We are 28. We met on tinder 7 months ago and started dating from there. Our relationship was good for the most part except for some anger issues. she had issues where she would get mad at me over nothing. She accused me of stealing from her ( I would never, it's not in my character.) About two months ago she told me she was fasting and stepping away from me. She said God told her that I was dangerous. That was crushing to me. I already have abandondment issues from a troubled childhood and being in foster care and fear of people leaving but I feel like with her it was justified because she always threatened to leave me. One time she walked out on me while in a public restaurant. she broke up with me there. I'm always the one trying to be calm and rational and make things better. I asked her why are you being so aggressive and antagonizing with me and she was like " This is who I am. this is how I treat people. " And I was like " If you are aware of how you treat people don't you want to change? My friend died several years ago and the anniversary of his death was three months ago and while I was looking towards her for comfort and to help guide me through the pain once again she was an opposing force and she was acting mad at me for something else. The image of his lifeless body is still stuck in my head. She wasn't empathetic at all. I have a lot going on and I don't have a support system and I wanted my future wife and girlfriend to be that for me. I started thinking to myself " OK this doesn't seem like someone that I can count on to be there for me like I'm there for them." I accepted the break up and decided that I deserved bette That very day a long term friend of mine contacted me and we vented to each other about our relationship problems. She was going through the exact same situation as me and it felt nice to have someone actually listen and understand me. We both have abandondment issues and come from troubled childhood I was telling my friend " My ex is a smart girl. I am sure she will be fine but I think I deserve better and I'm willing to wait for whoever better may be if necessary." Update 4: My female friend was like " I'm sorry you're having to go through that I believe my girlfriend had sensed that I was growing a close bond with my friend because she texted me and said " where are you" about 10 minutes late my gf texted me and said " You have a way of making me feel cared for even when im being difficult. you really are the best man ever. you are a storm calmer and i love you for being so patient. i hope your day is awesome. youre amazing and i would be a fool to lose yo She was like " I have a right to change my mind. I haven't always been right in my actions towards you. I can be sweeter, more kinder, more encouraging. I can learn how to love you better. I can change Of course, a man is weak for a woman and I am weak for her so I took her back. I was surprised to hear that because it was everything she stood against. It's been about a month and we haven't had any issues, but a small part of me worries if that will surface agai

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My sister constantly treats my brother-in-law like crap & I'm sick of it. I keep my thoughts on this to myself, but there are times where I just want explode & come to my BIL's defense. He's a good guy, laid back, & super respectful towards our family. They've been together for almost 20 years. She treats him like **** in front of everybody, but he's always super patient with her. I mean, he'll raise his voice at times, but he tries his hardest not to. She's just always been this way growing up, but now that we're all grown, she doesn't direct that attitude towards any of us anymore, everything is now towards my BIL. My BIL & I spoke about this situation before. I've told him that there are so many times where I wanted to come to his defense during their arguments. He tells me "No, it's okay," & the reason he's patient is because he doesn't want anything to come in between my family & him. I mean I know it's their marriage & they should handle it themselves, but I'm just sick of it. I've asked other for advice & they just tell me that every marriage is like this, but I don't think I've seen this level of verbal abuse in any other relationship. They've been together for so long & they have 5 kids together, her bestfriends are his siblings & he's really close with us too, so I'm sure neither one wants a divorce or anything like that either. Maybe my sister needs some anger management? Maybe a vacation for just the two of them? Marriage counseling? I'd love some advice please!

So my brother got married to this crazy ***** almost a year now ago I told him not too marry her because they would fight almost everyday. she's a narcissist and she's always wondering why she has no friends she's tried to ruin me an my brothers relationship because we are close an she doesn't want anyone close to him but her. And she already ruined my sisters an his relationship already she's a life sucking leach. Anyways now you have a little back story the other day his now wife called the police on my brother about 3 days ago and said he was beating her and when she called the cops it was around 3am. WHEN HE WAS ASLEEP!!! I woke up too a phone call from the state prison last Monday a few hours after he got arrested. I bailed him out it was about 1,000 with a bonds men and I'm only 19 so that is a lot of money thrown away because he's going to get back with her!!!! WTF IDK WHAT TOO DO ANY ADVICE? Am I wrong too be mad that he's going back. I love my brother but I don't know if I can continue being in his life when she's in it. I guess she's getting what she wants.....

I have no idea what to do. My son is 6 months old. I love him to pieces. Just the thought of Leaving him is tearing my heart apart. My wife has her brother and his wife coming along. We were planning on going to California and see Hollywood and stuff but the thought of me leaving my son has me worried. Also my wife has him staying with people he doesn t know

I'm 30, live with bf Been together almost 5 years So I've been hinting at a proposal for the past year and have had nothing. Going overseas next month and he knows it's my dream to be proposed to overseas and still no talk of it The other day I stopped to look at rings in a store window to see his reaction and he didn't want to go at first and then said okay only after he saw me upset (broke my heart) I brought it up with him and he says he was scared to go in and marriage is a big thing. When I Asked if he had any plans to propose in Japan he said he won't take a ring overseas. Told him I need to move on and take a break because we are Cleary not on the same page. So I take my things to mums for a break. 2 days into the break he wants To see me and wrote a long letter saying he sincerly wants to spend his life with me and He will propose in 4 weeks time and plan the wedding for 12 months. My question is I now feel like this only happened because I pushed for it and I'm scared his just saying it so he doesn't lose me?? I have told him this and he says it's not that and he was just slow to make it happen Any advice....

My husband and in-laws don't like the idea of me working out with weights because they think it's making me unfeminine and that my husband should be lifting weights instead because he is not muscular enough due to his somewhat low testosterone levels which he hates. Should I do as they say to avoid arguments with them?

I think they should add in a marriage vow about taking care of your body. I'm not trying to be insensitive. I'm willing to pay alimony or whatever else she wants. I just want to not sleep beside a walrus who makes the entire room 5 degrees warmer and the bed slant sideways.

For example if my wife and I separate and she is my estranged wife and I fall in love with someone else and have sex. Then my estranged wife and I reconcile. Am I guilty of an extramarital affair (this happened)?

I've been married for a few years now and will not be having kids. My wife and I have adventurous lives. We are into mountain biking, hiking, snowboarding, going on road trips. Just generally being outdoors every spare min we have. We also have 2 dogs. Kids are not for us. All my friends who have chosen to be child free have the same reasons for not having kids. They have too much going on their lives and are not willing to sacrifice their hobbies and interests for kids. Now all my friends who have kids are the opposite. Their lives before kids were fairly boring. Go to work, come home, eat dinner, watch tv, do it again the next day. Weekends would be lounging around at home, going shopping, or maybe going out for dinner. No real hobbies, interests or anything they were passionate about. Some even expressed how they felt their lives had something missing. So is it common for people to want kids because their lives are boring?

2 year affair. His wife found out about us. She is pregnant. Kicked him out. He said he wants her and his children and not me. He barely talks to me. We work together. From confessing our love daily to not even talking now. Is it really so easy to move on? He even has her photo as his Screensaver now. Blocked me off all social media and communication. My heart is torn. Is this a norm when an affair takes place? Will he think of me? He said he never loved her but now it seems as if she is his life. She hasn't taken him back home yet. He is living with his uncle. Did he have a change of heart or were there never any feelings. I feel she's manipulating him by threatening him to never see his kids again. But I really don't know.

Telling a young teen girl who questioned him about genders, "Don't mess with me, kid." Then grabs her by the arm?

we send a few pictures of my naked wife to friend that she wants to have sex with and she desided the friends to send it to is this normal?

Everytime I try to walk out on my husband whom my family set me up with, he always convinces me that he is all that there is and no one else will ever measure up. And plus, we have two kids which he forced me to have before turning 35 out of fear that it would be difficult to conceive after that. Why is that? I know there are news stories of wives abandoning their marriages, especially for their manstresses, or male mistresses, and being murdered by their husbands. @Coach Simon-My husband is worried that I will meet the wrong people. My husband is nothing but controlling, paranoid, and possessive.

My husband and I have been married for about 3 years through the beginning we both had a really high sex drive and it was great. After our son I started not to crave it as much due to pain or this lack of affection. He also use to due romantic gestures nothing that cost but small stuff. He was sweet on me, he would kiss me to wake me up etc. But something hasn t been right. Now it feels like a rejection or uninterested in kissing me, we don t cuddle anymore, he spends his day at work then after spends the time smoking till the kids to bed and when he and I are together he will touch me sexually but when I told him I wanted to slow down a bit to make it more loving and pasionate before rushing to have sex and he gets irritated. For a couple weeks I just caved we had sex everyday but our relationship didn t change outside sex and then I had a tiring day and wasn t in the mood he got angry acting like we never have sex.. Now I can t barely get in the mood because I just feel so used. Please without judgement I just need some advice. I just feel lost :/

Or tell my parents

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. so we dated for a few weeks. And on one date we decided to have a shroom trip at a really beautiful park. We stumbled upon a really strange tree, so we decided to settle on the bench beside it. This is when the trip started to kick in. The energy around that area felt a little strange. At the peak of our trip, we started slow dancing to a vintage jazz song. Shortly after, I begin to cry because I thought I had found my soul mate. Little did I know, as I looked over to him, I noticed he we crying too. it felt like we were on the same page. Suddenly, it felt like we had traveled to the future and it literally seemed like our wedding. We looked a little older and the music kept playing. It just felt like I found my soulmate and our spirits became bound to one another. And shortly after, we both snapped out of it. It was just a very extraordinary psychedelic trip So here's the thing. We recently split a few weeks ago and so I've come to the realization that I love being single and I want to improve my passions and become a better human overall but there's still one thing holding me back. That weird soul bonding moment. I feel like I won't truly have closure until I feel like my soul is free Anyone out there who can give me a thought or suggestion on how to get a soul divorce? I know it sounds extremely weird, and dumb, and just a trip but I wanted to know what y'alls thoughts are.

I had a baby 5 months ago, he passed away. I have a chronic pain condition and take care of our 2 year old son full time It hurts my feelings when he makes comments that he has asked me to workout. And im not doing what he asked and it s making him mad. Should he even be telling me this? Im 135 lbs 5 7 . Yes out of shape as far as being toned but not fat. I would never di this to him

So my husband needs to do a DNA because he don't know if the child is his but we think it is & the girl says so as well but the baby is now 1 year & 6 months so she's asking for childsupport ( NOW) but she didn't want him to be involve in anything that has to do w the child ever since she was pregnant , till today . The reason they are doing a DNA is because childsupport but my husband don't want to pay child support because she doesn't want the baby to be w him . He offer her that he would provide the child w cloths and Necessities but she denied that she only wants money . & we know she's w another guy that has been providing the baby and her . So our question is , does he needs to pay child support if she denied his help and she' has a parter now that has been w her for 2 years ??? Also we do have a child that's 5 months old and we pay rent and bills plus the baby stuffs is there anyway he could give up the child since the mom doesn't want anything w the father . Since he never sign the paper because she didn't want him there as well . ??? She abuse of him as well and he was a minor .