Family: Question: How do I tell my mom I am unhappy living with her and I would rather live with my older sister.?

Question: How do I tell my mom I am unhappy living with her and I would rather live with my older sister.?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 02:05 PM PDT

My sister was adopted out of our family and last summer I stayed with her and that was the first time I did a lot of stuff I haven t done in a long time, for example I have to keep a bag packed at all times because we would leave in the middle of the night, because we had to avoid my father. I got so many new clothes, I haven t gotten "new" clothes since I was 5 or6 and I was able to sleep easily even though I have really bad insomnia. And when I had to come back to home I have been really depressed. I really want to leave and my sister and her adoptive family support Ms and I hate where we are living right now and that just makes matters worse, by the way I am 14 and my sister is 25 and we have jokingly brought it up with our mom before and she just said my sister doesn t need a burden like me

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Posted: 02 Apr 2016 01:55 PM PDT

Question: Problems with my mom?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 01:54 PM PDT

Recently I haven't been getting along with my mom and it has just been really hard. School for me isn't doing too well right now, and yesterday was the beginning of my spring break. My mom is making me so much homework and studying for upcoming tests and ap tests, and everyone i say something sarcasticaly like "oh, i don't think i'm going to do well because i'm not good at blah blah blah" she gets defensive and calls me stupid or dumb and says that if I don't get a 5 she's sending me to boarding school or whatever and i know she's just saying that to be intimidating but it really hurts. I hate coming home because the moment i come home she always finds some excuse to start yelling at me and making me feel bad and i've been crying myself to sleep the past few days and i really don't know what to do. the thing is that whenever her friends come over, she puts on a smile and is so nice and kind to them and i don't know why she's just being so rude towards me. I know she wants the best for me but i really don't know how to go about this because it's really hard for me to deal with. i hope this is just a phase or maybe she's really stressed out at work, but talking to her really isn't an option because she'll just start yelling at me and won't listen. please help i don't know what to do. ps. i'm currently 15 years old (just in case age is a factor in this)

Question: Why do I get mad at my mom for pointless reasons?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 01:37 PM PDT

When my mother asks me questions i answered a billion times before, i get mad. Most of the time it's when she raises her voice and gets mad when i ask a question. Then, I start to get angry. Sometimes, she says things that i don't like to talk about that I have said that I don't like before. I love my mom to the bottom of my heart, but why do I get so angry and snap at her? I try not to get mad but she gets in under my skin sometimes. I mean Im 17 and I do go through a lot. Im a lead singer and guitarist to a band i have to manage. I have College plans i have to work out every week. And school and relationship problems. I know shes my mom and all but Why do I get so angry?

Question: How to convince my mother to let me go on holidays?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 01:34 PM PDT

I am in foster care (although my biological mother still maintains parental responsibility). I am wanting to go on an educational trip to Germany with a group of friends under the supervision of a youth leader. We are paying for the trip ourselves through fundraising. However, she refuses to grant me a passport at this time as she may incur financial penalties should something happen (I.e. Having to pay for a return flight should I become ill). I have international health insurance and the leader is going to be my guardian for the week. She has requested a letter from Child Protective Services stating that they will incur any finances imposed. This has been refused. How can I convince her??

Question: How to get over a death...?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 01:30 PM PDT

My cat ran in the street after I didn't play Katy Perry...

Question: I have an annoying older cousin?!!!?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 01:29 PM PDT

Hi, I live in a happy family, in my family there's 5 of us including me. Mum Dad Older Brother (25) Older Sister (18) Me (Youngest I'm nearly 16) So next door my mum's sister lives there, younger sister, she married my dad's brother but then they divorced. She has now 2 kids. A son who's 24 and I love him he's so nice to me A daughter, that ***** who's 22 but acts her shoe size. She hates me. I don't know what I've done to make her hate me but she does. I have a big forehead, she points it out. I'm sort she's points it out, not like she's exactly over 5ft5 anyways. My face, she doesn't like it, I don't need to know that. I tell my mum she says "You're sisters, stop fighting" And her bitchy mum says "She's older than you, she's just looking out. She didn't have a dad so she's like ths" then starts to go on about how she went everywhere for uni, oh sweetheart open your eyes she's not the only one. My parents are mor her parents than mine. WTF?!!! I'm not jealous, I'm pissed of why can't she just be nice to me. If that weren't bad enough, my older sister who used to get along with me doesn't either, WTF!!! They have friends and go everywhere, they don't even ask me. I've tried speaking to her......nothing. Someone please help me I've had enough of the both of them, her and her mum Thanks so much in advance xxxx

Question: Everyone in my family hates me?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 01:18 PM PDT

Everyone in my family hates me and I don't know why I never do anything to them and they act as if Im a disease and never want to be anywhere near them they never care what I think so I don't wanna talk to them anymore and they call me emo bipolar stuff like that they always yell and me and beat me up and no one cares I want to move out but im too young and have no job or money I still have like 4 years left and idk what to do talking to them doesn't work because they just think I'm emo and have an "attitude". What should I do if I can't move out rn???

Question: Can you stay in a hotel alone if you're under 18?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 01:16 PM PDT

My brother got into an accident while on vacation & I wanna stay with him for a week so I wanted to find a hotel close to his hospital & my mom can't stay with me because she's working,she's totally fine with me going. Is it possible for a minor to stay in a hotel room alone? Like let's say my mom books a hotel room for me alone when we're in Texas,my brother is in Florida so if she happens to pay for the costs & stuff online or something,am I able to stay on my own?

Question: How can I make my own choices without disrespecting my parents?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 01:06 PM PDT

Im 20 years old, headed off to a 4 year this fall(been in JC for 2 years). The school i chose to go to last year is no longer what i really want but they are making me follow through with it, even though I could still apply to a school out of state. When I talked to them about this they were angry at me for being selfish and changing plans when we'be already got things sorted out. (They act like that when I try and make my own decisions at times, everything feels very controlled and i am made to feel guilty when I try and do my own thing that they don't want for me) I can't tell if i am being immature like they say I am or if what I want is the right path for me to take. Anyways, next year (may 2017) I want to move out of state and live with a good friend and go to community college some more until I figure out what I want to do. How do I do this without causing family problems? Does this sound immature? I know I'd be happy out there, and i feel like this would benefit me the most (I'm where I want to be with someone I want to be with, I'll be saving money on school because I'm still not sure what I want to do, and I'll be working of course). I just don't want to disrespect them because they've helped me get to where I'm at and i know they have my best interest in mind. But I also need to get out of their control and make the decisions that I want to make, for me. I'm afraid my mom will basically disown me and be angry at me for this. What should i do?? Please help!

Question: Why shouldn't I kill myself?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 01:05 PM PDT

My father hates me, he blames me for my mother's death. I apparently killed her coming out the womb. My siblings are all furious at me as well. All my father does is drink and hit me. I don't want to file for abuse because I know he's just lost.

Question: Help, my grandma is bothering me again!?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 12:57 PM PDT

She keeps asking me to try her ravioli. I don't want to eat her ravioli, because I've already tried it. But if I don't, she says that I must not love her and it makes me feel guilty. What do I do?

Question: I Love My Step Sister?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 12:47 PM PDT

me and my step sister are very close she's older thsn me which makes her my big sister we both love each others a lot and I look at her as my sister and she looks at me as her real brother and i love her more than anything in the world and she feels the same way about me in my eyes she's my real sister not my step sister and our family knows we feel this way about each other their happy for us Is this OK?

Question: What are the odds of me owing the 400$?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 12:43 PM PDT

Live with my brothers; not on the lease. I paid them 275$ for March to stay with them. I made a verbal agreement to pay 400$ to stay with them in April. But my brother took 100$ worth of my money; wanted me to pay the same and I refuse. For 2 weeks I said if I was given back the 100$ than I would pay 400$. And I would sign a document that said I would leave the end of April. I was more than willing and cooperative for weeks. But he kept refusing to give me the money he owed me. So, I refused to pay. And he said he was taking me to court. Which is cool, but what are the odds of me owing the money if we go to housing court or whatever, if it was made verbally. Also, I have text messages that he would lie to the police, etc. And the agreement was made under the circumstances of him not taking 100$ from me. Any advice is good? Also, I plan to leave at the end of April still. But he will not get my money now. Lastly, I did send a text message saying I would pay 300$ if I didn't get my money and 400$ if I did.

Question: Im sick of living with my girlfriend of 9Y family.?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 12:24 PM PDT

I live with her cause its what she really wanted im across the country from my home and family, Im repaying the debt of letting me stay here by doing work for her mother who blew almost all her divorce money($500k According to her father) so every other day i have to get up and go clean or fix parts of her house which when gets more dirty every time i see it. it's keeping me from living the way i want.(Getting a real job and finding happinessETC...) so to wrap this up this girl is my partner but im sick of the way she and her mother make me live and i have no money to move back home.

Question: Not having parent(s), or having an unsupportive who dims your light?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 12:23 PM PDT

I learned from watching my mother, what NOT to be. Growing up, I had to be around people that were like her (including family) and I hated it. It's like she saw that I was different from her, and like a big *** bully, picked on me. Not thinking, wait, maybe its a good thing she doesn't give a damn about boys with crushes? Wait, maybe is a good thing she doesn't care to wear tight clothes at 12 YEARS OLD. Wait, maybe she CAN go to college. Wait, maybe ..ugh, I f**kin hat her.

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 12:09 PM PDT

I just want to relax when I get home from work and a long day(I work 12 hours a day, sometimes more). My grandma won't stop over working me though. She does that every single day. Whether it be cleaning the attic or vacuuming the house and sometimes even repainting the entire inside and outside of the house. I'm not the only one being overworked, my grandma is as well. I'm thinking should I take her to a retirement home or calmy talk to her to not over work herself?

Question: How do u a stop 3 sisters that older than you to stop tickling me?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 12:09 PM PDT

I'm 15 years old and the only boy. And the youngest in the family. Why do they tickle me often?

Question: How do I get my father to want to see me more often, read below?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 11:58 AM PDT

My parents are divorced and I am an adult. I was a kid when they divorced. So my father seldom comes to see me (he lives about 5 hours away) because he doesn't want to deal with my mother (his ex-wife). So my kids miss out on knowing hum much (they see him once, maybe twice a year only). Whereas my mother and my husband's parents are always over and so the kids are close to all three of them. My father does the same to my sister and her family. He does spend time with his son (who is single) who lives near him but not either of us daughters. Now my father is an alcoholic and that could play a role but he is not a fall down drunk (I would say he is a mild alcoholic). My brother says only about once a week does our Dad get drunk. Plus he is not a mean drunk at all. My Dad's reasoning when I talk to him about this is just that he doesn't want to deal with my mother. So how do I motivate him? What do I tell my kids as they are starting to ask why do we not see our maternal grandfather. One asked if it is because he is black (my kids are biracial) but my father has not ever been racist.

Question: How can I get my mother to not tell me bad things about other people, also when she does how do I know if these bad things are true or not?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 11:52 AM PDT

Lots of things she has told me over the years turn out not to be true

Question: My brother physically and emotionally abuses me?? PLEASE READ!!?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 11:51 AM PDT

My brother always hits me, always says he hates me, always tells me to kill myself. He calls me a fatass, hes one of the main reasons I have an eating disorder. He makes me want to kill myself and he always hits me. He always lashes out on me. He always tells my mom he wishes I had never been born or that my mom aborted me. He took a Snapchat video of me crying and posted it on his Snapchat story where over 100 people saw it, some including really popular kids who always made fun of me and that fueled them more. He always tells me he hopes I die in a car accident. He always ruins my stuff. He punched my laptop three times today trying to break it. He's always trying to get me in trouble. Whenever my mom's mad he adds in so she gets more mad at me and I get my stuff taken away. He always tries to get my phone taken away because it's the only good thing in my life. Just an hour ago he dragged me out of my own room, hit me in the head, and just hit me multiple times because I didn't want to get out of my own room for him to search my clothes. (He was searching my clothes because he thought I'd stole his.) He never talks to me other than abusing me verbally, and he has choked me before to the point where I thought he was going to kill me. My mom doesn't care. When he was hitting me I ran crying to my mom's room yelling "He's abusing me, why don't you do something?? You don't care!!" And she looked me in the eyes with pure hatred and yelled "I DON'T care!!" I don't know what to do. I can't snitch on my brother to the police because my parents are getting divorced and my dad is a sick bastard so if I snitch it will look bad on my mom's side and I'll have to live with my dad!! Which I don't want my dad used to physically, emotionally, and verbally abuse me until I got a restraining order!! I don't know how to escape my brother. Honestly, I was seriously contemplating suicide just to escape him but I managed to calm down. The worst part is my mom doesn't stop him! In fact she encourages him by doing nothing! My mom has always favorited my brother over me and it's getting worse! I think my mom hates me! And I know my brother hates me, too. I don't know how to escape this hell other than killing myself. :(

Question: Is weird that my big sister(19) and my mom(41) to tickle me because they know i'm ticklish ? I am 15 years old. Are they showing love?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 11:34 AM PDT

hey only tickle me when I just spending some alone time and they'll both come in my room very quietly and grab me and start tickling me. They'll tickle me all over and when i ask them why they always tell me they say its for fun or i look like their young child when i blush and laugh . Is tis normal for them to do this?

Question: I hate my family so much?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 11:15 AM PDT

My sister is psycho. My mother asks her to separate the recyables and she starts hitting her! I have to deal with this daily, but instead of my mother locking herself she goes towards her and I have to get in between them. They like fighting being abusive. I'm disabled and I have to deal with this. I know have a head tic because of them fighting my nerves are shot. I hate them so much. To not care about their sick family members well being is disgusting.

Question: Is my girlfriend spoiled?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 11:01 AM PDT

She's a junior in high school, her first car was a $45,000 Volkswagen Touareg, she has 30 pairs of shoes most of which are expensive, her family always sits first class on a plane, for her 17th birthday she got 3rd row seats on the floor for a Justin bieber concert, she gets her nails done every 2 weeks, her family owns 7 nice cars, two nice houses one of which is a beach house, 2 boats, and much more. I know your thinking of course she's spoiled however she does have a job, and I'm not sure what she does and doesn't pay for I just know she has a job. Btw she works as a hostess making minimum wage, and she always tells me she's very thankful for all she has, and she gets an allowance for cleaning kitchen and babysitting her little sister.

Question: My step-grandfather touched me.?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 10:58 AM PDT

when i was 8(now 14) my step moms dad put his hand on my vjj in my pants. i told my dad and step mom and they are about to tell the police i fee bad for my step mom. any advice...?

Question: Is what I did right?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 10:47 AM PDT

My sister and I were fighting over her head phones when she could have just listened to the thing without them. She was using my BROTHER'S phone too. SHe stole it from him and now she wants to keep everything that belongs to her. She ripped them from me and I kicked her in the ***, and she fell and made a hole in the wall. Is what I did okay? She KNOWS I have anger issues but she keeps trying me. She fell and started to cry like the brat she is, and I told her to get out. I can't STAND her. She's been like this since she turned nine in January.

Question: Unsupportive mom?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 10:33 AM PDT

I am in a marching band program; which I have grown apart from and want to quit it. I want to experience other things, rather than me revolving around band the rest of my high school years. I have confronted my mom about it, and now she s angry with me for wanting to quit. I told her I d rather be sitting at home, not frustrated and happy than being at band absolutely miserable and that I ve grown apart from the program and do not want to have anything to do with it anymore. Help?

Question: Why the hell did my aunt in law hit my dad because he didn't tell her about her surprise birthday present?-_-?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 10:31 AM PDT

My aunts birthday is coming up and she was expecting her daughter to come over for her birthday and when she came over and my aunt was screaming and crying when she saw her sister and when my grandpa came to the house he didn't act surprised because he knew about it for a week and so did my grandma and now she's pissed at him. She told him to come here and she slapped him hard in the chest three times and pinched him and she wouldn't stop screaming at him over why he didn't tell her. My grandpa came to the car and my aunt said she owes him and that she was gonna slap him in the face. She should seriously be happy about him surprising her and she was already mad because she got picked up from work 15mins later after work yesterday because she was the only one-_-

Question: How can i get away from my parents?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 10:29 AM PDT

I'm 17 years old, and I'm a transgender boy. My parents don't agree or believe in being trans, so they still see me as female, and therefore think I'm gay because I like girls. They don't believe being gay is right, or even that it exists. They've continually expressed how much they really don't agree. A few days ago my mother and I had a fight about going to the Philippines with my long-distance girlfriend. It ended with me once again telling her I am suicidal, in which she responded by threatening to call the police and have a psychological evaluation done on me, which I'd been asking for for months. She told my father about this, and he had a long talk with me. Eventually the police did show up, but because my friends were worried and had called out of fear for my life. They determined I was fine. I've been speaking with my school social worker's temporary replacement (she had hip surgery) and he told my parents they had to get me outside help in regards to my depression and suicidal thoughts. My mother wanted to completely cut me off from my girlfriend forever, and my friends as well because "I could use their devices to contact her". My father didn't agree with that, luckily. Either way, neither of them accept that I am gay (and trans) and don't wanting me meeting her in real life. They say I can do what I want when I'm 18, but that's an entire year away. What can I do to get away from them? Get a new guardian? Get my future therapist to try to convince them?

Question: How many kids is too many?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 10:27 AM PDT

I think anymore more than 3 unless you have twins, triplets, or etc is ridiculous.

Question: I regret reacting to my family. why did i let it happen again?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 10:25 AM PDT

i am visiting from a different state. i know how my parents are especially my mom. i told myself no matter what they do, do not react and let it get to you. first, she did say rude comments but i just laughed it off and ignored it. then my mom kept insisting on me seeing her family. i dont feel comfortable and i didnt want to go. i told her a bunch of times, she wouldnt listen. she then took it tooo far and then i got so angry and reacted, i went nuts. it got worse with my father and brother because of it. it's like i knew better and i knew what she was doing, but why did i still react. she did take it too far, but i should of still controlled myself and knew what she was doing. she is mentally ill, i already know. that. now today i am acting all happy and myself and it pisses her off. i should of done that in the first place when she tries to push my bottons. im so tired of even having to go through this in the first place with people and finding different ways to deal with it when its their fault. its not fair.

Question: How do i find my phone, My parents took it away!?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 10:15 AM PDT

Before you say behave or just wow your so irresponsible, its not like that, even when my parents give me there phone they are constantly taking it away for no reason and im serious, no reason, so i want to sneak it, where is it? Ive look almost everywhere

Question: Help please I'm 12 year old girl and my cousin (Cassandra ) is 15 I wanna get along with her but she never has time what do I do help?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 10:10 AM PDT

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Question: How should I deal with my extremely stupid parents?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 10:09 AM PDT

Question: How do I sneak my parents out of the apartment during the day? I have never felt this miserable in my life.?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 10:09 AM PDT

I'm 14, I earn good grades, I'm respectful to my parents, and I always come home on time. I'm what you call a good kid. The problem is my parents are super strict, they wont let me go out with my friends, even if its just the mall or the café near my apartment. My parents wont let me have a social life. I m not asking for much really. It s not like I m going to parties or doing drugs. I just want to spend time with my friends, since I haven t seen them in so long.

Question: Would you like to wish a murderer a Happy 30 Year Anniversary since killing her sister?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 09:58 AM PDT

Sherry Villiard, at 14, stabbed her 18 year old sister, Annette, in the heart with a steak knife during a fight over what to watch on television. 4/1/16 is the 30 year anniversary of the murder. Sherry served minimal jail time after being found guilty. She went on to have 4 children by 3 different men; has lived off welfare most of her life; has ruined her own children's credit by taking out bills in their name since they were toddlers (and of course never paying them); possibly has warrants still out for bounced checks; stole her mothers (a Physician Assistance) prescription pad repeatedly, and is generally pretty dam happy that she got away with murder. Sherry's sister, Annette Villiard-Dotey was survived by her 8 month old daughter, who witnessed the stabbing. Sherry Villiard-Myers-Corbett FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sherry.myers.1420 Currently living in Unadilla or Bainbridge NY "12 THE EVENING TIMES, THURSDAY. APRIL 3, 1986 POLICE BRIEFS Teen Charged With Killing Sister In Fight Over Watching TV Show Covey, 53 following her arraignment Wednesday in Sidney Village Court on second-degree murder charges. Although technically a juvenile, she faces adult charges under a state law that allows teen-agers accused of serious crimes to be prosecuted as adults, Shaver said. Shaver said Sherry Villiard, who had been living with friends, went to visit her mother, Patricia Villiard, on Tuesday night." - https://www.newspapers.com/newspage/66201783/

Question: How to keep my dad from going through my phone?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 09:50 AM PDT

So my parents are recently separated and is constantly thinking she has found someone else. I know she hasn t but for some reason, he feels like she is communicating to "him" through my phone. So every time he sees me with my phone or on it appearing to be texting someone, he takes and looks through ALL my messages. We talk about everything and he knows I have nothing to hide but he does it anyways. How do I get him to stop? This constant invasion of my privacy is hurting our relationship and at this point, I d rather just put my phone on my own line but speaking I live with him, he s probably just find someway to go through it anyways.

Question: Why doesn't my mom want to let me do anything??

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 09:11 AM PDT

I applied for a job online 3 weeks ago and I have to go in for an interview I was supposed to go the week I submitted the application online I can't drive so my mom has to take me and she keeps making up excuses every single time like she doesn't want me to go get a job or something. It's pissing me off I'm 17 and I really want a job so bad I do nothing all day I just sit in my room like a loser with barely any social life and my mom won't take me which is not fair because my older siblings started f*cking working when they were 16 and my mom had no problem with it. I asked my mom if she could teach me how to drive this week and she kept telling me that she would but of course she never did. It's pissing me off I'm going to be 18 soon don't have a job can't drive or anything I feel like a big loser and I feel like I'm never going to get anywhere in life because of my dumb mom

Question: My mom treats me like her unresolved issues with my grandma?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 08:57 AM PDT

She treats me like my grandma treats her sometimes. My grandma has made me to look bad and she ends up looking good, so does my stepdad who is sort of like my grandma. I basically am the yongest generation here....so why am I to blame for all their unresolved issues? My mom doesnt have a clue. I understand that she is a victim too, but it is totally not my fault that my mom chose to do drugs and drink her whole life. Basically I ended up like my grandma in a way, alone with no friends. My mom has said cruel remarks to me, the same my grandma has done to her, when I was doing nothing but talking to her. SHe takes things so defensive sometimes, when I really am just talking to her. I have so many issues making friends, like I get nervous and dont know what to say sometimes and come off as shy or rude because thats how my mom is. She treats me just like how she would treat my grandma if she actually could and had more control with my grandma. Any aadvice? And also she comes in the way of me and other females and men. I know my ex friends really hurt me and my exes hurt me, so I think in a way shes trying to protect...but its very unhealthy because I need to be able to put my guard down but its hard cause my mom and grandma have really hurt me, especially my mom....but Im in a tough spot and back at home so I dont want to move again right now after moving 40 times in my life.

Question: Was I wrong for dancing sexy when my friends and their mother took me to the club? They said they were going to watch. I danced.?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 08:55 AM PDT

The mother said her daughter was a prude.

Question: A month left of college and I really miss my parents?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 08:25 AM PDT

I m a freshman in college and up to this point I really haven t missed my parents that much. But now with only a month left I am missing them so much. I have recently had strep throat and I have so much work to do and am super stressed, All I want is this last month to be over so I can just have the entire summer with my family all together. Why is it that with only one month left I miss my parents so much? Is there anything I can do to make me miss them less?

Question: Why does my mother not trust me?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 08:19 AM PDT

My mom freaks out when I try to hang out with friends. She asks who, where, when, and then wants their parents phone number and wants me home by 10:30! I m 16 years old and she had a practical meltdown when I wanted to drive around with ONE of my friends that I ve known since pre school. I m a good kid. I don t do drugs, I don t date, I don t have sex, I don t sneak out, and I make really good grades. My sister got pregnant at 18, was SUPER lazy all the time and dropped out of college within like a month. And she praises my sister. My dad is super cool if I want to go out and all he tells me is to answer when he calls. My mother doesn t trust me whatsoever and it isn t fair. Why is she like this and What do I do?

Question: My stepmum slapped me for smoking weed, it's the third time she's caught me, should I phone child line?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 08:04 AM PDT

I'm 13 and I don't drink, don't do drugs, all I do is smoke weed and fags. She came in my room because she smelt weed, I had a joint 30 minutes beforehand, she started shouting at me and I admitted to smoking a joint and she slapped me, it still stings and I'm telling my actually mum as she hates my stepmum and she will bang her out, my dad is being a cûnt and is taking my stepmum's side. Do you agree that she shouldn't of slapped me?

Question: How to stop my parents from criticizing me? :/?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 07:59 AM PDT

I'm a 14 year old girl and I don't have many friends just 4 true friends. I'm really devoted to school and I never get in trouble, I'm a good student. When I don't have school I like to spend my time playing video games and watching anime. Since I don't have any friends where I live I can't hangout with anyone and we only hangout in school with my best friends... my parents keep telling me to stop playing computer games and to work on the computer... I don't really work much on the computer because I'm busy when school starts, mainly with studying and doing my homework...I know I shouldn't be spending my time on a computer but even despite that I'm in athletic shape and underweight than what I should be... I wouldn't play computer games if I had friends who wanted to hang out with me but it's really hard for foreigners in the country I'm living. Anyway how can I get my parents to stop criticizing me for playing computer games and watching anime, when there's really nothing to do in the house anyway? I used to play sports but we had a really bad couch, nobody takes couching girls seriously in the city where I live :(

Question: Can I pass a virginity test even if I m not one? Please help!!!!?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 07:54 AM PDT

Okay so I m 13 and stupidly had sex with a black guy knowing my family is racist. Well me and him bring up and now he is telling people we did it. Now my mom s taking me to the doctor to get tested if I m a virgin or not. I can t tell her me and him had sex. 1 I would be killed and so would he. 2 she would cast me out of the family. So is there any way I can pass the test without then telling I m not a virgin?. Please help

Question: I feel like I have to love up to my sister and that's near impossible!!!!?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 07:32 AM PDT

My sister makes really good grades and she's really smart. She's in calculus in the 10th grade and she's doing IB. I'm no where near that smart tho I am smart so how can I live up to that

Question: Is it normal for teenagers to disrespect their parents?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 07:26 AM PDT

My mom is really pissed at me for saying something "sassy" to her and she said that I'm disrespectful and always seem angry when I talk to her. Now That I have realized it, is it common for teenagers to do that?

Question: Is this a weird thing or no?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 07:23 AM PDT

Myl question is that i want my dad to be rob Lowe if u know who that is great because I saw some of his movies and I know from the Internet that he has two sons and I always wanted a brother is that weird that I want him to be my dad?

Question: I have a relative who has been in jail for most of the last 10 years, is he no longer related to me because of this?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 06:40 AM PDT

Or would he still be a relative if he gets out one day?

Question: I got a message on Facebook saying my Brother has a Secret. What might it be? and who sent me the Message. What is he hiding?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 06:40 AM PDT

I think he's Hiding a Girlfriend but why?

Question: My dad was in an affair with another lady?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 06:32 AM PDT

my dad was in an affair with another lady before 4 years as my mom got to know about that, she stopped the affair however. but now after four years i think he has started another affair with someone else or with the same person.His actions are very suspecious and got some messages caught, my mom doesnt know about about this, i found this first. and i dont have any evidence to prove it, what can i do? PLS HELP!!!

Question: I'm 16 and think I'm depressed?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 06:27 AM PDT

I'm a 16 year old girl, my parents divorced young. I live with my mum and sister and see my dad every few weekends. I do home schooling because of anxiety, I can't asleep until last about 2:00am every night and get nervous when I try to sleep because there is nothing there to take my mind off things. My mum is really struggling with money, her bf cheated on her and is kicking us out of he's house in a few months, my mum doesn't earn much at all, she earns just over $20 an hour and I have anxiety and can't keep a job. I smoke, drink every weekend, do illegal drugs occasionally and I can't help it because when I'm sober I want to be dead. I went to a party last night and about 10 girls confronted me and started verbally ambusing me for no reason and I get angry quick so I skitsed at them back and got kicked out. Earlier that day my grandpa had a stroke and he can't talk or hardly move and they just pushed me too far. I was threatened, told to jump in front of a car etc. One of the girls wrote a status about me and about 20 different girls commented calling me all this stuff. I pretend I'm in the shower so mum can't hear me cry my eyes out. We're broke so when we get kicked out we will probably end up in a caravan park, i fail at school so I will get no where. I don't even know what my question is I just needed to let this out. So any tips on how to be happy would be good thanks

Question: Is my mom ok looking..she feels plain?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 06:05 AM PDT

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Question: What would you do if you found out your dad secretly watches gay porn?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 06:01 AM PDT

Question: How do I find out the truth help?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 06:00 AM PDT

so when my sister was home from Australia 18 months ago.my siblings and I went for a walk.they started talking about my dad.I never knew him cos he died when I was four they are older by 4 and 6 years they new him.everyone including them talk about like he was such a good person.so what my sister said came as a shock cos she used to talk great about him.she said how he wasn't a very nice man. my other sibling asked how did he do something to you.she then nodded her head said I don't want to talk about it.when the visit was over my other sibling was saying what did she mean she was insinuating to sexual abuse.I said it to my mum other family members they said not in a million years. how he used to have to discipline her cos she was extremely misbehaved like pushing an old woman down steps telling teachers they were cheeky .terrorizing my other sibling every photo as kids my sibling is crying cos she pinched her. I'm visiting my sister in a couple of months how to I get the truth I'm really worried freaked out.

Question: How to tell mom I have enough clothes?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 05:53 AM PDT

Mom does not trust me AT ALL when it come to clothes, I hsve more than enough that I never use but she still buys more no matter what I say, she should use those money on stuff I actually wants if she needs to buy me things

Question: I would like to register two recent purchases from bestbuyon03/29/2016 thry were firestick tvw/voice?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 05:37 AM PDT

Question: What do you think of my family April fools joke? Did I go too far?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 05:28 AM PDT

I called my brother and told him our mother was killed in a car crash. I told him the police had come to my door and where to meet me as the body was taken from the hospital to the funeral home. He drove to town (he lives four hours away) and his wife and mother-in-law drove him. His mother-in-law saw me and gave me a hug and I said to her "don't worry he will feel better, this may help" and just as he went to the desk at the funeral home I yelled "APRIL FOOLS" and my sons jumped out with April Fools Balloons and my mother was on the phone (she is out of town and was not in on it). So is this pretty funny or did I go too far? He couldn't call his kids back to say it was a joke so I see this morning they all have RIP messages on their Facebook

Question: Does this sound like he's forcing me to being a macho man either way, and is there a way to avoid it?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 05:22 AM PDT

My dad has been playing a stupid, immature mind game where I would either be forced to argue or hold it in after my dad had jumped to conclusions and raised his voice towards me, even before I could get a chance to explain it in detail He's been doing this ever since he took my eldest brother, a violent macho man at age 28 (then 25), to a program with my teens siblings that makes males metrosexual. His treatment towards me and me holding it in is also one of the main reasons why I had self-defamed myself as a registered sex offender when I'm not one. Basically, he's forcing me to being my eldest brother's identity while my eldest brother gets to be my identity as a metrosexual.

Question: Is there a way to have our genetics removed by surgery?

Posted: 02 Apr 2016 05:21 AM PDT

My estranged father died this past week. He abandoned me when I was three and I am wondering if there is a way to have his genes removed. I have a future on my mouth that this man had (I saw his photo on the funeral home webpage) and he died of pancreatic cancer so I may get pancreatic cancer one day like this bastard did. Also my mother says my voice is like his was which scares the SHlT out of me. So since the man abandoned me at age three and is thankfully in hell now I wonder how I can remove any genetic similarity to him. I was ten when I last saw this guy and am now 31. Is there a way?