Do you think marriage is like a contract?Therefore we should have a "get out"clause or "early release" without any ramifications if decde too terminate lease?haha

Like percentage odds, how likely she's lying through her teeth for some reason?

So I'm 21 my husband is 24 in the marines. He has been deployed for almost 5 months now in japan. A few weekends ago I went to a party with my girls and ended up getting way to drunk. Did some pretty shameful things that I am disgusted by with two guys. Today I came home from work and my husband had sent me these beautiful roses in the mail with a sweet letter and it made me sob crying. I have never felt so low. Like I really feel like I don't deserve to live. I don't know how to cope. It's eating me up inside. I didn't mean to cheat on him. I love him with everything in me but at the same time it makes me angry because I told him being in the marines would be detrimental to our marriage. What the **** is his problem. Wtf is my problem though. I'm losing my Mind.

Up until the 70s it was common for women to marry before 20 and they had long lifelong marriages. Nowadays people are discouraged from marrying early to go to college. In the 60s and 70s people were living into their 70s and 80s like they do now.

My parents live about 30 minutes away from me. The last time I seen them was June 9th. What do you suggest is a good time frame to visit them?

Her husband is a marine and is currently stationed in Japan. She s been cheating on him for awhile. Recently she chose to disinvite me over my ex bf whom she s really close to and hangs out with even after we broke up. I cut her off after that because that was the final straw. She was a really terrible person: called my parents idiots after I mentioned my medical debt, never bothered to see me only me going out of my way to see her, was really snotty and thought highly of herself, and lied an absolute ton. I want to tell her husband, but I know it won t be for the right reasons. Should I leave it be?

My parents and in-laws have been interfering too much on my marriage setting strict gender roles for me and my husband which I worry that it is affecting my sons. I don't want them to grow up thinking they have to be in charge of women and girls all the time and expect them to serve them but my parents, in-laws, and husband don't get it because they believe gender equality is an SJW, liberal, feminazi, politically correct, sinful thing, knowing that they are extremely conservative and scrupulous. In addition to that, my husband meets my parents' long, detailed list of expectations as to why they married me off to him, instead of me marrying someone in which we can keep on working together to fulfill what we want and improve ourselves. They just did it so that way I wouldn't be the black sheep among my female cousins who married guys who fulfill a long list of expectations when my childhood friends are telling me my cousins are being unrealistic, in terms of materialisic gold diggers in which their husbands have a lot of money from families and steady jobs and education like mine does. Who should I believe? My family and relatives who want me to fit within my female cousins since most of my relatives are males or my friends who are more realistic?

My husband and I have been married 6 months, together for 2 yrs. We're in our early 30s and have 2 babies under 2. He used to be affectionate and wanted sex all the time but now he never tries to cuddle with me or sex unless I ask and even then sometimes it still doesn't happen, no romantic gestures, no dates unless I plan them, doesn't sit next to me, no hug or kiss goodbye and never says he loves me unless I say it first. I feel like he's not interested in me anymore. I've talked to him so many times about how I feel and he says he will do better but it never happens. He's affectionate to our sons but not me. I always have to initiate everything and I feel unwanted. I've lost most of my baby weight quickly and I keep myself up. I am attractive so no one would believe me if I told them how he is towards me. Alot of men try to hit on me a lot but not my husband. I've asked is be gay or bi or cheating or am I fat and he says he's not and that he's attracted to me. I've suggested he go to doctor and he just brushes it off. He's agreed to counseling but I'm not sure if that will even work. I'm tired of talking and no results. I'm not ready to divorce right now I'm willing to try but it's hard getting no love for months. I've considered finding someone else but I'd feel guilty. I don't know what else to do.

if he is only legally married to one wife. Do the other wives get help from the government with all the kids that they have and are technically single moms?

I've been with my partner for 7years. Married for 3years... I love my husband and I know he loves me as well... straight to the point.... I keep finding my husband watching porn. At first I told him it was fine I know people watch porn and sometimes when the partner is not around, you're in need to watch it. Thought it was once in a while type of thing. But when I keep finding it and check the times he's seen them, it's times I've been around the home with him... we hardly are intimate. (2-3 times a month). I have confronted him about it and told him how it makes me feel, him watching porn. Yet he still watches them. Says theirs other more important reasons to be upset with (bills, work, kids, etc) that porn is lease of the problems. He said I'm not affectionate either so it doesn't help... I admit, I'm not very affectionate but I explained to him why. The way he "tries" to turn me on, is definitely a turn off to me. And I told him a bunch of times. Not only that but when we're intimate, he finishes and leaves me hanging. So I just prefer not doing it at times... like I said, we both love each other very much... which is why I think to myself, should I just let this go and let him do him or what can I do?...

I'm 25 and been married for 4 years now. My wife is pressing for a baby but I'm scared. I feel I'm not ready for that responsibility. I work 50 hours a week, I love my free time fishing and camping. Children are a huge responsibility that I'm not ready to take on just yet.

I will not marry without one. I love my house and truck, and definitely my hard earned money in my bank account.

I make the same $$ as my husband. We have been married for 2 months. I feel like I'm on a leash when it comes to spending my money. I had 2k I was saving when we got married and he made me put it in our dual account so he could pay off his debt. We also put all our money towards any debt. Someone crashed into me and totaled my car and I don't have one. And he said we won't get one until we save. How can I test him to masker sure I'm not on this leash my whole life. Am I overreacting? Am I a bad Preston. Please just need some advice. Also, I pay for the rent and what's left I put it in our dual account and then we combine that and put it all towards debt.

I know this is normal to a point, that people will the side of their own son or daughter when a couple splits up, but this situation has gone pretty far. My ex and I weren't legally married and I found out he had told a number of his family members we were. We split up at the end of 2016, but he told people our "divorce" was final in July 2017. I started seeing someone else in August of 2017. Well, my ex and his family have gone around town telling everyone they know that I was having an affair with this guy and that's why my ex and I got "divorced." It's not true at all. I wouldn't have had time for an affair...I was taking care of four kids almost completely on my own, going back to college to prep for a new career, and working. They've said a number of other untrue, nasty things and it's gotten to a point where I will run into someone at a store or something, and that person will literally run away from me, like I'm some dangerous psycho. These people have ruined my reputation. I know suing for slander is pretty useless. I guess I'm looking for ways to not feel so awful about it.

I'm terrified of marriage, I'm female and 21

My husband and I are 41 and have been married for 15 years and have a three year old child son. I found out he's been cheating on me for our whole marriage which frankly doesn't surprise me at all. Thou he dropped a bombshell on me last night and said he has been cheating with our neighbor down the street who is only 16 (which is the age of consent here) is pregnant by him. He hasn't yet told her parents and she positively is. I feel like I want to support this girl because I know she's so young and naive and has been token advantage of by my husband, but at the same time have a tremendous amount of jealousy especially due to the fact me and my husband had tried to get pregnant for years and now this has happened. Iam soooooooo torn from this I cant even handle it. Any word of advice would be helpful and much appreciated.

My husband and I are 41 with a three year old child. I found out he's been cheating on me for our whole marriage which frankly doesn't surprise me at all. Thou he dropped a bombshell on me last night and said he has been cheating with our neighbor down the street who is only 16 (which is the age of consent here) is pregnant by him. He hasn't yet told her parents and she positively is. Iam soooooooo form from this I cant even handle it. Any word of advice would be helpful and much appreciated.

So long story short my "husband" decided to move to Colorado and leave me and the kids here so he can save money to buy a house. I offered him giving him my whole check for him to stay and he's told me that not even his kids can change his mind. Well we decided to get A divorce but recently his cousin spilled his feelings for me. I can't get it out of my mind.

We were together for 2 years. From the first day she was always insecure. We had a lot of fun and were really happy. One day she went through my phone and found out I was still talking to my ex. On the other hand when she called my ex she did everything to destroy our relationship. She lied that we had sex and all but the main reason of me being in contact with my ex was regarding a business property that we bought together. I never told about this to my gf coz she was already very insecure. The day she found everything went down the drain. My gf had the first miscarriage few months ago and the second one she had when she found out. I tried to explain to her but she won't listen. I work for my father and on the side I have my startup. I stopped talking to my family coz they never liked her. A month ago she went through my phone and I just found out she had another miscarriage. I always loved her but my ex messed everything up. Today when I called her after a week she told me she had a miscarriage and she was blaming me that now you must be happy, go back to your *****. I didn't know what to say. I wanted to tell her that I love you but she hung up on me. I know it's over but I am sad coz I was excited about the baby. I wish rather then blaming me for everything she would have understood that my ex was lying and I am in love with you not my ex. I am in a strange sad mode right now. Don't know what to do? Any advice?