serious answers only, i don't have the time for trolls. i have been having problems with my bladder for years, peeing every 5 minutes, i'm not even joking. it's so frustrating, numerous doctors, tests run on me, everything under the sun and still no one can figure out WHAT IS WRONG. my back always hurts, and my pelvic area kills me during sex. i have worked outside of the home before and got fired TWICE because of going to the bathroom every 5 minutes, sometimes it will be little droplets when i go, sometimes it'll be a LOT. my pee is always inconsistent. This problem started when i was a freshman in college and extended all the way until my senior year, i just graduated a few months ago with a bachelors in communications and this is STILL an ongoing problem. I'm making an appointment for a urologist soon, i've been to the hospitals and doctors and they act like they cant figure out the problem. i'm tired of being in pain. I can't even enjoy my life because of this bladder problem. I can't ride in the car for long periods of time, i have to be around or near a bathroom all of the time. it's like, as soon as i leave the bathroom i have to pee again. anyways, i figured out a solution to this problem would be to work at home so i can go to the bathroom as much as i need to and also would be fulfilling my passions at the same time. My ultimate dream is to work at a fashion magazine like cosmo or glamour in NYC. We don't have any magazines in my small town so i planned to move, so since i've got fired from my outside of the home job i've been jotting ideas down in a notebook that i could use for starting an online magazine, my boyfriend said he would help me fund my buisness as well and he would be there every step of the way, he said he believed in me. i know it's going to be hard and it's pretty risky but this is my passion, it's what i love to do. My mom is mad and wants me to get an outside of the home job, and i would but this bladder problem is interfering i have clients whose makeup i do at my house, i get a couple of hundreds dollars a week depending on how many clients. my mom doesn't see fashion/makeup as a real job but this is my passion. I've worked lots of jobs she wanted me to work and was miserable. Now i really don't have a choice but to work at home since i have bladder problems she works retail at jcpennys and she's miserable and always complaining

Are some people just born to have good lives? Born rich, good looking, good family, parties, popularity, they have everything. Others like me, born poor, not so good looking, don't have money at all, not popular, I don't even have any friends, no one wants to know me, don't have anything to do with half of my family and my parents and siblings are just nasty to me all the time. I was born into a bad life.

She started going out more and coming home late so I already knew she was seeing someone. Her and my dad divorced 3 yrs ago, but she's still 37 and looks very good for her age. My friends say she's a smoking hot mom which gets annoying. But I looked through her phone and found pictures of her and the guy, and when I saw that he's black I freaked. I am no racist but I'm going to keep it real, in middle eastern culture it's normally not accepted by families for their daughters to date black men, sometimes even white. But always black. Don't get me wrong he looks good but now that our family knows its getting bad. We're Christian so its not a religious issue, it's all about the culture. My grandpa made a scene and the whole block could hear him yelling from his house. My aunts and uncles won't speak to my mom lately and my cousins are calling her a whore. I'm scared of what'll happen because she's holding her ground and insisting that she will keep seeing this man. This will only lead to her being disowned from the family. I don't want to be outcasted b/c of her, I've always been close to my family because I don't have any brothers or sisters. I can't wrap my head around it, why is she doing this? She's beautiful and a good woman who cooks and cleans, she can have any man. Why is she putting us through this stress by going outside her race and embarrassing us?? I have nothing against interracial couples but this is my mom and she is being selfish because she knows the situation.

I gave a date that I was available and they made it soo far away from that date.

He's my ex i broke up with him a few months back because we got into an argument and he was acting passive aggressive. Because there were guys at the gym that liked me he suspected i'm going there to talk to them when one morning I decided to go to the gym to workout. He got suspicious saying you didn't ask me to come so another time i asked but he was working and I brought up the last argument saying exactly so why'd you get upset when I didn't ask last time when you were working. He also is suspicious because one time at the library i met a guy studying medicine like me and we went to grab food because we were hungry and i didn't tell him because i thought he'd get jealous for no reason but when he asked i told him finally and get upset which is why the suspicions from the gym I said i was done with his attitude he said theres no attitude if you're done okay i wish you the best. Anyway fast forward 4 months He always comes to the gym at same time I am and he always comes to yoga when he stopped coming when we were dating and he'd workout instead while i did yoga. Now he always comes to yoga and he'll text me here an there. The other day after yoga he texted me saying "why'd you look so mad today, I was going to say hi but you didn't look very welcoming" and stuff like this, and yesterday we were at the gym and they don't give out free towel but selling them instead. He said he was going to buy a towel and if I wanted one i said no but he came back with 2 and gave me one too. And he'd say things like you'll see what God has blessed me with just like He has blessed you. I said what he said i can't tell you that now. I said you can never tell me anything. He said i tell you everything but somethings you need patience to see. Anyway he didn't wish me merry xmas This means that he's no longer interested?

I am hoping from the bottom of my heart I am wrong but my boyfriend and his girl cousins realtionship seems weird. Basically, they snapchat everyday from morning to night. One time I peeked over his shoulder out of curiosity and I saw the snap was a picture of her posing seductively in the shower. You couldn t see anything like her breasts or what not but it was clear she was naked. My bf quickly pulled the phone away and said "oh she s always sending pictures in the shower what a goof." I ignored it. Just today at a family party, she kept staring at him the whole night. As soon as I would look at her she would look away. When I got up for water she leaned into him and began rubbing his arm and said, "this is a cute sweater. It looks good on you". She stayed in close proximity to him. She continued to message him the whole night despite being in the same house. At the end of the nigjt she made me take a picture of them on a Polaroid. She gave my bf the picture and told him to keep it in his wallet. Then she took a bite of a pretzel stick and fed him a bite and then she took another bite. It seemed like flirting but I was trying to stay optimistic. Finally, he has told.me on several occasions he thinks she is attractive. (this isn t really a red flag) I want to be her friend but she doesn t seem intrested in talking to me at all. Whenever I am around she is glued to her phone, even when I talk to her.

There's this girl, a little girl to be honest. We have a 3 ys old difference. It's no big deal, but at her age is. She is like the little sister I never had and sometimes I wish she could always stay with me. Sometimes I daydream about her being 20/22 and getting married with me. Anwyay, back to the question. We are friends, she's nice, a bit tomboy, and sometimes she is the sweetest girl ever but if I say something wrong she turns into a rebel.I just wanna know if she has a crush on me or not. Here are her behaviours lately: - she asked me to translate some foreign poetry and read it. Then she closed her eyes and said the words were beautiful and that she wish she could speak this language like I do. She had these puppy eyes while saying it. - at the field, she saw a bar and started doing exercises. I got distracted and then saw her with her legs wrapped at it, no hands, upside down and laughing telling me to look at her. I got scared she could fall and break her neck so I immediately tried to hold her in my arms. As I touched her she screamed and said I was tickling her. - one day she took my phone and read the messages of my ex out loud in a stupid girly voice. I got mad and blocked her and took my phone back and she asked if I had a gf ans who was this 'mary'. I said its not your business and when we got up she was about to cry. Eventually she did and and said she had to go home. I took her hand forcing her to tell me why she was crying but she said leave me alone