We're both over 45yrs old. His parents helped us finance our home. Within 24 hours of our marriage, he started disappearing. He would go somewhere and not come home for days. I was so ashamed, and didn't know what to do. I was working 50 mi from home and had a 13yr old son. Thankful I didnt quit my job. I woke up and packed my son and I, and left after about 3 yrs. Why did he want to marry me?

I'm 20 and i feel h. all the time.. my husband (21) says that I'm addicted to sex bc I would want it everyday. We've been together for 2 years and at the beginning of our relationship we were hopping on each other like 2-3x a day. Now most of the time he won't have sex with me so I would watch porn and masturbate behind his back... which I know is bad but idk what to do I'm sexually frustrated and no I do not ever consider cheating! Am I addicted to sex? Do I need to seek medical help? (I would be embarrassed if I need to)

I love my bf. He is a great father, works hard, bills are paid on time,, give me what I want even though I work too and make my own money,he doesn t go out, doesn t drink or smoke etc. The problem is the we are in our 30"s, bought a home together, we have 2 kids together but yet he doesn t want to get married, even though I told him many times that instead of expensive gifts like buying me a car, all I want is for him to propose to me and get married, but nothing! What should I do? He said that is because I nagged too much, which I don t I just told him not to leave the house messy cause I m a very OCD person. By the way...he doesn t show affection at all. Only thing is that he shows me love by buying me things.

The woman is 20 years his senior, she works with us at the same company. She is very attractive and they are friends but I was in the dark about how friendly they were. She knows we are married so I don't understand why she would not respect our marriage. I blame him but I want to confront her, should I? My husband not only had sex with her, he performed oral on her, kissed her with passion and shared his feelings with her. That probably hurts the most. His slept with her over a dz times. I know that he doesn't get erections with me even though our marriage was good. What do I do now?

He has been a great husband so I'm surprised by what I recently found out. He slept with her the day before our 32nd anniversary. He's been a sleeping with the same co worker for 6 months and she is 34 so 20 years younger than him. Should I stay or leave. I'm very very hurt and shocked.

after they get married , when muslim husbands often abuse their wives in one way or another ?

We had a fight overnight that carried on into the next day, when I woke up he took the keys to the home and the car he gave me. It upset me, I went on amd on until I struck a nerve and he packed all my clothes and put me out. We had a counseling class scheduled a month in advance and it still stands, should I remind him although our contact has been limited. I m hurt because I have mixed emotions. All of my things have been at his place for a week and I need them but I prefer not to go over. Im lost. So do I cancel the counseling class or still tell him to show up.

he is only 6 years older than me and I was so attracted to him. we only saw each other for 3 months and he said he would marry me and I was planning to leave my husband. we have been married ten years so I would have been ok financially bc he made a lot of money in those 10 years. Then at there last minute after we had made our plans I he blew me off and I found out last week that he was engaged to a 22 year old.

My husband can't seem to see that he makes me wait when it comes to doing anything for me. It's always been a thing that he never washes my car when he washes his. That's always been a sore spot for me. Not to say that he's never washed it but he'll get out and spend several hours washing his SUV but will make my car wait. A little more than a week ago the fuel pump when out on his truck and his mom let him borrow her car to get to and from work this past week. He finally picked it up from the shop yesterday. Today (Sat) he gets out and washes his truck spotless clean. It was in the shop for more than a week. I had some errands to run so when I got home he was gone. A little while ago he told me that he went to his parent's house and washed her car. Yes, I felt a certain way because I let him use my car over the weekend to run to the store or to pick his daughter up from work but he couldn't even think to wash my car. I mentioned to him that I had to take my car to the car wash to get it clean and he tried to use his master's degree on me by saying "You chose to take your car to the car wash. I didn't make you take your car to the car wash. So who are you mad at?" Why does he always makes me wait? He's always said that he's not going to wash my car every time he washes his and there's nothing wrong with a woman washing and keeping her own car clean. Yes, he has washed my car but no where nearly as much as he washes his car. Why am I mad about this? Granted, I bought some new wipers for my car and when he came home I asked him to put them on and within an hour or so he was outside putting them on but washing my car seems to take an act of congress to get him to do it.

Like I knew two other just got married this month and last month and now someone else getting married couple more months? Like people do it for wrong reasons

This is needed for i am curious. Not that i love my cousin or whatever. Lol.

Every time I touch my phone my spouse questions what I'm doing? every time I adjust my body on the sofa my spouse asks where I'm going? every time I stand up to use the bathroom my spouse asks why are you leaving me? is it because your not attracted to me anymore?

he is 25 years older than me and I married him when I was 34. Im 40 now and really worried. he takes good care of me and I have access to all his homes and get an allowance but thats gonna change when he dies. The homes are already in his children names and he said he will put aside some money to get me a small apartment somewhere and some money..like 200k. Hes a millionaire. should I leave him..the money was made by his father and uncle.

Would you rather marry a beautiful 10 or a plain jane that does all the cleaning, grocery shopping, laundry, cooking, and works full time, so all you would have to do would be work?

he has three children from his first wife who died and is fairly wealthy. I married him when I was 34 and he was 59 a few years after his wife died. Back then he told me he would change some of his families trusts so that I would be left some of it. I think I deserve half everything age least but in the beginning I was unsure if I had the made the right choice and slept with a younger man. He found out and we broke up. I stayed at a different home of his for three months and three we got back together. it has been over 4 years now and I found out he didn't change anything about the trusts and he is trying to tell me that he cannot change it because they were set up by his father and uncle who are dead. I didn't marry him only for his money. I was a journalist and I interviewed and we became close. I was 34 and there were not a lot of other guys interested in me. Its hard having to have a career and a social life and pursuing marriage. wouldn't expect you guys to understand His children hate me by the way and in the beginning he said he would do anything he had to in order Mohave a child with me. Any medical procedures bc it was getting late for me and I had a lot of hope. that all changed and I feel like he took my best years and now I cant have children. After we got back together He was not interested in any go that and I was unable to get pregnant ., I didn't want tp push it because of what had happened but I feb like we could have ha children if he paid for the hormones and IVF but he didn't want to. I feel like the reason he didn't want to anymore was bc he would have had to take away money from his children to me and my child.

I am older now and starting to see he may still love me but for years I have not felt that he does cause my Mom told my sisters and I that he left our family when he got a divorce from my mother. I am 16 now and since we still see him frequently starting to think my mother made this up. She still says it all the time and it has been 8 years since they divorced. He remarried last year and she was bothered I went to the wedding.

My husband has 3 children from a previous relationship who he loves very deeply but is unable to see very because not only do we live almost 12 hours away but he is an over the road truck driver and is gone for weeks at a time. We recently decided to relocate out of the small town that we are currently in. I made the suggestion to move within the same state as his children but living far enough from his kids mom that I will be comfortable too. He kids mom is very difficult and still holds a torch for. Where I suggested we move is a 2-3 hour drive away but my husband is not happy with that. He wants to live in the same town as his children and their mother which makes me extremely uneasy. I feel that he is being very selfish. I have no family in the area where his children are and when he is on the road driving for weeks at a time I will be the one home in an unfamiliar town rubbing elbows with his baby momma. I m trying to be supportive of my husband s relationship with his kids, which why I made the suggestion to move to the same state but I just don t feel comfortable being close neighbors. I just don t want to drag out 1 year old daughter into something that could potentially be a very messy situation but I also don t want my husband to feel that I m trying to keep him from being a more involved Dad because I know eventually he would resent me for it, which would not be good for our 2 year old marriage. What s a woman to do?

So my significant other told me the strangest story... There s a new guy at work and supposedly my s.o. and her friend wanted to set this new guy up with a friend of theirs... My s.o. then told me she was the designated person to get his info etc. to then give to the friend that was to be set up with this guy. So my s.o. tells me that while she was talking to this guy that he told her that he was married and that my s.o. was sooooo shocked for "her friend" that she began asking him "how long, who is she, etc etc etc) to the point that it made the guy feel noticeably uncomfortable .... So she realizes later after talking to him that it probably seemed like to the guy that my s.o. was upset that he was married (go figure) and then tried thinking of a way to tell him that she s married as well....so she continues to say then that later she (my s.o.) and this guy spoke again and he brings up his wife in conversation and my wife replied oh yea I understand, that s married life for you so he asked, are you married, and she replied "thank God you asked, yes I m married". So he replied why thank God, it was just a normal question and walks off because he more so must have been uncomfortable. So my s.o. tells me this whole backwards story and is upset that I m annoyed with the whole stupid story if the way she said it was even true and not some other garbage. She says that she doesn t understand how I d be aggravated but what do you think?

My wife and I are going through a divorce. I just figured out she's still working here on post and is living down the street from me. I didn't tell her to leave she just left then filed spousal support. So long story short like I said before do I still have to pay spousal support if she resides on base still.

The lady said is coming over to his parents house of which I say to her but I am married to the guy my husband is angry at me for telling his ex that he is married to me. And now he is giving me a silent treatment. Tried talking to him but he is just insulting me. Please advise