What to do if I feel that the mediator is putting pressure on me to sign the mediation agreement?

I don't mind my husband hanging out at a friends, having a few drinks... I do however mind him going out to a bar without me. Its my opinion and i know some will agree with me on this and some will not... i dont think that a bar is a place for a married man. It isnt right to go to a bar, get drunk and be without your significant other! I have expressed this to him. I specifically stated that out of respect for me id rather him not go to the bar. He completely disregarded my feelings and went anyways. I feel hurt and disrespected. How do I handle this? He doesnt see a problem with any of it and goes about it like it didn't even happen...urgh...

I've had so much go on in my life recently I can't even feel depressed. I lost my home in a fire in 2017, Someone hit and totaled my brand new car as I pulled out of the dealership last month, now I found out my job is ending at the end of October due to the company closing and my husband and I are going through a divorce. I don't even feel depressed I feel completely NUMB. I literally can't feel anything at all. If I do feel anything it's mostly anger. What does it mean when you can't feel anything and you are just numb?

my male friend is also in a relationship. He's not married though they are just boyfriend and girlfriend. I just recently reconnected with him and feel like we are more compatible. I also feel happier when I'm talking to him. It's just so easy and lighthearted with him. It's ALWAYS been a laid back situation with him. I think we've only argued once so we've been friends. We don't really have anything to argue about because we've always been on the same page about everything. We have a lot in common and share the same views about nearly everything. Where me and my husband are very opposite of each other. Me and my husband broke up a couple of times while we were dating and before we got married. When I say right my husband says left. We have different opinions on so much and it causes us to argue a lot. We have been friends for over a decade so it's not me getting excited for someone new either. I know all of his faults and imperfections. We came from the same background and we both had troubled childhoods He's not perfect but I believe he's a better match for me. My husband isn't affectionate and he never does romantic things. my guy friend is the romantic type, he planned an entire evening for his girlfriend from morning until night and I was blown away at how much thought and detail he put it into the date. I'm also very attracted to him physically so it's the best of both worlds. Problem is, he is in a relationship and I'm married. I asked my husband if he wanted to watch euphoria with me- my new favorite show and he said he wasn't into that type of movie. My male friend loves it so I texted my male friend about it and he said he could get into that type of movie so now we are talking about good the movie na you're not understanding. we are not watching it together, we are watching it in our own houses but only talking about it on the phone together since my husband isn't interested in the movie

Me & my husband are high school sweet hearts we been together 3 years now. I been helping him out every since he was homeless living in his car.I took him in my home with my 8 year old son. I gave him everything he wanted like food, a car for his birthday, I paid for dates & clothes etc.All I do is go to work full time 12 hr shifts sometimes 8 hrs & he use to work 2 jobs as well until he decide he didn t want the car I had gave him no more. So he got his own car but its not running no more & he is not working at all. The issues we have is he thinks I don t care because I talk over him, dont listen, got an attitude & thats not true. I stay calm everytime.Then if I let him talk he thinks I m not listening & throw a fit always trying to break up with me. He doesn t help me with bills or anything all he do is smoke weed & play the game. He gets very controlling if I don t do what he wants like sex etc. He wants it when he get ready and when I tell him I don t want to he gets really mad. Then if I m calm down & don t have an attitude asking him whats wrong like 3x he ll say leave him alone and walk out the door to his friend house doing what he wants to do and if I do the same thing its a big problem. He ll yell, cuss & screams at me and I don t say anything when he does that to me at all or cuss. Everything I do its an issue like he doesn t want to see me happy because he is not happy no more I guess. He keep taking his ring off and takes it off when he is mad. What should i do?

Why do you women keep your sex toys a secret from your husband or boyfriend? wouldn't it be more fun to share them with your partner?

My vehicles battery died while I was at the store, 2 miles away from home. I called my husband so he could come give me a jump start. He immediately started yelling at me because he was gonna have to get up. It's 12:30 on the afternoon btw. Then he said he can't come because giving me a jump start with screw up his battery. He has a 2015 Cadillac CTS. I have a 2006 Buick Rendezvous. Is that true? I think he should have came to help me anyway. I'm sitting in a hot car (92 degrees) waiting for AAA

So I was with him for 8 years- I dropped out of college and worked with him on his business and took care of everything from his bills, finances to cooking and cleaning the house. I did a whole lot more also.. Anyways he began using majiuanna at first for medical purposes for his "stage fight". I knew he would become addicted to it which he did.. He is smoking every single day now the minute he gets out of bed to at night.. his oxygen is even down to 83 when tested. We had a baby a year ago I've asked him not to smoke around the baby but when I'm not around he smokes with the baby while he's laying in bed and claims the AC unit carries it away.. Also about 6 months ago he started on psilocybin mushrooms and he's mico dosing every single day.. Naturally his entire personally has shifted, he suddenly believes he's never loved me all 8 years of our relationship.. I have loved him very much and Ive wanted to get married and have a family since the first year we met. I am crushed but also very upset he's done this not only to me but our baby too.. I am afraid to have my baby around him because he's very irrisposiable with how he leaves his drugs- the baby has grabbed his pipes full of weed. what can be done? I live in CA and I don't think the court is going to see weed as a issues but it really has destroyed my family and the smoke is harming my Childs health. He also has horrible mood swings, his personality can change on a dime..

That what my mom always me.

And yes I am paranoid. Zoom in on his eyes, maybe I'm imagining things but I am failing to trace the path his eyes are following I need help with this please She has been my friend for 30 years and no offence to her, she's not even attractive and as an answerer said... there's nothing to look at

Here is my problem: I (stupidly) told my wife I was out for drinks and another woman kissed me. I admitted I "kissed her back" insofar as I let it happen. But then I corrected her and removed myself from the situation, told my wife, and even agreed to no longer have contact with this former friend and colleague. This incident occurred the day after my wife and I had an argument about how cold and distant I felt she had become. Zero physical intimacy for year long stretches at a time or more, very little common intimacy in general (touch, compliments) and we are in our thirties. She sees no problem with this. It kills me but I love her and our kids and our life overall. I was out after work the next day, confiding in this friend and this happened. She immediately threatened divorce but has settled into an amicable roommate relationship. She's happy with this. I want more. She still says she can't forgive me. I'm now trying to do a marriage Fitness program solo. She won't participate. It all has me very depressed as I feel I ruined everything with this one poor choice and I'm not sure how to proceed from here or why she won't invest in recreating our marriage. We have two young children too.

He is my husband and she is my work friend

My husband loves me and I love him but he pays great level of attention to the details. And trust me, I do all I can to look as well as I can. But he will always spot the tiniest imperfections.. he says that perhaps just to say it, he feels proud of his detailed-oriented personality, but it annoys the hell out of me. I am perfectionist too so if someone points out an imperfection (no matter how kind and tactful) I just feel like I am a hopeless heap (especially because there not always is space and time to rectify the error). He also notices immediately if I have new clothes on, or anything else is different (slightly different make up). I hate him to notice all this. I just would so much preferred he sort of "believed" I woke up like this. I don't like men loudly notice I actually do effort... any thoughts?

His wife is on the left of him and I've circled him

Recently got married. Husband neither love nor care. Still searching another girls for flirting. Most of the time sits with his mother what to do.

My husband and I are very happily married, but a lot of the time when my cousin is over, she always stands/sits right next to him with her breasts basically in his face. He has told her to kindly stop but she is always doing it. She wears revealing tops and tries to talk/joke with him about them...I'm surprised she hasn't tried to take them out for him or put his hands on them. They are quite larger than mine. What would you do in my position? Do you think he will give in and cheat?

I'm 38 years old and my bf of 2 years proposed!! Of course I said yes as it's the most loving guy I've ever met and we are so happy together! His family is super nice to me and very supporting! On the other hand my parents are being really mean...they only met my bf once and hated him cos he is not "handsome" and doesn't have a really good job...over the last year I'm trying to make them understand that I'm very happy with this man, he is handsome for me and he is a hard working person, earning a good salary but they refuse to listen....they made a lot of hateful comments about him and told me they feel sorry I am their daughter, that I'm alone in this,they will not support or be there at my wedding , they even asked me to sign so they can put the house they bought for me on their name cos they will not accept me living in that house with this man and they dont talk to me anymore...it really hurts cos they didn't even bother to meet him and his family, all they care about is their image and what will people say that their daughter didnt marry a rich , good looking doctor....I'm depressed and I dont know what to do...its supposed to be a happy time in my life and they ruined everything....

My husband and I have been together since we were 13 years old. He was my first as I was his. He recently told me that he wishes he had more experiences with more women. After much discussion I have allowed him to venture... Almost like a hall pass... Anyone done this before? Am I stupid for doing it? Opinions please

After college, I dated a college friend for a couple of years. We used to sext each other all day from work and and from home and usually we'd be bursting with desire by evening to meet up.. sometimes I'd even go to see her at her lunch break for you know.. It was a very passionate relationship- nothing like how I am with my now wife. My wife and I have sex and we both get off but it's not like how it was with my ex.. sexting each other, living apart, struggling to meet up and finding places to get some quick action.... sometimes just a remote spot to park the car and play with each other late at night. Sexting was the most fun part.. all day long the phone would ding and the excitement of finding out what she wrote now.. that was the best. Two years were great and then she moved to california and a year later even I left nyc. We flew back and forth to meet up.. By now we had a little bit of good money flow and didn't need to sneak around. But the distance couldn't hold the relationship for long and we broke up. I had a lot of changes in my life happening at the time so once broken up, I lost all contact with her. She lived in Cali and I was in the east coast. I didn't even know anyone she knew. A few years passed. I met someone, got married, had a baby etc. Two months ago I went to LA for work and it brought back memories so just for the heck of it, I made an effort to look up my ex and found out that 7 months after our break up she died in an accident... [continued].. She was walking on the side walk when a speeding car hit another car and that car hit her. I was told she was in pain and conscious when they brought her to the hospital... died after couple of hours. After breaking up with her, we wrote each other a few emails and then nothing. Since she never made contact again.. I just assumed she had moved on.. I'm shattered to know she was dead for the past 4.5 years and probably looking down from above and probably hates me :((