Few days ago I was feeling rly low because I felt like my lil bro gets away with things like disrespecting me infront of guests or hitting me infront of my mom, and my mom doesnt say anything to him. I m 23 he s 16. Whereas i was always yelled at or lectured for the smallest things I did to my oldest sister few years back. Now 2 days ago I overheard my mom tell my cousin (who s married and my age) something about me like " this poor girl tried to make shrimp last night" and then when I cooked a dish same day my dad complimented me, and my mom smirked and said to my sis "no matter what she makes her dad always likes it". How she said these things were making me feel like shes bringing me down, so next morning I told her if u dont like my food u should say it rather than saying it behind my back..I told her I heard what she said to other ppl but shes like oh that s just the way I talk..my bro started making fun of me like "oh this is affecting her mental health" and they started laughing..I got angry and left the room to calm myself down. Apparently shes not talking to me anymore because she thought I m ignoring her and it s been 2 days. Today I tried to talk to her and ask if she needs help with something but shes still ignoring me. What am I to do? And why is she ignoring me now? I just wanted her to realize that I need to be respected and just say okay I wont talk about u like that to others..but now its turned into a bigger fight and were both not talking to each other.

I've been caught with a phone before. My father is super strict and ive been grounded from a phone he bought me one Christmas for over three years. I bought my own last November. I don't have an actual ID or number but i can still do social media stuff, which is why I bought the phone. My father thinks I have another phone. Which I do again but i need a good spot to hide it. I can't hide it anywhere in my room, and even though it's December, almost January, I was wondering if there's any possible chance of me hiding it literally outside?? Also I'm going to see him this evening. And I'm worried that he'll (or his gf) will frisk me to see if I have a phone on me bc i was accused of it recently. Any ideas on if i should leave it here somewhere outside and take it back out tomorrow or something, and/or hide it on me somewhere? Please don't be rude or mean in the answers. I just want an answer. Not a rude comment.

I asked my mom a simple question "Why couldn't you get the mail?" after she woke me up in order to go get. After I grabbed the mail and handed it to her she began to scream at me saying "Because I fing told you to so your going to fing do it. my response was, "okay yeah I already got your mail for you, I was just asking why you couldn't do it" in which she yelled at me more took my phone and locked me in my room. Did I do anything wrong in this situation?

So not gay but rather bi. My cousin has me on Snapchat. I'm known for dating women that are for lack of a better term b!mb0s but my guy friends and I are very "creative" when together.

ive been contributing to my folks' finances since i was a teen, now my sis is 19 and i am still the only one helping while she doesnt have a job at all. but i am the bad guy for telling her she needs to contribute 1 day's worth of wages a week cause im giving up a third of my wages for them. apparently that makes me selfish

She cries when my father in law talks ? We were at their house and he got real close to her face and she cried a good 35 min . They wouldn't let me help calm her for some odd reason . His mom wanted to be the star of the show I think . Why do you think she gets so startled by her grandpa ? I try to calm her but they won't let me help !

Like: not nnuch.. not much Like did your keyboard break on the m key or something I'm just curious.

im 34 years old and currently living at home with my 67 yr old divorcee mother. We moved here from the former soviet union when i was 5 with my mom, dad and older brother. my mom and dad fought most of my childhood and got divorced when i was 20. i was diagnosed with major depression and had panick attack after a boyfriend cheated on me but i suspect it was also because i was doing drugs at that point in my life. now im pretty much stable but struggle still with social anxiety mosty because of smoking a lot of pot for the past 5 years which ive cut down on and am planning on quitting all together. I quit my job about a month ago because i was getting harassed by some guys at work and now am looking for work. everyday that my mom is home she yells at me for still living at home at 34 not having a husband or kids and not doing anything with my life. she doesnt understand how hard it is for me. she compares me to other women my age and tells me that i should be trying to find a husband and having kids etc etc and that im gonna be a failure an dloser all my life becasue all i do is surf the internet and am lazy. i have a degree in social work and went to art school too and i help her out whenever she needs it. im paying off my student loans with no help from anyone and have already paid of almost 20k on them by myself. she is getting older and more and more miserable, impatient and mean to me. please help. i dont have the money to move out right now.

Should I tell my parents my brother has a doll with three different penises you can attach? I also saw him and another boy in the school bathroom masturbating in front of each other and they said "I could join them do it too if I knew how". I also woke up to him inspecting my underwear while I was sleeping. I woke up "big" and ran to bathroom, then noticed he was looking under the door with a mirror. I opened the door quick and saw him laying on the floor stimulating himself. I know he was watching me do the same thing only in private. He knows I'm going to tell on him, but I don't know why I don't want to. I just don't know what to do is all. I know I need to do something to help him before he gets in trouble.

I wanted to go to my friend's house tonight, and my dad said he could pick me up, but my mom was still like who's gonna pick you up even though my dad had already said he would take me. Then she started saying she doesn't like her parents. But I honestly think she just doesn't want me going because she knows I'm a lesbian and I'm super close to the girl. She probably thinks we're more than friends and doesn't want me hanging out with her. Then a while ago, I was getting her food with my dad. She had sent me a text of what she wanted, and expected me to order it for her. I have extremely bad social anxiety so even putting in just my order is hard for me. I was going down the line and ordering it for her, and the text she sent me was out of the order the line went, and I started panicking. So I just tried my best and I ended up only missing one thing on it. Yet when I got home, she inspected it, and got super angry at me, just because I forgot the beans. She was yelling at me and saying "it's not that hard!" and "Can't you read?!" and "It doesn't matter what order I put the text in" and then she went into her room, slammed the door, and didn't talk to me the rest of the night. These are only a few of the times she's gotten angry with me. She calls me pathetic a lot too cause I cry about it. It's frustrating because I want to be normal and not deal with anxiety because it always gets me in trouble. And she never acts like this towards my sisters so I know I'm the problem.

My wife's mother Jean, a woman I admire and adore, told me she wants to start dating again and hopefully remarry. However she is afraid that her daughter, my wife, will not approve of her replacing her dad. I told her if male companionship is what will make her happy she should go for it. Her daughter will get over it if she has a problem and Jean WILL NOT be replacing my wife's dad. Jean wants me to discuss this idea with my wife and see if she is OK with Jean remarrying. I told her I would do it but can someone PLEASE give me some idea on how I should approach this subject with my wife. I really don't want to screw this up and cause a problem for Jean or my wife. Should I just straight out ask her what she would think if her mom remarries? Is that too blunt of an approach? Women and daughters Please give me your advice.

From what age is it acceptable to let your daughter sleep over at her boyfriend's house? My 16 year old is so mad at me cause I won't let her sleepover at her boyfriend's house but I just think she's too young and I told her she will at least wait til she's 17 I haven't even really met the guy, I've dropped her off and picked her up a couple times at his house but he doesn't even say hello to me which I told her is not OK, but then she also gets mad of course

My mom taught me to lower myself for people since a kid and bow down to people so they feel more comfortable. Especially minorities so they dont think I am racist. But its worse because then some people it feels like they will attack if I lower myself, or my guard.

I'm 18 years old (19 next month), and my mother and I got into a fight. I don't live with her anymore I live with my grandmother and go to a community college close by. I also work a part time job at a retail store. Long story short my mom is making me pay my phone bill which is 80 dollars a month, and my car insurance which is 200 dollars a month. I feel like she's also going to kick me off her health insurance as well. Is it possible to finish school? Or would I need to drop out and work full time? Any advice? Also, my car note is so high because my grandmother bought me a new car as a gift instead of a used one.

Don't get me wrong I love my mother and would never do or say anything disrespectful to her. As Ive gotten older I've realised some things about her that I really don't like :( which makes me feel like an awful person because she's my mother, and I know everyone has their flaws but most of the time these things really get on my nerves. -she complains about everything, if I ask her to get me something in town she makes a big deal about it and says well I wasn't going to that shop but I suppose I'll have to and then says things to make me feel guilty about it. And then when I tell her not to bother she gets mad at me -she complains about being in the checkout line even if we've only been there for like 2 minutes. -one of the most frustrating things is she's always talking crap about the rest of the family to me, like my brother or my father and complains about things she could easily fix if she went and talked to them. I feel like if she talks **** about then to me then she probably does the same about me to them. Like I said I love my mother and I know everyone has flaws and I've tried talking to her saying that I really get rubbed the wrong way when people complain about things but she got so mad and upset that I felt like ****. I felt like maybe it was just me and I should stop thinking should horrible things about her but my father even said to me once that she never stops complaining. How do I deal with this, do I not say anything?

It's unbelievably obnoxious.

My Father and mother havent always been each other favorite but since my mum started going through menopause she has had bad mood swing and they last weeks at a time and it is currently happening while on holidays and its ruining the whole trip. I tried talking to her but she ended up yelling at me saying i take her for granted and thats she miserable becuase of me, my brother and my father. We ve tried talking to her and treated really well for a day but it doesnt work please help what can i do this $15 000 holiday is so miserable and horrible at the moment becuase of her

My parents are Catholic and very religious. I have been masturbating for a while but they found out recently and said that it's "Sinful and unnatural" and said that I will go to hell and stuff and said "You can't do any sexual things like sex until you are married and you can only have sex and masturbation is not allowed or birth control (condoms)" so I couldn't do it. A lot of kids have locks and their own rooms but I live in a 6 bed 4 bath house (only 2 rooms are used) but have to share a room with my 11 year old autistic brother (i'm not making fun of him he actually does and is annoying and screams and tries to physically attack me) because they think its good for me. we used to have to share the same bed but recently i was allowed to have a seperate bed but still no room. also we can't have phones which is fine i guess. also i have to keep my door open its not allowed to be closed. I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression by doctors but my parents say it's "baloney" and doesn't exist. They put me on prozac but my parents don't let me take it because they say that it is bad for you and the government will control your minds. I also go to the chruches private school they say they are "traditional catholic" but for years i was never able to understand latin (you can't speak english during school hours and church hours most of the time) and so I had a bad education. But i went on to a website called kahn academy and it helped me. A lot of other stuff too what should I do? I'm 13 and i feel like my parents set too many restrictions? (beware there is like 10 pages of spam answers with random letters!)

My mom got married and he became my step parent and he's a man I wish she didn't meet he's so irritating always looking for the bad in me I try and follow his rules but even when I do my best it's not enough and I want too hurt him because he makes me so mad I hate when he disrespects my mom. I hate how he loves his dog more then everyone an acts like we all are a burden on him. He brought me into depression with his boot camp like rules never letting me be always holding me back and treating me like I'm 5 (I'm 19)btw. He thinks he's a god or something. I feel so mentally abused and hurt because of his parenting. He's never wrong and thinks everyone's opinion is not important. I want to get out of this house but my circumstances don't let me. So my question is How can I make my situation better?

My mom is friends with this guy mom and he bullied me in high school and touched me inappropriately. And also when we were in high school. He started a lot of rumors about me. Saying that I had sex with the whole track team. When I didn't. And said that I had sex with him. I've not had sex yet. And I'll be 25 soon. Anyways I have explained to her many times. Why I don't want her to be friends with her anymore. He also has mental problems and angry problems . I told her I feel like she picking them over . And yeah I do have a disability. But still this make uncomfortable I understand their mom did nothing to me. B on this make me upset. She come up excuses why I should tried being friends with them . If she could blocked the other crazy person. I don't understand why she can't blocked her? I have told her I've been losing sleep over this. And all she told mewas to take my anxiety medicine. How can I get her to blocked her ? If not I'll not have much to do with her.

Im 13 and about three years ago I moved to ID from CA. Since I moved I have gotten depression and severe anxiety. (Because of how bullied I was I'm school I had to get the cops involved) I am very unhappy here. My mom is very unhappy in ID as well. My mom and dad are seperated and when my mom and I moved my dad and his family followed so all of his family lIves in ID. We tried living here for three years and decided we didn't like it. My mom and I are moving back to CA but my dad isn't. I feel absolutely terrible but I will be moving for my emotional and physical health, it is the best thing for me. I can't imagine living far away from my dad but I have to for myself. I will be doing home school and flying back every other month for a week or two because it is only a 1 hour flight. Does anyone have advice for how I can get through the fact that I'm leaving my dad and his whole family? (I leave on the 7th)

My sister is 23. She has a 5 yr old daughter (pregnant her senior yr). Before that she had 3 abortions. She skipped school, smoked, & got caught shop lifting ($10 value) w/ friends (while she was supposed to be at school). Her husband did drugs, constantly got tickets & even served jail time. Her life was a mess but we were always there to help her w/ her kid, picking her up when shed get in an argument w/ her husband, & lending her money all the time (a lot of $ because they never had enough for bills) but she's family so we didn't care. Jan. this year they get separated, by march she brings a new guy to live with us & not long after she's pregnant. Hes jealous/controlling & txts me & my mom to see where she is but hes responsible, goes to work & even pays her debt. but she still always asks us for money (she was thousand in debt so his paycheck doesnt last). She also plays the victim role & went to my dad & stepmom to complain about my mom & I when to us she says she hates them. Now my sister pushes us aside & prefers her new boyfriend. Even when its about her daughter which my mom & I basically raised ourselves. Am I being jealous about her new boyfriend? Should I be happy that she found somebody responsible? It feels she only wants us around when she needs money. What should we do? Every time we confront her she plays the victim role, says she's had a hard life & she didn't have the help I do, even though I never did the things she did. But didn't she choose that life?

Well we never talked much due to personal problems I wouldn't post on here but sometimes to I moved to South Carolina from minnesota I live with my mom but I am miserable here I would walk to Minnesota if I had to honestly he doesn't have to pay a ticket for me to get there he'd probably let me though he said he'd let me stay if I ever visited I just don't get much sleep here to the point it makes me sick I'm also feeling used with certain things my depression hasn't hit me in a long time but tonight it is.

I'm 25 and I have a 20 year old sister who does not know her place. She slams the door and plays loud music, talks back to my parents, makes passive aggressive comments directed towards me when I'm around to make me feel bad, steals my things, etc. I've tried giving her the benefit of the doubt numerous times and I've tried completely ignoring and disregarding her but she gets on my nerves and makes me so angry. I've never hated someone so much before. I help pay the bills and I have student loans to pay off so I live in the house that family rents to save money. Today, she was going up the stairs while I was going down and my shoulder pushed her because we bumped into each other. She then cursed at me and told my mom that I hit her when I didn't. She did this numerous times to me in the past and I kept it in and didn't say anything. Now she's cursing and crying cause I'm treating her the way she treats me.

I am very close with this older lady, she started as a mentor and her brother taught me. Her brother died a few years ago and she took me under her wing, she became a best friend to me. We are extremly close, our spirits have a special bond. She calls and talks to me at least 3 times every day, I love talking to her. She makes me smile, she is like a second mom. She is ohhh so special to me as I am to her. I fly to visit her a lot and we have sleepovers, she comes to my town and we go out to eat and go shopping. I am 20 and ahe is in her late 50s. She loves me dearly and I love her, we are very close. She holds a very important place in my heart and means the world to me. She shows in her actions that she loves me but It makes me sad that she has never told me. I will always tell her i love her before I leave her or say goodbye leaving the air port and she says it back, i just wish she would say she loves me. You know? Am i dumb for feeling like this? I know she loves me but there is just that part of me that feels sad that she has never told me - told me. Is it bad that i feel like this? I'm trying not to be sensitive, although, it is something i notice and weighs on me.

My mom passed away and did not leave a will. my mom became sick with cancer and passed away my mom left us a house and 3 of my siblings live there and are all on drugs. the house is behind on taxes because i got tired of paying by myself and i don't even live there and they did not want to help me pay. when they got the first part of the inheritance the went through in within a week. and all while my mom was alive all they did was steal from her to support their habit. even while my mom lye dyeing they stole her money, medicine, and cell phone and sold it. my siblings are all in their mid to late 50's me and my other sibling does not live in the house. there is another part of the inheritance left should i save it to be able to bury them when they pass, or should i pay the taxes on the house till it runs out, or should i keep the money since i don't live in the house and split it with my other sibling that doesn't live in the house, that would cover our part of what we would have gotten for the house. please help

When my baby sister was 3 days old her mom came to me high on meth crying saying she didn't want her and didnt care if she died, she just didn't want to get in trouble. Obviously I was worried for my baby sister and uncomfortable leaving her alone with her, so I asked her if I could take her home with me( side note : our dad is in prison) , I did and still do live with my mom being that I'm only 16. She said yes, and sinse then I have changed schools, reducing the time from 7 to 4 hours and got a job, I have payed for everything, taken her to every doctors appoitment, and cared for her for the last year and a half. The other day I was in the waiting room at her doctors office, when a little boy started yelling "MAMAMAMA" followed by his mom going "Babybyby" which my sister than repeated while looking at me waiting for me to reply, and sinse then it has been on my mind. I love her like she is my daughter, and wouldn't mind at all. But I also have a lot of other things that might get in the way like she and I both live with OUR other sister, and I don't know how she'll feel about it as well as the fact that im scared that when she's older and undertands that she is my sister she'll resent me because I lied to her. She has never met our dad and hasn't seen her mom sinse she was 3 days old.

I'm 48 years old... with disabilities. There is no where for me to go. The housing are too expensive. My SSI and even section 8 won't be able to help me with my apartment rent. I had to go live with 76 years old mother. I have nothing to do... I don't have friends or boyfriend to hang out with. I'm just staying in the playroom, an extra room, big enough to be a living room. My mother has the whole living room with a large tv. I like being on the laptop, siting on a nice chair in the playroom. And my nephew would come to his Grandmother's house, demanding me to move out of the playroom and he's 22 years old, love playing the Xbox with his 21 years college graduated friend. I feel that they are ABLED body... and they can get a job and get themselves an apartment. My nephew won't learn how to drive a car, he rather have his grandmother to drive him to some places. We are in Mississippi. I don't understand why my nephew doesn't have friends in Seattle and just stay at his mom's house to play his playstation there. or just go to his friend's house in Mississippi to play xbox there. Why bother me? I don't want to be coop up in my bedroom with a laptop for 2 weeks until he is gone back to Seattle.

So last night my dad was not at home.Me and my step mother had some drinks I was under control but she was trashed so I gave her dinner then I put her in bed,washed the dishes and when I went in her room to check on her she told me to sleep with her and I did and once the lights were off.It happened.

My brother made an account on Xbox 360 when I got the Xbox one I put that 360 account on the Xbox one and bought all the games on it now my brother strolls in one day and says it's his account. Who do you think should have the account me or my brother ?

My mom made plans to go to Atlantic City for New Year's Eve and New Year's Day. My little brother is 17 and I'm 21. I can gamble and drink which I don't mind since I'm of age but my mom treats me like a child so I have to act like I'm innocent all the time which pisses me off. If I tell her I don't wanna go she'll get butt hurt and say you're an ungrateful child. She gets upset when I drink so what's the point of me going there. She goes there for herself to gamble and have fun while the kids just sit in the room. I'm not a kid anymore , she treats my like a child and she is over protective. I wanna have some fun too but without my god damn mother breathing all over me watching everything I do. Let's be honest do you guys really think she made the right choice to take us out to a casino when the only person there having fun will be her? For those of you that might say I'm 21 just move out, I'm in the military, I'm just home for the holidays and then I go back.

Ok this might be long but I keep having family problems I am this close in packing a bag and leave I know where I want to go there are a lot of jobs and stuff in that area but I would not know how long it would last I would also bring my cat with me I am just being treated unfairly by my family I usually just call blood relatives because I do not see them as family. It's always so noisy at night that's my problem yet they expect me to be quiet when they want your blood relatives should treat you fairly I'd rather be jumped on the streets I am sick of this. Can anyone give me advice? I am crying as I type this people here act like they care but they don't I ignored my mom with my door locked which I never do that but I told her to park her truck in the parking lot so I can sleep but no I just want somewhere quiet and peace it's not just about sleeping it's about relaxing. I am not being a cry baby unless you think asking for advice is being a cry baby kindly f*ck off Don't comment unless you have advice. K? K.

I made an account for Corrlinks recently because I have a family member in jail currently and I'd like to have contact with them again. I would've opted for letters instead because I feel they are more personal, but I didn't because my mother forbade me from having contact with them when I was younger, but I turned 18 recently so I really don't give a **** what she says. My account is saying I need to add funds, which I really don't mind, but it's asking for my address in addition to my card number. Will Corrlinks send a bill to my house for the money I put on my account? Because if my mother sees it she will flip her ****. And don't tell me to sit her down and talk to her about it because she will not budge on this particular issue at all. I just need an answer to my question and I'll be on my way.

Why didn't she tell me about this? Apparently she's been doing covers of popular songs and has millions of views on youtube. Why didn't she tell me?

having a fit over how my gf parked our car when it looks fine to everyone else. going ballistic over how many paper cups everyone used after we visited and arguing with me for hours about how many cups she used until I almost ended up in the hospital with chest pains... interrogating us whenever we leave to go out while we are visiting and blocking the door and the hallway until we explain what we are doing.. She does this to her kids as well even if they are only going to the bathroom or the kitchen She also paces around us in the circle and harasses us when we are trying to watch tv with the great grandkids. She doesn't knock , she just comes in our room or unlocks our door. The one time we were getting busy.... she wasn't always like this.