Friends: Question: How do I tell my family that I have considered dating my best friend of 6 years? |
- Question: How do I tell my family that I have considered dating my best friend of 6 years?
- Question: So me and my " best friend " are drifting apart .i've been so depressed .should i let her go ?
- Question: How can you prevent getting your phone taken away at school & at home because I really need help with that.?
- Question: If a Facebook account only has four pictures is it a fake account?
- Question: Make friends as an introvert.?
- Question: What do I do?
- Question: What Do you do when your friend did something really bad that hurt you hard but they keep apologizing?
- Question: Should I email him?
- Question: My ex friend is stalking me?
- Question: Who can I talk to if all my family and friends are ignoring me?
- Question: When moving to a new state far away, what are some ways you can make new friends?
- Question: How to tell a friend that you want to do sexual stuff with her?
- Question: Should I rename myself because of a bet?
- Question: Is it weird i never want to have sex or a girlfriend?
- Question: Would it be illegal if my best friend came to my school?
- Question: What does it mean to be more "relatable" to people?
- Question: How to ditch my group of friends?
- Question: How to tell a friend or cousin you want to do sexual stuff with her... Not sex, but, you know.?
- Question: Why does everyone hate me?
- Question: Is it illegal for a sub to keep a class after school?
- Question: There is a carnival that me and my REALLY close friend planed to go together. But 2 of our friends r jealous. What should we do?
- Question: Why are jews so low class i their social interaction and behaviors. they have lived in europe fro hundreds of years now, and many have?
- Question: Help on buying a girl concer tickets?
- Question: Guy got jealous and shoved a banana cream pie in my friend's face?
- Question: How to be friends with this shy , quiet girl i just met?
- Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do?
- Question: I'm helping a suicidal friend and I think it's affecting me...?
- Question: Why do I feel inferior and worthless compared to my friends?
- Question: GUYS: if you were friends with a girl and you thought she was cute would you let her shove a pie in your face?
- Question: How do you socialize correctly with class mates or people you don't know?
- Question: There's all these populars and they are either at a friends house or doing something and I am stuck doing nothing how do i become popular?
- Question: So if a disabled mans parents gave you consent and he gave you consent would you spank him if your are a close neighbor and friend?
- Question: I just started a sport with my friend and promised her I would do it but I hate it! What's a good excuse to tell her I want to quit?
- Question: Should I go to my friend s birthday party?
- Question: 20th birthday in a few days. No friends. any ideas?
- Question: Why am i so alone?
- Question: My best friend..?
- Question: My friend just bought two Jay's from a new dealer, she said they smelled like cilantro not weed. If we smoke and it's not weed could we die?
- Question: Can someone tell me what this means?
- Question: Threatened by someone?
- Question: How to get over fear of rejection?
- Question: How do you make friends?
- Question: Was I rude in this situation?
- Question: Friend stopped us from seeing her posts, why?
- Question: Should I order PIzza Hut?
- Question: What does it mean when a woman likes you and brings you lunch at work? Not once but twice.....?
- Question: I don't have any real friends?
- Question: Am I a horrible friend for rather being with my bf than friends?
- Question: Friend isolating herself; she's really sad all the time... and I want to find the best way that I could become friends with her again.?
- Question: I had such a bad day today? How do I get over it?
- Question: If we all have to die someday, why shouldn't I just die right now?
- Question: Why are some people so sensitive?
- Question: I accepted a Facebook request but I think it maybe this guy who created a fake account?
- Question: What do others think of loners in high school?
- Question: How to hang out with the popular crowd at the mall?
- Question: Not telling my name or asking for a girl's name after seeing them?
- Question: Teacher Assistant has to show authority 24/7 to everyone?
- Question: DOES MY FRIEND/ACQUAINTANCE HAVE ASPD/ IS A SOCIOPATH?
- Question: My friend is still not answering me?
- Question: No friends freshman year in high school?
| Question: How do I tell my family that I have considered dating my best friend of 6 years? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 05:06 PM PDT My best friend and I have been knowing each other since the 8th grade. we are now in our freshman year of college and are definitely falling for each other. when we were in high school he use to always ask me to be his girlfriend but I would say no because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. Since graduating we both have expressed our feelings and they are the same. Our only problem is telling our family because we don't know if they would approve of us being more than best friends. |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2016 05:03 PM PDT she is hanging around with this girl that doesnt like me . and she was ignoring all my messages . I was going thru a hard time and opened up to her and she still ignored me . so finally i confronted her and asked her why she was ignoring ,me and she said "ive been busy with work ". but she clearly is partying with her friends that dont like me and posting stuff on fb and snap chat . i replied with "oh ok :/" and she ignored that lol. it just sucks I feel like im losing my best friend . I even bought her a bday gift but ended up keeping it because she ignored me so much i didnt get to give it to her . need advice how how to deal with this :( |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2016 04:50 PM PDT I was at school with my friends and me and my sister went to the bathroom and I was texting my mom to make sure she was ok **not saying why** and my stupid dean thought I was taking a picture but I wasn't but as all dean's she didn't believe me and I get my phone taken away for all the dumb reasons honestly I think my dean hates me but yea I'm just sick and tired of getting my phone taken away PLEASE HELP ME How can I prevent getting my phone taken away at school & at home because I really need help with that.... |
| Question: If a Facebook account only has four pictures is it a fake account? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 04:48 PM PDT Sometimes this guy creates fake accounts and adds me and I think this one could be him. I asked him before if he does this and he told me that it wasn't him. But I know he's not telling the truth recently I received a friend request from this woman but I think it's a fake account. 1. She only has four pictures 2. When I first accepted her she didn't have that many friends. She only has 69 friends and those are the ones she recently added about three weeks ago. 3. She uploaded her pictures three weeks ago. 4. She just added her employment information and she only has seven posts on her timeline. 5. I sent her a few messages asking her who she was she didn't read them and hasn't replied. |
| Question: Make friends as an introvert.? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 04:31 PM PDT My previous friends ( I knew them since I was a kid ) are really addicted ( and have related problems ), and started acting weird so I had to leave them which was a painful decision. However, my career is going good and have a nice home and stuff, but sadly theirs is far from good. I think they got jealous and said nasty things about me for no reason. The problem is that they were all I had, and now I have completely nothing. But as an introvert making friends is really hard I noticed. Finding people with the same interest is even harder( I like history and piano-music for example while everyone likes soccer and "new"music) . You guys have any tips? |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2016 04:23 PM PDT I have this friend whos not that great of a friend that both my parents think I should break up with. My parents were also like " she has other friends right. and I was like she has another friend.She also causes lots of problems and arguments. Should I stop be her friend and if not how to I stop being her friend its hard because I feel bad for her |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2016 04:21 PM PDT I don t want to forgive them but I just don t know what to do😁 |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2016 04:20 PM PDT So a year ago I was dating my best guy friend, but he moved pretty far away and after a while he stopped emailing me. I think he got grounded. We would go to great lengths to be able to talk to each other, and we never officially broke up, but after not talking to him for over half a year, I'm pretty sure I can consider myself single. The initial attraction really wasn't there in our conversations anyways. I found his email address the other day and I'm debating emailing him just to make sure he's still alive because he was my best friend. |
| Question: My ex friend is stalking me? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 04:15 PM PDT I wasn t her friend anymore and for 3 years we didn t talk. She had spread rumors about me and my family (Some of which were true, but I did not want her to tell anyone) so I told her off and made new friends. She texted me a year later saying sorry, but who would accept an apology even after she has spread so many things about me? We don t go to the same school anymore and I deleted her contacts, then 3 years later, she texts me as if she were stalking me. She seemed to have spent the past two years stalking my friend and I and sent some things that reminded me of my new friend a lot. I thought nothing of it, but the day after, she admitted that she knew who I was, and I now think she was my ex friend. It s really creepy because she kept my number for an entire 3-4 years after I stopped hanging out with her. What should I do about it? -Melissa |
| Question: Who can I talk to if all my family and friends are ignoring me? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 03:53 PM PDT |
| Question: When moving to a new state far away, what are some ways you can make new friends? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 03:34 PM PDT |
| Question: How to tell a friend that you want to do sexual stuff with her? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 03:32 PM PDT Not sex, but, you know. It also has to be the right girl too, because some of my girl friends would be shocked if I asked them... Even though they are pretty hot. |
| Question: Should I rename myself because of a bet? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 03:30 PM PDT I made a bet with my friends and if I lost I had to legally rename myself to "Uglyretardo" and I ended up losing and now they wont let me of the bet and said they will personally drive me to the court house tomorrow, what should I do? go through with it?? Only serious answers too, this is stressing me out. |
| Question: Is it weird i never want to have sex or a girlfriend? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 03:21 PM PDT i'm 25 and i have never had a girlfriend only female friends with no romantic intention, i have never had sex either and i never will, weird? |
| Question: Would it be illegal if my best friend came to my school? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 03:10 PM PDT me and my best friend have been best friends since 4th grade. So last summer I moved bc my parents hated this school district to a city 30 minutes away from where she lives, Ik this isn t far but it s hard to keep in touch when we only see each other every other weekend Me and her have been each other s only friends pretty much. This made moving hard. So when I got to my new school I hated it, this could ve just been bc I was super depressed. Since my grandparents live really close to where I live (in between my house and my bffs house) I went to the school district in which they live in (I go to their house in the morning and then the bus picks me up from there. After school the bus drops me off at my grandparents and my dad picks me up) I still hated it but I didn t say anything bc i didn t want my parents to worry and they put so much effort in getting me to this school last minute I felt so guilty. Plus it was probably bc nothing could top seeing my bff everyday.So I ve adjusted (this took almost the whole 1st semester) but I still don t have any friends and my bff has been seeming super depressed lately and I feel partially responsible. I feel like her coming to my school would benefit us both. Idk if it would be very legal (Idek if me going to this school is legal) but schools almost out and I just really want to spend next year with her. Is there a way she could come to my school legally Or is there a way she could come illegally but safely? (I live in Texas btw) |
| Question: What does it mean to be more "relatable" to people? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 02:55 PM PDT I had my annual review at work and that was one area my boss told me I needed to improve upon. Be more "relatable". I am naturally introverted, is that what she meant? Or did she mean that people can't relate to me, and if so, how do I get them to "relate" to me more? |
| Question: How to ditch my group of friends? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 02:55 PM PDT I honestly don't like anybody who I hang out with. I don't want to be mean, but I'd rather be alone then hang out with them. They're all so rude and homophobic. I'm just scared to be all alone, and I'm not sure how to just leave them. They follow me around all the time, and I can never get rid of them because they're in all my classes. I'm kind of sad though, I'll end up having no friends at all. |
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| Question: Why does everyone hate me? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 02:45 PM PDT This is really annoying because i don't know what's causing the people i talk to to hate me. I never got into fights and i'm a chill guy that's fun to talk with. Whenever i'm hanging out with friends, all of a sudden they start talking about me and they basically team up on me, trying to offend me. They say most of the time they're jokes, when they're really not. That's what most people do when i make new friends, they gang up on me like i'm the shittiest person on earth and i didin't do nothing wrong. Most of my friends make fun of me for no reason at all. How can i change this? |
| Question: Is it illegal for a sub to keep a class after school? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 02:43 PM PDT We have a sub who always keeps us after class. Well this time my friend had to use the restroom but she let everyone go but her. She wasn't doing anything wrong but we are friends with a girl that sub hates. Well my friend lets call her America texted her mom if she can walk out to use the restroom. Her mom said yes and she would tell the office. So she left (the sub was holding the door knob) but she managed to go because she almost went on herself. The office called and asked her to send her but the substitute still made us stay after class. After the bell rang we started getting noisy telling her school is over while she was against the Door not letting us go . Not as detention or anything and without warning our parents who where worried. I am just curious because she always does this. |
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| Posted: 01 Apr 2016 02:31 PM PDT had wealth for at least a few generations. why do they behave in vulgar and obnoxious ways..eery other european who acquires wealth becomes upper social class after a few generations and acts accordingluy..they accumulate noble selfess deeds of bravery and courage but jews do not. tey just show off their moey and still speak with those ghetto whiny accents. obviously there are acceptions to that for white europeans..like donald trump whos family is still obnoxious and lower class, but most of them are not like that. i cannot think of one jewish family who is well mannered and upholds the values, and honor of the of uppper social class gentleman and aristocracy |
| Question: Help on buying a girl concer tickets? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 02:22 PM PDT I wanna go to this concert on Aug 10th with my friend Kelley,she probably will tell me that she has no money so she can't go,However I got a job while she doesn't so I would be able to pay for her ticket too (45 bucks).Do you think she might get offended if I told her I can buy her ticket? I'd just really want to go. Someone told me to tell her it's a birthday present but her birthday is in dec so it ain't gonna work. @Melanie: I could really use some help now |
| Question: Guy got jealous and shoved a banana cream pie in my friend's face? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 01:52 PM PDT I posted this question a couple times last week but my friend is still embarrassed. He's one of those guys who is super sweet, genuine and kind but when he is humiliated is upset about it for a while. We were on a cruise for senior week and I was with my friends most of the time but I ran into my guy friend and we talked for some time. We eventually took a picture together where I was hugging him. When we were taking the picture another guy came running towards us quick and slammed a banana cream pie into my friend's face. The pie hit him pretty hard in his face and the pie tin slid down his face. He was in shock and was asking who could of slammed the pie in his face. I told him who and he was shocked. The guy who pied him was a nice kid however I did know he liked me and was jealous that I was friends with my guy friend. But honestly that was too far. He didn't deserve to be pied at all. He's popular, friends with lots of girls however he does get drunk often but he is really the sweetest down to earth, kindest politest, genuine guy you would meet. I have liked him for two years and I am so happy we became friends. Anyways I don't want to get back at the other guy but I want to make my friend feel better. The guy did apologize later and my friend just nodded. He was suprised too because me and him are just good friends and he truly cares about me but we are not in a relationship. I really want to cheer him up any ideas? |
| Question: How to be friends with this shy , quiet girl i just met? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 01:49 PM PDT background details: im really shy and introverted i see her once or twice a week at public transport, so keep that in mind. she is around my age, just two years younger. i finallymanaged to talked to her two times this week, i didn't get her name nor did i give her my name... should i have?? i can see her nextweek? advice please? suggestions |
| Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 01:49 PM PDT Ok so at school whenever the people in my class sees me talking to someone in class they all want to get close to them and talk to them too. They even try to get the person I'm talking to attention even if they didn't pay no attention to them. I don't talk to no one from my class. They don't talk to me or even try to. I'm in high school. What do you think of this situation and what should I do? |
| Question: I'm helping a suicidal friend and I think it's affecting me...? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 01:35 PM PDT Basically my best friend is suicidal and literally is always trying to die. She's happy around me and she has friends but she i wouldnt say theyre very good ones so shes only told me and she basically relies on me.. a lot. its understandable why but i always never know what to say to help, i told her mum today in private because she had to know. and ive just lately felt really not myself and down and... weird.i thought it was because i feel a bit sick but..im constantly worrying + stressed i came downstairs and my mum asked me if anything bothering me and i said no and she came over to me and asked if im feeling a bit depressed and was like you can talk to me you know,i am here for you and i was like woah what im not depressed, but honestly i think something along those lines is happening to me because i feel really just spaced out and my friend isnt exactly understanding and she doesnt really like that i need to live my life too and cant always talk to her and ik it sounds horrible but she always relies on me to know what to say when shes texting me talking about killing herself and i really dont and im up till 3am talking with her and she gets mad when i dont know how to help and its making me really stressed out and tired and idk what to do anymore. now ive told her mum, she can get her more help but ik she will still expect a lot from me and.. its just making me feel overall ill. |
| Question: Why do I feel inferior and worthless compared to my friends? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 01:31 PM PDT I used to be the guy my friends looked up to, I got recognition for being a very social person, being funny, talented, etc and i felt great. I wasn t a cruel mister popular however, I still treated others with respect. Few years later (I m a sophomore student) I feel pretty useless and worthless. Like everyone else has gotten further in life than me. I get stressed by the fact I still never had a decent relationship or haven t done anything big with my talents. I often find myself arguing with a particular friend on facebook and it somehow always makes me feel as if I m rediculous and stupid. I hate feeling this way. Last time he ignored a message and I was a bit nerved at the moment, he replied, "wow, guess you ve nothing else to do" and it hit me harder than it should have. He can give me the feeling my life is plain boring by saying stuff like that and it gets in my head. Then he gets rude and bites my nose off. Wish I could learn to stop caring but I can t. We ve both played bass for a long time, he s in a band, I m not. He got himself a girlfriend, I still haven t. I hate to even admit I m jealous of someone that once stood in my shadow so to speak, guess it s the other way around now. What can I do to stop being jealous of others and learn to love my own life again? |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2016 01:30 PM PDT Hi!! So I really want to smash a pie in my guy friend's face! We both really enjoy eachother's company and are good friends! I want a suprising way to smash a pie in his face, any ideas? Also what kind of pie should I smash in his face? Ideas would be great, thanks!! |
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| Question: Should I go to my friend s birthday party? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 01:10 PM PDT One of my best friends is having her birthday party in a few days and I honestly don t want to go. She didn t come to mine and didn t get me anything as a present either, which I don t mind, but I just find it kind of rude considering how we hang out at school and talk every day. Also, lately she s been making some rude comments towards me, and although the she is playing them off like they re only jokes, some of them kind of hurt. The only reason I m thinking of going is because I want to hang out with my other friends while I m there, but again, I m a stubborn person and I don t really feel like getting her something as a present. Should I go or not? |
| Question: 20th birthday in a few days. No friends. any ideas? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 01:06 PM PDT Ok I should clarify: I have a few friends but not enough that would actually come if I had party. Went to the movies for the past two years and although I m a cinephile I need something new. Last year I went to the movies WITH friends and that was boring in the end cuz there was absolutely nothing to do at my house. So I m not gonna hang with friends unless it s like one person and we actually go somewhere. Or idk. Any ideas? |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2016 01:06 PM PDT why does no one like me? if i was unanonymous, you wouldnt care. |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2016 01:06 PM PDT my best friend just busted his nut on me.. i didnt know he liked me like that.. what should i do? |
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| Question: Can someone tell me what this means? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 12:58 PM PDT I heard the girls at school talking about their boyfriends being hung. I did now want to appear dump so I did not ask them what that meant. Can someone tell me. Is it a good thing or a bad thing that a guy is hung? |
| Question: Threatened by someone? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 12:55 PM PDT Hello! I have been friends with someone for like 6 months, and we were friends before that, but then he went at other school, anyway... I told him my biggest secret because he told me he will never tell anyone, and he seemed so trusty... (I know I was so, so foolish and I regret it very much, but it surely won't happen again). He changed a lot lately , and he said he doesn't want to be friends with me anymore, because he has other friends better than me. That hurt, but I can go past it. The problem is that now he is sending messages to me very frequently, threatening me that he will tell everybody my secret. That secret can destroy me (it's about something that scares me very, very bad, and people will bully me.), there is anything I can do to be sure he won't tell anyone ? |
| Question: How to get over fear of rejection? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 12:48 PM PDT I was bullied for most of my childhood at school. Whenever I made close friends they would ditch me for popular kids who bullied me for being nerdy & chubby, though I lost weight when I was 13. I haven't had a close friend in 3 yrs now & I'm quite lonely. I think my self esteem is the problem. I always assume others hate me & nobody will ever want to be my friend. Part of me wonders why anyone would want to be my friend as I think I'm weird/boring. I fear I bother others with my presence so I don't really try. How can I fix this? I'm 17 btw x |
| Question: How do you make friends? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 12:44 PM PDT I'm not going to lie I was a **** with my previous friends and they all left me unfortunately that's only because I had a few personal problems now that I've mostly overcome those problems I want to approach new people any ideas guys??? |
| Question: Was I rude in this situation? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 12:43 PM PDT Ok so I recently moved to a new school. I'm going to start off by saying I'm very anal when it comes to personal hygiene. I shower once a day (sometimes twice a day) I shave daily, trim my nails, brush my teeth more than once a day, etc. I'm just a very clean person. I love cleaning my self and my surroundings (does that sound weird? Haha). I invited this kid at my new school because I thought I would try to make new friends. I'm sorry he smelled awful. I was sick to my stomach. He told me he just came from the gym so I just ignored it. I told him to get a shower and he told me "I havent had any time all week" really?? No time for a shower all week? i also offered him a stick of deodorant. He told me he "doesn't believe in deodorant, and that its too expensive" he can afford a brand new PlayStation 4 and a new computer but can't afford a stick of deodorant" I was honest with him and told him he couldn't come over my house anymore. I'm the type of person that doesn't judge anybody. But how can someone lack the concept of hygiene? Am I being rude? |
| Question: Friend stopped us from seeing her posts, why? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 12:41 PM PDT My husband has some friends that are a married couple from his hometown. I have never met them, but they added me on FB years ago. Recently, the wife began an affair with someone she met at the fast food place she worked at. Her husband called us asking for advice and just for someone to talk to, she abandoned he and the kids to be w/this dude. My husband told his friend what his wife has been up to after the friend, John asked him for photos of his wife's wall (she hid her wall from her husband). We have not spoken to the cheating wife and have no intentions to. Just a few days ago, she went and hid her wall from us and all we are able to see is her posts from 2014 and back. What did we do to her? Like I said- I have never met her and do not speak to her. My husband used to run around w/them. Should I unfriend her for her immature and rude behavior? We all are quite sick of watching her destroy her husband and kids lives for her selfishness. *unable NOT able. Why does our opinion matter to her that she would go out of her way to hide us from seeing her daily activities? Is she ashamed? |
| Question: Should I order PIzza Hut? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 12:37 PM PDT My friend is gonna get me it and he lives far away and apparently PH wants photo ID or some crap from whoever owns the card. My friends say just do it and say your friend just left and the delivery person will give you the food. I think it s ridiculous if they say no and take the food back to Pizza Hut, I doubt that d happen.... right? I MEAN it s paid for... no I didn t commit fraud, I have permission to use my friend s card, so Idk! |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2016 12:23 PM PDT She brings me lunch at work and buys my son an expensive gift for his birthday. Why is she doing so many things for me? |
| Question: I don't have any real friends? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 12:18 PM PDT I feel so alone. I moved to a new high school in grade 9, and I was so happy because I hated my old school. The first day I hung out with a huge group of girls, but then they never talked to me again. I eventually just started hanging out with this group of unpopular girls. I ve never felt more alone. They don t know anything about me, and they would stop hanging out with me if they knew about the real me. They don t know the time I was only 13 and smoked weed for the first time, they don t know about the time I tried to commit suicide, they don t know my favourite bands. And if they knew they would hate me because they re homophobic and intolerant. I don t have anybody anymore, and I can t handle it. I m just so sad I'm not even being the real me around them because I can't be. Nobody else will talk to me because they see me as this unpopular quiet girl. I'm in grade 10 now by the way |
| Question: Am I a horrible friend for rather being with my bf than friends? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 12:15 PM PDT I still make plans with my friends and don't ditch them for my bf or anything but I often find myself thinking, "I wish I could just be with him instead" basically. I'm an introvert and think I often don't want to hangout with people regardless of my bf or not sometimes lol, like I just enjoy being alone. But my bf is the exception. And one other friend (best friend). Everyone else, I'm like "ugh, I just wanna be home instead or with my bf". I usually end up having fun with them anyway but BEFORE we hang out, I tend to feel that way. We've been together since I was 15 (almost 8 years) if that matters... |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2016 12:05 PM PDT Last year, this girl in my grade (2), this girl in the grade below me (1) and I were best friends. 1 seemed fine and she was happy and everything. All three of us gave each other hugs, and talk about various topics. Summer vacation came and she's still in middle school, but now 2 and I in the high school. I haven't talked to her in a long time, not since the beginning of this school year. I asked 2 about what happened to 1 and she said that 1's been feeling really terrible throughout the school year and actually ignores 2's calls and acts like she doesn't know her. She ignores all of her friends in her grade, which were only a few from the start. There's a lot of people bullying her too and she has extremely low grades now. She also goes to the guidance office a lot and is probably around the counselors and school psychiatrist. I've been to them a few times too, and they usually make the problems worse, rather than solving it from my experience. 2 also said that 1 dyes her hair a lot now and that she's seen 1 walking home sometimes. I really want to be best friends with her again, but I feel like she will disconnect me as a best friend if I try, just like 2 and the others. I was thinking of sending her a letter through the middle school, but no doubt the counselors will read it. I could ask 2 for 1's phone number maybe. I'm not sure what would be the right approach. I also want to make her happy too. I am unsure whether or not she is depressed, but maybe. |
| Question: I had such a bad day today? How do I get over it? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 12:04 PM PDT Ok so today was terrible. This one girl is annoying me so much. One of my good friends and I are fighting. My best friend wasn't at school today. All of my classes were especially difficult and the day just dragged on and on. And now my mom is annoying me. I have a driving lesson in a little less than an hour and I don't want to go because I feel like it'll be terrible too. How can I get over my bad day and my bad mood? It's making me feel so depressed. |
| Question: If we all have to die someday, why shouldn't I just die right now? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 11:58 AM PDT My life isn't even that bad. At least, it could've been worse. So I should be grateful. I was born in India and moved 5 times, and was always considered an outsider. I made friends in 4 of these places, and all those friend circles were destroyed when I left. In the 5th, which I'm nos in and which is Canada, I just can't make friends or even open my mouth. Here, people make fun of every aspect of Indians, accent language culture etc., and it's lowered my self esteem and I think very lowly of myself, I can't even open my mouth. Nor can I complaint, because Indian origin kids are ones making most of the fun. I'm in high school and I'm not looking forward to a life in which I'll struggle even more, only to eventually die. I don't wanna die now because it'll hurt my mom. I can interact very well with my mom and brother, but there's nobody I can tell all of this except anonymously to strangers on the Internet. If I go back to India I'll be a loner there too, I can't fit in anywhere. I don't have a social life, and I only have dreams, and I still have worse marks than everyone. Sorry for ranting. |
| Question: Why are some people so sensitive? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 11:42 AM PDT I've always had a hard life. My dad died when I was 4, I've always been talked down to, very few like me. Honestly I don't care who you are I was raised to share my opinions. For awhile I was with a bad group of people and everything just got worse from then on. I've had friends that are really sensitive, and I don't get it. Why do they have to be such pu55ies about everything? I'm used to talking down to people like this but when it comes to close friends it different for me. I just don't understand why they take offense to "You're fat," when I am overweight and people say it to me all the time (for some reason that completely stopped idk why. Maybe it's because I'm 13 and 6'1?). Please somebody explain. : \ |
| Question: I accepted a Facebook request but I think it maybe this guy who created a fake account? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 11:33 AM PDT Sometimes this guy creates fake accounts and adds me and I think this one could be him. I asked him before if he does this and he told me that it wasn't him. But I know he's not telling the truth recently I received a friend request from this woman but I think it's a fake account. 1. She only has four pictures 2. When I first accepted her she didn't have that many friends. She only has 69 friends and those are the ones she recently added about three weeks ago. 3. She uploaded her pictures three weeks ago. 4. She just added her employment information and she only has seven posts on her timeline. 5. I sent her a few messages asking her who she was she didn't read them and hasn't replied. |
| Question: What do others think of loners in high school? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 11:32 AM PDT I'm completely isolated. I open my mouth maybe twice everyday. I just can't talk. I'm used to it but feel like crying whenever I'm the only loner like when I'm in the caf like right now. I wish a group of kind people would pity me and let me hang out with them but that isn't happening. Will I ever get friends? |
| Question: How to hang out with the popular crowd at the mall? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 11:31 AM PDT So I got invited by a friend to hang out at the mall for a bit, and a lot of popular guys are going to be there who I've never met before. Any tips about what to do there, how to fit in and seem fun and outgoing? |
| Question: Not telling my name or asking for a girl's name after seeing them? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 11:28 AM PDT yeah i met this nice girl i would like to be friends with on the lightrail. i finally worked up the courage to talk to her on monday this week, and i talked to her again on wednesday. she seemed really nice, and im really shy. i just didnt tell her my name, nor did she ask for it... we didnt exchange names. is this bad? should i have told her my name or asked for hers? why didnt she ask for my name? weird |
| Question: Teacher Assistant has to show authority 24/7 to everyone? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 11:24 AM PDT Every other teacher at my school gets along with me and my friends very well and show respect and kindness. This one teacher assistant who doesn't even have a degree and kind of mingled her way into a job constantly squawks at everyone for the most insignificant reasons and I need advice with how to deal with it. Today me and my friend were sitting where we always do in the crowded hall way waiting for class to start. There was no where else to sit and we normally never have a problem sitting there. Then the teacher assistant came in and started squawking about how we weren't allowed to sit there. We stood up and didn't move and then she walked off. So we can stand there but we can't sit there??? The point is she was just complaining about anything she could think of and I need your help to know what to do to avoid having to deal with her. Everyone in the school hates her and I don't know how to avoid being squawked at. |
| Question: DOES MY FRIEND/ACQUAINTANCE HAVE ASPD/ IS A SOCIOPATH? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 11:13 AM PDT So, I kind of know this guy but we're not best friends, so I guess he's my acquaintance. Anyways, he has these really creepy looking eyes, sort of like ted bundy or charles manson. I mean, his blue eyes just kind of like stare into your soul and you'll get hypnotize by them as soon as he stare at you. It's as if the whole world stops or something. I have seen him near the forest when we went camping with a knife and he was near a bunch of squirrels. I asked him what he was doing and he said nothing, but it seem like he was going to kill them. The other time, we went fishing, and we caught a bass fish. He just took out his fishing knife and started dissecting the fish into pieces and carelessly threw the pieces back into the water. He had also tried to hurt a baby before by twisting the baby's hand until it started crying. He intentionally broke something that was really expensive and belonged to my friend. Then, he went and just blamed it on someone else, and my friend actually believed him even though I was right there. I thought that he was a good person when I first met him, but he always try to lie about me and throw me under the bus. Even when he's in dangerous extreme situations, like a car crash or when he's about to get a ticket, he always stay so calm and it's just unbelievable. One time, the speed limit was 50 miles but he drove a whole 70 miles, "for fun" he said. The police pulled him over, and he said very calmly that his mother was in the hospital(she's dead.) |
| Question: My friend is still not answering me? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 11:06 AM PDT The friend I was talking about Jackie, What should I do? She's not even reading them and I'm kinda getting worried because I don't think I say it last time but she said a couple things like I want to die and surf like that and I'm worried something happened |
| Question: No friends freshman year in high school? Posted: 01 Apr 2016 10:41 AM PDT I'm in my freshman year and only have two months left, and I haven't really made any friends. I came in only knowing two people, and they have already made different friends. I was out of town for fall sports tryouts, and I don't play any of the winter or spring sports, so I didn't try out for those. I joined a club, but its really unorganized and we haven't had a meeting since December. I sit at the same lunch table with the same people, but I wouldn't really call them my friends because I don't have any classes with most of them and they are really different from me, so i don't see a friendship happening with any of them. I guess I have one friend, but she still doesn't really know that much about me and has a bunch of other friends. I'm going to try out for field hockey in the fall, but I'm just nervous because most of them are already friends with each other. I'm pretty quiet and I have social anxiety. It's really hard for me to trust people and open up to them because of stuff thats happened to me in the past. I just feel so lonely because I'm not really used to having no friends. I really want to change that, and i wish i was more outgoing, but every time I try I end up shrinking back into my hole. I'm not comfortable speaking to anybody about this because I'm not really close with anybody. I just hate being the girl who never talks. I also go to an all girls school, if that helps. Any suggestions? |
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