I have been depressed since 2013 and this pain hasn't gone away, I am sober now and have been since ..December of 2013. I was hoping that my penis was going to be alright like it has been all my life, I even went to the doctors but nobody could find the reason why it has become like this. I'm only in my early 20's and I need to enjoy life instead of worriying about feeling numb around my penis and being depressed about it all the time. Has anyone felt like this before, if so what did help if you had this kind of problem? Please help! !!! !! This guy also was very irritating he would always look at me and how I walk, talk, laugh when I laugh, like he was a little brother but he was not and I didnt like being friends with him so we had to part ways.. Everytime I looked at a girl he wouldnt let me enjoy looking at her but instead would do something to irritate me so I would loose focus on the girl. Everytime I looked a certain way he did the same or did something to make me feel uncomfterbale. Have you ever had ''friends'' like this

I'm a freshman, and I can't handle anyone in my grade anymore. Everyone is dramatic and annoying and there are only 2 people who are laid back including me. How can I approach seniors or juniors? Freshmans have such a bad rep at my school, the other grades always tell me to **** off cause of the rep that goes around that all Freshies are crazy. and the sophomores are alright I just wanna be friends with some juniors or seniors cause they are all laid back but all of my freshman twins ruined all our rep so they think we are all annoying... what's the best way to approach them?

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I'm a sophomore in high school, and the only people that I'm friends with are leaving to go to a boarding school in a month or so. Because of the rigorous course load, they probably won't have time to talk to me, plus they will be hours away. It's difficult for me to make friends, and I'm distraught over the fact that I am losing the only people in my life that actually care about me. I have tried to be supportive of them, and can't tell them that I feel abandoned for fear of making them feel guilty enough to change their decisions. I really don't want to be alone, but it seems as though that is exactly what will happen. I really do not have any other friends, and I can't really make new ones. What do I do?

Okay so my roommates and I have made basically no friends, it is our first year of college and we thought making friends would be easy because we are nice people and we go to a small, private Christian school. Turns out that no one seems to want us as friends. We try and reach out to people by even inviting them to go places with us, but we always are denied. It's just been really hard on us and we don't want like to complain about it, but it's hard when everyone else is around us with groups of friends hanging out. We think it's because we are always together and people think we're exclusive, so we even did an experiment where for a week we we were not with each other at school, but still nothing happened. I guess I'm just very frustrated, what should we do? Reach out even more? Should we really just put ourselves out there? It just seems awkward now because school is almost over and we still don't have friends.

How are you supposed to go about doing this? Go to the dugout and say "Hey everybody, this is..."? Or if you can go up to people as they walk by and say something. (Not all of the players on team are my greatest friends too)

I am a male but i get on more with females, always have and always will i suppose. I have 2 groups of friends that used to be one and i feel like im stuck in the middle and need to choose one. One is more like who i feel i am, the smoke and do the usual weed and that and i feel more relaxed around them. the other is more educational but these are so uplifting and helpful especially with exams around the corner. I dont know what to do

So I met a cool guy freshman year, we decided to live together sophomore year in a house with two other guys. We all got along very well, but for the most part me and him were attached at the hip. I understand that that can t continue, because people mature, talk to the opposite sex more than guy friends eventually but, I always saw us as life long friends. It s now senior year, and we are all about to graduate, and move out of the same house we ve had for 3 years. Me and my best friend.. I still call him that.. share a room actually, and it was never that bad. When we did everything together we would argue often, but would ALWAYS resolve it, and actually end up closer. To keep this not incredibly long, I ll leave out the details of why we started to drift apart. In the end we kinda stopped arguing, and fixing the problems. I would keep it to myself, and often times I couldn t help but act mad towards him.. i really regret that now, because we have gone on so long without resolving issues, that I don t even feel comfortable talking to him about it all. I ended up writing him a really long letter explaining everything, and apologizing for anything I did to ruin our great friendship. He read it (I think).. but never brought it up, or responded at all. I was shocked, and we are just going on like normal. I feel like he was too far gone from the friendship to even care. Should I bring it up, and give it one last shot? Or wait until we move out?

My friend is extremely depressed, and he won't seek help or take any advice no matter how many times it's suggested. I want to help him, but I honestly don't know what I could do besides recommend/tell him stuff to do. How do you help a depressed friend who doesn't listen?

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So my friends have a group message chat on their phone without me in it and I saw that they were talking crap about me and taking pictutes of my clothes without me noticing and making fun of me.. what should I do?

So i've known my current classmate for 5 years. We're not exactly close but i kinda know him well. A week ago he showed me this beautiful necklace that he purchased online for his cousin. Of course i told him how much i liked it, but i didn't mean anything by it. Two days ago, he gave it to me and he said he decided not to give to his cousin after all, but he asked me for a favor in return. Well after his uncle's death, he's seen her just twice in the past 4 years. long story short, Their relationship has been shaky and he wasn't sure she wanted talk to him.she didn't accept his friend request on facebook and he wanted me to tell her that he missed her wanted to talk to her more often. we're friends on facebook but I've never talked to her before and despite how awkward the situation was i did it. It was weird but she was totally cool and did appreciate the gesture. So now am thinking about giving him the necklace back, it's just 15€ necklace but i think i shouldn't have accepted it in the first place and i believe his cousin will be happy if he gave it to her and it can strengthen their relationship. So what do you think i should do? thanks and sorry for my crappy english ^_^

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While texting my guy friend the other day my cousin calls me and tells me he s being deployed in 3 months and I felt like crying and I did. He s always been like an older brother and I just needed to tell somebody to share some pain with so I ended up telling up my guy friend and he kept trying to give me advice. And when he told me that my cousin will come back I just burst cause last time he came back it was in a hospital and he was in the icu for 5 days. My friend ignored all 3 of my paragraph txt messages that were of me just telling him about the last time he came back in the hospital and I told him how distressed I was and how I just couldn t do it anymore. Idk if he read my messages but he never replied. One of other friends at school had texted him and he replied to my friend but he still hasn t replied to me. Idk if he s mad or not but I m already worried about my cousin going into the army again. I just want to know if there s anything I said was wrong. His little brother has leukemia and Idk if I was being insensitive when I told him about the hospital. I told him he had no idea and that he couldn t f******* guarentee that my cousin would ever come back. Please I m getting nervous I don t want to ruin a friendship

Hi! So my friends birthday is in late May and I really want to prank him. I was thinking of shoving a chocolate cream pie in his face or shoving his face into a birthday cake. Any ideas I want a messy dessert prank to pull on him! Another Idea I had is since he eats like a pig and is sloppy I call him piggy so I was thinking maybe I could push him face first into a mud hole nearby but I feel like that might be a little harsh for his birthday. Also I'm getting him a gift too any ideas on what to get him he plays basketbal, loves junk/ fast food and is a huge goofball!

Hi! So my friends birthday is in late May and I really want to prank him. I was thinking of shoving a chocolate cream pie in his face or shoving his face into a birthday cake. Any ideas I want a messy dessert prank to pull on him! Another Idea I had is since he eats like a pig and is sloppy I call him piggy so I was thinking maybe I could push him face first into a mud hole nearby but I feel like that might be a little harsh for his birthday. Also I'm getting him a gift too any ideas on what to get him he plays basketbal, loves junk/ fast food and is a huge goofball!

Im a 16 year old girl (10th grader) Im supersensitive unfortunetly and beside that unlucky too, i dont know my unluckiness is based on my sensitivity or my luck, Im new in this school which im going and its my first year here and there are alot of judgmental group of girls in my class that make fun ...and because im new they think whatever happens it because of me and it hurts me alot even though they never mentioned it infront of me but i feel it :( and I Have no friends at all i just ihave 2, 3 girls and they arent close we just say hi and bye thats it and I really feel sad when everyone has friends and they laugh and etc and im just sitting there trying to show myself busy :( im soo sad and my finals are starting after 1month and i really need to study hard but because my mind keeps being busy and i keep thinking about these shits i cant focus :( Next year also im gonna be here probably because its the only international school in the country which i am so I know that im gonna stay probably for 11 and 12 , and those girls are staying and It really upsets me :( can someone please give me a good advice please? how can I overcome my sensitivity? how can i look good and confident without needing anyone to support me?

I'm only 16. But honestly, I've been ready to go to college/to leave since sophomore year. Nothing is inherently wrong with where I live. I live in a million dollar house in one of the wealthiest areas in the state. But I still feel painfully bored all the time. Everyone is annoyingly backwards, traditional, overly religious and small minded. I'm bisexual. So. There's nothing to ******* do. I can go to a party. I can go watch a movie. The zoo? That's literally it. I'm not going to miss high school at all. I have a lot of friends, but my dad was saying, "Oh, you'll miss the glory days." Actually, if these are the best days of my life I might as well kill myself, tbh. I don't really care about my high school friends. They're nice. I want to hang out with them occasionally. But I don't want to go to a reunion. I'm not really going to miss anyone, and I'm confident I'm going to meet other people. I just want to go to the east coast tbh.

So one of my friends hurt me and then ignored me for a long time (not the first time either) and now she is trying to apologize to make herself feel better and have a clear mind. But truthfully she doesn't deserve to be forgiving for what she did by a simple I'm sorry. How do I politely tell her she hurt me and I can't forgive her. Note that in time I do plan to forgive her on good terms though

This friend's name is Aman. He was just my friend four years back.Then just our relationship grew drastically.Then when he lost trust and wronged with his best friends,then i was the only person for him.I loved him so so much.He too loved me.He always hugged me,put hands on my shoulders and would not even leave from my side.You can just imagine such a relationship.It grew from strength to strength.Then one year back,his problems with his best friends were resolved but then he did not give as much love or care as the previous times.I just love him very much even now,I even pray for him so much.This year too,the friendship was alright at the start of the academic year,now he does not even love me.He just doesn't come with me as often it was used to.I help him very much than anyone for his education.I helped him calling him day and night teaching him and he got good grades.I think he just treats me as a educational friend.Now he doesn't hug me,come with me,talk to me as a close friend,help me and supports me. In god's name i swear i did not do any wrong.Now please tell me what should i do?Should i resolve it,then how?Or search for a new one.Please help!.When i try to say sorry He just avoids me by saying i am cheap and sentimental.Please help me

I have an essay to write for the university regarding H2O2 and there is a specific article which i only find in ResearchGate.net website but it doesn't recognize my university email and doesn't accept a personal one.If anyone here happens to have access to the files pleaze leave a message and i will contact you. (In case you want to contact me though,the mail is arcanebound@yahoo.com ) In order to view the entire text you have to be signed up and i can't do it without an insitutional email adress which doesn't get recognized for some reason

I'm 18 years old and a senior in high school. I am very grateful for letting my great aunt live with her so I could finish my junior and senior year with my friends since my parents moved. She is a wonderful good hearted human being and I love her to death. The thing is she drives me crazy. I know she just wants best for me but some of the stuff she does is irritating. Like snooping through my stuff when I'm not home and taking things. Like cd's she thinks might be inappropriate, my workout supplements (protein powder and vitamins) because she think's they're unhealthy and even things that make no sense like papers with phone numbers and stuff (she probobley thinks it's drug dealers numbers or something. Also even though I have told her multiple times not to do my laundry she does and every time clothes either end up missing or ruined, even my work uniform and I end up getting in trouble. I have sat her down and tried to talk to her about this like an adult but all that happens is she just get's sneakier about it. My parents told me to just buy a door lock which I did last year and she ended up switching it when I was at school, which is her right since is her house so I didn't complain. Any advice? Also I forgot to add last week she through away all my fishing hooks and my knife because they are apparently dangerous.. The knife was expensive because it had multiple blades,scissors a corkscrew and stuff like that.

We've never talked on the phone before but he called me today,I hate talking on the phone because I am shy, i HATE my voice,and idk what to say to him. What should i do to stop being nervous?