Me and my husband have been together for 5 years so obviously the honeymoon phrase has worn off. He's a great man, he's very supportive, he provides for us. he's very loyal and I trust him with my whole heart. He said he would leave before he ever cheated. He's not that affectionate but I've learned to accept it.I missed that giddy feeling of not being able to take your hands off each other. I missed the excitement. I miss getting butterflies whenever I would get a text back. I missed that high. With our crazy and conflicting work schedules we'll be lucky if we even spend a weekend together. We both work crazy long hours so we only see each other when we meet up for bed time. I recently reconnected with a long time friend that I met when I was 21. I'm 30 now. I'm ashamed to say to say that I'm sort of mesmerized by him. He cleaned himself up nicely and so he's insanely attractive. We caught up on each other's lives and texted for hours and so I started to feel this crazy connection that I never felt for him before. I felt the HIGH that I was longing for. I haven't had butterflies in so long. I know this might seem shallow but my friend is more attractive than my husband. It's crazy because when me and my husband will go out to the store women will go crazy over him ( he's very buff) but i don't know why I find my friend so much more intoxicating. I always had a type I just grew to love my husband so I ignored the fact that physically he was never my type. Plus my guy friend is smarter than my husband. My husband likes to consider himself smart and I know he's trying to go back to school but he's sort of an air head.

My husband got a gift from another woman he calls a friend on his birthday. Then, on a most momentous occasion, I was surprised to realize that he wore it for good luck. He even went home to pick it up to make sure he had it with him on that day. Now he just told me that he called her to tell her that he wore it for that occasion. I don't even know what to make if this situation. I'm not saying he has acted on them but I think he may have developed feelings for this woman. Otherwise, I can't think of any other reason he would be doing this... am i being foolish?

Still together? Married again? Just living in sin??

So I'm 30, we've been together almost 5 years. Live together We started looking at rings the other week. And let me tell you it WAS NOT an easy path to get to that point as in I had to push for it because he didn't seem keen for a long time and I almost ended the relationship. Anyways so he now says he wants to get married. Deep down I feel sad that it had to come to that Anyways so we were looking at rings and I have told him I want nothing less then 1 carat. I would loveee a 1.5 although I know it's expensive but he does have a good paying job and can afford to buy it. The 1 carat is $10k. I saw he went back to he store without me and wrote notes on prices for 0.80 and 0.90 carat which were about $1k -$2k cheaper. It made me feel he doesn't want to spend much on a ring ??? How much should a guy spend ? Shouldn't he want to make me happy with a 1.5 carat?

What exactly does that mean? *after seeing our son off.

My husband and I are in our 40's with a young son. There's these two girls who live on our block. Once 14 and the other 15. We've talked to the ones who's 15 a bunch of times thou the other one who's 14 just moved in. I told my husband after we talked to the new one that she's such a sweet girl and he said yeah but she's no Olivia(she's the one who's 15) I knew what he meant because indeed the other girl is obviously prettier but I thought it was weird and rude of him to say that. I later told him that I thought his comment was out of line and he said well what would you say when you compare the ugly duckling to a smoking hot super model lookin chick. I was so disgusted with what he was saying but didn't even bother fighting cause I didn't want our son to see us yelling

My fiancé let her move into his house (one he owned for a few years), she signed mortgage to help him out too. On Facebook she posted she owned a new house, nothing about they owned it together, but acted like just she did. She let me know right away that "This is not a competition", even though it felt like she was telling me it was!!! Long story short we moved out and she got the house with two other roommates to help cover mortgage and we paid for a month after we left to financially help her out just to be nice but she still held it against us. Post Move Out: We were going to get a dog, but had to wait 8 weeks to get it, upon our news, she got one within 2 weeks with her fiancé. We were going to get engaged (been talking about it together and about rings) and he met with her about it too to try to connect with her) and she proposed to her gf the week before our engagement. She told my bf (at time) we could get married first, then surprise text that she is getting married in 4 months! Then her mom, my future ML, told use we needed to wait 2 years to get married because one wedding at a time (but we are like 3 years older and had been together much longer then her and her gf). On her wedding day she told us that she hopes to have a baby in a year from then, which happens to be around our wedding date which she is aware of. I made the motto "the best isn't always first, and life is not a race! It's about the journey and not the destination!

Out of 20 years of airing on TV, only one The Bachelor is married. Half of The Bachelorettes are married. For 90 Day Fiance, only 3 out of 20 couples divorced

do you think there is any hope for us to be together in the FUTURE. I have known him for eleven years and he is by far the best I've ever met. The entire eleven years I've known him he's always been a stand up person. I think we've only ever had one arguement the entire time we've been friends because we mesh so well together. We have a lot in common so we don't really have anything to argue about. We both are on the same level financially, spiritually, emotionally, and physically. He's always been the one person that I can relate to above anyone else. When I''m around him I feel a sense of comfort, I peace, I feel true joy. I've never been as happy as I am when I've been with him. He's everything I want in a boyfriend and I don't even have to try to mold him into what I want him to be. He already has it all. I realized that I've overlooked him all these years for toxic men. I realized that I'm in love with him. I was going to call him and tell him about how I felt or write him a letter and tell my feelings but before I got the chance he told me he was back with his gf. I've always been in a relationship and since he has morals he has never tried to make a move. this is the first time i've been single in years and years. But my relationships with those other men were toxic, draining, and full of compelete misery. I would like to add that While they were broken up we were texting and on the phone until 4 am, texting nonstop and he told me she was very toxic and everything. I feel like they won't last long because she's an extremely toxic person but I'm still depressed that I can't be with him right now. I told him to compliment me up i just need a moment to feel good and need compliments and he was like " You are electric so i know you don't need baiting up but you have an endearing smile, beautiful as always, captivating eyes." since they've been together he hasn't been texting me or calling me as much and I feel my depression getting worse and worse. I've been sleeping for 14 hours a day and even when I get up and go to work I still feel exhausted and the smallest of things will make me wanna burst in tears.

I love her, but not madly head-over-heals in love with her. I am comfortable, about 5-7 years from retirement (although I could retire in 2 if I had healthcare), and about 500K in assets with 2500/mo Social Security anticipated. I am concerned about retirement, though. If I marry her all my money worries will be over. And I am not getting any younger. She totally wants to get married and wants me to take an early retirement. Should I settle or keep looking for someone else? I don't really want to retire early. She wants me to so we have more time to travel, etc. She gets lots of time off.

All my friends did it to themselves. Just about every one of them planned to get degrees, but had to drop out of school because they had babies and could not afford to continue school. Just about all of them married the first women they kocked up, then got divorced, and knocked up a second one. They paid child support most of their adult lives.

Husband and future daughter in law caught making out.