IS he wrong for that, or was that completely normal?

My little sister is going through a phase where she's rebellious and thinks our mom is criticizing her every time she tells her it isn't okay to do a certain thing. It's causing so many verbal fights at home. I'm sick of hearing about the drama. She won't let it go either. For example, if her friends vape, she'll want to do it. If her friends hang out with older kids (who are a bad influence), she'll want to do it. My mom prevented her from those situations so my sister is super angry. She's been screaming and stomping around the house. Threatening to run away (she's been saying that a lot, it never happens though).

Living in Nevada, Mother moved to california. She has been seeing the kids every other weekend but this weekend she has not given them back and is ordering us to come and get them. What do we do other than getting the kids?

Jamie intrudes on Kyle in a time of him needing privacy; she even insists on seeing him after he subtly declines, so he finally at long last lets her do it because she wouldn't take no for an answer. After he complains to his mom, she defends Jamie. Yet, she considered him to be bothering at his cousin & his cousin's friends altho the cousin clearly invited him so he accepted; while there, he doesn't say nor do anything. If this isn't a Double Standard against Kyle, why not?

As a minor that is. I'm not allowed to eat left overs, snacks or any sort of drink without asking. I ate some chips thinking I heard a yes and now they're forcing me to buy a new bag ....

Me and my husband are getting divorced and I'm getting custody of my 3 kids. The problem is that we are planning to move into a cheap one bedroom apartment and my income can barely cover half of the rent. My husband will be paying child support but it won't be a lot because he doesn't make that much money and if he does pay, it will probably only going to cover food, clothes for the children. What are my other options?

First off. I asked a question last night about this same thing, but asked it wrong. Yesterday, my sister stopped buy and was talking. To my mom about what we are doing for fathers day. My sister texted my dad, but didnt get a reply. She jokingly said (hes probably spending time with his gf, and her daughter. He spends more time with them, than he does his real family" I guess that set my mom off becuase I woke up at 3 in the morning to my mom drunk, and crying talking on the phone to my aunt. When she got off she said she hates my father becuase he was a drunk when they were together, and rarely around, but after they divorced hes sober, and happy with his gf. When she said that I said there is no use in dwelling over it, becuase there is nothing we can do about that. I had her drink some water, and go to bed. Shes sleeping now. What should I say to her when she wakes up? Should I say anything at all? I get a long good with my sister, but I'm pretty upset with her for saying something like that infront of my mom. I was thinking of having a talk with her, but I dont want to upset her too.

So, recently, I started watching my two-year-old niece for my sister every Thursday night. My sister works 1:30-9:30. I get off at 4:30 and pick up my niece at my mom's house and then we go to eat with my grandparents. The first Thursday I watched her, I had to keep her out late because I had to pick up my sister from work because her car wasn't working. This past week was the second Thursday that I watched her. My sister had a car so I didn't have to pick her up. So, I took her home around 8 so that I could bathe her and get her in bed. I dug around in the bag, but the key wasn't in there. So, I called my sister and asked where it was and she said that she didn't give it to me because I was supposed to keep my niece at my mom's house. Now, keep in mind, that my mom goes to be around 8 at the latest because she gets up so early for her job. So, not only did my sister never say anything about keeping her at my mom's house, but I never would have agreed because it's not a good option. Anyways, she told me she couldn't get me the keys so I'd just have to sit and wait until 9:30 when she got home. So, I said I'd figure something out and hung up. I called my younger sister to see what she did with her in situations like these and she offered to stop by my sister's work and pick up the keys. So, she did and showed up with them at 8:45. Continued in updates... She then proceeded to tell me that my sister was claiming to be sent home early due to not being able to finish her job because she had to walk all the way across the campus to give my younger sister the keys. So, she was going to be home any minute and that I needed to be gone or she was calling the cops. I couldn't believe this behavior since 1) I am babysitting for FREE and 2) I was only trying to make sure my niece could go to sleep in her own bed at a decent hour. I'm not sure what to do because the obvious choice is to stop babysitting. And I did that, but I don't know how I'm supposed to see my niece now. My sister deleted me off of Facebook and then blocked me on Snapchat. This is literally over a set of keys. I don't understand how someone can be so nasty when they have a free babysitter. I've had people who pay me to babysit show me more gratitude than she does. And it's not just this one time. She's never thanked me for babysitting.

There's this guy that I have been talking to. I like him and I want to date him, but there's one problem. He's 26, doesn't have a college degree and works at a dead end job. I know that money isn't everything, but if I have kids in the future, i would want a guy that is able to financially support his family. I have a good paying job but it wouldn't be fair if I'm the one paying for everything.

My brother is 7 years older than me. My wife is two years younger than me. Last week, my wife started crying and told me that my brother forced her to have sex with him. I never had a good relationship with my brother as he was always jealous of me. My wife can't seem to trust anyone anymore. I need help, we have 5 kids. Luckily she isn't pregnant as she got her tubes tied 2 years ago, after our youngest was born. What should I do?

Here's mine: I live in New York City. I marry my fiance. He is athletic and intelligent, but is humble and is a great father. He's an engineer. I'm a doctor. We will have 5 kids. Our first is Alexander Charles. He looks like his father but has blonde hair like me. He plays football, and dreams of being a Lawyer. He becomes a lawyer. He marries a girl he met at Law School. They have a daughter named Christina, and twin boys named Zachary and Isaac. Next is Jessica Sarah, who was born two years after we have Alexander. She is shy, but creative. She has brown hair and blue eyes like her father. She becomes an artist and marries her long time boyfriend. They have 2 kids. Two sons, the eldest son's name is James and the younger son's name is Christopher. Two years after Jessica was born, Nathaniel Logan was born. He is a rebel that likes to party. He is more interested sports and girls than school, but looks up to his older brother and sister. He passes school and becomes a Sports Announcer. He married his high school sweetheart and has 1 daughter with her, named Isabella. They divorce, and he gets married to a doctor. They have two sons Jacob and Miles. 3 years after Nathaniel, I get pregnant with twins, a boy and a girl. Joshua Carlos and Giana Kayla are born. They are always together and both become doctors. Joshua marries his sister's friend and they twin daughters, Victoria and Olivia. Giana marries a doctor she works with and they have 1 daughter named Elizabeth.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 12 years. He is 29, I am 30. He now tells me that he wants to participate in Palo/santeria religion. When I first met him he told me that his father was into that religion. I asked him if he was or ever was considering it. He said No, never. So I stayed with him. After all this time he tells me he wants to join this. I told him that if he was considering participating that I couldn't be with him anymore because I am not comfortable with it. He told, people change, I'm narrow minded, and am only thinking about myself. He said " I dont want to break up with you, you want to break up with me. It's confusing because he knew that if he was getting involved with this, that I would not stick around. I broke it off and now I am so upset. Was I wrong for doing this? He told me " people change"

I had a dream that my narcissistic mother was letting my little sisters child s father live with her and her husband. When I asked about how it was my mother got all somber and told me how he was running around and consorting with other women and the coming home and lying to my sister and getting drunk and beating on her. I asked her why in the world would she allow someone to stay there that would treat her own flesh and blood that way. She got an attitude and tried to turn the other way and walk. As I ran to catch up with her I noticed she has a smirk on her face. She enjoyed watching all the drama my sister s child s father was bringing. She looked like she was almost daydreaming about it. I instantly got so enraged and started screaming.i mean really screaming at her. "Have some ******* integrity." My mother looked at me confused and angry she turned that other way and started walking quicker humming to herself. I, naturally, got even more angry. "I bet you ve never heard of that word. Integrity. Have some.....INTEGRITY!!! INTEGRITY!!! INTEGRITY!!!! Then I woke up. That was an odd dream. In real life I am meek and quiet and this is not like me. What does it mean?

My mother got physically violent towards me recently and since then she's blamed me for not being appreciative of things she bought me and says I look at her with hatred and disgust. She's saying all of this to avoid apologizing for hitting me on the head with a yardstick which she did because I told her to be nice. She's a very difficult mother and exceptionally rude to people including me. I'm a grown adult and she made me feel like a child she could control again. I hated it. I hate her and have so much anger towards her. I want nothing more than to have her be a part of my life, her grandchild's life and she chooses everything else over being there for me. She's incapable of being a lover mother. She is every single reason of why I had hardships growing up and anger and depression. I've learned only who to never be thanks to her. Yet it pains me to feel this way and even knowing she's in the wrong, she makes me feel like this is all my fault. I hate her.

so my dad is divorced and has a girlfriend now. I used to think shes nice but now I kinda hate her. Ever since I've reconnected with my real mother, I've started to notice some things. She really didn't trust my dad. She would always text him things like, "Where are you?" and insisted on always knowing what he' doing and being here on the weekends. She always does our laundry which is nice, but she sometimes mixes up my clothes with my siblings so when I asked her to let us sort our clothes she said that I don't appreciate the work she does! I've started dreading the weekends when she comes, but feel bad for hating her. She's philipino well, so she has lots of family and just insists we come to her parties that are absolutely horrible! I know no one there and its extremely boring and akward. I feel bad because of this, but I've started not liking many philipino people just because they remind me of her. I feel racist and discusting.

Things like: "Can't you be more like your brother/sister? " "Your brother/sister can do it and so can you" The siblings might be family but their not the same person...

My name is dlynn and I am very loved by my church family friends and I want people public that don't know me to see I am loved so they think I am neat person how do I show the world that i am love ?

Hello, my friend gave me some candy. Come to find out it was THC (marijuana) infused.. I had an adverse reaction with anxiety and paranoia. I had chest pains and i thought i was having a heart attack. I had my friend call 911 for it. The paramedics, got up to my apartment and told me i just ate some marijuana. They put me on my feet and after getting some fresh air i was doing okay. The paramedic told me i had to go to the ER and was placing me 51/50 because i was high on marijuana. I think the high got stronger and it put my body in a paralyzed state. I felt i was having a hard time moving. I was still conscience. While on the way to ER the paramedics were making fun of me, and were laughing. When we were getting close one paramedic was asking "can you hear me?" when I didn't respond the other guy said "either respond or we will shove a tube down your throat". So i struggled to nod while i was drolling.The guy said "we have a patient thinking hes dying. He is high on marijuana." Another paramedic laughed and said "i would of played that alot more than that". While i was drolling the guy said "just let him droll all over himself." When i finally got to the ER, they put me in a room. One paramedic said "just put him in the lobby" the other paramedic said "no by the nurse station is bad enough" and laughed. The nurses were cracking jokes where other people could hear them.I had my buddy call because I literally thought i was dying and i just got laughed at for it.Is this legal?

While on the way to ER the paramedics were making fun of me, and were laughing. When we were getting close one paramedic was asking "can you hear me. Can you head me" when I didn't respond the other guy said "either respond or we will shove a tube down your throat". So i struggled to nod while i was drolling. The guy said "we have a patient thinking hes dying. He is high on marijuana." Another paramedic laughed and said "i would of played that alot more than that". While i was drolling the guy said "just let him droll all over himself." When i finally got to the ER, they put me in a room. One paramedic said "just put him in the lobby" the other paramedic said "no by the nurse station is bad enough" and laughed. The nurses were cracking jokes where other people could hear them. One nurse stepped up and said "what's so funny? He's a patient for christ sake!" I had guys testing to see if i was really paralyzed or just faking it. One guy did it and said "sorry buddy you'll be sore tomorrow but i just want to make sure you'll be okay" After that he said "yea he's definitely not faking it. I hit that guy hard in the chest. He didn't even blink a eye." I think this was totally uncalled for. I had my buddy call because I literally thought i was dying and i just got laughed at for it. I think this violated many rights. Or am i wrong and they were perfectly legal to do that?

My parents and I have had a bit of a rocky relationship for a while now. At one point my step mom told me the only reason she wasn t kicking me out was because my dad wouldn t let her. A friend of minw has a four bedroom house and offered to let me live there for free. I have 3 jobs to save money I need for tuition next year. I would pay her $100-$150 a month just to help out with bills and food and such. Not a lot I know but it s only two months and I desparately need every penny I earn. I want to leave my parents house on good terms but it seems damn near impossible. I really want to see if they d be willing to loan me a car for the 2 months I ll be in state because I don t have my own and can t afford one. It s a lot to ask of course but I need the help. I know that seems like I shouldn t move out then but I feel really unwanted here and I need some separation from them. What advice do you have for me so that I can leave on good terms and possibly negotiate with them for a car? ( they have over 20 vehicles so it s not like they need the one I want to ask for)

Going to try to make this short and sweet but My wife's sister is severely sick with cancer. Her daughter is taking care of her in LA and it's pretty hard trying to take care of someone who's sick, it's very draining. My wife's sister is so sick she can't even drive anywhere. My wife's side of the family lives in LA. Everyone knows it's not cheap to go there especially since she was gone for two weeks, so we saved money for months for her plane ticket, food, any activities she would want to do etc etc. The first week she stayed with her nieces and nephews and she appeared to be enjoying herself with her nieces and nephews. It seemed as though it was the happiest she was in a while. I received pictures of her having fun in the casinos, going to the beach, getting her nails done, and the like.She was smiling a lot and laughing a lot in some videos I saw of her as well. It was the second week she was there that drama started happening. The second week she relocated to stay with her sister's daughter and there was a massive blow out. The daughter was mad because she pays 2,000 in rent and her boyfriend pays 2,000 and her boyfriend couldn't stay there because sick mom was staying in that room. The daughter told her mom ( my wife's sister) that she needed to hurry up and get better so she could get her boyfriend back in the apartment. My wife heard her and told her she can't talk to her like because she's sick. So apparently the daughter punched my wife repeatedly and then both my wife and her sister started crying. and then my wife ended up getting kicked out of the apartment and having to sit on the street with her stuff for hours on end until she could get a hotel ( she ended up having to pay $400 for a hotel) I'm still trying to wrap my brain around this entire ordeal because it just sounds so ridiculous to get that angry. My own wife does have anger problems herself as she used to hit our daughter and be extremely controlling towards her but I thought she was very close knit with her family in california. It's even more drama also because now my daughter is mad because she said i care more about my wife being hit than her being abused all those years I told my wife don't call our daughter the B** word and treat her better but that's all in the past now. life is too short to have toxic relationships amongst each other. Anyways, my 19 year old son find out about my wife getting hit and lost his mind and punched a huge hole in our wall and now i'm worried he might have anger problems too. Should we get him into anger management? I told him he's paying for the damages he caused but i think he might be a little unhinged

preferiblemente si es trap o esos generos asi como de ahora

I don't want any photos of my girlfriend and I being posted on social media without our approval. My mom thinks it's too much and my cousin agrees with my mom but I want to be in control of our image and the way we're portrayed

I recently moved back into my mom due to reasons I'd rather not say. Every since my dad and her divorced almost 10 years ago, she gets drunk most weekends. She always makes up some drama when shes drunk.my sister came over today, and was talking about how my dad was happy and said that his girlfriends daughter is a really nice girl, and they spend a lot of time together. My dad was drunk for most of our childhood, and didnt spend much time with us. My mom brought up how it would be nice if he spent as much time with us as he does with his gf. I agree, but I just heard my mom on the phone talking about my dad, and how shes gonna call him up, and talk about how he wasnt there for us when they were married, which I know is a terrible idea. This is an example of the things she does when she drinks. Shes not so great of a person herself. She took 50k from my dad from the divorce, and also the 2 story house he worked so hard on, and now it's going to shite. There is a huge leak in the roof, and the siding is rotting away. And it's almost like she doesnt care, and when she gets drunk she feels overwhelmed, with the house. And sometimes she talks about how much she hates my dad. I think shes mad at him, because hes happy now, and shes miserable. I do love her dearly, but this behavior has been going on for over 10 years, and I'm sick of being around. I'm trying to enjoy my weekend, and I was gonna play some games tonight, but she just gets mad when i do that.

I am 15 years old and I'm spending the rest of the summer at my dad and stepmother's house. I have been at my dad's for a week. My stepmother keeps asking me if I feel okay. She said that she was worried becasue I look pale and I'm always sleeping. She Tylenol pm away from me which sucks because it helps with cramps. I told her that I was on my period but I didn't tell her how long I have been on my period because I am embarrassed about it. Should I tell her? I hoping this will end soon so I wont have say anything about it.

i really want a mac mini. my computer right now is old 2008 imac so it can't play demanding games, i want to sneak money out of my dad and mom's wallet and maybe grandma slowly till i get to 799$ so i can go to the apple store and buy a mac mini, i have done this before to buy stuff cause i bought a 529$ ipad mini 5 a few months ago by doing the same thing, im just wondering cause 799$ is more expensive

My father and uncle are total jerks to me. At least my uncle doesn't like me. That's fine by me: they've always been like that and I have other wonderful friends and family members. My mother keeps telling me that my father and uncle care so much about me and think I'm wonderful. Whatever. Either my mother is delusional or is saying a white lie. Next time she says that, OK to say something like, "Oh, that's so kind of you to say that" or "yes, wouldn't that be nice" to let her know that I know that she's making those statements up?

bow and regards shintarō thanks for the insult Father Martin

Three years ago, when I started college (I'm a commuter), my stepmom gave me the chore of doing the towel laundry. When she gave me this chore, she said it was because I had two days a week where I had no classes or labs. I was fine. I never complained. Yet, somehow, every summer, when I'm working 40+ hours a week, I am still expected to do all of the towels. Not only that, I have restrictions. For instance, I'm only supposed to do five towels and 3 wash cloths (I actually put a lot more wash cloths in there if I know that they won't be home to check). I also have to have them done before my stepmom gets home otherwise she complains if I'm doing laundry when she needs to do some. I also cannot leave them in the washer during the day because she claims that it leaves a smell. So, I usually start one load before I go to work and then put it in the dryer before I leave. This has always been my routine, but this week was different because on Wednesday, she was home from work all day so I couldn't start them because they would be left in the dryer and then she'd complain that she had to finish them. I also don't do them on thursday because I go visit my grandparents once a week and that's the night I usually go. As I took a shower last night, I realized that we had two wash cloths left. That was enough for both her and my dad to take a shower so I knew that it would be fine until I got to it today. Continued in comments... Continued: Well, I was wrong because today she decided to take TWO showers. I had to take her somewhere and she yelled at me the whole way because she had to use a dirty washcloth because there were none upstairs. Mind you, the towels and washcloths were in the dryer so she just had to grab one out of there when she checked to see what was in there when she got home. They were plenty dry at that point. Am I wrong for thinking that I shouldn't have to do all of the towels when I also work? Continued part 2: But am I also wrong for thinking that I shouldn't have to do all of the towels when she is using at least two a day? She didn't use to take two showers a day. This is fairly recent and she doesn't plan on changing. She also occasionally uses three when she washes her hair separately. I don't mind doing towels. I just mind it when I have to deal with all of her rules and when I have to do more loads because she's using so many.

Going to try to make this short and sweet but My wife's sister is severely sick with cancer. Her daughter is taking care of her in LA and it's pretty hard trying to take care of someone who's sick, it's very draining. My wife's side of the family lives in LA. Everyone knows it's not cheap to go there especially since she was gone for two weeks, so we saved money for months for her plane ticket, food, any activities she would want to do etc etc. The first week she stayed with her nieces and nephews and she appeared to be enjoying herself with her nieces and nephews. It seemed as though it was the happiest she was in a while. I received pictures of her having fun in the casinos, going to the beach, getting her nails done, and the like.She was smiling a lot and laughing a lot in some videos I saw of her as well. It was the second week she was there that drama started happening. The second week she relocated to stay with her sister's daughter and i really don't know every single detail of went down because i wasn't there BUT my wife called me at 4 am saying that her and her sister's daughter got into a physical fight. I was and i'm STILL livid about the situation and my son was livid too. When my son found out my wife got hit he was so angry he punched the wall. apparently my wife's sister did not want her staying at her apartment because she paid 3,000 in rent and her boyfriend paid money as well. I'm not sure what her boyfriend has to do with the situation. I called my daughter and told her about the situation even though my daughter and wife don't get along because my wife used to hit her and be emotionally and physically abusive. My daughter said that my wife probably pushed her buttons and tried to control her in her own home. My wife was always controlling and such to our daughter but I thought for sure that her and her family in LA got along wonderfully I told my wife that the next time she goes to LA she won't be going alone, either me or our two sons will accompany her. This entire situation is insane

what proof would you say show them they are wrong

I just found out that I'm 8 weeks pregnant. I was stupid and got knocked up but I am against abortion because of my religion. Abortion is a 10x worse than pre-martial sex. The problem is that my current job doesn't pay me enough to support myself and a child. I currently work at Costco as a cashier averaging about 30 hours a week. I will need another job in addition to that because the manager refuses to give me more hours, preferably at a place that opens at evening/night. Life is very expensive because I get little financial support from the baby's father while living alone. So I will have to work 2 jobs. However, my mom works from home so she will be willing to look after the baby for me while I'm at work. Hopefully in the future I can get a promotion at Costco and only have to work 1 job. Is it better to put my child up for adoption or let my mom raise the child?

So recently I went on vacation for a week, and while I was gone my brother asked if he could use my car during that time so he could get to work. I decided to let him use it so he could take a break from using Uber to get to work, that way he ll save more money towards getting himself a new car. However, while I was gone he accidentally broke both of my door handles (I drive a 2 door car so now I can t get in). You have to pull the divers side door a certain way to get it open. In the 4 years I ve had my car I ve never had an issue opening it. He was running late for work and broke the handle clean off the car trying to get in. The other door has the same little kink and he broke that one too. I told him he needs to pay to get my car door handles fixed and he refuses. Stating that there was already an issue with it so it was going to break eventually and that it s my fault for "Being too cheap to fix it" "I need to handle it myself . I just got back from vacation so I don t have any extra money atm. I m so pissed off because here I am helping his broke *** out and he screws me over. Smdh. Never again. Any advice on how I should handle this situation? I told him that since he thought something was so wrong with my car, why did he ask to use it in the first place.