So I just made a big jump and got on a plane to South Korea to take the first semester of my senior year there (I am from Oklahoma and this is the farthest away I've been by myself). It's not as sudden as it sounds and I've actually been planning it for almost a whole year, but I didn't account on wanting to go home so badly, especially after not even a week. A year ago I think I would have been perfectly fine spending four months without seeing anyone I knew but I screwed myself. Since I knew I would be leaving for a while, I wanted to see everything in Oklahoma before I left and so I ended up getting really close to one person over the summer as we spent the majority of time together. I really miss her and now I'm worried that she will move on without me while I'm gone, even though I know she's worried about me making a bunch of new friends here and forgetting about her. This is the first time a person has affected what I want to do with my future. Instead of traveling I'm now seriously considering staying in Oklahoma with her once I finish my semester. Is this completely stupid of me?

I'm very lonely, so the first person I feel slightly comfortable with I sort of cling to them. I tell them a personal thing about me, and then When they do something foul or show me that they were never really a friend, I internalize that and then look at myself as the person who was at fault. I constantly feel like there is something wrong with me. I'm 20 years old and I'm a senior In college. Growing up, I was very sheltered and I didn't get to socialize much. I'm very sensitive compared to the average person. I care too much about how others perceive me, and I believe people pick up on that and don't take me serious. How can I learn to not get comfortable with people so that if they do actually turn out to be a fake friend or they disappoint me, I won't be devastated by it?

How stupid are rednecks?

Some "friends" started drama with me over complete nonsense, got mad at me because I didn't react the way they wanted me to and I didn't take this lightly. These friends and I have told each other everything, I'm scared they'll tell other people my secrets and spread rumors? I know I know, they're not real friends and I shouldn't care, but do you think they'd do this?

Doesn't DJ Khaled look a little Indian?

I look at my friends list on Facebook a lot, and it says how many friends that my friends have. Today, I was randomly on there, and noticed that one had dropped from about 350 friends to 250 friends. Does such a rapid loss of friends suggest that they had a cull? They rarely post statuses, so it couldn't have been like they posted something and 100 people unfriended them. I am still friends with them. Do you think that this means they are still my friend/care about me? I have Aspergers, so find it hard to socialise. I have obviously spoke to this person before at University, but I am so naturally introverted that it is hard for me to do so, even though I want to. They see, to have 'unfriended' people who have better social skills with me, and engaged far more socially with them than I did. I am so glad that they didn't unfriend me, as they may not have realised it, but I would have been devastated, as I really care about them as a friend - my Aspergers just makes it very hard for me to show this. Do you think that they still are my friend and do you think that they still care about me? They just seemed to have 'unfriended' people who were much closer socially to them than I was - but then I find it so hard to overcome my natural shyness. They said this (below) before to me when I was upset: '[my name] you can always talk to me :) and I dont know of anyone who hates you you're such a lovely person. There are lots of people who care about you and want you to be ok'

I had a minor miscommunication/disagreement with my friend. I came to her confused about a topic and she started yelling and disrespecting me because she felt disrespected. My intentions were never to disrespect her. She then through something in my face that I had told her in confident (personal issue I'm dealing with). She keeps "shading" me on social media.

My best friend and I fight all the time now, and we didn't use to. It makes me feel very upset and I'm always on edge, irritated or sad. Sometimes/often she's really mean to me and doesn't treat me very good and I haven't been happy with my life in a while. It's very emotionally draining to fight that much..not sure if that's normal? I cry fairly often, also. There have been many times where I didn't want to be friends with her anymore because I'm unhappy and she makes me feel bad but I love her a lot and want to be best friends with her because we used to have a really good bond and I used to love hanging out with her. She used to make me really happy and she acted differently and was really nice to me. Now we get irritated at each other for small things and end up fighting every single day. Please someone help, I don't know if it's worth it to stay in this friendship.

two sex same straight friends tell each other they're hot a lot. say they want to spend their whole lives together. cuddle daily and also are together a lot. Is this normal friend stuff or a crush

I'm 13 and I have high function autism and i lack social skills, like if I'm with my friends or whatever and they say certain things i don't know what to say back to them and i usually avoid there question because i don't know how to respond, i asked my mom and she won't help me, since i can't get help, how can i improve my social skills on my own?

Okay before you call me a pedophile, creep, loser and all of that crap, we're both males and i been knowing him since he was 4 and i was 9, i hanged out with him then and still do today, i got other friends my age and he has other friends his age, is it just fine for us to hang out since i knew him for 8 years

I had a feud with a group of girls in school. But now i dont talk to them at all. It's been months since I've never spoken to them. Today i was standing along in the corridor reading a book. Then these girls came out of their classrooms and looked at me and stopped in their tracks.Then they kept looking at me for like a whole minute because of which i was feeling uncomfortable and wasn't able to read. Then they smirked and looked at each other and said something. Then stood over there for like another minute after which i left the place and continued reading and they left too. It looked as though they were making fun of and that they regularly do. We were friends at one point of time and something happened all those months ago because of which i broke the friendship and ive never spoken to them since. In fact they weren't really my true friends and that's one of the reason why i put them behind me.

Did she? it's from Phil of the Future

I had a feud with a group of girls in school. But now i dont talk to them at all. It's been months since I've never spoken to them. Today i was standing along in the corridor reading a book. Then these girls came out of their classrooms and looked at me and stopped in their tracks.Then they kept looking at me for like a whole minute because of which i was feeling uncomfortable and wasn't able to read. Then they smirked and looked at each other and said something. Then stood over there for like another minute after which i left the place and continued reading and they left too. It looked as though they were making fun of and that they regularly do. We were friends at one point of time and something happened all those months ago because of which i broke the friendship and ive never spoken to them since. In fact they were really my true friends and that's one of the reason why i put them behind me.

I look at my friends list on Facebook a lot, and it says how many friends that my friends have. Today, I was randomly on there, and noticed that one had dropped from about 350 friends to 250 friends. Does such a rapid loss of friends suggest that they had a cull? They rarely post statuses, so it couldn't have been like they posted something and 100 people unfriended them. I am still friends with them. Do you think that this means they are still my friend/care about me? I have Aspergers, so find it hard to socialise. I have obviously spoke to this person before at University, but I am so naturally introverted that it is hard for me to do so, even though I want to. They see, to have 'unfriended' people who have better social skills with me, and engaged far more socially with them than I did. I am so glad that they didn't unfriend me, as they may not have realised it, but I would have been devastated, as I really care about them as a friend - my Aspergers just makes it very hard for me to show this. Do you think that they still are my friend and do you think that they still care about me? They just seemed to have 'unfriended' people who were much closer socially to them than I was - but then I find it so hard to overcome my natural shyness. They said this (below) before to me when I was upset: '[my name] you can always talk to me :) and I dont know of anyone who hates you you're such a lovely person. There are lots of people who care about you and want you to be ok'

I need some advise, i recently moved from my hometown to a different province( about 1 and a half years ago) with my parents. I am 21 I have a great job here, an I like it where I'm at. But this province is known for older people to come and retire so there's not many younger people here . And all of my friends are back home. An I find it hard to make friends here considering it is mostly older people. I am thinking about moving back to my home town so I can have people to hang around with my own age and have a social life because as of right now I'm always in the house. If someone can give me some advise on what I should do stay where I'm at, or move back or other options that would be great thanks in advance.

So I have a friend who I've known since 6th grade (I'm a senior in highschool now), who's irritatingly needy. I allow her to use my phone to do her homework at school because her old phone doesn't work. At first I thought this was a one time thing but now she's asking for my phone everyday. Today, I refused to allow her to take my phone for 30 minutes to a different class (because she wanted to copy her homework) and she acts like I'm a bad person. She also constantly borrows my things, like my books and my graphing calculator. Also whenever I don't respond to her texts she will literally call me 10+ times. Why is she so irritating?

I have a few times. They delete me and I have no idea why it happens.

I'm a little tipsy rn so I'll try to be comprehensive. Sad time, thinking back to mistakes, one of which was cutting off contact with one of my friends because my best friend got into a big fight with them Essentially my best friend Nathan, threatened another friend, Clara because he believes she was spreading rumours that could get his sitter beat up. He's biased against Clara, and after a huge confrontation, well thought out psychological bullying and some threats that he'd get someone attack her at her place of work, I've cut off contact with the wronged party. I regret this but what can I do? I've told Nathan what I thought before sh*t hit the fan but he said he didn't care. I've been we're like 23 and I've been friends with him since we were like 10 but I know I'm on the wrong side. It's just easier to side with him. What should I do? And more importantly, how could I go about it. This all happened about half a year ago.

We went to hang out at a fair and the whole time she was texting her other friend and at some point in the night even called her on video chat when she was two seats over from me. she knows I don't like this other friend, she was a bad Influence on her (got her too dress trashy, obsess madly over every guy and wants to get their number etc)

What do you think hes doing??

I'm one of two freshmen in the orchestra, and I;m the only freshman cello. The rest are much lder and I feel like they all HATE me because they're so much better, and I'm weighing them down. Orchestra uses the time I would have a study so I have to do all my overbearing homewrk at home, and I have volleyball untill 6:50 most days, so I have no time to practice. I'm so behind everyone else and my experience has just been terrible, but I feel like it would be really awkward for me t quit at this point. And it's also just super embarressing so I hide from everyone at school that I even do orchestra.

So i have a friend from school, and last year we were good friends but she didnt end up in any of my classes this year so i messaged her hey on instagram to reach out and she just read the message and didnt reply but i noticed she also unfollowed me on instagram? i then texted her asking why she unfollowed me and she blocked my number! i then messaged her again on instagram asking what the heck i did and then she blocked me on there. im so confused

She has 2 different social media profiles an it's like she living a double life. I thought she was happy cause she posts funny things inspiring things an all that. She seems so strong like she can handle whatever happens to her but on her profile she anonymously expresses her sadness and giving up in her life with quotes to express it. Mind blown cause it just comes to show you really don't know what people are going through in their lives especially when they don't open up or publicly announce it. She doesn't draw attention to herself when she's the one who should be screaming for help on Facebook her where her family an friends are but no she's hiding it. I'm honored she showed her insta gram an followed me back I feel bad though cause I didn't know an I think I realized too late cause it looks like she's too far gone to be helped.