Singles & Dating: Question: Starting over? |
- Question: Starting over?
- Question: Need help figuring out my sexuality..?
- Question: Is he really into me ?
- Question: Should a person be content if someone finds him or her attractive but not want to date/want a relationship anymore?
- Question: How do lesbians get united by flesh when they have sex?
- Question: I’m leaving my long term gf but we have 3 kids. I’m willing to pay child support but she will not work. Will a judge make her work?
- Question: Where can i find hunky instagram guys who often post shirtless pics?
- Question: Friends who leave you for other people. He always says gtg and leaves I give him gifts!!! I'm a guy too. Why are his mean friends better?
- Question: Why is it that us men want nothing to do with ex's but don't want to see our ex with somebody else?
- Question: My ex doesn't seem like himself?
- Question: Bad first date?
- Question: Did I blow my chance to talk to her ?
- Question: My friend has a crush on a coworker. Theyve talked before and stuff. He wants to message her on FB.?
- Question: Ok guys right now my girlfriend just broke my 50 inch tv crack the whole tv screen she said she did it by accident but my blood is boiling?
- Question: Why does this relationship scare me?
- Question: I made my girlfriend cry ?
- Question: Okay guys, I’m like really against all drugs and everything and my gf started to smoke weed why am I sad instead of not liking her anymore?
- Question: Is he only physically attracted to me?
- Question: Do you think my guy friend likes me?
- Question: My friend with benefits asks if I like any other guys. Why does he want to know?
- Question: What do you say to your girlfriend when she's crying ?
- Question: Does walking around late at night make people nervous on the sidewalk?
- Question: What does it mean when a guy keeps forgetting your name?
- Question: White men, would you date a white woman who's been with black men?
- Question: What does it mean if someone says you have eyes of stone?
- Question: I get what feels like a nervous breakdown They only last a couple of min and it s rare for me to have them more than one time a month?
- Question: How big is Chris hemsworth and evans in inches?
- Question: Today my brother looked his crush at her breast in front of her friend ! Then her friend looked my brother seductively ! Why ?
- Question: Does she have a big butt?
- Question: If you sit on a guys lap does his diick atomically get hard?
- Question: Should i still live with my ex who is also my best friend after we had a friendly break up? We have been living together for 8 years.?
- Question: Is it normal for guys to talk about each other’s penises? There’s this one guy who brags about how his is bigger than everyone else’s.?
- Question: Talking to your one night stand afterwards?
- Question: Is this how a guy treats a girl if he’s just hooking up with her? Please answer?
- Question: Why do i still love him?
- Question: Why do i still love him?
- Question: Is it bad to have a crush on my same sex friend?
- Question: My boyfriend sometimes makes comments about how he thinks my guy friend is a better match for me. Is this his way if Trying to break up?
- Question: IDK WHAT I WANT?
- Question: (Boys Only ) What is too much weight for a girl too you ?
- Question: Fisherman won't catch any fish and keeps making me pay him every hour?
- Question: Why does my crush still have me on Snapchat?
- Question: If i see him on campus should i go talk to him or ignore him?
- Question: Is he ghosting me?
- Question: Do satyriasis cheat or fantasize over multiple woman?
- Question: Should I contact this girl on facebook?
- Question: Did aristrocrats look at peasants as if they were like farm animals?
- Question: Did he deleted me on Snapchat?
- Question: How do I ask him this?
- Question: ONLY FEMALE: Question on my high crush ?
- Question: Ex said he wants to take things slow and start over?
- Question: I want domination?
- Question: Why would he tell the whole world he HATES me but stare at me EVERY SINGLE TIME I see him?
- Question: What does it mean on Snapchat when it says someone added u by search?
- Question: Why does she talk to and flirt with me when I am younger than her little bro?
- Question: What do i do with AAA cup titties?
- Question: What does black mean?
- Question: How can I get over my ex?
- Question: Why are women racist?
- Question: BISEXUAL??!?
| Posted: 19 Dec 2018 08:43 PM PST I want to start over, obviously I can't be reborn but I want a fresh start, move on from the past, stop wishing I was someone else, have confidence, how do I do that? |
| Question: Need help figuring out my sexuality..? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 08:39 PM PST I'm a 21 y.o guy. I'm romantically attracted to girls but not sexually, or maybe just a little. Never slept with anyone and the idea of having sex sort of repulsed me. There have been times when a girls were clearly making sexual advancement towards me and it kinda made me feel disputed with my self and objectified. I've always had crushes and female friends but I never have the need to sleep with them. I've only felt like wanting to hook up with someone like a few times and I'm already 21.. I taught I was a demisexual for a while but they just need to have an emotional connection with someone before they can sleep with them and idk if I'm like that.. |
| Question: Is he really into me ? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 08:39 PM PST I met a guy online and he seems to be interested he texts me all day tells me he likes me and that I mean a lot to him even calls me his girl. But for some reason maybe I m just paranoid I feel like he s not really into me and I m nervous if actually going to meet him. |
| Posted: 19 Dec 2018 08:36 PM PST I'm a single guy who has been single since 2008 (I was 24 then and now I'm 34). I know it can be depressing and sucks to be single for so long but I've managed it. There's been a woman I've been attracted to since June of this year when I met her but I've come to the realization that she's been leading me on or changed her mind. Since this past September, I've gotten some female attention when I'm out in public and at my current job but I don't really feel happy. I only started to get female attention since this past September ONLY because I lost 40 pounds. |
| Question: How do lesbians get united by flesh when they have sex? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 08:34 PM PST |
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| Question: Where can i find hunky instagram guys who often post shirtless pics? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 08:31 PM PST |
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| Question: My ex doesn't seem like himself? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 08:21 PM PST i've known him since we were 16 and he's started dating this new girl and he's just acting different. he's always high (just pot but still). he only answers in short sentences. his whole life revolves around this girl. like he never does anything on his own. he barely talks to his friends and he always seems to be trying to tell me something but won't. |
| Posted: 19 Dec 2018 08:16 PM PST So I had went out on a date with a guy. I thought it went well. When it was over and I was ready to go home he suggested we go out again soon and even suggested a few places we could go. But then the very next day I didn't hear from him so when I saw him at church he told me he thinks we are better suited as friends. Now all of a sudden he seems to be paying me a little more attention again. I still really like him. Is there any way I can suggest we try hanging out again without sounding desperate? |
| Question: Did I blow my chance to talk to her ? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 08:14 PM PST So the other day I was shopping in Walmart. I grabbed the items I needed and headed to the self checkout as I always do. As I finished I walked past this girl sitting on the bench and walked out the door. I didn't think much of the girl at the time. I walked across the Walmart parking lot to the Mc Donalds to get something eat. I was sitting down eating my food. When I saw the girl that was sitting on the bench with a tray of food in hand. She was about to sit at the table right next to me, but I gave her a weird look. The only reason I looked at her that way is because I just saw her and I thought she followed me but I cant confirm that. There were plenty of other tables to sit at. So I don't see why she chose the one right next me. I am wondering if she followed me of if it was just a concidence...? |
| Posted: 19 Dec 2018 08:13 PM PST But they're not friends on there. Is it weird to message her or okay as long as he doesn't make it creepy? |
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| Question: Why does this relationship scare me? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 08:06 PM PST I've dated enough guys, and a few long relationships. I've been scared of getting by someone before, but this time its different. I don't know if it's because my life is completely different, or what, but this times I'm scare. Its a different like of scared, and the only way I can describe it is right before you jump. Why do I feel that way? I haven't like that type of scared before in the relationship, and it really seemed to start when he started to talk about things more seriously, and taking his life, and future more seriously because I'm in it. Why does it scare me this time? Don't get me wrong, because at the same time I think its amazing |
| Question: I made my girlfriend cry ? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 08:06 PM PST My girlfriend recently broke up with her boyfriend because he told her he was gay he's also been cheating on her with another guy. I gave her a hug I kissed her then I started to get a little bit crazy I tried to have sex with her she told me to stop and not to touch her then she got mad at me. She's still a virgin she's never done it yet not even with him she said they were saving it for marriage but she can't marry him now. I didn't mean to upset her I love her more than anything I didn't know she never done it till she told me. How can I help her feel better ? |
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| Question: Is he only physically attracted to me? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 07:56 PM PST I met someone in my Accounting class this semester and we became really good friends at first. Around October, it was very obvious that we both like each other but decided to take it slow and see where it goes. We made out couple times and every time, his hands always end up exploring my body. He always compliments my looks and body as well. He is very sweet and respects me but I feel like he's extremely physically attracted to me. We haven't slept with each other btw. I personally don't sleep with someone unless we are dating for months. My feelings for them also has to be strong. We graduated college together last Friday and he got very drunk. He confessed how much he cares about me wants to be with me but of course I didn't take him serious all that much. He was drunk after all. I'm very confused. |
| Question: Do you think my guy friend likes me? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 07:54 PM PST 1) I met this guy in October and he's become a close friend of mine. Unfortunately, he lives in another state . The first time we talked on the phone, he wanted me to stay on the line so we that we could fall asleep together on the phone. Now we call each other everyday just to fall asleep together. 2) He confides in me and tells me personal things about his life. He's stated that he's happy that he can talk to me. 3) He's consistent with communication, he texts/ calls me everyday. 4) He calls me cute names. 5) One time we were talking about kids one night on the phone and he said, "OUR kids". (We were talking about some activities we thought would be cool once we become parents) 6) We slept on the phone one night and he woke me up the next morning and told me to text him later and also "love you" before he hung up. I have no idea if I heard that wrong or if it was a slip but it sounded clear as day. |
| Question: My friend with benefits asks if I like any other guys. Why does he want to know? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 07:53 PM PST My friends with benefits asks me about any guys im interested in or sleeping with. WHy does he want to know? |
| Question: What do you say to your girlfriend when she's crying ? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 07:52 PM PST My girlfriend is having a hard time getting over her ex they broke up a month ago they even together for a long time I don't know why he dumped her she didn't say why she don't want to talk about it. It hurts her to see him everyday he plays guitar in her brother's band in the drummer I told her she can be friends with him if she wants but she doesn't want to right now. She said it hurts really bad she's trying so hard to be happy but she can't. What can I do to help her ? |
| Question: Does walking around late at night make people nervous on the sidewalk? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 07:43 PM PST I have been labeled a loner. After 10:00PM. Per se. |
| Question: What does it mean when a guy keeps forgetting your name? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 07:35 PM PST I have this guy friend and I think he may have a crush on me. He talks to me a lot, and looks at me and whenever it's just us he acts uneasy and slightly nervous. And he treats me differently than he does other girls, more nice and nonjudgmental. He also finds excessive excuses to touch me and try's to get me to touch him (not inappropriately though). But he keeps forgetting my name. He's addressed me as his friend multiple times and we've known each other for nearly three months and he keeps forgetting my name. He doesn't ask for it either it's almost like he's afraid to call me by my name. What does this mean? Does he like me or does the fact that he keeps forgetting my name means he's not interested and just doesn't care? |
| Question: White men, would you date a white woman who's been with black men? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 07:34 PM PST |
| Question: What does it mean if someone says you have eyes of stone? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 07:29 PM PST |
| Posted: 19 Dec 2018 07:27 PM PST I just want to know why I get them and how to make them stop.. |
| Question: How big is Chris hemsworth and evans in inches? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 07:25 PM PST |
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| Question: Does she have a big butt? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 07:17 PM PST Does she? |
| Question: If you sit on a guys lap does his diick atomically get hard? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 07:10 PM PST |
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| Question: Talking to your one night stand afterwards? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 07:03 PM PST I had a one night stand with a guy who I had known previously from work (however he had just quit so I won't see him there anymore). Actually, it was kind of a two night stand. We had sex two weekends in a row, both at night and at morning Anyway, he was pleasant to talk to and the sex was good so I reached out to him via social media. he responded very postiviely at first- he said he had a good time, and not to hesitant to contact him if i wanted to talk, so he gave me his number. I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship or to date him- I just wanted to continue talking him, and see if it lead to more sex/friendship/dating or whatever, I didn't care but my goal was just to get to know him more and see what happened. Like I said, positive responses at first, but I suggested we hangout and suddenly he sent me a text saying that he was sorry he wasn't looking for a relationship and stuff like that. I think he interpreted me trying to talk to him the wrong way. Then i felt like he was just responding to be nice and not because he actually had an interest in talking, so I kind of stopped talking to him as well. We haven't spoken in about a week. If I'm being honest I would still like to have sex with him again and so I want to reach out and contact, but I don't know if thats a bad idea. I don't want to come off as being obnoxious. Thoughts? I told him I wasn't looking for a relationship either, but I don't think guys believe girls when they say that. I feel like if I contact him again he will interpret at me trying to get him to ask me out, even though that's not my intention. |
| Question: Is this how a guy treats a girl if he’s just hooking up with her? Please answer? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:57 PM PST - cuddle before and after sex - Makes sure I "finish" - Kisses me goodbye every time after we hookup - We talk about everything except sex (we've never actually talked about sex before) - Interlocks fingers with me while having sex and cuddling - Sometimes gives me back/shoulder massages - Hooked up w/him 2-3 times a week (sometimes I'd sleep over) for 3 months. I ended it, and almost a year later, we're hooking up again. * doesn't text me regularly * Stays at least for 30 minutes (for cuddling) before leaving after sex |
| Question: Why do i still love him? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:50 PM PST okay so i was with this guy for 3 years. he broke my heart, like three months ago he took off without warning, was with a new girl the next day, is still with said girl but we talk almost everyday now and i still love man and I don't know why. He hurt me. bad. and he seems to really like her but i love him. and he's still really sweet to me. and tells me he misses my cooking and watching movies with me and that he wants to spend time with me and i miss him. and every time i speak to him it hurts because all i want to do is tell him i love him and that i hate that wh*** he's with. |
| Question: Why do i still love him? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:50 PM PST okay so i was with this guy for 3 years. he broke my heart, like three months ago he took off without warning, was with a new girl the next day, is still with said girl but we talk almost everyday now and i still love man and I don't know why. He hurt me. bad. and he seems to really like her |
| Question: Is it bad to have a crush on my same sex friend? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:50 PM PST |
| Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:49 PM PST me and my boyfriend are in love and have been together for 3 years. he's 35 and i'm 26. we've been through hell and back with each other. theres a part of me that cant live without him and the other part of me wonders if we are really meant to be. he's always there for me, when i didn't have a job or car he drove me everywhere i needed to go without complaining at all, and also gave me a couple hundred dollars weekly until i got back on my feet. he is finally going back to school for his degree in psychology and he said i'm the one who motivated him to want to go back so we could have a great future. he's extremely attentive, affectionate, and family oriented. i've never been in a relationship where i didn't have to beg for a text back, he's the only one who's truly wanted to show me off. HOWEVER, he has 3 kids, i have none. i have never had any desire to have kids, i have a short fuse with kids. i used to be a teacher so i knOw. My guy friend is 28, no kids, ive been friends with him for 8 years, we never/ have never argued, and we come from the same kind of lifestyle. He's very picky when it comes to relationships but he did say that he wishes more girls were like me, he said he uses me as a protocol for how a female should be as he's been having problems with his dating life |
| Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:49 PM PST 2 year relationship with a guy, hes nice, sweet, caring, loves me and would do anything for me. But i dont feed sexually attracted to him anymore. when he kisses me, I feel nothing, I only go down on him because he wants me to. He doesn't return the favor. never really tried to in 2 years. but then i meet this new guy who is smart, funny, caring and he treats me like a queen too. He would do anything for me as well. I made a mistake of giving him oral and he reciprocated and made me feel wanted in a way I had never felt before and i told my bf that because i made a mistake and i did not want to be a cheater. I wanted to break up with my bf but he keeps saying we can fix the relationship. I feel like I am being with him because i know he will be hurt thinking I left him for another guy but it is not true. I want to leave him because I don't feel the same attraction or excitement towards him that I felt 2 years ago. I have been feeling platonic towards him for a couple months now. I just don't know what to do. I even tried couple's therapy with him to see how we could fix the situation but it ended up just us talking and not really figuring anything out. I am so miserable and sad all the time. IDK what to do to make anyone happy not even myself. I am 20 Female, my bf is 23 and the other guy is 20. |
| Question: (Boys Only ) What is too much weight for a girl too you ? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:47 PM PST |
| Question: Fisherman won't catch any fish and keeps making me pay him every hour? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:47 PM PST I met this Chinese dude in a bar, I made the mistake of driving him all the way out to my Gran's vacation property because he said he was good at "hooking" (he barely speaks English). He won't even get on the boat, he just hangs around the cabin saying I have to pay him. I keep giving him money and he still won't leave. How do I get him out of here? |
| Question: Why does my crush still have me on Snapchat? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:46 PM PST I know it's bad to express how I feel over snapchat, but I did so anyway because I'm the type of guy to learn from mistakes. So I told her I like her and she left me on read and a couple of days later I asked her why she left me on read and she said that she didn't know what to say. After all of this, she still has me on snap and Insta and I'm confused. |
| Question: If i see him on campus should i go talk to him or ignore him? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:46 PM PST A guy i knew in highschool joined my college but is in a different department. Back in highschool we weren't friends just classmates. I haven't seen the guy in 2 years. If i see him on campus, should i go talk to him or ignore him? |
| Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:42 PM PST I met a guy and we began talking via DM on Instagram. After four days of talking via the app, we went on a first date. It went well and we had a second date planned. We continued to talk pretty consistently on the app - besides when we were both at work. He wanted me to meet his friends the day after the date, but It was late and I was already in bed. I told him I would love to, but I had work early the next day and maybe another time. I visited him at his day job the next day and that went well. By this point, we had been talking every day for around two weeks. We had a conversation about our biggest fears. I was the one who sent the last message, which he liked but didn't respond to. The day of our planned date came and went without a word from him. I assumed he'd ghosted me, but he still follows me on IG... I went into his work two days later. He apologized for 'disappearing,' and said he'd been sick but was getting better. That seemed like a lie, but he had called in the day before... Our conversation was pretty short and died when he started chatting with a coworker. I don't really know what I think about the situation - should I take the hint and assume he lost interest or do I take him at his word and believe that he was sick? |
| Question: Do satyriasis cheat or fantasize over multiple woman? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:38 PM PST |
| Question: Should I contact this girl on facebook? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:37 PM PST I've been going to the gym for 2 months and me and a girl have been playing the eye game. I finally talked to her and it went well. I did not get contact info but she definitely likes me. it's been two weeks and I have not seen her at the gym. I found her on facebook, should I message her or is that weird? thanks (new job is changing the time I go to the gym so I may not see her for a while) |
| Question: Did aristrocrats look at peasants as if they were like farm animals? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:30 PM PST you know how an intelligent white guy or Korean guy might look at a chimp ? how about now? surely there are still aristocrats? where are they and what they doing now and since when? |
| Question: Did he deleted me on Snapchat? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:13 PM PST So there's this guy that I've been talking to. He message me the day before, and today I notice I can't no longer see his Snapchat score. When I click on his name next to it, it shows a blue box saying added. I was curious to see if he deleted me, so I message him, and the message arrow turn blue like a regular message , and according to what my friend said was that whenever someone deletes you from Snapchat, and you message that person it will say pending with a gray arrow. Well he did opened my message, but didn't responded. Does that mean he didn't deleted me? I'm really confused. What can this mean? Did he maybe play with his settings? Could it be that he is under subscriptions because I notice my friends on subcription I can't see their Snapchat score. He is not the type of guy that uses Snapchat that much. He hardly put stuff on his story. I'm just confused because I can't see his score , but I can still message him. Please help! Thanks. |
| Question: How do I ask him this? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:13 PM PST This guy and I were talking for several months but we never officially began dating however we decided to take a break from talking for a while. We've just started talking again and I want to find out where we stand and whether or not he wants a genuine relationship but I'm not sure how to approach the question or if it's too soon. |
| Question: ONLY FEMALE: Question on my high crush ? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:04 PM PST in the beginning of the school year 2014 I had a big big crush on this girl back in 2014 high school. we admit that we like each other. Long story short.i ****** it so we never end up dating.it got really awkward long story short:i try to ask her to prom she says no even more awkward. after 4 years today ,I saw her around my city but I didn't let her see me.. would it be cool to hit her on facebook?just to catch up sometimes and bring back memories. what's your thought?and good first message to send thanks for your answers. I completly move on.i don't like her or anything. |
| Question: Ex said he wants to take things slow and start over? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:01 PM PST So yeah, he said he wants to take things slow but still tries to be casual with sex and me sleeping over. Not into titles and just wants to have fun. So yeah I still told him I would never go from live in GF to sex buddy with affection. I called him out on wanting sex when he said he wants to take things slow and start over. So now he is not contacting me but was before when he made it seem lile he wanted to reconcile. I feel like he is lacking a conscience. He knows I am not stupid but yet he calls me not being stupid difficult or crazy. Lol. |
| Posted: 19 Dec 2018 06:00 PM PST Any other women want to be dominated by a man? Do as they are told, tied up, punished physically, made to get on their knees. |
| Question: Why would he tell the whole world he HATES me but stare at me EVERY SINGLE TIME I see him? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 05:50 PM PST |
| Question: What does it mean on Snapchat when it says someone added u by search? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 05:39 PM PST |
| Question: Why does she talk to and flirt with me when I am younger than her little bro? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 05:37 PM PST I met this girl that began to start laughing at my jokes loudly and at great length. It was a lame joke. She asked me to repeat it. Then after class waited to pop out and say boo get in my face and smile. Shes older and has a little brother a year older than me. She began butting more into my conversations and laughing at dumb stuff I say respond to me or ask me to repeat stuff to her. She smiles a lot at me and laughs at stuff that aren't jokes. After she talks to me she does the same thing to scare me. When I saw her in the halls and walked up to her to say hi, she couldnt look me in the yes and her face lit up. She smiled and said hi. She continued butting in my conversations, she giggles and says my name a lot like for absolutely no reason. She gets red and smiles while talking to me, makes no eye contact stares into space and can't stand still. She hides her face. When I go up to her and say hi first she blushes and smiles and says hi back. Her friend asked me to sit with them and her friend sends me to her. When they took turns with selfies next to me after her friend was done. She had to be next to me and asked me to get closer. She stands around me and can only approach me with her friend. I was joking around with her she held good eye contact and said my name a lot I had a gut feeling. While shes talking to other people she looks at me like she wants to see if I am paying attention. When I talk to her she asks for a selfie with me and asks me to get closer to her. |
| Question: What do i do with AAA cup titties? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 05:36 PM PST |
| Question: What does black mean? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 05:36 PM PST |
| Question: How can I get over my ex? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 05:28 PM PST |
| Question: Why are women racist? Posted: 19 Dec 2018 05:18 PM PST |
| Posted: 19 Dec 2018 05:17 PM PST Im not sexually or romantically attracted to my gender but when I see this really beautif actrice in a movie I get butterflies, Am i bi? |
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