We've known each other for 3 years. We've been friends for 2 years. I've been in love with him for 2 years, but have never said anything or tried to show it. Why? He's happily married with a family and as of almost 5 months ago, I am engaged to be married. My friend and I used to be a lot closer. When I started being friendly with his wife, he started to be a little distant, but not always. The past month, he's been extremely distant. The last time we had some one-on-one conversation, we talked for 45 minutes and he even brought up a money issue he was having with his wife. It was such a good conversation and I always feel I learn a lot from him about different things. There's never an awkward pause. I asked him for a favor a few weeks ago and he said he didn't think he'd be able to do it because he already was helping his neighbor that day. I imagine it was a valid excuse. Ever since then, things have been awkward. I saw him at church on Father's Day and he seemed to be looking around for somebody and when he saw me, he smiled and put his hand up to say hello. The next day, I wrote him and said I was sorry we didn't get a chance to chat, that I hope he had a good Father's Day and that I hope him and the family are doing well. No reply from him. Yesterday, one of his coworkers came by my job (our jobs are a minute from each other so I see his coworkers a lot) and he was wearing a really ugly company shirt. I wrote my friend about it and asked when they got such tacky shirts. It was a message that required a response, but he read it and didn't reply. He posted a status last night that I left a cute, jokey comment on and he didn't acknowledge it. Why do you think he's ignoring me? I should mention that he's never once acknowledged my engagement. He's looked at my ring and not said a word and every time I have brought up my fiance, my friend acts like he doesn't want to discuss him, but they know each other and always get along well when they see each other. P.S. We've flirted a good bit over the years, nothing sexual or inappropriate. He just tends to be very sweet to me and is always happy to see me. He's done some pretty cute things towards me, but I won't mention them here because it would make this too long.

Iam 42 with a son and wife. I know I've messed up big time and I know I need to man up and own this situation any tips? I've been dishonest to my wife and have cheated on several women. Though one girl I've been having a relationship with is only 16 (which is legal in our state) is pregnant from me. I really don't know what to do how to explain this to everyone especially her parents and my wife. I also don't know what to do now with this baby.

We've known each other for 3 years. We've been friends for 2 years. I've been in love with him for 2 years, but have never said anything or tried to show it. Why? He's happily married with a family and as of almost 5 months ago, I am engaged to be married. My friend and I used to be a lot closer. When I started being friendly with his wife, he started to be a little distant, but not always. The past month, he's been extremely distant. The last time we had some one-on-one conversation, we talked for 45 minutes and he even brought up a money issue he was having with his wife. It was such a good conversation and I always feel I learn a lot from him about different things. There's never an awkward pause. I asked him for a favor a few weeks ago and he said he didn't think he'd be able to do it because he already was helping his neighbor that day. I imagine it was a valid excuse. Ever since then, things have been awkward. I saw him at church on Father's Day and he seemed to be looking around for somebody and when he saw me, he smiled and put his hand up to say hello. The next day, I wrote him and said I was sorry we didn't get a chance to chat, that I hope he had a good Father's Day and that I hope him and the family are doing well. No reply from him. Yesterday, one of his coworkers came by my job (our jobs are a minute from each other so I see his coworkers a lot) and he was wearing a really ugly company shirt. I wrote my friend about it and asked when they got such tacky shirts. It was a message that required a response, but he read it and didn't reply. He posted a status last night that I left a cute, jokey comment on and he didn't acknowledge it. Why do you think he's ignoring me? I should mention that he's never once acknowledged my engagement. He's looked at my ring and not said a word and every time I have brought up my fiance, my friend acts like he doesn't want to discuss him, but they know each other and always get along well when they see each other.

Like a air machine at the hospital bring me back to life or a doctor do surgery to save me

I have moved out of my ex husband place and got me a 3 bedroom trailer of my own . Well I left him and I tried to get my ebt card which has my name on it and I even allowed him to get groceries for my younger 3 kids which he is primary parent over and we have joint custody he is actually responsible for them when he has them Well I have them I am responsible for them and I tried getting the cops to help me with getting my stuff but they wouldn't do so . So I had to go but he wouldn't give it up so I cancelled it so he wouldn't spend everything I had left for my other kids now I allowed him to get hundreds of dollars worth of stuff if not more before doing so now he saying I am neglecting my children no I am not a am protecting what my other kids have and also thinking about them and I am doing what best for my kids and got out of a bad situation

I don't know how to make a grilled cheese

Me (23) and my husband (28) have been together 6 years. We only have sex maybe once a week. Sometimes longer. He's bee. Like this since we moved in together 5 years ago. Sex only once a week or once every 2 weeks. I try to wear revealing clothes. I get nothing. I read about couples having sex multiple times a week. So what's wrong with my marriage???

Me and my husband have been together 6 years, married one. I'm 23 he's 28. I've noticed when seeing porn on his phone its girls that look nothing like me. Usually tiny asians or petite brunettes. I'm redhead who's 5'5 weight 140. Defiantely not petite. Also his ex is a tiny brunette and he has cheated on me before with a girl who was ALSO a tiny brunette. I seriously am questioning if he's even attracted to me? I used to have problems getting him to have sex with me. Him always saying he's tired from work blahs blahs blahs. After we had our baby, (now 1 year old) I've stopped really caring because I'm tired all the time. Thoughts???!

I'm fixing to sound really petty because I overthink everything. I posted a selfie of me on Facebook and my husband usually likes it, but this time he didn't. He did like a picture of his ex wife's memory of their daughter they have together. I'm wondering why he didn't like my picture. Should I bring it up? I know I sound really petty and it shouldn't bother me, but it does. What does it mean if he didn't like it?

Could I get your take on the following analysis, as far as correctness and validity: Collectively, these guys have wives who didn't realize they were supposed to be putting out in exchange for the stuff, status & things they get from the marriage: 50 percent of guys get divorced; 20 percent of non-divorced guys are cheating full-time Collectively, these guys have wives who understood they were supposed to be putting out in exchange for the stuff, status & things they were getting. The wives strengthened their hooking abilities, with the following effects on the guys: 15 percent developed a healthy porn habit; 5 percent give up on life with a shattered soul and robot through the rest of it; 9 percent drink themselves to death or suicide via another method; Leaving 1 percent of all guys truly happy. These numbers (50, 20, 15, 5 & 9) are the established behaviors of married men. My working hypothesis is to separate them into two groups based on 'hooking' capability of their wife. The 30 percent who fall into the category of having a wife who understands the exchange system, and is in effect 'hooking' with the husband, should be clarified to describe a wife who understands this, but begins to restrict sexual access once she begins to attain the status, stuff and things in exchange for the sex.

Me and my ex were married for 15 years before we got divorced. We also have a 12 year old daughter together. I learned he was having an affair with one of his Co workers. When I learned about it I kicked him out of the house and filed for divorce. We tried to make it work but we realized it was better to divorce. My husband has our daughter every weekday, while I have her on the weekends. Last week my daughter told me that her father and his mistress were getting married, and the mistress is pregnant with twin boys. Me and my ex have been divorced for 2 years now. My husband is a great father and I trust him with my daughter. My daughter told me that the mistress is very nice to her and they get along, I am very grateful for that but I am feeling jealous and resentful of the mistress for taking my husband away from me. Is it wrong to be jealous?

Hello all, soon I am quitting my job. Generalny, I am very happy about it (my work turned out to be very frustrating since the beginning of this year), but, on the other hand, I am upset, because.. I think I have an emotional affair with one of my coworker. I am 27, he is ca. 10 years older than me, married, 3 kids. We get on well, we share our ups and downs, I think we are emotionally bonded. The best proof: this man told me three or four times that he wished I would be his wife.. This guy asked me out a few times and, what is important as well, asked me directly for sex.. There is a massive sexual attraction between me and this man. We share small touches, intense gazes, innuendos, everything you can pick up from this scheme. The whole thing is so strong that many people (another coworkers) make jokes about us and laugh at us as we are seen quarelling like good old mariage etc. The tension is very easy to detected.. I am not blind, I know that this occasion of quitting my current job will help me in leaving this unhealthy relationship, find a boyfriend, simply live my life instead of wasting my time with a married guy, but I am not convinced I am ready to do this.. I know I sound weak and so I feel weak.. I just don t know how to speed up and bear this whole healing proces. Please, any ideas/ comments? I am very confused.

I'm 36 & my husband is 39. We have been married for 16 years & have kids, 11 year old & a 2 week old baby. My husband was great the first week my infant was born....however now he's beginning to act controlling & really weird. We knew we only wanted 2 kids & I had a csection so I chose to get fixed during it. If I didn't have a csection& had the child naturally, he would get fixed. I also was diabetic during my pregnancy. The doctor said after pregnancy to work on getting back to a safe weight to prevent diabetes. 2 weeks post pregnancy, I began eating healthier & I'm losing weight. The next door neighbor mentioned how great I look & he acted really jealous. I asked him why he was acting out & he said I'll probably realize I deserve better. He is a bit mentally abusive & when he's having a bad day he takes it out on me. I told him I loved him & he said no you don't? Huh? He's acting so immature. I told him I got fixed so we didn't have any more children. I also chose to lose weight not to find anyone else but bc I want to be healthy . Before getting pregnant with this child he had a affair. I was going through a miscarriage & he was sleeping around. He blamed me for the affair bc I couldn't sleep with him. The miscarriage prevented me for a few weeks and he said I was fat. I almost think he's worried I'm going to get revenge & getting into shape is allowing me to get my self esteem back & he's freaking out. He mentioned how confident I have been lately. Any input?

23 with a 6 year old, and now pregnant with another child, not married yet but in a relationship with the second child's father (the first has a different father) and still living at home with mom. What do YOU think about this? Is the person going to most likely end up single with the 2 kids from different fathers or end up married and would she be a stay-at-home mom or can she still go to college and work?

I want to have my own apartment, a job, and an income before I get married. We are both only 18. Should I say no to the proposal? I told him I would think about it.

If youre a man and shes a woman or visa versa then youre compatible in the sexual arena. Because lately i just think so many guys look so delicious and handsome. Its so weird. Even if they seem they could be homosexual theyre still attractive to me. It kinda confirms that i dont need to worry about if me and a guy i want to marry are "sexually compatible" (dont believe in having sex before marriage)

Or even in front of him and the other woman is right behind his wife/gf; in some of these cases the guy ignores the other woman when he sees around in the future...why ignore the other woman when you stared at her before

My husband sets 15 alarm clocks, from 4:00 to 6:30 every 10 minutes and I am going crazy. I could have at least 2 hours in plus of sleep but because of him I wake at 4:30 everyday. He doesn't stop the alarms and wake up at the last one. Makes me want to hit him with a shovel. He refuses to change his habits and sleeps with his phone and goes everywhere with it so I don't touch it. Anyway to stop the alarm clock madness without actually having touching his phone ?

Girl, who happened to be mistreated, neglected and hated during childhood and at the age of 20 has cuts on her arms due to self harming? The girl was beaten up and no one was there to defend her. The married guy is 27 and got married at 25. His wife is now 25 and he loves her very much, affection love, support etc... but he lost his head for the girl. He sees her crying under the rain, sad because she was in love with him and he didnt say that he was married. Now she wants to go away, avoid him and hates him because he said he will leave his wife for her and she just doesnt believe it and feels at fault. He thinks his wife is a good girl but has had everything life can give you, though in a modest way. The other girl loved in humble circumstances with lots of hardships. He feels in charge of taking care of her,love her, protect her and give her all the love she deserves and never had. The poor girl had to go to the fields or construction sites in her childhood and was beaten up in school,his wife was raised by middle class parents and her grandma, at school she had always friends. He wants to love the girl, and it feels like a mission to him, like something he was destined for, a task from destinity,or god or fate or whatever. It was love at first sight and the guy really wants to leave the wife, not just like having the foot in two shoes, but leave her and love the other girl. Yes, I have to be loyal and everything. I never cheated on my wife, never had sex or talked or kissed to other girls. But this time is different, this girl needs me, she never had anyone, always alone in her life, my wife has two sisters and a lots of relatives who adore her. This girl was refused by her grandma and made to go out of home from her aunt saying "your dad has taken the road of dementia and death". How can I stay like this when everything is against her? My heart wants her.