My wife wants to go to a club but it is definitely not my scene. I don t dance at all and the whole dance music is kind of annoying to me. I m the type of dude that just likes to go out to dinner and have a couple drinks at the bar (with my wife) but shes just a lot more social than I am. I do trust her to go by herself but every time she comes home, I ask her if any guys hit on her and she tell me that a couple guys asked her to dance but she told them no. Plus shes wearing her wedding ring. I m going to be 30 this year and shes going to be 29. I would be more fine with her going if she went to more "mature" places to dance but shes into the whole techno trance music and usually, those clubs have a bunch of young kids with only one thing in mind. Maybe even drugs. I just feel uncomfortable letting her be around those types of people and that environment. we ve been together since 2010 and got married in 2014. Am I being too insecure?

I'm sorry for what I did, but when I win, I will shower her with gold. In the meantime, how do i make it up to her? I can't let her stay mad.

Hi. Before I began please don't judge harshly I made a mistake and I learned from it. I was having a secret affair with a married man for several months. We met on online at the time I had no idea he was feeding me lies at the time until he abruptly broke it off he calmed his wife found out and broke his phone I lost contact. Then out of the blue she messages me over Facebook asking for specific details about the affair I was truthful thinking since she already knew I might as well...give her closure so they can go to marriage counseling and fix their marriage. I told her about us having sex in her bed she didn't seem convinced until I described her house so she knows I'm not lying the next day she message me and told me he admitted it. However he was trying to say we only had sex twice when it was more then twice apparently he was lying to cover up more lies she never broke his phone she's not as incorrigible as he made her out to be. I told her he also told me he slept with someone else before me too, I apologized and suggested marriage counseling since they have kids and one on the way I feel terrible I won't sleep with married men anymore. Who is more to blame me or him? It seemed like she was putting the blame on me and was disbelieving of my story.

So my wife and I have been married for 16 years. I got married when I was 34. We went out to dinner with a couple that we have only met once before. So we were getting to know each other. The topic came up of how they met which was through an online dating site. And they told some horror stories around that. I also had a horror story around meeting someone through an online site and told that story. Afterwards, my wife is really upset at me because I've never told her that story. So I'm confused at why she's upset. I'm sure there are lots of stories that I've not told her. Some topics (like online dating) just don't come up. Can someone shed some light on this for me? Edit: I did ask her. That's how I got this much. But she didn't like my confusion and walked off.

Mentally ill from being in the military Prostitution to other men to survive Went to prison and smoked pcp and stay under the influence of weed

I've never been married before. I'm 95 percent sure she is the one. I've dated 10 women in my life and haven't been that sure although I did think about marrying one other. I'm very analytical so I'm just trying to think logically here. Thousands don't matter to me when it comes to love, but I just wanted to make sure...

I'm never planning to get married because of the divorce rate were in today. I just don't believe it anymore. It's a joke. But I do want to find a girl who I can have kids with and live with. I only had one real gf in my life for 3 years. I had lots of sex with girls now which is great but I still haven't found a girl to spend the rest of my life. I see all this guys with kids living with there girlfriends happy. There are all set. I get pressure from my whole entire family. Everyone asks me find a girl already. It's annoying. Most girls my age are either divorced, married or with kids or they all have bfs. I feel like I'm might be the thirty year old with no one. It's making me really depressed and I don't know how to cope.

My husband and I got married two years ago we have 14 month old daughter now I'm 7 weeks far they keep pressuring me to abort the baby just because my husband doesn't change diapers. I'm grown women.

We discuss this before we got married and agreed on when the time is right we will have kids. After 2 years he is now saying we need to prepare for children and we should have a baby. The issue is that I don't want any and find kids annoying and time consuming throughout the twos years of being together I changed my mind about the "lets have babies" thing. I developed as a person and I don't think I would be a good mom and it isn't due to the fact I cant do it but I don't want to. I told him about this and he is very adamant about this saying "you will come around" I don't want to disappoint him but I really don't think I will "come around". My family and his family are talking about when we are going to have kids and when will I get pregnant. I feel uncomfortable with the idea of kids and pregnancy I don't think it is for me. I have a career and I am finishing my degree I have plans for the future and I don't want to be the stay at home mom. Maybe I will change my mind (probably not) but right now I am no where near ready to be parent. Any ideas to fix with this situation or at least help?

I've heard a lot about western men going to Russia, Latvia and such places to find wives that are better quality women than those in the USA. But I've never heard how it turned out. Are they really more feminine, loyal and intelligent than western women?

We've read enough material online and in books to know that our son's diagnosis likely came from her, but we haven't really taken it into consideration from a marriage standpoint (like how we can't communicate because she processes information differently than Neurotypicals like me do); but she's unwilling to go get the formal diagnosis and claims it's a waste of money and a waste of time since she's still going to do everything she already does and nothing is going to change. I told her that if she had the label she didn't have to share it with anyone, she can just understand that she's affected by something that others aren't and that she needs to take that into consideration when dealing with people like me so she can logically be empathetic since it doesn't come intuitively for her. But getting that formal diagnosis locks it in that she has this condition and I think she wants to BELIEVE she's normal so she can feel like she fits in and she'd rather "fake it until you make it" and disappoint herself when she can't "make it". So, yeah, any suggestions on how to convince a stubborn wife who doesn't cooperate with me at all on anything?

I ve wanted to be a mom for the longest time. I was almost one when I was 18 but things did not work out. All I ve been wanting is to be able to love and care for a baby since then. Fast forward 5 years I m 23 married I have a job a house and I m going to school. My husband and I just decided we should have a kid he s younger than me by 3 years. I ve been asking him for months but now that he s said yes I m not sure I really do want a kid right now. I work weird long shifts and it s not like I can just quit my job. Not to mention that everyone says we should wait. Anyways what do you think I should do?

This is assuming you are in a married relationship, and that you can both afford it. I'm 26 and my husband turns 28 this month. Is 30 for a man too young to be having his first child? Or is it better to wait until we are in our mid-thirties? Mid-thirties is a nice age for me to have kids because I can "enjoy my freedom" for more years so to speak, but I feel like if I have kids younger then my body will bounce back faster. Thanks! Please don't say "when you're both ready" because that's not what I'm asking. Obviously it should be when both parents are ready. I'm talking age-wise here.

I am 20 in the same church. my wife Brittany went to the same church,and is now dead.,4years.before she, Brittany , died of her hand, andrea prayed over the phone for her(the two have never physically met, to my knowledge). grittany filed for divorce before she died. andrea says she would feel uncomfortable even after 4 years because she spoke to Brittany. what would cause her to feel uncomfortable?

Parents and / or step parents of little children: is having sex maybe once every week or 2 weeks normal because of being tired all the time? What's the average time you have sex?

Statistics say that 30/100 of men are raising other peoples children. My motto is better to be safe than sorry.

like Leonardo DiCaprio, David Spade, and Anthony Kiedis?

Uncle can be mean but aunt is leaving and breaking her promise.

I divorced that thing 30 years ago for cheating and have not spoken to it since that time. As far as I am concerned it was just a piece of rotted meat to throw out. Now 30 years later I get an email saying it was dying, so why should I care? I made no reply, it is certainly not worth my effort.

I woke up super excited 😆 because my husband and I did a DIY a couple weeks ago ( framed our windows) and of course I ordered curtains. A little background, my husband works night shift at the hospital. He sleeps in the day and works at 4 nights out of the week. When I got notifications that my curtains were out for delivery, asked if he would hang them up? He said yes but at 4pm it was 1:30pm he had kinda just woken up, it just errked me and we started bricking. He ALWAYS, with out fail... throughs a tantrum and ends up punching a hole in the wall. Then we stop talking to one another and then he apologizes and it's the same story all over again different reason. When is enough. we have 2 kids together. 3y,7y

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I can't explain my entire marriage here only we know the details but I'm having a hard time figuring out if this will work between us. I met my husband when I was 20 years old and I'm 27 now. He was 24 and now 30. My husband is Eastern European and we clicked from the beginning or so I thought. I struggle with social anxiety and depression and haven't made the closest connections to his friends or family. Let alone I would've had to learn the language to do that and I can barely manage to take care of myself. All of my energy over the last 7 years was full filling my wifely duties of cooking, cleaning and showing up when I needed to be present. My husband and I have a good intimate relationship but there isn't much friendship between us. We have been gentle around the cultural differences, but we just have never been able to connect. I don't know if it's my lack of being able to connect with anyone or if it means that we just aren't meant for each other. I really love the person he is though, but I have "friendship intimacy" issues, if that makes any sense. My depression and anxiety have made me super uptight but when I do let loose he is not responsive to me. He actually told me he will never understand my depression and dismisses it because of what he went through as a child. Everything is my fault in his eyes.

I'm really attached and love this person, and we want to get married. but I have doubts about our relationship. We're from different cultures and religions (he converted to mine), but with my family disowning me and the cultural differences, I dont know if we'll last. I also dont want to lose him in the hopes ill find someone who's close to my culture and end up being alone. I'm 33 and really want to get married and have a family

For a long time I struggled with it and then some years ago I accepted that it wasn't a passing "phase" and i talked it with her and she dismissed it. I didn't give up and she began telling me "stories" while we had sex that always invloved her being screwed by strangers. I would *** We got married and she shut the idea down. Over the years she would always come home on her occasional girls nights out really pissed and want sex during which she would talk about the guys who went up her and how they wanted to **** her etc. I told her to do it but it always stayed a little dormant. Then I got a call from her one day, I was away for work and she had been out for drinks the night before. she told me about a guy who had put some serious moves on her and had been really forward in trying to take her home. I told her "you should have" and she gave me the usual "dont be stupid, then a few days later she called and confessed that she had actually gone home and did him that night and was struggling a bit with the guilt etc. It took some convincing but she gave me the grotty details and she was a bit stressed etc and i assured her i was happy. I can still recount every detail she shared with me about the pick up, they went, what they did. It is my most cherished sexual daydream. It is like a nightmare in reverse; i was once terrified she'd cheat now i am addicted to the idea she would give herself to another guy, i like it that he had her, kissed her, lay naked with her. Is this weird?