He's a huge player btw...so, what does he need to take this pic with me for? He's a family friend....and we aren't even connected on Facebook

So my mom came home today sadder than usual it seemed and I (to make a long story short) after hearing her crying in her room like hard, I decided to go be nosy and search her phone. (At this point I started worrying about divorce but my parents never fight serious in front of us at least so I assumed this would never happen.) they just get in little arguments hear and there. I searched her phone and found (divorce attorneys cost, and apartments, etc.) I just right there broke inside. I'm so sad right now and can believe this is actually happening. I never thought my parents would be the ones to divorce. My mom asked me an odd question tonight and then followed up with ( is Dad in the basement and is he drinking. He said he was gonna stop drinking in September and start exercising again) I told her I didn't know although I heard beer bottles downstairs so I knew he was. But he only drinks like 2 beers a night so I'm really surprised this is a problem. (If that's what it is) I really don't know what to think. Once you are researching divorce attorneys, is there still a chance a couple can work things out? I'm so hurt right now.

My wife and I recently separated. Though I would love to fix things and rekindle the relationship, she on the other hand has made up her mind. And when I try to bring up the possibility of fixing things, she calls manipulative and selfish. She says she wants to be happy without me. She better off without me, she says. I love her a lot. We had our problems but not once I have ever stopped loving her. In fact, she has given multiple reasons to be the one wanting to leave, but here we are with her taking the radical decisions. However, it s not the love/sentimental part of the relationship that I will miss the most. I will miss her friendship greatly. Over the years she had become my closest and best friend. She knows everything about me, my strengths and weaknesses, my goals, my temperament. We did everything together. The vacations, the companionship, etc. Maybe it s my mistake I allowed her to become the center of my social life. She was my wife... What else could I have done? I know time will fill the void with something or someone else. But I honestly think I will never find another person that can replace that role she played in my life. She was my best friend. And now my best friend does not even want to talk to me. I feel alone and everything seems like a shore now. I sleep most of free time as I have no one to do anything with me anymore. I know what you re thinking. If she was a good friend, she would still be here. That s true for her. but for me, she was all.

I'm husband and I have been married for 25 years, only 5 of them we have been happily married. We have a 20 year old daughter together. The first 10 years I dated my husband things were wonderful. Then, he started cheating on me as I planned our wedding. Then when we were trying to conceive my daughter he got HIV from another woman. I somehow didn't get it and my daughter was okay, but things could've very well been different. I had a good job, but then became extremely depressed and stopped working. He then cheated on me 4 years later and just frequently cheats on me. Two years later he started a successful company, and we have amassed a fortune together. The divorce would give me a lot of money but I almost wonder if it was even worth it, so stay with him this long. He was a good dad to my daughter. He claims to love me. He tried to cheat on me again recently. I frequently tell him I want a divorce, he gets mad for a day, ignores it, then pretends like nothing happened. This happens repeatedly. He's in a weird state of denial about me wanting a divorce. I'm not sure why he's so confused. Our marriage has been loveless for at least 15 years now.

This is a rocky time. This marriage has never been weaker. I've been contemplating divorce for many months now. And before you say it's my fault for not using protection, I did use protection. If you say I shouldn't have slept with her in the first place. I agree with that, but it already happened. Mistakes have been made. What to do now?

So my wife and I have been having some issues. She recently took a polygraph test to determine if she has been sleeping around. She passed with flying colors. It made me happy. But shes coming home with bruises and it confuses me. The are on her arms and they are from fingers. Should I be worried?

I'm in love with my man and he loves me too. He recently proposed to me and we are.l very sexually compatible and happy in bed . I recently discovered that he has a small ********* and uses it on himself during masterbation on his own time . He opened up about it and told me it stimulates his g spot when he jerks off and the feeling is amazing when he c*ms. He said he'd never have anything sexual with a man ...it's moreso extra stimulation . Thoughts ?

I have no friends but my boyfriend is "miss popular he has many of friends and he invited like 100 people at our wedding so most of the guest will be his friends.. he has 5 groomsmen and I have only 1. I'm gonna be so embarrassed when we have to separate his side since I will barely have people.. I'm so embarrassed I could cry but my wedding is 1 month away how to stay calm?

I recently got my wife phone who I suspected of cheating now this guys thinks he is talking to her but it's me and I dont want to spook him or make it suspicious. My wife is away for a while and I have some time to play and try to get some answers.

My husband is considering a job transfer. We went and visited the area and got an "unwelcome" vibe. I decided to join a locals group on Facebook to ask about the area. The responses I received were flat out rude. Things like "we are full here we don't need anymore outsiders taking our jobs." Also many of them said that good jobs are very hard to come by which concerns me since I'd be leaving my job. I was just surprised st how rude people were. The money they offered him to transfer is about 10,000 more then what he's making now however the cost of living is also much much higher then here. A home that's worth 300,000 here will run you about 450,000 there. Would you not relocate based on social media and how people respond to you? I should mention we are moving from the Midwest to the South. I've heard southerners are not very welcoming to those who aren't from the south/their town.

My wife and I didnt want kids when we got married, my wife still doesn't, but Im more open to it now. Yet i feel it would be selfish to have one because I suffer from Major Depression and ADHD, also we do volunteer service monthly. Wife is pretty stern about it, but my mind and body are screaming "BABY!" I dont look at other women in a sexual manner, which is interesting, but my mind and body are screaming "BABY" when I see other women. I start to fantasize about other women in the sense of what it would be like caring for our child as a family. Fantasizing about them carrying my baby, as I support her in whatever way I can, kissing and rubbing her stomach. Rubbing her feet. How do I fight this? This sucks!

I have a friend and he is in the military. Currently he is forced to still have is ex spouse receiving all the benefits and he is giving her money from each of his checks. They are legally separated but the divorce isn't finalized because his wife is in hiding and is refusing to sign divorce papers or give an address to have the papers sent because she lives out of the state. Is there any legal way that my friend can be rid of his spouse without losing his military benefits or his job in the army?

My husband of 35 years has been cheating on me with this woman he has been with for 3 years. They see each other once a week, every week. Sometimes more than that. I found out recently that he has feelings for her and she has feelings for him. Hers are more stronger than his though apparently. It is both an emotional affair and a physical affair joined as one. I know because I finally found some emails between the two of what they've been up to the last 3 years. He says he can't have a relationship with her because he is married and that not to act on feelings because it's one thing to have feelings but another to act on them. Apparently they do everything together and people have asked them if they are dating but they always say they are just friends. Something is up if others around them see their chemistry. It seems he's having a hard time dealing with not knowing what he wants or is in denial or is scared. That's the only things I can think of. I think he loves her and will leave me soon...does he love me or does he love her?

What if that person had no agenda or expectations and just wanted you to know you were desired on some level?

I am engaged and about to marry in September. Any advice? Also you have any tips on sex? I have never had sex.

lets say you saw your children grow up you bond with them, many times they told you they love you and you told them you love them. and then 20 years later after your kid is born. your spouse files for divorce and confesses to you that she had an affair and the child isn't yours. you take a dna test and reveals that is not your child. would you still love and care for that child?

My husband and I moved to a beach town in April 2017. We both were employed things were going well we even purchased a home. In July 2017 my company went bankrupt and I lost my job. In August 2017 I found a temporary job until December 2017. In October 2017 we lost our home in a fire. In 2018 I couldn't find work. I taught as an adjunct professor at a local college for the spring and worked at a summer camp during the summer. In December 2018 my husband was in a terrible car accident and almost died. This year has been not so good either. I did find work in May but was notified last week that our department was closing and we are all being laid off October 1st. I finished my PhD and went to work at a university. There are only 2 schools within a 2 hour drive of where we are located. Everyone is telling me to change careers and just take anything like a part time bank teller or work in a local grocery store. I worked SO HARD for this degree and I feel like I'm throwing away my dreams so we can stay by the beach!!! I can't take much more of this. I have never in my life felt so depressed. I have pretty much given up on looking for employment at this point I've become so discouraged, we are struggling tremendously financially. He refuses to move out of this area because he loves living by the beach. Every night I take 3-5 Benadryl to make myself pass out so I can forget about all of this. I'm so miserable I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?

I am a Muslim and I came to the USA from Iraq in 2002, as an immigrant. My husband was born and raised in the USA. He belongs to a rich family. He is highly educated, good looking, and arrogant. I am belong to a middle class family. I am not highly educated because my family couldn't afford to send me to college. I am just a high school graduate. My father-in-law, who is deceased now suffered from cancer. He was a very nice man. He asked my parents for my hand in marriage, for his son. My parents agreed. Thinking that my husband is rich, highly educated, and good looking, they said yes. My parents thought they are making the right decision for me. But my husband used to look down upon me. He used to tell me that after he father dies, he will divorce me! I didn't know what to do? I didn't tell anyone anything. Despite everything, I did everything for my husband and his ailing father. I cook, do laundry and clean the house because that is all I can do. My husband and I never had sex! I never cheated on my husband but I am not sure about him! Since, my father-in-law has passed away, my husband has completely changed! He is so much nicer and caring now! He says, I don't want a divorce anymore! He says, he wants to remain married to me because he loves me. Why has he changed his decision? He is asking me to give him a chance. Why did he change his decision?

Sand to hold while I pushed her and she acted like it was hard for her, a buddy of mine said she should only be carrying the baby

Or is he a jerk

My husband and I booked a 7 day cruise with honeymoon room, non refundable. I can't make it anymore due to unforeseen visa issues. After checking with a few friends he asked a female friend of his, whom we've had multiple arguments about. I clearly communicated I wasn't comfortable with her and he showed understanding. She ended up couldn't make the dates neither but I'm super upset about it. If she said yes he's gonna just stay in the same room with her and maybe just one king bed on a cruise for 7 days and expect me to be ok with it?? I don't even know how to start the argument that's just so against even common sense to me. How should I approach this?

how old was you then? He still chasing? Hubby know him ?