So I am 21 and I used to be really popular in my pre teen years. But all of my friends were toxic, brought me down the wrong path and had me cut school. I had a near death experience with them about twice and I realized it was time for new friends. I cut them all off when I moved, they have also gossiped and slandered my name behind my back some with even no reason. Now I'm a loner, and it sucks. I make friends easily, however even the new friends I met were just as bad, and drug addicts. I pushed myself to graduate after I remember my 2nd grade teachers saying college was the best experience for her where she met her real friends. I Don't have a bf cause I don't let no guy get too close to me out of fear of being judged for being a loner. Also don't have Instagram. But I'm in college now and I want a serious relationship. Before I do that I'm looking into meeting some lifelong friends. I don't live my life like 21 year old should and I'm tired of feeling like I'm wasting my life away. I'm enrolled in a community college now with hopes of starting anew with better people. The problem is it seems like everyone already has their friends and their own life

Like if you are grown straight men? "Your leg is touching mine..." Would you do it? Or is it weird?

Long story short, my boyfriend is still best friend with his ex's best friend. His ex was mentally and physically abusive towards him; sharing stories of where door were left with holes. The part that I don't understand is how he still keeps in contact with his best friend who is still close friends with his ex. She is aware of what his ex did to him and still kicks it with her. She also for some reason keeps him updated about his ex. He states that it doesn't bother him because they are childhood friends, it wasn't his best friend's fault of what occur, and she is an adult and can be friends with who she likes. The way I see it is if a person is physically or mentally abusive to a close friend of mine I don't want to deal with them, they hurt someone I care about. I dislike this best friend due to the fact that she still is connected to his ex after everything that happened. Please help me be more understanding of the situation. Am I wrong that I feel the way I'm feeling?

I'll give examples of what my friend says: -My five best friends are (then she lists the names) -My boyfriend is the hardest working man in the world -My best friend is (then she says the name) I feel like those statements kind of turn people off from wanting to be her friend. Do you agree? Like, what if she has friends that she sometimes talks to but not a lot, and then she hears them say those things? I feel like she should say the following statements instead -I really enjoy talking to my 5 friends (then says their names) -my boyfriend is so hard working, I'm so proud of him -i have a great friend named (then says the name) That way people don't feel singled out.

when someone copied you of a t-shirt of a your sister or brother favorite basketball team that you knew for long time and they dont know who they're and brought to wear it next day of you then they followed you around in middle school and now they call you a annoying is this jealousy? I had old friend we been fighting on and off since Facebook came long and I have moved out the state from other side of the state but i go back every summer for a month now she telling others about me for some reason,Anyways all they do is work as nursing or a volunteer drama board way show and they go sing karaoke at bars with there friends and they see me going camping and traveling to Vegas or road trip to California and side we did a race team and i am doing photography and flew many time with my grandpa airplane round the neighbor hood do you think it jealousy?I have move on from this but I AM ASKING IF IT HAVE DO TO WITH JEALOUSY? AND One friend have been argument and flight so her old boyfriend have slap her and i dont know if that cased us to fight it happens round same time but i seen a facebook story that she want new friends and she told me on my fake account that she had bad past of everything

I've been working for this cleaning company for 3 years. I've had 3 different bosses all were idoits in some way. I'm white and most people are mexicans and some speak english and some don't. My supervisor can explain things the wrong way at times. Its because hes a mexican. I've seen him watch soccor for a hour on the clock with his buddies. I can ignore this stuff. I do like it because of weekends and holidays off. We even get holiday pay.

My friend is accusing me of stalking him because he saw me where he usually hangs out.I was not stalking him.I was on my way to the movie theaters.I didn't even saw him.

I have been chatting with this man online and he seems very interested in me romantically. ...but I am a plain Jane and I am older than he is and he is handsome, as you can see...so I started trying to discuss my looks with him and he stopped me and said that looks dont matter to him at all. ..so was he insulting me by saying that looks dont matter to him? and why would they not matter when he is so handsome himself? will choose a best answer

So, I like to take care of myself. I go for facials get my nails done and do skin laser treatments sometimes. One of my girlfriends says to me that I need to stop spending my money on this nonsense because I don't need it. She says, "let's live! Let's take a vacation! Why are you doing all this stuff? Don't you want to enjoy life?" ....as she puts a cigarette to her mouth :-/ Think about it.

Guys do you normally y'all to your "platonic" female friends for hours (3-5) on end night after night? Or when you do talk to your female friends do the conversations inevitably lead to sexual experiences, orgasms, talking about sexual fluids. Me and my guy friend talk about this a lot. It turns me on - but we aren't talking dirty to one another per se. I want to get a feel for what's regular friend behavior and if this is a little more - and just your general thoughts on why you'd talk to your female friend about this.

My friend who was my former coworker recently lost her job at our company. We use to talk almost everyday then she suddenly stop responding to my messages and calls. She was a little depressed and upset. I have gave her space but I still reach out because I care about her. Should I continue to reach her are stop being friends

A year after we graduated, a guy that had a crush on me in high school told me he had been too shy to talk to me. We lived in different towns by then and he said it's probably too late but then we started talking (as friends) online. He told me that we should talk more. Then I got a boyfriend in my town and we talked less often but he still liked my posts, including ones with my bf. One time he told me he thought he saw me at work and was going to come and talk to me before he realised it was a stranger. The last time we talked, he told me he had dropped out of uni. We hadn't spoken in about two years so I wasn't thinking of him anymore when I posted on Facebook praising my boyfriend of five years for getting into a prestigious university. After that I noticed that this guy had blocked me. However it could have been before this or just coincidental timing, I don't know. Why did he block me? I didn't think he would care enough to go to the effort to block when we hadn't spoken in quite awhile.

My room mate help one of his friends out let her stay here for a few days cause she was kicked out of her home and he even got her a few nights at a hotel to stay. Ends up after she left the hotel she stole over $500 and my friend was stuck with the bill. Is there any legal action he can take.He knows her name but cant find her because she has no home.

I have a female friend (I'm male) whom is always challenging me. She Is always arguing with me even in casual conversation. When I present her with the facts. She will just change the subject. She will not acknowledge when she is wrong. She will not apologize. I think/know it stems from insecurity, but could anyone shed any further light on this dilemma? I would like to stay her friend. Thanks in advance! I think most will just say cut her off, but I have my reasons. As to why I wanna try and solve this problem.

‪I feel weird about a club I'm in, I've been in and out of bc studies keep me busy and I've met another freshman in that club, we talked a few times mostly bc of a class we had together, she's gotten close to the club members to the point they hang out while I only know a couple from events like ex: drama night and i noticed whenever I walk passed her with the members they strike a convo with me and tell me hi and she wouldn't really say anything to me or look at me whenever this happens, she's stopped going to drama nights too since I've been going, I'm not sure if I should continue going without having this weird thing happening between us, I like them and they even invited me to hang out with them, I'm pretty introverted and I don't have any friends from high school in my college so going to this club alone already was out of my comfort zone I won't be living in the dorms anymore so I don't know how much of an impact it will have with the social life in that club‬ But I am willing in exploring other clubs when school starts again

I'm 15 and she's 18. We met on a game a few years ago. I told her I have two older brothers (lie). I was young and stupidly used the names of real people I knew, which I wish I could go back now and change that. At first I didn't think that we would keep in touch. I figured we would lose contact after a couple days like many other online friends. Well three years later and here we are. I've even downloaded two of those free texting apps so I can pretend to be them when talking to her. It makes me sick just thinking of her finding out and I know how upset she'd be. I can't just disappear because she's suicidal (I didn't know that up until a year ago) and I'm scared she would search the names of those two people and contact them asking what happened and then they would get mad at me. But if I tell her the truth, then she might search them and contact them that I was a stupid kid who used the names of real people. Basically either way I lose. And if I keep going then one day she's gonna be like "let's meet" I don't know what to do. I can't believe how stupid I was when I was 11. Any advice?

I was thinking of doing something this Saturday for my birthday. I told some friends today and one last Friday. Some said they already had other plans and all. The guy last Friday said hes still not sure if he he's going home to see his parents, which he said last Friday. Are they being jerks or am I in the wrong for not planning earlier?

I'm currently a sophomore in high school and recently, I've been feeling lonely lately. Although I have so much friends, I feel like they aren't really my friends. I only have a few close friends and sometimes I feel like a drive them away. At times, I would talk about a topic for way too long and too much. I would start random arguments (but I see them as a conversation). Is it normal to feel like this? Will I meet more people? Should I change how I act?

We are all upcoming high school seniors. My friend was get together and she texted our group asking who could come, our closet friend said she could come but our other friend, had to check if she had work that day. The date got closer she never updated saying she could come or not, when my friend asked who was planning on coming she ignored the message and never said anything. So after the get together she posted on her social media saying basically how she feels unimportant to the friend group and whatever, it just annoyed me and my other friend bc she literally invited her over and she never got back to her or us. Like if she wanted to text us asking to hangout and make other plans she would since we are her friends thats something you would do instead of posting on your social about us. Just unwanted drama that could've been avoided if she just talked to us. I don't know how to handle it or what to do. Like instead of posting on social media which cause a bigger problem in its self for being passive about this, she could've talked to us about in private.

I'm a 13 year old girl and I like to hangout with my 11 year old and 10 year old friends! Is it okay to hang out with boys 2 and 3 years younger than me! or should i hang out with people my age?

I was at a family members party when an in law of there's approached me. I at first didn't think anything of it he asked me "why was I so quiet over there and lonely" in a laughing way. The next day I said hi and made conversation as I do when at parties with everyone. The conversation was about out how happy we were for this day and family members. He then stated "your cool Gabrielle what if I told your mom we're boyfriend and girlfriend?" This made me uncomfortable and I said "uh no" he then replied "so you're ashamed of me now?" He kept repeating this and I eventually walked away. I walked over to an older cousin and she said "I know what your doing" I was confused till she nodded to the in law standing a couple steps in front of our table staring at me. A younger cousin later said he was staring at me. I was uncomfortable but didn't my older cousin about her in laws behavior not wanting to assume. The younger cousin later brought this up and the older cousin told me "not to start things and assume because she liked hanging out with him and was one of her uncle in laws" I tried to explain to her that I was drunk but not flirting at all. I feel as if I should have lied and never brought up when on the spot