So I'm 14 and I was at my best friends house her name is devin and we were drinking our other friend Makayla showed up too and we all got drunk, her parents were there but we were kinda just hanging out and watching a movie, but then her mom somehow found out and said nothing, and this happened ab a month ago and today I found out that devins mom told another one of our friends Ashley's mom. And Ashley's mom is a snitch and she likes to tattle to all the other moms about what their kids did so what should I do, because if my mom finds out I'm screwed.

I'm going on 15, and going into 10th grade. And I've come to realize that one of my best friends (of a few years) has changed quite a bit since we met, and is becoming a bit toxic. She only ever seems to want to talk about herself. She vents, and when I try to vent to her, she turns the spotlight back on her. Everything is like a competition. She'll be venting about how she's stressed over something, and when I try to empathize with her, saying things like "Oh I know how that feels, I'm dealing with something similar," or "I have dealt with something similar," she automatically gets upset with me and goes on about how she has it way worse. I don't feel like I can trust her with secrets anymore. I told her last year about someone I liked at the time, she promised not to tell, then a month or two later, she said, "Yea I told him, but he didn't get it LOL" and I was left very hurt. I'm glad to listen to what she has to say and to try and think about things from her point of view, but it's difficult. She won't take any constructive criticism, and she always has to be right. If I prove her wrong about a silly debate, or a claim she made that I had another opinion about, she gets mad and insists that she is the one who is correct. Whereas if she ever corrects me, I nod with a simple, "note taken" and move on. I don't know what to do. I don't know how I'm supposed to tell her we can't be friends. Our moms are friends now because of our friendship. What do I do?

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I had someone who I called a best friend and they really were, but I eventually developed feelings for them - but they don't feel the same way. They aren't toxic themselves necessarily, but them being in my life is toxic to me. It just wasn't healthy because I would think about them often, what they were doing, and then get jealous of other friends that they would hang out with, etc. We just spent like a month not seeing each other and now things are getting WAY better, but I will start seeing them soon since I work with them. I don't want things to be too awkward, but I can't be a close friend with them anymore. I don't want any reminders of how I once felt and to fall into that depression again. How do I mention this to them in the best way to where things won't be too awkward afterwards for work? (I work pretty closely with them, in case anyone needed to know.) Also, not only do we work together, we're scheduled to take a trip out of the state together soon too... It's just a mess. I appreciate any help, thank you!

I think she's just confused. I've known her since 5th grade and now we're about to be seniors this upcoming year. On her instagram she usually posts pics related to lesbian/bisexuality thoughts. But I've known her crushes, they were all guys..I'm not sure if it's because some of them put her down but she shouldn't just go crazy and be someone she's not. I just want her to wake up, I know she's straight and I know her parents would be concerned if they saw her posts relating being lesbian or something. How can I talk this out with her? Am I not understanding something?

I know it probably sounds pathetic. Please don't make me seem stupid. Do I have trust issues or something? Like over the years I've had a few best friends but I'd be the one who got left out as I was shy. I'm not the same anymore but I've had the same best friend for over a year now but something bothers me when I see her story when she posts a photo of her and her friend and one today said best with a heart. It probably sounds like nothing but I just get this weird feeling that she doesn't see our friendship the same way. I'm probably just overreacting. Is there anyway I can stop this? Should I just slightly let her know that I get this uncomfortable thought? She's very understanding and we're both very open to eachother. Please don't hate on me.

I found out my best friend talks recalling bad about me around his close family. Brothers, sisters mom dad and girl friend. Hes says nice things about me around everyone else like friends and coworkers or cousins. I know that saying what other people think about you is none of your business. Is that that case here?

I work at a retail shop. I've worked there part time for 3 years. It's a small shop in a nice area. I've always been on time, never called out sick, the customers really like me, I've covered shifts for anyone who's needed it. I go above and beyond at this place. We put out samples each day of chips or crackers or some kind of snack from small grab and go bags that usually retail at around $2-$4 each. We put them in little cups on a tray with a beverage. At the end of the day we throw out whatevers on the tray. About 3-4x last month at the end of the day I just ate the chips that were going to get thrown out and would finish the 5-10 chips left in the bag we opened to use for the samples. They always go stale if we use them again.. Both managers sent out an email saying snacks were being stolen....then they confronted me and said if I eat the left over sample chips at the end of the day I will be fired because I didn't pay for them. We literally throw them away most times so this is so petty to me and seems like they have other issues and are just taking them out on me. The managers keep any extra money in the cash registers at the end of the week and use it for coffee, tea, breakfast etc. They've taken home testers of expensive products to keep. Given discounts to their friends and family etc. To me that's far worse than eating some chips from an opened sample bag. I was told I would be fired if I did it again. After 3 years of working at this place.

You don't make plans on your birthday but your two other friends hang out? They wish you and all but they aren't obligated to invite you if you didn't make any plans right?

I feel sad, angry or anxious all the time, I want to live but I can't anymore. Nobody wants to help me, my parents hate me and I don't have friends because of my social anxiety. My only friend is my boyfriend, but he doesn't want to help and makes everything worse.

Wasn't planning on doing much for my birthday this year but said to a friend few days/week before maybe we should meet up. He said maybe he's not sure if he'll be out of town next weekend. He said if he's here yeah for sure. He's not being a jerk right? I should have asked him earlier and all right.

I took her to Taekwondo classes to make friends but nothing... she is not ugly she is insecure and I always try to help her but I don't know how any more... any parents that can help me?

To give you some background recently my older sister recently married a white man. Given our culture and upbringing, kids in our community were expected to marry within our race. I thought that even though our family friends didn't understand that surely my older sisters friends would. That was completely wrong. Her friends completely ghosted her and even had parties with out her. Even the friends that she told in detail about their relationship shunned her away and when she tried to reach out they both stated that they were too busy to hangout even tho you can clearly see their party pics on Facebook. Thankfully, she doesn't care and was like fine I'll make some new friends. However, the whole situation is just infuriating to me and I can not fathom how people can do that especially if you were friends for years.

You hang up your clothes on your clothesline and the theives come to steal the clothes and later on during the day you look and see nothing on the clothesline, What do you do?

I started a new job it's night shift and I work in an office alone for the most part and only see people for about 20 minutes maybe 2 times a day. We have small talk but how do I get past that and have a laugh with them etc?

I went with my best friend and her hubby for a hike on a path which I don't know. I was excited for that trip that we will make nice memories together and check out some new places. They hike in a very fast pace and I can't keep up with them. I have an average hiking speed, they hike like hounds like it is a race where your life depends on it on who makes it first to the top. I have a medical condition, and extra 50lbs to carry vs. my friend, she knows that. They went ahead and just left me behind, disappeared on the horizon and left me without a map, reception or idea where I'm going. They said they will wait for me on the trail. It took me 20 minutes to get to them and the moment I did they already rested and went ahead again... I felt it was a bit rude and I didn't feel safe, as there are black bears and not many tourists. I confronted my friend telling her I really felt uncomfortable about this, she responded that everyone wants to enjoy mountains, go in their own pace and their purpose is to get tired and push themselves (talk about fitshaming). She said that nobody should hold anyone back. What do you think?

So since seventh grade my friends and i hung out in a group of six men so all of us were having fun and being dumb but one day all the dudes found other friends so i did the same. So I did the same. I met a girl that grew to be my best friend. So i hung out with her all of summer and most of eighth grade and we were leaving to high school and she and I plotted a way for us to be in the same high school. But in The second semester of that year i was trying to reconnect with my old group and i told them i was annoyed with her to impress them. Then one of my friends ratted me out to her and on that day she just said " I hate you." and she said to talk to her about it after school but i just left the campus and walked home. So now high school was embarrassing in the first year but now as a sophomore I have good friends but she gives me angry glances across the hallway and whenever I go to my locker one of her friends is always waiting for me and telling me how much of a douche i am and i tried saying sorry but her and her group just hates me. Man I shouldn't have walked away... And her stupid friends just annoy me whenever I talk to a girl. Oh and her friends aren't her doing she is just a sweet person '

There is a woman in the town I live in, we will call her Liz. Liz and I are on the fringes of each other's social circles and have met probably 6 times in 10 years. She had a party I was invited to and I met one of her friends and we started dating. She became very jealous and sabotaged the relationship as well as had me kicked out of a local social group. She now told a mutual friend she's scared to go to local events because of what I might do to her. She's a very narcissistic and dramatic person and I watched her drama play out on Facebook for years before I blocked her. I'm thinking of messaging her and in a very non confrontational way asking her what her deal is. This is a mid sized town and she is born and raised and knows everyone and seems hell bent on ostracizing me while playing the victim. I just want to smooth it out. I'm tired if worrying about running into her or what she will do next. Any point to trying? I know it's difficult to deal with someone like this. FYI, she's 53 years old! This is not teen or young girl behavior. It's causing huge problems for me. I tried taking some exercise classes and guess whose friend owns the studio? It's crazy. Like she won't be happy until I leave town. She loves drama and playing victim and I'm tired of being her latest target.

My not that close friend is having a baby and she's 20 and I'm 18. She is close to giving birth and is getting all excited, asking me to be at the hospital so I can see her baby. I don't really know her family but I know her and the father from high school. I'm pretty sure I am one of the only people from hs who still talk to her. I told her that I would be supportive but my parents would kill me if they knew I was hanging out with a preganant 20yearold. I ended up helping her throw her baby shower because she knows that I love event planning. And I feel really bad about it, but I kinda get uncomfortable when she talks about giving birth and whether she's going to be medically induced and stuff. I'm not going to abandon her, but I'm pretty sure she thinks that I am more invested than I really am. I haven't even seen her in a long time because she lives almost an hour away and I don't have a ride yet:( What am I supposed to?? I WANT to be %100 supportive and there for her, but to be honest it feels a little bit weird because I'm not that close with her and we haven't hung out in a couple years...

So. Growing up I had friends. Never best friends, just friends. In grade 12 I gained two besties. Idk if they'd ever consider me their bff. But I did. Fast forward a few years. I met a friend in college. We now live together. We are very much each other's best friends. His girlfriend is from the same town as I am from. She lived in an apartment last year but stayed at our place 6/7 days per week. Now 9 months later she moved in and finally pays rent. Don't get me wrong. I like this girl and we're really great friends. We've known each other since we were five. However. The only time my roommate and I get to actually talk about fun stuff and make jokes. And just random stuff that we enjoy. It's when his girlfriend isn't around. She is always around tho. Very rarely that she isn't around. .... anyways. Everytime she's around. My roommate gives his undivided attention to her and nothing else. I mean I'm happy that they're happy. But like. If it wasn't for me going to his room to talk and converse while she's hear (virtually 24/7). Then we wouldn't really talk much. So I sit in my room lots. Lonely af. Am I just jealous of him spending time with someone?? How do I stop feeling this way. Cause when I feel lonely I just sit there. And think about the times where we could have conversations without her cutting me off or her ignoring me

I've been working part time at a gift shop type boutique store for about 3 years. I'm always on time, always helpful and filling in for people and I've never called out. I'm reliable and the customers really like me. We put out a sample snack of different chips, crackers, drinks etc each day. At the end of the day we throw away the samples on the tray and put the rest of the small bag (if anythings left over) into the break room to use for a snack at a later date. Maybe 4-5x at the end of the day when there was like 5-10 chips left in a bag of $3 chips or 5-10 crackers I'd eat the rest and throw out the bag with the samples. I didn't think anything of this, we have all done stuff like this. My manager even keeps the change when we have extra money in the register and uses it to buy breakfast. Yet today I was told that I was eating food without paying for it and they told me I would be fired next time I did it. My co-workers do far worse than me on a daily basis. The chips/crackers are literally left over samples, we throw away the ones on the tray without a second thought. This seems so petty to me after 3 years of working there I get threatened to be fired over eating left over sample chips. Are they in the right or should I just quit and be done with this part time gig?

I hear that summer camp is fun and a great experience and I feel like I'm missing out. I also want to make new friends, meet new people, and camp and do outdoor stuff LMAO. So is going at 18 bad?

She sounds so dumb and it's loud, previously I've thrown board games at her head but no luck. What should I do?

I saw him at my job and his face was all red. And he said he would message me. And he kept staring and looking back at me. He kept asking if I'm ok... Like why is he asking if I'm ok??? Why is he asking and trying to talk to me after he ghosted me... Like wtf smh..

Why is it someone can spend $50 on a meal they want and drive 2 hours one way to get it. But if they ask where do you want to go and they spend $50 plus sit in the car while air conditioner running while I run in the grocery store because it is to hot to put windows down it is a huge problem. Ugh

I wasn't a good kid in highschool.I got into a lot of trouble &my parents keep bringing it up four years later.It gets on my nerves.I'm not a virgin,I was raped by my ex.My parents were supportive &then made it seem like it was my fault.Anytime I ask to go hang out with friends they make a point to say that I will end up pregnant & a stripper like my friend(insert name here).I'm not dumb and am in college.I don't support myself rn but my parents can't pay for my books or schooling. I want to pay it on my own.They constantly compare me to my cousin b/c he has a job and pays for his own stuff.I want to be able to hang out with friends.I want to learn how to drive.I want to move out.I want a job.They won't let me.I've tried everything possible.Any time I open my mouth they bring up something from four years ago & make it seem like everything I say is wrong.I end up getting a lecture.I am literally afraid of asking them for little things, let alone going out.I always have to settle for less. I feel smothered.I know I made mistakes in the past but I need to experience life on my own whether I fail or not.I dont want them to keep bringing up the past &making it seem like i'm a hoe.As the eldest daughter I have to be the obedient one that makes a good impression on my siblings..I don't do drugs or smoke or drink.I want to be able to experience things that most kids my age do.But I don't want to ruin my bond with them.They have cut off family before.I dont want the same.What do I do?

I'm naturally a loner and I hate socializing as well as being introverted. My parents are always forcing me to have friends around and I can't stand it. I told them I can care less about having friends but they just can't seem to understand the fact I don't want friends. How can I get them to understand that my intentions are to not have any friends?

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she moved away we both lived near each other i'm disabled, she has helped me a lot. i need tips i don't drive, nor work am on disability

And when he leaves he just looks at me and not say bye. Then right before he leaves he turns around and looks at me once more before he leaves. Even when I say hi or bye to him he doesn't say the same back to me. What is he thinking?